"Andrew Tate Is Not A Good Man!" - Why Men Should Admire Marcus Aurelius Instead | Ryan Holiday
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We have held a lot of conversations exploring both the red pill and blue pill communities. Between the dating crisis, the mating crisis and toxic masculinity being metaphorically spray-painted over every masculine-centric conversation, we’re here for more incredible conversations that move the narrative forward and extrapolate the best ideas so that you can start to unpack and think through masculinity in a novel way that empowers you and the men in your life.
Today, I have repeat guests and one of our fan favorites, Ryan Holiday joining me to weigh in on the discussion and orient us around how the stoic philosophies of Marcus Aurelius stand to the ideology of Tate and the red pill community’s narrative.
Do TH-camrs and influencers hold the key to masculinity, not being taken for weak or unsuccessful? Or does Marcus Aurelius and the ancient stoic philosophers have more to teach us on the idea of true masculinity, strength and control.
This episode pushes you for answers many of these TH-camrs and Influencers are reaching beyond truth to answer. Ryan Holiday lays out the following key points and so much more you cannot miss:
- 4 Stoic Virtues the Red & Blue Pillers Can All Build Their Life Around
- The True Essence of Power and Masculinity (Are you aligned with the algorithm or actual fulfillment in your life?)
- How Only Fans Has Made Slaves of Men’s Values & Beliefs
- ‘Stoics never cry’ and therefore neither should men is bullsh*t
- What you need to know about yourself to not get red-pilled
- The social media distortion that’s got you too dizzy to aim at anything
If you’ve pondered “valid” points from the red or blue pill communities, how has it shaped your view of masculinity and what are you externally looking to for guidance on how to be a man that knows truth and power for himself? If you’re a woman in this space, how has this shaped the conversations with the men in your life?
RYAN HOLIDAY STOIC TRUTH BOMBS:
"It's great to be driven to try to do things. But the Stoics would say, are those things driving you or are you driving them right? Or what are you a slave to? Who's actually in control of your life?”
“You can't control what happens to you, but you can control how you react.”
“You control who you are right now, what you do in this moment, and the decision to be a responsible adult.”
“I'm not going to blame other people for the fact that I am undesired, that I am unhappy, that I am unsuccessful.”
“In life momentum is an incredible thing and oftentimes we despair of some destination, some far off change or transformation because we don't see how we're going to get there when really we should be focused on what the most immediate, attainable, realistic next thing is.”
“The awkwardness of being bad or not visibly successful at a thing is a very underrated skill.”
“They want that outcome, but they're totally paralyzed and intimidated by the process of being a nobody at that thing for a long period of time”
"We say men shouldn't be emotional, but we are very indulgent of men's tempers, [...] I've never lost my temper and then been proud afterwards.”
“I think of Stoicism as a philosophy, I do think about it as something that's not masculine or feminine, but that it's something human.”
“The practice of looking for a reason or looking for something to understand or pity even in other people is a practice I've taken out of being a parent.”
“Being the person who is principled and strict is what matters, and what's right and wrong is important, but so is compromise and collaboration.”
“If you don't know what your values are, if you don't know what you stand for, if you don't know what you're trying to get to, and then you're just scrolling on your phone, then the algorithm is just serving you up what's most engaging.”
“I didn't build this audience to not say what I think. I built the audience by saying what I think needs to be said, and that's what I have to keep doing. Otherwise I don't have the audience. The audience has me.”
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Toxic masculinity? Lmao come on man this can't be taken seriously
Mr Holiday is so weekling and cowardsome. Typical 'yes-man'. I really can't listen to this rhetoric. So pathetic. Yuck
You aren't the guy to bring that to the masses. The sooner you know it the better for the world.
The banking situation is a reminder that Fed hikes are having an effect, even if the economy has held up so far,” It’s precisely at times like these that investors need to be on guard against the next certainty. First SVB, then signature bank and now first republic bank, these are all the signs of yet another 2008 market crash 2.0. I'm worried about my retirement savings of about $850K losing value because of high inflation. Where else can we keep our money?
There are strategies that could be put in place for solid gains regardless of economy or market condition, but such executions are usually carried out by investment experts or advisors with experience
You can always opt out of the current ponzi/ Fiat currency.
#Bitcoin
ILOVED the portion on incels. I was in an accident that left me paralyzed on half of my body, but instead of dwelling on it, I learned to focus on it and make it my strength, at that point I started getting more dates than ever before I was injured. The obstacle IS the way!
How are you doing
Ryan's thought about embracing being unknown connects with Stoicism's idea of focusing on small steps for growth, showing how being strong is more important than quick success.
"When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive-to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love." - Marcus Aurelius
Then why waste that previous privilege by living as if you're already dead.. as the stoics advocate?
I respect Ryan's perspective on what he does this podcast helped me find my Northstar better at 39 than never thanks
I am a huge fan of Tom Bilyeu. He brings great content and I always learn. This conversation is a perfect example. Ryan Holiday is a gift and I appreciate all of his work. They say you need to be careful who you spend time with because you will be like them. I chose to listen to and absorb Impact Theory because I want qualities like Tom and his guests. This conversation was outstanding. Thank you
Does a great job at letting guest speak there full on perspective even when they are “wrong”. 🏆
This is the message people need in the era of “quiet quitting”. People need to get going and do something with their lives.
Quiet quitting is just a media invention for doing whats expected of you and no more. It's not quitting at all, just doing your part according to your contract.
Bro, you're an absolutely amazing person because she chose you. And she must be an equally amazing person because you chose her. You can't imagine how much I appreciate your input. Thank you. I've been married 18 years this month to the same awesome woman I first married. You and I have a lot in common in that realm.
This is an awesome discussion. It has revealed so much to me why I am what I am. Why I have been on this unknown journey of discovery. Why I have found myself so like not belonging on this planet. I have always thought there must be something wrong with me but deep within myself I wouldn’t bend to expectations regardless. One of my singles “This is me”, was all about me being me. Not bowing to societal expectations.
Loved Amadeus Mozart. I saw it back in the 80s. I’ve still got the dvd which I watch every so often. What a brilliant movie!
I just discovered Impact Theory and Ryan Holiday...and wow, my mind is blown! Listening to two intelligent guys talk about such a profound subject makes me really want to start learning more about these ancient scholars. Some people say the world may be going downwards, but I disagree. Content such as this is changing lives and inspiring people to be the best versions of themselves!
Thanks for the complement! We're stoked you appreciated the conversation. Check out our channel for other content ranging from health and mindset!
Have a great day!
Best,
Impact Theory Community Manager
Mr Holiday spends ten minutes explaining to us in great depth the leadership of one Marcus Aurelius, literally followed by the interviewer saying "alright..." and moving on swiftly, just seemed dismissive and rude to me, like he didn't hear a word this man was saying.
Ryan's been on many times before and spoke a lot about Marcus aurelius. I think Tom is trying to give people a quick refresher then dig for any knew insights. Can't have it be the same show twice
As a Christian, Stoicism absolutely has a place. Really benefit from it's practical discipline...many Religious Orders do the same. Thank you for this interview.😊
James 1 v 2-4 🔥
@@isaacopoku8294I was not expecting a great bible verse here but I'd like to thank you anyways.
@n0th4ckinqThat is about as far from the truth as can be, and to those who know the history of Christianity and Stoicism is obviously wrong.
Stoicism is a philosophy of self-mastery. It is not about masters or servants. In fact many of those chose to serve either others or a higher purpose.
Christianity serves a higher purpose. Through their devotion they overthrew the most powerful masters of the millennium, the Romans. If anything they're the antidote to slavery, either philosophical or practical.
The only thing other than god they serve is their conscience, at least those who truly practice it and not merely use it as an excuse.
And if you think you are not a slave to god I'd like to ask you how many laws of physics have you broken as of late?
Regardless of whether you believe it is a god or nature that created the world, revering that thing that created the world and serving it is not a slavery to someone else, but either to your own beliefs and conscience or to an inescapable power.
The latter of which makes no difference as everyone is unable to escape them, and the former makes you no slave as you serve your own will. The very thing will to power style beliefs attempt to replicate.
Such an excellent conversation. "One thing" if I might.........please tread very lightly when you speak of suicide. With all of my heart, I understand where people might think that the person is selfish because they are indulging in me me me. THIS in fact is not at all the truth. SELFISH people do NOT take their lives. A dear dear friend took his life 30 years ago. My uncle 18 years ago. My daughter left this world almost 5 years ago. All three were extremely kind, good, successful people. Hands down, my daughter was the most courageous, brave person I have ever known. She got up every day with a plan to live another day. She exercised, she spread joy, she and I NEVER stopped searching for answers......all the while, she never stopped working. Suicidal people are not people who deal with basic depression and you take actions (Andrew Tate, Tom, Ryan) that people suggest and your life turns around. It is FAR beyond that. I am NOT offended or an angry mom lashing out about the glib comments about depression/suicide, rather hoping to help people understand that it is deep. Continue the amazing conversations Tom. Many blessings
I see okok hands down you said.....wow
"The universe is change. The quality of your life is based on the quality of your thoughts" Marcus Aurelius
So so so into this conversation. Hope he comes back again on the show. ❤. Otherwise I'll just keep replaying this and the Robert Green ones on loop.
He has own show and books
We're glad you liked the conversation! What was your favorite take away?
Best,
Impact Theory Community Manager
I convinced stoicism should be taught to every kid in school and through adulthood.
Finding that everything I watch on podcasts re: sobriety and improving life - literally everything comes back to the benefits of delayed gratification. Touched upon here at 33:10
Yup. The Road Less Traveled, section 1.
Ryan Holiday is a person that has a profound impact on my life. I apply my stoic learnings to everything I do and learning to be consistent.
1:40
innocent until proven guilty
Comparison is the thief of joy
Two stoic living legends in youtube, thank you for these reminders and conversation. Momento Mori - Amor Fati
Memento, to remember /momento, moment....just in case you use it publicly ❤
Love love love this channel, I am learning so much. More so than most other pods. Eternally grateful.
This is an absolutely phenomenal discussion full of wisdom, great relevant historical anecdotes and actionable advice. Thanks.
Thank you, I agree.. Psalms 90:12..acquire a heart of WISDOM!!
Tom ❤
Thank you for your work, you really represent some kind of light in this world that’s not perfect, but fucking real, and with sincere intent to make this world better. Your content, still very consistent and very, very very good.
Thanks for the support! We appreciate it.
Best,
Impact Theory Community Manager
"A great gift and a great burden" Beautiful
What a truly intelligent guy, subscribed to Daily Stoic. Happy there are people like you in the world.
The difference between the past & today which is critical for the morally sound upbringing of male children is the absence of a father & solid male role model in the home.
In your video, you discuss the red pill and blue pill communities, and how the stoic philosophies of Marcus Aurelius stand to the ideology of Tate and the red pill community's narrative. You also explore the role of TH-camrs and influencers in promoting masculinity, and whether they hold the key to true masculinity, strength, and control.
Ryan Holiday, who is a guest on your show, makes a number of key points, including:
The importance of the four stoic virtues: wisdom, justice, courage, and temperance.
The true essence of power and masculinity, which is not about being aligned with the algorithm or achieving external success, but about finding fulfillment in life.
How Only Fans has made slaves of men's values and beliefs.
The importance of being able to show emotion, even as a man.
The social media distortion that can make it difficult to aim at anything meaningful.
I think that these are all important points to consider, and I appreciate you and Ryan Holiday for having this conversation.
I am particularly interested in Ryan Holiday's point about the importance of the four stoic virtues. I believe that these virtues are essential for living a good and meaningful life, regardless of gender.
I also appreciate Ryan Holiday's emphasis on the importance of finding fulfillment in life. I believe that this is something that we all need to strive for, and that it is more important than achieving external success.
Overall, I think that your video is a valuable contribution to the conversation about masculinity. I hope that it will help people to think more deeply about what it means to be a man, and to find a path to masculinity that is based on their own values and beliefs.
My focus as I aged was that my life is built on knowledge. What is your perspective and focus? The more knowledge I have the more I will understand what I desire to accomplish. The crux of this perspective is that by and large, people think they know what is right for them but they do not know they are right. These people insist that they are right from a perspective of ignorance. Know your facts and have them at hand to present your view. Be open to change that can be validated. Your path is not the same as anyone else. Money is a false reality of strength of power. If you lose everything, you are left with your knowledge base and are able to rebuild your life. Knowledge and experience are the two intangible elements that are needed to develop your life to more positive levels.
GM Savages! ✊💫
335 days No Alcohol 🏆
Don't worry about all that, that's what you will not get involved with
It's your self talk, ejecto seato on the emojis, moving right along rest and water will dew like a lawn
"He did everything he could with what he had" very well said.
1:03:50 Bingo. I study stoicism and I love it~ I’m a woman. I tried to intercept my son’s Andrew Tate obsession with Stoicism and stoic lifestyle 🤦♀️His reaction was, “Oh you want me to be a statue and never have emotions and pain?”
🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️He’s still uninterested. I pray 🙏 for him is all. He’s 21 years old🤦♀️✝️Lord, help us!
Tell him that a man Is what he thinks. Andrew is not your son
One word that describes Ryan Holiday and Tom Bilyeu is they are truly humble and just want to provide a set of ideas to help the human race. What a surprise that being altruistic and working hard still can lead to amazing success...Andrew tait's of the world will never leave a legacy or help anyone, they will leave distruction and when he is counting his money in a rare moment of solitude, he trully feels alone and empty...but he will never admit it, he will work harder on clickbait to buy another ferrari to fill the empty void in his soul... BOTH OF U KEEP DOING WHAT U R DOING❤
This episode was uploaded a long time ago, i wonder why it's being re-uploaded.. great conversation though. Enjoyed it
Tom thank you for having this wonderful guy Ryan on - I watch his Chanel and shorts daily.
Marcus Aurelius such a wonderful read.
Loved this discussion.
❤❤❤
Mentally feeling like I'm crazy cus I'm growing up and feeling the responsibilities and I needed this convos I could relate to every second and took notes on what I need to do next . That's the number one thing up to me 🙏
What's your email, all respect to you
Don't say your feeling that, it isn't that.......how are you doing now
Keep that momentum up! We're stoked this conversation had a positive impact on you.
Best,
Impact Theory Community Manager
Tom your show kept me going through my darkest point and reshape my frame of reference as you would put it. Thank for that
This means a lot to us! We work hard to have meaningful impact in the world.
Keep moving forward. You got this!
Best,
Impact Theory Community Manager
I'm pausing on the part about how being optimistic can cause more suffering. I think I have lived this way a lot of my life and I am not sure how to strike a better balance yet.
You got that, datway Datway
After watching your show, I immediately became your fan. The program was fantastic!😍😍😍
I truly understand around the 13:00 minute mark. I grew up with biblical teachings, and it was missing daily living. Kemetic teachings and Stoicism filled those gaps and place me in a different way of thinking and living.
28:45 LMAO that was just the greatest response ever to a great ruler.
Thank you for the video, I found out that investing is not for everybody, you just need a strong stomach too see your portfolio go down. It might be wiser for a novice to start with copy trading investing, but it is not easy. To invest in growth stocks it is another level, definitely you need to know what are you doing.
From my own point of view, you need to invest smartly if you need the good things of life. so far i've made over $255k in raw profits from just 6 months into the market from my diversified portfolio strategy and i believe anyone can do it you have the right strategy, mutual funds takes long time but investing smartly is the key for short term. Most of us tend to pay more attention to the shiniest position in the market to the cost of proper diversification.
My portfolio is very much diversified so it's not like i have a particular fund i invest in, plus i dont do that by myself. i follow the trades of Mrs Karen Gaye Gray.
She is a popular broker you might have heard of. I can correctly say she's worth her salt as a financial advisor as her diversification skills are top notch, because i see that in her results as my portfolio grows by averages of 10 to 15% on a monthly basis, unlike i can say for my IRA which has just been trudging along, my portfolio just mirrors what she trades and not just on some particular industries of my choosing.
By following her trades do you mean copying her trades? I have heard about copying trades
Yes, exactly. It's all programmatic and automated, plus it's relatively much easier to set up and connect my accounts than creating a financial plan and drafting investment strategies myself, my account just mirrors her trades in realtime.
Tom is one of the few people I don't play at 1.5x speed because he's already there.
😂🤘
He hits al the stoic scholar stars on this podcast. 👍
Loved this!
Such great life lessons thank you both!
Haven't even started it yet and all ready know it's going to be 🔥
Let us know what you thought! What was your biggest takeaway?
Best,
Impact Theory Community Manager
That was absolutely amazing. Lots of good videos on this channel and this one is one of the best I've seen so far. Thank you to both of you.
“It’ll just niggle with you.” -Tom Bilyeu
..True... not because of reading stoicism.. but what works..🍀🙏
When you work hard on something, its painful, but the pain passes quickly and the accomplishment remains. When you do something for pleasure, the pleasure passes quickly, but the shame remains.
We need an awesome movie based on Marcus, based on stoicism. I think it would be amazing.
49:57 “We treat the body rigorously so that it’s not disobedient to the mind.” That’s a BAR
Thanks you for great lessons, guys!
I’m giving Tom the benefit of the doubt and assuming he has already asked Tate to come on his podcast but Tate declined
This cold therapy part of your conversation hits so hard on me. My phobia of cold water is 100% hard core. I'd run into a burning building before dipping in an ice tub. How do you mentally deal with this???
What’s the worse that could happen? How likely is it to happen? What’s the best that could happen? Fear is often an illusion
dude just take a cold shower lol
I like what you said about Andrew and Marcus being two north stars. Thats exactly how I look at them and I am taking the best aspects of both.
What an episode! 💯💯💯
This is a great talk.
I would like to have ability to see CC to understand it better. Why it is not available for this video?
Ryan, thanks for using your life to share what is possible when we take the time to actually think, reflect and be responsible.
Thanks for this interview❤️
I really like Ryan Holiday and I've read his book the Obstacle is the way which I thought was very good... However his comments on Andrew Tate made him sound like the biggest hater.. Andrew wasn't found guilty.
Ryan said he was sex trafficker like it was a confirmed fact. Also his tonality sounded slightly emotionally affected which discredits the statement even further. I like that Tom called him out on the that as well.
Fair enough if Ryan doesn't agree moralistically with how Andrew made his wealth, blatantly calling someone something they are not convicted of goes to show how dangerous the power of the word is from the media and other influencers to infect someone at the caliber of Ryan Holiday with incorrect information.
Ryan hit so many wise quotes
You’ve hit the nail on the head Ryan. You’re a great example to young men. Well done . Greatness includes being good.
Thank you Ryan for keeping it real, about Andrew T...
Such great insight.
Thank you for sharing I love this whole conversation
"Boos don't block dunks." - Kobe Bryant
Yes AT is repulsive exactly!! Thank you. Off to a great start
Both Ryan and Tom need to be schooled in the definition of democracy and its many shortcomings that the founders acknowledged and sought to avoid by instituting a Repulic. The US is not a Democracy.
Tom, to me you make the best TH-cam video that are changing my life ❤
And I watched so many , Tonny Robbins is just next .
Hey, I loooooove your interviews; I keep coming back to them. When listening we are so absorbed and the frequent use of the F-word is still considered unprofessional and offensive in so many parts of the world. We're used to hearing it in movies and entertainment, but this is a classroom and we come here to feed. It jerks us off when our concentration is so high on the content. Please consider toning down on expletives; we would really appreciate it. A very humble request.
Michael Sugrue did a brilliant lecture on Marcus Aurelius. Not to be missed.
great conversation
1:40 "First up, he's a sex trafficker"
That right there is grounds for a hefty defamation lawsuit. Ryan Holiday said that as a statement of fact, and one asserted without any evidence. In law, accusation, even one leveled by a government, is not proof, and without proof of guilt, innocence must be the assumption, so to hear someone, anyone, just rattle off such a narrative inside the first couple of minutes of a discussion is disturbing. Governments throw allegations of sexual misconduct around against people whose ideas they don't like is an increasingly common practice, because they know that such allegations are particularly effective in keeping those people quiet, and that people who have been conditioned to accept whatever authority-figures say without question (especially Leftist sheeple) will repeat them without analysis or conscience.
When someone asserts guilt on another person based entirely on an accusation... that is when nothing more they may say has any credibility with me
you spend lots of time and effort defending a controversial figure that openly prays on weak men. The incel community is so sad (and dumb)
i agree
Tate has said plenty himself
Keep aside the sex trafficking.. You love being obeyed by your girl.. That's good!!! Would you want your sis or your mom to be treated that way??? If yes, you are good.. If not, you would be called hypocrite!!!
Agree
Brilliant 👍
I love anything un-edited/raw/real but... maybe it's your strategy for having veiwers watch the entirety of this video. But why not add segment shortcuts??? Some people do need to hear all of this, but some are on a more specific learning track. My instinct is to skip around to try to find what im looking for but can't...Just a suggestion, nothing more.❤
Tom used to include segments but he stopped some time ago.
Outstanding interview
What a gold podcast!!
23:00 your tombstone should say: BRB Gnashing my teeth
Ryan Holliday, looking like a Spider-Man 3 Tobey Maguire
Facts...FACTS! I loled
I've been hearing people labeled me as a socio path. But I feel alot for people are getting a one sided story on everything that has and is going on with me. I have a group of people and not all of them the main ones drugging me , breaking me down they have a device that can talk to you in your head. Now that I know it I'm recognizing it more and more they were breaking me down every thought I had. Making me think about using girls then eventually I would self sabotage they even got my therapist to recommend me on meds that were causing me to break done more and almost Gave me a heart attack. What do you do when you go up agisnt a group of people that are obsessed with a game a form of dark sychology and you have to play there matrix game when going thru it I've done nothing but self sabotage get depressed and anxiety and the people causing it are laughing and trying to get me to self destruct and they literally told me they wanted to watch me kill myself and they have the power to do whatever they want manipulate the community agsint me because they have the mind tech the influence to persuad a crowd as they see fit. It's sick there crazy how do you handle something like that ??
Start with a new therapist and keep an open mind.
My key output of this interview is the expression "sort of"
44:37 I know Tom has good intentions, but he does not understand the pathway to self elimination. Unfortunately, it's a hard topic to study due to the signal to noise ratio. It's easy to find people who have made cries for help in the form of attempts. This is noise. The signal is almost entirely composed of either successfully eliminated persons, or persons making plans that they refuse to jeopardize. As someone with chronic s**c*dal ideation, I could open your eyes to the reality of despair.
People don't realise that the only thing you need to stop doing is believing in your thoughts and emotions.
Bingo flamingo, how free we can all be
Keanu Reeves, Hugh Jackman, or Joe Rogan, in my opinion, would've been a better example for masculinity
Good guest and topic
Being physically strong and enduring physical hardships through grit is completely different from allowing yourself to be emotionally vulnerable when you're mentally distressed or feeling deep love. They are two very different aspects but we tend to associate one with the other in order to disprove some aspect of masculinity. I think we absolutely need to be mindful of this because you can't go on telling boys and men to be more feminine and that gender differences have no bearing on personality and mental predisposition and that it's all just a social construct meant to enslave women and blah blah blah. There's so much evidence we're finally figuring out to disprove these so-called "progressive" movements (I hate the term "progressive" as a label for something like this, it inherently justifies anything within it, because anything else would be "regressing", removing ANY burden of proof).
There's a reason why men's mental health is at an all-time low. There's a reason why there's an unimaginable disparity in incarceration rates between men and women. There's a reason why there are twice as many suicides among men than women. There's a reason why school shootings are happening more and more and all by young men.
People will argue that it's because men need to be more feminine and calm down and stop associating with masculinity because it's "toxic".... No, it's because for decades or even longer you've been telling men to NOT be men. And who is this "you"? You'd think I would say women, but no... it's weak men. Weak men who have been taking over to lead society. Both the Left and Right are lead by weak men. Neither party is free from blame. Neither shows strength through competence, neither shows humility without being deceitful, and both fail at pretty much everything they set out to do. All politicians need to just go where they belong, a goddamn nursing home.
And what does all this breed? More weak men. Weak men who beat their wives and children, who manipulate, cheat and steel, shoot up schools and offices, drive busses into crowds of people... which just perpetuates the issue because we then use these instances to prove the original argument, which creates more and more weak men...
Good 👍
OK but a lot of people in that despair and depression and self hatred don't actually think their pain is unique they know others have it worse that's part of the problem is the guilt and shame of not being able to handle it even though others can while going through worse situations that fuels it I agree we need to change our reactions to the world we can't change and do the things to help ourselves but I think when there are people that refuse to acknowledge the unfairness someone faces that can motivate them down that dark path of blaming circumstance in society because no one has validated the fact that yeah they did get a raw deal it shouldn't be about the raw deal it should be about how they fix it but when everybody points blame add somebody and never acknowledges that it's hard it becomes easy for people to act defensive about it
Their Mind got away....we are the carriage and the horses are the mind
Tom, you're setting a new standard with your approach! 🌟🎧 #NewStandard #PodcastRevolution
Not only is a bestseller list irrelevant because it's always in the past but also just because a book sells well doesn't mean it was a good book people who buy a book haven't actually read a book they're just people who buy the book because it has good marketing good advertising that motivates them to want to buy it but it doesn't mean that they actually enjoyed the book once they decided to read it so it doesn't quantify how good the writer actually is the same with prioritizing TH-cam views over likes someone can consciously say I like this content and that has much more meaning than just counting how many people watched it but not counting who hated that content or was angered by it or even hurt by it but TH-cam doesn't care because if someone viewed the video they viewed the ads and that's what matters these are all greedy systems that prioritize how much money people can make but it doesn't actually reflect the quality a video that has six views and six likes in my opinion is way better than a video that has 6000 views and no likes
Would you like a bronze
Tom, please bring Moran Cerf for round 2. I bit, after 6 years, he'll have more mind-blowing brain discoveries !
Tom said that he’s not a conqueror 😂 Check man. He’s striking awareness with his podcast and show and improving people’s mindset to focus on good stuff. This is probably the best way to conquer in the world 💯 it’s more worth than Land and “power” that many want to grow in life. That’s the real deal 💯🙌🏼 very inspiring
@TomBilyeu stoicism is good. But the biggest Impact on my life was reading The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle.
You must have him on your show, he has helped many people, myself included. Oprah Winfrey endorse him to do a set of recorded interviews and podcasts after reading his book.