Why Do People Refuse To Accept The Truth About Men & Women?

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  • Chris and Steve Stewart-Williams discuss the actual differences between men and women. What do most people get wrong about men and women according to Steven Stewart-Williams? How modest are the differences between sexes according to Steve Stewart-Williams?
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  • @ChrisWillx
    @ChrisWillx  29 วันที่ผ่านมา +34

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      @anatta3.14 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

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      @anatta3.14 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

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      @patrickm9494 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

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  • @joshuas2042
    @joshuas2042 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +474

    These are so brutally obvious it is amazing that society has gotten to the place where this is challenged or worth a contentious discussion.

    • @Johnstone72
      @Johnstone72 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +43

      The alphabet Spastics will hate you for saying it out loud.

    • @ronin4160
      @ronin4160 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's because liberal millenials aren't having babies and if they are it's just one. Any parent with multiple kids of each sex or has at least watched big groups of toddlers with both sexes know boys and girls are different. It's just obvious

    • @cargolot
      @cargolot 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +44

      “Every high civilization decays by forgetting obvious things.”
      ― G.K. Chesterton

    • @brianmeen2158
      @brianmeen2158 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      Yeah there are very influential people that are trying to make it seem like men and women are pretty much the same .. of course there is a lot of overlap but there are several very key differences in how men and women think

    • @vngelsvnddemons5292
      @vngelsvnddemons5292 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

      Common sense is no longer common, sadly.

  • @StateFlow-ns4mg
    @StateFlow-ns4mg 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +354

    The fact that it is even a question, shows how broken we are.

    • @niallfitzpatrick6568
      @niallfitzpatrick6568 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Yup 😢 The very definition of a First World problem...

    • @gaijinbear8949
      @gaijinbear8949 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      Don't "we' this. A large portion of society is not broken.

    • @niallfitzpatrick6568
      @niallfitzpatrick6568 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@gaijinbear8949 l agree. Unfortunately we don't have a voice in the MSM anymore. MSM is more concerned with anti-white straight male Christian racism. Frankly it stinks to high heaven.

    • @ScrotusMaximus666
      @ScrotusMaximus666 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      “Delusional”

    • @JordiMuntada
      @JordiMuntada 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Why is it broken??

  • @benjaminholm2311
    @benjaminholm2311 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +238

    It's time to stop pretending that they're acting in good faith.

    • @indeswma4904
      @indeswma4904 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      I worry that youre right.

    • @PhsychoSomatic
      @PhsychoSomatic 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Who

    • @drockopotamus1
      @drockopotamus1 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@PhsychoSomatic People who think there are no differences between males and females, obviously lol. There are people who literally think the brains are the same or changing identity will change their sex. Not everything is a social construct. Facts exist.

    • @FlibDokky
      @FlibDokky 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@PhsychoSomatic you know who

    • @ganjaericco
      @ganjaericco 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@PhsychoSomatic New aged socialists, who believe in the blank slate theory, that all outcomes are a result of societal discrimination and must be forced by the state to become equal.

  • @LastEarBender
    @LastEarBender 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +48

    what blows me away is that anyone claiming otherwise holds any level of credibility - with anyone

    • @FutureCommentary1
      @FutureCommentary1 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Do you have any reference to anybody claiming that? I've never heard anything like it before. If you could give me a couple of names I'll check out their content.

  • @EuropaPhoenix
    @EuropaPhoenix 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +166

    The earth is round.
    2+2=4.
    Men and women are different.
    In a sane world, these basic facts aren't debated.

    • @starkid9736
      @starkid9736 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ...how dare u...

    • @DrDeuteron
      @DrDeuteron 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      "round-ish", see: EGM96, for exmaple.

    • @k.mosallam
      @k.mosallam 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ok but like 2+2=5 though...

  • @filipcza
    @filipcza 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +147

    If someone is so out of touch with reality that they actually think men and women are the same, then just walk away.
    They are beyond anyone's help.

    • @brianmeen2158
      @brianmeen2158 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      But but all
      The differences are caused by social constructs!! With enough work we can all be the same
      😂

    • @stinkystu1
      @stinkystu1 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @@brianmeen2158 What they really mean is: "If you just completely destroy who you are, and give me all of your time and money then we can maybe work this out."

    • @debrawehrly6900
      @debrawehrly6900 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      They are both human beings. They are both two separate things of the same thing

    • @Duhbaby2348h
      @Duhbaby2348h 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You’re definitely single 😂😂

    • @Elitesolider1023
      @Elitesolider1023 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Then I don't know what to tell you because I've dealt with enough toxic men. And women's bullshit to know none are better And i'm admit bullshit And say one has better over the other so We can forget about that shit I don't even care about someone being a man Or a woman I just care about either of them being a good person

  • @johannesdolch
    @johannesdolch 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +204

    Is it time to accept that water is wet?

    • @niallfitzpatrick6568
      @niallfitzpatrick6568 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Or that politicians are full of shite?

    • @alkaliwreck2474
      @alkaliwreck2474 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      But what if the water is solid :P

    • @albertlevins9191
      @albertlevins9191 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I'm crying!!!
      😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @stxlaxPP
      @stxlaxPP 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

      Are you assuming my fluidity?

    • @solo1014
      @solo1014 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Define "wet." Also, if its a bose-einstein condesate, it gets weird...

  • @yol_n
    @yol_n 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +67

    Crazy time we live in where saying women and men are different is a hot take

    • @andrewrai5752
      @andrewrai5752 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Only in the liberal sections of the US/Canada and Northern Europe! Most of the world don’t buy the liberal western social science BS!! I was just in Italy and talking to a bunch of locals and they were aghast when I told them that there was such a term as “they” people, or all the liberal BS we hear in the US.

    • @DNA350ppm
      @DNA350ppm 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      It is rather a banality. What is important is when and why the differences matter. Like in the case of umpaid labor. Or in the rights of fathers. Or in customs of politeness vs harrassment. In divorce-laws, in pensions plans, in medical treatments, or bullying in schools. All individuals have rights.

    • @yol_n
      @yol_n 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@edm-london1660 cope harder

    • @kubasniak
      @kubasniak 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I feel disgusted towards ppl who think that like they have leprosy... brainwashed

  • @threatened2024
    @threatened2024 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +64

    As Cory Clark said, people tend to accept negative things about men and positive things about women.

    • @busybecomingmyself
      @busybecomingmyself 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      Indeed. See "women are wonderful effect"

    • @skylinefever
      @skylinefever 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      I like how Karen Straughan made fun of it. She joked "Man's desires bad. Women's desires good."

    • @busybecomingmyself
      @busybecomingmyself 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      @@kc6810 there are definitely places where men have privileges but both men and women have a general bias towards women. I made a video about this a few weeks ago in response to the "men are useless" clip from the View which went viral. That video description includes references to the research papers I mention.

    • @sanniepstein4835
      @sanniepstein4835 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's a reaction to 20th century misogyny. The sneering at housewives, the pop-Freud blaming of mommy for every personal failing, the venomous hatred expressed by overpraised and dishonest authors like John Cheever.
      Humans are rarely in balance.

    • @Ismail-kv3ex
      @Ismail-kv3ex 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @@kc6810I think there is a difference between taking a physically imposing man seriously and emotional bias toward women

  • @Nossieuk
    @Nossieuk 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +52

    we did accept that - 60 years ago - this is regression, not progress.

    • @Duhbaby2348h
      @Duhbaby2348h 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I bet money your single 😂😂😂😂

    • @Nossieuk
      @Nossieuk 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Duhbaby2348h errrr no? quite happily married with children, but you keep enjoying the salt and your fevered dream.

  • @randywise5241
    @randywise5241 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    Men and women were not made to be equal. They were made to be complementary with equal rights. We need each other to have a future for all mankind.

    • @Elitesolider1023
      @Elitesolider1023 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I guess I could agree with that. Human is human after all I just think that all men and women these days need to grow the f*** up and stop being oversized. Children and blame each other for mistakes that they're both guilty of hence why people suck in general It doesn't really matter what you are. It matters who you are. I just want people to admit all their flaws. And just work together to better themselves for a brighter tomorrow.

  • @Anne_Onymous
    @Anne_Onymous 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +135

    It's an objective fact that humans have accepted for millions of years. Not sure why we're even having this convo.

    • @osariemeenehizena8577
      @osariemeenehizena8577 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

      Social politics

    • @mileygray7794
      @mileygray7794 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ? Slavery being a good thing is the same way? Do you wish for us to continue with it as well? Er does the position you are making to traditional beliefs only apply to the one you hold on to? Remember people it's perfectly fine to have tearable beliefs but it is never ok to be a lazy thinking hypocrite 😅

    • @mileygray7794
      @mileygray7794 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@realsatoshihashimoto na it's important to say all the stuff you believe in ^.^ well as long as you try to do so in good taste. We can't learn grow and shurt the good from the bad by hiding from what we don't like

    • @mileygray7794
      @mileygray7794 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@realsatoshihashimoto na it's important to say all the stuff you believe in ^.^ well as long as you try to do so in good taste. We can't learn grow and shurt the good from the bad by hiding from what we don't like

    • @realsatoshihashimoto
      @realsatoshihashimoto 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@mileygray7794 Yeah, not sure why my comment was deleted when I was basically agreeing with the creator of the channel & what they said in the video! TH-cam censorship is out of control.

  • @josephthibodeau9725
    @josephthibodeau9725 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    The sexual versus emotional infidelity makes perfect sense. Sexual infidelity by a woman makes it less likely for a man's kids to be biologically his, in which case he is no longer creating or caring for his own legacy and has wasted his time, energy and resources. While emotional infidelity by a man makes it more likely that a woman will lose her source of security/resources and may no longer be able to secure a new one due to societal constraints or just being too old or unattractive in either biological or social preferences. Makes perfect sense from an evolutionary development standpoint. Keeping in mind that almost none of our emotions and instincts were developed for the world we live in. They were formed in and for a world in which we live in caves or simple hunter gatherer sttlements with extremely limited resources in many cases.

  • @pfschuyler
    @pfschuyler 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    "Why Do People Refuse To Accept The Truth About Men & Women?"
    Probably because the Truth sucks. 😆

  • @sol-hunter2332
    @sol-hunter2332 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    I used to believe men and women were largely the same (because that's what the media and internet told me). I've realized how wrong that is. Our sex is far more than just our parts. Gender and sex are intrinsically tied.

    • @duncanhewitt6557
      @duncanhewitt6557 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Why did you believe that. Men and women behave nothing like each other.

  • @0_fksgvn955
    @0_fksgvn955 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +45

    They're either delusional or lack any critical thinking skills or both.

    • @carllong8954
      @carllong8954 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      You forgot the 3rd option. Evil and not acting in good faith. They know they lie and don't care.

    • @0_fksgvn955
      @0_fksgvn955 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@carllong8954 true, but I think that's a small percentage. The amount of idiots that have no critical thinking skills that listen to those people are the overwhelming majority.

    • @GeneralProfessor
      @GeneralProfessor 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Here's an additional option:
      Imagine that the belief that men and women are equal is the foundation. On that foundation rest other beliefs which, when combined, form the modern feminist ideology. As a result it is critical to protect the foundation because without it the whole construction will fall apart.
      To explain a bit further: Men and women are equal, right? Right. So you look at the world and you see unequal distribution of power / resources between the two sexes. If the sexes are equal then where does such inequality come from? The answer is the patriarchal conspiracy which systematically oppresses women on all levels. Within the context of such arguements, when certain facts are hidden and forbidden then abuse of power by those in power becomes the only remaining logical conclusion *.
      Now you can see why men and women MUST be equal. Why this is the required foundation in order for other ideas to hold water. The moment you start to argue for biological differences you, by extension, are arguing against the oppression narrative.
      Tangent: This is also why feminism is powerless against the trans ideology. In order to oppose it, feminism must agree to the fact which, once agreed on, shatters its own foundation.
      * This is how ideologies function in general. In a scientific process you look at the facts and infer the conclusion. In an ideological process it's the other way around. The conclusion is the starting point, and from there facts are cherry-picked based on whether they contribute or detract from it.

    • @Abstractpossom
      @Abstractpossom 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@GeneralProfessorwell said

  • @davidbellecy1709
    @davidbellecy1709 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    We have been successfully divided to be easily mentally conquered. Very glad to have logic and reason as a weapon against stupidity.

  • @brucejensen3081
    @brucejensen3081 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Definitely harder to indentify real differences in this artificial world we are adapting to

  • @roel.vinckens
    @roel.vinckens 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +47

    Not even watching. Just reading the comments to not completely lose my confidence in humanity.

    • @freshtoast3879
      @freshtoast3879 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🤣

    • @umbrascitor2079
      @umbrascitor2079 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Think you got it backwards, mate.
      No matter what side of what topic you're on, the comment sections are brain poison. I'm only here because I succumb to the addiction.

    • @roel.vinckens
      @roel.vinckens 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@umbrascitor2079
      With you all the way, except for the opening question of this vid. It's beyond ridiculous.

  • @stevenelson25
    @stevenelson25 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Also a thing in my understanding, people who take doses of hormones have a more diverse perspective of how the mind and human experience shifts over time based on feminine vs masculine hormone doses.

  • @alyssaoconnor
    @alyssaoconnor 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Its funny that he mentioned that at no time has a woman looked at their kid and wondered if that was their own because my mother was passed someone else’s baby at the hospital after giving birth to my brother - the only way she knew was that the baby had hair and she knew that my brother didn’t have hair from the look she had before they took him away 😂😂.
    After giving birth you’re so tired and the baby looks so squished from coming down the canal if it looks similar I can see where mistakes are made.

    • @tikari3987
      @tikari3987 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Haha :)

    • @debrawehrly6900
      @debrawehrly6900 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Unless they get switched at the hospital,...lol

  • @PaganSkye
    @PaganSkye 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I really like that you take on these topics that most people stay away from ❤

  • @jimbokop4577
    @jimbokop4577 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Thanks sherlock 👍

  • @RaffiDiranBassclef
    @RaffiDiranBassclef 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Williams & Williamson. This is gonna be a good episode

  • @knooters
    @knooters 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    People have ALWAYS (no exceptions!) said that men and women are different. But that's not the same as pretending that the differences are huge aside from genitals. The best relationships are between people who have a lot in common (rather than this "opposites attract" nonsense - we are not goddamn magnets).
    The truth is that the differences between men are larger than the differences between men and women. Just think of something like height. Sure, on average, men are higher than women - but a man can be anything from 1.60m tall to 2.10m tall, without being in the extremes, whereas the average height difference between men and women is just about 13cm. You can spot similar patterns within other areas, such as sex drive, stamina (as in, say, running a 10k distance) etc.
    Single people would have alot better chances if they stopped guessing "what (wo)men want" and started asking themselves "what do humans want?", simply because if you find something attractive in another person - chances are that that person will find the same thing attractive in other people. Like, a fit person would typically prefer a fit mate (maybe even within similar kinds of exercise), and not a couch potato.

    • @Pozywny
      @Pozywny 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      dr paul conti states the single most potent indicator of a successful pairing is matching levels of generative drive. if you want to be on a farm, find a farmer partner. if you want to create music, find a partner that likes to create media. high performing ceo? find another high performing executive. etc this is why the basal advice for lonely men is to work on yourself. women take care of themselves better, they want a man who matches that energy.

    • @brianmeen2158
      @brianmeen2158 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Disagree completely with your 3rd paragraph. Womens wants in a relationship are vastly different from mens wants . If I was a single guy looking to attract women I had better find out what women in general prefer as opposed to what humans prefer.

    • @knooters
      @knooters 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @@brianmeen2158 Thinking of "women in general" is probably the worst thing you can do. If you follow what you like yourself, at least you will attract people with similar thoughts and views as yourself. However, if you zoom in, you need to zoom in a lot more - as you are probably not looking for "women in general" - but women with certain attributes/qualities. And that sub-group will most likely have completely different needs than other sub-groups (or the statistical average). Like, personally I prefer women who are intelligent, creative, got some "drive", a modern view on gender roles - among other things. I'd be a complete idiot if I applied the same "what do women want" logic to these women than if I wanted, say, a trad-wife (which I assume alot of Chris' male fans want). The women I want find it sexy when men oppose to gender stereotypes as it shows some character, and also communicates that she won't be expected to sacrifice her carreer to be a stay-at-home-mom.
      The same thing goes the other way around, too. If a woman is interested in me, she'd be completely screwed if she tried the same tricks she assumes work on most other guys who comment on this video (I know I'm in the minority in this particular place on the internet).

  • @bigglyguy8429
    @bigglyguy8429 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    That biggest difference is indeed something i often consider. For example when I try to figure out my wife's behavior, I remind myself she loves me for being masculine, which makes a lot of things clearer.

  • @saullandiof5768
    @saullandiof5768 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    that's pretty brilliant to include sexual preference as one of the differences, I never even considered that. But it's clearly a massive difference between women and men

  • @gregy1570
    @gregy1570 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    how about willingness/ability to accept responsibility for one's own actions/decisions? how about consideration for others? overall craziness? deceit?

    • @angryox3102
      @angryox3102 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I’ve had a change in jobs recently and I’ve noticed that women in power are highly deceitful. It’s shocking.

  • @CamEron-nj5qy
    @CamEron-nj5qy วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Ironically, a lot of people in the comments doing exactly what Steven advises against, i.e. overstating differences between men and women and ignoring any possible nuance.

  • @Destructivepurpose
    @Destructivepurpose 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As soon as I heard this guy's voice, I knew he was a fellow kiwi! Awesome to hear him on your podcast

  • @debrawehrly6900
    @debrawehrly6900 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    These observations make sense to me

  • @AverageJoeInOz
    @AverageJoeInOz 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +53

    I'm having a 'thanks captain obvious' moment...men and women are different, really? No, surely not.

  • @TheGeneralDisarray
    @TheGeneralDisarray 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    This is the one thing that my sister, who in almost all other respects has quite a lot of common sense, refuses to admit

  • @unitysprings3631
    @unitysprings3631 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +40

    I shared a womb with a boy...... I also had kids and can unequivocally confirm that men and women are different.
    We aren't monoliths, dont get me wrong. My career choice took me into a very male dominated world, but i was still a woman and brought a whole new vibe with me

    • @Neoteny374
      @Neoteny374 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      By "vibe" you mean HR department?

    • @unitysprings3631
      @unitysprings3631 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Neoteny374 No chance 😂 I was self employed and endured my fair share of portaloo rocking 😁

    • @Neoteny374
      @Neoteny374 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@unitysprings3631 😁😁😁

    • @user-us2jr5ym7l
      @user-us2jr5ym7l 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Neoteny374 And lawsuits for being "violated" and "uncomfortable" in order to win cash and prizes. The HR department is women's divorce court in the workplace.

  • @therearenoshortcuts9868
    @therearenoshortcuts9868 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    because ............. they are have to admit they have been LIED TO SUCCESSFULLY (embrassing)

  • @piretbaumann2574
    @piretbaumann2574 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    So much of this just comes down to wording. Version 1: Men and women are different because men want women, women want men. Version 2: Men and women are the same because both want the opposite sex.

    • @aafgahfah
      @aafgahfah 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      well no. By wanting the opposite sex they are wanting completely different things.

    • @piretbaumann2574
      @piretbaumann2574 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@aafgahfah Interesting. I see it differently. The things they want are opposite, but their wants are not. If I'm B and want A, but you're A but want B, we both want what we are not. (At that I'm not trying to claim sexes are not different. They are. Just that his "most important difference" is rhetoric in my understanding. That same paternity uncertainty he talks about causes very important differences.)

  • @nathanosterhaus
    @nathanosterhaus 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +52

    You're just realizing this now?

    • @Zanroff
      @Zanroff 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Who?

    • @AnAmerican-fm3xk
      @AnAmerican-fm3xk 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I believe it's meant sarcastically because some 'activists' claim everything is a social construction now.

    • @Zanroff
      @Zanroff 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@SD-mi2vc He thought men and women were the same?

    • @Zanroff
      @Zanroff 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@SD-mi2vc So he's never experience women and men thinking about things differently in day-to-day general life? That's crazy.

    • @Pellegrino1
      @Pellegrino1 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Has nothing to do with being atractive​@@SD-mi2vc

  • @cherrylane79
    @cherrylane79 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think it's more what the society forces us to be, than natural differencies.

  • @jessicah3992
    @jessicah3992 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    A thousand times yes

  • @EnkiseEvolution
    @EnkiseEvolution 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +40

    Just goes to show you how STUPID society has become that this needs to be ACKNOWLEDGED.

    • @therearenoshortcuts9868
      @therearenoshortcuts9868 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      it's done to society on purpose as a psyop...
      if you are under a well-calculated psychological attack, and you don't even know it's happening, you probably stand no chance

    • @brianmeen2158
      @brianmeen2158 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I’d love to have my grandfather and a few others from his geveration be able to see the convos we are having in 2024 around sex and gender. They would be at a loss for words

    • @tuckerbugeater
      @tuckerbugeater 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      the stupidity comes from the contradictions which are partial to survival

    • @tuckerbugeater
      @tuckerbugeater 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@brianmeen2158 betabuxing makes the brain decompose faster

  • @arjuna153
    @arjuna153 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Either way, we are all humans first & all humans are basically the same few patterns of behaviour. Our females don't devour the male partner after mating.

  • @someguyusa
    @someguyusa 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    People who think there are no sex differences should take a basic anatomy and physiology class. To deny the differences is to deny day and night, heads and tails, etc.

  • @BrookBrayman
    @BrookBrayman 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Stories about infants being mixed up at the hospital freak women out. There's your analog for paternal uncertainty in women.

    • @BlackFighterz
      @BlackFighterz 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That is not caused by the male partners behaviour tho but external factors. Here specifically jealousy between partners was discussed.

  • @arian-__-
    @arian-__- 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Perfect ❤💥🔥

  • @AlbertBormant
    @AlbertBormant 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Same reason why they refuse to accept the truth about race.

  • @chuch541
    @chuch541 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    We all have our strengths and weaknesses. I always say: “if you’re not treating someone as an individual, you’re fuckin up!”
    That being said, some of our S&W are inherent. E.g. men’s upper body strength and women’s lower body strength. But that scale is sliding, there are women whom would chuck a male peer; and women who would get out legged by a man.

    • @mrknarf4438
      @mrknarf4438 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I can't find any source claiming women have greater lower body strength than men of comparable weight, can you provide any? I always thought male body strength was greater for both higher and lower body, as world records seem to hold, but do correct me if I'm wrong.

    • @chuch541
      @chuch541 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@mrknarf4438 A ridiculous thing to say per the context of what I said. 😂

    • @boyyang9007
      @boyyang9007 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@chuch541 There was nothing wrong in his reading of what you said. If there was a problem it's your delivery.

    • @justachannel8600
      @justachannel8600 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@kc6810 Idk. I mean I do my housework myself, I don't have kids so that falls flat. My job involves a lot of sitting, though. Wasn't a big problem until the lockdowns where I've gained 50 pounds. So idk. I guess an office job is more out of shape than housework, but not by much. But the walking to work did help a lot actually.

    • @BlackFighterz
      @BlackFighterz 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Men have both greater upper and lower body strength. It's just that the difference for the lower body is smaller.

  • @iBob20
    @iBob20 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    What camera does Chris use because my god he makes everyone else's camera look like a flip phone camera.

    • @bumpygumpson
      @bumpygumpson 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      The difference between a real camera with good lighting and a webcam with flat lighting

  • @robertz768
    @robertz768 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I would like to see them do a field study, and not a survey that asks people to imagine a scenario, to see if women would really be more upset with mental than physical cheating. Once it actually happens, it always seems that they care more about the physical cheating. From my limited observations, they only seem to focus on the mental cheating, if the physical has not yet happened.

  • @evedotcom
    @evedotcom 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Love that within the first minute he highlighted both ends of the spectrum. Of course in a comment section like this, you’ll hear a strong yes to biological sex differences, which is fair, but it’s definitely worth noting that these differences can also be too exaggerated as well. In response to one extreme, I see too many going to the other extreme.

  • @sidecar7714
    @sidecar7714 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    No mention of fear

  • @uprightmovement
    @uprightmovement 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    There’s refusal, due to Social Engineering and Social Contagion.

  • @kevinpyburn8843
    @kevinpyburn8843 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Cause that isn't what they are paid to push. We need more doctors to stand up like this guy.

  • @janpetra1724
    @janpetra1724 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Jealousy was certainly a part of our evolution, but what is more certain is that it is a pathological trait.

  • @SouthernIg
    @SouthernIg 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Is this even a question?

  • @PerfectHandProductions
    @PerfectHandProductions 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why is there no information in the description? Who is this guy? What's his book called?

  • @user-yc9ib2he7l
    @user-yc9ib2he7l 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The purist definition of a misogynist is knowing the truth about Women

  • @tips4truckers252
    @tips4truckers252 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Growing pains. Of changing social norms. Just like weddings, people still want a traditional wedding, when they didn't do anything traditional prior.

  • @myself2noone
    @myself2noone 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Steven Stewart Williams always has interesting insights.

  • @debrawehrly6900
    @debrawehrly6900 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I agree

  • @debbiecreter2005
    @debbiecreter2005 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Of course we’re different or we’d be worms!

  • @arjuna153
    @arjuna153 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    In countries where traditional gender roles & expectations are minimal & not encouraged & equal education is for all such as Germany, Switzerland, etc, research indicates that women are still mostly drawn to careers like Nursing, Education, Secretarial etc & men to Engineering, Law & politics, Business, etc. Nobody is forcing them.

    • @wyleecoyotee4252
      @wyleecoyotee4252 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's still a challenge and women are not as accepted in many male dominated fields hence there is not an influx of women there.
      There's plenty of female lawyers and physicians.
      Women tend to work in professional areas that provide part time and good pay such as nursing, other health professions, and teaching.

  • @mycoachdave
    @mycoachdave 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wait- we’re different?!

  • @eljefe8149
    @eljefe8149 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    They think if they accept that we're different that they'll be treated unequally is my guess.

  • @user-dg2pg5vh6e
    @user-dg2pg5vh6e 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Chris you never talk about the “women are wonderful” phenomenon.
    Take a look at the studies.
    Respect.

    • @user-dg2pg5vh6e
      @user-dg2pg5vh6e 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@kc6810 As does females’.
      Amongst men.

  • @brandonbaltes6850
    @brandonbaltes6850 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    look up the differences in what direction the female brain moves neurally (left to right--lateral thinking? idk that is a genuine ?) whereas the male brain moves front to back (vertical thinking? idk just prompting good, non-emasculated questions)
    and those directional things are according to a female neuroscientist i heard on this same channel forgetting her name but after taking my own advice it seems the neuroscience is a little cloudy (perhaps because the findings aren't pretty? egalitarian? comfortable? and or because, I surmise, it genuinely is, to some degree, a very hazy thing to unearth with current neuroscience)
    therefore take this and probably all in life with something of a grain of salt, (imo one should) trust one's self and one's genetics and family more than the constantly changing, less permanent nurture side of life's absurd coin

  • @k.k8291
    @k.k8291 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Or between the various human ethnicities.

  • @TiGGowich
    @TiGGowich 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I've always liked the way Jordan Peterson described it: "Men and women are very different, but they are still more similar than they are different" ... I thought that was always a really good way of putting it. It's basically like saying, they might be 40% different which is significant, but that also means they are 60% similar which is also significant. Just denying there are no differences to me is pure insanity. Only someone who is completely detached from reality could say such nonsense.

  • @lauterunvollkommenheit4344
    @lauterunvollkommenheit4344 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    "Mater semper certa est".

  • @eliseohagerman5341
    @eliseohagerman5341 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What difference is steve talking about around 3:00, chris’ laugh made it hard to hear lol

  • @zeals936
    @zeals936 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I have since I was a child . Science not necessary 😂

  • @titobenito43
    @titobenito43 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dude looks like the nostalgia critic, Im just waiting for him to go off about the BAT CREDIT CARD!

  • @singularitybound
    @singularitybound 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Pretty sure this has been known for... hmm thousands of years? Being different and opportunities available are 2 different things of coarse.

  • @GlennElliottKeller
    @GlennElliottKeller 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Screw acceptance the truth is still the truth whether you accept it or not

  • @BA-pq3uj
    @BA-pq3uj 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Shocker...

  • @prschuster
    @prschuster 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Momma's baby... Papa's maybe...

  • @Christoff8188
    @Christoff8188 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So strange that we're even having this debate. What has the world come to? Yes, there are exceptions, there always are. That doesn't mean society needs to fold to cater to a small minority.
    I'm big on acceptance and tolerance, people should be able to do as they please if it harms nobody else. However, that doesn't mean every edge case should be normalised; where does that end?
    As an aside... I heard a really interesting theory recently, that homosexuality is an evolutionary trait to protect the parents, particularly single mothers. Really made me think.
    In short, one study suggests that each subsequent child you have, especially if you're a single mum, decreases the probability of them being straight. Likely due to an intentional hormonal change (lower testosterone, for example). But, that's a chicken/egg debate really.
    It's thought that this is to counteract overpopulation, but also to provide said mother with assistance around the family home, as gay men especially are often more feminine and emotionally intelligent than their straight counterpart (while a gay woman is less likely to have children).
    Essentially, our bodies know that, to support a large family, we need a secondary caring figure, and will attempt to produce one if required.
    I have no idea how true this is, or whether it's backed by more than one study, but it sure gave me some food for thought!

  • @gutenheim9371
    @gutenheim9371 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dude has the G432s lol

  • @BryJovi17
    @BryJovi17 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I didn't actually hear what the psychologist said when he stated the biggest psychological difference. Can anyone write it here please?

    • @user-yc9ib2he7l
      @user-yc9ib2he7l 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Men want women and women want men. It's a fundamental binary difference that you take for granted.

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Understanding sex differences is indeed a nuanced and multifaceted topic! 🧠 Finding that delicate balance between acknowledging innate differences and avoiding over-exaggeration is crucial for a well-rounded perspective on human behavior.

    • @brianbarrett8739
      @brianbarrett8739 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It all derives from genetic reproduction. When women are born they are almost guaranteed to be successful, men have zero expectation of success.
      Everything extends from the problem of reproduction. All life forms on this little planet are trying to reproduce. Everything we claim to be important as sentient beings, is a promotion of strategies developed to help increase the chances of success with the basic reproduction problem.

    • @sofarsohi
      @sofarsohi 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      positive chatgpt answers seems the new personal branding move

  • @Lakoda26
    @Lakoda26 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The later, of over stating sex differences, is likely due to not understanding how "on average" works.

    • @skylinefever
      @skylinefever 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Some people don't like to face the fact that statistical outliers exist.

  • @DJFAmenHeavy
    @DJFAmenHeavy 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    When was it not accepted?

  • @ChrisHops22
    @ChrisHops22 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    trying to get cancelled, are we?

  • @dakota-sessions
    @dakota-sessions 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Gina Rippon has done so much damage.

  • @t-spark
    @t-spark 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Are identical twins different? Do they see the world the same?

  • @rkuhl19
    @rkuhl19 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Appreciate the evolutionary perspective of pair binding, but I think it might not be the whole picture. What about social status? If you lose a partner of high status doesn’t that a big deal? Or the human desire to feel loved, understood and appreciated by someone we care about? Isn’t that reason enough on its own to feel jealous? So again, I think the evolutionary perspective presented makes sense, but feels short sighted and actually a disservice to the wholeness of our experience and love itself to reduce it all down to parental considerations

  • @cherkovision
    @cherkovision 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The "being attracted to the opposite sex" thing is huge. Men (and gay women) are incentivized to adopt "Masculine" traits because women find them attractive. It's not just arbitrary.

  • @Bak2BasiKs
    @Bak2BasiKs 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Some men and women already know it, some men and woman cant accept it

  • @greenblue6935
    @greenblue6935 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Lol, havent we always accept this?!

  • @JamesJones-mg3ts
    @JamesJones-mg3ts 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'd venture that, on jealousy, men are often investing considerable resources so they see this as a 'potential bad investment' on their part (and don't want to take the loss they could have been investing elsewhere... dealing with the 'bad egg'). On the flip side, a lady may see this a threat to the resources a man is investing in her... that he may 'divide' or 'withdraw' his investments on what he considers a 'better investment for him' with another woman. I will note that, some men, with considerable resources can 'divide' a bit of it with other ladies and not significantly impact the investments his making in the 'primary' lady (aka: men with wealth and options... him exercising 'his options' is not as much of a 'threat' to the primary lady as long as he doesn't intend to 'withdraw' his investments to the primary lady... but most 'regular' men can't afford this scenario so it's more of a 'threat' to a lady... more reason for 'jealousy')

    • @JamesJones-mg3ts
      @JamesJones-mg3ts 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Note: 'kids' are the man's 'prize'. Once they are in the picture, they are usually the primary focus of his investments (the mother is the 'cost' of having those kids... where he's now housing her and taking on her expenses to keep the family he forged for the best interests of the kids... not his as it's a sacrifice for a greater purpose). When a man perceives that is under threat by a lady's infidelity, it's a threat to his kids and the tremendously expensive arrangement he has with the mother for the sake of the kids (his primary focus). Particularly covert, when a lady defrauds a man by introducing kids conceived with another man as 'his own', that is a threat to his kids (dividing his resources from 'his' kids with 'other' kids that are not kids he should be investing in.... as only his kids are what he intends to invest in... and the 'other kids' are another man's responsibility). Men get pretty bent about that so that a motivation for jealousy. A lady can have kids with any man but she will have difficulty if she doesn't have them with 'one man' who is supporting them all (which is why defrauding that 'one man' is important to overcome that difficulty). A scenario like that can make a lady very jealous if she see's her charade under threat (all come crashing down and has to seek temporary resources from multiple men and give up her retirement plan with one man... getting cut off when the child support runs out is scary for a self-aware women... but it does seem a lot of ladies don't think about this until the child support is about to end... which can lead to a lot of jealousy when they see their former main partner recovered from her shenanigans and 'doing better' while she's taking a huge 'hair cut' financially). It's quite common for ladies to be 'jealous' of the partners they couldn't keep recovered while she's assuming the consequences of her own actions (she doesn't like seeing that man recovered while she's taking her 'delayed hits').

  • @yatesfletcher1424
    @yatesfletcher1424 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The second paragraph is bogus. Saying that the standard DEVIATION in male height is greater than the difference in MEANS between male and female heights is a comparison of apples and oranges.
    If, on the other hand, I bet that the difference in height between two random men is less than the difference in height between a random man and a random woman, I'll win alot more than I'll lose.

  • @darthseagraves
    @darthseagraves 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Idk

  • @NPC--666
    @NPC--666 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Ermmm, it was time to realise it when there was the first women and first man!!!

  • @gortys3929
    @gortys3929 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I would improve the title. It should say: „Is It Time To Stop Negating That Men & Women Are Born Different?”

  • @Crunchy166
    @Crunchy166 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    0:17 Alright Mufasa XD

  • @jonathanlee6098
    @jonathanlee6098 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If someone hands me a drop of blood I can tell you with one hundred percent certainty whether it was drawn from a man or woman. The differences exist at the cellular level.

  • @tomnichols8084
    @tomnichols8084 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Is it time to admit the earth is a sphere???
    Or that water is wet?

  • @amandavieira2543
    @amandavieira2543 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    People are all diferent, sex is just one of those diferenciations.

  • @rosswatson9144
    @rosswatson9144 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Fairy light conversation… I’d be more interested in how the differences affect voting patterns for example, who would vote for a bigger government that is wide world implications.

  • @R.Iamondi
    @R.Iamondi 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    man and woman to different creatures that complement each other.