Well said Matthew. Too many young girls think that they are not worthy and sex will make him like her. It’s really sad to see as I work with the teenagers.
I agree. Advertising and music have really screwed up girls' expectations. Sadly, it has screwed up boys' expectations, too. Some of those girls probably can't get a date unless they undervalue themselves. It's tragic.
The major problem is actually finding anyone, let alone more than one. I am 69, single for 3 years. Have tried going/ doing various things...met a few " nice" guys but no one wants commitment, or is not bitter from previous relationship.
That’s how I was as a teenager… absolutely no self worth and would have sex with anyone who gave me the slightest bit of attention… now 43…. Facing divorce… rebuilding myself… starting to value myself… learning boundaries and self worth
@@KM-rm9kn Why are the parents not teaching their daughters (and sons) not to do that? I do not understand. Why are these conversations not happening anymore? They sure used to...
Thanks Mat! Perfect timing🤩 I just stepped into this mindset 3 days ago my hot and cold man came to see me today and said you look different. He kept staring and said your eyes are different. You look fierce like don’t f* with me. You look...Beautiful! There is no one like you. I said I am different and I am the best! You will never find a woman as good as me. I will not take cr*p from anyone again especially you. He was Gaga over me after this, confessing how much he loves and appreciates me! Even talking about marriage now!
Matthew, I made myself sacred by wanting to wait. Learning who they are before i lay with them. Has shown me ALOT. I missed wasting my sexual energy on men who arent that nice.
@@MatthewCoast your videos are so incredibly helpful Matt, thank you so much for doing them and offering them to be accessible. They are incredibly grounding and so good for us to hear these messages from a man.
Hi Matthew: Just wanted to say that, for one reason or another, I haven't been able to follow your videos for a while! But your edition where mentioned that as a woman, I need and should see myself as being sacred, caught my attention! You passed on some very important information and insights to us, and I was very interested in what you had to say. I am 74, so probably quite a bit older than your average client or follower, but nevertheless, I will now begin to see myself in a new light, and become more aware of my value and hold my standards up to always regarding myself as sacred, just as you spoke about. I had always been, generally, slim for most of my life, but as of about 3 to 4 months ago, because of a medication which I started taking, I have gained around 14 - 15 lbs, and have had difficulty in adjusting to this new weight, at least for the time being! So I am slowly learning to appreciate my new current self and body, and telling my consciousness that I can still feel sexy and attractive, and valuable while I work at getting back to my normal self! Thanks very much for your wise words of encouragement and enlightenment that I found in this video!
I might add, a strong woman doesn't need a man to validate them! A woman who loves n respects herself, understands her worth, knows her value, has her independence. has a lot to bring to the table in a relationship!! The biggest love anyone can have is their first, THEMSELVES 😍 ANYTHING that comes in above n beyond that is a bonus! A balanced, secure woman, vs insecure needy, A real man will see the value even if the needy one is the better looking!! The power n confidence in a woman is attractive 😍 BE STRONG SET BOUNDARIES WOMEN OF THE WORLD!!
Hi, I really like what you have to say. I am a mature woman who has been out of the dating scene for a while. I like to travel a lot but due to the pandemic that is on pause. So I have been doing some online dating. I find that the men are extremely pushy and/or manipulative in trying to put me in a situation I don't want to be in. I am a mature woman and I am not interested in putting up with their sh*t. I am doing a lot of walking away...lol...Anyway, my point is that what you are saying is relevant to older mature daters, just as much as the younger ladies. Thank you.
wow, what a special message, thank you for bringing out these godly traits. This is almost holy and we see so little of this in this corrupt world of sexuality
Flirting in front of me or engaging with another woman that I later discover will be a definite close of the door because that is what brought me the problem the first time around and I for being so young (19 y/o) did not know how to handle the situation and did not set strong boundaries while being girlfriend boyfriend and then it seeped into marriage and yesterday I was at the office completing my divorce. The benefits will only come after marriage, no time sooner.
Thank you Mathew for your videos, love this video in regards to believing I’m sacred and having standards when trying to establish a relationship with a new man in my life.
If a man opens a door for me, I give him my smile, if he doesn't, I stay and wait. When a man on a date doesn't open the door in a car for me, I just don't move from my seat.
Love that u focus on how everything is *sacred* 😊 🙌 💖 Also, how hookup culture is detrimental to individuals and society & undermining meaningful connections.
@@MatthewCoast is there any coming back when they leave? This guy and I have been talking so much for the last two weeks and felt like there was such a great connection. He said it too. We both felt like we knew each other forever. He even talked about future trips and being together. He got a promotion snd is moving closer to me in the next week or two. He has said how lucky he was to have me. We were supposed to meet on vday. But two days before he all of a sudden shut me out. For no reason. I talked to him and he said he just got scared. Too much too soon. But he was one pushing. I wish I had held things back but all was going so well. Any coming back? I really miss him.
He also said he didn’t think he could have a relationship while he was moving. So I’m hoping he just needs some time because things were so much for both of us. We talked from when we woke until we crashed lol off n on.
@@SuperSutterfield well don’t act avail & like you’re waiting for him. If he sends you a message just let him know you’re dating at the moment. Maybe he was testing you when you two had convos about all these fast moves. The less avail you are the more they will chase you. Works like a charm
Matt has lots of videos on this topic. Give him space, keep busy and happy being who you were before him. If you love him set him free, if he returns he’s yours if he doesn’t he never was.
you are amazing young man, my hat goes off to you, the respect you have for women shows in your words, you are obviously a gentleman in touch with your emotions, taking a stand for other men that feel the same way!! RESPECT 🙏 ❤❤
First off I want to be paid for my singing like I was told I was going to be so I am supporting myself and not dependent on a man and so that I am feeling good about myself which is what I deserve. I don’t have enough brain cells left after dealing with men and singers and their promises that never happen to deal with men and the games they play and keep up without it causing me more brain damage.
Thank you, I like your set of questions to ask ourselves. I've written them down and have decided I will do what you suggest, focus on one or 2 every day, see what answers they throw up and enjoy this chance to focus, n feel and receive
Hi Matthew, Your talks are really awesome & inspiring. All make sense & so true. Women are usually so emotional & down to the earth that they put themselves the 2nd person in relation. The way that you teach us is putting ourselves in first position. Thanks a lot for sharing your concepts & your videos. 🙏🙏🙏
Great Judge Caprio! Lovely, informative Chinese man. Wouldn't it be lovely if your sense and end product of "justice" rubbed off on them, (the Chinese, etc.,), creating a much greater sense of "justice that is fair" because you incorporated so much more of the "contextual" things that have a positive or negstiv effect on each individual's case. Beautiful to see you give respect and understanding etc., isn't it? Thank you Mr wonderful Judge man. Maybe every nation will copy your sense of obvious "fair Law", so to speak. Thank you Judge Caprio!😁 Have a wonderful week and life! 😘
Thank u Matthew love this🙏I AM SO MUCH MORE THAN SACRED. I AM RADIANT LOVE. I AM A MULTIDIMENSIONAL BEING HAVING A HUMAN EXPERIENCE. ..... GOD CREATED ME THIS WAY 🥰🥰🥰🥰 Julietree 💔🥀💔
I’m a bit too open and transparent in my communications.,I’ve certainly not given myself away easily or chased him.,he told me he has Axminster emotional range. He was right. He is bad at communication based intimacy.. once he made me cry with some heartless talk about the non existent future that was more than a decade ago. However I did ask he what he was looking for at the outset and he said he wanted to feel wanted and cared for
I like the concept of dating multiple guys to create abundance, but I have no energy and time while full time working, so it needs to be one by one. I tried it before, it is just not possible, too much scheduling and then I get all mixed up who is who... 🤣🤣🤣
More recently he gave up having a bank account knowing I could would Snd did pay for everything:,the luxury hotels we hooked forcourctimectogether. One thing I didn’t like was that he never once gave me even a daffodil or a chocolate for my birthdayd
I’m in the uk just looking at some of the videos of broadcasters I enjoy dr grande Andrea Ali you I was married for 26 years and have two adult children.,I had a relationship with a younger nan( now in his mid fifties) for over a decade until 2020it contradiction. He hasn’t communicated with me on any decent or respectful level since august 2020. I’ifcits overcok but it would be better manners to say so. I’ve never done the things you advise against. I knew that guy for 15,years before our relationship began. vesatisfying in a lot of ways but he has a totally unregulated temper and csn not tolerate any contradiction or disagreement
I concur.
Be VERY selective about who you open yourself up to.
Well said Matthew. Too many young girls think that they are not worthy and sex will make him like her. It’s really sad to see as I work with the teenagers.
I agree. Advertising and music have really screwed up girls' expectations. Sadly, it has screwed up boys' expectations, too. Some of those girls probably can't get a date unless they undervalue themselves. It's tragic.
The major problem is actually finding anyone, let alone more than one. I am 69, single for 3 years. Have tried going/ doing various things...met a few " nice" guys but no one wants commitment, or is not bitter from previous relationship.
That’s how I was as a teenager… absolutely no self worth and would have sex with anyone who gave me the slightest bit of attention… now 43…. Facing divorce… rebuilding myself… starting to value myself… learning boundaries and self worth
@@KM-rm9kn Why are the parents not teaching their daughters (and sons) not to do that? I do not understand. Why are these conversations not happening anymore? They sure used to...
Thanks Mat! Perfect timing🤩
I just stepped into this mindset 3 days ago my hot and cold man came to see me today and said you look different. He kept staring and said your eyes are different. You look fierce like don’t f* with me. You look...Beautiful! There is no one like you.
I said I am different and I am the best! You will never find a woman as good as me. I will not take cr*p from anyone again especially you. He was Gaga over me after this, confessing how much he loves and appreciates me! Even talking about marriage now!
I wouldn’t want to even date anyone that didn’t see relationship as sacred ☀️ thanks for bringing this to the forefront. That’s where it belongs!
Matthew,
I made myself sacred by wanting to wait.
Learning who they are before i lay with them. Has shown me ALOT.
I missed wasting my sexual energy on men who arent that nice.
an eye-opener 🥺 thanks for not getting exhausted with us who ALWAYS forgets to remember the main points of life 😅
Will always be here to help, Farwah
@@MatthewCoast your videos are so incredibly helpful Matt, thank you so much for doing them and offering them to be accessible. They are incredibly grounding and so good for us to hear these messages from a man.
A good refresher
Totally Patience With Us Is Way Cool 😎 Thank U🤗Hope Everyone's Doing Well
Hi Matthew:
Just wanted to say that, for one reason or another, I haven't been able to follow your videos for a while! But your edition where mentioned that as a woman, I need and should see myself as being sacred, caught my attention! You passed on some very important information and insights to us, and I was very interested in what you had to say. I am 74, so probably quite a bit older than your average client or follower, but nevertheless, I will now begin to see myself in a new light, and become more aware of my value and hold my standards up to always regarding myself as sacred, just as you spoke about. I had always been, generally, slim for most of my life, but as of about 3 to 4 months ago, because of a medication which I started taking, I have gained around 14 - 15 lbs, and have had difficulty in adjusting to this new weight, at least for the time being! So I am slowly learning to appreciate my new current self and body, and telling my consciousness that I can still feel sexy and attractive, and valuable while I work at getting back to my normal self! Thanks very much for your wise words of encouragement and enlightenment that I found in this video!
You are welcome, Carole! So glad you liked the video.
I might add, a strong woman doesn't need a man to validate them! A woman who loves n respects herself, understands her worth, knows her value, has her independence. has a lot to bring to the table in a relationship!! The biggest love anyone can have is their first, THEMSELVES 😍 ANYTHING that comes in above n beyond that is a bonus!
A balanced, secure woman, vs insecure needy, A real man will see the value even if the needy one is the better looking!! The power n confidence in a woman is attractive 😍 BE STRONG SET BOUNDARIES WOMEN OF THE WORLD!!
Hi, I really like what you have to say. I am a mature woman who has been out of the dating scene for a while. I like to travel a lot but due to the pandemic that is on pause. So I have been doing some online dating. I find that the men are extremely pushy and/or manipulative in trying to put me in a situation I don't want to be in. I am a mature woman and I am not interested in putting up with their sh*t. I am doing a lot of walking away...lol...Anyway, my point is that what you are saying is relevant to older mature daters, just as much as the younger ladies. Thank you.
Then have fun with your cats
@@ajde8644 😁😁🙊
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wow, what a special message, thank you for bringing out these godly traits. This is almost holy and we see so little of this in this corrupt world of sexuality
Flirting in front of me or engaging with another woman that I later discover will be a definite close of the door because that is what brought me the problem the first time around and I for being so young (19 y/o) did not know how to handle the situation and did not set strong boundaries while being girlfriend boyfriend and then it seeped into marriage and yesterday I was at the office completing my divorce. The benefits will only come after marriage, no time sooner.
Excellent advice. Makes me feel better about having boundaries with so many guys that didn't want to discuss what they were looking for.
This is exactly what I needed to hear tonight. 😊
Thank you Mathew for your videos, love this video in regards to believing I’m sacred and having standards when trying to establish a relationship with a new man in my life.
My pleasure, Lynette!
If a man opens a door for me, I give him my smile, if he doesn't, I stay and wait. When a man on a date doesn't open the door in a car for me, I just don't move from my seat.
The timing for this video is perfect, after 2 years of being single I decided to try dating again.. I love everything you said..🙂
So glad!
I am sacred, I will focus on “what if” thank you Mathew
I dont want anything to do with relationships anymore. I give up
Love that u focus on how everything is *sacred* 😊 🙌 💖 Also, how hookup culture is detrimental to individuals and society & undermining meaningful connections.
OMG Matthews, you are the greatest, on point! Thank you so much.
I appreciate that! Much welcome, Elizabeth.
Thank you so much! I really needed to focus on that this morning! 😍 I just had my heart broken and needed this reminder.
Lisa, you are so welcome!
@@MatthewCoast is there any coming back when they leave? This guy and I have been talking so much for the last two weeks and felt like there was such a great connection. He said it too. We both felt like we knew each other forever. He even talked about future trips and being together. He got a promotion snd is moving closer to me in the next week or two. He has said how lucky he was to have me. We were supposed to meet on vday. But two days before he all of a sudden shut me out. For no reason. I talked to him and he said he just got scared. Too much too soon. But he was one pushing. I wish I had held things back but all was going so well. Any coming back? I really miss him.
He also said he didn’t think he could have a relationship while he was moving. So I’m hoping he just needs some time because things were so much for both of us. We talked from when we woke until we crashed lol off n on.
@@SuperSutterfield well don’t act avail & like you’re waiting for him. If he sends you a message just let him know you’re dating at the moment. Maybe he was testing you when you two had convos about all these fast moves. The less avail you are the more they will chase you. Works like a charm
Matt has lots of videos on this topic. Give him space, keep busy and happy being who you were before him. If you love him set him free, if he returns he’s yours if he doesn’t he never was.
you are amazing young man, my hat goes off to you, the respect you have for women shows in your words, you are obviously a gentleman in touch with your emotions, taking a stand for other men that feel the same way!! RESPECT 🙏 ❤❤
Thank you for the kind words, Leanne. I appreciate it.❤
First off I want to be paid for my singing like I was told I was going to be so I am supporting myself and not dependent on a man and so that I am feeling good about myself which is what I deserve. I don’t have enough brain cells left after dealing with men and singers and their promises that never happen to deal with men and the games they play and keep up without it causing me more brain damage.
This is Jennifer Sinclair. I am too important for ANY MAN. I am too sacred for ANY MAN. End of story.
This is gold. Thanks Matthew 🤩
My pleasure!
Thank you, I like your set of questions to ask ourselves. I've written them down and have decided I will do what you suggest, focus on one or 2 every day, see what answers they throw up and enjoy this chance to focus, n feel and receive
Wonderful! Thank you too, Rosalind.
It can be said, that we are actually not as valuable as we once were. Part of our value to another is treating ourselves wisely, and well.
Well said. Only in marriage a woman can reveal sacred before intimacy.
Thank you, I'm from Australia. You saved my relationship.
Glad to help, Jocelyn.
I love the word SACRED! Wooooow!
This is gold! Women love you for this ❤️
Aww thanks, Anna!
Hi Matthew,
Your talks are really awesome & inspiring. All make sense & so true. Women are usually so emotional & down to the earth that they put themselves the 2nd person in relation. The way that you teach us is putting ourselves in first position.
Thanks a lot for sharing your concepts & your videos. 🙏🙏🙏
I appreciate it! Thank you.
You are so helpful, thank you. I love your voice too. So inviting and easy to listen to.
So glad!
@@ImranKhan-tj3dr thank you
@@ImranKhan-tj3dr Thank you for asking I am doing well.
Believe in it! You are amazing Matt🥰
You are kind, Jeanne. Thank you
Not if he is an idiot, and his mummy is his life
Matthew you impress me with all your wisdom. God bless you.
Aww.. Thank you so much, Elaine
This was such a wicked video! Someday I’ll get brave enough to ask your advice!💗
Love this video, thanks
Glad you enjoyed it!
Great Judge Caprio!
Lovely, informative Chinese man.
Wouldn't it be lovely if your sense and end product of "justice" rubbed off on them, (the Chinese, etc.,), creating a much greater sense of "justice that is fair" because you incorporated so much more of the "contextual" things that have a positive or negstiv effect on each individual's case.
Beautiful to see you give respect and understanding etc., isn't it?
Thank you Mr wonderful Judge man.
Maybe every nation will copy your sense of obvious "fair Law", so to speak.
Thank you Judge Caprio!😁
Have a wonderful week and life!
😘
Have a wonderful week too, Anne.
Thank u Matthew love this🙏I AM SO MUCH MORE THAN SACRED. I AM RADIANT LOVE. I AM A MULTIDIMENSIONAL BEING HAVING A HUMAN EXPERIENCE. ..... GOD CREATED ME THIS WAY 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Julietree 💔🥀💔
You're welcome, Julietree.
Master peace, beautiful through standard
Desirable…value it…. Bless it
Thanks we are already sacred. Born that way. Not sure this makes sense to people that understand this concept to the core of our being.
What a blessing. I enjoyed your video it was informative.
Thank you.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Great video! Thank you.
Glad you liked it, Valerie!
You share such important and wise advices! Thank you so much for your time.
Greetings from Belgium!
You are welcome, Flavia
Thank you! Great advice. ☝️
Hey Matt, awesome video!
Glad you liked it, Jalisa!
I love this standard
This is great!
What if we’ve made those mistakes already 😩
Wow that was absolutely wonderful
❤
Yes quit sleeping around that’s the no 1 mistake
Men my age don't want commitment or marriage from what i'm experiencing
Hi Matt thank you for another awesome
Lessons God bless you and your loved ones 🙌🙌🙌🌺🌺🌺
My pleasure, Mercelyn!
Oh no, too early in the morning/night. Fell asleep during this lesson. Anyone take notes? 🙏📝😴😅😂
I DESERVE TO BE TREATED FAIREY NOT BEING A LEMON LEFT TO ROT ON THE SIDE
What if you're worth more???
GOSH!
Sticked that on my wall.
He need to ask are we exclusively dating women don’t ask that 🚨
Excellent info❣👏
Thanks, Kajal!
I’m a bit too open and transparent in my communications.,I’ve certainly not given myself away easily or chased him.,he told me he has Axminster emotional range. He was right. He is bad at communication based intimacy.. once he made me cry with some heartless talk about the non existent future that was more than a decade ago. However I did ask he what he was looking for at the outset and he said he wanted to feel wanted and cared for
I really like your content 🙏🙏🙏🙌😍 Thank You
Happy to hear that!
Thank you so much sir
Most welcome
Thank you!
You're welcome!
Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
You are so welcome!
thank you for the best advice again love from india 😍😍😍😍
You're so welcome!
Oh my goodness. Thank you so much Matthew for everything you do. I really enjoy your content and learn a lot.
I appreciate that! Thank you too, Angie.
I like the concept of dating multiple guys to create abundance, but I have no energy and time while full time working, so it needs to be one by one. I tried it before, it is just not possible, too much scheduling and then I get all mixed up who is who... 🤣🤣🤣
Thanks for sharing, Maya.
Hi Matthew from Grasston, Minnesota.
Hello there, Gale!
Oh he is bye but he doesn’t let anyone know
More recently he gave up having a bank account knowing I could would Snd did pay for everything:,the luxury hotels we hooked forcourctimectogether. One thing I didn’t like was that he never once gave me even a daffodil or a chocolate for my birthdayd
U r the best 💥💥💥
I appreciate it.
No marriage = No access to my body.
I’m in the uk just looking at some of the videos of broadcasters I enjoy dr grande Andrea Ali you I was married for 26 years and have two adult children.,I had a relationship with a younger nan( now in his mid fifties) for over a decade until 2020it contradiction. He hasn’t communicated with me on any decent or respectful level since august 2020. I’ifcits overcok but it would be better manners to say so. I’ve never done the things you advise against. I knew that guy for 15,years before our relationship began. vesatisfying in a lot of ways but he has a totally unregulated temper and csn not tolerate any contradiction or disagreement
I haven’t caught feelings
Obviously. already there but thanks anyway...
Wow💥
Lol you are too cute
My love ion the wortld i become best wife respecting kind everything so on
I give you.
What if…what if…
what if what? :o
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Great video! Thank you.
Glad you liked it!