Grief Expert Shares The Worst Thing to Do After Heartbreak

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  • @R_iaaa
    @R_iaaa หลายเดือนก่อน +561

    You should NEVER send them that closure text or reply to a breadcrumbing text ever. I replied to my ex’s text after 70 fuckin days of no contact, thinking that I was absolutely over him, but fuck my life, I saw his indifference again and spiralled, almost like I’d never even begun to heal. DONOT reach out to them ever once it’s over, no matter how much time has passed, it’ll never do you any good, no matter what. Trust me when I say this.

    • @WithAnEss
      @WithAnEss หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      it has been 308 days of no contact. And yes, I just said this out loud, with a huge smile on my face. My smile was missing with the narc.
      Take care of yourself, and no more contact, ever!

    • @YukiCamui425
      @YukiCamui425 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      Totally agree with you. No one has to give closure to someone that broke your heart. I’ve been through the exact same situation and I chose not to reply back when he texted not because I didn’t care; it was because I wanted that person to know that abandoning me, ghosting me, and not answering me for an entire year was never ok. To whom ever is going through the same situation, don’t give closure to anyone unless you want to, not because it’s necessary to move on. Take a step back and think through before making that choice for yourself. Your self-worth is more important than the person who hurt you ❤

    • @orielwiggins2225
      @orielwiggins2225 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      I feel that pain. And I hope you have found that with 2+months of no contact your reaction and spiraling is already starting to be shorter and maybe less intense. It's not sobriety tho, it's healing, when we're putting in the work it might feel like a major setback to square one, but it's not. You noticed it and it strengthened your resolve. I'm not trying to be overly positive about this at all, just letting you lie that you're right to feel the way you do and please be gentle with yourself as you walk thru this healing and a shift in perspective can often help us when we're knocked down into a pit again and feel like all the 70 days was for nothing. I know it feels like it, I've been there way too many times and need reminded when I'm there, it's not for nothing at all. It's not back at the start, it's more like a hurdle we didn't clear that put us on the ground hurting again. So of course it feels similar to the beginning of healing. But we are this far into the journey already and we didn't lose that ground, just learned the hard way that wasn't the way over that hurdle. You're doing great and may we all be healing more each day.

    • @johnsonjj117
      @johnsonjj117 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      My problem is mine isn’t going anywhere, she’s the mother of my child and has a way of disarming everyone around her

    • @orielwiggins2225
      @orielwiggins2225 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@johnsonjj117 ugh. I'm so sorry. That's my ex. Smooth, cunning and turns everyone to his favor when I was trying to avoid therw being sides at all. I'm sorry.

  • @gailsparrovv
    @gailsparrovv หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    "The worst grief is always yours." Simple and profound.

  • @WatYaGonnaDo
    @WatYaGonnaDo หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    “The wisdom to heal is within us.”

  • @biasedknowledge
    @biasedknowledge หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    The way you explained how our minds prefer guilt over helplessness reminds me of the illusion of control. We so often try to impose meaning on situations that are out of our control, like blaming ourselves for outcomes that were never within our power to begin with. A friend of mine struggled for years with guilt after her father’s passing, thinking she should’ve done more, but hearing that guilt is a false sense of control could be such a freeing revelation. Thank you for bringing such clarity to a deeply painful emotion

  • @jrwheeler81
    @jrwheeler81 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    I just turned 43 last week and my husband, whom I was with for a total of 22 years (since I was only 18), passed away very suddenly and unexpectedly a little over 2 years ago in June of 2022. I cannot even begin to describe the state of paralyzing shock I was in for the first several months after he passed. It was completely unexpected, and he was only 52 (he had just turned 52 a few weeks before his passing). Fast forward to early March of 2023, I met and fell madly in love with my now boyfriend of the last 19 months. I couldn't imagine my life without him. He has completely changed my life in ways that I never thought were possible. I honestly don't know how I ever lived without him! My biggest fear was always losing the ones that I love (my parents, close friends, romantic partner, pets, etc.). He, himself, actually had a near death experience in 2017 and he has really taught me to live in the present and stop living in perpetual anxiety over losing people. He always says to me, "We're all going to die. I've already died once, but I came back, and I'm going to die again. So are you! Live in the present and enjoy where you're at." The BEST advice ever.

    • @lamisschiheb
      @lamisschiheb หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Wow such a great great advice he gave you here❤
      You're so strong for being able to go through that, being anxious after all of this can only be natural you're doing good

    • @deepaknambisan3251
      @deepaknambisan3251 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I am so sorry. You are doing absolutely amazingly xx

  • @sani_i
    @sani_i หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    “fear doesn't stop death, fear stops life”
    “our mind would always rather feel guilty than helpless”

  • @aman5344
    @aman5344 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    "Fear stops the relationship".
    Learnt this the hard way.

  • @HooieBones3
    @HooieBones3 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    Having lost both a partner and a child to death the issue of guilt is real. There is always the “could’ve, should’ve” going on in my mind. With my husband I regretted not showing him how much I appreciated all he did for me while he was alive. He needed that reassurance. Also, I wasn’t there for him when he passed in the ICU after life supports were withdrawn. I thought to myself, “He’s a tough man, he will be here in the morning.” He wasn’t. As for my adult child. She passed away from suicide. As a parent I will always wonder what I did wrong. I suffered prolonged pain. As time passes I am trying the best I can to practice gratitude and be grateful for having these beautiful souls in my life.

    • @orielwiggins2225
      @orielwiggins2225 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Heartbreaking is such an anemic word for these, and I'm so sorry. Which also feels pretty unhelpfully weak. Sending you peace love and rest for your heart mind buddy and spirit! ❤

    • @Lonelydad2
      @Lonelydad2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      So sorry for your loss sending prayers up for you and yours

    • @iamhiptwo7016
      @iamhiptwo7016 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you love and peace.

  • @beccabean5770
    @beccabean5770 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I listened to both videos with David Kessler & they were so impactful. His testimony, resiliance, and humor touched my heart.
    I appreciated his re-framing of how we look at situations, time-lines, and our life in general. To be self-accepting and start where we are now.
    Him validating that our grief is hard for us because it is what we are experiencing, showed compassion.
    The stove falling on some of us...wow yes.
    I resonated with his example of grieving the parent you had...and the one you didn't have. It is painful when they are alive and you have this ongoing grief to process.
    Estrangement is painful when you are willing to have a relationship but the other person makes no effort, are neglectful & rejecting.
    Thank you so much for these recordings, they helped me.

  • @robertashaffer3950
    @robertashaffer3950 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    David had me laughing & crying almost simultaneously.
    Wow! Wisdom. Depth. Compassion. Realism. Exactitude. And what a no nonsense approach.
    Thank you David.
    I received so much from this video 🙏🙏

  • @Jonnybrooks-c7n
    @Jonnybrooks-c7n 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +292

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

    • @DorothyAngers
      @DorothyAngers 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

    • @Jonnybrooks-c7n
      @Jonnybrooks-c7n 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @DorothyAngers
      @DorothyAngers 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @Jonnybrooks-c7n
      @Jonnybrooks-c7n 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @chuckbyrge9909
      @chuckbyrge9909 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I’m exactly there. It is unbearable

  • @jimjam_games5783
    @jimjam_games5783 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Don't blame yourself for being imperfect and dont second guess yourself. They could and should have communicated their concerns at any point when it was early on and healthy to do so. If they choose to repress resentment and pretend everything is great to self preserve and then blindside you, YOU and your mistakes were NEVER the problem. Their lack of communication was. We all know after the fact that those issues would have been easily resolved if we KNEW our love was at risk. They didn't tell us. That's on them.

    • @He1iconia
      @He1iconia หลายเดือนก่อน

      👏👏👏

    • @itirdumlu
      @itirdumlu 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Can't be more real. Thanks for this

    • @aradaz
      @aradaz 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That is exactly what happened to me 😔

    • @madibabe356
      @madibabe356 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Just happened to me as well. 10 years together and engaged for almost 2 years, down the drain. He ended it the DAY of our engagement photos. Grabbed a prepacked bag and left. Talk about a stab in the back.

    • @He1iconia
      @He1iconia 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@madibabe356 Oof, a classic avoidant discard. I'm so sorry this happened to you. It's gutwrenching and disorienting.

  • @cathywoo44
    @cathywoo44 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    One of the VERY BEST interviews I've seen! So appreciate David's light, hilarious humor on such a dark topic. 😂 More so, grateful for his educated insight.

  • @noah1502
    @noah1502 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    his discussion topics and advice are so calming and reassuring. I appreciate this man for doing what he does ❤

  • @raymondtalisic8292
    @raymondtalisic8292 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I pray I can speak to a professional for my severe depression. I just feel sad having to think that I was left alone in this great melancholy. It's sad when you seek help from people, but all are busy. I pray.

  • @ValerieGaster
    @ValerieGaster หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This is extremely powerful. I wanted to be at this retreat and intuitively decided not to go. My mom passed on the 10th. It was good to be home. I've listened to it twice today and shared it with many. It covers a multitude of grieving. Bravo and much love for your openness to help others and not stay in the cobwebbed house. 🙏👍

  • @MaryannNunes
    @MaryannNunes หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Beautiful amazing words amazing I lost my husband 4 years ago and still dealing with the grief thanks for the videos they're helping

  • @cherylfrederick530
    @cherylfrederick530 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sitting here crying, thank you! So needed this.... ❤

  • @xz_resilience_zx
    @xz_resilience_zx หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This Video is soooooo helpful. I stuck in the guilt spiral and the proximate causation. Now that I know about it, I can change it. The blank paper that was given to me by life hasn't to be tinted with guilt and shame. Thaaaaank you so very much.

  • @Mytown2024
    @Mytown2024 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love so much this interview that I keep watching it again and again❤! Thanks for bringing David Kessler ❤

  • @lisapardini3594
    @lisapardini3594 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    A wonderful, wonderful, video. David Kessler is so insightful and has a heart just bursting with compassion. I pre-ordered his workbook as soon as I finished watching this video.

  • @jesenikm
    @jesenikm 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I started crying. Thank you for this.

  • @introvertmtunofficial
    @introvertmtunofficial หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Mercy:
    You are a being, gentle and kind.
    You've carried burdens heavy in your mind.
    No more should you endure such pain.
    Don't be cruel with eyes that hold no rain.
    Don't let harshness be your guiding light.
    Don't trap yourself in a confined state of plight.
    Don't rub salt in wounds that haven't healed.
    Don't reopen scars that time concealed.
    When wounds are dry, don't tear them anew,
    Creating chasms deeper than the blue.
    Don't clip your wings with burdens untold.
    Don't drown yourself in stories yet untold.
    There's love you need, a love more profound.
    Embrace yourself, let kindness surround.
    Compassion's touch, a gentle embrace.
    Whisper comfort, find a peaceful space.
    Treat yourself sometimes, a gift so sweet,
    A fragrant biryani, a citrusy treat.
    Indulge in coolness, a scoop of delight,
    Ice cream's embrace on a sunny, bright light.
    Each day, walk hand-in-hand with the dawn,
    Let gentle sunlight grace your way on.
    Explore the world, witness wonders untold,
    Paint freely, let your colors unfold.
    Sing off-key, let your voice take flight,
    Dance with abandon, lose yourself in the night.
    Do for yourself what you yearn for from another,
    Let joy bloom, for love deserves no other.
    May those who cherish you find solace true,
    Seeing the happiness blooming anew!
    If you have 3 minutes, come to my channel and watch a beautiful video based on this poem.th-cam.com/video/mF6nDyJZ4p0/w-d-xo.html&lc=Ugxp9OR6IITeZgIf02F4AaABAg

  • @lauragraceramos
    @lauragraceramos หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    David is a witty and engaging speaker, with great little nuggets of wisdom. Great video, thanks for this!

  • @SueDamron
    @SueDamron หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Wow!!!! Standing ovation!! Incredible content in this beautiful interview! My soul was deeply moved throughout!! Such a blessing!! Thank you!!! ❤

  • @agatik90
    @agatik90 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Brilliant. This whole conversation was just brilliant. What a gem, can't thank you enough for this. Radical acceptance!!! Beautiful!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻❤️

  • @deepaknambisan3251
    @deepaknambisan3251 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wonderful video. Book ordered. I am in tears, and feeling both humbled and inspired by what I have heard tonight.

  • @keep_it_light
    @keep_it_light 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i hope people heal. bless.

  • @BGga.
    @BGga. หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ❤❤❤❤ Thank you I need this right now and I’m grateful that addiction, abuse, guilt and fear are all in this video. These are all real topics.

  • @222littlecat
    @222littlecat หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I am deeply touched by this conversation. Thank you ❤

    • @MaryannNunes
      @MaryannNunes หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too was good for me after losing my late husband 4 years ago it's interesting

  • @kimcooper1833
    @kimcooper1833 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    David is a true channeler.

  • @janjacksonauthor3282
    @janjacksonauthor3282 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I loved that soooo much! Got a great deal from it. Amazing two people delivering top value on something we just don't really understand fully, or even talk about except maybe in therapy so this was absolutely an awesome surprise. Thank you!!! Much LOVE

  • @aallaaziz6810
    @aallaaziz6810 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    An episode to rewatch for sure. Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @MaryannNunes
    @MaryannNunes หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Laughter is the best medicine ever

  • @sunshine885
    @sunshine885 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Wow, what a great conversation. David is so wise. I've been listening to him and his wisdom since 2020, and I've learned a lot. It has helped me heal a lot of things I've been through. ❤

  • @jennyverano5576
    @jennyverano5576 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for sharing this video so that more people could benefit from such insightful conversation. It has helped me to understand guilt and grief. Thank you ❤

  • @michelesqueo5541
    @michelesqueo5541 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Loving your talks with David Kessler. Listened to him years ago on Hay House.

  • @jessicalong6011
    @jessicalong6011 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was just so very healing and helpful. I have so many notes and I pray they stick in my heart and brain to stay free. Thank you both so very much ❤❤

  • @TheNellybird
    @TheNellybird หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Fantastic interview. What a character! So distinct with his message. 😊

  • @nadiaregula6422
    @nadiaregula6422 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This is one of the best interviews, so reassuring

  • @Mytown2024
    @Mytown2024 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you very for sharing this video with us. I love your work and Dabid Kessler's work❤

    • @carlfreiermuth5424
      @carlfreiermuth5424 หลายเดือนก่อน

      why ,I can't talk after reading typos? 😋😁

  • @katharinabeck1892
    @katharinabeck1892 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    the best humor today, and with wisdom. Thank you.

  • @Introvertedgaming-p2b
    @Introvertedgaming-p2b 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This has come at the right time when griefing right now 😢

  • @junitaartman9982
    @junitaartman9982 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The Questions you asked were so on point, Amazing

  • @kimberleenadwocki4393
    @kimberleenadwocki4393 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sadly Grieving Children a person never had. How the Grief of Divorce, or loss of a Brother, or a child. Grieve the cost of actually raising that child to being successful. Most women grieve that Fairytale wedding but not that cost to have it and how parents will take a 2nd mortgage out to pay for it. I love this video. Thank you 😊

  • @janjacksonauthor3282
    @janjacksonauthor3282 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yes Louis Hayes was instrumental in getting my life moving in a positive direction. Someone just out of the goodness of their heart gave me one of her books. I don't recall the name now but it was full of positive affirmations and also what a more esoterical meaning of certain diseases and illnesses really meant at a deeper level. Very life changing for me. It started my mind functioning in the most beneficial ways. I'll always remember the young woman that gave me that book. It truly was the start in changing my life. I did not reeeaaallllyyy know how to use my mind properly. Yep. Louis Hayes!! LOVE

    • @tanyaMahri330
      @tanyaMahri330 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Was it called "you can heal your life"?

  • @LindaSchebel
    @LindaSchebel หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I had this experience with my Mom's death and funeral. I just let everyone be whatever kind of A$$ they naturally are, and the whole thing went so smoothly! Fortunately, there were a few kind, and generous people, and they helped me to cope emotionally.

  • @SUNshine_9
    @SUNshine_9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Fantastic transmformative interview.

  • @jessicalong6011
    @jessicalong6011 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So healing and helpful. Thank you both so very much ❤❤

  • @laurenmaddison1111
    @laurenmaddison1111 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So good. Bless everyone’s heart

  • @teeve1500
    @teeve1500 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How absolutely wonderful, omg who is this guy?! Well done, Matthew!

  • @debrawhittle6812
    @debrawhittle6812 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oooffff! That hit hard! What a beautiful conversation.

  • @orielwiggins2225
    @orielwiggins2225 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Aquarius 😂😂😂😂. David is great. Fantastic interview Matthew, I know you must have felt like there was not nearly enough time to get to even a fraction of the topics and questions.

  • @MaryannNunes
    @MaryannNunes หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you I have learned so much from this guy he's very very intelligent and it is so wonderful to hear somebody very very very very very amazing

  • @MindfulSimpleSolutions
    @MindfulSimpleSolutions หลายเดือนก่อน

    He is amazing! Great interview 🙏❤️

  • @elen6990
    @elen6990 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤️❤️ so love this interview. It was so profoundly helpful. Looking forward to reading his book. Thank you for this talk and introducing us(who hadn't known of him) to him and his work. 🙏🏻

  • @Karinskiis
    @Karinskiis หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for a Beautiful talk. ❤ Coming out of my house and enjoying the sunrise. 🙏

  • @mihaelabornaz8607
    @mihaelabornaz8607 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brilliant video, thank You so much for your guest and the questions you presented to him ❤

  • @laurienoltimier5490
    @laurienoltimier5490 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So powerful - thank you❤

  • @jossfangirl
    @jossfangirl หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    "We are here to love the wrong people - to replicate the wounds to finally heal them." What if you did it right? Accept. And move on.

  • @MaryannNunes
    @MaryannNunes หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have you have made it richer thank you so much you are a blessing

  • @claudiadiaz6713
    @claudiadiaz6713 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a wonderful way of thinking! Thank you

  • @poeys1959
    @poeys1959 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤ so much love is shared, I smiled the whole vdo.

  • @radicalmanifesting
    @radicalmanifesting หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely loved this!

  • @michellekane6894
    @michellekane6894 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Feel Wounded beyond repair 💔

    • @sarafonfria
      @sarafonfria 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I wish the best for you. Whatever your wound, I hope it heals in a way that brings you peace ❤ may joy and love finds you while at it

  • @tanyaroub4641
    @tanyaroub4641 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Priceless!

  • @MalehlohonoloMasilo
    @MalehlohonoloMasilo หลายเดือนก่อน

    DAVID ! You are awesome sir 🙌🙌

  • @gus6077
    @gus6077 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Really Beautiful and Real Video thanks for sharing, cheers!

  • @Rico-RR
    @Rico-RR หลายเดือนก่อน

    Incredibly Powerful 💯

  • @meganmarie755
    @meganmarie755 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This has helped me so much 🖤

  • @MorganP-i4i
    @MorganP-i4i หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved this! Thanks for posting.

  • @TracyLynn75
    @TracyLynn75 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I LOVE LOUISE HAY!! RIP

  • @soulaward2136
    @soulaward2136 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Awesome what a guy! Book coming :)

  • @AnnaWoG
    @AnnaWoG หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    WANTING TO HAVE CHILDREN AND FAMILY IS NOT AN IULLUSION. IT IS THE BEST LIFE GOAL, THAT GIVES MEANING TO EVERYTHING WE DO.

  • @bonniechampagne4093
    @bonniechampagne4093 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    That was WONDERFUL! THANK YOU ❤️

  • @juliaskagfjord6207
    @juliaskagfjord6207 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    DAMN this is soooo cool. Oh I could have really used to go to this retreat. I need to know about this too! Thank you for sharing.

  • @HellaBella-d4y
    @HellaBella-d4y หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I ❤ Louise Hay...did she really find love at 90?? I grieve rhe life I wasred and ruined on my own

  • @julienorthcutt
    @julienorthcutt หลายเดือนก่อน

    Whewweeee, that was profound.💫

  • @carolinaroman6642
    @carolinaroman6642 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed this thank you both of you ❤

  • @neha_ananda
    @neha_ananda หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much this was amazing 👏🏻👏🏻🙏🙏🙏💫

  • @paula3569
    @paula3569 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That's a lot and great
    Thank you❤🙏

  • @GR-rk2fi
    @GR-rk2fi หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    more, please, more, more, more. I could develop a David Kessler dependency, because it is so wonderful to listen to his ideas and examples. Thank you for sharing this. 🙏🫶

    • @mitzivalentin8410
      @mitzivalentin8410 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree. Wow this is as so good. ❤

  • @karenpino3591
    @karenpino3591 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent. Thank you

  • @elskar1
    @elskar1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I loved this!!🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @annevanderlaan6441
    @annevanderlaan6441 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My husband died in 2019. I am not the same person I was then. We can’t have faith and fear.

  • @thunabs7759
    @thunabs7759 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was amazing!

  • @MaryannNunes
    @MaryannNunes หลายเดือนก่อน

    I agree about the parents yep I agree about that

  • @davidnorman2134
    @davidnorman2134 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I just feel dead numb lonely and empty inside. Sadness has replaced happiness.

    • @amyl6426
      @amyl6426 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Please don’t lose hope..hang in there. Breathe . Things can turn around when you least expect it. 😊

    • @briechilli4496
      @briechilli4496 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too 😢

    • @randypanthegoatboy2
      @randypanthegoatboy2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Stay strong brother.

  • @lweziserodio4423
    @lweziserodio4423 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brilliant!! Thank you.

  • @athygiannopoulos2634
    @athygiannopoulos2634 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So many gems

  • @beatleme2
    @beatleme2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😁 this is so good - thanks

  • @thaisxd0
    @thaisxd0 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg thank you for this video 😊❤

  • @MsRobbiebob
    @MsRobbiebob หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Brilliant 👏 👏

  • @cristinemariano771
    @cristinemariano771 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He lives, yet he’s gone-a quiet ghost drifting through his world, while you linger in the hollow echo of who he once was to you 💔.

  • @FrankieTurner-n2k
    @FrankieTurner-n2k หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is good kove matthews cute look

  • @Mytown2024
    @Mytown2024 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love it!❤

  • @sewaari1114
    @sewaari1114 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mathew,what's healing,in practice? Is it just acceptance? Or more than that?

    • @ceciliamac4283
      @ceciliamac4283 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Acceptance never spoke to me. What really helped me is to have a mindset of “I Neither accept nor reject 🤍”

  • @pikapoka17
    @pikapoka17 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brilliant ❤

  • @jvstkiki
    @jvstkiki หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you ❤

  • @motEngvity
    @motEngvity หลายเดือนก่อน

    how profound ❤