Coach Lee is definitely one of the best on this topic. He was the first 'good' coaching channel I found. He has a way of explaining things that just make sense. I don't know if my ex will ever reach out to me. I hope so. But I know at least if she does I know what to do and how to react. Because I can tell you, if I hadn't come across Coach Lee, and Kyle, Coach Craig Kenneth and Love Chat...I would have made all the mistakes. I still have plenty of work to do on myself to maintain a relationship the right way. But I know how to handle things if she does reach out at least.
@@ola467 yeah I ran across one of his too. Max Bancar is another one new to the scene. He teaches much the same thing too. I'm glad to see there's more in the mold of Kyle, Lee, Craig and Rory coming out to counter the garbage Brad, Clay and Love Advice TV teach. The more good info that's being put out there the better.
I'm actually the one who walked away, I've learned in my previous experience that I needed to do this for my own "sanity" and to continue to work on myself.
When you responded to Coach Lee by saying that sometimes it takes longer than a few days, I'm pretty sure Coach Lee was talking about some of that arrogance and feeling like they are more attractive then the dumper person and I think he was saying that they can then start to go into those stages after a few days following the breakup. I didn't take it as him saying they would come back during that time (a few days) and I know from having watched most, if not all of his videos, that that is something he would never say. Thanks for responding to his videos. I love him and it's nice to be introduced to your work that seems very good.
Hey Kyle, you should react to the Limerence video of Coach Lee, it's a whole different topic. Would love to get your views on the concept of Limerence.
was two weeks into no contact except for son drop off stuff. then today we had a fight over custody during the school year coming up soon. lost my temper for a second and reeled it back in to be solution oriented instead of defensive. I feel like no contact is not working lol just causing bad tension. not good tension.
He told me to "Have a nice day!" and I smile and hearted emjo'd it. I did not say anything else but I did delete his number so he cannot see my profile anymore. Would something like this reflect anger?
Man has to be a man. If you fuck up own up to it. Don’t think walking away if you fucked up and doing nc will work. You can do a nc for a month or 2 but then you need to own up and apologize and then need to watch what happens.
You should skim a bunch of Brad Browning and make more reactions! That last video was not very congruent to his whole overall nuance. He doesn’t strictly adhere to 30 day but it’s more of a buzzword. I feel like you could have a lot of great reactions for many many to come-I found him to be the most raw & succinct back in the day
Me and my ex broke up 3 weeks ago. She found out something that was really old that I honestly forgot to tell her. I’ve been in no contact , but she still wears the necklace and ring I got her. And she was supposed to get her stuff but doesn’t want too. BUT she reached out to me the other day about something small and I answerd it and that was it. Then she texted me at 2am the other night and I was sleep. She then texted me it the next morning because she wanted to talk to my grandmother to help her with something which she did. We been together for 2 years. Idk what to do or should I jus let it go.
If she’s reaching out to you on multiple occasions , you should ask her to hang out. She’s being indirect with getting back with you. Make sure you don’t talk about getting back together. Just try to have fun with her.
@@Tsidhu7 I was thinking that but I want her to come a lil more. The next time she reach out I’ll play it like that. Idk if she jus needed favors like her needing to know some information or my grandmothers help with getting a outfit made or she really want to see me. But she reached out , not me
@@Treygunz12 lol I’m sure she can get her outfit from somewhere else rather than her exes grandmother Ahahha she’s just using her has an excuse to see you
Take another girl that you've had your eye on, on a date. You'll be on your way to having her running to chase you back. She's giving you signs that she wants back in, do you want to be a little bitch about it? This is a masculine opportunity for you to shine, brother! You'll kill two birds with one stone. You'll appear to have moved on in her eyes. You'll appear to have value to women in general, but especially so to your ex. You'll also be practicing self care and self love to the point that if you're having fun with someone new, you may not want to entertain the idea of needing or wanting her back at all. She'll try harder to "win" you back, and you can allow her to have the feeling of "winning", while being a winner yourself. It's a win-win scenerio, if you see it as one. Best of luck in the journey, don't think about the destination. There's a hot girl at the end no matter if she's waiting at the end, or if you pick her up along the way to the end. It's all fun and pleasure all the time.
Coach Lee is definitely one of the best on this topic. He was the first 'good' coaching channel I found. He has a way of explaining things that just make sense. I don't know if my ex will ever reach out to me. I hope so. But I know at least if she does I know what to do and how to react. Because I can tell you, if I hadn't come across Coach Lee, and Kyle, Coach Craig Kenneth and Love Chat...I would have made all the mistakes. I still have plenty of work to do on myself to maintain a relationship the right way. But I know how to handle things if she does reach out at least.
Exactly my top favs too
Love them all, too!:)
I would add Vincent Bos as a good resource as well.
Good luck with your ex! 🙏
@@ola467 yeah I ran across one of his too. Max Bancar is another one new to the scene. He teaches much the same thing too. I'm glad to see there's more in the mold of Kyle, Lee, Craig and Rory coming out to counter the garbage Brad, Clay and Love Advice TV teach. The more good info that's being put out there the better.
I'm actually the one who walked away, I've learned in my previous experience that I needed to do this for my own "sanity" and to continue to work on myself.
Good brother
Coach Lee is very wise. Kyle has great feedback off his statements. No bull shit commentary is awesome.
He said in one of his videos. He was 42. So right around that age. Thanks for the videos
ohhh ok awesome. he still looks like hes in his 30's.
12:30 damn that is the most polarizing and effective answer I’ve heard; I’m gonna have to remember this
When you responded to Coach Lee by saying that sometimes it takes longer than a few days, I'm pretty sure Coach Lee was talking about some of that arrogance and feeling like they are more attractive then the dumper person and I think he was saying that they can then start to go into those stages after a few days following the breakup. I didn't take it as him saying they would come back during that time (a few days) and I know from having watched most, if not all of his videos, that that is something he would never say. Thanks for responding to his videos. I love him and it's nice to be introduced to your work that seems very good.
Good video. Also guys remember its a rollercoaster. Its been 7 months for me and i still get days were im breaking then days wherr i feel great
I've watched this video. It's on point
Hey Kyle, you should react to the Limerence video of Coach Lee, it's a whole different topic. Would love to get your views on the concept of Limerence.
Damn he made a doller off of me 😅
Would be curious to hear your feedback on Lucia from TheArtofLove:)
was two weeks into no contact except for son drop off stuff. then today we had a fight over custody during the school year coming up soon. lost my temper for a second and reeled it back in to be solution oriented instead of defensive. I feel like no contact is not working lol just causing bad tension. not good tension.
He told me to "Have a nice day!" and I smile and hearted emjo'd it. I did not say anything else but I did delete his number so he cannot see my profile anymore. Would something like this reflect anger?
Good job Thank You for all your hard work !
What about after multiple breakups and an insecure ex
Hey bro you should cover coach craig Kenneth , in fact better in many cases .
I’ve been in NC for 3 days and my ex is now texting me constantly. I have not replied. Not sure what to do
Man has to be a man. If you fuck up own up to it. Don’t think walking away if you fucked up and doing nc will work. You can do a nc for a month or 2 but then you need to own up and apologize and then need to watch what happens.
bro you should like react to a channel called "Masculine Energy". heard he makes great videos
🤣🤣🤣
You should skim a bunch of Brad Browning and make more reactions! That last video was not very congruent to his whole overall nuance. He doesn’t strictly adhere to 30 day but it’s more of a buzzword. I feel like you could have a lot of great reactions for many many to come-I found him to be the most raw & succinct back in the day
Would this still work if you begged , pleaded, and made a lot of grand gesture mistakes a week after the breakup?
The answer to this is literally in the video
@@coachkyle812 my bad , I watch all of these videos from start to finish but the one time I decided to comment was when I was multi tasking 😂
No problem
@@coachkyle812 is it normal to feel like you’ve lost everything , like she was my best friend and also girlfriend.
Yes
Me and my ex broke up 3 weeks ago. She found out something that was really old that I honestly forgot to tell her. I’ve been in no contact , but she still wears the necklace and ring I got her. And she was supposed to get her stuff but doesn’t want too. BUT she reached out to me the other day about something small and I answerd it and that was it. Then she texted me at 2am the other night and I was sleep. She then texted me it the next morning because she wanted to talk to my grandmother to help her with something which she did. We been together for 2 years. Idk what to do or should I jus let it go.
If she’s reaching out to you on multiple occasions , you should ask her to hang out. She’s being indirect with getting back with you. Make sure you don’t talk about getting back together. Just try to have fun with her.
@@Tsidhu7 I was thinking that but I want her to come a lil more. The next time she reach out I’ll play it like that. Idk if she jus needed favors like her needing to know some information or my grandmothers help with getting a outfit made or she really want to see me. But she reached out , not me
@@Treygunz12 lol I’m sure she can get her outfit from somewhere else rather than her exes grandmother Ahahha she’s just using her has an excuse to see you
Take another girl that you've had your eye on, on a date. You'll be on your way to having her running to chase you back.
She's giving you signs that she wants back in, do you want to be a little bitch about it? This is a masculine opportunity for you to shine, brother!
You'll kill two birds with one stone. You'll appear to have moved on in her eyes. You'll appear to have value to women in general, but especially so to your ex. You'll also be practicing self care and self love to the point that if you're having fun with someone new, you may not want to entertain the idea of needing or wanting her back at all. She'll try harder to "win" you back, and you can allow her to have the feeling of "winning", while being a winner yourself.
It's a win-win scenerio, if you see it as one. Best of luck in the journey, don't think about the destination. There's a hot girl at the end no matter if she's waiting at the end, or if you pick her up along the way to the end. It's all fun and pleasure all the time.