Why do men cheat? 1. When the wife refuses her sex 2. When he misses peace at home 3. When falsely and persistently accused of infidelity that never was 4. Habitual cheater 5. If married to unromantic woman 6. If married to a forced woman to him by society or family 7. Validating persistent accusations that "let me do it to prove to her I can do it..." 8. When the wife creates that environment for him by accommodating a vulnerable woman in the house(sister, compassionate house help etc) 9. When the wife shares anything and everything about their family feuds to her best girlfriend. Why do women cheat? 1. Stereotypes 2. X factor vulnerability 3. Unromantic husband 4. Emotional disconnection from husband 5. To achieve something like job or contract 6. Abandonment by husband 7. Rape 8. To validate her point 9. Shoulder to lean on after heartache Cheating either way must have a cause and unfortunately those that attempt to address the vice concentrate more on the symptoms or effects than the real causes. It takes two to cheat. Except in cases where the partner married a serial cheater with full knowledge and appreciation that the person he/she is marryimg has always cheated but married them none theless, their is no single cheating that doesn't have a cause guys-Never ever. The problem is, men tend to self their challenges than women because of the ego factor. Men by nature do not like publicising their emotional torture unlike women. Men don't like addressing the wife or society direct on what they are going through. When the worst come the worst they use money, fame or position to cheat on his wife. Apparently or unfortunately, where he attempts to remind or threaten his wife that if she can't change he will cheat on her, she goes berserk and dares him on than soberly sitting down to address the cause. This the most common avenue to cheating-Sadly. Up until we sober up as a couple and address issues silently and consciously from within, cheating is there to stay. The wife with her pride and the man with his ego further complicates the whole issue. Whats the end game or who shall be the major loser in the bargain? Fill the gaps yourself!
But who are this men cheating with?, it's the same women who are not allowed to cheat......The big deal is We men should simply man up and respect ourselves period.
Its an interesting topic we should also know and learn to have a view of things from every angle.. Instead of blaming one side.. We should sit to know where the problem is..
It's very true. Women are expected to forgive and move on when a man cheats coz ''all men cheat''
Why do men cheat?
1. When the wife refuses her sex
2. When he misses peace at home
3. When falsely and persistently accused of infidelity that never was
4. Habitual cheater
5. If married to unromantic woman
6. If married to a forced woman to him by society or family
7. Validating persistent accusations that "let me do it to prove to her I can do it..."
8. When the wife creates that environment for him by accommodating a vulnerable woman in the house(sister, compassionate house help etc)
9. When the wife shares anything and everything about their family feuds to her best girlfriend.
Why do women cheat?
1. Stereotypes
2. X factor vulnerability
3. Unromantic husband
4. Emotional disconnection from husband
5. To achieve something like job or contract
6. Abandonment by husband
7. Rape
8. To validate her point
9. Shoulder to lean on after heartache
Cheating either way must have a cause and unfortunately those that attempt to address the vice concentrate more on the symptoms or effects than the real causes. It takes two to cheat. Except in cases where the partner married a serial cheater with full knowledge and appreciation that the person he/she is marryimg has always cheated but married them none theless, their is no single cheating that doesn't have a cause guys-Never ever. The problem is, men tend to self their challenges than women because of the ego factor. Men by nature do not like publicising their emotional torture unlike women. Men don't like addressing the wife or society direct on what they are going through. When the worst come the worst they use money, fame or position to cheat on his wife. Apparently or unfortunately, where he attempts to remind or threaten his wife that if she can't change he will cheat on her, she goes berserk and dares him on than soberly sitting down to address the cause. This the most common avenue to cheating-Sadly.
Up until we sober up as a couple and address issues silently and consciously from within, cheating is there to stay. The wife with her pride and the man with his ego further complicates the whole issue. Whats the end game or who shall be the major loser in the bargain? Fill the gaps yourself!
Cheating is a choice period.
@@beautyinthedark7406 very true
But who are this men cheating with?, it's the same women who are not allowed to cheat......The big deal is We men should simply man up and respect ourselves period.
Its an interesting topic we should also know and learn to have a view of things from every angle.. Instead of blaming one side.. We should sit to know where the problem is..
Cheating is one of the fruits of despising GOD
Before judging
Infedility is wrong in all ramifications