13 things I would have paid $1300 to know at 13 years old…

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  • If you're 13-20 years old, here are 13 pieces of advice I would tell my 13 year old self...
    Here's the background music I used in this video: • C418 - Subwoofer Lulla...
    Instagram: @jak.piggott
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    #selfimprovement

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  • @evanmurray18
    @evanmurray18 หลายเดือนก่อน +2320

    I’m glad I found this man at a young age

  • @RaptorExTolop
    @RaptorExTolop หลายเดือนก่อน +797

    Number 12 in Minecraft terms, ‘you most go through the nether, to reach the end’
    Love it Jack!

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +143

      Haha that’s it bro 👊❤️

    • @madmanjerry7074
      @madmanjerry7074 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Love how, even from a non-minecraft perspective, it's still true.
      You have to go through to get to the end. Nice.

    • @user-eu6fc5wu8x
      @user-eu6fc5wu8x 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      that's true. if you don't get the blaze rods from creative mode, you have to go through nether.

    • @Anty_Praza
      @Anty_Praza 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      As someone who often goes to the emd before the nether I disagree.

    • @Badmodel2
      @Badmodel2 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Anty_Praza thats impossible

  • @UjjwalTomar-bc4vm
    @UjjwalTomar-bc4vm หลายเดือนก่อน +1275

    1. Never leave what your childhood self adored.
    2. Never light yourself on fire to keep others warm.
    3. Clearly identify your idea of success.
    4. Never talk shit, or associate with people who do.
    5. Treat yourself like a plant.
    6. If you compare, do it right or don't do it at all.
    7. Never make a permanent decision based on a temporary emotion.
    8. When you're doing good, you're not doing as good as you think you are.
    And when you're doing bad, you're not doing as bad as you think you are.
    9. Value as many things within your control.
    10. Care more for how your success is achieved, rather than the success itself.
    11. Always remember why you started.
    12. A tree's roots must reach hell before the leaves reach heaven.
    13. Just relax and enjoy your youth.
    ❤️

    • @NightCqre
      @NightCqre หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      thanks bro

    • @Rover_mw2
      @Rover_mw2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Wtf dude

    • @noah4371
      @noah4371 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      @@Rover_mw2???

    • @espie.z
      @espie.z หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      holy guac, thanks you! you're goated

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +130

      Big W ❤

  • @Jayomit
    @Jayomit หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    I’m 13, it’s a horrible awkward stage in life, but thanks to you and other inspirational influencers, I’m starting to realize that everyone goes through this and life isn’t over because of the littlest things. I’m learning to put my own opinions and validations over other’s negative ones. I feel that because of these things I’m now hearing, I can seriously make this a better time in my life, and for that I sincerely thank you. Keep up the good work man.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      This is amazing bro, keep your head up and keep moving forward, your future self will thank you ❤

    • @legthieff
      @legthieff หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I’m in the same area, and I’ve been following “Do what brings you success” (i think smth like that) for a while. I love drawing and music and I’m really not bad at them. I hyperfocus on those and I’m planning to find a career in those

    • @Blebo96
      @Blebo96 หลายเดือนก่อน

      gl man

    • @RunningwithDooley11
      @RunningwithDooley11 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Trust in Jesus too and have faith that He can help anyone through everything

    • @FletchDADDY13
      @FletchDADDY13 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      same

  • @LightninH4_
    @LightninH4_ หลายเดือนก่อน +620

    brother you caught be scrolling at a bad point. this is perfect timing. love your work too man keep growing

    • @charliechalk
      @charliechalk หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      End your endless scrolling

    • @LightninH4_
      @LightninH4_ หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@charliechalk yeah man i’m being productive now. i speedcube so ive been learning. preciate it brother

    • @gaemeer895
      @gaemeer895 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@LightninH4_ whats ur pb

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +54

      Thank you my brother ❤

    • @theamazingharveer11
      @theamazingharveer11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@LightninH4_ same bro

  • @abnormality3345
    @abnormality3345 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    You're the only "self-improvement" TH-camr that I actually respect. A lot of the other ones try to "relate" but you give genuinely good advice.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Just being me man, so happy you're finding value ❤

  • @TwilightSagaCullen
    @TwilightSagaCullen หลายเดือนก่อน +213

    *Don't light yourself on fire to keep others warm!* That is one of my favourite quotes! I used it in a book I was writing once.
    I related to it way too much at the time. I'd referred to it like I was drowning inside just to make everyone else around me happy or smile. And it made me feel horrible.
    I ended up learning to push through it and change my ways through balance. If it felt fake, I'd try to push back from it. And if I knew it made me feel good and was real, I knew it was the right thing to do.
    I love quote number 12! ❤
    (Sorry if I'm rambling)

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      To be honest, looking back at it now it should have been higher. I heard that quote back in 2021 and I have reminded myself of it at least every week for the past 3 years now 👊

    • @Cubico580
      @Cubico580 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Exactly not too long ago I had a “friend” who was just using me it’s because he always made me feel bad for him but I eventually realized that he was just using me

  • @NotxbossThexbot
    @NotxbossThexbot หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    You had me at "never stop playing minecraft"

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Haha I guess it’s true though, at least for me 😂

    • @Mighty_Clipz
      @Mighty_Clipz 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@JakPiggottThank you bro, I’ve been posting TH-cam videos for a year now and I needed to hear #11

    • @kongaytofficial
      @kongaytofficial 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@@Mighty_Clipzkeep it up bro ❤

  • @Contraninja9
    @Contraninja9 หลายเดือนก่อน +103

    Dude you’ve rlly helped me out of some tough times

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      I may have assisted but you should give yourself the most credit brother, you did what was necessary ❤

    • @wiwisestra3388
      @wiwisestra3388 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      take a cold shower

  • @faisalabdul2393
    @faisalabdul2393 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    Damn. I really feel like I had to hear 13… just. Enjoy my youth, never had I once ever thought o f just enjoying time, I was always stuck up in the loop of “how to be super focused” or “the secret to infinite productivity” that I just forgot to live a little…. Thanks man, your like an older brother for this generation.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      100% man, it outweighs everything in this video, we get one youth and one life ❤

    • @yuhu3265
      @yuhu3265 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I’m 13 but I wish I heard this when I was 10 ❤

  • @TheNyxCabin
    @TheNyxCabin หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Bro you dont even realize how much just sharing your experience with others is helping us all so much. Thank you so much.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Thank you bro, much love ❤

  • @lazarmin6763
    @lazarmin6763 หลายเดือนก่อน +271

    I almost cried at the end then out of nowhere “Fuck, my ass is sore.” XDD

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +58

      Haha I had to include it 😂

    • @qSolid21_
      @qSolid21_ หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      LOL

    • @Hedwigthechicky
      @Hedwigthechicky หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@JakPiggottso sentimental
      Until then 😂😂😂😂

  • @JakeB564
    @JakeB564 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    I wanna thank you Jak for teaching me #12. I’m reaching high school in September, and my close friends have been starting to turn against me, leaving me out, shittalking me behind my back
    I’ve been improving because of you. I genuinely appreciate you

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Everything will work bro, put trust in that, you are being put in this position for a reason, I was in a very similar position as you a couple of years ago ❤

  • @Dreamer-4300
    @Dreamer-4300 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    the ending caught me off guard
    [Amazing advice BTW we truly need to be like you]

    • @S1mplegotbullyed
      @S1mplegotbullyed หลายเดือนก่อน

      no brother you need to be yourself and maybie improve things you think you can improve.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Haha it was sore af though bro, much love 😂❤

  • @jademondia6537
    @jademondia6537 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I’m 24 & I’ve gotten so much value from this. Thanks Jak 😊 Needed to hear your advice.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Ayee less go much love ❤

  • @Bleepp-
    @Bleepp- หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I don’t know if this goes unnoticed or not but I would like to add one I think is very important and that is to Carry yourself with pride and confidence. Don’t overdue it to the point of being a a bad person but just when you go into something go into it with a confidence or mindset that this won’t be so bad or this might even be easy. I promise this mindset will set you up for success. It helps get rid of lingering doubts while still keeping them there but more of an after thought than an overwhelming presence.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Couldn't be further from the truth ❤

    • @StrongholdVR
      @StrongholdVR หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me to bro thanks I’m 13

    • @idkanymore6897
      @idkanymore6897 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@JakPiggott huh? so this is false?
      *couldnt* be *further* from the *truth*
      edit: this is a joke

    • @Thequickgnome
      @Thequickgnome 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@StrongholdVRgtag goes crazy

    • @isaiahdrazkowski5398
      @isaiahdrazkowski5398 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@idkanymore6897I think he meant closer he probably just misspelled or something thats he put a heart (no rudeness or anything) good luck brother

  • @gamerofgamez4247
    @gamerofgamez4247 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +67

    You find this at 13yrs old: 🗿

  • @CaitlynPockburn-lq3pm
    @CaitlynPockburn-lq3pm หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I’ve realized most of the things he says awhile ago when I started making ocs and giving them horrible trauma and how they can help themselves so they don’t have to lean on others, get attached, and then they die. But it’s just nice to get a refresher from someone else ❤❤❤
    (And I just wanna say this because I’m proud of myself but I’m really glad I figured this all out as a minor. I’m old enough to be on TH-cam though.)

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I unfortunately don't know what an OC is bro, I might just be really dumb idk, but we learn through experience man and I hope you've come out on the better side, you should be proud of yourself as you said ❤

    • @CaitlynPockburn-lq3pm
      @CaitlynPockburn-lq3pm หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@JakPiggott original character, like when someone makes up a person for a tv show or series they like to keep to themselves, and it’s not that common of an affirmation or whatever it’s called so no worries 😂 . And thank you so much ❤️

  • @user-si7lo5vq8o
    @user-si7lo5vq8o หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have turned 20 this year, I have no idea what I am doing and living my life day to day and I am struggling from a broken collarbone that is in the process of healing. I deal with a lot of challenges in life like hearing impairment and lack of social skills. Your content has been in my feed for a while and I have clicked on a few, always gets me thinking about myself. I want to thank you for making videos cause I have become more aware of myself, I am a people pleaser simply because I struggled growing up not being accepted to others. It has become a big part of me out of habit and the happy dopamine I feel afterwards. I apologize if I am not making too much sense, I am quite uneducated. Thank you :)

  • @ikrimase
    @ikrimase หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    0:53 Never leave what your childhood self adored
    1:43 Never light yourself on fire to keep others warm
    2:31 Clearly identify YOUR idea of success
    3:24 Never talk shit or associate with people who do so (behind others backs)
    4:00 treat yourself like a plant
    4:27 if you compare do it right or don't do it at all
    5:15 Never make a permenant decision based on temporary emotions
    6:10 when you're doing "good" you're never doing as good as you think you are
    6:57 value as many things within your control
    7:48 care more about how the success is achieved than the success itself
    8:43 always remember why you started
    9:31 a tree's roots must reach hell before the leaves reach heaven
    10:23 Just relax and enjoy your youth
    11:24 "Fuck, my arse is sore"
    You're welcome :)

    • @FrozenFrost6866
      @FrozenFrost6866 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You forgot one
      11:23 Fuck my ass is sore😂

    • @Blqht
      @Blqht หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      you are ruining the attention spans of the people watching this

    • @espie.z
      @espie.z หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      you're goated, thanks dude!!! 💛

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      W ❤

    • @DylanDoel
      @DylanDoel หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You forgot the "FUCK MY ASS IS SORE"

  • @catofdoomgold
    @catofdoomgold หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    My definition of sucess is feeling proud of what i have done

    • @Bowbowbowbow4
      @Bowbowbowbow4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      After seeing this comment, I realised how much happiness and satisfaction I get by doing some small things. Thanks for helping me and I hope you will be able to do your best in the things you want to do.🤍

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Big w man ❤

    • @isaiahdrazkowski5398
      @isaiahdrazkowski5398 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Good luck brother on your journey

  • @IzukuZakshever
    @IzukuZakshever 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    "Sometimes when you think you've been buried, you've actually been planted"💯💯

  • @Dieoall
    @Dieoall 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My success that I work towards is family and my relationships with loved ones. Taking care of them and protecting them. When I was alone, it was a super difficult moment in my life. Now I appreciate having people to vent to and care for.

  • @BeansBackgroundMusik
    @BeansBackgroundMusik หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Man im so glad I found you at 14. You literally saved my mental health. I love you bro

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I didn't save anything bro, you "saved" yourself ❤

  • @Anzacrocky
    @Anzacrocky หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    man is changing lives. keep going jak

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I will man, thank you for your support ❤

  • @pedrozapanta2239
    @pedrozapanta2239 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Im so thankful that youtube recommended me this channel, thank you so much bro.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you my brother, this comment means more than you think ❤

  • @jacklikescats
    @jacklikescats หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is in the top 5 videos on YT. Hands down. Jak you are a life saver. Some of this shit hits hard and will no doubt support me in my life

  • @bnguyensco
    @bnguyensco หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    To whomever might read this, I just wanna say that " You gonna be alright no matter what challenges you, what difficulties you face, because we are all destined to all of these, so keep your heads up and make progress day by day, week by week or you will die in the pool of regretfulness.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      100%, god or the universe always has our back as long as we have pure intentions and put the necessary work in ❤

  • @DannyHaidar164
    @DannyHaidar164 หลายเดือนก่อน +117

    Hey Jak, it's me Danny from Adonis School. I miss you man, the advice you gave me really helped me out with my channel brother. I hope you keep on uploading the same authentic content that's helped out so many people including me & I hope I can still stay in contact with you G

    • @Epsilon2042
      @Epsilon2042 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      He literally replied to every comment other than yours... 💀

    • @DannyHaidar164
      @DannyHaidar164 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Epsilon2042 Idc still highly respect him

    • @Rory432
      @Rory432 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Epsilon2042he might at some point it’s only been 2 days…

    • @Epsilon2042
      @Epsilon2042 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DannyHaidar164 ik, I was just pointing that out

    • @Epsilon2042
      @Epsilon2042 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Rory432 yeah but the other comments were also posted within 2 days ago

  • @redtitanphoenix5759
    @redtitanphoenix5759 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    A lot of Jak’s vids make me cry and before I did find Jak, I would have thought ‘it’s not manly to cry’. You have helped me so much Jak. Thank you man

  • @demonslayerisoverrated
    @demonslayerisoverrated หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    11:24, was so inspirational, this one will stay in my heart forever.

  • @Justboxed421
    @Justboxed421 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Ur the reason I wake up with pride and happiness u r the person who has a growth mind set and helping for people to achieve there dreams and goals in life thx u the community u have made and the people who listen to u WILL U FAR.

  • @user-we1ty9qw7s
    @user-we1ty9qw7s หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I'm your first viewer man, you really have changed many lives and keep doing what you're doing

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Much love brother ❤

    • @user-we1ty9qw7s
      @user-we1ty9qw7s 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You too bro

  • @Itsme18803
    @Itsme18803 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I cried. I was an amazing student....but with recent board exma stress and career selection stress along with loneliness and insults and expectations Ive dropped down...my flaws became more prominent. These perturbations I have needed a hug and your channel provided that to me. Thanks.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You will get through this, trust yourself, I'm sure you've been through hard times before and you survived ❤

    • @Itsme18803
      @Itsme18803 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@JakPiggott Thank you dear. I can do it with a smile, I know it.

  • @PumpkinManPLayz_13
    @PumpkinManPLayz_13 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am turning 13 but these videos really help me, like u said never quit what you like doing, so don't stop making these videos

  • @bsDinosaur
    @bsDinosaur 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It's cool to scroll through your comment section and see all the people you're inspiring and how many comments you've replied too, you're a real one, thanks for your work man.

  • @cmsthegod
    @cmsthegod หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Glad I came across u I’m 15 years old and you’ve motivated me to not give up thanks bro🙌

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      So glad to hear this bro, keep going ❤

    • @tvs_adonis
      @tvs_adonis หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@JakPiggottHello, I have a question. I quit video games 3 weeks ago and I enjoyed them but I quit because thats what you got to do on self improvement and now I feel like I'm missing out. Should I get back playing? (Yes it was my childhood thing that I loved)

  • @VistaLover8002
    @VistaLover8002 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    These pieces of advice are definitely some of the most remarkable and valuable I have heard in quite a while!! I love your content, keep moving!! :D

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you man ❤

    • @VistaLover8002
      @VistaLover8002 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JakPiggott No problem! ❤️

  • @Corny_And_Upset
    @Corny_And_Upset หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am 22 years old , and I am truly happy to see other people around my age (especially younger, because during these years even 1 year is a difference), giving this advice and knowing it. I wish I knew and believed these things when i was 14,15,16 and it makes me happy to see there is a good role model spreading this message, especially a male one as I feel like the guys of this generation have a lot of bad influences.

  • @marekkadlec5912
    @marekkadlec5912 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am glad that internet exists. This guy is the reason. your parents must be so proud of you, and i want my parents to be proud of me too. Better to start late than never. 👊 love yall

  • @NotSoCrispyLoL
    @NotSoCrispyLoL หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m so glad I’m watching this video 🙏, thank you 1 million times jak 🙏

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Much love brother ❤️

  • @RSMR029
    @RSMR029 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    great video but at 1:24 i couldn’t help but notice your posture 🤯😂

  • @minerplayanimations
    @minerplayanimations หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You're truly repairing lives brother. Thank you.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Much love man, just speaking from the heart ❤️

  • @felico32_45
    @felico32_45 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm happy that I didn't speak behind someone's back or do anything I wouldn't want done to myself. In primary school, I was the "weird" kid. I didn't like football/soccer, and I didn't listen to rap (I still don't), which made me different. In my last year of primary school, I brought a Rubik's cube every day and practiced until I knew how to solve it. People didn't seem to understand that if you like doing something, you're going to do it a lot. At the time, I was a big introvert, afraid to reply to people, always timid, etc.
    That brings me to today. I've changed a lot. One thing I kept from my childhood is building Legos. I used to build sets; now I create my own designs, and I love it so much. Recently, I completed my first MOC (My Own Creation), which I finished just a few days ago. Initially, it was for me, but I became even more motivated when I did some discovery days, and the workers were interested to see it (it's a Technic build, so I could easily bring it there). A couple of days later, they thought it was very cool and wanted me to bring it when it was finished. Now, a year later, the day finally came. I'm just waiting for their response.
    I also still play Minecraft with my sisters.
    Since April, I found out that I have ADHD. It was a relief for me because it explained some of the difficulties I had as a child with learning things I didn't like, but I could easily focus for hours on things I really enjoyed. I learned that I speak well and use good words (unlike other people, apparently).
    It helps me learn languages too. I mainly speak French, but I'm able to speak, write, and understand English easily, and I can speak a bit of Polish too. I can understand everything people say as well.
    So, to conclude, I was bullied for doing things I liked that other people didn't. In fact, I've known that I wanted to become a bus driver (now you can see what MOC I was talking about) for as long as I can remember, and I never changed my mind, which is uncommon (I think).
    I'm 17, so I still have a ton of things to discover.
    By the way, great video!
    Greetings from Switzerland.

  • @mgnetoeditz55
    @mgnetoeditz55 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Huge fan man ur content inspires thousands and i really look into a new way of living life

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This means a lot man ❤

  • @JNSN_7
    @JNSN_7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I enjoy your videos so much man it just feels like going outside when you're overthinking

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This means the world to me bro, thanks for putting a smile on my face ❤

    • @JNSN_7
      @JNSN_7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JakPiggott no thank you bro you're doing good keep going!

  • @frost80137
    @frost80137 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for all the advice man, "Memories stay and last money always come back, time doesnt." best advice i've ever heard and perfect timing as well.

  • @ryry-59
    @ryry-59 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I went to some deep depression not to while back. You’ve helped me dawg love you

  • @cunoob2783
    @cunoob2783 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    2:01 he is so accurate, this happened to me 2 years ago when I first went into 7th grade. Many friends of mine suddenly changed the appearance and themselves so that they can fit in a group that everyone likes ( everyone in the group is an a$$hole) and now im left with not that many friends.

  • @JustWashed.
    @JustWashed. หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    10:24 I'm 13 and I genuinelly don't have a child hood anymore, I have no friends because I'm not allowed out, and I'm homeschooled now, All I have to do every single day is studying and video games/social media. (Not trying to be an attention seeker I just really need some help).

    • @lorenzorumi4912
      @lorenzorumi4912 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Man that's actually really sad...

    • @lfifil
      @lfifil 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yo! You play minecraft at all? And if so you wanna hang out?

    • @lfifil
      @lfifil 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      And if you don't, we can still chat 😊

    • @JustWashed.
      @JustWashed. 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@lfifil Preciate it man, but don't got minecraft sorry bout that. Really nice seeing people like this though

    • @lfifil
      @lfifil 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@JustWashed. oh oka xd

  • @4iu1
    @4iu1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Man like idk why or how but he is an amazing guy (no homo) like hes so postive kind of like an idol for me ngl, there are many selfimprovement TH-camrs who dont rllly talk or say what i rlly need like one example ,,Just relax and enjoy your youth", like i think i never heard someone saying this except him, thats why im thankful for god to have met this guy. Congrats on 750k subs, you deserve a million and more.

  • @backyardastronomer
    @backyardastronomer 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi Jak, As a 13 yo in high school already, this was very helpful. Bc of my age i dont rly have friends right now. I had some really bad ones that i had to light myself on fire for, but, at the end of this schoolyear i realized that i could not do that to myself any longer. I notice that i feel better often. Now i know that that was the right decision.

  • @TomsTech2.0
    @TomsTech2.0 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    The advice in the thumbnail was all I needed to hear

  • @grapejooooooss6669
    @grapejooooooss6669 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Keep it up with these vids man, the more you do the more you inspire

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I will, thank you ❤

  • @introvertkenmakozume
    @introvertkenmakozume หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey Jak , I hope you have a wonderful day. This video hits hard , over the past few months have been hard for me I have recurring suicidal thoughts , had an episode yesterday. I went to a psychiatrist for 3 months he prescribed me meds which made my emotions numb. Every single day it's so difficult in being different my family's traditional belifs and expectations weigh me down . They always make me the culprit in every problem I suffer from childhood trauma because of their mistakes but funny enough they won't admit it or encourage me to seek help. But your videos are a glimpse of hope for me it makes me feel that I'm not alone . I hope my pain will end soon . Keep going bro.

  • @anivulpes
    @anivulpes หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow. I am so thankful for this, i am still a teen, going to school, struggleling with some stuff too. I am so grateful for this. Thank you. I will try to remember it.

  • @sulaymanfaghirzadah8680
    @sulaymanfaghirzadah8680 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you, dude. :)

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Gotchu ❤

  • @canad3nse
    @canad3nse หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Nice video!😊

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you 🥰

  • @thelord1834
    @thelord1834 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    never light yourself on fire to keep others warm... that is probably the best or second best advice you can give to high school students love you man keep up the good work 👍

  • @robinjahn1294
    @robinjahn1294 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Seriously, despite your videos being more aimed towards 18 yo or younger they have helped me (21) focus my goals and improve my way of life so much. I wish you were there when I grew up, man.
    Listen to this young man, my guys!

  • @Ryz3nGD274
    @Ryz3nGD274 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    No comments? Ill change that.

    • @Ryz3nGD274
      @Ryz3nGD274 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      28 minutes? 12 likes? dang

  • @four-6209
    @four-6209 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +76

    I will do 5 pullups for every like my comment gets

    • @tabletgenesis3439
      @tabletgenesis3439 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      90. 90 pullups.

    • @masoncarriker2255
      @masoncarriker2255 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Like (+5 pullups)

    • @masoncarriker2255
      @masoncarriker2255 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Like (Plus 5 pullups)

    • @masoncarriker2255
      @masoncarriker2255 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Like (+5 Pullups)

    • @four-6209
      @four-6209 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@tabletgenesis3439my arms are hurting like shit😂💀

  • @phat4298
    @phat4298 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love the third advice really much! Most of us (including me of course) picture success as money, fame, girls,.. as they are for many many people. It's nothing wrong about them, but it would be great to really consider are those truly what you desire. Recently, I've been thinking and reconsidering what kinda life I want to live in. For now, all I want is to be with my family and be able to learn new things everyday. "Not an amazing life someone else wants you to live in"

  • @sfcity2022
    @sfcity2022 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm so lucky that i've found jack piggot's channel.
    Thanks bro for giving these advises❤❤

  • @eReFco
    @eReFco หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Time spent having fun is not time wasted.
    DAMN!, that hit hard.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Facts bro 👊

    • @eReFco
      @eReFco หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JakPiggott keep giving advices to us man, in this era I think we're still lost at certain situation.
      Thanks Man, You really opened my eyes🔥

  • @DerrenJed
    @DerrenJed 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm 13 and I'm lucky that i found this man at young age. Thank you so much bro. ❤

  • @gooberment
    @gooberment 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you man, I was going through some anger because I wasnt able to do something I aspired to do, when I found this on my recommended.
    Cheers to you man!

  • @casontinyh1857
    @casontinyh1857 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This man is changing lives. I hope he lives a great one himself.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you man ❤

  • @LeviStettler53
    @LeviStettler53 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m 14, but I found you when I was 13.
    I am so lucky to have found your videos man.
    I can’t believe how much I relate to you.
    I went through addiction, loss, and overthinking just like you did.
    You’ve helped me and many others so much man. Never stop these, they help so much. Love ya bro 👍👊

  • @jeimasuta_v598
    @jeimasuta_v598 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    i will listen to you every night for re evaluation and motivation etc. your too good

  • @EliasLarsson-og8cn
    @EliasLarsson-og8cn วันที่ผ่านมา

    12 right now. I still find your advice very good. Thanks bro, Keep it up!

  • @Anti.br4inrott
    @Anti.br4inrott 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I’m 13, found you like yesterday, started doing 50 push-ups and 50 sit ups a day because 1. I’ve been getting bullied for years and want people to stop
    2. Because I want to be a better person for myself

  • @dot6950
    @dot6950 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Everything you've said in the video was a piece of some good damn advice.
    I'm an artist with around 4 years of experience. I started drawing, as I've thought it would be really cool to be able to draw like others do! I tend to compare myself to other artists, sometimes trying to learn from them and sometimes demotivating myself because of much of a difference there is between their and mine skills. For the last couple of days, I've been working almost non-stop on a project I don't find as fun as I used to and prioritizing it over playing with my homie. Several months ago, I've went through a hard break-up with someone I truly felt like I couldn't love more.
    After watching this, I've found motivation to study art, I'll remember keep having fun while drawing & to not burn myself out as well as found found hope, that my partner is still out there, waiting for us to meet. Find this as corny as y'all want, but this man speaks real shit.

  • @Victor.Reznov
    @Victor.Reznov 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    when life throws obstacles in your way the universe isn’t punishing you it’s challenging you

  • @Kps2841
    @Kps2841 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m a teenage boy feeling stressed and alone. You’ve helped keep me motivated and set me on the right path. Thanks man

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Much love man, keep your head up alright, this is temporary ❤

  • @northstar2002
    @northstar2002 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I found this at the perfect timing, this is exactly what I needed right now. Thankyou. Thankyou so much for this.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Gotchu man ❤

  • @potapotapotapotapotapota
    @potapotapotapotapotapota 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Damn I've watched a lot of self help videos and they all seem to repeat exactly the same things, but you have such a unique take I can see you have really wrestled with yourself and I found this video so helpful. I just had a fight with someone and needed to be reminded about the need to let go of my expectations. Thanks man.

  • @oscarsometimes
    @oscarsometimes หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    holy shit man was this useful. i'm 15 at the end of the month and it sort of reminded me of a lot of bad habits i have that are just pointless in the big picture. my life is going by super fast and i should value it. thanks Jak mate. your videos have done a lot for me.

  • @ghostferretartofficial
    @ghostferretartofficial หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey man, i just want to say thank you. At the start of 2024, i started feeling really sad. Depressed. I would cry and worry for no reason. I was sad more days than not. But then i came across your channel. I watched a few videos and followed your advice. I listened to you, and now, i feel the spark again, the happy childhood feeling. Now when i wake up, i am not stressing and worrying about school. I wake up and feel happy and curious. I have also started eating healthier, exercising more, stopped scrolling mindlessly on my phone, discovered new hobbies. I spent my time doing things i enjoyed.
    All im trying to say is this; Jak, you are an amazing human being. You a smart, caring and clever. You have seriously positively impacted my mental health and state of mind. Jak, from the bottom of my heart, I thank you. God bless❤

  • @Calctoru
    @Calctoru 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Rule 7 is probably my favorite because I also struggle to deal with temporary emotions, leading for me to say the wrong words, doing the wrong things and it just crumbles down after. It doesn't make me feel any better. And I'm glad to know that I wasn't the only one. So I'll try to control myself and change for the better. Thank you so much for thisss ❤

  • @imkrimson.
    @imkrimson. หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You got me, I've been in a terrible spot. Thanks for this advice, I've been so much better with just listening since I found you.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope all this helps man ❤

  • @slendercube7817
    @slendercube7817 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love how the first tip was so specific to me. I recently started playing in a survival world with my friends and it has gave me so much joy

  • @ragingagaming586
    @ragingagaming586 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Every single piece of advice received in this video is valuable. Thank you.

  • @user-bg3bh1pl7k
    @user-bg3bh1pl7k หลายเดือนก่อน

    You really helped me man, just turned 15 this month, summer is about to end. I always felt like I have to be better than others that I see who is I think doing better than me. I always feel like there's something not enough when it comes to spending my time. I usually even talk to a friend online or play with them, every time I look back unto it, it felt like I wasted my time because it doesn't even benefit me I guess even if I rarely go on through tiktoks anymore(I spent 1-2 years of scrolling before) there's always a part of me to pressure me to start something better so it can help you on the future which is not wrong but also should not get myself blind from the enjoyment of my youth, I kept regretting when I didn't do any more better and live my life just as that. I want to remind myself that it's never too late to start something that you have been trying and acknowledge to appreciate myself. I am taking my own time and pace to grow. Thanks a lot bro

  • @mitchell3968
    @mitchell3968 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Finally, a self improvement video that doesn't just brag and say get money and girls

  • @dinospalaio7911
    @dinospalaio7911 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    13. Is diamond , i strees every single day , never stop watching Piggott , trust me ( for now )

  • @madmanjerry7074
    @madmanjerry7074 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Turning 15 soon, recently purchased minecraft, like.. two days ago. I try not to watch you as often because i prefer to avoid getting emotional thanks to ADHD, but you have this friendly pull, and you make me think, you make me contemplate. And while i don't like doing that, you make me do it, and so.. thank you. Very much.

  • @youcannotgiveupjustyet
    @youcannotgiveupjustyet หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just watched #6 around 5:07.
    I would like to suggest something concerning number six. Instead of comparing yourself to others, compare yourself to yourself. This helps for a number of reasons. It helps you to be able to learn and grow, then be able to see how far you have come. Also, it eliminates the issue of that difference of comparison you mentioned because you always want to be growing & learning. Moving forward. Striving towards your next goal. Comparing to your old self can be a very good motivator. When all is said and done, you have no deep-rooted urge to be like what someone else is. Not that that can not be healthy, just usually it isn't. So compare to yourself to have a better you as your forefront of your focus instead of striving to be like someone else. You can find yourself proud of who you are this way. Because, you can see just how far you've come. Also, this way, you always have something that you can strive toward! And to you, sir, I appreciate you sharing your advice with the world. I'll be quite honest, I do not know your name, but I have seen you a few times in the past, and you seem genuinely like a good person. You are a person that would be nice to remember, though. Have a blessed life.

    • @youcannotgiveupjustyet
      @youcannotgiveupjustyet หลายเดือนก่อน

      I, too, also appreciate your advice if I did not make that clear!

  • @Jake_Gotthard
    @Jake_Gotthard หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    “Never leave what your childhood self adored”… damn, like actually. Damn. I had to just sit there for a good 30 seconds staring slightly to the side of my screen to prevent myself from crying my eyes out. That was- that was f’’king unexpected and that hit me like a damn truck. Sometimes i dont have the choice of leaving or not, but i’ll do what i Can. I’ll hold onto the memories of my beloved cats, the dogs and Cats my grandma owned, and my family. I’ll hold onto myself. You actually nearly made me cry, i Owe you this now. I wanted to just scrap it all and leave myself behind after i was emotionally manipulated into throwing all my feelings, trust, kindness and Friends in the trash just to Cut the person off from my Life. I’ll try to be myself again, and this time, if anybody wants to break me again, they’ll have to try a little harder than THAT. I Will promise you that, and i Will try to not break that promise.

    • @FlabyLad
      @FlabyLad 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      good luck brother.

    • @Jake_Gotthard
      @Jake_Gotthard 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@FlabyLad good luck to you too, i wish you the best.

  • @TheJusticeTurtle
    @TheJusticeTurtle หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bro, thank god the TH-cam Allgerithum. I found this when I'm 12, and we need more people like you. I needed this video, I'm in a tough part of my life, thank you, you saved me.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      If you can follow these rules man, you'll be so ahead it's not funny, you've got big things ahead of ya ❤

  • @Sunflower-sm8pu
    @Sunflower-sm8pu หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you brother

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Gotchu man ❤

  • @NikhilJondhale-un2ur
    @NikhilJondhale-un2ur หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He's like a big brother for me❤
    Edit:- iam your biggest fan from india🇮🇳

  • @BBN_CROWMAN
    @BBN_CROWMAN 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hey man,im so happy that I found you at a young age and…like,bro this therapy. Love you bro❤

  • @garrettshawv
    @garrettshawv หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    number 12 is one i really needed to hear. especially now. thanks jak

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Gotcha man ❤️

  • @RuthShambel
    @RuthShambel หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    thanks for your advice...it really helps

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So happy to hear this, much love ❤

  • @isaaccraig8711
    @isaaccraig8711 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm glad I found you when I did, because I am in desperate need of self-improvement right now.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Much love Isaac, start of something big for you man ❤

    • @isaaccraig8711
      @isaaccraig8711 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JakPiggott Thank you. Keep up the good work, Jak ❤

  • @proskillz404
    @proskillz404 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm 17 and one thing I always try to live by is wake up every day with the goal to be a better person than I was yesterday. And some days I'll fail, I'll suck, I will embarrass myself, that's inevitable, so I embrace it. But the idea of being on my death bed one day and know that one time for 24 hours I was the very best possible version of myself seems like something I'd be very proud of on my last breath. Treat everyday like it's your last, because one day you'll wake up and it will be.

  • @lust8890
    @lust8890 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I heard no lies in this video. didn't expect such great advice from such a young guy. I'm 24 and these are also things I realised, but you've put them very nicely and I'm impressed!

  • @nebulaayt
    @nebulaayt 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    honestly, most of the advice was really good, but nothing I haven't really heard or thought before. That's pretty much the mentality I had for most of the video, that it was just going to be the average advice to "get better" or "focus" and stuff of the sort. All of them were kind of like this, except one. Number 13. I actually got chills when you said it. I've been constantly working on my projects for years now and I've barely given myself breathing room to relax. I've felt the need to do things that I only deemed as "useful" because I believed that the "grind" was going to be worth it, in the long run. But, to realise that I barely talk with my friends, that I spend hours sitting on my pc and making things, and that I'm only 13 and that I'm exerting so much unnecessary pressure on the good first years of my life. Fuck, man. That hit me deep. Thank you for reminding me what life's purpose is. To have fun. I will be taking a break. Thank you.

  • @Dokas_
    @Dokas_ หลายเดือนก่อน

    It was common for me to feel lost on my life, like what to do or, what am i good at, then both 6th and 11th hitted me like a rock, the purpose of why i am doing stuff that i wanna learn, after realizing it bro, i just had to let some tears out, you're the best man, keep up with the amazing advices, you're epic