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  • @DadUniversity
    @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

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    • @Mitzu011189
      @Mitzu011189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its there anyway that you can put spanish subtitles into your videos? so I can share it here in México. I belong to Middle and low class society, most of my relatives dont know english.
      Thanks!

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have just started a Dad University en Espanol Channel: th-cam.com/channels/sn85a7482-ZY-sA1-R08Zw.html

  • @Benbidmead
    @Benbidmead 3 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Anybody else doing pre-baby research ? Ahah

    • @samueldormervil
      @samueldormervil 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Right here lol

    • @sbev2577
      @sbev2577 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yupp

    • @DennisHimself
      @DennisHimself 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Should be mandatory learning to graduate high school honestly

    • @Syeico
      @Syeico 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mhm

    • @user-cx9xn3lf1n
      @user-cx9xn3lf1n 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How your 2 year old doing bro? Was it harder than you thought?

  • @ProletarianPower
    @ProletarianPower 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    My first baby is due in 6 days. I'm so excited but also scared. Your videos help me feel a little better though.

  • @keithbelding3743
    @keithbelding3743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    So my wife and I are expecting our First in late November. I've found this channel and I'm really finding it informative. Thanks, man

    • @YNGBGENERAL
      @YNGBGENERAL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mines due November 14 congrats and this channel is clutch

    • @joshhamester
      @joshhamester 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@YNGBGENERAL November 2nd what up new dad's fam

    • @alexisroberts2177
      @alexisroberts2177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We’re due November 26th

    • @orpheus1662
      @orpheus1662 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We are due on November 16th what’s going on new dads

    • @zion8246
      @zion8246 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mine due October 9th I’m so nervous and excited

  • @tazblizzard
    @tazblizzard 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    43 year old Australian expecting my first baby. These videos are a bloody life saver! Thanks Dad U

    • @dangamble2073
      @dangamble2073 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How's it all going mate? I'm 39 and just found out the Mrs is pregnant!!

    • @AH-zd5ge
      @AH-zd5ge 14 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      Wow congratulations. I'm 43 as well 1st baby due in a 6 months

  • @leonardolelacher8383
    @leonardolelacher8383 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your videos are great! I am Leo, from Brazil and I was not finding too much content on the father’s perspectives! I am glad to have met you and the way you ended this video really got me! “You are here cause you care.”
    Awesome! I am 26yrs and my daughter Cecília is coming this Friday! Three days from now!
    Take care! 🙏🏾💚

  • @AdamHaycee
    @AdamHaycee 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Our first baby is due any day now. So many of these videos have been a great help to just focus on what I need to do as a dad. I'm assuming a lot will come through instinct but these videos are a good top up

    • @gabrielbernal3608
      @gabrielbernal3608 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My daughter was just born this morning. Idk why it took me so long. But I’m watching every video that I can while I have free time now lol

  • @bricelegendnducho
    @bricelegendnducho 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much,we want you back on this channel with your great advice and teaching

  • @FamBamHouse
    @FamBamHouse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My son was actually adopted without my knowledge, or consent upon birth. I ended up getting my rights back to my son, and won sole custody of him. I am only twenty years old and I’m just now having the chance to raise my son who is now going to be one year and four months old when I get him in October 22’. Thank you for this video!

  • @Oradat
    @Oradat 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m 34 expecting my first baby in November. Thanks for the videos. So excited to meet my son.

  • @user-kc7xk6wy2z
    @user-kc7xk6wy2z 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Our first, a little boy, is due mid-July. These videos are really helpful to get my in the "New Dad" mindset!

  • @abeleon82
    @abeleon82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hello Dads to be. I'm new in the club. Las night my wife gave me the FANTASTIC news of the coming of our first child. I couldn't sleep last night of excitement. I am experimenting mixture of feelings. Not overwhelmed yet, but feeling that something in me and my wife is different, good different. I hope I can share with you what I'm going through and get to know your thoughtful experiences as well. Great channel.

  • @anuvaofficial8377
    @anuvaofficial8377 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This has been the best advice ever! Thank you so god damn much man! I really truly appreciate it so much! I’m so excited for all the little moments and little laughs! Next Wednesday and we’re going in for an induction to meet our first ever daughter! And first ever baby! I’m so excited but so nervous! We’re prepared for everything else but I’m so nervous of what to do!

  • @ryanfry1390
    @ryanfry1390 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Expecting for January 30th, wasn't planned but I'm very excited :)

    • @r33p3r7
      @r33p3r7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Had mine on the 9th January. Congratulations bro x

  • @africanbeastify
    @africanbeastify ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Im most excited about holding her and kissing her 🥰

  • @awakstein
    @awakstein 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brilliant tips and I really need as much as I can get. I am an expecting father and my baby girl is due on Sep. 2022 and apart from being excited and super happy, I am also freaking out and shitting myself that I won't be able to do things properly. No matter how many times people tell you it is alright and you will be fine. It is terrifying, especially the part where you do not want to disappoint your wife.

  • @shawnweisner1788
    @shawnweisner1788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was so excited about haveing my first child hes 7 months now im new to this at beaming a first time father i also have ADHD short tenson span and terix at first when he would cry id yell cause i didnt know what to do but now when he crys i breathe Liseing to the sounds of water and ur vidoes help thank you

  • @obioraezeh6857
    @obioraezeh6857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's good to hear these things even though I've been saying to myself, it's good to hear it from a father. My best September yet is coming.

    • @Melbourne1992
      @Melbourne1992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congratulations to u and your family for your new baby

  • @RezemHQ
    @RezemHQ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Me and my wife are planning a kid now, I’m ready to be a great father!

  • @rickyvasquez5884
    @rickyvasquez5884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Definitely bonding with time & jumping into this role I love kids & always had dreamed of being a father so I’m ready to see how well or bad lol I can do thanks for the tips & advice

  • @TRJ2525
    @TRJ2525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just had our first baby this morning via c section. Everything went smooth and mom and baby are resting. Your videos have help SO MUCH the past few months. Just want to say thank you. Will definitely continue watching them as she grows up. I think the 2 things I'm most surprised about is 1- how much she sleeps! And 2- how wonky it is to actually pick up a newborn. Practice makes perfect I suppose!

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So awesome to hear that the videos helped. Congrats on the newborn!

  • @tyshawnwheeler9467
    @tyshawnwheeler9467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m super excited to have my first baby boy 6/17/21 . I can’t wait to start our new family 🙏

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congrats. It is an exciting time!

  • @raymondctchow
    @raymondctchow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this video. I enjoy looking at my baby smiles. I am just always worry that he will get sick

  • @lil_kadaver
    @lil_kadaver 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not a new dad but it's been almost 7 years since I delt with a new born and your videos already helped alot.... and helped me remember and realize alot of important things and aspects of having a new born and bringing them home and not stressing so much and allowed me to have the confidence that is needed.

  • @buffswagwell7230
    @buffswagwell7230 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm going to be a first time father at 41. I got a baby girl due in November

    • @montano336
      @montano336 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      40 here brother, greatest feeling of my life, especially not having had a father part of mine. In the end, if we focus on our child and commit to being present with them, we dads will figure everything else out with time. But can’t deny this looming first month is a little terrifying!

  • @JDWBS
    @JDWBS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just messed up big time with my toddler son and I was so down. After I thought I was doing everything right and somehow I just forgot the most important thing to do. Watching this video definitely helped me in starting to feel better. Especially, when you expounded on point #4. SO WELL APPRECIATED.

  • @aperez6775
    @aperez6775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks I've been trying some of your tips. Also been reading bruce lee books. They help alot

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is great to hear. Glad you are getting value from the videos.

  • @MrJose021292
    @MrJose021292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My son turns one tomorrow and familiarity cannot be understated. Taken him on a total 5 drives total drive time probably under 2 hours and. The last two times he has had a total freak out.

  • @kylesamuels3964
    @kylesamuels3964 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for these videos! 💯 I've watched nearly all of them now😜 in preparation of being a first time dad. The world has a huge FATHERLESS-NESS problem. And I respect every man who decides to take responsibility for their own lives and the lives of their children.

  • @stuartwatson3648
    @stuartwatson3648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Many thanks for postings. It’s probably the first TH-cam video I’ve watched and taken notes on

  • @illusive438
    @illusive438 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks man, these videos are great. Having my second child by the end of this year, and I really wish I had known of you during my first. Coming at it with a ton of confidence, and positive, helpful vibes this time. ( not saying I was horrible the first time around but I recognize where I had room for improvement. ) keep it coming Dad University!!!

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you. Having a second child is much easier from the "know what to expect" perspective. However they are all unique. Congrats and glad we are now along the journey with you!

  • @csawyer80
    @csawyer80 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We are about 1 week away from our daughter joining us. I am definitely excited to be able to able to bond with my daughter and establish a great friendship. My dad was not involved when I was growing up. For some reason, this has had me wondering if "I have what it takes". I think that is possibly from me simply not having those father/son memories. I am hoping that my wife and I can give our daughter a happy and healthy home as well as all the tools to succeed in this world.

    • @dkinley334
      @dkinley334 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dude. I have the same issue. I'm 22 and for the past 3-4 years I've highly doubted myself and wondered if I have what it takes to succeed and be a man in this current society. I grew up without my maternal dad up until about 11 years old, having my mother's boyfriends to be a kind of dad figure, some did better than others. I then proceeded to meet him, get to know him a bit and then moved in. roughly 9 years later im 22, married and recently found out we're expecting. My point is I'm glad to see there's someone who would understand me. I hope i bring you similar peace

  • @efish2968
    @efish2968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video popped up in my feed for a reason.... Thank you so much for what you do Sir.

  • @logan8984
    @logan8984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for what you do I'm a young first time father to be with past trauma and and I feel understood here

  • @michaelpellegrim5104
    @michaelpellegrim5104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for your videos🤙 about to be a first time father in May. Alot of positivity. Gonna be fun

  • @cruzbedreamin3700
    @cruzbedreamin3700 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Me and the mother of my child aren’t together but I honestly can’t wait to see my little girl

  • @jumarear
    @jumarear 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks. I recently became a father (11 march). This video is a great help

  • @alexeymolotkov9420
    @alexeymolotkov9420 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    We 9 days already on this earth-) My son doesn’t like to sleep on bed, only on me or on mammy-)
    about time one-to-one and organization schedule very powerful tips-), thanks from Switzerland

  • @RileyMillerVR
    @RileyMillerVR ปีที่แล้ว

    Been watching the channel for a few years on and off I’m 24 and me and my girlfriend are expecting our first child, I’m scared as hell but these videos are definitely helping me through it

  • @vilearninglife4723
    @vilearninglife4723 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great tips. As a first time mom, I feel all of these applies to me too. ❤️✨

  • @masondryden5381
    @masondryden5381 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My girls 6 weeks these videos are so helpful

  • @twofivestayalive7293
    @twofivestayalive7293 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Here doing pre baby research, love the content.

  • @DionaldysSalcedo
    @DionaldysSalcedo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey man thanks I’ve been having a heart attack each day for the last 9 months 🙏God bless you in Jesus name

  • @Sna_GG
    @Sna_GG 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My first born is due in 3 days.. Videos really help me calm down a little. Have any tips on getting used to a baby crying? I really really dont enjoy loud noises.

  • @sosoyona463
    @sosoyona463 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this Video love from South africa.... I am expecting next year April

  • @shakiemfoxworth8738
    @shakiemfoxworth8738 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well I never had a dad in my life so I'm new to this mean I love everything about being first time time dad I'm nervous and and sceptical about it but I'm going to be the best dad and I'm going to enjoy every single moment

  • @michaelstovicek7873
    @michaelstovicek7873 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m most excited to learn from my new child

  • @adamnuss90
    @adamnuss90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    great video. Empathy is neutral though, the word you are looking for is compassion. that is when you say "yea that sucks." People mess this up ALL the time so not a big deal.

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      According to the definitions, the differences are compassion involves the desire to help. I'm not seeing that with saying "yeah that sucks". I'm open to learning just not able to confirm what you mentioned.

    • @adamnuss90
      @adamnuss90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DadUniversity Dr. Paul Bloom a psychology professor from Yale explains it better, www.vox.com/conversations/2017/1/19/14266230/empathy-morality-ethics-psychology-compassion-paul-bloom

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks. Will check it out

  • @monkeystripper48
    @monkeystripper48 ปีที่แล้ว

    First day home from the hospital. It's 3am and definitely party time here lol.

  • @visionary84
    @visionary84 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this!

  • @r33p3r7
    @r33p3r7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you

  • @blitzinghalo1516
    @blitzinghalo1516 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m excited for the whole experience, still I’m the first trimester, you’re right I can do this I’m just scared of it

  • @aidanrowland7329
    @aidanrowland7329 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is perfect, subscribed bro! Just had my first kid this Christmas. 🌲

  • @javiercr8980
    @javiercr8980 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tip 5.

  • @JA-yq4bb
    @JA-yq4bb 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Last week June 24th. I enrolled to Dad University for my first semester. Daddy diaper duty in full effect

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you sign up for our course or you mean you became a dad?

    • @JA-yq4bb
      @JA-yq4bb 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DadUniversity Lol I became a new dad

  • @iosifbortan8572
    @iosifbortan8572 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I cannot wait to see my son in november .Great video sir

  • @Mitzu011189
    @Mitzu011189 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Muchas gracias... Your videos are changing my life... De corazón muchas gracias.

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      De nada. Estoy contento que mis videos te ayudan. (My son helped me respond as he speaks spanish :)

  • @thewashingtonfamily0124
    @thewashingtonfamily0124 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    just really spending time with the baby. Like bath time or just talking to them even if they can’t understand what im saying.

  • @logan8984
    @logan8984 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm most excited about her

  • @Matthew-uj5by
    @Matthew-uj5by ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just found out the wife and I are having a girl, our first and definitely a big change considering I’m the eldest of 5 boys with no sisters. I’m most excited to just hold her and be present in each of those moments, call me crazy but I look forward to changing diapers and waking up late to give her the love I never got.

  • @terrycrews1760
    @terrycrews1760 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Would love to hear more about you and your kids and what this looks like in real time/ real life. Have you ever considered doing this. Feels like it would make it easier to see this tips in action. New expecting Dad here. Love your videos.

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks. I agree it would be helpful but would need to hire actors. I don't post my children on social media or put them on video.

  • @beerdiaryshootinmcdaniel8063
    @beerdiaryshootinmcdaniel8063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    End of may first of june, I become a Dad to a daughter. Starting to freak, ha.

  • @dkinley334
    @dkinley334 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks man

  • @coldsolider
    @coldsolider 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im looking forward to having a really great relationship with my daughter and making her happy, and i wanna spend tons of time with her.

  • @timothybond4242
    @timothybond4242 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve found out recently that me and my wife are expecting and these tips are great, but I have a problem with comprehending my wife’s rants/issues. How do you recommend understanding when your partner is asking for advice or wanting a listener? I have a problem with trying to find a solution for everything and it makes her upset that I’m trying to explain what the issue was or I acknowledge her but don’t give her a solution when she wanted one? It’s really frustrating and I would like help.

    • @originallivster6783
      @originallivster6783 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ask her whether she wants you to simply listen or if she wants a solution. Just ask. And be kind.

  • @lokithecat2712
    @lokithecat2712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Every kid is different both my son and daughter didn't want mom from t be time they where born he's 18 months and have a 1 month old daughter she feels like they hate her they don't they just prefer dad everyday

  • @ejilock
    @ejilock 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So, any idea how to make baby stop crying even after he's breastfed and we changed his diaper? I'm guessing babies will cry for no apparent reason but what should dads do?

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He could have gas or be uncomfortable. Do you put him on an angle?

    • @ejilock
      @ejilock 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DadUniversity I haven't put him on an angle or anything yet. He's still inside my wife's uterus.

  • @machievilleclaxton8555
    @machievilleclaxton8555 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im nervous my girlfriend is pregnant and this is our first child I get emotional just thinking about it

  • @flyflm36
    @flyflm36 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dressing my child up. Drip or Drown

  • @mattybeans2322
    @mattybeans2322 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not sure how much I can trust this coming from a guy calling a baby “it.” would to call anyone else in your family an “it?” The wife was upset with me so I told it everything was going to be ok.

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, with hundreds of videos I am bound to say something that isn't perfect. But it is interesting that out of millions of views and thousands and thousands of comments, you are the first to make a comment about "it" :)

    • @mattybeans2322
      @mattybeans2322 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DadUniversity sorry i dont mean to be disrespectful and maybe i was a little harsh on my judgement on a guy dedicating his time to helping people :( I forget theres someone on the other side of the keyboard. I'm sorry, and keep up the good work.

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@mattybeans2322 all good. We all need to focus on lifting each other up. Glad to have you as part of the community.

  • @filipeats
    @filipeats 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your videos are good, but I feel you only need to watch one or two. All the others are remixes of the same tips.

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What subjects are you looking for? We cover many different topic areas.

  • @cherielizabeth3485
    @cherielizabeth3485 ปีที่แล้ว

    The poop

  • @curiousbillgentlebull5344
    @curiousbillgentlebull5344 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome videos always! Thank you for the tips. I love to see dads being awesome! As a dad to twin boys, I share ideas, tips, and tricks on my blog www.curiousbillgentlebull.com because it sure helps to be a part of a community where We can support each other and share our stories. You're all welcome to check out my blog.

  • @RussellDetablan
    @RussellDetablan 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks man! I've checked some of your videos and one thing that stuck with me is to 'Live in the moment' and just enjoy the quality time with your family and newborn baby. Make more videos, man! 🤗