When Does The Breakup Hit The Dumper or Affect Your Ex? - Is No contact working??

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  • @coachkyle812
    @coachkyle812  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

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  • @SkylerOakley
    @SkylerOakley 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    one month post breakup/NC today after 2.5 years together. I’m doing much better than the first 2 weeks. I miss her dearly, but i have been focusing on myself so much that i’ve realized i forgot who i was in the relationship. i feel like i’ve found myself again, old and new hobbies, back in the gym, seeing friends, learning new communication and confidence skills,studying relationship dynamics etc. there’s even a girl that i’m crushing on which has been an awesome distraction. I know right now that we could get back together one day, but right now is not the time and i’m not sure I even want it. i still get a little sad from time to time, but if you wholeheartedly put the work in on yourself i promise you guys will be in a better place, even if it doesn’t feel like it. keep your heads up and stay focused kings!!! you got this!

  • @Damian-rc8tw
    @Damian-rc8tw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Definitely hit the gym. I've been doing that since the breakup, and I've been doing martial arts classes too. Physical activity helps.

  • @pj8624
    @pj8624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great video!!! Coach Lee has been my rock since my ex gf blindsided me in Dec of 21! Truth is, I did a lot of crying and was really broken; I was so into and valued her. We were together 13 months. One positive is that I dropped 20 lbs after the breakup. I'm still in no contact radio silence since the middle of January of 22, and will never reach out to her! I do believe she lined someone up before dumping me. I'm healing more and more each day. Love your videos! Thank you!

  • @morgan8292
    @morgan8292 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Women really aren’t worth the grief, no loyalty whatsoever and it’s all about them

  • @lostravnmcfinlayson6246
    @lostravnmcfinlayson6246 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for teaching. I'm paying attention and will be using what you are teaching. I want her back, yet she's not ready. She's still has to get over her ex-husband, she's at the hate stage and I know there's more to go through. She knows what I brought to the table and will remember it.

  • @inspiredx3866
    @inspiredx3866 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow hitting it out the park on these points. Happened to me.
    My own point to watching these videos and knowing I'm not the only one out there who's been through the same issues and events.

  • @WillOfICT
    @WillOfICT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    coach lee has similarly referred to "dumper's confidence" as dumper's arrogance. it makes sense they are on a high horse right after the break up

    • @coachkyle812
      @coachkyle812  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No shit??? Really? I didn’t even know that.

  • @acct4600
    @acct4600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    coach lee aka the no contact GAWD

  • @human_08
    @human_08 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kyle! Time n time again you opened my eyes again man. Respect to you.

  • @georgepaschalidis9840
    @georgepaschalidis9840 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    All these reaction videos are great. BUT don't think you are less than all these coaches, you have a unique style that greatly resonates with me, more than anyone else's. 5 months No Contact as of yesterday, she had someone else lined up, of course I still miss her a bit but I would never get back with her.

  • @lucasschmenk9704
    @lucasschmenk9704 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The 4:00 minute mark… I needed that

  • @davidrg1570
    @davidrg1570 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like when you do these reactionary videos. 💪

  • @clintonsthilaire
    @clintonsthilaire 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How about after a long toxic relationship with multiple breakups.

  • @bjarnieinarsson5469
    @bjarnieinarsson5469 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video was awesome

  • @weecher8956
    @weecher8956 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This definitely doesn’t apply to me. My wife blocked me after getting angry me for not responding when I was asleep. Add that she’s schizophrenic and thinks I’m out to get her.

  • @kevinkonga8593
    @kevinkonga8593 ปีที่แล้ว

    She asked me if I love her after she leave the house I didn’t reply her I said I don’t give a single fuck then the next day I said I love you but I can’t stop you is that normal ??

  • @SauravKumar-ek1gw
    @SauravKumar-ek1gw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey Kyle, could you please react to the Limerence Video of Coach Lee, it's something completely different from other channel videos and something we would like to get your opinion on.

  • @Bohohoho
    @Bohohoho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    no true i love being alone and have been sigle for 15 years

    • @Crm.xcviii
      @Crm.xcviii 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do you do that? Lol

  • @onelife5302
    @onelife5302 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I watched my ex set up a dating profile the week before the ghosting... monkey branch

  • @human_08
    @human_08 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And please stop validating or endorsing others content as more valuable than yours man. It’s giving off that vibe atleast, even if its otherwise in your mind. Your content in your channel is more realistic and more relatable in itself. That’s where you stand out. Respect to you man.

    • @coachkyle812
      @coachkyle812  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m a constant student bro. It probably appears that I think my content is subpar but I understand I help people. I’m too hard on myself though. That’s my real issue lol.

    • @human_08
      @human_08 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@coachkyle812 You are helping and inspiring people more than that you know of man. Since 3 years I was and am one of them. It’s like you’re added to my lifestyle to keep me on track time to time. May you keep opening eyes and adding value to millions out here helping us fulfill our purpose and thereby yours.
      Best wishes from a true loyal subscriber that you’ve earned for life.

    • @coachkyle812
      @coachkyle812  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@human_08 thanks brother. Truly

  • @emilyslife8010
    @emilyslife8010 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Any advice for a girl who got dumped? 28 days... no contact... but I have reflected and know where I went wrong. (Nothing major!!! Just didn't put him as a priority the last 3 months thanks to working full time and my kids baseball season)
    Any advice?

    • @acct4600
      @acct4600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      u cant have kids AND neglect your partner... you have to pick one. having kids already significantly lowers your sexual marketplace value with men & puts you at a disadvantage in the dating market, so neglect on top of kids is just gonna make him leave you. & stating "nothing major" is the problem... it means you don't take his concerns seriously. i'm sure he senses this. if you think of it as minor & don't take him seriously, don't expect him to take his relationship with you seriously either. thats why he left. if he doesn't have kids himself, he likely has better options. this is why men of value don't date single mothers. these men will never be a priority in your life. your kids will always come first. to you, i'd suggest dating a single father that will understand your situation. a single father is lower value & his financial resources will likely be tied up in his own kids & likely an ex wife or other woman as opposed to being spent on you, but thats the price women pay for not working things out with the father of their children. & it doesn't work out with the father of their children because women often make poor choices in the men that hey have children with (dating bad boys, smooth talking ladies-men & players) etc. all this probably sounds harsh & it is, but i'm probably the only one thats going to give you the truth RAW & unfiltered, so that you can make sound decisions moving forward.

  • @terranceengel8429
    @terranceengel8429 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your link to the other channel doesn't go anywhere. Just a heads up, appreciate you

    • @coachkyle812
      @coachkyle812  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hey bud i just posted a pinned comment. the link should be working there.

  • @centrefitnessfocus1021
    @centrefitnessfocus1021 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am on my 11th years of no contact people have to understand no-contact it’s for yourself after my break-up I was in a deep depression she event talk to me about the other guy who was in the pictures I was ready to take the breadcrumbs and accept her friendship proposition she was ready to put me in this triangulation relationship there’s was no TH-cam videos to help me I just knew something wasn’t right I just stepped out of the bubble and give myself 3 month to work on myself after 2 month I found out I don’t love her anymore I just didn’t care anymore like a coward she already had this guy to monkey branch to those narcissistic hate to be alone but I took a break before I get to a new relationship fitness save my life I become a trainer I had access to a lot of single women but the no-contact and healing time make me value myself and not throw myself to any women cause of a broken heart 💔 my ex whole family of 12th years relationship are narcissistic they was ready to bully me and waiting for me to beg but when they saw I stood up for myself it put them in a rage my ex felt humiliated she had no choice to introduce her new boyfriend faster to her family I enjoy each day of no-contact great videos

  • @felixgomez1735
    @felixgomez1735 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My situation is different we broke up still live together although we have kids we ended up in peaceful manners she has her space I'm hardly home working. Best part for me is we are still having sex and intimacy going on. We kiss and everything calls me babe dances for me.What does matter mean for me.

    • @coachkyle812
      @coachkyle812  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She wants all the stuff that comes with the relationship without having to be committed to it.
      You guys obviously got here because things got negative. You can’t control yourself because you’re continuing to sleep with her.
      I can help save this but it will get harder before it gets better

  • @Treygunz12
    @Treygunz12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do you have Instagram or a email that I can reach out to you on ? Have a situation I can save or mess up and it all depends on this message I’m debating about sending.

    • @Damian-rc8tw
      @Damian-rc8tw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hit the 'more' button under the video. All the links are there