The Grieving Process: Coping with Death
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There is no right or wrong way to deal with the loss of a loved one. The grieving process is rough-and it's different for everyone. It's not just a matter of coping with a loss, but coping with change-and that takes time.
Today on WellCast, we're dealing with a very difficult subject. How do you deal with the death of a loved one? How do you live your life in the face of a life-changing event? We don't have all the answers. Honestly, you'll need to work through your through the stages of grieving in a way that works for you. But we do have some advice to help you heal.
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May the person you’re here for
Rest In Peace and be eternally happy in heaven ❤️ stay strong
Thank you.
Peach Preach thank you❤
Anna Blean thanks it really help to know someone is there
Anna Blean I bet my dog is running around in doggie heaven
Anna Blean tnx so much
I like going through the comments because it makes me feel that I'm not the only one going through a hard time
Lars Arlander same
same here
Me too.
Same my grandma passed not to long ago 1 month and 1 week❤️😥🙏🏼
Lars Arlander I understand what you mean. you don't feel as alone.
I wish I could go back in time and appreciate them more.
This is what scares me the most. I don’t want to think I didn’t appreciate them enough while they are here right now. Love those around you as much as you can.
This song was written to express our emotions after losing a loved one
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I know how you feel
My grandmother died when I was 4 or 5 and up until about a year or 2 ago I couldn't talk about her without almost breaking down btw I'm 18
Tell me about it
I lost my dad today and I can already say that I would give anything away just to see him face to face and excercise with him again.
My dad died and my mom told me that he just left me but then I learned the truth and she died and I was angry but then sad she was gone
I lost my mom today.
From a person who lost his mom @2 and my father 3years ago it feels like yesterday..stay strong live your life and make them proud .may they rest in peace ✌️🕊️
@@PaulineScores How did he die from exercising? Was he much older or did he have a heart attack? Just curious. I don't doubt you. But, I had situation where they told me that I could have died, but I got surgery before it became life-threatening. Or, it was LT -- just I got surgery before the rupture got bigger.
I lost my dad months ago and when he died I realized I lost my best friend. I started to become distant from friends I has since elementary, and my online friends. I made new friends but I feel bad because every time my childhood friends call me I can’t make myself answer andI don’t know why. When my dad died I felt and still do feel stupid because I should’ve called him everyday, but no. My stupid self didn’t even call everyday like he asked and I always apologize to him for it. Last night I couldn’t sleep and I cried myself to sleep because the longer he’s gone the more I miss him. People say it will get better but what Im wondering is when? When will my life ever be normal again because it seems like I will never be the girl I used to be
I never understood the true meaning of "I'd give anything to have them back" until just recently. I love you so much, Dad. Please wait for me. 1-14-20 🖤
im sorry for your loss and i understand you so well...Dad 1-31-20
My favorite grandma passed not so long ago, now I understand the worth of the water in the well phrase.
Me too I recently lost my grandpa ( we were very close he was the only one who actually understood me ) and now he is gone and I feel empty inside R.I.P grandpa 24/01/‘20
I’m sorry for your loss Kim, I lost my dad 4/25/2019 after a short lung cancer battle. It doesn’t get easier but it does become more manageable to deal with. 🖤🖤
Kim same here, my grandma passed away 11 days after your dad I would give up every single thing i own just to see her again even for an hour 😥
I lost my mom July 14th, 2018
She was only 45
It was the hardest thing to deal with , it’s been 5 months now and it still hurts the same, I just wish heaven had visiting hours 💔
Jaz 23 I’m so sorry, honey.
So sorry
I'd say sorry, but I hate it when people say that to me. But um, sorry.
It's okay, your not alone my mom just died today 3april 2019
Its really bad, my mom was 51 and died from cancer today...I feel you...😥
@Evan Mclemore
Yeah, and besides my mom wont be alone in heaven, my grandma will be there with her
It's so easy to console someone who has experienced a passing but when you experience the loss of a loved one the pain and realization that they're gone is unbearable.
To anyone who has lost someone they love, I want to offer my sincere and deepest sympathies. You are not alone on this journey. Whoever you are, there will always be people willing to open their arms to you and hold your hand through the grief ❤🙏
Thank you. My 8 year old cousin was murdered yesterday. It's really tough.
@@CreeseDF Brother, i sympathize with you entirely. I hope youve made your peace. I lost my brother today, he was a great guy and a uncle to my son. he was only 24 years old, and didnt deserve the horrendous , barbaric killing that was inflicted on him. Hope to hear from you. Well wishes and lots of love.
@@BewilderedAsshat my uncle passed this morning from a heart attack. He was supposed to come on a trip with us for the weekend, but he was sick and he said it would be fine if we left him with grandma for the weekend. I knew something was off that day and I can never ever forgive myself
@@CreeseDF My neighbor died a couple days or weeks ago. I wish I appreciated her and seen her more. She gave up on life- the pain was too much. But remember there watching you from above no matter what you believe in. Hold on tight..
My step dad died today and certain song just send me crying like a little kid
My whole body aches. I can’t stop crying and I don’t know when the pain is going to go away, I just want it to stop
Emma we have all been their you just need to talk to people about how you fell and it going thro that as well and I knwo how you fell if you ever want to talk just reply to this and I will respond
:(
Stay strong
I feel this on so many levels 😢😩😭
@Moonlight starz ❤️ 🕊
“Suicide doesn’t take away the pain. It just passes it on to someone else”
- Hatake Kakashi
Very wise words, you don’t see that often in this type of anime.
because energy doesn’t die. it only transfers
@@Rastaa69 That means...that depression is an energy?
@@shototodoroki3292 every thing is energy and frequencies. that’s what we are made of
My friend just killed her self and I don’t know what to do. I just wanna see her again
I lost my dad this morning. 14/06/23. I wish I appreciated him more. It feels weird with him gone. I knew it would happen. He said his hernia was in pain. And they never took him to the hospital. I’m gonna miss my dad.
My dad also passed away, 7 years ago next summer. I still don't know how to fathom that. I can't even remember his voice and in pictures he looks like a stranger. My 14 year old self was way to good in shoving all the feelings away and just keep on going, that it's hard to dig them back up now. I also wish I had loved him more and shown him how much I care for him, but he wasn't better at it and maby it is just hard to do that as a child, when your parents just broke up. Sometimes i wonder when and if it ever stops. I also can't see a clear end of this tunnel, but I can see my next step and I know, that if I keep on going, I will get out of it. Wish you all the best, stay strong.
He knows you love him he always did, I recently lost my dad and I feel exactly like you, it hurts cause we loved even when we were upset at them. We miss people more when their gone instead of loving more when they are here. I'm sure you will see him again 😊
I'm 19 and my family dog of 14 years passed away early this morning. I woke up and found her lifeless cold, stiff body laying on the floor. I honestly can't explain how upset I am. I've been screaming into pillows all day and my voice hurts. I cared about her the most and took care of her and now I can't help but feel guilty that I didn't notice the red flags quick enough near her end in order to help her, when I knew her better than everyone. I just want to see or feel her 1 more time. I didn't get enough time with her at the end and now ill never see her again.
my dog has to be put down tomorrow he's 14 to and I've had him all my life and I'm in such a bad mood
Damn, sorry. So terrible to hear that. I've lost about 7 animals in my first years of life. My hamster, two ducks (both were put down to prevent the avian flu), my goldfish, one big cat (he seemed to be recovering, but he died a few days later), another cat I made friends with (they got run over by a car), my white rabbit... too much to put. Sorry, I can't take it. *That's how things go every day. That's how it goes all over the world.*
I’m going through something similar with my dog of 13 years
im so so so sorry! i know you gave her the best life you could!!! she was blessed by you, probably as much as you were blessed by her! you will remember her forever and always have the great memories! and you will see her again, i know it!
I’m so sorry for your loss.
R.i.p everyone who died today and all previous days
:( my grandpa passed just now like couple minutes ago and my aunty passed away yesterday, so two important family members passed away 1 day apart :( i just needed to tell someone, sorry if it bothered u
My great grandma died today.
@@elizabethzentgraf5088 :( hope she is in a better place now
uh what about the people in the future
my hamster died today..thank you.
I am just sad lost my wife of 40 years of marriage. Loved her so much.
Miss my Baby.
Ugh that’s horrible! It never gets better but don’t forget, her soul is waiting for yours, she is protecting you noe
I’m so so sorry for your loss Bill. She’s with you everyday. I lost my dad less than a year ago to cancer and at certain times, I feel his presence. She’s ok, so remind her that you’re also trying your best to be ok.
Hang in there keep going your so strong
Denise Vargas Sadly there is nothing after u die when u die ur dead heaven just is there so people don’t get sad just the way it is
Bill Ellis I lost my bird 3 days ago when I got home from school I would always talk to him and bring him along with me but his time came he didn’t sing and slept more but was still alive until it finally happened that same day and I’m still really sad currently I just can’t accept it he was my best friend and the best bird ever.😭😭🐤🐤
Grief is just love ❤ that has no where to go, no person left to recieve
I just lost my dad, right before my 18th birthday. almost 18 years ago, I lay in the NICU, clinging onto life by a mere thread. My dad stood next to my incubator, watching me. through the many tubes and wires hooked up all over my body, I grabbed onto his pinkie with my tiny hand. He was there for me. Now I have no one. I just feel so terribly alone.
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I just want my grandma back.. She was the only one I could talk to
Kitty MeowWoW I lost my mother a few months ago, and we have a relationship like that. I don’t have anyone else I can go to
I miss mine more than you can imagine, I cry every night for her to come back and hug me
My Grandmother was like a mother to me ... even though not the talkative type, but she always helped me the best that she could !
When i was sick, when my parents abandoned me ... she was always there !
I recently lost my grandma and I think the best thing that u can do for yourself is to reach out and rebuild ur support network. There are people out there who will talk to u ur gonna get through this.
Kitty MeowWoW 😭💔
My father passed this morning. I’m 16 and he was 49. It’s so sad to think about all the milestones he won’t be around for in my life and my little sister’s life. I’m graduating high school this year and I know he was so excited to see me walk across the stage. Dad, I miss you, and I hope you’re okay.
i bet he misses u very much as u 😊
I can relate I’m sorry for your loss
same I’m only 12 and my dad was 38 ☹️
Mine is similar with yours. Whenever I think of each milestone I will achieve without my father, it weakens me. I love him, our youngest sister is strong and he is my inspiration to study so I can give the life my father dreamed to her.
I found my brothers dead body in his room today, it broke my heart because our dad died one moth before he died. It’s sad to see someone take their own life because someone died. May god be with your father and mine, may my brother be with his family in heaven. And good luck sent to those who are still on earth, and rest peacefully all those in heaven. Amen.
My grandma died. I was with her almost every single day of my life, but it just so happens that I wasn't with her when she passed. She went to japan to visit my nieces and nephews. 2 days after arriving she passed. I didn't even get to kiss her at the airport when they left.
I feel sick to my stomach, my knees feel weak, and I can't stop crying. I cried at the church, at the grocery store, I broke down at the dinner table, and at my room. She was my best friend, she listened to everything I said even though she had no idea wtf I'm talking about half of the time. She put up with all my shit and never once complained about me. I still dont understand how she's gone, in my mind she'd be downstairs when I wake up
I am sorry for your loss,i hope things get better
Stay strong!
My bird George died lat night, and I know I shouldn't compare it to those who have lost family and friends but I loved that little budgie
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m sure george was a lovely birdie
It's not comparing your loss, you are acknowledging your pain and that is so important! I'm so sorry for your loss, sure that George was very special and important to you. I hope you are feeling at peace now.
Your grief is absolutely valid. I’m so sorry you lost your dear friend.
Every relationship is unique and familys look different , you have all your right to feel sad over your loss😭😭💔💔animals are not just animals , they are personalities like humans😭😭😭
Rest In Peace mom. 5/4/19 I love you so much.
Katy Braun sorry about your Loss
@@tarathelen9844 sorry for your loss.god bless you
Sorry get beter i lost ond of my closest friends but we all need to stay stronge : D
Sorry for your lost
Katy Braun Wow, my mom passed away exactly a month after yours, 6/4/19
I lost my grandma today, I felt like the world ended when I found out. I miss her so much
4-26-20
Black hole sorry for your loss x
Godbless ur gmoms soul...i lost mines a day later 4-27-20.born 11-16-27 thru the grace of god their rejoicing in heaven...🙏⛅ 👼💗
Same rip 6-15-2020, that’s the first time I have ever wrote the date down. I can’t stop crying and I don’t know what to do. I would give ANYTHING to have her back.
My cat just had a stroke, and is going to die in a few days. I have no idea how i feel, but i know how you feel. It sucks
I just lost my grandma today and I’m sorry for your loss too
I lost my dad a week ago.. I wish I would show my love to him more openly, I wish I would appreciate him more when he was alive. I do not know how am I supposed to live with these feelings of guilt, sadness. I really don’t know.
Rest in peace, dad. I love you so much. Until we meet😞😞😞
I am in the same position as you. I am so confused and i dont know what to do with my life ❤
Same bro i lost him 2 months ago. I feel like I'm going mad
I hate my life because my dads death
My dad also passed away, 7 years ago next summer. I still don't know how to fathom that. I can't even remember his voice and in pictures he looks like a stranger. My 14 year old self was way to good in shoving all the feelings away and just keep on going, that it's hard to dig them back up now. I also wish I had loved him more and shown him how much I care for him, but he wasn't better at it and maby it is just hard to do that as a child, when your parents just broke up. Sometimes i wonder when and if it ever stops. I also can't see a clear end of this tunnel, but I can see my next step and I know, that if I keep on going, I will get out of it. Wish you all the best, stay strong.
I love you guys for being here with me. I hope everyone overcomes their sadness including myself. I really miss my sister more than words can explain.
😭😭😭😭 I love you man ❤️❤️❤️ pls stay strong!!!
How are you feeling w it one year later
My dad died today from drugs. I never realised how much i loved him until now. I can't stop crying.
My little cousin died yesterday and I never realized how much I’d miss her.
Claire 999 my papa died and it is the same way
Evan Mclemore my papa died today and he couldn’t talk and say I love you
Claire 999 I am sorry for you loss may he Rest In Peace and same here my dog recently died and I just miss him soo bad and miss his unconditional love ❤️
My grandma died 4 years ago and I'm ugly sobbing 😭
My 12 year old brother passed away a week ago, he was my life, best friend, every fucking single thing I had in my life, when I feel down he makes me happy, and I used to upset him sometimes I hope I can Express my feelings to him, I said to my mom : i really feel bad for screaming at my lil bro , I well never do it again, came back to my dad crying telling us that my bro fell of 20m while he was in a amusement park, i thought it was a joke until I saw his body, feels weird sleeping alone, all I can say is that I loved this guy and i will always love him.
Asem Aldaras I’m so sorry that happened to you. My uncle died this morning and I can’t stop crying. I can’t imagine what you’re going through. My brother is 12 right now and we were fighting this morning, but I will give him a hug for you. I hope you and your family are doing okay. ❤️
RIP you will get through this.
I'm so sorry.. That's just unfair..
❤️
RIP to your brother bro....🙏🏿
I lost my daughter a few weeks ago. The pain is unbearable. I wish I could see her face and hear her laugh one more time. I will love her forever...
I hope u feel better ml x it gets easier as life goes on x
When you feel like it, and it's going to take as much time as you need, consider going to grief counseling therapy sessions that is only, and repeat only, for parents whom have lost a child of any age. Find one in your community, city, or town. Usually they're provided courtesy of a Church in your area and the one I attended for help was free. The group met once weekly for a couple of hours. Everyone in the group was unfortunately in the club no one as a parent ever wants to join, but have...including the group leader. I attended after about 3 years losing our son at the age of 20. Only parents whom have lost a child can understand what other parents whom have lost a child are going through. No one else can. Parents help each other by talking about anything and everything they are feeling, going through, their child lost, .... Anything. There's plenty of tissue boxes, no one critizises, everyone understands, and everyone is there to help everyone. You will never get over this. It has hit you like a transfer truck, you are not yourself, you never will be again. Eventually a better version of the wrecked you will materialize, but you will always be wrecked. The you back when your child was alive, is gone. You just learn to cope again because you basically have to. At least that's how it's been for me. It's been 9 years so far after losing my youngest child and he was my only Son by my 2nd marriage. Going to this group and me included, watching parents cry while they talk about their lost child. We all talked, we all helped each other. It helped.
No parent should ever have to bury their child. I’m sorry
I lost my only teenage daughter in Nov 2023
@@kimmefford2814 I'm so sorry this happened to you and your family. It's the worst pain a parent can go through.
Ive lost my grandpa, best friend, my cat and my dad within 29 days of 2024. it sucks and i cant stop crying. my head hurts and everything reminds me of them. I cant even sleep.
This I lost my brother on the 31st
@@exclusivelytay4114 I'm so sorry abt that ml. it gets a whole lot easier
Fake
My mother just died. And life is really crappy right now
Please pray for me
Ill pray for u man
I'll pray for you
Thank you. God bless you as well. My father just told me I love you which is very rare as we don't have the best relationship. Things are not easy right now. However I know that Jesus never fails and life does go on
yes indeed
Thank you. Its really difficult to deal with life right now. I don't want to go into too much detail here but it isn't the fact that she is gone that hurts so much. Its the fact that she choose to leave that bothers me. With that being said I do understand that life goes on eventually despite how painful it can get
My grandfather just passed, and most of these comments are making me feel better already. Thank you.
Same! My Dad passed a few days ago. Everybody is telling me to be strong, but how? Is there a class I can take or something? But I'm glad I came across this video, and reading the comments makes me feel less lonely.
@@nanoulise19 It's been a month and I'm trying to not think about it too much. Just be glad that he's not hurting anymore and he's in a better place now. He still loves you. ♥
@@anagha2918 Exactly! That's what I tell myself every day. Thank you and take care!
I lost my grandad on January 30th.
I know it sounds weird but I had a pet chicken I spent time with everyday for 2 years and his kidneys just failed nothing will fix that worst part is it happened today
Since I was little, Ive heard adults talk about how they’d "give anything to have them back" I never completely realized the meaning until last Tuesday. We had my grandmas funeral today, and I can’t help thinking about how much time I missed with her by playing video games instead of spending time with her when I was at her house.🤬😓 She passed away after getting COVID at a Vacation Bible school party. I was at camp during the party, but before the camp was the last time I ever actually spent time with her. She spent a month in the hospital, and I never saw her healthy again. I can only imagine how my grandfather is feeling, but I can’t stop thinking of the things I used to take for granted and how she won’t be there to watch me continue to grow. I’m thinking as I type this about how she won’t see anymore of my track meets, won’t see me graduate high school, and won’t be at the beach next summer. Now I want to go hug my other three grandparents and spend every remaining second of their lives that I can with them. I love you so much, Grandma. Rest In Peace 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sorry for your loss. I lost my Grandma many years ago, but I was 17 (I guess) and she died in my latter high school years. But, she had been sick from Dementia for few years, so it was actually a relief that she finally passed. Because she was not in good health, and there was nothing that our current medical science could do. She just got worse and worse. So, I am sorry for what happened, and yes, it is important to spend time with the people that we care about in our lives. And, a big loss will make you realize how important those moments are.
That's exactly how I feel. My grandad died last night and I am going through the same thing as you. You are never alone.
Hey i also lost my grandmaa she is very close to my heart its now 5 days since she has gone...i am missing her😭😭
The same happend to me about a couple months ago , I lost my grandpa and I would do anything to get any time with him back. Your not alone. May your grandma Rest In Peace ✌️🤍
almost exactly the same story...I lost her today and I can't stop thinking about all my regrets and how hard she fought, may your rest in peace grandma
Lost my grandpa today who was pretty much my father and my best friend all wrapped into one amazing human. I’ve dealt with loss before but this one really hits harder then it ever has before. I can’t stop crying and I’m so angry at the world for allowing this to happen
I can’t relate but I feel for u, all I can say is I’m sorry for your loss and ik that won’t make it better. I’m absolutely terrified abt losing my parents and seeing yours and everyone else’s post I will try to appreciate them more .I hope u fell better soon❤️
My mother just passed away on Sunday, January 19, 2020! She came to my home to celebrate my birthday and she died the following day!! Her life slipped right of my hands as I was trying to do CPR!!! It hurts so much, I do not know how to grieve!!! The what ifs are kicking in!! Regrets are just pounding in my heart!!! Should I had loved her more?
Please pray for me for PEACE, HOPE and strength!!!
I got 6 little girls to take care of!!
I don't want to eat or sleep!!
PLEASE pray!!!
I lost my mom in 12 january 2020 she was 48 and i am left with my small brother to raise yeah life is a bad simulation bro
Bercan Beschadigun Kılıç RIP
Dang is u me we had to do cpr also on 1 4 20 dang
aleman So sorry for your loss. Praying that you receive oodles of peace, strength, and hope. 🕊
@@rocketman99 I am so terribly sorry for your loss!! May God grant you the peace that surpasses all understanding!!
Grandma I know you can see this so I want to say that your loved and missed. Rest In Peace and enjoy yourself in heaven
Tommy Kergel yes she can and I would also like to say these words to my grandma as well ❤️
My Granny Anne departed her life on Earth 18/12/2013
My Granddad Cyril moved to Heaven from Earth 13/10/2016
Rest easy up there you 2
Forever in my heart
Madara Uchiwa Let them believe what they want.
My mom passed away yesterday, 59 years old, after a year long battle with pancreatic cancer. Today was the day when we cremated her. I was very united to her, and I wanted something to reassure me that everything I'm feeling, the pain, the cry, the sadness, is something normal. Thank you.
Lost a huge role model and I’m trying to cope but I feel so miserable. So many amazing memories. ❤. I don’t know what to do.
Technoblade? Me too bud
@@Postalguy2 get technoblades racist ass out of here, this guys probably talking about his dad
My last words to my Grandma were “I’ll see you soon!” I knew she was in a bad condition, but we all expected her to get better. I should’ve talked to her more, I’m just kicking myself. I’ll miss her for the rest of my life.
I lived with my grandma. She died today. I have never felt this terrible in my life. She was everything my mother will never be. She was my mother. I don’t know if I’ll ever get through this pain. This is a living nightmare.
My grandma passed away a week ago i feel the same way 😢
My last words to my grandma were really similar, I remember telling her to come visit us after she gets better so we could go to the beach together (she didn’t live in the same country as me). Shortly after we left, she passed on. I somehow knew she wasn’t going to overcome her sickness, yet I didn’t appreciate her like I should’ve, I didn’t talk to her enough, I didn’t hug her enough. It’s been eight months and I still haven’t come to terms with her death. I miss mi abuelita more than anything. As of recent, a friend from school died. I wasn’t close to them at all, but I still miss them. I am so sorry for your loss, and I wish you and your family well.
@Cat-zilla I'm so sorry, that sounds really terrible to witness. I hope she passes away peacefully and without pain. It's been about a little over a year since my grandma died and I made this comment, and it gets better. You never lose that pain when you think about them, but you learn to keep them in your life without wanting to breakdown anymore. I hope you find that peace, too. Much love to her, you, and your family rn.
@@andrewjudeus6283 I know I'm a bit late, but it's been a little over a year since mine died, and I promise it gets better. You'll still always miss her, but you learn to live with that pain and not feel so hopeless. I hope you feel a bit better now, and I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sure she was lovely.
My dad died the other day...I'm soo sad..even though I 'm 46 and he was 88..He was like my only friend for the last 22 years...:(
I think that makes it so much harder when we develop this friendship with our parent later in life. My mom just passed and she was 96. We became good friends over the past 30 years and that will make me miss her so much. When my dad died 30 years ago I did not feel the same. I was younger and not so close.
I’m very sorry for ur lost may he Rest In Peace
I am 25 and my dad is 54 right now.....He is my only best friend...
We go to holy places together..We go to market together...
He comes to pick me up when I am latefrom work(11:30pm).
I can't imagine my life without him😣😣
@@passwordsuggestion5336 i still think its harder for younger people cause if you are already like 38+ you've probably spend more time with your parents but if you are a child you didnt really get to spend time then they are gone forever
Green Power Farm that’s why I hate life
I just lost my mother 3 weeks ago to pancreatic cancer. It's 3:50 a.m. another sleepless night. She was my best friend and the constant in my life. Thanks for your video. It's okay to not be okay. That's what I took from it. And also, there is no time limit to my grief and its like a roller-coaster. Up and down. It's my journey through it. Thanks
💗💗💗 You're not alone
Yes I lost my mother recently. Sometimes I am ok but sometimes I am bad.
I'm so sorry. I just lost my sister last week from pancreatic cancer . I'm struggling so badly, I hate this .
My 6 weeks black kitten, Shadow died yesterday(9th of April, 2021) and I miss him so much. Still crying more than I thought I would but I'm happy that he doesn't have to suffer anymore. Shadow, may you go to a better place and bless us the power and courage to get through this heartbreaking grieving process. We will always miss you and love you as you're still our kitten. Rest in peace.
one year today. miss you lots, mama.
Just those few words you wrote about your mom brought all the pain of loss back to me after all these years. Love never dies, and the pain of losing them never dies completely either.
It's been 7 years since I lost my wife suddenly , we were married 40 years and I am just sad.
Is that ur wife in the picture? She's beautiful
@@jesperswag ur mean
I am sorry to hear that
My grandma died a few months ago, it felt like a whole world just ripped apart from me, she always took care of me and encouraged during tough times, when she died of sudden heart attack I felt very guilty becuase she died alone with no one comforting her except for doctors and nurses, I can't imagine how much all of the people here have gone through, I hope every one of our deceased loved ones are in a better place where they could relax and live a peaceful eternal life. I love you grandma I hope to see you againsomeday😫
I am sorry to hear that
I lost my grandfather on Wednesday to a heart attack. Honestly, I'm still shocked that he is gone because it doesn't seem real to me. My grandfather was a larger than life guy who believed that Honesty, Hard Work, and Happiness were the keys to living a good life. 2 of the 3 H's I usually have down but my happiness was never something I cared about because I didn't think it mattered much but when my grandfather was around I was always happy. Always willing to listen to the stories he had to tell and the lessons he was willing to teach. The day before his death he told me that he was proud of me and that he was proud to have me as a grandson and we had given each other a big hug and I told him that I loved him and that is the last great memory I have had with him and I will hold it and him with me for the rest of my life. It is up to me now to hold up the mantle and standards that he upheld in his life and live the way my grandfather wanted me to live. Even though he isn't here in physical form, he is definitely with me in my heart and mind. Til we meet again at the end of the road Grandpa Jacinto. I'm gonna miss you.
Just lost my only living parent, Mom on Saturday. She raised me and my sister since we were little (8 for me and 10 for sis). My father was estranged and not caring and passed maybe 6 or 7 years ago. He never reached out prior to passing. I wish I appreciated my mom more but if I ever have kids I'll let them know how loving and proud she is of me and them.
I lost my mother a few weeks ago and she was all I had . I feel so hopeless and shattered inside . I didn’t know the death of a love one could cause so much pain .
I’m so very sorry I am going through the exact same thing
Same here 🥺
My dad died an hour ago and I’m crying so much
@@liam-je8ue I’m 12 and I’m just about to lose my grandma, it’s just to painful I wasn’t always the best grandchild I hated to eat with her, and epdeal with her, but all she did was care about me now the pain is just unreal.
@@cheaterfcg1802 I’m sorry you have to go through this I’m 11 and it’s the worst time of my life but my mom and brothers and extended family and friends are making it better
For anyone who lost somebody dear and beloved to them,
Know this;
They love you, they will always be here, look up at the night sky... that one bright star shining in the distance? It is them, smiling and giving you hope for a new day, no matter what happens, they will want you to be strong, and so do I ❤️
Rinada * it’s that how dogs act? Cuz if they do I’m happy
So not true, but if that's what you believe, and want to believe , to make yourself feel better, go head
This actually helped thank you
My beat friend did suicide yesterday
Thank you.
I just lost my mom yesterday, reading the comments and seeing the video is a start. Thank you, all of you.
I lost my grandfather on Friday (November 26th). I’m having a hard time still accepting that it’s real. My family is pretty small and we keep to ourselves (jsut my parents and my sister pretty much) so my grandpa would be on the phone with my parents almost 3 times a day. He couldn’t leave his retirement home very much so we’d always face time him and send him photos of wherever we travel. It’s hard without him here and now it just feels empty. My sister and I would even drive him to church on Sunday’s lately and I just wish I could’ve talked to him more and appreciated that time more. I was so worried about myself most of the time that I forgot to just appreciate others. I know I can’t change the past I just wish we all could’ve talked to him one last time before he went. Though I know he’s up in Heaven with my grandma. I’m praying for all those in here who are experiencing grief. I’ve never felt it like this, it’s like everything I look at reminds me of him and just makes me cry. I know he’s happier now but I really miss him and just want him to spend one more day with my family.
I know you’re all probably sick of seeing things like this, but my grandma was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer today. Please pray for her because the doctor said this is probably gonna be out last Christmas together. I’m never the kind of person to comment stuff like this- but I just feel like if I can get enough people on my side, she might fight through it and live through many more years.
Wraith Sc praying....my Mom is dying of throat and lung cancer...I feel your pain
So sorry to hear that :( I’ll pray for you
How is she now?😓
Had her first session of radiotherapy yesterday.. the operation went well, as did the radiotherapy. Still a bit shocked though! Thank you so much for your kind thoughts
I am so happy for you!thank god💟💟💟
During the last 4 years I’ve lost my grandpa, my mom, a friend and my grandma.. my feelings are just numb at this point, I don’t know where to put my grief anymore💔 19.10.2016 29.12.2018 03.06.2020 08.07.2020 Rest in peace🌟
Man This must be hurting you a lot . i cant imagine how are you feeling right now but life is longer than you thought and you have many many years to get better and live the life that your loved ones have thought you will live and be happy (i can just say but its you who need to do that )RIP for the loved ones you lost.
BIG OOF
Holy fuck I feel so bad, I can't, I can't, love from mn
@@jesperswag was that needef
@@jesperswag and again you have to be a careless prick not respecting others
my Dad passed away just a week ago.. i never knew that loss of loved ones can be this much of hurt.. i still feel his presence around me..... our life completely changed more than i can imagine before
I lost my dad around the same time too. I know how you feel. Stay strong.
@@nox6948 I hope my best friend's story helps you find true peace.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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Lost my grandma February 3rd found out February 6th. I miss her so much. She was there for almost my entire life and she meant so much to me but not everything lasts I guess. Godspeed Anna. Godspeed
I lost my dog and I can’t imagine losing a human being that is close to you. I’m feeling so much endless pain by losing one of my beloved dogs and just the thought of losing someone close to me, crushes me. Bless those who have gone through this pain and those that are going through it right now.
Honestly sometimes losing a dog hurts more.
Alicelf360 I feel your pain. I lost my cat yesterday and I’ve been crying ever since I got the call that she was euthanized. Thank you for your kind words ❤️
i lost my dog 24 hours ago. I grew up wirh her. She was there with me on my first day of school. She was so important to me. She had heart and lung problems and i found her last night underneath our dining table. I havent stopped crying since but reading all of these comments make me feel less alone.
I lost my cat three days ago. I didnt have energy to do anything. All the house is empty and I miss him so much. He was so special to me. And I know he loved me too
My cat got run over 2 days ago. He was only 6 months old but in that time we became really close. He would sleep next to me and wake up with me and I'd play with him every day. And now when I wake up he isn't there anymore. Everything feels so empty right now.
I lost my horse in may, i know it sounds stupid but that horse saved my life and I can't get over the fact that he's gone. He was the one thing that made me actually happy and I still don't know what to do with myself
Nothing about this sounds stupid. I wish you gentle healing.
dont ever feel bad for mourning the death of an animal as you would a human. Animals have souls too, and they deserve the world.
@@thistlebee3441 my cat passed away about 6 hours ago. She turned a year old on January 1st and she was pregnant 😢
@@thistlebee3441 I had to put down my cat a few days ago, I haven’t been able to stop crying. She was 12 and kidney renal failure is common in cats but I feel extremely sad that I couldn’t have done more to save her. It was the hardest decision I ever had to make. I wanted her to keep fighting but that would’ve been selfish of me when she was in so much pain. I keep looking at her videos and tearing up, seeing her toys everywhere breaks my heart. I sleep with her blankets because they still smell like her. It’s so hard, it’s as hard if not harder than mourning the loss of a person. All animals go to heaven.
me too
I lost my nephew. This video helped me to kind of put my grief into perspective. I can’t stop crying and I’m in so much pain. Feels like it will never end. Like living in a nightmare
I lost my beloved uncle (we lived together as a family for 11 years so we were very close) on Christmas Day 2021. He died of cancer. My heart is breaking and I’ve been crying nonstop, but I would like to think he is in a better place rn. I know that he no longer has to suffer. I’m relieved to know that in his last moments, he had his loving family with him and he didn’t struggle since he was in a deep sleep. Now that he’s gone, I am learning to deal with grief, but to also move forward with my life because I know that’s what he wanted for his family. Rest In Peace tito we love you.
My mother passed away a month ago, after fighting cancer for 3 months. I still didn't really overcome her death, because she is my own mother. Nobody can replace her. Despite this, now I feel better about it, thanks to my friends and my other family members. I always know that my mother isn't really gone. She is always there, inside my heart.
I deeply regret all my bad actions that I committed. All those words I said. All those desrespectful actions. She was a strong woman. She never cried in front of me, always smiled and always listened to my opinions. Although it seemed like I didn't like her, I always knew I loved her, deep down inside of me.
On the day she passed away, I cried for a solid hour. My aunt cheered me up, by saying that my mother wouldn't want to see me like this. She would always want to see me strong.
I really miss my mother. The first thing I would say to her if I saw her again would be: I deeply regret my actions. I apologize. Thank you for all the support. I love you, mom.
Boi's Plotagon Animations you mother sounds like a trooper and a beautiful angle she is always looking down at you and protecting you don’t forget that may she Rest In Peace
When she said “and that’s ok” I felt so much comfort and safety
Yeah ....it's OK not to be OK
My grandma passed away today. She was in the ICU for the last week and I couldn’t even see her because I went back to school. I thought she was going to be okay but now I couldn’t even attend her funeral. She was my best friend, my idol, the sunshine of our lives. We spent the last 1.5 years together and I can’t even fathom the fact that we had breakfast together 2 weeks ago and now she is gone. I love her so much and everything hurts. Sometimes it doesn’t even feel real and sometimes I can’t even breath. May she rest in peace.
Nurlar içinde yat Anneanne. Seni çok seviyorum ve hep çok seviceğim. ALLAH mekanını cennet eylesin.
I didnt see my grandad for 6 months when he died. I miss him so much. I'm sorry for what you're going through
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This is just like my story and I know it’s hard and it’s ok to be not ok and just like you said I literally had breakfast with here a week ogo and then life just was a train reck when I hear she was saveirly ill and I almost fainted and then a day later my mom tells me she past away and my hart stop she was my angle she was my savior she was my everything and I miss her so much❤
I just lost my little brother 3 weeks ago. He was only 19 and so cheerful. There are so many regrets I have for the things I haven't told him when he's still here. The void is excruciating, this is the worst pain ive ever felt in my entire life
How are you doing now?
Every time I stare at my parents I choke up on the couch. They probably don’t see it but Im thinking bad thoughts. I can not imagine my life without them. Once that day comes will be a very bad day for me. I am not strong enough. I’m 36 and could never imagine that day. I am emotionally strong but that day will bring me to my knees.
Justin Mitchell I feel you bro. Same here with my parents, they’re still here but I can’t imagine the thought of losing them, I love them so much. Enjoy every moment with them now. Death is inevitable but our souls are eternal. Love them and Cherish every moment with them. That’s what I do, when mine pass away sometime in the far far future I’ll know that they are in a better place
@@uchihadaggerdick484 same
Your lucky I lost my dad at the age of 22
Me to😥😣😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢my parents are alive and i feel the same way!
Me too, I’m 14 and I’m already worrying that something bad will happen to my parents or grandma. I’ve already experienced many deaths of my pets and I couldn’t even bare the pain so who knows how I will feel when one of my parents or grandma dies. The pain will be even worse
Can't get out of depression, I feel like I'll never accept it
I'm so sorry to hear that, you are in a lot of pain. Would you like to hear something encouraging? Who did you lose?
same.
@@samualhogan8517 What is the hardest part for you, if I may ask?
I'll be there for you whenever you feel down. Don't worry.
Same here but not only depression severe anxiety stress, problems with family they don't care of help at all, CPTSD neglection and horrible past memories wish l was dead, my life is ruined and nothing going to change it or fix it. 😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔
I just lost my mom on the 13th of November 2021 due to cancer , she fought this beast ( cancer ) for two years every day of these two years this things are her body day by day and caused more damage until she just couldn’t take the pain anymore and died , I got into her hospital room after she died to say one final goodbye and it hurt so much talking to her with her responding to me or moving at all , I’m 18 years old girl and when my mom got cancer I was 16 and I was so close to her I had to spend a lot of time doing chores and taking care of dad and mom both when she was sick I didn’t sleep at night or morning I didn’t get an ounce of rest just to be there for her when she needs me , several times she went to death and then came back and that’s why it hurts so much but it’s fine because I’m sure she’s in heaven and happy and got rid of that torturing disease, I just miss her so much that I really just want to see her one more time , may god bless our beloved ones , all of us
Sharing this made me kinda comfortable it has only been one month of her death and some days I feel strong and feel like I wanna make mom proud and happy I’ll try to move on for dad and my sisters but the next day I feel so weak like I need mom I need her voice I need to listen to her call me her fav nickname of me and hug me and tell me all the sweet things she used to tell me even when she’s sick she made sure I’m happy but I’m trying to be okay and I’m sure at some point I’m gonna be okay and reading comments here made me realize that it’s okay everyone loses a beloved one eventually, it’s just the fear of losing another beloved person is what adds to my torture I pray to god everyday that he keeps and protects my beloved ones because I can’t bear to lose another one , please pray for me and my family and may all of your beloved ones be okay as well , please if you got any advice or anything to tell me just write it
@@nanalana2752 God bless you, I will pray for you.
Lost my grandfather. Rest in peace. ❤
lost my mom 2 weeks ago im only 12 but i know she is still here with me i love her so much she is the kindest person i have ever met she is the kind of person which you could talk to and within a few minutes she would make your day. There are people who talked to her for a few minutes many years ago who still remember her. This happening is just so sad for me i even knew i wouldn't have her for as long as i wanted cause she has been sick for years now dealing with lupis , authritus , one leg , Blader infection, and ect.. she was just so full of life me my brothers and dad we were her life she loved us so much even though she went through so much pain she was still so happy cause she got to spend everyday with us she lived life to the fullest she traveled the world has so many friends her family. I love her so much and i know i will see her again. There is also so much more i could say but i cant fit how much she means to me in one comment. I cant even form words strong enough to show how much she has helped me and impacted on me. Though im only 12 i will never forget the moments that we shared together
Stampy Rachel Nose sorry for your loss kid
I'm so sorry you have to go through this so young. I was 11 when I lost my mom and it was a really messed up time for me I was so broken for most of my life. I'm so happy to see you looking at these videos to help you. I didn't have these back then but your so smart and courageous to share what your going through. Big hugs to you sweetie.
I lost my mom on Christmas Eve..( 2017)
I am sorry for your loss also.. You are very mature for your age..
Your mother was a wonderful person who raised a wonderful daughter
Sorry to hear i lost mine yesterday i am 19 she was just 53
Nick M I lost a loved one yesterday as well man, you’re not alone sorry for your loss
I lost my dad 4 months ago. I’m only 16 it hurts. 10-3-19💛
I lost my dad too yesterday, he went swimming and didnt come back.. Still waiting to hear what actually happened. Im only 17, he didn't get to see me turn 18.. I miss you dad... Also stay strong guys.. Lets get through this together
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I lost my dad due to covid today and I can't stop thinking abt him. I fuckin miss him a lot. I am 16 yrs old.
Lost my friend. Only knew him online but we planned to meet this year. Knew him for 5 years. Really loved him. He just got diagnosed with leukemia less than half a month ago. He was only 19.
My little brother passed away a month ago today. He was 23 I miss him dearly and wish I could watch him grow more into the man he was to become.
My mom passed away yesterday from cancer, everything is so overwallming, i don't know how to feel like myself again , i can't stop crying
My mom passed away today from cancer :(
My mum died 2 days ago from pancreatic cancer. I'm spent 18 years with her but I was at school when it happened. What a fucking joke.
My mom passed away 3 years ago from cervical cancer..ive gone through greif in that time went crazy for awhile but in that time things will get better
Mia Wallace
You will be okay. We are all just bodies of energy in motion. We do go on. This loss will change you...just like the water changes the rocks. It's okay. Hold your head up and be proud of your pain. Be proud you have loved so deeply, that you have hurt so pure. It will change you. It will shape you. ..be proud of these wounds.
Mia Wallace same but i Never had a mom and dad I lived with my grandparents and they died
Grandmother just died today. Shit hurts, she wasn't just my grandmother but my best friend...She was the only one that talked to me after school.
My grandmother died today too! I screamed and she and I were really close.
Core Voltage my grandma died last night, I’m a fucking wreck. I don’t know what to do with myself.
Save pictures and savor the times you were still close to her. It's been a month and its the little things that get me, like not seeing her in her chair anymore, not watching T.V and talking to her, not sitting on the porch smiling and laughing with her. It's like a piece of my soul went with her.
Core, I hope you are feeling a little better. I am so sorry for your pain. I know how it is to lose a best friend. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
my nana died on the 6th of this month. i just feel so sad without her. hope you guys are ok
My mom died 4 years ago and even today.... Even today I mourn, wail and regret. Regret because I wish I could've been a better son and still wish that I could've been a better person. Now all I'm left with are my siblings and poor dad who's dealing with so much and isnt in the best state today. I pray and hope that God will listen to my prayers and keep dad alive for a little longer till I've reached more maturity and be able to support for my siblings❤️❤️Love you mom for everything you had done and I regret not being able to ask you so many questions but I hope we'll talk about the someday🤍
I lost my fiance a few days ago, and for many years of staying strong for her, I crumbled the moment she left this world at a young age of 28. Now I'm having a hard time keeping my sanity even when everyone seems to keep telling me to "stay strong". I don't know how to deal with this, that's why I'm looking for ways on how to.
I am so sorry for your loss. 😢
hi it’s been a year since your comment , how are you doing? I just lost a special friend of mine 2 days ago and just am wondering how you’re coping?
@@forthepeoplesubs1826 I'm with someone new now. And I've healed since then. Thanks for checking up on me.
I know what you mean, and not a lot of people understand what we go through. Don't put a clock or time frame in your mind. Just live day by day, the best you can. There will be good and bad days, peaks and valleys. At the end, she would want you to be happy, regardless. I lost my wife to cancer. It has been three years for me and I don't see the end of it. However, I take it day by day and do the best I can. No pressure. You can only work on it and progress, at the pace you can.
My friend passed away two days ago soooo unexpectedly. She was only 24. RIP Megan 💔😢
I hope you're doing okay today!
I'm sorry for your loss l, hope you get better ❤️
My friend died about 6 hours ago today. He was 16 years old.
So young it breaks me 😭
I lost my 13 year old son 21 years ago . I am trying to speak about my journey to help others
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My dad passed away last year and i still cant get over it its just great to see more people going through it and it makes me feel like im not alone stay strong guys
Life is worth living ❤️❤️❤️
I should of appreciated the time, anyone reading this, please go tell your family you love them and give them a hug. The amount of hugs I would give that one person right now if I knew what would happen. They would be overloaded with love. Take advantage of the time being. 💔
I have lost my mother to suicide, my sister-in-law died in a house fire,
and my brother overdosed on Rx pills... My advice to all from dealing
with the tragedies in my own life is this:
Chin up! You can choose to allow the sadness to take over your life OR you can choose to live life to the fullest, everyday! Have fun, smile, laugh because the one thing that we will always take with us in the end it the experiences we have shared in this life. The energy of love and life is eternal.
I choose life and I choose to smile and hopefully make people laugh through my channel. Grief can not take over your beautiful energy unless you allow it to. So don't ;)
If you're here then chances are that you are trying to fight the negative energy and surpass the stages of grief with flying colors. I believe in you and I know you can do it! Keep doing what ever it is that makes you smile everyday!!
I love all of you
All my love to you
You are beautiful
I love your advice
I hope it helps. All of my love to you as well
Dearest Anita,Almighty GOD gives his kindest Grace on you to go ahead with a bright future. Amen.
I actually lost my grandma today
Thats why I came to this video
Rest easy I will see you again Grandma
I lost my grandma a couple of days ago...
MY SECONd son died when he was YOUNG😂😂😂
Margaret Addams Uh is this a joke? Why r u laughing?
@@ashr.k5041 O wasn't laughing it was a very sad moment but I have gotten over it but thank you thank you for being very sweet but I wasn't laughing I was putting that crying symbol everyone uses when they are sad but thanks for checking up sweetie
Margaret Addams Oh I’m very sorry for your loss but that is actually a laughing emoji. This is a sad emoji 😢😭
Lost my old stepfather to suicide yesterday, haven’t spoken to him in years, but his presence had a huge impact in my life, and I always thought of him as a second father figure.
Looking back on all those fond memories make me so incredibly sad now - I never realized the incredible weight of those memories while making them.
I hope you rest in peace, dear Anders. And that the alcohol may finally leave you alone at last.
I hope my best friend's story helps you find true peace.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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The world is too painful to live in without you, grandma. I don’t know what to do anymore. I miss you, I want you to be back. I want to touch you. I want to hug you like before. I miss you. I miss you.
My cat passed away today. He was like a brother to me and I could never replace him. I miss him so much.
My cat is like a younger sibling too. I couldn't imagine loosing her, and I can't even imagine how much pain you're in. Stay strong and remember: Things will get better.
My cat died as well. Yesterday. It hurts so much because I wasn't able to take him back to the vet in time. I saw how much he suffered and can't stop blaming myself. I got to this video because I was looking for ways to stay strong. I hope things will get better for everyone experiencing this one day.
Molly Margolis We are going to let my grandpa fall in sleep today.. He will never be awake anymore.. I don't want this..
mine aswell i cant stop crying😭😭
chock sc my cat died yesterday she was hit by a car rn am currently crying we'll holding here collar
I want everyone to know, “dead doesn’t mean gone”
Wish it was that easy
Their spirit will always be watching over us stay strong 😊
This is what i tell myself we lived on this earth everybody was on earth once someone dies they go to heaven where they start their new lives and they wait for us to get there so once everybody is in heaven we all start a new life in a new place a loveable place ♥️
Pray this prayer sincerely to know your saved
Jesus, I believe you came to earth, I believe you died on the Cross for my sins. I believe you rose again on the 3rd day and went back to Heaven to prepare a place for Your Children To live with You Forever . Please forgive me of my sins. Clean my heart, white as snow. Come live in my heart, make me a child of the King, a new creature in Christ, in your precious Name I ask this...amen.
Do these things after praying the Salvation Prayer:
1) try a Bible and read it daily, it will feed your spirit and soul, the way you feed your body with food and water.
2) Pray to Jesus Everyday. He is your NEW Best Friend and He Wants to Talk with you daily he is love not a sin full love of flase love but a new one.
3)God is coming back soon rapture is coming and i love and what HEAVEN for who ever is reading this pray God will guide u and that u want to be used by him.
4) Pray to be filled with the Holy Spirit, "Sanctified". You do this by praying, reading the Bible and living for Jesus.
5) take your King James Bible to church. When the preacher speaks, make sure what he says matches your Bible, it not, get up and walk out and find a new church.
6) **VERY IMPORTANT** Make SURE you REPENT of SIN you do now, ask Jesus to forgive you with an honest heart and He will he loves u with the Greatest Love.
***If you would like me to pray with you or for you for ANYTHING, please message me and I will add you to my daily prayer list. May God bless you!
My Belief Statement
1) I believe In The Triune God Head, God Jesus and the Holy Spirit
2) Salvation Through Jesus Christ Is The ONLY Way To Heaven
3) I believe Christians MUST REPENT Of Post Salvation Sin
4) I believe in immersion Baptism only
5) I believe in Holy Communion
6) I believe all people will spend forever in Heaven or Hell
7) I believe in Conditional Security
8) I believe in the Pre-Tribulation Rapture
9) I believe God Created the Heavens and the earth
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10) I believe in ONE God, Jehovah & Jesus Christ His Son!
may God be with and bless and guide who ever reads this
It is
lost someone i looked up to and who was like a hero to me. i didnt know that the death of someone i never knew on a personal level would affect me this much. im not the only one feeling this way to. technos death hit me and millions of others too.
Same..
I only met them 2 times but if feels like I knew them my whole life, love you grandpa.
It's my mom's birthday today. It's been 15 years since I have seen your beautiful face. I love you so much.
It's the same amount of years for my mom as well. Hope things are better
My grandfather died in 2008 I barely remember...
I feel like I moved on and then... It always repeats itself again and again and I'm tired of it, I want to be able to remember her and smile, not cry and slowly fade away.
The Crazeh Jay Grief is often described as coming in waves. Sometimes very overpowering, knocking us over. Sometimes, like gentle waves, a sweet memory. Unexpected. The intensity and the frequency will diminish. E.g. Much loved songs would tear me apart. Then, I decided I had to switch the radio off if one was playing. Now, I can listen without agonising pain, or maybe a smile and sometimes a tear still falls. Sometimes, I'll dance. You will walk on firmer ground one day.
The Crazeh Jay + Zina when i thought i had good friends they didn't Come Around like i thought. 1st Of all Dear friend Ithasnt been Very long for your grieving, it seems as rhough Life just Cant go On... I cry when i see other's Grieve. It's the Worst i know... Very hard... Choose To turn to God, so far i too have lost Dad & 3 brothers. Michael most recently... my last brother died 8yrs. ago but, I Couldnt afford the Plane ticket So they Put him on the Phone With me. They said he Couldnt Speak i fought bacl my tears & said, Louis this is your sister, i Know u Can Hear Me & I said the Lords prayer with Him. I could Just Tell he was Hearing me, then I cho8ked back my tears & was told he was taking his last Breath... it's SO darn hard! But, I encourage you dear. Hang Onto the Love, the Memories, and Think of Your Good memories! Even Silly one's but Hang onto your Love 4 Ur Mom loves you.. Much hugs & Love 💓
Move -it may help...
It’s Jay Jay omg that’s how I feel it’s over and over and over every time i think it’s easing
My mom died 3 days ago and I've feel so alone.. My auntie, her baby sister and only remaining family member died one year prior in 2020 around this same time. It sucks when a love one goes and you feel like there was just something that you could do but it was too late...
Mom, I love you so so much and I hope you watch over us.. 💜💜💜
im just from technoblade's loss alright...
Same
Same. I miss him.
Same I’m crying so hard
Same
same
I lost my grandma on the 17th December after her 2nd battle with cancer. her funeral was yesterday and it was the saddest day of my life. She was my role model, a massive part of my life and knowing that she’s gone makes it hard to breathe.
C h a r m I’m sorry for you lost may she Rest In Peace
Same
Same here. Sorry to hear that my she rest in peace 😢😔
I lost my grandma 2 days ago, I feel your pain, she couldn’t even speak but she knew I was there and still hugged me and rubbed my hair, just know your not alone and I wish you the best of luck my friend🙏🏿💯
@@mirrr5467 same here lost my Grandma(adopted mom) last year and my adopted dad in 2016 one year apart and both from cancer. I'm sorry for loss I truly I'm hope you got support during this rough time.
I had none and I'm still dealing with all Alone 😢😞😥😕🙁😒☹️
Rest easy grandma I miss you, you were everything to me, I hope you are in a better place now. ❤️❤️❤️
My beautiful grandma passed away in October 2019, she loved me so much, and every night I cry for her to come back and hug me.
Soccer Master mine too bro Ik exactly how u feel, I miss her too much , just stay strong man you got this
Amir Foy Smith Thx man!
Soccer Master me too
Mine passed away yesterday I cant stop crying...
I lost my Nan yesterday. She was a beautiful, supportive, intelligent and loving woman. I’m missing her so much. I wish I could bring her back. ❤️😭 She was my best friend, growing up.
Hope your OK always here for support x
Both of my grandparents died in April 2021, and I miss them like hell !
I wish I could go back and appreciate them more
RIP Dad, you cared more for me and my brother than you did your own well being. And that's why you're not here.... I miss you and wish I could've said goodbye and told you I love you.
Floridabum1 that's a good dad. That's how I feel about my son.
Floridabum1 he knows you love him!
Same thing just happened to me my father went to work and had a heart attack. He was hurting all along and never showed it. He spent his last day taking care of stuff for the house when he should’ve been resting. I love and miss him so much like I know u do with your dad but the only thing keeping me sane is the fact I know he did his job and got to raise all his kids right. Our fathers will truly be missed and remembered Stay strong 💪🏾
Me too,dude.
Floridabum1 sorry for your loss 😥
My son died on june 3rd, 2018. His name is Aaron and he was 30 years old.He was a very talented hairdresser and was always striving to grow as a person and artist. He was also passionate about boxing and put his heart and soul into that also. I've been getting angry lately with denial and the thought that such a gentle spirit like Aaron would be taken a way from his future growth and joy. I've wasted a large part my life by not working to better my own life.Why is he the one that's been taken away instead of me. I've been crying out for answers and looking for some kind of spiritual awakening that will tell me that he's safe and happy in whatever place there is out there. I will never stop talking about him and will never stop bragging about how gentle hearted he was. He had the greatest laugh. I tell him every day that i'm so sorry that this happened to him. I apologize for rambling.
david r macri prayers for you friend
im so sorry david. life is so unfair and you dont have to look far to see how unjust and terrible it can be. we may all meet again one day, but in the meantime, just know that david wants you to be happy and to not ask 'why'? he wants you to celebrate his life and be happy. you know that's what he wants. its ok to feel the way you do at times though. go through the process that our mind takes us though. dont feel guilty about being here still.
david r macri My daughter Katy died June 10, 2018. She was 31. 6 months later and I still can’t get past it. It’s extremely hard to pretend to be normal when my heart is breaking. I just wanted you to know you are not alone. Losing a child is the worst of everything.
Read JJ Benitez book Estoy bien. Iam not sure about translation title. Aaron is ok. You will find him again when you get through the light. X
So sorry about your loss. I lost my brother over a year ago. I survived two cancers in 2013-2014 two major cancers. I keep wondering why did I live to see my Brother die of cancer. It is hard. I know no answers . Treasure your sons memory and the sound of his laugh. I have found prayer helps. God is always waiting for our prayers.
I lost one of my childhood friends 13 yrs ago today and i miss him so much. When a friend of mine said he took his own life i was in complete shock for 3 weeks and felt unable to grieve until sometime later. Sometimes i dream about him and tells me 'i'm still here' and when i wake up i realize he isn't. I'm never gonna forget the funny stuff he did like interrupting an assembly after i pulled his finger, sing rude parodies of songs, teaching him how to play the piano etc. He wasn't just a friend of mine he was apart of my life and i know he'll always be with me. Miss you so much Steven and i hope you're having a great time up there with your mum.
I hope my best friend's story helps you find true peace.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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I dealt with death 15 years ago when my brother died with cancer. But I didn’t experience the pain I am currently feeling in my chest until I lost my dear father 25 days ago. I’m now feeling broken, lost and still confused in many senses. He just went on vacations to his natal home in Morocco, really happy to spend his whole summer with my mum over there. When I received the news of his repent death at first I was shocked as I couldn’t believe it. It took me several days to get out from those grieving stages, swiping constantly moods over denial to depression. Now I cry and feel the pain within me, but I neglect the company of everybody, I just need to be alone with my pain. Sometimes I forget he’s gone, so I constantly remember beautiful memories with him until reality hits me and then I’m down. This video helped me realize that grieving takes time and comprehension. Thank you so much.
My grandpa died today and he was the best grandpa ever. Even thought he didn't suffer in pain his death makes me so sad. I had cried this whole day. You're in better place now, we will see again. Bye for now.❤️
Bro my grandpa just dies I feel you
If he didn't suffer when he was passing, this means he was a good person and will have a good birth.
Evil people suffer a lot when they get old and they wish even death to stop the suffering, yet they don't die.
I grieve for my child that is still alive that was kidnapped by Social Service 5 years ago.
www.ineedmymum.com
I'm so sorry for your loss I know I hope he went out with as little pain as posible as a merciful death I wish the best
Exact same story here😭😭
My heart is absolutely breaking for you! My grandpa just died too, it sucks. Like a lot. I am praying for you and everyone who replied to your comment! I really hope it helps! My number is 469-767-2010 if you want to text or even call if you need to talk it doesn't just have to be about this plus it would be nice to know that I am not the only one going through this.
Grandad passed this morning. 3:12 AM. I love you grandad. I will see you in heaven.
Lost a huge role model today, I've been awake for hours trying to calm down
While i never knew him personally he impacted me in a huge way.
Techno's death hurt me more than I would have ever thought it too.
Same he impacted me so so so much
Same
I was thinking of starting a discord support/grief group for people having a hard time grieving Technos death, so that we can all help eachother. A lot of people aren’t comfortable with showing their grief to their family and friends because of a fact that we didn’t personally know him. So I’m thinking that a more anonymous setting with people who are dealing with the same thing might help…
@@jmclakysim1765 bro add me.
fuck cancer man. It’s taking my grandpa right now too. He’ll be gone within a few days and I feel so much grief over it
I lost my baby sister, and I don’t even know what to think at this point, I have never felt this heart broken. I know God had better plans with her, But I was not done with her, she meant the world to me and now just in one day I’ve lost it. I feel so lost and shattered, I’ve never felt so down in my life.
I just lost my dog this morning and I’m crushed. He was like a child to me. Thank you for this
Sara Kruder sorry sweetie 😢 losing a pet is very heartbreaking, like losing your best friend- 😘
Sara Kruder I feel your pain. I lost my little Rosie two days ago (my precious cat). She was part of my soul
I just lost my dog last night & I'm feeling crushed as well. My two dogs & cat are everything to me. Feels empty with one less pet.
Sara Kruder same, thats why im here. she actually hasnt died yet we have to go put her down in 45 minutes, just found out she has cancer 😞 i feel so lost im not gonna be the same without her around
Baylee Qualls I’m so sorry 💔 my dog died yesterday