100% this. No one with any sense of self-respect wants to stay with someone who doesn't consider them enough. Every day he would see a partner who doesn't love him as much as he loves her, a partner who isn't satisfied by what he has to give her. F that.
"He is perfect, every womans dream. So I decided to cheat on him, wanted to force him to accept it and when he broke up with me my first question was. What is wrong with him, there is nothing wrong with it what i did/wanted to do, i am victim, it just doesnt make sense, how could he do it to us." Incredible. You can't cure stupid.
Anyone, man or woman, who is talking about an open relationship/marriage is already planning to cheat and already has someone picked out to cheat with. They're just trying to get their partner to agree to let them cheat while keeping the security of a stable relationship.
Absolutely agree. If that comes up you know the girl has her mind on someone and more then likely has already acted on it. If you break a mans trust and faith in you with the extremely rare like 1 in a billion chance he's not going to ever trust you again. Just leave the poor guy alone so he can try to find a good woman and not a piece of garbage.
She can not understand that she just told her boyfriend sex is meaningless to her. It's not something intimate she just wants to have with him (as it should) but something she sees as an act of pleasure that she wants to have with several men. Typical situation of wanting her cake and eating it too. She wanted to act like she was still single while enjoying the resources and protection of her boyfriend. She has only herself to blame for. Instead of being with a guy who had the same mindset, she thought she could change the mind of someone who clearly was monogamous.
I'm still surprised by all these posts of women wanting open relationships. I'm seriously thinking of staying single forever. Everyone is a whore now a days.
If my girlfriend ever ask for open relationship, I deem her not worthy for marriage. For anything, actually. Don't call me an a'hole if I judge her as a forever 304.
He gave you exactly what you wanted. Before YOU agreed to be exclusive with him, you were free to date whoever you wanted to date. Now you have that freedom again. The difference is that now you will have to be your own provider. Enjoy your new reality.
She just doesn't know how it all went so wrong? Let me help. She had a really great guy, but she wanted some strange stuff. What did she think that would gain her? A disease? An unplanned pregnancy? The reason he dumped her? Because she told him she was willing to cheat. That's something your average decent man is completely unwilling to put up with. Hope that cleared things up, OP. I doublt if your stalking him is going to do anything but get you a restraining order.
Remember gents: the moment she brings the "Open Relationship" (aka permission to cheat) topic to the table, you should know your relationship is OVER. When she asks for an OR, there are two options: 1. She's already cheating with one or multiple guys. 2. She has one or multiple guys waiting for your permission to duck her. The only acceptable answer to that question is "Sure, you can have all the sausages you want. Just go and never come back."
Open relationship = instant sign of no respect for traditional man. That is all he as a traditional man has to know, if you seek for experiences, then you can go do them single and even bringing up stuff like that will sour the image he had of you.
If this is real, he made the right choice. Sure it seems like an overreaction but she basically said she wants to cheat on him, there was no going back.
When you bring something like that up right away it tells the person your saying that to is that "THEY ARE NOT ENOUGH FOR YOU OR THAT YOU NEED MORE"." YOU ARE NOT HAPPY WITH HIM" ! I would do EXACTLY what he did. Now he would ALWAYS have doubt. You have lost him forever, move on.
It would never be fair on both ends as she will get partners much more easy compared to him. She will be out every night with a new guy, while he might get a woman 3-4 times a month.
lmao she basically asked him if he could cheat. She even admitted to wanting to cheat before asking him disguised as just wanting more sexual experience. If she even suggests an open relationship, just run. It means she desires something more than you and she will eventually take it even if you shut down the suggestion at first and try to remain monogamous.
Why do women continuously try to change the guy or "open their mind" to this? If he wanted that, he wouldve stated it, if you wanted that, you shouldve stated that in the beginning. These random impromptu "open relationships" are ridiculous.
Translation from womanese: "I literally had it all and I threw it all away in the most stupid way possible. Tell me I am right." You didn't tell us the name of the man you had in mind though. Jokes aside, props to the guy for walking away from this bulls#it right away. He had standards and he stood by them. Basado.
99.99% of the time, any partner suggesting an open marriage after being monogamous for their entire relationship is either having an emotional affair already, or is outright cheating and just wants a free pass to do it openly. She knew what she was expecting and pushed the issue knowing his stance on the matter. She just didn't like him following through on his stance. Even in the post she kept downplaying it as "a small thing". Complete blameshifting and avoiding accountability.
People who suggest open relationships usually have someone in mind or lined up. Big omission. That's why he left. And ghosting just works better in general. Cheaters are master emotional manipulators, better to avoid any conversation at all imo
I have the same philosophy on arguments, but I've learnt that emotional turbulence is a part of life, and without it many women get bored like this. Thats not an excuse for sleeping around, it's a reason to keep passion going in other ways, and if an argument is unavoidable, make sure the be there for your partner regarding of the outcome. But your partner cheats or wants to open the relation, be done with it.
You love him!! You miss him !! Bla! Bla! Bla! If all the above are true and I mean if !! Then why bring up open relationship???? Either you are already cheating or you have someone in mind ! Or you have been chatting up some guy !! Personally I don't belive you !! In your eyes he is not enough !
What some people don’t understand is alpha males don’t have to always act like alpha males. If they are confident in themselves they can be very chill and easy going, BUT the alpha is just under the surface….waiting. You just found his alpha.
You demanded an open relationship, so go make the most of what you have wrought, it is everything you said you wanted. You may find you have traded a good man for a bad man, but that is for you to discover.
BF did the right thing OP is lying that she loved him, if she loved him she would have never brought up open relationship BS, no loyal partner would bring up that kind of thing
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her..
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Breakup is hard, but i'm sure the future will be better, and sometimes you're not even looking and you meet someone who will make you feel better. Best wishes.
Like I and some other people always said, an open relationship is cheating with extra steps, not thay she is single she can go and f*** that other dude, because if she ask for this is, because she already some else in mind, that is why it take her 5 years to talk about this. If someone ask for an open relationship just leave, because they will have their fun, but when you decide to do the same they ask for an close relationship, is better if you just leave.
Do women not know how Google works? A quick search would show them that men don’t want/like to be in these relationships. We always think you’re either cheating or at least have a guy that you want to cheat with. And if you want to cheat now, what’s to stop you in ten years? 20? 30? We’re not going to go our whole lives wondering if you have cheated behind our backs, since we didn’t like the open relationship idea. Regardless of whether any of what I just said is true, in your situation.
What these silly women don't realize is that suggesting an open relationship to a traditional monogamous man shows him that their values do not align. No point continuing the relationship after that.
It would be fair both ways,,,as if,,,,it would have been so much easier for her,,,in the time it would take him to get a single kiss she'd have been ploud by 50 guys
You literally told him he wasn't enough. His is the only logical response. You don't negotiate with terrorists.
100% this. No one with any sense of self-respect wants to stay with someone who doesn't consider them enough. Every day he would see a partner who doesn't love him as much as he loves her, a partner who isn't satisfied by what he has to give her. F that.
"He is perfect, every womans dream. So I decided to cheat on him, wanted to force him to accept it and when he broke up with me my first question was. What is wrong with him, there is nothing wrong with it what i did/wanted to do, i am victim, it just doesnt make sense, how could he do it to us."
Incredible. You can't cure stupid.
She has no one to blame her misery on but herself
Her “woman’s intuition” really worked that time, didn’t it?
If 'Womens intuition' was that good there wouldn't be as many single mother's would there?
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@@adrianfisher3349if womans intiution was that good then they wouldn't be flocking to red flag chads
Anyone, man or woman, who is talking about an open relationship/marriage is already planning to cheat and already has someone picked out to cheat with. They're just trying to get their partner to agree to let them cheat while keeping the security of a stable relationship.
A lot of the time they're already cheating and want retroactive permission.
Absolutely agree. If that comes up you know the girl has her mind on someone and more then likely has already acted on it. If you break a mans trust and faith in you with the extremely rare like 1 in a billion chance he's not going to ever trust you again. Just leave the poor guy alone so he can try to find a good woman and not a piece of garbage.
Stop Stalking him, leave him alone.
She can not understand that she just told her boyfriend sex is meaningless to her. It's not something intimate she just wants to have with him (as it should) but something she sees as an act of pleasure that she wants to have with several men.
Typical situation of wanting her cake and eating it too. She wanted to act like she was still single while enjoying the resources and protection of her boyfriend.
She has only herself to blame for.
Instead of being with a guy who had the same mindset, she thought she could change the mind of someone who clearly was monogamous.
Very well said!
She forgot the part where she was already lining someone up to sleep with like they all do.
You just told your boyfriend you are a 304. What did you expect?
If my gf ever asked me this. We would be done on the spot too. She has no respect
Congratulations, you played yourself.
I'm still surprised by all these posts of women wanting open relationships. I'm seriously thinking of staying single forever. Everyone is a whore now a days.
And worst thing is 99.99% posts are from america 😭
If my girlfriend ever ask for open relationship, I deem her not worthy for marriage. For anything, actually. Don't call me an a'hole if I judge her as a forever 304.
Poor guy. At least he found out before there were kids and a marriage involved.
He gave you exactly what you wanted. Before YOU agreed to be exclusive with him, you were free to date whoever you wanted to date. Now you have that freedom again. The difference is that now you will have to be your own provider. Enjoy your new reality.
She just doesn't know how it all went so wrong? Let me help. She had a really great guy, but she wanted some strange stuff. What did she think that would gain her? A disease? An unplanned pregnancy? The reason he dumped her? Because she told him she was willing to cheat. That's something your average decent man is completely unwilling to put up with. Hope that cleared things up, OP. I doublt if your stalking him is going to do anything but get you a restraining order.
Remember gents: the moment she brings the "Open Relationship" (aka permission to cheat) topic to the table, you should know your relationship is OVER.
When she asks for an OR, there are two options:
1. She's already cheating with one or multiple guys.
2. She has one or multiple guys waiting for your permission to duck her.
The only acceptable answer to that question is "Sure, you can have all the sausages you want. Just go and never come back."
Open relationship = instant sign of no respect for traditional man. That is all he as a traditional man has to know, if you seek for experiences, then you can go do them single and even bringing up stuff like that will sour the image he had of you.
If this is real, he made the right choice. Sure it seems like an overreaction but she basically said she wants to cheat on him, there was no going back.
If her boyfriend was so great why did she ask him permission to cheat
Be side she is a 304
Perfection isn't enough for modern women
When you bring something like that up right away it tells the person your saying that to is that "THEY ARE NOT ENOUGH FOR YOU OR THAT YOU NEED MORE"." YOU ARE NOT HAPPY WITH HIM" ! I would do EXACTLY what he did. Now he would ALWAYS have doubt. You have lost him forever, move on.
He is the smart one
If my wife even said the words it would be over.
The fact she thinks that her actions are “something so small” just proves that he made the right choice to cut her out.
Telling someone you want it to be ok to cheat on them is cause for ending a relationship.
Traditional man acts traditionally, woman is shocked
theres just no fixing stupid.
It would never be fair on both ends as she will get partners much more easy compared to him. She will be out every night with a new guy, while he might get a woman 3-4 times a month.
3-4 a month is also unrealistic more like 1 every 3-4 months
lmao she basically asked him if he could cheat. She even admitted to wanting to cheat before asking him disguised as just wanting more sexual experience. If she even suggests an open relationship, just run. It means she desires something more than you and she will eventually take it even if you shut down the suggestion at first and try to remain monogamous.
Shr wanted an open relationship..
TADA!!! 😂😂😂
Why do women continuously try to change the guy or "open their mind" to this? If he wanted that, he wouldve stated it, if you wanted that, you shouldve stated that in the beginning. These random impromptu "open relationships" are ridiculous.
Why do they try to do that, then when it happens they ALWAYS complain, "he just isn't the same guy he was when I met him..."
Standards and morals.
Thats how you handle this "request"
Dudes smart, they always ask for a open relationship either before or during the cheating phase.
Good move by the guy, she wouldn't have ignored the call of the streets for long.
She is a creep for stalking him. I wouldn't want anything to do with someone like her.
Translation from womanese: "I literally had it all and I threw it all away in the most stupid way possible. Tell me I am right."
You didn't tell us the name of the man you had in mind though.
Jokes aside, props to the guy for walking away from this bulls#it right away. He had standards and he stood by them. Basado.
99.99% of the time, any partner suggesting an open marriage after being monogamous for their entire relationship is either having an emotional affair already, or is outright cheating and just wants a free pass to do it openly.
She knew what she was expecting and pushed the issue knowing his stance on the matter. She just didn't like him following through on his stance. Even in the post she kept downplaying it as "a small thing". Complete blameshifting and avoiding accountability.
People who suggest open relationships usually have someone in mind or lined up. Big omission. That's why he left. And ghosting just works better in general. Cheaters are master emotional manipulators, better to avoid any conversation at all imo
I have the same philosophy on arguments, but I've learnt that emotional turbulence is a part of life, and without it many women get bored like this.
Thats not an excuse for sleeping around, it's a reason to keep passion going in other ways, and if an argument is unavoidable, make sure the be there for your partner regarding of the outcome.
But your partner cheats or wants to open the relation, be done with it.
An open marriage is just asking your partner to be ok with cheating. That’s all it is. Nothing more nothing less.
The boyfriend really dodged a bullet.
FAFO.
Your marriage was over when you wanted an open marriage !!!
They were never married
@@MrRoaringcorpse thank you !!
You love him!! You miss him !! Bla! Bla! Bla! If all the above are true and I mean if !! Then why bring up open relationship???? Either you are already cheating or you have someone in mind ! Or you have been chatting up some guy !! Personally I don't belive you !! In your eyes he is not enough !
so small? you wanting to cheat isn't small
What some people don’t understand is alpha males don’t have to always act like alpha males. If they are confident in themselves they can be very chill and easy going, BUT the alpha is just under the surface….waiting. You just found his alpha.
… alpha males don’t exist. All the alpha beta sigma crap is the equivalent of astrology for red pill men.
Keep crying you threw him away so maybe he'll meet someone that will respect and love him unconditionally. Unlike you.
You deserve everything you get for even suggesting such a thing. Now go become a boxed wine cat lady, you earned it
You demanded an open relationship, so go make the most of what you have wrought, it is everything you said you wanted. You may find you have traded a good man for a bad man, but that is for you to discover.
No you dont love him. You never was
sounds like a weirdo stalker.
BF did the right thing OP is lying that she loved him, if she loved him she would have never brought up open relationship BS, no loyal partner would bring up that kind of thing
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her..
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?.
His name is dr apala omofulma, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex..
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Breakup is hard, but i'm sure the future will be better, and sometimes you're not even looking and you meet someone who will make you feel better. Best wishes.
it's not fair both ways. even single men can't find woman to date
Like I and some other people always said, an open relationship is cheating with extra steps, not thay she is single she can go and f*** that other dude, because if she ask for this is, because she already some else in mind, that is why it take her 5 years to talk about this. If someone ask for an open relationship just leave, because they will have their fun, but when you decide to do the same they ask for an close relationship, is better if you just leave.
Anyone talking about opening the relationship already found someone they want to sleep with (yes u already cheated when u asked
😮 yeah she can have an open relationship but when she opens it she should close the door behind her 😢😂
Do women not know how Google works? A quick search would show them that men don’t want/like to be in these relationships. We always think you’re either cheating or at least have a guy that you want to cheat with. And if you want to cheat now, what’s to stop you in ten years? 20? 30? We’re not going to go our whole lives wondering if you have cheated behind our backs, since we didn’t like the open relationship idea. Regardless of whether any of what I just said is true, in your situation.
womp womp
She starts of saying she just wants physical sex from other men an then from the 1:40-1:45, it's not just about purely physical sex 😂😂
Cry until you drop
What these silly women don't realize is that suggesting an open relationship to a traditional monogamous man shows him that their values do not align. No point continuing the relationship after that.
Love him so much that you want to sleep around on him. I hope I find a woman like you some day
I bet you won’t do that 💩 again
These fake stories are getting worse and worse
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It would be fair both ways,,,as if,,,,it would have been so much easier for her,,,in the time it would take him to get a single kiss she'd have been ploud by 50 guys
Purely physical sex?