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My ex came back after 31 days hang in there guys this no contactworks . When she told me this relationship is not working and its better for her to be alone. That 31 days was hard I expect it to go. Beyond 31 days as the coach said. I never reach out . However she reach out via text. Asking me how I'm doing. I said heyyyy nice to hear from u. Im good . However we plan a date on the date she said she expect me to reach out and how she missed me. . Guys just stay strong and hang in there now she is on me like a leach I give her the gift of missing me
I agree with you about letting go!!! Today I'm one week past six months of radio silence no contact with my ex gf, and this is the first time I felt that I don't care if I hear from her any more. I don't need her, as she dumped me (blindsided.) It took me all that time to reach where I am now. If she's to ever contact me again, I will talk to her, but I'm not sure if I would want her back again. Only time will tell. My door is open now to meet someone new. I am no longer missing her!!! Thank you! I love how straight forward and black and white you are!!! I repeat to myself (The power of a relationship lie with the one who needs it the least!) I don't need her in my life!! I wanted her in my life! My crying is done!!!
9 months and I'm still in no contact. And it's been the hardest thing I've done in my life. I know I'm being stalked on social media by this person to. Keep going gentleman.
Yes I have been onit. I work out 6 days aweek and have a good job now. There's a problem with this one though. I was made homeless just after the pandemic sleeping in my car for 2 months. It wasn't my house. So she had all the rights. I wanted to change my career and go on a different path and make myself better. she would not respect that so she threw me out after a 5 year relationship. I am 48 and have started my life again. She took my dog that I owned in a previous relationship knowing that I could not take him with me In that situation. I took on a child that wasn't mine because the useless father wasn't around. I still love my dog very much Not her. This is a really tricky situation. I want to forget but that little dog was my brother and we went through alot together before that relationship. I carnt have the dog at my apartment because of the landlords rules.
@@angel-369-u9v aw man, that's terrible. I'm sorry about your dog. I hope she's taking good care of your dog at least. It's great that you got yourself on your feet again. That's a success story by itself. You didn't just wallow in self pity. You did something about it. The only suggestion I have is trying to find a new place that allows pets or talking to your landlord maybe. Not sure how feasible any of that is. But pets are like your kids so I can understand how you feel
@@Damian-rc8tw thank you for your kind words that means alot. 🙏 I have thought it best just to leave him there but sometimes wish he was with me through bad experiences I have gone through during this period. Her child and my dog built up a loving bond. And it wouldn't be fair to rip him away from the child. I guess I've lost out on both fronts, which breaks my heart but I really don't want anything else to do with the child's mother. So really the woman always wins in the end. The emotional feelings I have had haven't been nice but I'm still here that's the main thing. Thank you for your kind words.
lesson learned not to allow a woman to have the upper hand in the living situation again. Glad to hear you are on your feet again, you pushed through it man! Someone who's as cold as that doesn't deserve to see how well you're doing now. The loss of man's best friend is a tough one but focus on the positives and you'll be able to replace both of them. Keep your head up!
My ex swipes right on me on tinder, then started following me on TikTok, she shared a ‘missing you’ video with me, and keeps viewing my profile, but hasn’t reached out directly to me. I’m not budging. I’m not reacting to indirect communication from her.
I stopped counting the days but it's been over a month. She blocked me everywhere and ghosted me after an argument, never even said we were breaking up. I spent a week wondering if I even had a girlfriend until I downloaded dating apps and saw her profile pop up claiming she was "looking for something serious". I have no idea if I'm still blocked and quite frankly I don't care. Tbh I only want her to "come back" so I can reject her after the hurt she put me through.
I did everything right. Let her go, and went no contact for 3 months. She now texts me and sends me pictures of herself or pics from our past every week or so. It’s very confusing, and I’m not sure what to do now. I don’t reach out to her, and let her be the one to initiate. I love her and her reaching out has me confused as hell. Deep down I know she misses me and what we had, cause I think it was special…I think she’s starting to realize it too. It’s been hard going through this, but it will all be worth it in the end. I truly believe we’ll be together again some day, and I’m willing to do whatever it takes to make that happen.
What you don't realize is that she knows you're feeling how you're feeling and could be sending you the pics just to confuse you and your feelings to get you to reach out to her and give her the power. If she cant reach out directly to you and express herself to you genuinely you should beware that it could be game. Prideful women are like that.
Stay strong man. It’s been about a month and a week for me. I notice she’ll check my Instagram story from time to time but I dont want to stay checking on that. I feel the same way that I believe we we”ll be together some day but right now all we can do is to focus on our selves and not give in
no. her orifices were willingly opened to someone else, and it is flagrantly disrespectful to whatever it is in the past that (i thought) we had to monkey branch, and be so public about it soon thereafter. i dont gaf how much she might miss or regret or rethink her decision(s). f..k that.
Agree with Kyle about blocking, unblocking. Some girls will block you for no apparent reason too. It may not necessarily be because you were contacting them. My ex blocked me for a single day. I still don't know why.
Bro thank you soo much. I have one problem we work together. And see each other everyday except when im off. Should just say hi when we see each orher and keep moving
Keep it moving bro. This is actually a pretty good opportunity for her to see you boss up with a promotion whether at your current job or on the outside with another company. Also an opportunity for her to witness you being social at work as most guys aren't very social after a breakup and they're missing their woman. Stay no contact my man and "do you" and take care of you. That's the best thing you can do.
If she happens to speak be extremely brief and short then move along. Brief as in no more than 2-3 word responses. Don't ask how she's doing just respond to her speaking and go about your day.
@@cesarislas9163 No problem my man. I hope it helps. One thing to keep in mind for when she comes back wanting to be together is to play it cool, don't let it be too easy for her to just walk back in, and make sure she's genuine. Women will come back to familiar territory when the grass isn't greener for them because they're comfortable with who they're familiar with and think it will be easy for them. Be sure sdcc he puts in work to genuinely show you she's serious and not just running game.
No contact, let them go, etc, is NOT for getting your girl/ex back. (Maybe guys will come back.) It will NOT get your girl back if she has decided to end the relationship with you. No contact is for moving on, and that's it. If you think it will bring your girl back, NO CONTACT is pointless bullshit.
Day 4 no contact out of a 6 year relationship living with the person. My daughter and her were also very close. My daughter still has no idea since I see her on the weekends, I have no idea how to break it to her. I am devastated! My whole life is uprooted and I’m here asking myself why I let it get this bad. But despite all that she treated me better than anyone else I’ve ever been with. She also says that about me, we just have financial issues I don’t make enough money to pull my weight of bills and rent and it’s been taking a beating on her. Before I left I asked if she would take into consideration dating while living apart. That way I can get back on my feet and actually save some money and be independent again. She texted me “ I love you _____. I’m really going to think about it okay? This is really hard for me.” Now I’m literally taking it hour by hour, one hour I’m fine the next hour I’m distraught. I need to build myself back up and be that independent attractive person she fell in love with, while respecting the space she asked for.it’s going to be hard but knowing I’m not alone helps, I wish you all a strong road to recovery! Good luck!
Man, listen...if a woman can't understand where you are in life and your financial situation then yuh ou definitely don't want or need to be with her. A good woman should be able to see your situation for what it is (temporary) and you for who you are and where you're going in life. Furthermore, her I love you and I'm going to think about it text really means "I'm looking for someone with more money, but you'll be my familiar fallback plan if that doesn't work out". Don't ever let a woman put a dollar figure on determining whether you're a good man or not, or if you're good enough for her. Know your own worth and bust your chops to boss up for you and your daughter. Everything with a dollar sign attached to it an be lost and replaced. Show her "you" can't.
I reached out to my ex gf after 34 days of NC. We talked for like i guess 2 hours.(also she was doing her work, night shift over call) We talked about everything like work, life, we cracked jokes laughed, she daily watches my insta story, likes my content on IG, she told me her mom asked her about you that you guys are not talking these days she said i told mom that he is also busy with work we talk less these days(which she lied to her mom). Thn she said so any girl in your life i said i pretty focused with my work, achieving goals and improving day by day in things which i lack. She said tgats good. Thn she said how did you called after so many days(laughing) so i just said last time we talked( we talked 24X7 for one month after breakup thing) thn i was hurting not feeling connected with her i said why you did this to me we were happy together, everything was so good so she told me that if you’re gettin hurt thn you should stop talking. So as you told me so i waa just taking my time (i said this in happy way)So here i am today talking to you. (i reached out to her yesterday after 34 days of NC.) i guess i played the wrong cards. As we talkin over call she seems excited as way she replying to me(her voice). I talked very normal with her like friends are talking after long time Bro as i was just writing to you this comment she video called me over snapcht just RN. Really need your opinion coach in this. How to take this further tell me PLEASE🙏🏻🌟
@@CliffNdukuya yes!! Its now 3 days We are now talking over whatsapp call, snapchat videocall she send me snaps now. She yesterday went out and she clicked pictures and next morning sended me pictures and asked me to choose 3 pics of her she wants to upload on insta
@@navdeepsingh1285 Dude, you're making this way too easy for her and exposing your own weakness of hmm ow much you miss her and want her back. Nothing wrong with feeling that way but man up and make sure you're not being played as a fallback because she's lonely but familiar with you. That's what lonely people do; go back to who is familiar when things aren't working as good as they hoped elsewhere.
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My ex came back after 31 days hang in there guys this no contactworks . When she told me this relationship is not working and its better for her to be alone. That 31 days was hard I expect it to go. Beyond 31 days as the coach said. I never reach out . However she reach out via text. Asking me how I'm doing. I said heyyyy nice to hear from u. Im good . However we plan a date on the date she said she expect me to reach out and how she missed me. . Guys just stay strong and hang in there now she is on me like a leach I give her the gift of missing me
I agree with you about letting go!!! Today I'm one week past six months of radio silence no contact with my ex gf, and this is the first time I felt that I don't care if I hear from her any more. I don't need her, as she dumped me (blindsided.) It took me all that time to reach where I am now. If she's to ever contact me again, I will talk to her, but I'm not sure if I would want her back again. Only time will tell. My door is open now to meet someone new. I am no longer missing her!!! Thank you! I love how straight forward and black and white you are!!! I repeat to myself (The power of a relationship lie with the one who needs it the least!) I don't need her in my life!! I wanted her in my life! My crying is done!!!
9 months and I'm still in no contact. And it's been the hardest thing I've done in my life. I know I'm being stalked on social media by this person to. Keep going gentleman.
Now you're letting yourself get played. 9 months and you should be over it. Delete them and move on.
Yes I have been onit. I work out 6 days aweek and have a good job now. There's a problem with this one though. I was made homeless just after the pandemic sleeping in my car for 2 months. It wasn't my house. So she had all the rights. I wanted to change my career and go on a different path and make myself better. she would not respect that so she threw me out after a 5 year relationship. I am 48 and have started my life again. She took my dog that I owned in a previous relationship knowing that I could not take him with me In that situation. I took on a child that wasn't mine because the useless father wasn't around. I still love my dog very much Not her. This is a really tricky situation. I want to forget but that little dog was my brother and we went through alot together before that relationship. I carnt have the dog at my apartment because of the landlords rules.
@@angel-369-u9v aw man, that's terrible. I'm sorry about your dog. I hope she's taking good care of your dog at least. It's great that you got yourself on your feet again. That's a success story by itself. You didn't just wallow in self pity. You did something about it. The only suggestion I have is trying to find a new place that allows pets or talking to your landlord maybe. Not sure how feasible any of that is. But pets are like your kids so I can understand how you feel
@@Damian-rc8tw thank you for your kind words that means alot. 🙏 I have thought it best just to leave him there but sometimes wish he was with me through bad experiences I have gone through during this period. Her child and my dog built up a loving bond. And it wouldn't be fair to rip him away from the child. I guess I've lost out on both fronts, which breaks my heart but I really don't want anything else to do with the child's mother. So really the woman always wins in the end. The emotional feelings I have had haven't been nice but I'm still here that's the main thing. Thank you for your kind words.
lesson learned not to allow a woman to have the upper hand in the living situation again. Glad to hear you are on your feet again, you pushed through it man! Someone who's as cold as that doesn't deserve to see how well you're doing now. The loss of man's best friend is a tough one but focus on the positives and you'll be able to replace both of them. Keep your head up!
My ex swipes right on me on tinder, then started following me on TikTok, she shared a ‘missing you’ video with me, and keeps viewing my profile, but hasn’t reached out directly to me. I’m not budging. I’m not reacting to indirect communication from her.
234 months and still no contact. It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life. But I’m still going strong gentlemen 💪
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I stopped counting the days but it's been over a month. She blocked me everywhere and ghosted me after an argument, never even said we were breaking up. I spent a week wondering if I even had a girlfriend until I downloaded dating apps and saw her profile pop up claiming she was "looking for something serious".
I have no idea if I'm still blocked and quite frankly I don't care. Tbh I only want her to "come back" so I can reject her after the hurt she put me through.
I did everything right. Let her go, and went no contact for 3 months. She now texts me and sends me pictures of herself or pics from our past every week or so. It’s very confusing, and I’m not sure what to do now. I don’t reach out to her, and let her be the one to initiate. I love her and her reaching out has me confused as hell. Deep down I know she misses me and what we had, cause I think it was special…I think she’s starting to realize it too.
It’s been hard going through this, but it will all be worth it in the end. I truly believe we’ll be together again some day, and I’m willing to do whatever it takes to make that happen.
What you don't realize is that she knows you're feeling how you're feeling and could be sending you the pics just to confuse you and your feelings to get you to reach out to her and give her the power. If she cant reach out directly to you and express herself to you genuinely you should beware that it could be game. Prideful women are like that.
Stay strong man. It’s been about a month and a week for me. I notice she’ll check my Instagram story from time to time but I dont want to stay checking on that.
I feel the same way that I believe we we”ll be together some day but right now all we can do is to focus on our selves and not give in
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You shouldn’t care if your seen other people.. Because you should be too
no. her orifices were willingly opened to someone else, and it is flagrantly disrespectful to whatever it is in the past that (i thought) we had to monkey branch, and be so public about it soon thereafter. i dont gaf how much she might miss or regret or rethink her decision(s). f..k that.
Agree with Kyle about blocking, unblocking. Some girls will block you for no apparent reason too. It may not necessarily be because you were contacting them. My ex blocked me for a single day. I still don't know why.
Don't ever take them back, no matter what happened they're your ex. If you take them back it's game over, she will walk all over you.
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Bro thank you soo much. I have one problem we work together. And see each other everyday except when im off. Should just say hi when we see each orher and keep moving
Keep it moving bro. This is actually a pretty good opportunity for her to see you boss up with a promotion whether at your current job or on the outside with another company. Also an opportunity for her to witness you being social at work as most guys aren't very social after a breakup and they're missing their woman. Stay no contact my man and "do you" and take care of you. That's the best thing you can do.
If she happens to speak be extremely brief and short then move along. Brief as in no more than 2-3 word responses. Don't ask how she's doing just respond to her speaking and go about your day.
@@tgreene421NorthAlbanySt cool man really needed to hear this you made my night. Just got off work ans saw her today thanks again😊
@@cesarislas9163 No problem my man. I hope it helps. One thing to keep in mind for when she comes back wanting to be together is to play it cool, don't let it be too easy for her to just walk back in, and make sure she's genuine. Women will come back to familiar territory when the grass isn't greener for them because they're comfortable with who they're familiar with and think it will be easy for them. Be sure sdcc he puts in work to genuinely show you she's serious and not just running game.
@@tgreene421NorthAlbanySt for sure bro
Why take her back..leave her for the simps..
Can i apply your videos if I am a woman?
64 days in, and I gave up 2 hours ago...
Yup, I failed too :(
Great points...same re Carlin :)
That dude helped me big time.
Thank you for this video
Which top 5 books do you recommend?
I already messed that up
The virtual guy.. is his name Christian? Similar voice and features
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Well my ex plays the block, unblock game been months now.
Preach!
Day 3 I am still going no contact rule.
No contact, let them go, etc, is NOT for getting your girl/ex back. (Maybe guys will come back.) It will NOT get your girl back if she has decided to end the relationship with you. No contact is for moving on, and that's it. If you think it will bring your girl back, NO CONTACT is pointless bullshit.
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Day 4 no contact out of a 6 year relationship living with the person. My daughter and her were also very close. My daughter still has no idea since I see her on the weekends, I have no idea how to break it to her. I am devastated! My whole life is uprooted and I’m here asking myself why I let it get this bad.
But despite all that she treated me better than anyone else I’ve ever been with. She also says that about me, we just have financial issues I don’t make enough money to pull my weight of bills and rent and it’s been taking a beating on her. Before I left I asked if she would take into consideration dating while living apart. That way I can get back on my feet and actually save some money and be independent again. She texted me “ I love you _____. I’m really going to think about it okay? This is really hard for me.”
Now I’m literally taking it hour by hour, one hour I’m fine the next hour I’m distraught. I need to build myself back up and be that independent attractive person she fell in love with, while respecting the space she asked for.it’s going to be hard but knowing I’m not alone helps, I wish you all a strong road to recovery! Good luck!
Man, listen...if a woman can't understand where you are in life and your financial situation then yuh ou definitely don't want or need to be with her. A good woman should be able to see your situation for what it is (temporary) and you for who you are and where you're going in life. Furthermore, her I love you and I'm going to think about it text really means "I'm looking for someone with more money, but you'll be my familiar fallback plan if that doesn't work out". Don't ever let a woman put a dollar figure on determining whether you're a good man or not, or if you're good enough for her. Know your own worth and bust your chops to boss up for you and your daughter. Everything with a dollar sign attached to it an be lost and replaced. Show her "you" can't.
I reached out to my ex gf after 34 days of NC. We talked for like i guess 2 hours.(also she was doing her work, night shift over call) We talked about everything like work, life, we cracked jokes laughed, she daily watches my insta story, likes my content on IG, she told me her mom asked her about you that you guys are not talking these days she said i told mom that he is also busy with work we talk less these days(which she lied to her mom). Thn she said so any girl in your life i said i pretty focused with my work, achieving goals and improving day by day in things which i lack. She said tgats good. Thn she said how did you called after so many days(laughing) so i just said last time we talked( we talked 24X7 for one month after breakup thing) thn i was hurting not feeling connected with her i said why you did this to me we were happy together, everything was so good so she told me that if you’re gettin hurt thn you should stop talking. So as you told me so i waa just taking my time (i said this in happy way)So here i am today talking to you. (i reached out to her yesterday after 34 days of NC.) i guess i played the wrong cards. As we talkin over call she seems excited as way she replying to me(her voice). I talked very normal with her like friends are talking after long time
Bro as i was just writing to you this comment she video called me over snapcht just RN.
Really need your opinion coach in this. How to take this further tell me PLEASE🙏🏻🌟
Go back, that's your soulmate
@@CliffNdukuya yes!! Its now 3 days We are now talking over whatsapp call, snapchat videocall she send me snaps now. She yesterday went out and she clicked pictures and next morning sended me pictures and asked me to choose 3 pics of her she wants to upload on insta
@@navdeepsingh1285 Dude, you're making this way too easy for her and exposing your own weakness of hmm ow much you miss her and want her back. Nothing wrong with feeling that way but man up and make sure you're not being played as a fallback because she's lonely but familiar with you. That's what lonely people do; go back to who is familiar when things aren't working as good as they hoped elsewhere.
@@navdeepsingh1285 The way you're moving you're setting yourself up to be hurt and discarded again.
@@navdeepsingh1285 I'm happy for you, please don't mess it up this time around, not a lot of women give second chances.