after the first rejection, she had to realize that you mean it seriously with her, then you gave her a whole year before the second proposal, which I think is enough time for her to realize whether she wants it or not, especially after 4 previous years of dating and she still said no. I don't think she ever really loved you, it seems to me she was waited for someone better along the way and she just didn't want to be alone while she was waiting. It wasn't until you broke up with her that she was willing to marry you or rather settle down with you. it's better to be single than to be with someone whose response to a proposal is… “Fine, I'll do it!"
There are absolutely valid reasons for not wanting to marry. If your partner doesn't feel sure enough about your relationships after 4 years though, that tells you everything you need to know.
She's waiting for someone better but doesn't want to give up the safety net.
100% this.
She is banging someone else, and he was the Beta Simp backup plan
after the first rejection, she had to realize that you mean it seriously with her, then you gave her a whole year before the second proposal, which I think is enough time for her to realize whether she wants it or not, especially after 4 previous years of dating and she still said no. I don't think she ever really loved you, it seems to me she was waited for someone better along the way and she just didn't want to be alone while she was waiting. It wasn't until you broke up with her that she was willing to marry you or rather settle down with you. it's better to be single than to be with someone whose response to a proposal is… “Fine, I'll do it!"
Yeah she’s cheating on OP
Hit the nail on the head
Only give a female one chance. She said no twice move on.
Run!!!
There are absolutely valid reasons for not wanting to marry.
If your partner doesn't feel sure enough about your relationships after 4 years though, that tells you everything you need to know.
She wants more time in order to check if she can find some better options... Ditch her and move on.
She was 🐒 branching and failed
Live alone. Silence every night and loads of money.
Must likely she’s been seeing another man as a better prospect, so run Forest run
She wants someone else or better and is biding her time. Definitely no worth the guys time.