The BEST NoFap Strategy

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  • @asrtralstreetboys
    @asrtralstreetboys 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20925

    CokeRat sacrificed his life so that we could find Human Park. Never forget CokeRat

    • @iamaloafofbread8926
      @iamaloafofbread8926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +467

      A small and worthy price to pay for salvation

    • @BlessedDominic
      @BlessedDominic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      wholesome chungus!

    • @lightken6818
      @lightken6818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      On dec 18 my 4th month will complete 🙄😎😎😎😎

    • @Thomo2207
      @Thomo2207 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Thanks, coke-rat. 🥰

    • @dsk9887
      @dsk9887 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      RIP

  • @6a617b
    @6a617b 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57146

    Quitting porn is like quitting cigarettes and having a pack of them in your pocket all day everyday.

    • @cristiancolzani5320
      @cristiancolzani5320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3914

      Really underrated comment, talking as someone who has stopped smoking with the right motivation.👍🏼

    • @overlordwarlordtheomnilord9473
      @overlordwarlordtheomnilord9473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1805

      And say goodbye to one of the few super powers I have left as a man... my post nut clarity, truly a gigantic cost

    • @Thanos-ti4pl
      @Thanos-ti4pl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +648

      @@overlordwarlordtheomnilord9473 you have that all the time once you get to max levels😂😂

    • @overlordwarlordtheomnilord9473
      @overlordwarlordtheomnilord9473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +232

      @@Thanos-ti4pl I honestly wonder if I've reached the final level

    • @moab2935
      @moab2935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +324

      TIME TO CUT SOMETHING

  • @The_NPC20
    @The_NPC20 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11315

    All I learned from this is: Overcome or Overcum

  • @mazuyahyzra
    @mazuyahyzra ปีที่แล้ว +1817

    My advice to everyone who don't want to lose streak
    1. don't be alone

    • @SkaffaS
      @SkaffaS ปีที่แล้ว

      so someone else can jerk you off? what does it matter if it's your own hand or someone else's?

    • @Halal_Sahibi
      @Halal_Sahibi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +165

      Thats the same equivalent of saying
      “If you are homeless just by a home”

    • @frankc3x
      @frankc3x 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      What if you're married?

    • @betigang
      @betigang 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@frankc3xwhy would u fap if you are married?

    • @seifmohamed9423
      @seifmohamed9423 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      It's not an option for me :(

  • @abhisheksharma19_05
    @abhisheksharma19_05 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23247

    You’ve got some serious balls to say that to us during a lockdown.

    • @RichFlowMenace
      @RichFlowMenace 3 ปีที่แล้ว +208

      Who locked down? They all been lifted

    • @kayvour8862
      @kayvour8862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1136

      @@RichFlowMenace not everyone lives in your country

    • @hatetwomuch
      @hatetwomuch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +547

      @@RichFlowMenace not everyone lives in your country

    • @cococraft9650
      @cococraft9650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +488

      @@RichFlowMenace not everyone lives in your country

    • @wear3163
      @wear3163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +433

      @@RichFlowMenace not everyone lives in your country

  • @daf4757
    @daf4757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33259

    ayo google’s cookies are getting a lil too personal now

  • @maraheters
    @maraheters 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11532

    “Go outside and build human relationships”
    *Closes the video*

    • @NuggetBlaster-h7l
      @NuggetBlaster-h7l 3 ปีที่แล้ว +264

      𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲

    • @uncle1up455
      @uncle1up455 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      Covid19

    • @heyhoe168
      @heyhoe168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +259

      @@uncle1up455 covid19 kind of normalized my horrible life. It was joy when i heard complains on how hard to be isolated from normies.

    • @pradeepsaravanan4348
      @pradeepsaravanan4348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@heyhoe168 Isn't there a solution for introverts for this problem !?

    • @deepakaudichya1851
      @deepakaudichya1851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@pradeepsaravanan4348 remain inside and exercise daily , it will help a lottttt

  • @sausageman9560
    @sausageman9560 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    Wow, no one had ever told me to go touch grass in such a gentle way, thank you

  • @StarBoiYT
    @StarBoiYT 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12264

    Rip coke rat

    • @luckyluciano2848
      @luckyluciano2848 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      That's how blind melon died

    • @peacemekka
      @peacemekka 4 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      Waste of coke tbh.

    • @rjzb
      @rjzb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      F

    • @ar.5230
      @ar.5230 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      He did die for our sins

    • @baussier134
      @baussier134 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Of course I know this rat... he's me.

  • @hop7278
    @hop7278 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10714

    im doing this for CokeRat, otherwise he died for nothing

    • @720pGoatSoup
      @720pGoatSoup 4 ปีที่แล้ว +467

      Avenge him, my brothers.

    • @thescotts1326
      @thescotts1326 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      I kinda miss Coke Rat, it has been a long time since he passed away😔

    • @davidlynch914
      @davidlynch914 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      This the real motivation

    • @czyruszamora5309
      @czyruszamora5309 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Thats a motivation

    • @leoanhkhoa8323
      @leoanhkhoa8323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      lets do this

  • @omarmontana1969
    @omarmontana1969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41633

    Porn has several effects like memory loss and others that I can't remember

    • @offical6733
      @offical6733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3151

      😂

    • @Ausarrr
      @Ausarrr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2338

      💀💀

    • @deandykanzet8225
      @deandykanzet8225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1618

      Hair loss

    • @hyunbin5272
      @hyunbin5272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1431

      not original but always funny

    • @omarmontana1969
      @omarmontana1969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +419

      @neel patel hell, I can't even remember

  • @nobody7204
    @nobody7204 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Bro really said "get a life"

  • @azimologist
    @azimologist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3874

    this is what I meant when I said " give content that we really need."

    • @ItachiUchiha-de3jv
      @ItachiUchiha-de3jv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I second that 😂

    • @ItachiUchiha-de3jv
      @ItachiUchiha-de3jv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yup....u gotta a like from him😎

    • @ItachiUchiha-de3jv
      @ItachiUchiha-de3jv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Joseph what what???.....that dude gotta like from improvement pill........what's the problem ????

    • @moyosmoyo2970
      @moyosmoyo2970 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Powerful

    • @martialhero9544
      @martialhero9544 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ItachiUchiha-de3jv Your spelling confuses, that's the problem.

  • @tetanusteta3871
    @tetanusteta3871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6542

    "Have close friends or a girlfriend"
    Guess i'll just die

    • @paincake2595
      @paincake2595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      I came here for pre-nnn strategy....not like i pass anyways.

    • @YoshiLikesFate
      @YoshiLikesFate 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@paincake2595 i came here NNN day 1

    • @matty1214
      @matty1214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@YoshiLikesFate Same here, wish you the best comrade

    • @YoshiLikesFate
      @YoshiLikesFate 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@matty1214 i have failed nnn. I feel bad

    • @matty1214
      @matty1214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@YoshiLikesFate It's alright, there's always a tomorrow.
      You can restart your streak tmr, but just remember not to use this as an excuse overtime
      Me and all men are with you, pal

  • @yequalsemexplusbee4322
    @yequalsemexplusbee4322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6805

    Day 269: I got into an argument with a female and she admitted that she was *WRONG*

    • @blosondebbarma2498
      @blosondebbarma2498 4 ปีที่แล้ว +408

      Run brother...she jzt went out there to buy an ak

    • @yequalsemexplusbee4322
      @yequalsemexplusbee4322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +310

      @@blosondebbarma2498 I tried to run. But she ran with me

    • @blosondebbarma2498
      @blosondebbarma2498 4 ปีที่แล้ว +130

      @@yequalsemexplusbee4322 since u r still replying..after life exists*
      I guess now I hv to turn to a religion from atheism

    • @yequalsemexplusbee4322
      @yequalsemexplusbee4322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      @@blosondebbarma2498 don’t worry. I believe in the Flying Spaghetti Monster and in the after life you get to eat all sorts of pasta and crab Rangoon!

    • @blosondebbarma2498
      @blosondebbarma2498 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@yequalsemexplusbee4322 hell yeah I m packing some sausages then jzt for variation... Jzt wait for me to reach ur level

  • @Ripwhylol
    @Ripwhylol ปีที่แล้ว +176

    No worries we all know why we're here and together we can over come it. Stay strong.

    • @ThreatHunter-c8b
      @ThreatHunter-c8b 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      LAMO

    • @clonewarsfan2774
      @clonewarsfan2774 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nope

    • @tedmccarron
      @tedmccarron 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm glad you know why you're there because I don't understand this weird movement at all.

    • @adamhellegaard2019
      @adamhellegaard2019 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tedmccarronit’s about people overcoming porn addiction. Fairly straightforward

    • @tedmccarron
      @tedmccarron 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @adamhellegaard2019 I myself had a p*** addiction and I'm glad I got over it because it really messes with your mind when you're doing it too much. This movement however isn't about giving a p***, it's about giving up masturbation which is the only sexual release available to millions of young men.

  • @afriking
    @afriking 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7605

    Here some advice: don't think of nofap as a "challenge", think of it improving your mental heath and letting you focus on your goals

    • @travisbickle0526
      @travisbickle0526 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Some of the best advice I've seen regarding this issue

    • @zojirushi1
      @zojirushi1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I was the 69th like on your comment lol!

    • @anibro8064
      @anibro8064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      the irony is that if u find a girlfriend u will have sex with her as often as u masturbate so its really the same thing...finding friends is the best strategy for no fap

    • @travisbickle0526
      @travisbickle0526 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@anibro8064 sex is a natural and healthy thing. Being addicted to masturbating over porn is not

    • @rockysandman5489
      @rockysandman5489 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      @@travisbickle0526 Addiction to anything is unhealthy. But if you fap to open in moderation, I don't see much difference from the physical effects of that to sex.

  • @hassancheema7761
    @hassancheema7761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11402

    For anyone who didn't understand, he's saying that you have to use the energy you get from nofap to build healthy habits like exercising, meditating, eating healthy, talking to people more, and even finding something you excel at until you're so caught up in those habits that you forget about nofap.

    • @kellinquinn7598
      @kellinquinn7598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Precisely.

    • @pedrolmlkzk
      @pedrolmlkzk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      You are the one that didnt understand actually

    • @bloodnivel70
      @bloodnivel70 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Mexicans have a saying for this: "le pides peras al olmo" wich roughly translates toyou are asking for too much.

    • @wouldntyouliketoknow230
      @wouldntyouliketoknow230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      @@pedrolmlkzk how could he have not understood if he was able to explain it

    • @christianenglund9111
      @christianenglund9111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Literally do this and fap. NoFap doesn't do anything and theres also no evidence to prove that it does. Masturbation is natural and healthy and this agenda towards unhealthy outlooks on sex is becoming very concerning. People should improve there lives inherently, not blame it on a natural act that some weirdos on reddit thinks is a problem.

  • @vedhase2370
    @vedhase2370 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1525

    "Your future self is watching you"

    • @beheadder3776
      @beheadder3776 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      this is the most important comment i’ve seen in this section

    • @vedhase2370
      @vedhase2370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@beheadder3776 Thank you, mate.

    • @SAMSARALIVEEEEEE
      @SAMSARALIVEEEEEE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      And he’s waiting for you at the finish line. You’re the one who chooses how you get there

    • @nayelimartinez5830
      @nayelimartinez5830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      “And it’s slapping u”

    • @SaurianStudios1207
      @SaurianStudios1207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I can relate to this....

  • @darkdoom907
    @darkdoom907 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I love you for this video man. You dont know people who rank high in neuroticism need these kind of videos so badly!!!!!💛

  • @UndisputedChampion500
    @UndisputedChampion500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3321

    Imagine the doctor asking for cocaine be like, " I need the cocaine for research purposes. "

    • @nurtorywhite5576
      @nurtorywhite5576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      Prescription cocaine is actually a thing

    • @pedrolmlkzk
      @pedrolmlkzk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Just 40 years before cocaine was an actual common medicine

    • @manas1161
      @manas1161 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@nurtorywhite5576 it's a joke a J.O.K.E no need to take it seriously.

    • @chinpanzee2098
      @chinpanzee2098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@manas1161 dont think he was. He was just sayin a fact and its one thats pretty cool

    • @hanross1851
      @hanross1851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Just ask for water laced with cocaine. Easier to explain that way

  • @jonny6738
    @jonny6738 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2766

    At first I thought the “strategy” was to do cocaine

    • @shermgerm950
      @shermgerm950 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      I mean, getting addicted to something else would help...

    • @yelwinaung1608
      @yelwinaung1608 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      *Someone give this man a medal.*

    • @WhereisYunoGasai
      @WhereisYunoGasai 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😂😂😂

    • @genpeg2048
      @genpeg2048 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ......it is

    • @Danny8Ter
      @Danny8Ter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      When i did cola first time i was numb deep down

  • @quickfingers7062
    @quickfingers7062 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12820

    The strat: find friends and socialize and get a girlfriend
    Me, an awkward introvert: *this is gonna be a lot harder than I thought*

    • @ditomajano4575
      @ditomajano4575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +154

      Lol same😅😂

    • @rrai1999
      @rrai1999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +904

      dude.. imagine being the awkward introvert, getting a real loving relationship you thought would never end and genuinely starting to improve your life only for them to drop you. this just happened to me. do NOT focus on girls, you'll just be hurt badly.

    • @555reaper
      @555reaper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      @@rrai1999 I’m an introvert too but after having been screwed over I’ve been really putting myself out there I’m focused on my purpose and no matter how fine a girl is no matter how loyal and loving she says she is I will still push my boundaries and get other girls. Keep a rotation. ALWAYS.

    • @safe4547
      @safe4547 3 ปีที่แล้ว +175

      There's no such thing as introvert and extrovert. Just quit thinking about it and think all about making friends and building healthy habits.

    • @johnjohn-kd7fl
      @johnjohn-kd7fl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      same. You need to find something that you enjoy, does the same thing. For me I started weight lifting. There is a lot of science you can get into with health and fitness. IT is a lot of fun mentally and physically. I now view my body as a test subject and I like experimenting on it.

  • @najo7511
    @najo7511 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I noticed I act a lot more productive when I have busy days - I don't get bored and don't have much free time to think a lot, so I forget about habits like eating junk or fapping. But when I am home all day and have nothing to do, I let myself relax too much.

    • @sliwqa9642
      @sliwqa9642 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thats true! if you have any addictions you should just do something productive, it helps so much

  • @AbRosenbaum
    @AbRosenbaum 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2648

    Some tips for those who are trying:
    - never feel ashamed about your addiction. So many people struggle with this.
    - every day of nofap is a small victory and will gain you something, even if you relapse after.
    - go live together with roommates (girls preferably): when you have company you cannot relapse.
    - avoid loneliness. If you are alone, go outside as much as possible
    - Dont go on social media. Nowadays its basically the same as pornography. Its useless anyway.
    - If you feel the urge, work out. Work out untill you are so tired you dont have any urges.
    its absolutely worth it.

    • @nalyddoow9295
      @nalyddoow9295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Correction: Feel ashamed and associate your relapse with negativity so you feel further reluctance to relapse later on if you ever start feeling urges. Without the negative association you'll get into the habit of simply spacing yourself out but still continuing to use it.

    • @yurigagarin7585
      @yurigagarin7585 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Go outside doesn't change anything.
      Am still lonely, i think I can't change anything

    • @NoOneAlive_
      @NoOneAlive_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@yurigagarin7585 we're in this together king. We can do it. I can't change my life either but we will keep on going even if it's hurting us.

    • @zygaming7356
      @zygaming7356 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      nnn is a lifestyle

    • @yurigagarin7585
      @yurigagarin7585 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@NoOneAlive_ Alright, we can do this together 😎🤝

  • @LennWeltmeister
    @LennWeltmeister 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1154

    "Going out in the world and building relationships"
    It's easy to talk.

    • @gildasilva7
      @gildasilva7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Its just as easy to 'do' if you're strong willed

    • @shubhamkashyap112
      @shubhamkashyap112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It's easy to do, but you're weak

    • @LeafyPeach
      @LeafyPeach 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@shubhamkashyap112 it's not.

    • @shubhamkashyap112
      @shubhamkashyap112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@LeafyPeach going out in the world is easy, obviously it's not easy for pathetic weebs

    • @AhmedElsayed-ur1iy
      @AhmedElsayed-ur1iy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@shubhamkashyap112 Roger that, how to not be a pathetic weeb?

  • @weeson4279
    @weeson4279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3499

    so moral of the story: touch the green, and not the peen

    • @bordanjarrett
      @bordanjarrett 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      cute girl from kyoukai no kanata is correct

    • @nyftt4350
      @nyftt4350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Well, I did touch grass

    • @frankthetank21
      @frankthetank21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      What if your peen... is green?

    • @bluemamba5317
      @bluemamba5317 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      @@frankthetank21 then you will be feen

    • @rellezj
      @rellezj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      weed?

  • @aidangittings
    @aidangittings ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I lost my girlfriend to sex addiction. I never had a reason to do this before, so I thought. But now I do. I loved her. So much. And I hate myself every day for it. It’s been 3 days since she broke up w me and 3 days since I fapped. I’ve been doing it over 3 times a day every day for 7 years. I’m going to change.

    • @blackrobin8472
      @blackrobin8472 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      How's it going now bud

  • @spyro1342
    @spyro1342 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3250

    Ratatouille would be very different if there was cocaine involved

    • @juniperberryyyy
      @juniperberryyyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +248

      Are you trying to convince me that cocaine was not involved in the making of that film?

    • @rohithp5201
      @rohithp5201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@juniperberryyyy lmfao

    • @viljamiknuutila3274
      @viljamiknuutila3274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      One of the greatest comments I have ever seen

    • @thecatonacouch9371
      @thecatonacouch9371 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Improvement Pill bro does no fap mean only no porn

    • @zinogrevz7389
      @zinogrevz7389 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      there wasn't?😂😂

  • @Silenthunter199
    @Silenthunter199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3595

    "Find love"
    Like that's ever gonna happen.

    • @jesusv.3460
      @jesusv.3460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      which is why you are on this video

    • @Pyroshark
      @Pyroshark 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      It's not gonna happen if you don't make the effort to actually talk to people. The mindset of "not ever gonna happen" is **not gonna happen** if you don't try.

    • @12DAMDO
      @12DAMDO 3 ปีที่แล้ว +193

      @@hrydayshah5998 from a realistic point of view i'd say believing that "everyone will eventually find someone" is the most toxic mindset you can have and you should stop doing that.. instead be like "love is not for everyone, and i'm fine with that"
      learn a *real* mindset instead of being a conformist telling others to "stay positive" which'll only end up making things worse...

    • @shangwangangwangbanglang4538
      @shangwangangwangbanglang4538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@12DAMDO I agree

    • @hrydayshah5998
      @hrydayshah5998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@12DAMDO It's clear that they do want to find someone so why are you saying that love isn't for everyone?

  • @srikrishnavasanth3895
    @srikrishnavasanth3895 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1488

    Forgetting about the nofap is the real strategy

    • @SuryaTheBeast
      @SuryaTheBeast 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      That's actually true though.

    • @markh.6687
      @markh.6687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      My strategy is to not have one, because why lie to myself that I won't fap someday??

    • @srikrishnavasanth3895
      @srikrishnavasanth3895 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@markh.6687 That's what i am saying

    • @TheAirbenders
      @TheAirbenders 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Semen retention

    • @ansikkk
      @ansikkk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree. When the 2019 started i began nofap, but after some time i just forgot about it and stopped counting days

  • @williamshp4140
    @williamshp4140 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    oh how convinient this came up first day of november, gotta leave a like!

  • @shy4real
    @shy4real 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2200

    kings, we can do this

  • @oliverdiop7530
    @oliverdiop7530 ปีที่แล้ว +1670

    Okay for those of y'all who hear this. What made me change my approach was the quote "don't count the days, make the days count." I was always tracking progress day to day, striving to achieve a big enough number. It went well until 180something, one slip-up and I fell into deep regrets thinking about getting back to this number again from 0. I don't know how many months it's been since then, but when I started to make the best out of the day in any way I can and focus on what's important to me, it became so easy for real. Part pf it is probably also the fact that counting the days makes you think about it much more than you need

    • @andremanzato4718
      @andremanzato4718 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      You don't know how you changed my perspective of my days right now, thank you so much!

    • @GigaForce5
      @GigaForce5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Really needed this comment mate
      Thanks a bunch 🤘

    • @oliverdiop7530
      @oliverdiop7530 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@andremanzato4718 glad to help my guy. Wish you luck on your journey

    • @oliverdiop7530
      @oliverdiop7530 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@GigaForce5 🙏🏿🙏🏿

    • @time_for_toast4922
      @time_for_toast4922 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I agree with this.
      If you just forget about these addictions or bad habits and occupy your time with other things that you personally set as more important, then you will eventually get past it.
      In those times the thoughts intrude again, you just brush them off and get thinking on something more important.

  • @djju333
    @djju333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5399

    Get ready for No Nut November bois!!

    • @HesarealNoWhereMan
      @HesarealNoWhereMan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      Or NoVag November.

    • @moosamihran4839
      @moosamihran4839 4 ปีที่แล้ว +344

      @@HesarealNoWhereMan novag November??? I've been doing this my entire lifetime 😏

    • @stranger048
      @stranger048 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yeahh I'm ready

    •  4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      What about no nut life

    • @Masterstrange56
      @Masterstrange56 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Wish me luck, I'm staring from today.

  • @eddiemattison7792
    @eddiemattison7792 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You hit the nail on the head. Concentrate on correcting what's missing (social life, friends, girlfriend, hobbies, work that is you) instead of the nofap streak. Exactly

  • @fruchtsaft8851
    @fruchtsaft8851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5562

    Telling a lonely person to create relationships is like telling a depressed person to be happy

    • @Westside_69
      @Westside_69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +507

      Yeah. The video just made me realize how im a compete fail and how i hate being a human. Being born an animal must be like winning the lottery of life.

    • @beequake2706
      @beequake2706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      @@Westside_69 except when you're a mayfly

    • @Westside_69
      @Westside_69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      @@hi-zn9bb yeah you say it like i had never even attempted to do that and it was as easy as riding a bike.

    • @hi-zn9bb
      @hi-zn9bb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      @@Westside_69 You know what? you're right, have a depressive life and die, maybe when you get old you'll realize you were not happy becouse you didn't wanted to, I'm not arguing with you, I just want you to realize the truth, if you are not happy is because you don't want to, you have the power of your life, not everyone or everything but you, so, head up and do what you want yo do, stop looking at videos about depression and get up I know u can 👑 you are better than you think

    • @redrumgmv161
      @redrumgmv161 3 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      @@hi-zn9bb This is not how it works. It is hard for people to do something they believe they can't. Of course, if you have a strong will, you are able to overcome these internal problems. But the thing is not every person is strongwilled. I'm sertainly not. I am a mentally weak person and I can't force me to do things I believe I can't do. I would prefer to sit in my comfort zone, even if this comfort zone is hurting me. I understand and realize the problem. But, as I said, I'm just not strong enough to change myself. I've been like this for almoust all my life so it is very hard to change anything on your own. And it's completely my fault. And I'm sure there are a lot of people like me, who are just not strong enough to make themselves better and happier. And words like 'i believe in you' or 'you are better then you think' are starting to feel like a joke. Because how anybody can believe in me, if even I can't believe in myself? Some of us are just weak, and therefore deserve to be miserable. At least, I do.

  • @mug875
    @mug875 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1856

    “Use the energy to create healthy habits”
    so i use my horniness to get rid of my horniness.

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      *watches Telepurte videos to learn animation*

    • @LckD008
      @LckD008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@greatwavefan397 your hands would be too tired to even fap from all the animating. That's not a bad idea.

    • @ThatRedNumber
      @ThatRedNumber 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      @@LckD008 *Ferb I know what we're gonna do today*

    • @jv_f_r
      @jv_f_r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      "I used the stones to destroy the stones."

    • @marcellofunhouse1234
      @marcellofunhouse1234 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      not me ill die alone thanks

  • @amanraghuvanshi9385
    @amanraghuvanshi9385 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3889

    RIP to those rats who died proving a point🙏

    • @thinktank4205
      @thinktank4205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      🤣😪

    • @sausthabbirsinghtuladhar1729
      @sausthabbirsinghtuladhar1729 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      F. gone but never forgotten

    • @erenjeager5290
      @erenjeager5290 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      They sacrificed their lives knowing or unknowingly for us

    • @HealthAZ2
      @HealthAZ2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      but they died with pleasure,so

    • @sid98geek
      @sid98geek 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      There are millions of more humans who die proving a point as well.

  • @ninjaofthepivipi2405
    @ninjaofthepivipi2405 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    wanna know something cool? Last year i had almost only one friend, but unfortunately he went to another city and we now cant see each other that much, but we stay in touch. Now for the cool part, I went into my own no fap at December or January, it happened just like it was said:
    1- i started meditating (not intentional, i just did)
    2- i was much more present at my daily life (making decisions, thinking about things i would like to do etc)
    3- I gave up on some bad habits i had, for example using my computer a lot for useless things (playing for example), i was able to take the time i used to be on my computer doing nothing and started using it to meditate, or study.
    Tip: just do it, there's no tomorrow, just go ahead and start doing it.
    + Try to give you life a fresh start, give up on things that get you stressed and start planning your life. And sleep well, 8+ hours of sleep, minimum. The time you should be sleeping everyday does vary, so try sleeping 8, 9 or 10 hours, see what is best for you. Teenagers should get more than 8 hours.
    Edit: I do have more friends now, i talk to basically everyone.

  • @MultiLetz
    @MultiLetz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1199

    Hell yeah let's make some meaningful social relationships
    * Sees romantic relationships*
    Well, let's not get ridiculous either

    • @redwhiteben111
      @redwhiteben111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lets get Ridicolius awwww in nostalgy i remember Lmfao

    • @intraterrestrial5035
      @intraterrestrial5035 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      One step at a time 👍

    • @MultiLetz
      @MultiLetz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @CPA Potato i'm with you mate!

    • @greyarea8081
      @greyarea8081 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Neo Genesis Chad life

  • @shomgerry
    @shomgerry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +512

    "Animals raised in isolation aren't always the most functional..."
    - Owen Grady, Jurassic World

  • @Martythechillgod
    @Martythechillgod 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2043

    “Go out and build relationships.”
    But I hate people....

    • @godot9223
      @godot9223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Same, man, same

    • @betty-ld6wy
      @betty-ld6wy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      same here, it's not that i hate people. i just hate people living here.

    • @greyarea8081
      @greyarea8081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Introverts unite

    • @moosesues8887
      @moosesues8887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@nlenle5526 payaso

    • @dudjcjtue9w91
      @dudjcjtue9w91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      better say you don't like people rather than sayin "I hate people"
      i used to say that too . LoL

  • @LukeLaramie-xh4mj
    @LukeLaramie-xh4mj 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I needed this. This was what I REALLY needed.

  • @Tasty99
    @Tasty99 4 ปีที่แล้ว +674

    I won't do it for myself, but for my boy Coke Rat! Rip brother.

  • @johndave22
    @johndave22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2691

    Summary: Don't count the days. Make the days count.
    EDIT. 1.7k likes. Can i convert it to new subscribers 😂🙌🙌

    • @jk-2053
      @jk-2053 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Me: The days don’t count. Days make the count.
      ...
      I’ll see myself out

    • @abrahamgarcia7044
      @abrahamgarcia7044 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@jk-2053 what 😂

    • @xilecholix8346
      @xilecholix8346 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@abrahamgarcia7044 yes

    • @student6292
      @student6292 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      - Muhammad Ali

    • @semo5515
      @semo5515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@student6292 yes sirrrrrr

  • @joshbowman7114
    @joshbowman7114 2 ปีที่แล้ว +582

    So to summarize
    - release energy in healthy habits and a social life
    - don’t shame yourself for failing bc it only causes you to fail more (forget no fap)
    - have accountability for building habits

    • @SilverWave64
      @SilverWave64 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Easiest way is to have real sex. But unfortunately for many guys, including myself, that's completely impossible.

  • @virtualmessiah
    @virtualmessiah ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I love that people are waking up to this. My closest friends were super porn addicted, i was also. Then i took it as a topic and me and my friend allways was like: you still on no fap? and if so we hit rocks or somthing so there was sense of Accomplishment. It was amazing that we detoxed out of it with each ones support. CHAD AF

    • @maingg4803
      @maingg4803 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🎉

  • @scrawny9128
    @scrawny9128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    November is here, boys! Our battle starts here, we must not fall

    • @SkyV77
      @SkyV77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Challenge 🔥

    • @deveshdox6524
      @deveshdox6524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Sorry sir I failed you

    • @SkyV77
      @SkyV77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@deveshdox6524 start again .. fail again .. start again .. rise again

    • @prathameshponkshe4556
      @prathameshponkshe4556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Slay the demons of horniness
      👍*Doom music intensifies*

    • @ollie2244
      @ollie2244 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I've been clean for a week. If I make it to the end of the month it will be the longest I've not fapped since I discovered the sport 20 years ago. Stay strong! I'm glad to to say I've also avoided pornograpbic content.

  • @jeanmarc7563
    @jeanmarc7563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +470

    I can attest to this. When I was serving a two month period at a county jail, I found it super easy to go noFap within that time period. This was because I was constantly hanging out, connecting, and exercising with other inmates. When I got out I was super buff, confident, and women started noticing me more. It's still possible to go noFap on your own but it is insanely harder, you would need to jog a lot more to keep the pain of lonliness at bay.

    • @bruhphoenix3084
      @bruhphoenix3084 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Got any exercise tips? I'm trying to exercise regularly but lack consistency

    • @vinbinjil
      @vinbinjil 4 ปีที่แล้ว +215

      Moral of the story: go to jail

    • @justacasualgamer1957
      @justacasualgamer1957 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I see the key is to go to the jail... hmmm.....

    • @markh.6687
      @markh.6687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      @@justacasualgamer1957 "Connecting with other inmates"......Uh huh. You could call it that....

    • @fitnessabdul6811
      @fitnessabdul6811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@vinbinjil Lmao..

  • @AFlyingTrout
    @AFlyingTrout 3 ปีที่แล้ว +895

    After trying and failing many times before, this video hit me with something that for the first time actually felt like it gave me the most positive reason to quit. Ever. Every other time before has been a focus on the negative effects. Now I have positive results to think about.
    Wish me luck, brothers. My journey of a thousand miles begins with this very first step.

    • @erenyeager3112
      @erenyeager3112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Amen

    • @rockysandman5489
      @rockysandman5489 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Leaving this comment here to see updates from you.

    • @gamistry2947
      @gamistry2947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Updates?

    • @ruusteriv
      @ruusteriv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes I wanna hear how you do too

    • @tan8483
      @tan8483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      A month has passed, how are you doing? I'm curious.

  • @daniylgovender4866
    @daniylgovender4866 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ive always felt like there was something wrong with me for not having the motivation to quit, i barrly have PNC because i got so used to feeling ashamed, thank you so much for this video, Im now on day 1

    • @thanos2161
      @thanos2161 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have also been reset to day 1. Lets stay strong brother

    • @daniylgovender4866
      @daniylgovender4866 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thanos2161 Fr, in this together 🫡

  • @juxt_aposition9935
    @juxt_aposition9935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +580

    This is all made harder now that everyone's inside

    • @Ugh718
      @Ugh718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Both literally and figuratively lmfao XD

    • @stolenmemepolice6128
      @stolenmemepolice6128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Discord

    • @wontbebothered
      @wontbebothered 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Ugh718 LMAOOO

    • @mare1570
      @mare1570 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      not anymore , now we are free, covid us gone

    • @mohoodie8728
      @mohoodie8728 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mare1570 Not completely some countries are still stuck with it and I don't think it will completely disappear for now.

  • @tramkale9579
    @tramkale9579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +331

    "Despite all my rage, I am still just a cokerat in a cage"

  • @karateka_95
    @karateka_95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +360

    That bit about forming addictions when other desires/needs are not being fulfilled is very relevant to me atm. I feel like I'm obsessed with gaming because I'm not getting enough social interaction.

    • @jacobusgodfrey4124
      @jacobusgodfrey4124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      And in turn not getting enough social interaction cause of the gaming. Addictions are vicious cycles.

    • @ArkansasGamer
      @ArkansasGamer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@jacobusgodfrey4124 hell yeah they are. It's not just substances like alcohol and drugs, it's other things too. Porn, video games, social media, these are all things that I've had a bad obsession with at one point.

    • @hajimehinata5854
      @hajimehinata5854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      At least games give u more mechanical skill or even better strategizing and orginizing

    • @anakinlowground5515
      @anakinlowground5515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@ArkansasGamer It's all about moderation, my dude. Video games are fine, but if you play for like, say, 10 hours a day, then there's a problem. I wouldn't say the games themselves are a problem, though. They aren't the root cause of unhappiness in your life. Same goes with alcohol and such. High consumption of video games, alcohol, social media, etc, are all symptoms of a problem. You only play so many video games because, or drinking too much alcohol, or spending too much time on social media because of some underlying issue that you would've failed to deal with. Once you find that root cause of the symptoms, and treat it, the problem itself will be cured and dealt with. Once that happens, your consumption of things like video games and such will have gone down to healthy levels. You will start to have a healthier relationship with things such as these.

    • @Jenna_Talia
      @Jenna_Talia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's so fucking true as well. Half the time I gorge on snacks just because I'm bored, if I could find habits to actually fill my day I'd not even feel hungry.
      Enviroment also plays into it. If you eat in your bedroom your brain might just associate your bedroom with eating, and it'll make knocking the addiction even harder.

  • @MarkusvonNuggets
    @MarkusvonNuggets ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Well Boys, here we go again, well do it this time, I believe in you

  • @unleash2476
    @unleash2476 3 ปีที่แล้ว +321

    The key is to stay consistent. It's human nature to fall. But it's also human nature to rise and never give up. It's ok if you lose the streak. Winners are those who never quit.

    • @noahhouwink4576
      @noahhouwink4576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      thank you for this positive comment

    • @kinggkaro320
      @kinggkaro320 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Amazing comment. Especially for males. Its so easy to open a browser and fap but the end results is nothing but regret and shame. But when we see things in the positive way instead of the negative, we tend to be more confident in wanting to change and comments like this hit the soul. Thanks man.

    • @onyayekekay5357
      @onyayekekay5357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thank u bro wow

    • @ShadesMF
      @ShadesMF 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kinggkaro320 speak for yourself lmao i regret nothing.

    • @4belleo
      @4belleo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's human nature to fap too

  • @HalimawMag-Assume
    @HalimawMag-Assume 3 ปีที่แล้ว +834

    "Find Love"
    And all other jokes you can tell to yourself

    • @anibro8064
      @anibro8064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      the irony is that if u find a girlfriend u will have sex with her as often as u masturbate so its really the same thing...finding friends is the best strategy for no fap

    • @marcellofunhouse1234
      @marcellofunhouse1234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@anibro8064 sex before marriage is a sin so no thanks

    • @Gabi-ld3kp
      @Gabi-ld3kp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@marcellofunhouse1234 fapping is also a sin

    • @mid-boss6461
      @mid-boss6461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@anibro8064 except "girlfriend" is fiction.

    • @ruski77
      @ruski77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      breathing might as well be a sin underneath god’s dystopian theocracy.

  • @billydonahue5575
    @billydonahue5575 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1320

    Do 25 pushups whenever you feel you want to rub it out so badly. It works for me.

    • @vince7845
      @vince7845 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      No comments? No problem! I'll try this out.

    • @89kilemal
      @89kilemal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      Just don't find a hole.

    • @sirstamfordraffles6557
      @sirstamfordraffles6557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      How do you do push-ups?

    • @gumug_
      @gumug_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +174

      @@sirstamfordraffles6557 lie face down and push the ground until you go up

    • @sirstamfordraffles6557
      @sirstamfordraffles6557 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@gumug_
      Oh, I think I confused push-ups for something else. What’s the name of the thing where you are on the back and pull your knees towards your tummy/face?

  • @omniscientbeing676
    @omniscientbeing676 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    00:05 The right strategy is the key to success in the nofap challenge.
    01:00 Rats in a rat park preferred plain water over cocaine-laced water.
    02:02 Meaningful human interaction is crucial for mental well-being
    02:58 Nofap alone won't improve your social life
    03:44 To improve your personal and dating life, focus on making friends, developing mental strength, honing a skill, and taking action.
    04:35 Improving social skills and finding meaningful relationships and dates through NoFap
    05:26 Building habits is key to a fulfilling life
    06:14 Join the habit builder challenge and the special community to form meaningful relationships.

  • @quaithe7050
    @quaithe7050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Day 20 and relapsed. Back to day 1 but this time I am implementing this socializing. I have been working, studying non stop everyday for 6-10 hrs. I know I can do it! 🙏 I have been more active and energetic everyday and started to make new friends but somehow I relapsed, i’ll make sure that never happens again!

    • @Hitleraberham
      @Hitleraberham 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      hey man how is your journey going ?? i came across your comment and the funny thing is that i am on day 20 and i working everyday real hard and making progress in life but today i felt an extreme urge i never felt before and i almost relpased but i didnt so i want to let you know that day 20 i think is dangerous day i hope i never get this feeling again let me know how youre doing or update me plz

    • @Philleboioioi
      @Philleboioioi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Hitleraberham fap with your imagination when the urge is coming. Porn is the real enemy. Defeat your urge to watch porn, by fapping to your imagination. With time you'll gain more control, because it's not porn that get's you to fap anymore.

    • @quaithe7050
      @quaithe7050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Hitleraberham For me usually is After 1-2 weeks is the most dangerous when it comes to progress. I've stopped counting the days I did semen retention because counting it makes me relapse. I've been meditating everyday and incorporated working out during breaks. I also learned how to break my bad habit of having random thoughts that are pornographic.
      I learned to bring my awareness to the areas / sections in which I want to focus on or practice that requires deep work and I can focus effortlessly now.

  • @wufyxd7214
    @wufyxd7214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    Covid kinda makes this impossible, when you’re in your room all day shit’s hard

    • @StealthBeeKid
      @StealthBeeKid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      And I know people are going to come here and say: "But there's discord! And other digital forms of interaction!"
      While that is indeed true, I believe that in the vicious circle that we are living now it just doesn't make the same effect anymore. We are getting more depressed and unhappy even using these new forms of digital interaction, and the circle just continues so we get more depressed and less able to communicate and interact, which makes us more unhappy and so on and so forth.
      Don't get me wrong, The new forms of interaction that we have are awesome, they are doing their best to help us and even I, a lonely ass introvert who's really comfortable in quarantine, would be M U C H worse if it wasn't for TH-cam and other "friends" interactions that I have, but that does not mean this form of communication is perfect, the effect is simply not the same on our teenage brains

    • @JamFlexx
      @JamFlexx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@StealthBeeKid bruh bars have been open for a hot minute now, go live your life, vaccines are available to everyone that wants them.

    • @Ubbu156
      @Ubbu156 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      play games with friends

    • @iiCounted2134
      @iiCounted2134 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      exactly

    • @rencecs6720
      @rencecs6720 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Even so I'm surprised how I got a girlfriend through social media
      We've only met twice despite my country in heavy quarantine
      Thats progress

  • @mr.shepherdspie7958
    @mr.shepherdspie7958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I'm doing this for you, CokeRat! You will be remembered. You have not died for nothing!!

  • @sokerpanda3921
    @sokerpanda3921 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video change my life ❤ Tq for the creator

  • @aelardiz
    @aelardiz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    Finding someone to talk to openly is like a dream...
    It's just that I won't approach anybody, they have to approach me...

    • @vaultboy6911
      @vaultboy6911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Same logic for me as well. I'm not brave enough to walk up to people and start a convo. If they came and talked to me, I'd happily talk to them

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Get their contacts right away. If they suck, you can always delete it.

    • @some1lambda
      @some1lambda 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah, but you often have to do the first steps towards others to build relationships. Doing this can also make you appear friendlier.

    • @aelardiz
      @aelardiz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@some1lambda Maybe I can try that when I do find a girl to talk to and probably I'd be ready then too ig!

    • @Warhead-ds4dc
      @Warhead-ds4dc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      If there are plenty of fish in the sea then I live in a desert is my problem

  • @Willinat-Archive
    @Willinat-Archive 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Honestly this is a very insightful and powerful strategy. Ive been trying to hone my social skills, and honestly I think a big portion of my lack of happiness is a lack of social events. Im an extrovert, even if I sometimes have a lack of social confidence.

  • @jonathanmarkov1741
    @jonathanmarkov1741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    “The question is not why the addiction, but why the pain.”
    - Dr. Gabor Maté

  • @MattGray35
    @MattGray35 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Welcome back bois. Get ready for a long November. Stay strong bros.

  • @mctoad1091
    @mctoad1091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3669

    I'm on day 200 I have learned how to see John Cena, smell what the rock is cooking, and I know how to OUT PIZZA THE HUT
    Edit : OmG Ty foR tHE lIkEs 😍😍😍😍🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🙈🙈🎉🎉🎊🎊🎉🎊🎉❤💛🧡💙💛💙🧡💜❤💚💜💜💜💙💚💚💚❤💚💙💙💚💚💚💚🧡💛💙🧡💙💜💛💙💜💛💙💜🧡💙💜

    • @bruhphoenix3084
      @bruhphoenix3084 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      @@jububblyjuice2703 it's not about trying to out pizza the hut you must hut the pizza out that's the true key

    • @vegito9008
      @vegito9008 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Noice in day 1000 u can go ssgss

    • @lewyfranklin7036
      @lewyfranklin7036 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      should of left it at john cena

    • @flawless_Cowboy
      @flawless_Cowboy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Lmao pls help. I tried to out pizza the hut and now they have my family. I'm scared.

    • @flawless_Cowboy
      @flawless_Cowboy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @susi The developer nah, but I'll put that on the to do list.

  • @techmanialtd1669
    @techmanialtd1669 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Am addicted to this for 5 year's and trying no fap since 3 years but everytime somehow it failed. This month after like 3 years i had a streak of 7 days and relapsed. Now am trying again for 21 days. Hope everything works out well and i come out of this addiction. This has affected my personality ,thinking,confidence,viewpoint and academics. i wish to become clean and normal again . Cheers to eveyone who's trying .THANK YOU 🤝♥️

    • @hugoantunesartwithblender
      @hugoantunesartwithblender 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      First, top calling it an addiction. Second theres nothing bad in fapping
      The more you try to not think in something, the more you think in that. Try to not think in a pink elephant in the next 1 minute

    • @freddo93
      @freddo93 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      O

    • @sharmisthadas1704
      @sharmisthadas1704 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@hugoantunesartwithblender *ok coomer*

    • @farisaizat8121
      @farisaizat8121 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hugoantunesartwithblender uhh actually it is an addiction

    • @neverendinchaos4800
      @neverendinchaos4800 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Tech Mania LTD You sound a lot like myself. I only recently got to an 8 day streak the other week (my longest streak ever). And I've been struggling with this for about 7 years... but I only started trying nofap 3 years ago.... I'm glad to see others who are in a similar boat to me. We can get through this together. We've seen that glimpse of light at the end of the tunnel, and now it's time we started running towards it and a life we truly deserve to be living. We CAN do this. If we can make it to 7 or 8 days, we can make it to 10 days, or 21 days...or forever. We just need to shift into that different mindset and constantly keep proving to ourselves that this IS worth fighting for. Are you with me?

  • @skellybone8
    @skellybone8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    This is a lot more like a general self help guide then I expected and it was actually pretty interesting

  • @kimsground7190
    @kimsground7190 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like this video so much, so I pressed the like button twice

  • @SarcasticBuddha4u
    @SarcasticBuddha4u 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    “Go out there and develop a deep meaningful relationship..”
    Do you realize how many people will actually manage to do it?!! Just think of the odds.

  • @mqn69
    @mqn69 4 ปีที่แล้ว +429

    Quarantine be like: let me stop you right there

    • @Kappaman0430
      @Kappaman0430 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      It’s almost been a year...I can’t believe it

    • @thisisepic7171
      @thisisepic7171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Well it's not just stopping it's pulling you back to fisrt square, almost every week Damn it! Cursed the one who recorded their sex activities for the first time and shared it for the first time! But yeah blaming isn't helping at all, all we gotta do is workout more often, eat more vegetable, reduce soda and sugar, find some passion and shape it sharp everyday! And don't sleep late, it triggers you to fap and you'll be on the first fucking square again

    • @envydevil8424
      @envydevil8424 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

    • @staticontheradio2274
      @staticontheradio2274 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@envydevil8424 Right?!!??

  • @carlh.8797
    @carlh.8797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    I won NNN in 2020 during the time "stay-home" order was in effect. My tip was simple: go to the gym and max out daily, train like an athlete. This should be enough to burn out my excessive testosterone. The most difficult part of NNN was actually from Day 7 to Day 18ish, I could actually feel the urge to rub one out, and this urge came up almost every morning. This period of time should be the time when most people failed the challenge. After Day 20, it gets better, but always remember: DO NOT EDGE!

    • @anuragsosa
      @anuragsosa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It's true that I'm skinny and underweight but I don't want to go to gym. I try doing some pushups everyday.

    • @anstorner
      @anstorner 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      How did you go to the Gym if it was 'Stay Home' order?

    • @carlh.8797
      @carlh.8797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@anstorner Our community gym was open at that time. You can do some bodyweight workouts at home, pushups, burpees, etc.

    • @pancake_rabbit
      @pancake_rabbit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      what does edge mean

    • @carlh.8797
      @carlh.8797 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pancake_rabbit When you masturbate or have sex, edging means to stop stroking before you orgasm, in order to not have orgasm.

  • @kwaddell
    @kwaddell ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I’m not sure why the algorithm suggested this one as I’m 10 years married and we both see no issue with it and each still do it occasionally as an extra relaxation tool. I can attest though, if you’re concerned you’re indulging too much, keeping yourself busy with other things like work, projects, hobbies and interactions so that your mind loses bandwidth for the habit and you literally forget about it is the way to go.

    • @Drewer
      @Drewer ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i'm a workaholic. doesn't help don't do it.

  • @jjlane9191
    @jjlane9191 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I can confirm that this does actually work, recently I’ve been working on my Polaris and whenever I’m working on something I like or also talking to friends I had zero intentions to you know… but not talking to friends for multiple days or working anything fun, entertaining or new for a while I tend to re-dig myself that hole I previously climbed out of.

  • @milanvujcich
    @milanvujcich 4 ปีที่แล้ว +293

    I found a weird strategy. Whenever I have the urge to give in, I look at a photo of my crush, and my urges are instantly gone. Because I want to have the confidence, and I want to be a higher value male in order to talk to her and not act awkward around her. And it scares me to go back to my old awkward self

    • @anuragsosa
      @anuragsosa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I can't do that man. Seeing crush's pic will get me more in the mood imagining sex with her 😅.

    • @greyarea8081
      @greyarea8081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But what if a person has no crush

    • @greyarea8081
      @greyarea8081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@anuragsosa well, I think it'll be more in the opposite....see when you'll keep doing it and get conscious to the fact that u like her by lust :/

    • @anuragsosa
      @anuragsosa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@greyarea8081 yeah I'm totally conscious about the fact that these feelings are of lust and not love 😂
      I don't know what is love. I only know lust.

    • @philippdrescher6012
      @philippdrescher6012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@anuragsosa I think to know real love you must first share and receive deep and intimate feelings and thoughts with someone. :)

  • @RayalWorldConz
    @RayalWorldConz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Jeesh man, this video was posted at the right time. I’m on Day 76 currently of NoFap. I hope you all get to where I am, never give up! 💪🏾

  • @AaronIsP1
    @AaronIsP1 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It’s that time of year again, stay strong everyone.

    • @ikosaheadrom
      @ikosaheadrom ปีที่แล้ว

      I kinda accidentally lost :(

    • @ComicDubbers
      @ComicDubbers ปีที่แล้ว

      I fucked up again...
      I hate myself

    • @ThomasTheThermonuclearBomb
      @ThomasTheThermonuclearBomb ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@ikosaheadromHow did that happen

    • @ikosaheadrom
      @ikosaheadrom ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ThomasTheThermonuclearBomb i was edging but after i stoped before anything happened but my pp rubbed a bit while i was tucking it way, than somthing infact did happen.
      My digital footprint is going to be insane

    • @ThomasTheThermonuclearBomb
      @ThomasTheThermonuclearBomb ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ikosaheadrom Ah yeah i've done that in the past. That's why i didn't edge this year, and hey i'm still in so it was worth it

  • @bluedybox
    @bluedybox 3 ปีที่แล้ว +379

    Ngl, the meme "Silence wench" hits me a lot about my addiction.

  • @moonster2343
    @moonster2343 4 ปีที่แล้ว +564

    "Being social and romantic can help you"
    Me, having no friends or gf: *Well that wasn't for me i think*

    • @meoww_69
      @meoww_69 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ya bro😔

    • @bruhphoenix3084
      @bruhphoenix3084 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hope that all changes I wish the best for you in life

    • @batuhanksk7253
      @batuhanksk7253 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @einsteneclarence9448
      @einsteneclarence9448 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes brother....😕

    • @blue-bi5gu
      @blue-bi5gu 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Diptangshu Gamer yo eminem profile
      IM A EM FAN TOO😆

  • @alejoqc9540
    @alejoqc9540 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    It's so damn simple to explain. Yet so hard to understand *and* sustain. Take it like these, folks: without a challenge, where's the fun? Also, return to the basics everytime you feel lost.

  • @Alex.stg619
    @Alex.stg619 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    6 Days in Nofap and let's go for more and to Infinity! 💪🏼

    • @raghvendrasinghtanwar
      @raghvendrasinghtanwar 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How many days streak now

    • @temple10ten8
      @temple10ten8 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@raghvendrasinghtanwarstart over

  • @napppann3486
    @napppann3486 3 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    This video : Socialize
    Me who barely has social interaction with people : *Objective : Survive the talk*

    • @HighSockDavid
      @HighSockDavid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You just need to keep trying to talk with people no everyone is going to be your friend hell at lot of people are going to treat you like dirt and when they do just know they are human trash not you, just talk to people wearing a shirt or having an interest in the something you like and go from there

    • @napppann3486
      @napppann3486 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@HighSockDavid Its really hard when im born in a family where they try to make me socialize but dont get what im trying to say

    • @HighSockDavid
      @HighSockDavid 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@napppann3486 there just trying to help

    • @charizard2122
      @charizard2122 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@napppann3486 I know that family puts a label on our face that we have social anxiety.
      Even if we try to talk, the first thing they will say will be -"I thought you were shy" and thus this makes us more awkward and thereby discourages us to speak further. Personally I will suggest you to talk with strangers,
      everyday when I go to school, I make small talks with anyone even if it's really awkward!

    • @iiCounted2134
      @iiCounted2134 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@napppann3486 same here its so frustrating

  • @thedefntribe
    @thedefntribe ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Just subscribed! I gotta say You are speaking the REAL. I’m on day 46 and have been getting tested left and right by women. I just started my TH-cam Channel simply because Retention got me focused and ready to share my testimony

    • @MGMorris-Fx4
      @MGMorris-Fx4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Longest I've ever gone I think is 10 days and I mainly battle with SSA, so definitely can't go to the gym. 😂
      Will start exercising at home though.
      I got addicted to masturbation about 12 years ago and watched gay porn for the first time while mentally unstable.
      Sadly I was addicted for nearly 11 years.
      Absolutely sick of it.
      Relapsed again today but the past few times I'm disgusted with myself & what they're doing on the screen.
      My faith is very important to me so I have to reach sexual purity, only want to ever have sex with / lust for my future wife, just admire / appreciate other attractive people without lusting after them.
      In my opinion we have to reach sexual purity in order to go to Heaven when we die.
      Don't know if you're a believer, even for people who aren't, I still think sexual purity is much more fulfilling.
      All about being humble & selfless really, not selfish and all about me.

  • @DerekBearzi
    @DerekBearzi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +666

    Trying to do nofap during the lockdown is tough man Loll 😂

    • @Jman-go9kf
      @Jman-go9kf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Fr

    • @tonyg1296
      @tonyg1296 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tru

    • @blueshanks1
      @blueshanks1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      who's still in lockdown bruv? It's been 7 months

    • @devonramsay1565
      @devonramsay1565 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      130 days in

    • @timhiltz6323
      @timhiltz6323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I’m a handsome guy, always had confidence problems, I’m taking notice of women looking at me.

  • @Topg2918
    @Topg2918 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    Im stopping it today i kept doing it for so long i got no morning wood anymore i also keep sweating and becoming nervous around people because of it i hate it. Im gonna stop im gonna train more more more im gonna run away from porn and all these distractions it has ruined my social skills and life its time for a change. wish me luck

    • @Thouartwithme3
      @Thouartwithme3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How it going?

    • @Topg2918
      @Topg2918 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@Thouartwithme3 great i dont have the addiction anymore my testosterone returned to normal levels too.

    • @DignaEliamani
      @DignaEliamani 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wish u de best

    • @amey104_
      @amey104_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Its that easy for you? 😹 Wow. I hope I can do the same. ​@@Topg2918

    • @Ayeikitsweird
      @Ayeikitsweird 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So how's your strike going?

  • @alecgold3906
    @alecgold3906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Such fun advice, we are said that we need to create relationships to avoid being sad but we are sad in the first place because we weren't able to create those relationships. The rats in rat park didn't produce the park themselves, it was given to them. I don't think people automatically resort to pain they ended there because they tried to build their rat park and failed. Honestly the only thing I can get of the video is a guy telling us to try harder, yes, it is valid point and might even work but some people don't have the motivation or the luxury.

    • @benjclarke3010
      @benjclarke3010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OTOH - if one keeps fapping, he won't have the energy or motivation to even try building a social life.

    • @arthur2056
      @arthur2056 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      that's it

  • @FactsandPhilosophies
    @FactsandPhilosophies 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    It is satisfying when I see a notification from this channel on my device and I am sure my fellow viewers feel the same. These creations of yours are so amazing that they inspire me to work harder on my channel in order to reach more people using nature scenery and music from rare instruments. I thank you so much for that, and for those who are viewing stay safe and blessed because you are special.

    • @shreyanshpandey106
      @shreyanshpandey106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      he's not a great person tho in the real life

    • @juhred
      @juhred 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@shreyanshpandey106 how do you know

    • @5amarchive
      @5amarchive 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@shreyanshpandey106 omg whats the tea hun

    • @benjamingeorge8241
      @benjamingeorge8241 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shreyanshpandey106 You can't just say that and not have anything to back it up.

    • @KK-ki1wt
      @KK-ki1wt 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@benjamingeorge8241 Apparently he can do it, because he did it. What you mean is that he shouldn't.

  • @justananimefan1570
    @justananimefan1570 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    my man really just said “Go make some friends and touch grass”

  • @Tarotwithyaw
    @Tarotwithyaw 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for sharing this!! ❤

  • @Leader.in.Christ
    @Leader.in.Christ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +378

    Day 2: I jogged a mile.
    Day 4: I cracked an egg with one hand
    Day 10: my dog ran out of the house, but I caught up.
    Day 20: I read the odyssey in Braille
    Day 35: my sex appeal formed an aura around me
    Day 40: went to the gym, all the squat racks emptied.
    Day 60: I learned to speak in Hieroglyphics.
    Day 70: my phone held a charge for 10 days. Brightness at max.
    Day 90: I tickled her G spot with my voice
    Day 100: my wifi works wherever I go.
    Day 150: I resuscitate my grandfather. He died in 1994.
    Day 360: I mine Bitcoin with my subconscious.
    Year 2: I am energy

    • @shivanshjat4876
      @shivanshjat4876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Why are you making jokes like this 😕

    • @medmestotv8997
      @medmestotv8997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Bro didnt achieved ultra instinct

    • @jellymatsuryuka6853
      @jellymatsuryuka6853 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@medmestotv8997 He went even beyond

    • @kendricklamaristhegreatest
      @kendricklamaristhegreatest 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@shivanshjat4876 cause its funny. It's this thing called humor, you should try it

    • @Chiptune-nz6cj
      @Chiptune-nz6cj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Because it’s funny

  • @BMoney8600
    @BMoney8600 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This quarantine has really messed me up, I was ready to start dating again and then this happened! I need to use this time for self improvement. I want to be free of this addiction!

  • @maciejgomoa6931
    @maciejgomoa6931 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    man this video means a lot to me, i got extremely motivated rn

  • @TheRyGuyyyy
    @TheRyGuyyyy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So surprisingly I'm a;ready doing half of these. I used to meditate and I've gained increased emotion control. My big issue is being lonely. Thanks for the tips!

  • @LightniteProductions
    @LightniteProductions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +339

    "get a relationship and build connections with people"
    *me who literally broke up with my girlfriend a few days ago:* well yes but actually no

    • @Tyty-qi2gu
      @Tyty-qi2gu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sorry

    • @180treehousegang8
      @180treehousegang8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I know how you feel, man! I got a girlfriend at the start of September and we we through by the beginning of October. I felt like something changed inside me because I let a lot of myself out to this person that I usually don't show to people that aren't closer to me, and it had been a few years since I put myself in a serious relationship. I just stuck with my regular routine and that structure gave me balance which helped me overcome that sadness that filled me and now she's completely out of my head besides the memories we shared. This is obviously easier for me since our time together was so short, but don't let it consume you! You're still you're own person and you need to be focusing on your needs and can't spend time caught up on something that was. Best of luck to you, brother. The world is a small place, so you're never alone.

    • @Molletedefrijol
      @Molletedefrijol 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same, but that doesn't mean you can't have friends or necessarily means that you'd be alone

    • @jamilia114
      @jamilia114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know people are supporting you but I can be your girlfriend, regardless if we're the same gender.

    • @menace1937
      @menace1937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jamilia114 wtffff lol

  • @shmammered3842
    @shmammered3842 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This makes so much sense, I began to relapse after I had lost access to my car, stopped working, and ultimately stop having face to face interactions with people all together. I’ve realized that you can’t go into NoFap with the wrong mindset, don’t think you’ll be 170 lbs of pure shredded muscle and irresistible to women. Set a realistic goal for yourself

  • @MrBitsy
    @MrBitsy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Okay i'd like to put this out there(this is my experience though), that it doesn't have to be a relationship as i am not a social person..as long as you can keep yourself busy being productive it's going to work out for you.
    Again this is my experience, it may differ from person to person.

  • @7HE_V01D
    @7HE_V01D หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Why is this getting recommended to me on the start of NNN? 😭☠️🔥🔥