Anytime I’ve compared myself to others, I’ve felt less than. Until I realized that the only person I should compare myself to, is the person I was yesterday. No matter what you compare, you will always find someone richer, better looking than you, has a nicer car, has a better (fill in the blanks). And it's totally pointless. When I began focusing on the idea of going to bed better than I woke up, basically making sure that throughout day I do things that make a better version than the one who woke up that morning, then life really began to change for me. Focus on you and your own progress. Run your own marathon!
I feel like anytime we give ourselves the opportunity to DO something that our initial reaction to was “I can’t’”, it is a huge confidence boost. Even if doesn’t go perfectly or even particularly well you are still proving to yourself that you CAN. And you didn’t die. This on repeat is how I’ve built my confidence.
Bro, if i won that amount, i wouldnt tell my best mate. I wouldnt tell anyone. People see you different when you have money, and instead of seeing you for you, see you as what can i get from you.
Confidence doesn’t mean being perfect or always knowing the answers. It’s about trusting in our ability to learn, grow, and handle whatever comes our way
No, not really. He wanted her to let herself take up space and be loud. She doesn't HAVE TO be loud all the time to seem confident. It's just so she'll able to be both without overthinking and stressing out. It's not about "force this behaviour every time without much thinking" but about "feel the emotions that arise from going out of your comfort zone, let yourself process them, then repeat until it no longer causes fear"
but genuinely, acting confident makes you more confident. Its how i improved my social anxiety too, just tried to act more confident and eventually i felt more comfy
So everyone knows the real key to confidence to prove to yourself that you are capable of doing something by doing it over and over again. But what if I do it and fail over and over again 😂
If I won that or earned that. I literally don't have anyone I would WANT to tell. I'd prefer to keep it quiet... Take it slow, selly car or trade it in for something like a simple truck,... Slowly appreciate my own grief overtime and help everyone who helped me,.. just be humble about everything. I wouldn't act out. I'd appreciate the blessing and help others, make sure I prioritize and not be selfish.
Yoo I'd take confidence tips from this guy ! Seriously ! I mean leaving the house dressed like that, with that hair line to speak on a stage ... damn he must have confidence in abundance! I need the secret
Some people are not as extroverted and enjoy things more quietly. They are different ways of expressing happiness. I don’t know how this is supposed to be encouraging.
When we are alone we are the world's most confident person but as soon as we have to do the same on stage or in public i just donno where the confidence goes 🙂
How I boost my confidence -in midst of the crowd -talking stranger -talking opportunity I'll think about good happens to myself like for example: ur mom about to buy u a new phone or u got goods news like ur having a picnic tomorrow or ur about to eat something good after that events
Confidence doesn’t mean raising your voice in public… this is why the world is suffering today cuz any on of idiots in social media can come up and say garbage things
I wouldn't be calling my so called friends.. I KNOW THEM!.. I received a small life insurance policy check when my husband passed away..... Phone rang off the hook,despite none of them showed up to help take care of him when I needed them them most... So yeah..... F em
That doesn't boost my confidence. I'm not calling my friend to tell them. I'm not telling anyone. I'm just going to give it and help others. Not a good example for confidence.
Come on you're just making her feel like she is supposed to react in a certain way and it makes her even more confused. What if her natural reaction just happens to not be loud and crazy? And you made her feel like she's not doing it right if she doesn't get loud and crazy. And that last attempt that you and everybody applauded was a fail and you know it.
I disagree. She obviously went to that talk because she feels like she lacks confidence. Her reaction at the end was clearly a lot more expressive than previously and she looked happy from it. She wouldn't be on that stage if her natural reaction was quiet. I know what you mean but I just disagree.
hey Julien I felt terrible all my life does it possible that life can be a happy place or what because I have never experienced any happiness just 10% of my life I think
You have the ability to make your life more happy. It's not easy especially if you have a difficult environment. Maybe there's a problem deep within you that makes you feel less happy?
The solution to the human problem is NOT within yourself. "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28) Man is a sinner, and sinners need the redeeming grace of God. ALL the problems in the world, involving humanity, are cause by sin. YOUR sin causes YOUR problems with yourself and others. Sin is what sinners do. In order to not sin, you MUST be changed from a sinner to a saint. This happens through Jesus Christ, who died on the cross and resurrected three days later, and promises that "Whoever believes in me and Him who sent me HAS eternal life. He does NOT come into judgement. . ." (John 5:24) Then, once you are born again into the family of God and are a child of the Heavenly Father, you will receive the Holy Spirit. HE will produce in you "love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, goodness, faithfulness, and self control." (Galatians 5:22-23) Pursue the Lord, your Maker, and HIS Kingdom and righteousness. Jesus promises that everything else, which this internet guru tries to SELL you, WILL be given to you from the Father (Matthew 6:33). If you will not repent and follow Jesus in all He says, the Bible says there is NO peace for the wicked, and ONLY the judgement of Hell remains.
@@blackout2430 the Kingdom of Heaven is only within you once the HOLY SPIRIT indwells you. He only does so after you repent of your sins and turn to the Father through Jesus Christ in faith, and submit to Him as your Lord and Savior. The solution is outside yourself, and then He comes inside you and changes you by grace.
Huh? 500 million would make anyone confident. Why wouldn’t she confident talking to a friend about that? He’s not coaching confidence, thats coaching for excitement and enthusiasm. She said “Wooooo” and that’s supposed to represent confidence? Enthusiasm and confidence are distinctly different things.
Well, if faking it until you make it was an Olympic sport, I'd have a gold medal by now! Confidence may not always come naturally, but it's all about embracing the power of pretending. So, here's to faking it and becoming the confident superstar we all aspire to be! Cheers!
We all have confidence... The problem is that most of us are HIDING it! ⚠️
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Nice😊
I would actually be more excited if someone loved me the way I love them.
The one you should love the most is God Allah only
Then your self
Then The others
And Allah loves his creations
You obay Allah with love 🌸
@@nonom.a7035 stop pushing your religion on others
@@nonom.a7035 my neck my back.
@@nonom.a7035 wrong
@@nonom.a7035let’s not push religion onto strangers on the internet yeah. Actually fuck off with the religious bs and find peace in yourself
Anytime I’ve compared myself to others, I’ve felt less than. Until I realized that the only person I should compare myself to, is the person I was yesterday. No matter what you compare, you will always find someone richer, better looking than you, has a nicer car, has a better (fill in the blanks). And it's totally pointless. When I began focusing on the idea of going to bed better than I woke up, basically making sure that throughout day I do things that make a better version than the one who woke up that morning, then life really began to change for me. Focus on you and your own progress. Run your own marathon!
Thanks you. God bless❤️
Thanks❤
That's some true Monk wisdom. You seem like a truly knowledgeable person imo. You love reading don't you?
thanks so much
And the. The next level up is realizing you don’t even need to beat the you of yesterday. You don’t need to qualify to exist ever
I feel like anytime we give ourselves the opportunity to DO something that our initial reaction to was “I can’t’”, it is a huge confidence boost. Even if doesn’t go perfectly or even particularly well you are still proving to yourself that you CAN.
And you didn’t die. This on repeat is how I’ve built my confidence.
This is a really good frame to have. Focusing on any wins you actually made rather than how you didn't do it 'perfectly'
That’s really great advice
Can you please tell how much time it took you to build confidence were you tried on daily basis or oftenly?
Bro, if i won that amount, i wouldnt tell my best mate. I wouldnt tell anyone. People see you different when you have money, and instead of seeing you for you, see you as what can i get from you.
same!! it would feel wrong telling someone about it
if that's ur case..u need to get good mates and be around people who genuinely love you for what u are.
@@AAK64824bro, no matter what ppl r ppl
Good luck with that bro. @@AAK64824
@@AAK64824 All people are shit
Confidence doesn’t mean being perfect or always knowing the answers. It’s about trusting in our ability to learn, grow, and handle whatever comes our way
this isn't how to be confident, this is how to act confident
Fake it till make it.. that's the way
No, not really. He wanted her to let herself take up space and be loud. She doesn't HAVE TO be loud all the time to seem confident. It's just so she'll able to be both without overthinking and stressing out. It's not about "force this behaviour every time without much thinking" but about "feel the emotions that arise from going out of your comfort zone, let yourself process them, then repeat until it no longer causes fear"
I mean it’s pretty meta, she is physically incapable of even acting confident because she’s not confident in her acting
but genuinely, acting confident makes you more confident. Its how i improved my social anxiety too, just tried to act more confident and eventually i felt more comfy
Then you have to tell us what is the other way to do that
I like the approach.
Excellent job from her 👏🏻
It's not easy to open up like that in front of others.
"I just won 500 million, and sir I'm going to buy you a new shirt for your presentations."
Lil bit of acting 101. Love it. Embody the energy, feel it, exude it.
Its not acting its self help content
The Excitement of the Thought brought me the feeling of Joy✨☀️
Wow, so we usually boost our self-confidence unknowingly, thank coach ❤
I feel so much more confident after watching!
I would be already this happy if I had a friend to call
To be confident, you have to believe you’re confident
I feel so much more confident with this now.
So everyone knows the real key to confidence to prove to yourself that you are capable of doing something by doing it over and over again. But what if I do it and fail over and over again 😂
If I won that or earned that. I literally don't have anyone I would WANT to tell.
I'd prefer to keep it quiet... Take it slow, selly car or trade it in for something like a simple truck,... Slowly appreciate my own grief overtime and help everyone who helped me,.. just be humble about everything. I wouldn't act out. I'd appreciate the blessing and help others, make sure I prioritize and not be selfish.
If I had won a 500 million in cash..I would never tell my friends..😂
It's about getting out of your comfort zone...and getting comfortable being uncomfortable. 😊
“Confidence is everywhere, you just have to look for it” - a wise person.
Yoo I'd take confidence tips from this guy ! Seriously ! I mean leaving the house dressed like that, with that hair line to speak on a stage ... damn he must have confidence in abundance! I need the secret
I ain't tellin' nobody, even if I won just 1 million xD
Some people are not as extroverted and enjoy things more quietly. They are different ways of expressing happiness. I don’t know how this is supposed to be encouraging.
By release in action-trigger-release-repeat, do you mean release the feeling in meditation or is there some other way to do it?
Here's the process that I use for this: www.julienhimself.com/8p
@@JulienHimself thanks!
@@CreeperShortstell me about that video too please?
You love yourself and be confident 😁❤️🔥
I wouldn't share that information with anyone, plane to a private island is waiting already
When we are alone we are the world's most confident person but as soon as we have to do the same on stage or in public i just donno where the confidence goes 🙂
Do things and get them done. Then confidence will build up by itself
Phone:“ring ring”
Me: (as soon as my friend picks up) AAAAAARRRRRRGGGGGGHHHHHHHHH
He should be “whoa! I’m not embarrassed by my haircut”.
What does he mean by action trigger release and repeat ?
Fantastic ❤
i know i love her outfit. Girl that top wow so cute. U look great ❤😂🎉
Watch the full video before putting in your two cents, my friends.
13:27 second language
Action trigger release. Good model, cheers julien
What does he mean by trigger and release
They taught me to be so quiet.((
How I boost my confidence
-in midst of the crowd
-talking stranger
-talking opportunity
I'll think about good happens to myself like for example: ur mom about to buy u a new phone or u got goods news like ur having a picnic tomorrow or ur about to eat something good after that events
Felt like this didn’t sell that well
Yeah but she did a better job than she did in the beggining
Great technique. I will rewatch the video until I fully extracted what to do with the content of it besides boosting your confidence.
"It's my money and I want it now!"
Maybe I don’t get it but how does this help.
I don’t think like everyone so left behind a lot.
Confidence doesn’t mean raising your voice in public… this is why the world is suffering today cuz any on of idiots in social media can come up and say garbage things
Thank you 🙏
O cried when my mum wanted me to perform for her because I can’t gain enough courage to not cry
He just made her he louder , someone can say that in a normal tone and be happy on the inside it’s not about how loud you are
I wouldn't even tell myself i won $500 let alone that ridiculous amount lol
I'm finally confidence, after losing 70 pound and take care of my face and dress nicer and about to ask out my co worker who I have a crush on..😂
The reality set in b4 she reacted
What if a person is emotionally numb and have no feeling of happiness. Why fake it?
Bro pack your bags we going Bora bora
Bro, some people authentically don't get that excited over that shit....the stoics stayed even keel
I wouldn’t tell anyone… I’d just keep it to myself and let people figure it out on their own 😏
I wouldn't be calling my so called friends.. I KNOW THEM!.. I received a small life insurance policy check when my husband passed away..... Phone rang off the hook,despite none of them showed up to help take care of him when I needed them them most... So yeah..... F em
If I made $500 million, I wouldn't tell anyone. I don't want to be a target.
thank you
Wow this is Great
Good thing always come naturally
That doesn't boost my confidence. I'm not calling my friend to tell them. I'm not telling anyone. I'm just going to give it and help others. Not a good example for confidence.
Her name ?
Thanks!
You're welcome!
Come on you're just making her feel like she is supposed to react in a certain way and it makes her even more confused. What if her natural reaction just happens to not be loud and crazy? And you made her feel like she's not doing it right if she doesn't get loud and crazy. And that last attempt that you and everybody applauded was a fail and you know it.
felt
You are right , I agree with you
I disagree. She obviously went to that talk because she feels like she lacks confidence. Her reaction at the end was clearly a lot more expressive than previously and she looked happy from it. She wouldn't be on that stage if her natural reaction was quiet. I know what you mean but I just disagree.
I dó agree with this! Something felt off in this video and the ‘inspirational guru’ moment at the end was way to forced. Couldn’t buy it
I love her noodles hair 😅😅
But how can I imagine even I don't know how many zeros in 500 million😅😅😅
I'd literally text my friends and family
A perfect short
I don't knkw how does this vedio is related to confideince
hey Julien I felt terrible all my life does it possible that life can be a happy place or what because I have never experienced any happiness just 10% of my life I think
It is DEFINITELY possible, if you have the right tools and guidance... Let me know if you'd like my help: application.julienhimself.com 🙏
You have the ability to make your life more happy. It's not easy especially if you have a difficult environment. Maybe there's a problem deep within you that makes you feel less happy?
I think $500 mil would help with my confidence lol
The solution to the human problem is NOT within yourself.
"Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28)
Man is a sinner, and sinners need the redeeming grace of God. ALL the problems in the world, involving humanity, are cause by sin. YOUR sin causes YOUR problems with yourself and others. Sin is what sinners do. In order to not sin, you MUST be changed from a sinner to a saint.
This happens through Jesus Christ, who died on the cross and resurrected three days later, and promises that "Whoever believes in me and Him who sent me HAS eternal life. He does NOT come into judgement. . ." (John 5:24)
Then, once you are born again into the family of God and are a child of the Heavenly Father, you will receive the Holy Spirit. HE will produce in you "love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, goodness, faithfulness, and self control." (Galatians 5:22-23)
Pursue the Lord, your Maker, and HIS Kingdom and righteousness. Jesus promises that everything else, which this internet guru tries to SELL you, WILL be given to you from the Father (Matthew 6:33).
If you will not repent and follow Jesus in all He says, the Bible says there is NO peace for the wicked, and ONLY the judgement of Hell remains.
The kingdom of heaven is within. So he’s not totally wrong
@@blackout2430 the Kingdom of Heaven is only within you once the HOLY SPIRIT indwells you. He only does so after you repent of your sins and turn to the Father through Jesus Christ in faith, and submit to Him as your Lord and Savior. The solution is outside yourself, and then He comes inside you and changes you by grace.
@@JesusChristWayTruthLife777 amen
Waw so true
Bit%^ I'm not telling anyone. I'm expressing that to myself!! 🤗
Right. If I won 500million I’m taking a seat and planning, not a word out of me
Bro I don’t even have a bestie let alone a friend 😢
I'm exactly like her
I wouldn’t say shit about the 500million I’m living on down low
Huh? 500 million would make anyone confident. Why wouldn’t she confident talking to a friend about that? He’s not coaching confidence, thats coaching for excitement and enthusiasm. She said “Wooooo” and that’s supposed to represent confidence? Enthusiasm and confidence are distinctly different things.
Man acting school seems kinda hard
So money makes you more confident. Lmao.
Is this an acting class?
She was telling like a child got 1 dollar bill in his pocket
And in the end confident
I think she did not like the amonunt of money thats way she did not react enthusiastically
Shit i belived and bought stuff now I’m overdraft
And this is exactly why you don't have those 500 million dollars
Umm...literally didnt do anything for me
I won 500 mil, wait....taxes... shit
Where is my money then 😅😅😅😅
Fuck money 💰
bro I have not see you since RSD , you let yourself go pull it together brother
WHAT ARE THOSE!?!
It's a load of bollocks, your innerself knows it isn't true. Just like saying all those posative words that aren't true. You know it's BS
Peopke Who Had Motor Impulses Are Nerds😂
My main worry is I feel I’m too late. The people I surround myself with I’ve already messed up my first impressions with them
Why is he wearing a maternity shirt 😅
???
I never knew it
but I didn't win 500 mil
This is how to be awkward
She is so beautiful ❤❤❤ Please help me find her guys. Connect me to her. Guys please help me. 😮
You just fake it
Well, if faking it until you make it was an Olympic sport, I'd have a gold medal by now! Confidence may not always come naturally, but it's all about embracing the power of pretending. So, here's to faking it and becoming the confident superstar we all aspire to be! Cheers!