Don’t be sad… pray & ask God to help you begin to evaluate honestly, get books, listen to positive & beneficial TH-cam videos, be curious to understand why you do certain things, etc
It has nothing to do with what kind of woman you are, it all depends on the man you're with, if he's willing. You can be the queen of all there is and still a man may not see it. Be yourself, the right one will stay and won't be able to live without you.
There's no perfect relationship. It’s common for relationships to hit rough patches, yet there’s always a way to move forward. My own marriage faced serious obstacles, but with the right support, my wife and I overcame them and grew closer. With effort and teamwork, solutions are possible. Don’t give up-answers are attainable.
I’m struggling with significant issues in my relationship and can't imagine losing her. I love and miss her so much, and I’m prepared to do anything to bring her back into my life. I’d be very thankful for any help or advice you could offer.
Releasing the grip on someone dear is always tough, but in my scenario, I was fortunate to have the counsel of a spiritual guide who preserved my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
So so appreciate you. You are amongst the very few who actually tell people to work on the relationship rather than completely giving up and separate. Many people like u have saved relationships and thankfully their kids are also fine.
Well let me tell you - I have always been the type of woman with the 5 traits you describe, and both my ex-husband and ex-partner abandoned me because I was too independent: they felt I didn’t need them and wouldn’t notice if they were in my life or not! What I’ve learned is that men don’t want long-term any more: they just suck the energy out of a woman then abandon her (usually just when she needs him the most) and monkey-branches to his next conquest. Be who you are, sod them, and make a happy life for yourself, ladies. They’ll end up sad, broke, lonely old players: it’s called karma!
I love these teachings... I completely agree. A woman of value is confident in herself! I've learned a lot over the years, after my divorce. It made me look ar myself & what I wanted in my life. I have a new bf and he adores me just as I am! ❤
It's only applicable for real man who have the same qualities. A lot of man are intimidated by confident women. They want women to need them. I got told that a lot that I'm too independent and they felt that I didn't need them.
Thank you for sharing your experience you’ve made some valid points. I believe a healthy strong man will appreciate a women who can be independent and not feel intimidated.
I quite like your podcast and the subject chosen today. It's my first time listening to you. Keep up the good work. In many cases, I noticed independent women tend to think too much of themselves, often turning off the man. No man wants to feel smaller than their woman. They need to have a true balance in everyway.
I’m everything you said in your video & yet it’s amazing how many men don’t see value in who I am & all that I bring to the table for some reason. I am a feminine woman who also owns a successful business to boot! I think it’s because they are suffering from missing out on the next pretty face on dating apps. They act like they are confused, directionless & lacking understanding of what they want at 55-60 years old 😮 Maybe they have never been exposed to so many beautiful women in one place (apps) it just scrambles their brain. 🤷♀️ I’ve never seen anything like it !
How - right You ARE ! She wants the Best - this means sssshe needs to become the Best of herself ! yes a passionate woman - WHO light-up her soul - what She enjoys what her soul loves doing. How beautiful - what You are dis-playing - You are so wright. Independent - Goals - Ambitions - a woman being- a Goal-Getter - she Does - what it needs - ! This is vry Great what you are Doing ! Thank You VERY MUCH !
Really liked this. Resellience compassionate and caring in myself as a woman I have found beneficial inside and outside of work for the care I provide to my myself, my family and my job, nurse 😇
Wow!!! well said ty for your great wisdom and positivity and strong words of love and confidence you have shown authentic and strong, you really are."" Keep up the good works. I'm looking forward to hearing more of your wonderful words of encouragement in your future videos. God bless you. 😊❤ 🎉
I agree.But different strokes for different folks.Different man want different things in a woman.It differ according to their background , their upbringing and where they are from.
Sometimes one would find it easy to continue being themselves if there’s room to. How does one come out when down trying to please partner who let you fall and when you try to get up, he doesn’t have energy, time and patience? I guess, you stop trying.
I learn’t to get on with my life within the marriage, men do. Don’t make them the centre of your attention. Make you number one. Stop doing everything for him he’s a man not a child.
I was a young girl I saw many toxic couples fighting men cheating and hitting woman treated like slaves put me off .when grew up I never forget that .I met men and and that exactly what I saw and that's why I rather live single and prioritize me cause I rather be happy with a peace in mind and have freedom to do whatever I want in life to be independent.
In our society no body let the women do what she wants, she have to do all the things in accordance her in laws and dear hubby.. so there is no chance of be herself and independent.. also in that situation no one can be stay calm, kind and positive 😢
Ruzina, I agree but in 90% because I had a stressful time and people could connect with me better. By saying we should always be happy bunny - we feel objectified ..
For men : Being rich is most important trait women can't resist For women : Being high on character and purity is what any man can't resist ... These add value to a man and woman
Nah I think being super rich for a man is like a girl being super pretty. Surefire way to generate alot of attraction definitely, but also superficial. What all these other qualities like character, purity/loyalty, competency, confidence, etc adds value, depth and longevity to the attraction, man or woman.
@@Jkove attraction is desire driven and feminine men are simps and followers ...women get bored of such men easily and these men like everything like hot ,beautiful, independent and working woman who has tattoos, lots of colors she use and don't want kids or marriage or commitment
Hello Rozi , my hero !!! i love your contents ! But can you make your background less busy . I like it to be brighter and less busy . Take care !!! ❤❤❤
Its better to be in a good relationship. Glorifying single life and subconsciously seeking power over men by rejecting them isnt it. We are interdependent.
❤😢 thanks ma'am it's 💯 present ture... Am d. Woman die 4... Mine MAN.. BECAUSE OF HIM AM... ALIVE NOTHING AM IF HES NOT LOVE CARE ME...? THANK YOU 🙏👍 YOU
In short,if you r not disturbing in any thing, definitely,you feel to other good!!,beautiful and independent!! but what r the responsibilities of men!! according to religen if men is able so,is there need of women to go out side for any work!! Most respected men do not like this!!
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1) working on yourself
2) passion about something
3) calm
4) independence
5) kind and positive
I guess I'm the exact opposite of these :(
It’s things we can all work on 🙌
It’s all a process boo
Don’t be sad… pray & ask God to help you begin to evaluate honestly, get books, listen to positive & beneficial TH-cam videos, be curious to understand why you do certain things, etc
6, accept yourself doesn't need validation for her insecurity
I guess I have been dating unhealthy men. My ex spoke all of these things about me and he loved them. Yet, he still cheated
I just realize I'm everything on this list ... I'm a brand new woman 🥰🙏💕
Smiley Big 😊
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Loving myself too💃😉
Ur not a women ur silence killer want anman to be her slave no bloody will be
Mcruell out soft fake but want others have to be slave just go
It has nothing to do with what kind of woman you are, it all depends on the man you're with, if he's willing. You can be the queen of all there is and still a man may not see it. Be yourself, the right one will stay and won't be able to live without you.
I agree, authenticity is the key, the right person will connect to it, just persevere and not take things personally when it feels like “rejection”.
There's no perfect relationship. It’s common for relationships to hit rough patches, yet there’s always a way to move forward. My own marriage faced serious obstacles, but with the right support, my wife and I overcame them and grew closer. With effort and teamwork, solutions are possible. Don’t give up-answers are attainable.
I’m struggling with significant issues in my relationship and can't imagine losing her. I love and miss her so much, and I’m prepared to do anything to bring her back into my life. I’d be very thankful for any help or advice you could offer.
Releasing the grip on someone dear is always tough, but in my scenario, I was fortunate to have the counsel of a spiritual guide who preserved my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'll quickly search for her online. Thanks. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring me the results I desire; I miss her greatly.
You definitely should
So so appreciate you. You are amongst the very few who actually tell people to work on the relationship rather than completely giving up and separate. Many people like u have saved relationships and thankfully their kids are also fine.
Love yourself so when a partner leaves, wish him/her well and continue to invest in yourself
Yes 💯 ❤️
I have never chased a guy...good advice
Yes Never pull away thats all ❤🎉
I am proud to say I am and everyday I am become the best version of myself ❤
Yes! 💯
Well let me tell you - I have always been the type of woman with the 5 traits you describe, and both my ex-husband and ex-partner abandoned me because I was too independent: they felt I didn’t need them and wouldn’t notice if they were in my life or not! What I’ve learned is that men don’t want long-term any more: they just suck the energy out of a woman then abandon her (usually just when she needs him the most) and monkey-branches to his next conquest. Be who you are, sod them, and make a happy life for yourself, ladies. They’ll end up sad, broke, lonely old players: it’s called karma!
Yes look you are correct
💯%
I'm with you on this
I love the kindness and something in your voice, that' s a mirror of your soul.Thank you!
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I love these teachings... I completely agree. A woman of value is confident in herself! I've learned a lot over the years, after my divorce. It made me look ar myself & what I wanted in my life.
I have a new bf and he adores me just as I am! ❤
Thank for sharing this ❤️
Great 👍
It feels good to hear someone describe who exactly you’re 🥰. I’m humbled to have all the qualities.
This message just encouraged me. Needed to hear this and it's all so true. Thank you Ruzina🤎🤎🤎
You are very welcome ❤️
This echoes a lot from a guy friend of mine of what he looks for in a woman. In his words:
Personality, intelligence, great smile, kind & confident 😮
That’s the trick, good healthy men.😅
It's only applicable for real man who have the same qualities. A lot of man are intimidated by confident women. They want women to need them. I got told that a lot that I'm too independent and they felt that I didn't need them.
Thank you for sharing your experience you’ve made some valid points. I believe a healthy strong man will appreciate a women who can be independent and not feel intimidated.
I agree.
Yes its all true 💖 these are the most important and basic things all women must work on.
I am on the right track. Thank you for sharing 💞
Glad to hear 🙌❤️
I quite like your podcast and the subject chosen today. It's my first time listening to you. Keep up the good work.
In many cases, I noticed independent women tend to think too much of themselves, often turning off the man. No man wants to feel smaller than their woman. They need to have a true balance in everyway.
I absolutely agree it is about balance 💯
Wonderful video🙏 thank you so much Ruzina for sharing this❤
I am a spiritual, courageous , passionate and independent woman
in Love with myself❤
So glad you enjoyed it ❤️ and yes you are 💯 🙌
Be the type of woman you love...the rest will follow.
RIGHT ON!! 👍💫 ❇ Beautifully Said!!! Tk U for sharing!! ♥
I’m everything you said in your video & yet it’s amazing how many men don’t see value in who I am & all that I bring to the table for some reason. I am a feminine woman who also owns a successful business to boot!
I think it’s because they are suffering from missing out on the next pretty face on dating apps. They act like they are confused, directionless & lacking understanding of what they want at 55-60 years old 😮
Maybe they have never been exposed to so many beautiful women in one place (apps) it just scrambles their brain. 🤷♀️ I’ve never seen anything like it !
Hello Teresa this is interesting & thank you for sharing this insight 🙌
How - right You ARE ! She wants the Best - this means sssshe needs to become the Best of herself !
yes a passionate woman - WHO light-up her soul - what She enjoys what her soul loves doing.
How beautiful - what You are dis-playing - You are so wright.
Independent - Goals - Ambitions - a woman being- a Goal-Getter - she Does - what it needs - ! This is vry Great what you are Doing ! Thank You VERY MUCH !
I completely agree on this points.. thank you ❤
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Post divorce I am practicing these 5 things and have never been happier!
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I agree with your video, because I am a woman who always work for my own, and I help my husband to support our family 🙏🙏💪💪
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Thank you. You are amazing this video was so so great. ❤
So glad you found it helpful ❤️ 🙌
Yes thanks true love about topic have see you
Thanks a lot, from Tonga 🇹🇴
Thank you for watching ❤️
This was a truly great video! I totally agree with what you stated about confide t women and how they think!
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Really liked this. Resellience compassionate and caring in myself as a woman I have found beneficial inside and outside of work for the care I provide to my myself, my family and my job, nurse 😇
Wow!!! well said ty for your great wisdom and positivity and strong words of love and confidence you have shown authentic and strong, you really are."" Keep up the good works. I'm looking forward to hearing more of your wonderful words of encouragement in your future videos. God bless you. 😊❤ 🎉
Thank you for this beautiful comment & and I hope you can continue to enjoy future videos 🙌 ❤️
Good Healthy Men
☝🏾very important
Perfectly said- Thank you.
You are so welcome glad you found it helpful ❤️ 🙌
I process all the listed qualities and most of my relationships endured. Most of my ex wish for continuity even without intimacy, we relate real good.
I agree to some of these thing's. However, often when a woman is self sufficient, men are intimidated by this.
Thanks for very beautiful sample lesson ❤
You are very welcome ❤️ 🙌
Wonderful advice 👏 👌 Thank you
You're so welcome!
Beautiful video! ❤
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I got all this except calmness.. Am working on it 🎉 the passion ❤ everytime am focus on my passion. His more chasing me 🤗👑
Yes we have all things to improve on 🙌🙏
👏👏👏👏👏👏excellent speech fascinating 👏👏👏👏
Thank you for watching 🙌❤️
I love all the tips , thanks
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Very good point I found it very interesting that the person I’m ❤💯👍🙏
Thank You so much!!!
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Very useful dear.Thanks for giving me new ideas and making me believe that I am not wrong many of the times.
You are very welcome so glad you found it useful 🙌❤️
That is so true
Love your video
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I agree.But different strokes for different folks.Different man want different things in a woman.It differ according to their background , their upbringing and where they are from.
Thank you very much it’s so lovely, God bless you ❤️
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👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏wonderful advices !!!!👏👏👏👏
Uuuuh,
I am more than enough already!
The world out here makes women worry for 😢 things that ain't of value,
Thx
Sending you my love too it was very inspiring I love ❤️ ❤❤ it 👍💯🙏
So glad you found it helpful ❤️ 🙌
I have literally lost myself, not even l can recognize myself. I feel my passion died.
Enjoyed this video
I agree 💯
New sub! Love your messages ❤
Thank you for subscribing 🙌 ❤️ hope you continue to enjoy the videos 😊
Nr 3 i need to work on it 😅
Very helpful content
Very true
100% true
This is me, you are actually describing me. Thanks.
Sometimes one would find it easy to continue being themselves if there’s room to. How does one come out when down trying to please partner who let you fall and when you try to get up, he doesn’t have energy, time and patience? I guess, you stop trying.
I learn’t to get on with my life within the marriage, men do. Don’t make them the centre of your attention. Make you number one. Stop doing everything for him he’s a man not a child.
Good video Ruzina 💐
Thank you for watching 🙌❤️
Very on point!
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I am already all of this 😊❤
Thank you 😊❤
You are very welcome 🙌❤️
Love it!
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Hello Rozi , my hero !!! i love your contents !
Thank you for watching always 🫶❤️
exactly ❤
Some men don’t like a woman to be to dependent either . I’ve been there both ways and my last relashionship he told me I was to independent.
I belive healthy men will appreacite and value independent women.
I was a young girl I saw many toxic couples fighting men cheating and hitting woman treated like slaves put me off .when grew up I never forget that .I met men and and that exactly what I saw and that's why I rather live single and prioritize me cause I rather be happy with a peace in mind and have freedom to do whatever I want in life to be independent.
Those 5 qualities mirror myself as a man...Where mi Empress at !!
In our society no body let the women do what she wants, she have to do all the things in accordance her in laws and dear hubby.. so there is no chance of be herself and independent.. also in that situation no one can be stay calm, kind and positive 😢
absolutely brilliant ! thank you 🤍 i hope to see more great content from you ! blessings 🤍
Thank for this comment 🫶❤️
That's me all within me❤😂😂
THANKS DEAR
I have a lot to work on.. tears 😢
No one is perfect. We all have areas to work on 🙌
Fantastic ❤❤❤❤❤
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Good
My ex boyfriend is Punjab he treated me like a queen because he would do anything for me but sometimes rude as hell 🤣
Ruzina, I agree but in 90% because I had a stressful time and people could connect with me better. By saying we should always be happy bunny - we feel objectified ..
Thankyu for your amazing coarch
So glad you found it helpful ❤️🙌
I have all that unfortunately i dont want the man
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@jenniehaque most times I am not bothered to try that hard
Really nice dear
You are so gorgeous
pray 🙏 ❤️
It's me❤❤❤❤💯💯💯👍👍👍👍
For men : Being rich is most important trait women can't resist
For women : Being high on character and purity is what any man can't resist ...
These add value to a man and woman
Nah I think being super rich for a man is like a girl being super pretty. Surefire way to generate alot of attraction definitely, but also superficial. What all these other qualities like character, purity/loyalty, competency, confidence, etc adds value, depth and longevity to the attraction, man or woman.
@@Jkove attraction is desire driven and feminine men are simps and followers ...women get bored of such men easily and these men like everything like hot ,beautiful, independent and working woman who has tattoos, lots of colors she use and don't want kids or marriage or commitment
@@Jkoveperfect. Internal values are important
Love this ❤️
Rich men are attractive because it shows they're hard working and intelligent and ambitious which are mportant qualities in a man and also very sexy.
Hello Rozi , my hero !!! i love your contents !
But can you make your background less busy . I like it to be brighter and less busy . Take care !!! ❤❤❤
Point number 4 is me
Its better to be in a good relationship. Glorifying single life and subconsciously seeking power over men by rejecting them isnt it. We are interdependent.
Not everyone is lucky to be in a healthy relationship. The rest are toxic which should be avoided.
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New subscriber here🌹♥️. I love your content. Are you on Spotify? Thank you!
🙌❤️ hope you can continue to enjoy the content thank you for subscribing. I currently do not have Spotify but it may be something I consider soon!
❤😢 thanks ma'am it's 💯 present ture... Am d. Woman die 4... Mine MAN.. BECAUSE OF HIM AM... ALIVE NOTHING AM IF HES NOT LOVE CARE ME...? THANK YOU 🙏👍 YOU
Some of us have all this and still, after time goes by, partners end up cheating.
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I have met who is jealous of all these things.
I don't feel worthless without a man, but I understood that I am one of few...guy are cheap.
Background needs to be calming. The candles are nice!
Noted i’l bear this in mind 😊
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In short,if you r not disturbing in any thing, definitely,you feel to other good!!,beautiful and independent!! but what r the responsibilities of men!! according to religen if men is able so,is there need of women to go out side for any work!! Most respected men do not like this!!
Really once you focus on yourself. Your man will find someone else more younger and available for him. It’s just a saying to make a video
Not necessarily