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00:00 intro 01:10 buying too much stuff 02:33 not accepting help 03:29 being empathetic 04:47 thinking you should bond right away 06:00 calling it babysitting 06:32 comparing your baby 07:31 taking things personally 08:25 thinking you need to be perfect
It amazes us too :) The reality is that people need to be looking for this type of content and unfortunately not enough people do. It doesn't mean they don't need it, they just aren't searching.
I have a baby on the way and this is such a trip to me, I can build a house from the ground up but when it comes to children I’m completely clueless. Thanks for the invaluable content!
First time father here. I really appreciate your videos, you are a sensitive and kind man who has a lot to teach the new generation of fathers. Thanks for all your advise.
"LOVE THE CONTENT!! My son will be 11 months on the first and can’t thank you enough for your help!! 🚼 List below (Spanish Translation) . . . 1: Buying too much (Comprando demasiado) 2: Not accepting help (Aceptando ayuda) 3: Being empathetic (Tener más empatía) 4: Thinking you should bond right away (Pensando que necesitas una conexión íntima desde el inicio) 5: Calling it babysitting (Llamándole el cuidado de su bebé “babysitting”) 6: Comparing your baby (Comparando tu bebé) 7:Taking things personally (Tomando las cosas personalmente) 8: Thinking you need to be perfect (Pensando que tienes que ser perfecto)"
Dude, thank you for creating this content. I stumbled across this channel recently and its changing my life. Thank you, needed this to prep for my first baby on the way.
I’m going to be a new dad in 8 months, and a young dad, I’m turning 24 in April. This is all new for me, some friends have kids but I see them sporadically. We planned this, and we are really happy that we are having a child! It’s new, and definitely scary but your video’s are really soothing and reassuring. They are definitely worth watching and very intriguing as well! Keep up the great content and I hope to learn more from you!
Congratulations 🎉 👏🏽 How's it going? Hope all is well My wife tested positive last night 5 different tests confirmed it we've been trying for 7 years now we had a miscarriage 2 years ago and been trying every since just found out last night she has appointment October 16th last menstrual was July 30th so she's like 9 weeks along I can't wait 🫷🏽 I'm so excited but would be a lie if I said I wasn't nervous I just pray for a safe carry and delivery.
My baby is 5 days old, love him a bunch! And yeah would say it is a little bit longer for bonding with being a father, a tactical gear baby chest carrier would be great once he gets bigger lol
Thank you for the content. I’ve been watching since before my twin boys were born 14 months ago. Your advice has been invaluable. Finding ways with your partner to give each other breaks has been really helpful, even though with twins it can be hard early on when you pretty much have to run man-to-man. With twins it’s also really hard not to compare them to one another, but like you said, they all develop at their own rate. We had one of our sons crawling a couple weeks before the other, and I was getting nervous. Now they’re both bulldozing all over the place. Thanks again.
So glad you are part of the community. I can imagine twins is a handful and does make it harder to take breaks. Sounds like you are making a lot of effort which is great. Ahhh the bulldozing phase...that's just around the time of the open every single drawer phase!
Three months until my daughter is to be born. This video and a lot of the others has helped me immensely to be a whole lot calmer regarding this new stage in my life.
@@harryphillips2638 That’s amazing man! We're expecting a son in August- my first! I feel totally unprepared. Excited times though! Love these Dad videos and comments they're priceless
@@nathanfulcher538 MASSIVE congratulations to you! Believe me I was unprepared too but you learn to adapt very quickly. You’ll be absolutely fine. Good luck with everything.
I appreciate the information ℹ️ im gonna be the best Father always there supportive loving honest this is a true blessing we had miscarriage 2 years ago 💔 My wife tested positive last night 5 different tests confirmed it we've been trying for 7 years now we had a miscarriage 2 years ago and been trying every since just found out last night she has appointment October 16th last menstrual was July 30th so she's like 9 weeks along I can't wait 🫷🏽 I'm so excited but would be a lie if I said I wasn't nervous I just pray for a safe carry and delivery
I am a first time Dad and my daughter is so far then amazing and beautiful and I've had a rough time with having her at the mother's house due to the cats there I feel cats are a big deal around newborns
Every woman doesn’t bond right away… it’s not always an emotional connection… nothing is wrong with any of you… The kids are both parents kids… they should share the work load… as well as the housework… and meals.. it both parents share the workload! Babys are used to hearing mom’s heartbeat… so it is always calmer with the mother… bond more with your baby in utero… if baby hears your voice it’ll bond with you before birth…
Always insightful and I did get quality advice in this video for 6 year old girl ans my newborn twins! Yeah its a bit wild ova here, come check us out! New episode realeasing today!
Must say: great content. Really. Loving the content, just really: your loud man. Like. This topic is beautiful so the high tone, alpha american guy vibe is too much. You sound like Kasey Casey from American top 40. Annoying tone! If you can chill a bit, would be better. Gentleness is good. Not everyone is super pumped up on coffee and american alpha republican vibe bra!!!! Chill!!!! Aloha
Hey Guys, hope you enjoyed learning what first time father mistakes to avoid. If are ready to become the best version of yourself as a father and want to go from confused to confident, you would love my Parenting Program. Book a call with us to learn more: www.daduniversity.com/application/?=ytc137
00:00 intro
01:10 buying too much stuff
02:33 not accepting help
03:29 being empathetic
04:47 thinking you should bond right away
06:00 calling it babysitting
06:32 comparing your baby
07:31 taking things personally
08:25 thinking you need to be perfect
Never thought I'd take dad advice from Tom Cruise 😂
Haha. Thanks!
"Love the child you have, not the one you want" Love that
It amazes me that millions of babies are born every year and this video only has 20k views…
It amazes us too :) The reality is that people need to be looking for this type of content and unfortunately not enough people do. It doesn't mean they don't need it, they just aren't searching.
I have a baby on the way and this is such a trip to me, I can build a house from the ground up but when it comes to children I’m completely clueless. Thanks for the invaluable content!
I need lots of lessons. My wife is six weeks pregnant. And figuring out how to be a good Dad peaks my mind all day. I pray I do it well
You can do it!
my wife is 10 weeks and i am already talking to my child and telling him/her i love you
First time father here. I really appreciate your videos, you are a sensitive and kind man who has a lot to teach the new generation of fathers. Thanks for all your advise.
"LOVE THE CONTENT!! My son will be 11 months on the first and can’t thank you enough for your help!! 🚼
List below (Spanish Translation) . . .
1: Buying too much (Comprando demasiado)
2: Not accepting help (Aceptando ayuda)
3: Being empathetic (Tener más empatía) 4: Thinking you should bond right away (Pensando que necesitas una conexión íntima desde el inicio)
5: Calling it babysitting (Llamándole el cuidado de su bebé “babysitting”)
6: Comparing your baby (Comparando tu bebé)
7:Taking things personally (Tomando las cosas personalmente)
8: Thinking you need to be perfect (Pensando que tienes que ser perfecto)"
I have just started a Dad University en Espanol Channel: th-cam.com/channels/sn85a7482-ZY-sA1-R08Zw.html
Thanks for the tips! Will be very helpful when my first born arrives!
Great advice! Ty
Dude, thank you for creating this content. I stumbled across this channel recently and its changing my life. Thank you, needed this to prep for my first baby on the way.
I’m going to be a new dad in 8 months, and a young dad, I’m turning 24 in April. This is all new for me, some friends have kids but I see them sporadically. We planned this, and we are really happy that we are having a child! It’s new, and definitely scary but your video’s are really soothing and reassuring. They are definitely worth watching and very intriguing as well! Keep up the great content and I hope to learn more from you!
Congratulations 🎉 👏🏽 How's it going? Hope all is well
My wife tested positive last night 5 different tests confirmed it we've been trying for 7 years now we had a miscarriage 2 years ago and been trying every since just found out last night she has appointment October 16th last menstrual was July 30th so she's like 9 weeks along I can't wait 🫷🏽 I'm so excited but would be a lie if I said I wasn't nervous I just pray for a safe carry and delivery.
Very helpful. Thanks. Was making all these mistakes. My baby is 2 weeks old. Appreciate it
My wife and I ate welcoming a little girl in the world in a couple of weeks. Great video!
First time dad of an 9 hr old baby boy and already this helped
Glad you enjoyed it! Welcome to the community
We are expecting - August due date - and I am beyond excited, nervous, and excited again. These are helpful tips
5 months and I’ll be a dad, absolutely pumped! Happy to have stumbled across this channel subscribed instantly, great content thanks man 👍🏼
Congrats. Glad to be along with you for the journey
Going to be a dad soon.. Just found this Channel, and its helping me a whole lot. Thanks
Great tips
First time dad. Baby girl was just born and this video helped alot.
"Taking things personally" is something I definitely did wrong. Thanks again!
Expecting my son in March and I appreciate this content. Makes me more confident going into it!
you got this!
My baby is 5 days old, love him a bunch! And yeah would say it is a little bit longer for bonding with being a father, a tactical gear baby chest carrier would be great once he gets bigger lol
Respect to this dude
My first baby is due on 9/23/21. These videos are helping. I’m very anxious about caring for a new person. It’s very scary.
Congrats my baby is due 9/17/21 lol
Congrats my baby is due 23/2/23 am very anxious too
less than 10 days and my sons due date! This will be my first!
Thank you for the content. I’ve been watching since before my twin boys were born 14 months ago. Your advice has been invaluable. Finding ways with your partner to give each other breaks has been really helpful, even though with twins it can be hard early on when you pretty much have to run man-to-man. With twins it’s also really hard not to compare them to one another, but like you said, they all develop at their own rate. We had one of our sons crawling a couple weeks before the other, and I was getting nervous. Now they’re both bulldozing all over the place. Thanks again.
So glad you are part of the community. I can imagine twins is a handful and does make it harder to take breaks. Sounds like you are making a lot of effort which is great. Ahhh the bulldozing phase...that's just around the time of the open every single drawer phase!
@@DadUniversity so.. is this "bulldozing phase" optional?? :P (lolll), could I skip it with my twins? #expecting :D :P
Expecting my first child (daughter) tomorrow! - Been watching these videos throughout the pregnancy and I will continue to, thank you!
Sam Praying favor for you guys!
I thought your profile pic was a hair on my screen that I couldnt get off for bout 10 seconds. Thanks
Amazing things Prof! I will definitely purchase the bare necessities. I'll be a dad sometime around Oct 1!
Same lol march 2022
Feb 26th 2022 !! Congrats fellas we got this shit !!
One month left to have my baby girl arrive. Writing down here everything you say! 💪🥋🤓
Congrats! Great be part of your journey. Enjoy it!
Congrats!
@@DadUniversity thank you!
@@x..x141 thank you!
Congrats I just had my baby boy last night
Man. This video is so legit!!!
Thank you bro. I tend to take things personal. I am going to work on the that, it is not about me the baby is trying to survive in this world.
Wow this video very helpful!.. I'm going to be first time dad, my son will be due on June 20, 2020..I'm so nervous!.. Your videos are so helpful..
Any advice since your one year in
@@hvac1017 it stressful I’m just now learning #1 balance
We want grandparents around after the birth for help because we'll I have no idea what I'm doing. Lol
Three months until my daughter is to be born. This video and a lot of the others has helped me immensely to be a whole lot calmer regarding this new stage in my life.
That is so great to hear. Let us know if there are any topics you want us to cover.
Due Date September 1st . Anxious hahaha
Love to be a dad😊
Fantastic content yet again!!! 4 months to go till my little girl arrives. Hope all is well.
Thanks for the feedback. It feels like forever during this time but once they are here it goes so fast!
How's the journey so far?
@@nathanfulcher538 absolutely fantastic. Cannot imagine a time without her. Absolutely in love!!!
@@harryphillips2638 That’s amazing man! We're expecting a son in August- my first! I feel totally unprepared. Excited times though! Love these Dad videos and comments they're priceless
@@nathanfulcher538 MASSIVE congratulations to you! Believe me I was unprepared too but you learn to adapt very quickly. You’ll be absolutely fine. Good luck with everything.
I appreciate the information ℹ️ im gonna be the best Father always there supportive loving honest this is a true blessing we had miscarriage 2 years ago 💔
My wife tested positive last night 5 different tests confirmed it we've been trying for 7 years now we had a miscarriage 2 years ago and been trying every since just found out last night she has appointment October 16th last menstrual was July 30th so she's like 9 weeks along I can't wait 🫷🏽 I'm so excited but would be a lie if I said I wasn't nervous I just pray for a safe carry and delivery
Perfectly❤️ 💛 💚 💙 💜
Kudos to chancellor or Dad university! 😜
Random thought. Anybody else think this dude sounds exactly like Rob Lowe?
I'll take it :)
I am a first time Dad and my daughter is so far then amazing and beautiful and I've had a rough time with having her at the mother's house due to the cats there I feel cats are a big deal around newborns
When youre a professional dad*
Every woman doesn’t bond right away… it’s not always an emotional connection… nothing is wrong with any of you…
The kids are both parents kids… they should share the work load… as well as the housework… and meals.. it both parents share the workload! Babys are used to hearing mom’s heartbeat… so it is always calmer with the mother… bond more with your baby in utero… if baby hears your voice it’ll bond with you before birth…
Always insightful and I did get quality advice in this video for 6 year old girl ans my newborn twins! Yeah its a bit wild ova here, come check us out! New episode realeasing today!
Guilt is my middle name. That must mean I am a normal dad.
Bruh, im 19..
Must say: great content. Really. Loving the content, just really: your loud man. Like. This topic is beautiful so the high tone, alpha american guy vibe is too much. You sound like Kasey Casey from American top 40. Annoying tone! If you can chill a bit, would be better. Gentleness is good. Not everyone is super pumped up on coffee and american alpha republican vibe bra!!!! Chill!!!! Aloha
this dude is like 65.
Wow I look that old? That sucks!
No way he looks
65
@@DadUniversity no buddy you don't. He's being a pecker head. Appreciate you.
VASECTOMY IS THE WAY TO GO BOYS @/stop THE BABY TRAP. @/stop THE CHILD SUPPORT.# GET A VASECTOMY AND KEEP YOUR MONEY.