Yes definitely!! She's an example, that, not just because she's visually attractive and well spoken, as many of also some of the male presenters are....I felt she'd be the type to draw great influences. I literally felt like she looked into my, life.
Absolutely loved the following quotes from the video: 1. "Your ego will die a thousand death but it will still return tomorrow" 2. "No matter how many wins you have with this struggle against yourself, you'll have a moment of weakness" 3. "Do we not destroy our enemies when we make them our friends" Particularly, the second one is very powerful and aptly puts into perspective how discipline and the struggle with yourself is never ending and life long. I hope all of us keep progressing in our struggles with ourselves. Power to each and every one of us!
Learning to accept the compliment which is actually an insecurity is so essential to our lives. So many times, we keep getting lost amongst our insecurities without even realizing that they may not be completely true. Such external forces to rescue us from the well that we dig ourselves can be so helpful for our well-being.
I’m here, for the same thing. My wife, is quick to defend herself with anger. Or when she wants to talk about a touchy subject. It’s coming in guns blazing. I’m always baffled, with how to respond. By not taking to bait.
Thank you so much for this talk. I can relate SO much to everything you said and I've been working on those behavior & thought patterns for quite some time. Your words help and reassure me :)
In the delicate balance of relationships, moments of joy often coexist with deeper emotional challenges. Ego frequently emerges in the form of defensiveness or perfectionism, driven by an instinct to shield one’s vulnerabilities. Recognizing and managing these reactions is crucial for fostering authentic connections. A simple yet profound approach involves acknowledging feelings, accepting them, and continuing with grace. This means understanding one’s emotions, accepting personal flaws, and striving to grow. Embracing vulnerability and gratitude in interactions can transform relationships, shifting focus from individual insecurities to collective strength. Ultimately, navigating ego is about cultivating self-awareness and compassion, leading to more genuine and fulfilling relationships.
Yeah its preety cool knowing where this eco come from so we can 😂remove that 😊amazing i am in just love being invoiled such good plateform thanks tedx😊😊😊😊😊😊
If you were my mom, I would want you to know that it is never too late to do differently. One day in the future you can watch this again and say, "I no longer feel like the worst parent." You are good inside and you can change. Good luck! ❤
The coolest thing is you're able to acknowledge and recognize where you can improve. All of us can relate to some things that were mentioned. Now you could be the best mother if you apply the things that you've learned. Lord bless you sis. Ask God for strength. Jesus is the way
A lot of people that are prone to self-pity and making excuses will not accept this message well. I'm being terse but a lot of losers will never adopt self-reflection techniques that will improve their behavior. Its far easier (and more common) to just blame outside sources rather than try.
1:44 Not true at all. There's tremendous benefit for Emily learning the crucial fact that a great many people who have very good sides also have very bad sides.
Why don’t you care about people ! Just focus on your life girl ! It’s a little rough what I say but they are not paying your bills or your taxes so do what you like and want ! (And peaceful) And trust yourself and your Gut and your INSTINCT ! That’s the key ! Everything you do is for yourself not for having external validation for others ! 🤍🤍🤍
"You are not your worst moments and it does not define you" -- this is so encouraging! Thank you so much!
Yes definitely!! She's an example, that, not just because she's visually attractive and well spoken, as many of also some of the male presenters are....I felt she'd be the type to draw great influences. I literally felt like she looked into my, life.
Absolutely loved the following quotes from the video:
1. "Your ego will die a thousand death but it will still return tomorrow"
2. "No matter how many wins you have with this struggle against yourself, you'll have a moment of weakness"
3. "Do we not destroy our enemies when we make them our friends"
Particularly, the second one is very powerful and aptly puts into perspective how discipline and the struggle with yourself is never ending and life long.
I hope all of us keep progressing in our struggles with ourselves. Power to each and every one of us!
What a profound presentation. She actually touches on so much that I've let eat at me.
Learning to accept the compliment which is actually an insecurity is so essential to our lives. So many times, we keep getting lost amongst our insecurities without even realizing that they may not be completely true. Such external forces to rescue us from the well that we dig ourselves can be so helpful for our well-being.
Very insightful talk. This explains why my ex-friend was always so defensive, even when I tried my best to communicate non-judgementally.
I’m here, for the same thing. My wife, is quick to defend herself with anger. Or when she wants to talk about a touchy subject. It’s coming in guns blazing.
I’m always baffled, with how to respond. By not taking to bait.
Fantastic! I can relate to each example she shared and also start applying her solutions right away. I love this.
Just finished reading THE SUN ALWAYS PIERCES THROUGH on healing mind heart soul
is it good ?
I really needed this today, thank you.
Thank you so much for this talk. I can relate SO much to everything you said and I've been working on those behavior & thought patterns for quite some time. Your words help and reassure me :)
Great Ted talk!!
Awesome speaker! Thanks for sharing 🙏
I also learned to lead with fear and not love and that responding with anger was the normal reaction.
Great & inspirational discussion 💯👏👏
An actually useful lecture 👍
Insightful... Thankyou!
You are living the dream my brother. I wish so bad that I could afford a fast surron. You are my hero brother. God bless you
She has such a lovely voice - I'd love to listen to a podcast or youtube channel of hers!
Thank you for sharing your story ❤
In the delicate balance of relationships, moments of joy often coexist with deeper emotional challenges. Ego frequently emerges in the form of defensiveness or perfectionism, driven by an instinct to shield one’s vulnerabilities. Recognizing and managing these reactions is crucial for fostering authentic connections.
A simple yet profound approach involves acknowledging feelings, accepting them, and continuing with grace. This means understanding one’s emotions, accepting personal flaws, and striving to grow. Embracing vulnerability and gratitude in interactions can transform relationships, shifting focus from individual insecurities to collective strength.
Ultimately, navigating ego is about cultivating self-awareness and compassion, leading to more genuine and fulfilling relationships.
Thank you, I can relate to this!
Thank you!
We appreciate your honesty!
As welcome as a fresh cuppa, and way more useful in the long-term.
Other animals have consciousness as well
Yep. When I hear people still repeating outdated, false (and often insulting) theories regarding our animal friends it's a struggle nott to get angry.
Yeah its preety cool knowing where this eco come from so we can 😂remove that 😊amazing i am in just love being invoiled such good plateform thanks tedx😊😊😊😊😊😊
It's good to see different people.
Very smart girl 💯
tysm ❤
Jumped to over a thousand in seven minutes
But, where are the thumbs up? 😢
WOW, all of a sudden I feel like the worse parent in the world
If you were my mom, I would want you to know that it is never too late to do differently. One day in the future you can watch this again and say, "I no longer feel like the worst parent." You are good inside and you can change. Good luck! ❤
your username made that obvious
But now you know better so you can do better. ❤
Insight gives great opportunities for growth. 👍
The coolest thing is you're able to acknowledge and recognize where you can improve. All of us can relate to some things that were mentioned. Now you could be the best mother if you apply the things that you've learned. Lord bless you sis. Ask God for strength. Jesus is the way
UBETYA AND GRATEFUL
YOU ROCK GIRL
HUGS2U
A lot of people that are prone to self-pity and making excuses will not accept this message well. I'm being terse but a lot of losers will never adopt self-reflection techniques that will improve their behavior. Its far easier (and more common) to just blame outside sources rather than try.
Oh my gosh, where you wrote 'most losers will never adopt self reflection techniques' I read it as 'most bosses will never...' lol
10:30 I love your channel and your audience, I'm gonna comment on ALL your videos for years until I reach your level of subscribers.
❤❤
This is DBT and CBT.
Wow every minute another hundred people
uh.. yea... this channel has 41 million subscribers id be worried if it wasnt doing that
1:44 Not true at all. There's tremendous benefit for Emily learning the crucial fact that a great many people who have very good sides also have very bad sides.
I don’t think that was the point
I thought some of the examples she gave that she said were bc of ego were self esteem issues.
Lol i hope emily isnt her real name. And they know now for sure.
🍿 let’s go
💐🤗❤️
In case no one told you animals have their own thoughts and ceilings just like people. You are so mistaken.
Acknowledge your ego.
But I can’t imagine animals having egos, except for cats lol.
this sounds like ADHD
Step 1 should be don't do a Ted talk 😂
I already know this isn't worth watching as it is a woman telling others how to get over them selves.
You seem a little... defensive 👀
Emily & Becca. Must be white women.
Yes certain people have typical names. Some people make up random, long ones... The preferable choice is quite clear.
Why don’t you care about people ! Just focus on your life girl !
It’s a little rough what I say but they are not paying your bills or your taxes so do what you like and want ! (And peaceful)
And trust yourself and your Gut and your INSTINCT ! That’s the key !
Everything you do is for yourself not for having external validation for others ! 🤍🤍🤍