Fearful-Avoidant Attachment and Dating: 5 Must-Know Tips

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  • @angelflower176
    @angelflower176 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Your work is excellent:)! I’m learning so much:) from an anxious attachment and secure attachment (healing it)

  • @lea5x5
    @lea5x5 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So glad I found you. Thank you for your work.

  • @stephaniewallace8673
    @stephaniewallace8673 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're an amazing resource. Thank you for sharing your work 🙏

  • @SD-vw8jd
    @SD-vw8jd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Briana! I love your channel and your work. Thank you for all the valuable content you provide.
    I wonder what your attachment style was before becoming secure...

  • @Heyu7her3
    @Heyu7her3 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Other fearful-avoidant people have romantic relationships? How'd y'all get that far past the dating process?

    • @tulsalien
      @tulsalien 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I’ve worked really hard on developing self-trust. By doing so I’m not worried about others as much cause I trust myself to respond well and handle it accordingly. But I am single again now by choice lol.

  • @KarenPoirier-e9t
    @KarenPoirier-e9t 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have loved and waited for a man for 6 years that is a deeply entrenched DA. I'm anxious. Lots of pain and confusion. Lots of delusional thoughts AND I became addicted to the twin flame journey tarot readings which convinced to hold on in some way even longer. I grew and worked on myself and discovered both of our attachment styles. Healing mine is helping me to let go and move on once and for all but there's always this nagging feeling that he is truly my DM. I've chased him to not avail, opened up, gave my love with NOTHING back. He was my boss and fired me when the chemistry was off the charts. I forgave him for everything. We are a perfect match in every possible way imaginable. He just won't act on it. I need help

    • @brianamacwilliam.attachment
      @brianamacwilliam.attachment  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing your story with us. It sounds painful and certainly a difficult relationship experience. One thing I might gently find out when there’s lots of pain in confusion including delusional, thoughts and feelings, love addicted, it’s not a perfect match. The ‘perfect match, twin, flame’ narrative is often the one that keeps us attached to a soulful lesson that we struggle to learn. You might find this video helpful. Am I Anxious, or Are They My SoulMate?
      th-cam.com/video/vNoxPtQdAIM/w-d-xo.html

    • @KarenPoirier-e9t
      @KarenPoirier-e9t 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@brianamacwilliam.attachment thank you so much! I'll be watching your videos on replay! I think I figured out my soul lessons, triggered from my DA. I've struggled with anxious attachment ALL of my 50 years!

    • @salvomig2368
      @salvomig2368 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing your story. The pain you are experiencing is real and I feel for you. The hardest person to leave is the one created in our head. This person, who has caused you much pain and heartache is not your soulmate. Write down those feelings and how this person has made you feel and all the pain he has caused. You deserve better. The bigger question you need to ask yourself, why are you chasing someone like this. Wishing you the best!! ❤

  • @mn9120
    @mn9120 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💞 Your tips are on point. 💯

  • @Max-br6xg
    @Max-br6xg 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    know thy self and the other persons astrology it works for me

  • @iselinmosevoll5097
    @iselinmosevoll5097 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you, from a Spice of Lifers ❤

  • @ipaycloseattention
    @ipaycloseattention 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What if you're fearful avoidant in romantic relationships, but avoidant with everyone else?

  • @rosiebowers1671
    @rosiebowers1671 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Ugh. Opened this thinking it would be must-know tips *for* FA people wanting to date. Misleading title.

    • @barefootninja_
      @barefootninja_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      was also hoping this would be tips FOR fearful avoidant people. im trying to learn about self growth

  • @innan.599
    @innan.599 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Its absolutely a waste of time, love and patience to b with someone like that! Just run!!!

    • @tulsalien
      @tulsalien 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I’m not a waste of time 🙂

    • @innan.599
      @innan.599 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@tulsalien it is. I wasted 20 years of my life on that kind of men.

    • @zynnfindo4776
      @zynnfindo4776 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@innan.599please consider that just because a style isn’t in your relationship scope doesn’t make them unworthy of love.

    • @bapr3887
      @bapr3887 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@innan.599 I wasted 6 months of my life on that kind of women. Yeah, avoid avoidants, this is only their problem.

    • @bapr3887
      @bapr3887 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@zynnfindo4776 If you are damaged good, you are unworthy. Not everybody will be loved, thats it. Dont ever make baby with avoidant too.

  • @jennyrudi
    @jennyrudi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    lost you at "eternal spirit"