Preparing for Fatherhood - 7 Tips to Get You Ready to Be a Dad | Dad University

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  • @DadUniversity
    @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @jordancharm6780
    @jordancharm6780 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm going to be a new dad in February and stress is an understatement. I'm in between jobs due to me moving to a new city with my fiance. I have no savings and I've been depressed and completely unmotivated for months. It takes everything i have just to get out of bed and take a shower. My fiance also has depression and bipolar disorder so i know im gonna have to be the glue that holds us all together. I used to have a nice apartment, a nice car, i was running a business at 23 years old and was set for success. Once i found out she was pregnant i lost all motivation. I lost my job, lost my apartment, lost all my savings. Im excited to be a dad but im so fucking scared because i dont know how I'm gonna hold myself together let alone my fiance and daughter. Some days i wake up excited as hell. Other days i just collapse from the pressure and the anxiety. We were wanting kids but a few years down the road. Im not ready for this. I feel like a failure in all directions and im so lost

  • @johnrenangeles5334
    @johnrenangeles5334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My wife is due in December and I'm so excited to see our baby and to start my journey of the best version of myself for my family, doing whatever it takes to make them feel that I'm here for them, and always will be

  • @themoosemaker2041
    @themoosemaker2041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'm going to be a new dad this December and a girl dad too! I'm most excited about experiencing fatherhood and all the joys of raising a child!

  • @luci7034
    @luci7034 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I actually won't be a father soon, is that being a father and adopting children has always been a life long dream of mine and I want to be as ready as I can when I have my kiddos!

  • @blbreptiles4126
    @blbreptiles4126 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    1:16 Talk with other fathers
    2:29 Get your finances in order
    3:58 Turn "i have to's" into "I get to's"
    5:00 Check the influence around you
    6:19 Be ok with mistakes
    7:18 Continue your own education
    8:27 Learn to be empathetic

  • @LEEOHNEL.
    @LEEOHNEL. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First time father here. My wife is due in about 7 weeks and my feelings are all over the place. Some days I’m super excited and then other days I’m nervous, thinking wether I’m going to be doing things correctly or if I’m doing things right. Having the feeling of I should have things set and if I’m prepared or not. Nobody talks about how dads and dads to be he feel they only ask about the women. Our feelings are important as well, to anyone reading this … wether you’re a first time dad or a 4th time dad just know that you got this and you are doing an amazing job !!

  • @jamesongregg7321
    @jamesongregg7321 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this was very helpful thank you i learned so much from this video i appreciate it.

  • @Hydelsius
    @Hydelsius ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'll be a new dad late February 2024, potentially on my birthday too! Its been a weird experience so far, feeling my son move in my wifes belly, the baby shower experience, the nursery coming together, etc. Is this normal to feel odd about it the whole time leading up to the birth? When does it become "real" for most guys?

  • @jztsmith
    @jztsmith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    First time dad here. Have a baby girl arriving in January, and I have to tell you thank you for these videos. I am so excited to meet her, and your videos have helped me to start shifting my mindset to be a better partner and father.

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congrats...and so glad you enjoy the videos

  • @ej1435
    @ej1435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She is due in September, and I’m most excited to experience the world through her eyes. See everything again for the first time and to be able to give her the love and guidance my sisters and I were missing.
    I just stumbled across your channel and can’t wait to watch more!

    • @mannyspeaks47
      @mannyspeaks47 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How is it going?!? My baby isn't due til June but I am excited!

  • @kurtw778
    @kurtw778 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My wife and I are great at saving money so that's nice. We're expecting our first in April. I'm most excited to see his personality some to light and team him about the world.

  • @greebgames69
    @greebgames69 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My baby is due in december, im excited to make memories with my child and watch them grow and build their own life

  • @evancarr131
    @evancarr131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm gonna be a new father & a girl dad in June. I'm excited and anxious at the same time lol But I'm looking forward to the experience of fatherhood and all it brings

    • @ej1435
      @ej1435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope your baby girl is healthy happy. My little girl joins us in September and I’m getting so nervous but so overwhelmed with joy, it’s getting difficult to differentiate between the two XD

  • @kikikiko2944
    @kikikiko2944 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Most of these advices will help me to become a mother because me and my husband are equally stressed about our first coming child. Finances, gratitude and empathy are good things to remember!

  • @johnpaulmills3467
    @johnpaulmills3467 ปีที่แล้ว

    Due in may, and honestly im excited for some reason to keep going; to drag myself out of bed every morning and get the train to work. itll be worth it to see a smiling child

  • @kkrroonniicc
    @kkrroonniicc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I literally saw the notification for this video while my wife was in the second stage of labour. The three of us are home now and heres dad watching this video now 😅 thanks so much for the awesome advice🤘

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Everything happens for a reason! Congrats!

  • @BurritoDude_Pk
    @BurritoDude_Pk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My little girl is due Sept 22! so excited! first time dad, looking forward to just hold her and love her!

    • @Jaxn089
      @Jaxn089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      my girl is due september 17th, its crazy how time flies

  • @tadavis12
    @tadavis12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m going to be a new dad here in about 3 weeks. I’m so excited and I can’t wait to start this new chapter of mine and my wife’s lives

    • @thomasgarza-pate3830
      @thomasgarza-pate3830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So am I! Our due date is Apr 25th. Good luck fellow future father 🤘🏼

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's an exciting time. Enjoy it!

    • @ShimmyJohnson
      @ShimmyJohnson 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here CONGRATS

  • @jerrygambles
    @jerrygambles ปีที่แล้ว

    I think the most exciting part about having my new baby boy is that I get to create a bond with him. I can't wait to show him the world and spend time with him as well as my girlfriend/wife. I just get this feeling that it's gonna connect us so much and be an amazing, beautiful glow-up in our lives, that will help us thrive the most we ever have in life. I want to be the best I can be I don't want to let him or his mother down. I just overthink sometimes and get scared that what if I change when the baby comes maybe I get too overwhelmed or stressed and it just changes me. i don't know I just want to do a good job and treat them the best I can I truly am excited to be a father and I can't wait to give this lil man tons of love and I hope god takes us in the right path growing our knowledge, bond, strength, and love with each other as a family.

  • @fisherbrandon3449
    @fisherbrandon3449 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    November 17th hopefully finding out the gender tonight. Our first child. I am most excited for is to get to help the child grow into a wonderful person and to watch them grow and explore the world and do great things

  • @kingoflibras2131
    @kingoflibras2131 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video really helped a lot glad i watched this . i’m 22 and am so excited but very nervous to be a father . my baby is due April 6th . i really most excited about watching my baby grow and how much they’ll change my life .

  • @joeljordan90
    @joeljordan90 ปีที่แล้ว

    Due in March for our baby boy. These videos have been very helpful, especially worrying about work life balance.

  • @Wingyy1995
    @Wingyy1995 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I remember when I was 19 or 20 and I heard a say of "If you are 25 and your friends aren't talking about stocks, housing and starting a family, but are instead talking about parties and drinking, you need new friends"
    Ignored it at the time, but when I hit 24, 25 and I got engaged, married, and now pregnant with my wife, I realised how true that was

  • @MrBeeen-di5wy
    @MrBeeen-di5wy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m going to be a dad in a week or so! I’m very much excited to see our little princess soon, but I’m kind of nervous as well.
    Thanks always for giving awesome tips and educating new dads around the world! I’m watching from Japan and I’m really thankful for what you are doing because there are few learning materials for new dads in my country that are as good as yours. Thank you!!

  • @bottomnoob
    @bottomnoob 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just wanna say thank you for making this videos and your podcast. My baby boy is due any day now. I was starting to feel like I was drowning organizing all of the the stuff I get to do now. Your tips helped me organize while I didn't really have a father to talk to about this stuff

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congrats and thank you for your words. Everything will be ok and you will be awesome!

  • @Christiang21
    @Christiang21 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve watched so many of your videos over the past months leading to my sons arrival which was just yesterday thank you so much for the help Jason you made it so much easier for me!

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congrats! That is so cool that we have been there along the way. Look forward to continuing the journey. Enjoy it!

  • @MOJOJANGLES
    @MOJOJANGLES 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Baby is due feb 25 2022 :) thanks for all the advice.

  • @memoreno9
    @memoreno9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We’re due at the end of the month but could be sooner, just really excited to how her everything I’ve learned and push her higher!

  • @iant720
    @iant720 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Empathetic listening" is the #1 tip ALL GUYS should know, when relating to ALL women. She doesn't want advice, or for you t "Fix" it.. It's a big struggle for me but the best advice I've ever received.

  • @edwardgreen7435
    @edwardgreen7435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My son is due on June 29th....dealing with a pregnant wife can be very difficult at times

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes it can but try to be empathetic. It will help a lot.

  • @77pebble
    @77pebble 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My girlfriend is 10 weeks and it does seem a little surreal but I guess it will hit home after the first scan. At the moment I’ve been checking out your videos which have been great thanks.

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesome, congrats. Sometimes it isn't as real until the baby actually arrives and then it hits all at once!!

  • @dkillian1443
    @dkillian1443 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm gonna be a dad in September and I'm excited, but also nervous as all hell

  • @mikeysmunchies2175
    @mikeysmunchies2175 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My baby is due in Jan and I’m just excited and blessed I get this opportunity to become a father. I just hope I will be a good father and not put my kid down the way my father put me down. Either way I feel honored to become a dad. I love ur channel it has been so helpful for me. I’m just sooo soooooooooo nervous right now. Lol

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for the kind words and congrats!

    • @mikeysmunchies2175
      @mikeysmunchies2175 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DadUniversity thank u means a lot and these videos help me to not be so nervous or act like in not that nervous

  • @mannyspeaks47
    @mannyspeaks47 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. My baby is due in June but I know the work needs to be put in now for a great future. This video was great and I'm now a sub!

  • @forrestgates4816
    @forrestgates4816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well baby Forrest has arrived! Took a long time! Had to induce and wanted to do it the natural way. Well after 24 hours of contractions my wife decided that the best bet was to get an epidural. She was sad feeling beat that things did not go her way. After the epidural and sweating the small stuff she said it was the best decision ever. Then the pitoson was stressing out the baby for the second time were both exhausted and really had to decide well c-section might be the best bet. We did not want an emergency c-section to happen so we decided to bite the bullet and get the c-section. Luckily we have great care and I suited up and went into the OR with her. The baby was born and is healthy with no complications! I just wanted to tell you that your videos made me stronger going in and being the support person my wife needed. Have to deal with curve balls and that is life! Thank you for all of your videos I look up to you as a positive influence and with just the videos you have made me into a better person/dad.

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is so awesome Forrest! Thank you for writing me and sharing your experience. I am so glad we get to go along on your journey. Congrats on baby Forrest!

  • @undergroundfm4380
    @undergroundfm4380 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gonna be a father in June. Im excited and scared haha only 19 (20 when it's born) and not really sure what to do but I'm happy (:

  • @Paulie1978100
    @Paulie1978100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for this Jason! big up from Ireland 👍🏽 ☘

  • @lokologico
    @lokologico 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    first Baby due november, still a while! I do agree with empathy and im working on it hard :)

    • @fisherbrandon3449
      @fisherbrandon3449 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      We're expecting in November too we hope you have a healthy bundle of joy

  • @napat1695
    @napat1695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alright yeah helpful but I’m still flipping out about it. Maybe a bit more nervous now.

  • @NuclearMango
    @NuclearMango 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aug 19th. Most excited about being there for Her:)

  • @brysongmoney
    @brysongmoney ปีที่แล้ว

    I want to get prepared for it

  • @christophertarsitano269
    @christophertarsitano269 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sons gonna be here SOON.

  • @corytierney9318
    @corytierney9318 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Due in 10 days. Appreciate your videos, keep up the great work!

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congrats. Glad you enjoy the videos. Be sure to check out the free webinar

  • @lisathayer9170
    @lisathayer9170 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @brysongmoney
    @brysongmoney ปีที่แล้ว

    I am having a baby, me and my wife having a baby I am nervous they’re nervous. I doubt we need some help like what to do all that stuff.

  • @Fahad_mohamed12
    @Fahad_mohamed12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey dad university thanks for this beatiful tips.
    Me really im not close to become a father im 18 who is suffering his life
    Btw i saw this vedio from a somali famous drama on youtube [ haboon 2]
    Se:2 ep: 24 🙏

  • @SpareKingdom
    @SpareKingdom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Empathy ❤

  • @ghassanshleweet5961
    @ghassanshleweet5961 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thnx

  • @kevinkong6653
    @kevinkong6653 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t have a choice at this point

  • @Daddy-tg2oz
    @Daddy-tg2oz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    tks daddy

  • @royalpriesthood4120
    @royalpriesthood4120 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    By Godsgrace I am expecting two glorious Kings in April, little nervous cause I wasn’t necessarily raised by my Dad but my mum whose no more,am gona depend on God raise them the best in His honor🙏

    • @hannahandbrian404
      @hannahandbrian404 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Boy wish my mom was here to witness this mines come in December it been a month and we never until I made her take a test but I can agree with u it’s a lot of pressure of wanting to be not a good but a great father especially when u didn’t have one

  • @nathanthomas1742
    @nathanthomas1742 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have to be honest, it is worrying that we have to have empathy explained to us with a definition, examples etc.

  • @blbreptiles4126
    @blbreptiles4126 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love it

  • @brysongmoney
    @brysongmoney ปีที่แล้ว

    How do you send your revenue? I’m interested in them.

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  ปีที่แล้ว

      not sure what you are referring to?

  • @Fahad_mohamed12
    @Fahad_mohamed12 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @jerrychen6716
    @jerrychen6716 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @majinvegeta6364
    @majinvegeta6364 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Recycling a bunch of self-help platitudes 👎👎👎

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What were you expecting?

    • @majinvegeta6364
      @majinvegeta6364 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DadUniversity more