Haha tbh I felt like I was the only one who experienced something like this, but one thing that TH-cam has taught me is that is humans are more similar than we think we are 🫡❤️
Yep... I went through all the same shit when I was in highschool. Massive anxiety, especially before speeches, quiet, worrying what others thought of me constantly, not being able to relate to what friends were talking about. Only having the 1 thing I was really good at that people knew me for, which was my running and Cross Country
It's so nice that he sits outside when recording these. It gives it a whole feeling of authenticy that you can't find elseware, and the fact that he doesn't use a script makes it 10x better. Keep it up brother, you are currently helping me rid myself of my social anxiety and depression, so you will always have my thanks!
This may be one of you're best videos yet, there are so many people that struggle with anxiety today. I remember when i moved to a German speaking country, i could hardly speak the language, and during one of my presentations i got laughed at for mispronouncing certain phrases and words. I remember that i would always sweat a lot and start to stutter. It took a while to overcome my anxiety even after i learnt the language fluently. I'm sure this video is gonna help so many other brother. Always gonna support you. Much love ❤❤
I was born in Africa but I speak English because the other languages are hard to pronounce, particularly Afrikaans. Never speakkng or writing Afrikaans again.
Im not an introvert but i clicked because i wanted to say for all the people who are shy and introverted and scared to talk to other this is some word of advice. If u want friends or a gf/bf just be urself people will be more open if ur urself because be honest would u want to be friends with someone who constantly wasn't being their selves no? didnt think so, so jst be urself for everything
But that's why people don't like me, I have a "girly and annoying" voice by being myself so that's why people don't talk to me and sometimes laugh behind my back.
then f them clearly the ppl yk are jst insecure ppl who dont know what to do with their lives if i were u i would just feel bad for them because only insecure ppl talk badly about others@@cunoob2783
@cunoob2783 honestly, you *will* find your people. if people don't talk to you because you have a girly and annoying voice, it's probably because they are homophobic & misogynistic alongisde an a$$h0le. it's the best to be yourself and be alone rather than having a 100 friends who can't tolerate you as you your honest self.
My turning point actually happen not to long ago, every since i switched from a regular class to communication class my social anxiety gotten worse over time until like last month where i woke up and i said to myself in the mirror "i have a problem and I'm going to fix it" Ever since that day i started focusing on myself and eventually i felt more confident and happy, I'm less anxious now because i don't give a shit as much, hell i even managed to approach my crush. Basically what I'm trying to say is thank you for motivating me, i still have a long way to go and i ain't stoping
You should be immensely proud. Anxiety is a massive thing and if you can overcome it, I believe you can overcome anything. At least in my experience anyway ❤️
@@JakPiggottI am proud, very proud I still have a long way to go I'm still figuring out shit in my life every single day, even tho I'm an introvert I'm not going to let that slow me down not even for a second
Damn you story really resonated. Specially the lock down stuff and discovering self improvement stuff and how your weren't that relatable. Respect for the grind man, your videos are literally like future me guiding younger me.
Jak, you’re really helping me to find my old self again. I used to be so socially confident and would to talk to people with no problem before I started high school. But some things happened in year 8 that really screwed my mental health and confidence. My entire year group knows who I am because of what happened back then and now whenever I see someone looking at me or hear them laugh behind me then I think they’re mocking me for it. But ever since I found your content I’ve become better, I started talking to my crush, started working out and focusing on my self confidence using my TH-cam channel to help. I’m still not there yet but I feel like the old me is starting to come back and when he does I feel like I’ll finally have control of my life again. Thank you.
You don’t know how happy this makes me bro, you should be immensely proud of yourself, it’s very rare of someone to make that type of “comeback.” Keep thriving at your best version bro, your future self will thank you ❤️
This is the same for me. I was like, how you were making friends and everything but I noticed I kept getting in trouble and getting carried away with them which got me into trouble, and after that year I decided to stop making friends. It would have been awful, but one of my old friends helped me make good friends again. If anyone reads this, I hope it helps you
I've had a crush on her for 8 months now which is insane and have never talked to her. I convinced myself that at school on Monday i'm going to go and talk to her because I'll only regret not doing so in the future. This whole weekend ive just been thinking how im going to start a conversation with her and I've been anxious. At the perfect time this video came out. thanks man, you're amazing Edit June 1 - I just wanna tell all you homies to go out of your comfort zone, and go talk to her. Trust me, it's not that bad, I can say from experience 🙏
Yeah good luck man. I now feel guilty because i had a crush last yr and i didnt talk to her the whole year until the last few months. And i wish i talked to her sooner because she started talking to a guy who eventually became her bf. Only if i got closer to her early on it could hv been me.
If you still haven’t talked to her bro, just keep it natural and don’t force anything. If you have no chance to talk to her, just don’t talk to her, but if you do, pounce on it. I’m no rizz god so I won’t give you any rizz advice, but just be yourself, women love that shit, and if she’s right for you she’ll love you for who you truly are ❤️
If you think 8 months is bad, I spent 2 years crushing on a girl before. And let’s just say that it’s not worth wasting so much time and energy on a girl who you’re not dating. Just talk to her, and if things don’t work out, move on, there’s other fishes in the sea.
I've had that mindset bro, you could talk with her about a school event that happened the same day that's what I did at least and it worked really well, one day the opportunity will present itself and you need to be ready for it
@@totallynotdeadinside8893 i already do 100 - 200 push-ups a day, but if this comment gets thousands of likes, then i have a little challenge, and im obligated to do it so i dont disappoint.
Yes, bingo. 🫡. You know the deal. I know first hand. Was accosted it fled when I called on JC.* Give NO place & Develop true Faith. *That & another time was caused my letting negativity in my realm. Another time J took off stress/worried/self-disappointment, but same thing-negativity. After initial/necessary venting &/or consoling, don’t give them feed. Dump the spirit of feær. GB brother!
Jak, I wanna say thank you. Thank you for giving me the courage to ask my crush out in the first 5 days even though I’m very shy. Thank you for that self belief you instilled in me. I couldn’t haven’t done it without you or God. Unfortunately she said no, but I’m still relieved. At least now I don’t have the anxiety of thinking when’s the best time I should ask her out anymore. I’m so grateful for this. I couldn’t feel any better even though I got rejected somehow. The relief felt amazing. Thank you from the bottom of my heart Jak. 🙏 God bless you
just saw this video today. But bro, how does helping so many people make you feel? I really think that being that relatable is 100x better than anything else and with this style of video you're doing your best. Thank you Jak.
Wow, I honestly never thought of how bad my anxiety rly was until today. I remember i had to record a speech for my english GCSEs, and i can still clearly picture how red my face was and how much my leg was shaking bc of my fear of being judged. But now i can finally put it past me, and ik that i wont wake up and look in the mirror thinking all these negative things that ppl might judge me for So thanks for the inspiration and the light that ive needed
Thank you man. I needed to hear this, I've been struggling with social anxiety my whole life and this video made feel better. You have no idea how much this means to me and everyone, keep changing people's lives. Thank you brother ❤
bro u actually the goat. Everyone in self improvement (or almost most of them) talk so superficially about this things in their videos, and just tell you the most obvious sht and then tells you that they are doing Gods job, but this is actually what a good person trying to make the others better persons is. The end of the video had me literally smiling at my phone screen
Jake, you just told me my highschool life (without corn) but i just bottle it inside and i just cant stop, i try and try to improve i look away from them but they just haunt me daily and i cant handle, but with you, your different, youve helped me through year 7-9 and ive been feeling better, thank you for being this calm and collected person that can help people, thank you!
Man, i've been struggling with anxiety for a while you know its an obligation that comes from puberty and i had some ups and downs trying to improve myself. I thought i got over it and then some events happened and i hit rock bottom. Watching your video helped, it really did. And your vids are better than those processed repeating gibberish videos that talk about "top 10 ways to be charismatic" or something because your videos actually have a meaning, a message you can say. It's because i can sympathize with your vids knowing your experiences and how you get over things. Even if it's a strategy for youtube or something i can still feel the sincerety in your videos. Watching it reminds me the things i've forgotten like how things can be really simple sometimes if you have the right mind. Seeing you become a better person helps me becoming a better person even if its not major improvement or if its temporary. Sincerely, thank you.
Bro, after he said "a fucking good life" made me cry for 10 seconds, Thanks to this man thata i am working on my goals, my dreams and other good stuff, thank you jak.
I was just thinking about this, I had went on the usual 'self improvement' journey and gained lots of confidence, yet I had a big fight with my friends, which left me alone and hesitant to talk to others, I thought I would be fine if I just focused on myself, but I realised, ı developed fear. Fear to speak, getting that lump at my throat whenever I wanted to, even if it was to say 'hi' or 'good morning', all the 'tricks' and 'tips' other influencers gave might have been useful, but my hesitancy to talk did not even let me do that. I was looking for a solution for my problem, thats when I looked at youtube and found your videos recommended to me. I believe it was meant to find me. Thank you for making the video and helping me find the actual solution and not just telling me to talk like other self-help influencers. 🖤
Thanks man I’ve struggled a lot with social anxiety. sweating around people I don’t really know or barely able to look them in the eye this helps a lot
I'm watching this video and it's actually making me tear up. It's weird to them because that's what they think of themselves when they do it. I have no words.
Great video as always. Thanks for making this content. I thought for a long time that these fears and especially overthinking was just my problem, it's actually because of you that I realized how many people in our generation share this exact problem. Hope your channel grows even more, keep up the good work mate.
Your story is relatable to me when I was in school ngl. I’m 22 and still introverted, I gained confidence but I still haven’t had the balls to just be social. I think imma try something new this summer, it’s time. Thank you for this video bro
As a person live in Indonesia, i apologize for making you feel judged voluntarily... 🙏 Everything happens for a good reason, and with your story sharing videos... brotha, you'd never know how many people are inspired, motivated, encouraged, not feeling that 'alone' anymore.. Jak, you're being a blessing in their lives.
Bro... I have no words for how you are changing our generation. I am proud of you. You know why? Because you never post those toxic shorts with alpha male advice, but just video's with real-life advice. By the way, could you please make a video about what you think of God? Take care brother 👊
Thank you my brother, there’s already enough red pill content out there and to be honest, I think most of its bs but at the end of the day I’m just a regular arse 18 year old ❤️
Great messages in this video Jak, having love for yourself & believing in yourself is so important for everyone. No one else can make one happy, your happiness comes from within oneseself. If one relies on others for happiness, one will always be vulnerable. Others can enhance your happiness but not make you happy. Bullies & keyboard warriors rely on the vulnerability of others to make themselves feel good & in control. Do not let the cowards win.
This video is super relatable. I have social anxiety disorder and I used to always be anxious about what other people thought of me, and I remember starting school after the pandemic where everyone was on tik tok and Snapchat, and I felt left out because I wasn’t keeping up with the latest “trends”. But I recently started to have a new mindset of just telling myself “who cares what other people think. If they don’t know you than their opinion doesn’t matter.” Which has been helping me a lot, and I started going to the gym. (Sorry for the long comment) Thanks for the video! Have a good day guys👍🏻
1 like = 1 km for running Seriously people stop, I ran the 36 km thinking I had finished, I go back to the comment and the likes went up 💀 I'm going to try for the 80, I hope I make it.
Its so inspiring the fact that when you watch his videos you realise you either were or still are in the same situation he was, even in basketball i dont have enough confidence but man basketball is the only thing that has helped me feel good about myself for some reason
I’m new to your stuff and you’re absolutely right on! I met this one guy yesterday who was a very accomplished doctor. He had very huge ears, and the only reason I bring it up is it would be something a lot of people would be very anxious about if they had them but when I talked to him I didn’t even think about his ears. It didn’t matter that they weren’t perfect. I was more worried that my face was dirty from working on his property. We typically judge ourselves more than we judge others.
12:00 true. I’ve always hated how some of my friends are quick to label things as cringe or embarrassing when it’s a reflection that they never push themselves out of their comfort zone
F*ck it, 100 likes and I talk to my crush Edit 1: talk to my crush, about my feelings (she's not a random person). Also I'm kind of scared that we gonna get there and of course thanks for any advice u give me Edit 2 : So basically i have known her for 2 years. I havent really showed any short of emotion that I want her but we are talking every morning in school or in the adternoon using intagram. The only problem is that she may consider me as a friend and nothing else. Edit 3 : After 1,5 days we actually did it. So whats gonna happen now is that i will keep my promise (get to know her and create a friendship between us as you advised me) and when it wont be too akward i will talk to her bout my feelings.
Get to know them first, a good relationship comes from a good friendship. Moving too fast will ruin any chance of a relationship and destroy any you have.
Jakpiggot, I’m 12 years old but fairly mature for my age and started some bad habits around 11 years old, but I recently found your videos and I just want to thank you so much even though I still do some of the bad habits I now realise the things I’m doing and your videos are just so relatable to me and my school and I just really hope you see this and want to say a big thanks to you keep doing what your doing bro ❤
Keep on going lil bro, you're lucky to get to know self-improvement that early, you still got a lot of time but keep those good habits, so you won't be miserable later in life
You are still so young brother, you have so much potential within you and I’m sure your future will be brighter than the sun. Just stay on the right path aye ❤
Thank you brah I really needed this, you have changed my perspective on my situation a lot and you’re advice is very appreciated, keep doing what you’re doing bro god bless🙏
I've struggled with anxiety for most of my life. I've tried getting help from professionals and only helped me to understand what was causing it, but I didn't know how to control my anxiety. I've been evading social interactions with people, especially girls, because I'm in constant fear that they will think I'm stupid, since when I get anxious my mind just goes blank. This lead me to have a porn addiction and I started smoking marijuana recently, too. Well, today I decided I want to make a change in my life and try to be the best version of myself. Everything you said on this video is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you so much bro!!
Thank you so much for the advice jak,It’s been a difficult time for me and watching your vids make me motivated.I really look forward to keep on going for myself.
11:41 realising this helps A LOT in interaction with others since you know you're not the only one there with the same problem. So naturally because you relate to that other person, you feel more free and confident around them
@@JakPiggottI used to do 100 push ups a day, but now I don’t because I’ve figured out there’s much better ways to exercise and actually have a balanced physique.
@@smallxplosion9546 i used to do 50, then, 100 and now 150 for a long time Do every 10 minutes 10 push ups intead of 25 push ups its better and easier kinda I a starter at push ups
You’re becoming my favorite TH-camr. You have the best advice for people like me. That advice is shit I could never think of. I’m going to school right now, and I’m going to fucking do exactly what you say. I’m going to challenge myself today. You are an amazing person, you will get what you want. You are helping so many people out. I’m grateful you exist. Thank you so much.
Bro I cannot stress how much I needed this video, this video made me reflect on my class, here's the thing, I try too hard to fit in the class, that I think of myself so lowly. The thing I'm scared of doing in my class is trying to join in a conversation. Because if I do try that, I feel myself getting hit with weird stares, like I'm some weirdo. And my mind will always try and make me do anything to fit in, since I feel so left out. I just wish I can talk to someone every day, or at least get an everyday conversation with a variety of people. I just wish I can be as good as they are with socializing, and coping with not being talked to. I swear man, when you said that "if they think it's cringe, it's a reflection of what they think will make them cringe if they do that" was good for me, because you basically told me in other words, "You're doing something they can't, because they know they'll get hated for doing it, other than you". Thank you my man, and please upload more to keep helping me in life.
Build social skills Get good at something that massess desire' Then put yourself in a social pressure situation first awkward eventually you get good its take time and courage focus and persistence very hard anything to build if its not naturally gifted
I had this civics class a decade ago where I completely screwed up one of those presentations where you have to have like 20 slides but the asshole teacher doesnt allow you to put alot of info on them you gotta memorize everything and speak on each slide for like 3 minutes and lil ol me failed to memorize the essay of maranda vs arizona and the whole class laughed at me
Ok Jak, If I can give you 1 piece of criticism, it’s with your thumbnails… Please make your thumbnails a bit different from each other and make them more unique. Cuz like, you made 3 videos with a thumbnail thats you sitting in your car, with like the same camera angle. And you made like 20+ thumbnails of you standing in the same room, with the same purple light, with the same white text above your head, with the same microphone, with the SAME WHITE SHIRT, AND WITH THE SAME FACIAL EXPRESSION! The thumbnails from like 5 months ago and even a Year ago where a lot better, so can you like update your resent ones and start making more unique thumbnails please, thank you. Nothing wrong with the content, just the thumbnails getting a bit repetitive thats all, lots of hugs❤
Aye thanks bro, you’re 100% right but I just felt like the older more edited thumbnails came off as inauthentic if you get what I mean. But yeah recording in different spots and changing up the scenery might help ❤️
So everytime when i'm overthinking myself that why am i so bad at doing social things and hide behind something that i don't even what it is, i just open youtube and watch this video. Cause i know if I take your advices in my head forever, I will get better, because you were just like me and you've experienced everything that I've experienced. Thanks for everything man. You made me change my life
Hey Jak, you probably will not see this comment but I just want to say that this is the first ever inspo-based video that I have ever genuinely cried while watching. I’m currently 17, and my last year of high school. And I’ve been lazy for the past few years of my life. Yet to find what I could truly join and have fun in, I always tried to join in clubs, activities, and events. Even if I was shit at talking, suck at this one sport I enjoyed and tried for 3 years and to only still be greeted with no acceptance in that field, I’ve tried and tried over again for new things to do and yet I still feel as if I’m lacking any progress. I feel as if I may never get close to that one girl I want to befriend, and the lack of social skills to talk to any people my age regardless of gender. My selfish desire to be able to be a “leader” in the roles and activities I have tried to achieve also have been rejected. My procrastination has been really making my time be wasted. And just the pressure of everything I’ve experienced feels so fuckin distasteful. I know this may be part of how life is. And how we perceive it. But I can’t help but be indecisive in what and how I should make progress. I wanted to know how someone can achieve the confidence of being a persistent, even through dozens and thousands of failures. It’s fucking hard but…I really want to see if my shit progress can still achieve something. Although I describe my progress as bad, I wasn’t blind to see I have those few diamond friends and people who genuinely respect my skills. But even then, the goals I’ve wanted to achieve in my last year of high school…was something I couldn’t complete. It isn’t the end of the world if I don’t reach it by highschool but ofc negative feelings just clog my perception on how unqualified and unremarkable I thought I was. And I’d be lying if it wasn’t haunting me as of today. Goals are really fucking important but even I still wasn’t sure what course to go for in college and what actions should I do at this moment. But thank you for giving me a realisation that I’ve achieved something rather than nothing. And that was because I’ve tried. And although I am not as brave, I will want to try more in the future as well. Thank you Jak. Sorry if my English seems awkward but may you stay true to your character and goals brother!
Starting college tomorrow, your videos are astronomically helpfull. Each time I finish a video I feel my confidence and self esteem slowly reconstruct itself. Now I feel like I'm going to do whatever I fear to overcome it, I'm going to speak to new people instead of living in fear and caging myself in doubt and insecurities. Thank you so much ❤
I am an introvert and partied a lot while travelling around in hostels. I talk to everyone and made a lot of friends, but I also need some time off to recharge my social batteries. Stop thinking introverts don't know how to talk to people or we are afraid of people. A lot of introverts like Iman Gadzhi are slaying it with women and sucess. We just don't need to be social and be aorund people 24/7.
I truly relate to you so much, bro. But because of this video, I actually found out that I was too arrogant and thinking that I was at the top of the world. But you helped me out since the beginning. I love you so so much for changing and influencing great for my life.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I get red... A LOT. When I'm nervous, when I'm shy, or laughing, anything. And people always say "Why are you red?" and everyone looks at me, making me scarlet. I thought that wasn't normal, so thank you. Thank you. Thank you
Love you Jack,thanks for always being there for us and trying your best to change us for the better. I relate to this scenario,and so like others it helps me out. Huge respect for that and time taken from you to read my comment.😌🙏
Thank you so much Jak, i have to do a speech in class on Monday and i kept thinking about it, i was like "What if i mess up" "What if i will stutter" but after i watched this video, all of my stress about the speech was simply gone!
I always struggle with anxiety, every single day… I hate it so much, even when Im riding to school in the morning my palms get sweaty because im so scared of getting embarrassed and of people laughing at me😔. Im usually really good around my friends but recently I had a chemistry presentation and my voice was shaking and quivering and here I am, a junior in highschool still struggling with this so much. I hope this gets better, great vid🙏‼️
Thank you for this video I am 14 years old from Germany and my life changed since I started watching your videos, I stopped watching porn, I started with gym and run 3 times a week. You really changed my life. Can you please make a video about how to talk to your crush, I love your content. ❤
You should be immensely proud of what you’ve done so far bro, I know I would be if I was you. With the talking to your crush video, I’m going to be honest bro, I ain’t the best rizzler out there, so my advice probably won’t be the best, There are some great channels out there like @Shimon Davis who talks a lot about speaking to people and improving your social skills. So I’d check his channel out if I was you 👊❤️
This is going to be very personal: I am terrified of my future, my goals, and what I want to do. I'm also scared of committing to anything at all. I aim to go to college, but I'm anxious about getting my portfolio set up for it. I almost can't bring myself to do it. I'm scared of failure in the eyes of those around me, but I can't help but fail sometimes. I can't find out why, either. I'm great with d&d, I can run multiple sessions a week while participating in multiple sessions in the same week, but I can't seem to find initiative to get up and do something without force, and when I do, its either messed up or not to the best of my ability. I'm almost 19, and I don't have my drivers license. I hate almost everything unless it's something I'm completely comfortable with. Anything outside my comfort zone, I can barely tolerate for moments. I also fear my laziness. I don't know why. I could just simply try and do something, but insentive or motive does not come. I procrastinate everything, absolutely everything. Help
I don't have anxiety but I just enjoyed this video so much❤ (I go to a only boy school, it is so fucking fun) any boys here that go to a boys only school?
this honestly changes my perspective on life and why im scared to do certain things, you are honestly changing not only mine but thousands of peoples lives and you should be so proud of yourself :)
Thanks bro I’m sure we all enjoy your tips and advice and thanks for helping thousands or millions of people in their journey and making people care about what actually matters and not about things that we can’t control or don’t really matter at the end of the day, keep doing what u do and don’t listen to the haters bro u got this keep making a change in the world 🌎💪📈
I have never seen one of your videos this is the first I watched it all no distractions this hit hard I love how you are honest about it and don't care if you embarrassed yourself,you seem like a good man respect you and you got a new subscriber 😊
Boy oh boy these videos make me feel so good and relatable i aint talk to a girl and am kinda scared in doing so also teh random questions popping up in my mind while thinking to do it like "Will she even talk to me?,will i fuck this up,will she ever leave her friendzone to hangout sometime...like these things really hold me down but now I am ready to face it and see what live has planned..Thanks homie you really doin good for us teens in matters rarely ppl think about 🎉❤
It’s should be illegal to be this relatable
Haha tbh I felt like I was the only one who experienced something like this, but one thing that TH-cam has taught me is that is humans are more similar than we think we are 🫡❤️
@@JakPiggott Thats so true. It's just that expecially men don't like to talk about their emotions and feelings like you do.
@@Creativer_Name Exactly, men like him are really rare
Yep... I went through all the same shit when I was in highschool. Massive anxiety, especially before speeches, quiet, worrying what others thought of me constantly, not being able to relate to what friends were talking about. Only having the 1 thing I was really good at that people knew me for, which was my running and Cross Country
We are same 😊
It's so nice that he sits outside when recording these. It gives it a whole feeling of authenticy that you can't find elseware, and the fact that he doesn't use a script makes it 10x better. Keep it up brother, you are currently helping me rid myself of my social anxiety and depression, so you will always have my thanks!
Yeah, I love the outdoors ones
I’ll mark more outdoors then. The environment definitely sets the tone for the video, much love brother ❤
@@JakPiggott Thanks man!
I think scripts are not detrimental to the content, but obviously videos can feel too scripted.
Yea its like really talking to me only.
The fact that nobody talks about the forbidden book Mareska Manipulation on Vexoner speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
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I just got my first girlfriend days ago. You have no idea how perfectly timed this video is
Same here, I’m not joking
congrats man, still waiting for my time to come.
@Jamie-dt2vf7dsa8 Godspeed You son of a gun.
I wish You all the Best and hope to god She says yes.
Tell us how it goes
@@carter3116 as of now?
Horribly.
This may be one of you're best videos yet, there are so many people that struggle with anxiety today.
I remember when i moved to a German speaking country, i could hardly speak the language, and during one of my presentations i got laughed at for mispronouncing certain phrases and words.
I remember that i would always sweat a lot and start to stutter.
It took a while to overcome my anxiety even after i learnt the language fluently.
I'm sure this video is gonna help so many other brother.
Always gonna support you.
Much love ❤❤
I was born in Africa but I speak English because the other languages are hard to pronounce, particularly Afrikaans. Never speakkng or writing Afrikaans again.
Which country?
@@KnowNoName3 doesnt matter. Its unimportant.
@@ghostavinci104 ok but why so aggresive?
@@KnowNoName3 I wasn't. Just felt free from school. I'm just lost.
Im not an introvert but i clicked because i wanted to say for all the people who are shy and introverted and scared to talk to other this is some word of advice. If u want friends or a gf/bf just be urself people will be more open if ur urself because be honest would u want to be friends with someone who constantly wasn't being their selves no? didnt think so, so jst be urself for everything
But that's why people don't like me, I have a "girly and annoying" voice by being myself so that's why people don't talk to me and sometimes laugh behind my back.
then f them clearly the ppl yk are jst insecure ppl who dont know what to do with their lives if i were u i would just feel bad for them because only insecure ppl talk badly about others@@cunoob2783
@cunoob2783 honestly, you *will* find your people. if people don't talk to you because you have a girly and annoying voice, it's probably because they are homophobic & misogynistic alongisde an a$$h0le. it's the best to be yourself and be alone rather than having a 100 friends who can't tolerate you as you your honest self.
@cunoob2783 If you're still in puberty, then don't worry. Your voice will get deeper soon.
@@Frank-d5y8r thx, but I'm 13 and a half when is it going to start???
My turning point actually happen not to long ago, every since i switched from a regular class to communication class my social anxiety gotten worse over time until like last month where i woke up and i said to myself in the mirror "i have a problem and I'm going to fix it"
Ever since that day i started focusing on myself and eventually i felt more confident and happy, I'm less anxious now because i don't give a shit as much, hell i even managed to approach my crush.
Basically what I'm trying to say is thank you for motivating me, i still have a long way to go and i ain't stoping
You should be immensely proud. Anxiety is a massive thing and if you can overcome it, I believe you can overcome anything. At least in my experience anyway ❤️
@@JakPiggottI am proud, very proud I still have a long way to go I'm still figuring out shit in my life every single day, even tho I'm an introvert I'm not going to let that slow me down not even for a second
Damn you story really resonated. Specially the lock down stuff and discovering self improvement stuff and how your weren't that relatable. Respect for the grind man, your videos are literally like future me guiding younger me.
Much love brother, I’m glad you’re finding value in the videos, keep crushing it 👊❤️
Be a sigma bro
@@noisehehe I can feel the sigma coming inside me AWOOOOOO 🐺🐺🐺🐺🥵🥵😈😈😈🔥🔥😲
@@milan6782 Nice baby gronx is proud of you
Jak, you’re really helping me to find my old self again. I used to be so socially confident and would to talk to people with no problem before I started high school. But some things happened in year 8 that really screwed my mental health and confidence. My entire year group knows who I am because of what happened back then and now whenever I see someone looking at me or hear them laugh behind me then I think they’re mocking me for it. But ever since I found your content I’ve become better, I started talking to my crush, started working out and focusing on my self confidence using my TH-cam channel to help. I’m still not there yet but I feel like the old me is starting to come back and when he does I feel like I’ll finally have control of my life again. Thank you.
You don’t know how happy this makes me bro, you should be immensely proud of yourself, it’s very rare of someone to make that type of “comeback.” Keep thriving at your best version bro, your future self will thank you ❤️
Keep going man, you're doing great now.
This is the same for me. I was like, how you were making friends and everything but I noticed I kept getting in trouble and getting carried away with them which got me into trouble, and after that year I decided to stop making friends. It would have been awful, but one of my old friends helped me make good friends again. If anyone reads this, I hope it helps you
I've had a crush on her for 8 months now which is insane and have never talked to her. I convinced myself that at school on Monday i'm going to go and talk to her because I'll only regret not doing so in the future. This whole weekend ive just been thinking how im going to start a conversation with her and I've been anxious. At the perfect time this video came out. thanks man, you're amazing
Edit June 1 - I just wanna tell all you homies to go out of your comfort zone, and go talk to her. Trust me, it's not that bad, I can say from experience 🙏
Yeah good luck man. I now feel guilty because i had a crush last yr and i didnt talk to her the whole year until the last few months. And i wish i talked to her sooner because she started talking to a guy who eventually became her bf. Only if i got closer to her early on it could hv been me.
If you still haven’t talked to her bro, just keep it natural and don’t force anything. If you have no chance to talk to her, just don’t talk to her, but if you do, pounce on it.
I’m no rizz god so I won’t give you any rizz advice, but just be yourself, women love that shit, and if she’s right for you she’ll love you for who you truly are ❤️
If you think 8 months is bad, I spent 2 years crushing on a girl before. And let’s just say that it’s not worth wasting so much time and energy on a girl who you’re not dating. Just talk to her, and if things don’t work out, move on, there’s other fishes in the sea.
I've had that mindset bro, you could talk with her about a school event that happened the same day that's what I did at least and it worked really well, one day the opportunity will present itself and you need to be ready for it
How did it go
“ It’s simply a reflection of their own perspective “.
Omgg, I never thinked about this
1 like = 1 push-up. I don't care how many I have to do
No, you only care about getting likes. Grow the f up
Npc comment, you don't need likes to do push ups. Just do the damn push ups.
@@totallynotdeadinside8893 i already do 100 - 200 push-ups a day, but if this comment gets thousands of likes, then i have a little challenge, and im obligated to do it so i dont disappoint.
U about to look like ur profile picture
Gota do 87 now come on you can do it 👍
The devil attacks those who have the highest potential. Once you let go of that anxiety, it’s over with. You will start living the life you deserve
Yes, bingo. 🫡. You know the deal.
I know first hand. Was accosted it fled when I called on JC.*
Give NO place & Develop true Faith.
*That & another time was caused my letting negativity in my realm.
Another time J took off stress/worried/self-disappointment, but same thing-negativity.
After initial/necessary venting &/or consoling, don’t give them feed.
Dump the spirit of feær.
GB brother!
Jak, I wanna say thank you. Thank you for giving me the courage to ask my crush out in the first 5 days even though I’m very shy. Thank you for that self belief you instilled in me. I couldn’t haven’t done it without you or God. Unfortunately she said no, but I’m still relieved. At least now I don’t have the anxiety of thinking when’s the best time I should ask her out anymore. I’m so grateful for this. I couldn’t feel any better even though I got rejected somehow. The relief felt amazing. Thank you from the bottom of my heart Jak. 🙏 God bless you
just saw this video today. But bro, how does helping so many people make you feel? I really think that being that relatable is 100x better than anything else and with this style of video you're doing your best. Thank you Jak.
Wow, I honestly never thought of how bad my anxiety rly was until today.
I remember i had to record a speech for my english GCSEs, and i can still clearly picture how red my face was and how much my leg was shaking bc of my fear of being judged. But now i can finally put it past me, and ik that i wont wake up and look in the mirror thinking all these negative things that ppl might judge me for
So thanks for the inspiration and the light that ive needed
as a introvert who is scared of speaking infront of a crowd even in small numbers i thank you
As an introvert, I can talk to a group of 1-2 people but get so fkn nervous around a group of 5 people
@@ekeieje507 damn lucky man i cant even speak properly to 2 people :(
Thank you man. I needed to hear this, I've been struggling with social anxiety my whole life and this video made feel better. You have no idea how much this means to me and everyone, keep changing people's lives. Thank you brother ❤
bro u actually the goat. Everyone in self improvement (or almost most of them) talk so superficially about this things in their videos, and just tell you the most obvious sht and then tells you that they are doing Gods job, but this is actually what a good person trying to make the others better persons is. The end of the video had me literally smiling at my phone screen
Jake, you just told me my highschool life (without corn) but i just bottle it inside and i just cant stop, i try and try to improve i look away from them but they just haunt me daily and i cant handle, but with you, your different, youve helped me through year 7-9 and ive been feeling better, thank you for being this calm and collected person that can help people, thank you!
Dude thank you so much, u don’t know how much I relate to this. This gave me motivation to go out there and want to talk to people.
I’m so glad to hear that bro, just be yourself and the outcomes will only be positive ❤️
Man, i've been struggling with anxiety for a while you know its an obligation that comes from puberty and i had some ups and downs trying to improve myself. I thought i got over it and then some events happened and i hit rock bottom. Watching your video helped, it really did. And your vids are better than those processed repeating gibberish videos that talk about "top 10 ways to be charismatic" or something because your videos actually have a meaning, a message you can say. It's because i can sympathize with your vids knowing your experiences and how you get over things. Even if it's a strategy for youtube or something i can still feel the sincerety in your videos. Watching it reminds me the things i've forgotten like how things can be really simple sometimes if you have the right mind. Seeing you become a better person helps me becoming a better person even if its not major improvement or if its temporary. Sincerely, thank you.
Bro, after he said "a fucking good life" made me cry for 10 seconds, Thanks to this man thata i am working on my goals, my dreams and other good stuff, thank you jak.
This is the first time I realize you are only like 4 years older than me and this content is more relatable that I originally thought.
1 like= 1 mile of running
kilometer* we're Australian here mate
Use kilometer you savage
@@Toast2005 mb
@@jayliz-ir3kg Gavid Doggins
@@Toast2005 yep
I was just thinking about this, I had went on the usual 'self improvement' journey and gained lots of confidence, yet I had a big fight with my friends, which left me alone and hesitant to talk to others, I thought I would be fine if I just focused on myself, but I realised, ı developed fear. Fear to speak, getting that lump at my throat whenever I wanted to, even if it was to say 'hi' or 'good morning', all the 'tricks' and 'tips' other influencers gave might have been useful, but my hesitancy to talk did not even let me do that. I was looking for a solution for my problem, thats when I looked at youtube and found your videos recommended to me. I believe it was meant to find me. Thank you for making the video and helping me find the actual solution and not just telling me to talk like other self-help influencers. 🖤
Thanks man I’ve struggled a lot with social anxiety. sweating around people I don’t really know or barely able to look them in the eye this helps a lot
I'm watching this video and it's actually making me tear up. It's weird to them because that's what they think of themselves when they do it. I have no words.
Great video as always. Thanks for making this content. I thought for a long time that these fears and especially overthinking was just my problem, it's actually because of you that I realized how many people in our generation share this exact problem. Hope your channel grows even more, keep up the good work mate.
I love that you don't try to manipulate us and actually trying to help
Your story is relatable to me when I was in school ngl. I’m 22 and still introverted, I gained confidence but I still haven’t had the balls to just be social. I think imma try something new this summer, it’s time. Thank you for this video bro
Nah dont try you gotta be a sigma so then you can unleash skibidi Ohio rizz
As a high schooler, This is the most relatable and motivational video I have ever seen. This video is my turning point
I've never heard of anyone else picking their thumbs out of anxiety. But the difference here is that I don't limit it to just my thumbs
Bro you are the realist guy I’ve ever seen. Everything you’ve said I can relate to and you are such an inspiring person. Thank you
12:01 has to be the truest words ever spoken brother 👊❤
100% brother, it’s something I’ve taken with me for years ❤️
wonderfully put
You can't have the gigachad profile if you are not a Sigma bro come on our race has to win
As a person live in Indonesia, i apologize for making you feel judged voluntarily... 🙏
Everything happens for a good reason, and with your story sharing videos... brotha, you'd never know how many people are inspired, motivated, encouraged, not feeling that 'alone' anymore..
Jak, you're being a blessing in their lives.
Bro... I have no words for how you are changing our generation. I am proud of you. You know why? Because you never post those toxic shorts with alpha male advice, but just video's with real-life advice. By the way, could you please make a video about what you think of God? Take care brother 👊
Thank you my brother, there’s already enough red pill content out there and to be honest, I think most of its bs but at the end of the day I’m just a regular arse 18 year old ❤️
Great messages in this video Jak, having love for yourself & believing in yourself is so important for everyone.
No one else can make one happy, your happiness comes from within oneseself.
If one relies on others for happiness, one will always be vulnerable. Others can enhance your happiness but not make you happy.
Bullies & keyboard warriors rely on the vulnerability of others to make themselves feel good & in control.
Do not let the cowards win.
It’s not always bad to be laughed at🤷♂️
100% brother, it’s a good thing nowadays to be honest, especially if you’re living from your true heart ❤️
You are clearly not a Sigma.
let them laught and feel the pain with strenght. its all about strenght, courage and valour
@@noisehehe shut up dude
@@BrexTheManYou are clearly also not a sigma so zip it buddy
This video is super relatable. I have social anxiety disorder and I used to always be anxious about what other people thought of me, and I remember starting school after the pandemic where everyone was on tik tok and Snapchat, and I felt left out because I wasn’t keeping up with the latest “trends”. But I recently started to have a new mindset of just telling myself “who cares what other people think. If they don’t know you than their opinion doesn’t matter.” Which has been helping me a lot, and I started going to the gym.
(Sorry for the long comment)
Thanks for the video!
Have a good day guys👍🏻
1 like = 1 km for running
Seriously people stop, I ran the 36 km thinking I had finished, I go back to the comment and the likes went up 💀
I'm going to try for the 80, I hope I make it.
I know your a$$ is just doing this for the likes
Great king all the best you can do it
run for God, not for yourself
Bro is cooked 💀
Bro shut up ok nobody needs to hear you zip it
Its so inspiring the fact that when you watch his videos you realise you either were or still are in the same situation he was, even in basketball i dont have enough confidence but man basketball is the only thing that has helped me feel good about myself for some reason
I’m new to your stuff and you’re absolutely right on!
I met this one guy yesterday who was a very accomplished doctor.
He had very huge ears, and the only reason I bring it up is it would be something a lot of people would be very anxious about if they had them but when I talked to him I didn’t even think about his ears. It didn’t matter that they weren’t perfect.
I was more worried that my face was dirty from working on his property.
We typically judge ourselves more than we judge others.
You’re not alone. You’re amazing the way you are. Don’t let things define who you are.
I sometimes watch your vids, even if I can’t relate to. It might me helpful, even if it isn’t for me, cuz I can help others with an advice.
I love this mindset, putting others before yourself (in a good way) is always a sign of a good human being ❤️
@@JakPiggott Wow, thx, bro:)
12:00 true. I’ve always hated how some of my friends are quick to label things as cringe or embarrassing when it’s a reflection that they never push themselves out of their comfort zone
F*ck it, 100 likes and I talk to my crush
Edit 1: talk to my crush, about my feelings (she's not a random person). Also I'm kind of scared that we gonna get there and of course thanks for any advice u give me
Edit 2 : So basically i have known her for 2 years. I havent really showed any short of emotion that I want her but we are talking every morning in school or in the adternoon using intagram. The only problem is that she may consider me as a friend and nothing else.
Edit 3 : After 1,5 days we actually did it. So whats gonna happen now is that i will keep my promise (get to know her and create a friendship between us as you advised me) and when it wont be too akward i will talk to her bout my feelings.
No, 1 like then you go to talk to her 💪
yea not happening lil bro sry..
15 likes
he fr gon get the 100 likes but one tip is dont propose right away cuz it would just scare her and most likely reject
Get to know them first, a good relationship comes from a good friendship. Moving too fast will ruin any chance of a relationship and destroy any you have.
The fact that most people relate to this video, shows that most people have a similar mindset
Jakpiggot, I’m 12 years old but fairly mature for my age and started some bad habits around 11 years old, but I recently found your videos and I just want to thank you so much even though I still do some of the bad habits I now realise the things I’m doing and your videos are just so relatable to me and my school and I just really hope you see this and want to say a big thanks to you keep doing what your doing bro ❤
Do u hav Discord cuz i hav same situation
Keep on going lil bro, you're lucky to get to know self-improvement that early, you still got a lot of time but keep those good habits, so you won't be miserable later in life
Thanks bro ❤️
You are still so young brother, you have so much potential within you and I’m sure your future will be brighter than the sun. Just stay on the right path aye ❤
Hey jack, thanks for the motivation brother is there any chance we could talk one on one?
The most realistic and pure content you'll ever be on the internet, bro I would love to meet and hug you 🫂♥️
Thank you brah I really needed this, you have changed my perspective on my situation a lot and you’re advice is very appreciated, keep doing what you’re doing bro god bless🙏
It's really nice to see this dude grow and find himself internally
Bro is super relatable asf
❤️🤞
I've struggled with anxiety for most of my life. I've tried getting help from professionals and only helped me to understand what was causing it, but I didn't know how to control my anxiety. I've been evading social interactions with people, especially girls, because I'm in constant fear that they will think I'm stupid, since when I get anxious my mind just goes blank. This lead me to have a porn addiction and I started smoking marijuana recently, too. Well, today I decided I want to make a change in my life and try to be the best version of myself. Everything you said on this video is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you so much bro!!
Thank you so much for the advice jak,It’s been a difficult time for me and watching your vids make me motivated.I really look forward to keep on going for myself.
11:41 realising this helps A LOT in interaction with others since you know you're not the only one there with the same problem. So naturally because you relate to that other person, you feel more free and confident around them
1 Like = 1 day 50 push-ups
Make it 100 for my heart 🥰
@@JakPiggottI used to do 100 push ups a day, but now I don’t because I’ve figured out there’s much better ways to exercise and actually have a balanced physique.
@@smallxplosion9546 i used to do 50, then, 100 and now 150 for a long time
Do every 10 minutes 10 push ups intead of 25 push ups its better and easier kinda
I a starter at push ups
Bro mad respect to you for your work and mindset. Continue bro, your a real one 👌
listening to this while hitting the gym just hits different
You’re becoming my favorite TH-camr. You have the best advice for people like me. That advice is shit I could never think of. I’m going to school right now, and I’m going to fucking do exactly what you say. I’m going to challenge myself today. You are an amazing person, you will get what you want. You are helping so many people out. I’m grateful you exist. Thank you so much.
Please ignore my channel name though, it’s supposed to be funny
We need more people like him....
Much love my man 🫡❤️
@@JakPiggott bro i opened a new self improvement channel any tips?
I heard this quote online, “we don’t need more people like him, we need to be like him”
@@ITACHIUCHIHA-tl6muhappy eid bro
@@ITACHIUCHIHA-tl6mu Turkish version il do belgian one😎
Bro I cannot stress how much I needed this video, this video made me reflect on my class, here's the thing, I try too hard to fit in the class, that I think of myself so lowly. The thing I'm scared of doing in my class is trying to join in a conversation. Because if I do try that, I feel myself getting hit with weird stares, like I'm some weirdo. And my mind will always try and make me do anything to fit in, since I feel so left out. I just wish I can talk to someone every day, or at least get an everyday conversation with a variety of people. I just wish I can be as good as they are with socializing, and coping with not being talked to. I swear man, when you said that "if they think it's cringe, it's a reflection of what they think will make them cringe if they do that" was good for me, because you basically told me in other words, "You're doing something they can't, because they know they'll get hated for doing it, other than you". Thank you my man, and please upload more to keep helping me in life.
Build social skills
Get good at something that massess desire'
Then put yourself in a social pressure situation first awkward eventually you get good its take time and courage focus and persistence very hard anything to build if its not naturally gifted
One word: Backflip
Ngl bro am gonna be honest I was crying watching this video but youtube recommend me this channel man thanks for the message
4:08 made me laugh way harder than it shouldve
Haha I had to include it 😂
@@JakPiggottlol
@@JakPiggottyour video are inspiring kept up
You are just a great person
I can relate to each and every single word you spoke in the video.
Just love you man!
I had this civics class a decade ago where I completely screwed up one of those presentations where you have to have like 20 slides but the asshole teacher doesnt allow you to put alot of info on them you gotta memorize everything and speak on each slide for like 3 minutes and lil ol me failed to memorize the essay of maranda vs arizona and the whole class laughed at me
must have been embarrassing, but you pulled through
I've learned to embrace the weirdness. If they laugh, you laugh twice as hard. If they make a nasty comment, lean into it. Dont let them win.
Ok Jak, If I can give you 1 piece of criticism, it’s with your thumbnails…
Please make your thumbnails a bit different from each other and make them more unique. Cuz like, you made 3 videos with a thumbnail thats you sitting in your car, with like the same camera angle. And you made like 20+ thumbnails of you standing in the same room, with the same purple light, with the same white text above your head, with the same microphone, with the SAME WHITE SHIRT, AND WITH THE SAME FACIAL EXPRESSION! The thumbnails from like 5 months ago and even a Year ago where a lot better, so can you like update your resent ones and start making more unique thumbnails please, thank you. Nothing wrong with the content, just the thumbnails getting a bit repetitive thats all, lots of hugs❤
Aye thanks bro, you’re 100% right but I just felt like the older more edited thumbnails came off as inauthentic if you get what I mean.
But yeah recording in different spots and changing up the scenery might help ❤️
@@JakPiggott Ok, thanks for responding to my comment in a nice way, and yes I get what you mean. Glad I could help you, peace my brother ✌️❤️
So everytime when i'm overthinking myself that why am i so bad at doing social things and hide behind something that i don't even what it is, i just open youtube and watch this video. Cause i know if I take your advices in my head forever, I will get better, because you were just like me and you've experienced everything that I've experienced. Thanks for everything man. You made me change my life
People who know that Jak puts 200% effort in his videos to help people 👇
WHY IS IT POINTING AT THE DISLIKE BUTTON 😂❤😅
That’s the ultimate goal bro, to see more good in the world, I’m glad it’s working, much love 🤞❤️
Hey Jak, you probably will not see this comment but I just want to say that this is the first ever inspo-based video that I have ever genuinely cried while watching. I’m currently 17, and my last year of high school. And I’ve been lazy for the past few years of my life. Yet to find what I could truly join and have fun in, I always tried to join in clubs, activities, and events. Even if I was shit at talking, suck at this one sport I enjoyed and tried for 3 years and to only still be greeted with no acceptance in that field, I’ve tried and tried over again for new things to do and yet I still feel as if I’m lacking any progress. I feel as if I may never get close to that one girl I want to befriend, and the lack of social skills to talk to any people my age regardless of gender. My selfish desire to be able to be a “leader” in the roles and activities I have tried to achieve also have been rejected. My procrastination has been really making my time be wasted. And just the pressure of everything I’ve experienced feels so fuckin distasteful. I know this may be part of how life is. And how we perceive it. But I can’t help but be indecisive in what and how I should make progress. I wanted to know how someone can achieve the confidence of being a persistent, even through dozens and thousands of failures. It’s fucking hard but…I really want to see if my shit progress can still achieve something. Although I describe my progress as bad, I wasn’t blind to see I have those few diamond friends and people who genuinely respect my skills. But even then, the goals I’ve wanted to achieve in my last year of high school…was something I couldn’t complete. It isn’t the end of the world if I don’t reach it by highschool but ofc negative feelings just clog my perception on how unqualified and unremarkable I thought I was. And I’d be lying if it wasn’t haunting me as of today. Goals are really fucking important but even I still wasn’t sure what course to go for in college and what actions should I do at this moment. But thank you for giving me a realisation that I’ve achieved something rather than nothing. And that was because I’ve tried. And although I am not as brave, I will want to try more in the future as well.
Thank you Jak.
Sorry if my English seems awkward but may you stay true to your character and goals brother!
Imagine if you say god give me a sign of how you see me and you see the thumbnail of this video
Starting college tomorrow, your videos are astronomically helpfull. Each time I finish a video I feel my confidence and self esteem slowly reconstruct itself. Now I feel like I'm going to do whatever I fear to overcome it, I'm going to speak to new people instead of living in fear and caging myself in doubt and insecurities. Thank you so much ❤
1 Like = 1 push up
2 push ups😂
Wow for your age to be able to be so self aware , its rare for someone your age these days to have such maturity
1 like = 1 random talk with random girl on the street
I am an introvert and partied a lot while travelling around in hostels. I talk to everyone and made a lot of friends, but I also need some time off to recharge my social batteries. Stop thinking introverts don't know how to talk to people or we are afraid of people. A lot of introverts like Iman Gadzhi are slaying it with women and sucess. We just don't need to be social and be aorund people 24/7.
Ive never been shy around girls...had no problem talking to them. Dont be shy guys.
"don't be shy guys"
Tell this to any extremely sociophobic person that was bullied every day in school
That's like telling someone just don't be depressed bro
"if you are a homeless, just buy a house"
I truly relate to you so much, bro. But because of this video, I actually found out that I was too arrogant and thinking that I was at the top of the world. But you helped me out since the beginning. I love you so so much for changing and influencing great for my life.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I get red... A LOT. When I'm nervous, when I'm shy, or laughing, anything. And people always say "Why are you red?" and everyone looks at me, making me scarlet. I thought that wasn't normal, so thank you. Thank you. Thank you
Love you Jack,thanks for always being there for us and trying your best to change us for the better. I relate to this scenario,and so like others it helps me out. Huge respect for that and time taken from you to read my comment.😌🙏
Felt that.
1 like- 10 push ups.
Let’s se how this goes lol
Thank you so much Jak, i have to do a speech in class on Monday and i kept thinking about it, i was like "What if i mess up" "What if i will stutter" but after i watched this video, all of my stress about the speech was simply gone!
Good pfp dude
Perfect love casts out all fear and that’s found in Jesus.✝️
I always struggle with anxiety, every single day… I hate it so much, even when Im riding to school in the morning my palms get sweaty because im so scared of getting embarrassed and of people laughing at me😔. Im usually really good around my friends but recently I had a chemistry presentation and my voice was shaking and quivering and here I am, a junior in highschool still struggling with this so much. I hope this gets better, great vid🙏‼️
Thank you for this video I am 14 years old from Germany and my life changed since I started watching your videos, I stopped watching porn, I started with gym and run 3 times a week. You really changed my life. Can you please make a video about how to talk to your crush, I love your content. ❤
You should be immensely proud of what you’ve done so far bro, I know I would be if I was you. With the talking to your crush video, I’m going to be honest bro, I ain’t the best rizzler out there, so my advice probably won’t be the best,
There are some great channels out there like @Shimon Davis who talks a lot about speaking to people and improving your social skills. So I’d check his channel out if I was you 👊❤️
Now we are 2 germans
I love you, man. I had to cry watching this video cause I really reflected a lot.
Hey one like I'll do 2 pull ups
36 pull ups?
@@kartik0_ok ok
@@kartik0_ok I did it
@@JoshFernandes-sc1uu nice
Oh boy, 46 pull-ups. Good luck brotha
This is going to be very personal: I am terrified of my future, my goals, and what I want to do. I'm also scared of committing to anything at all. I aim to go to college, but I'm anxious about getting my portfolio set up for it. I almost can't bring myself to do it. I'm scared of failure in the eyes of those around me, but I can't help but fail sometimes. I can't find out why, either. I'm great with d&d, I can run multiple sessions a week while participating in multiple sessions in the same week, but I can't seem to find initiative to get up and do something without force, and when I do, its either messed up or not to the best of my ability. I'm almost 19, and I don't have my drivers license. I hate almost everything unless it's something I'm completely comfortable with. Anything outside my comfort zone, I can barely tolerate for moments.
I also fear my laziness. I don't know why. I could just simply try and do something, but insentive or motive does not come. I procrastinate everything, absolutely everything. Help
00:22 as an indonesia girl this is too relatable
I don't have anxiety but I just enjoyed this video so much❤ (I go to a only boy school, it is so fucking fun) any boys here that go to a boys only school?
my brother is joining one when he goes to secondary school in September
I'm going to one very soon
@@Speedblitzer952 your gonna have so much fun
@@Neve-2012NRH his gonna lovr it
@@HxrickFN yeah he wants to go to that school too
this honestly changes my perspective on life and why im scared to do certain things, you are honestly changing not only mine but thousands of peoples lives and you should be so proud of yourself :)
1 like = 1 mile+1push up
Thanks bro I’m sure we all enjoy your tips and advice and thanks for helping thousands or millions of people in their journey and making people care about what actually matters and not about things that we can’t control or don’t really matter at the end of the day, keep doing what u do and don’t listen to the haters bro u got this keep making a change in the world 🌎💪📈
1 like = 1 day in a row I go the gym
I have never seen one of your videos this is the first I watched it all no distractions this hit hard I love how you are honest about it and don't care if you embarrassed yourself,you seem like a good man respect you and you got a new subscriber 😊
1 like = 1 pushup. Give me a challenge✌️
Make it 100 for my heart ❤️
@@JakPiggott bet
Boy oh boy these videos make me feel so good and relatable i aint talk to a girl and am kinda scared in doing so also teh random questions popping up in my mind while thinking to do it like "Will she even talk to me?,will i fuck this up,will she ever leave her friendzone to hangout sometime...like these things really hold me down but now I am ready to face it and see what live has planned..Thanks homie you really doin good for us teens in matters rarely ppl think about 🎉❤
I’ll do a push up for each like
I will do the same