My husband do the same things with me he first did not allow me to continue my job now he demands me stop using mbl phone sale it if you do not do this do not expect anything from me also says if you go to anywhere even though wedding events wear burkha
Leave him live your life in same house you think you married to one dog don't consider has human love yourself too much take care of yourself and your health don't bother your husband think in mind he is servant and money gathering machine you came to seek love it is not given means its not your fault use himh as money machine
I see a lot of ladies going through this torture with their husbands who are just husbands by marriage and not by nature, care or affection. Have gone through this in the past but once I understood I deserved better and started to stand up for myself and let go of the need for love and validation from him I could get out of that hell. I am a much happier person today because of 100% self love, self care and gratitude for life in general. Ladies, please value yourself and be courageous to stand up for yourselves when needed and continue to have a positive outlook on life. The men will understand that life doesn’t revolve only around them and their needs eventually.
Yes...my husband fight trying to kill me...hit me..... dominating me....dont go wrk....dont go out....dont eat dis n dat.....im mother of 2kids....I just keep quiet bcoz of my kids.....I filed a complaint in police....
My dear beautiful hurt souls your happiness is within you love yourself and shine each day you dont need anyone to put a value on you you are strong brave and beautiful never allow anyone to make you feel small dont dont allow it fight your way up by being bold each day you shall feel your strength shine shine shine .be a strong happy you live among the thorns and weeds but remind yourself each day you are a flower keep blooming smile the universe will send you every thing ❤
All this survived.. Not standing by loosing myself, one day i by myself go and admit myself in mental hospital. Then all the ones and no matter husband wiill be relieved. But i will get my freedom atleast. Would spend my time atleast by serving those special humans instead of this fake abusive relationships
My husband don't understand me nor listen to me and appreciation is far behind. Toxic relationship and everyday he pull me down by talking or even sometimes infront of his family 😢
I am in a loveless marriage..I feel like killing my self sometimes but because of my daughter I don’t do this .. I got married very early in my early 20 s under family pressure I regret my decision now ,I won’t do this to my daughter
Mmm, good.But the same thing happens with educated, love married,late married women also. Actually it depends on his mind whether truly he values his marital life. Whatever may be in such situation self dependence becomes a great support
I have a incident I don't know I am wrong or right my husband wants me attend a special puja with my in laws that's I agreed and ready to attend but my wish to go to my parents house aswell for few days and I don't want to take more than 10 days for leave and he wants me to stay with his parents for whole 10 days and no taking any interest that I want to stay with my parents house aswell . His mom and dad are doing fine on terms of health and I never refused to serve them still ,Since he married to me he don't respect what I want if his parents expressed.any desire that's going to kill my desire he is always without any hesitation willing to do it , He don't care how hurt I'm .
Foundation is marriage not good 1 - Reason got married - that reason will let people suffer not person ... So take our power within us ... Its challenging but it can happen only if we do meditatio. Anapanasati budh dyan gives strength to see with clarity
My husband does the above, he also never tell me about phone call, msgs,chats, he says its his privacy. He hides his salary.he says im useless, waste etc. Since im not working im useless. Ishud not ask any question. I don't have any right as a wife. Please give me suggestion as im getting suicidal thought help
Try to be financially independent. Always pray to Allah. Try to make conversations about your feelings. Let him know. If nothing works, get separated for few days and Observe him if he cares. Life is long. Best wishes 🎉
Get a hobby, start loving yourself, dress up, go out with friends... If cannot divorce, just treat him like a housemate, ignore him... Soon you'll be a happier person Very soon, his curiosity will be pique...
The most important point....when he can't stand for you whether it is public or family, definitely that time he doesn't deserve you.
He does all this to me.. But outsiders he is helpful kind and compassion person.. People don't belive if I tell them he doesn't value me 😢😢😢
Same with my husband also dear.. Don't worry.. V should b strong❤
This happens with me as well..This kind of people are dangerous..they have 2 faces.my husband is also same
My husband do the same things with me he first did not allow me to continue my job now he demands me stop using mbl phone sale it if you do not do this do not expect anything from me also says if you go to anywhere even though wedding events wear burkha
Leave him live your life in same house you think you married to one dog don't consider has human love yourself too much take care of yourself and your health don't bother your husband think in mind he is servant and money gathering machine you came to seek love it is not given means its not your fault use himh as money machine
Same with me
I see a lot of ladies going through this torture with their husbands who are just husbands by marriage and not by nature, care or affection. Have gone through this in the past but once I understood I deserved better and started to stand up for myself and let go of the need for love and validation from him I could get out of that hell. I am a much happier person today because of 100% self love, self care and gratitude for life in general. Ladies, please value yourself and be courageous to stand up for yourselves when needed and continue to have a positive outlook on life. The men will understand that life doesn’t revolve only around them and their needs eventually.
Yes...my husband fight trying to kill me...hit me..... dominating me....dont go wrk....dont go out....dont eat dis n dat.....im mother of 2kids....I just keep quiet bcoz of my kids.....I filed a complaint in police....
All the points relates to my life... I thought Im the only one who is facing this mental torture but i see so many like me... 😢
Me also
Better you ignore him
Physicaly mentally spiritual prepare yourself be strong.......busy yourself...
Me too
Me too😢
I too face same prblm every day
All the points are related to me.
My dear beautiful hurt souls your happiness is within you love yourself and shine each day you dont need anyone to put a value on you you are strong brave and beautiful never allow anyone to make you feel small dont dont allow it fight your way up by being bold each day you shall feel your strength shine shine shine .be a strong happy you live among the thorns and weeds but remind yourself each day you are a flower keep blooming smile the universe will send you every thing ❤
All this survived.. Not standing by loosing myself, one day i by myself go and admit myself in mental hospital. Then all the ones and no matter husband wiill be relieved. But i will get my freedom atleast.
Would spend my time atleast by serving those special humans instead of this fake abusive relationships
Is she can get letter of protection
My husband don't understand me nor listen to me and appreciation is far behind. Toxic relationship and everyday he pull me down by talking or even sometimes infront of his family 😢
exactly me too he always insults in front of my son and everyone in fam
I don't understand the psychology of marriage they just get marry and doesn't even think to bother about us😢
Add one more - never accept his fault or rude behaviour
yes . They blame others, never accept their mistakes. They play victim.
Yes
It's a blessing in disguise he said divorce as mentally i am much better and happier🥰👍
We cant do much in India. Mental divorce is better. But very difficult when living under same roof.
@@Quotablequotes99 what is the exact thing you are trying to say sir
This is how my das is to my poor mom. I can't stop crying when i think about it
Wow my husband had all the stated qualities & still kicking with it!
My husband is doing all this with me since 32 years alongwith an affair but to save our family and daughters in laws family,i have suffered a lot.
❤Thank you very much sincerely for the wonderfully informative video. ❤
I am in a loveless marriage..I feel like killing my self sometimes but because of my daughter I don’t do this .. I got married very early in my early 20 s under family pressure I regret my decision now ,I won’t do this to my daughter
Mmm, good.But the same thing happens with educated, love married,late married women also. Actually it depends on his mind whether truly he values his marital life. Whatever may be in such situation self dependence becomes a great support
I feel the exact way
Married man like other women only not his wife
Hushband is slow poison
Most of the husband's be like that, even my husband too,my daughter is my strength.
I wish someone values me 😢
That’s my situation right now and I’m getting suffocated 😢
No woman will stay with a man who do not value her
As appreciation is needed for a wife to stay
I get more than 💯
My husband value his sister and her 2 sons both oast mid 30s and uses me to make her happy her husband is a free loader
Everything
All are infinity % same true in my husband
Yes , my husband is doesn't value me....... All points related to my life..... My life is waste...... 😢😢😢
I have a incident I don't know I am wrong or right my husband wants me attend a special puja with my in laws that's I agreed and ready to attend but my wish to go to my parents house aswell for few days and I don't want to take more than 10 days for leave and he wants me to stay with his parents for whole 10 days and no taking any interest that I want to stay with my parents house aswell . His mom and dad are doing fine on terms of health and I never refused to serve them still ,Since he married to me he don't respect what I want if his parents expressed.any desire that's going to kill my desire he is always without any hesitation willing to do it , He don't care how hurt I'm .
Even me also same feeling I my life toxic husband and his parents and sister also😭😭i am also suffering same problem,
Fghtback u knw who u r don stay just like mahan fight bck nd tell him u nvr buy me i can fight bck m not servant tell him
My husband does all this.
BUT
where is the 11th sign?
Foundation is marriage not good
1 - Reason got married - that reason will let people suffer not person ... So take our power within us ... Its challenging but it can happen only if we do meditatio.
Anapanasati budh dyan gives strength to see with clarity
What is the eleventh sign
Me b same things face kr rhi hu
😢😢😢😢true
My husband does the above, he also never tell me about phone call, msgs,chats, he says its his privacy. He hides his salary.he says im useless, waste etc. Since im not working im useless. Ishud not ask any question. I don't have any right as a wife. Please give me suggestion as im getting suicidal thought help
Try to be financially independent. Always pray to Allah. Try to make conversations about your feelings. Let him know. If nothing works, get separated for few days and Observe him if he cares. Life is long. Best wishes 🎉
Don't think about suicide. Ut life is valuable for u. Iam in same condition. My hus many times ask to me why didnt do suicide? I don't mind it.
Try to live your life sister.You deserve a lot.I m suffering thr same.Dont chase him for love.
Get a hobby, start loving yourself, dress up, go out with friends...
If cannot divorce, just treat him like a housemate, ignore him... Soon you'll be a happier person
Very soon, his curiosity will be pique...
Leave him
😮Wow!
I see myself here
😊
This is my entire life 😭😣 I am miserable
😭😭.
Same here
My husband is the same.
Waise ye Abdul jee ki baatein nhi hai
All this is happening in my life 😢
What's number 11?
He does all these 😢
My husband do all this thing and beat me insult me
I like number 9
❤️
Ah the power of one
I like that! 👍🏻😁
My husband do this all.. Choti choti bat pe gali deti hai .. Bachi ho gayi income nehin karti hi isliye nikal nehin pacrahi hu
you sure dr. abdul kalam said this? i thought he was unmarried
Living with a covert narcissist.
They do all this to his wife...But loves others wife...if his wife like other. It is wrong
Lies to you should be on the list
I guess he values me then😮
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11 signs that you are insecured about your partner
I hate 11 ,I hate orange, I hate yellow
Bye mere se matlab rakh ne ki zarurat nahi bye