Why do women fight this weight issue so much? They'll say, "some carry it different". How differently do you carry 250 pounds? Men don't say, "I'm 5 foot 4 but I look taller"
I like this question and really would like an answer. Ladies say they wear certain weights well, and better then most. Im mentally asking myself what does that actually mean as I'm slowly walking away from poor logic
And we don't want to create communities en masse either. A lot of these problems could be resolved if we rebuilt our own neighborhoods back into communities again.
RIP Godfather you are missed dearly, but your videos will last for a lifetime. Thanks so much for what you have given us. This video is so on point. I had to ditch the lady I was with, she worked from home half the time in bed and swore her job owed her $100,000 a year. And you are 100 percent correct all I saw was her wig the whole time I was with her never seeing what was under there.SMH!
You and I are in the same boat. My current gf comes home, and parks her overweight lazy ass on the couch. She stays there from 6pm until 11pm when she goes to bed. No ambition. No dreams. No desires. Just weapons grade lazy.
Hopefully you get to do it for health. Maybe for you kids if you have any. Men like to date women small but we also understand that it is a sign. If you not disciplined with your diet. Then how will your attitude be with us. Be whatever weight you want to be. Stay disciplined in anything you do. Even if its making it to work on time all year.
@@kingkongversations man look....... Damnit I hate to make that comparison cuz Patrice is the GOAT in my eyes. But you right tho. He's like a new age Black Phillip.
I'm sitting on the bycicle workout machine pedaling my *ss off watching KS talk about fitness and appearance for black women and I can tell what he says is so true. If you know your ranking and put your expectation based on that, it will make you happier with what you choose. I'm 5'2 110lbs dress size 4, 25 years old and adjustable 6 on the face, I'm dating with a pharmacist and we're about to get married by the end of this year. He might not be high value based on KV's definition but he is a decent guy, he takes care of me perfectly fine, willing to be the main financial pillar of our future family. I never ask for more and I'm happy to have him.
How'd it go with the pharmacist? They can be good earners. My wife is 5'2. At some point she was 240 lbs before me we met. When I met her she was 110lbs. She understood wieght matters. We're coming up on 15 yrs married. She'll be home sipping wine with her feet up later tonight. Keep it strong!!
Growing up I was raised by my grandmother. I remember when I turned 13yrs she bought me my first pair of high heels. on Saturdays I had to practice walking in heels because "I was a yong lady now." Also I could not leave the house unless my hair was done and clothes cleaned and pressed. My grandmother was a very feminine woman never a hair out of place.
@@mikepowell8611 yes people took pride now most people walking around naked with tattoos and piercings and altering their bodies to look like cartoon characters
@@erehistruth2356 there was one I saw on this woman upper arm it was the drawing of a Japanese geisha it was gorgeous and classy. it looked like a painting! that was the closes I got to getting a tattoo but knowing me I dont like anything permanent on my body. I didn't do it. yes some people over do it I think but if its tastefully done like the one I saw its cool
I am 5’1 at 115 pounds, 49 and married. I eat twice per day and mostly vegetables. Once your stomach shrinks you can’t eat too much without getting sick. If you eat a lot you will always get hungry.
That 46 year old, sounds Just like my HR director. Overweight, mean, set in her ways , doctorate degree, toy poodle, drives a Buick, treats all the black men in the department like crap. She has said on multiple occasions " if y'all Brothers don't step up I might have to go get me a White one. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Ma'am , stop it.
My real question is how much credit card and student loan debt she got. To add weight watchers debt, shape lifters debt, body shapers debt, weave, false eye lash, KIDZ out of wedlock debt. It's not your income but outcome as well. Fellas be practical and use common sense/ live within your means. You will be fine
I have a friend who’s a single mom and she won’t take responsibility for her decisions. She says the reason she had a child young was because no one taught her about birth control and abstinence. She’s basically claiming that she had no idea that if a man came inside her she would get pregnant. You can’t make this shyt up
For all of the recent KS followers, welcome! I remember when all of us would await the latest KS episode bc it was another revelation. Obviously entertaining. Meanwhile, society still walked around with a blindfold, judging, incredulous. God bless the goat, KS. Thank you, Mr. Samuels! We’re gonna see you again.
Unless you have a medical condition, you do not have to eat 3 times a day. Depending on your caloric needs for your activities, you can eat once a day and be fine. Fasting is very good for you.
3 times, 1 large meal, or 6 small meals a day, doesn't matter how many time a day you eat, though one large meal will can cause heart issues and 6 is the best to keep you from over eating, you need a certain amount of calories or your body will began breaking down muscle, you'll experience heavier periods, no periods, infertility, lack of energy, difficulty staying hydrated or keeping down water, sunken eyes, poor appearnce overall, you won't have enough salt to stay hydrated, later you're brain begans to starve you'll experience seizures, comas, diabetes, keep playing with yall bodies, anorexia is actually a more painful and immediate death.
I like the part where Kevin said if you don’t want to work to improve things, man or woman, stay out of the conversation. If you just wanta argue, argue amongst yourselves. This is a conversation for individuals that want to improve their situation and work to improve their situation.
Mr. Samuels got me working out, eating plant based, and constantly working on my faith and marriage. My marriage has never had issues, but I will not wait until we do. My SMV is gonna drop when I gave birth to my son, and I am gonna make sure he sees what a true cooperative marriage is like.
Anthony Bush I never said it’s empowering I said most women who wear it think that it is. Are you asking me why they think it’s empowering? They think it’s empowering because it allows them to look different, feel different, lifts up confidence, it conveys a certain image.
Yall keep saying no weave but most of yall don't even like women with natural hair. When yall say natural hair most of the time it is referring to loose textured curls. When a non ambiguous black woman has long hair especially natural hair yall don't even believe that it's her hair. That goes for men and women.
@@MzCrayKray no weave, no obesity aka THICK / STRONG / no world war attitude. I have just expressed my opinion. You are free to spend your money on weaves. As far as i am concern, i will always take the original woman you are MIMICING. To each his own. I hold no grudge to women who prefer rich men. Wear weave in peace and God bless.
Today, my brother just had to revive his wife of 26 years from a heart attack, it does not look good that she will make it. My point; she did not get a high value man but she did get a quality man. He was there when she needed him most, and she is not dying alone, but with a man who LOVED HER TO LIFE!
Sponsorships implies men are getting something for their money; what are they getting? What they want is a man's wallet to use as their own personal ATM, at their disposal 24/7.....
On the Divorce Court TV Show the judge asked one woman: why did you marry this man ? Without missing a beat she said: " He had a Check and Penis ". Enuff said ?
When a woman leads with her resume and college transcript. Exhibiting an aggressive, quarrelsome demeanor. It's already over. Therefore a waste of time and effort. Then she gets dismissed, ignored/ghosted.
Late 20s black man here... Appreciate the info you really putting me on game Mr Samuels.. Future muti-millionaire and HVM but I'm not married but still desire a black woman.. But sista needs to step their game up
What's interesting is I was talking about brother Kevin with my mom (married to my dad for 25 years before me) and she and I agreed with a lot of what you say. She and I didn't understand why people were mad that that brother said he was the prize. I came to the realization that men don't really ask for much at the most basic level. Being a good husband or wife doesn't have to be so difficult when both are trying to be the best asset to their spouse and the world as much as possible. Fit, feminine, Beautiful, submissive, friendly, agreeable, actually wants to help and not just be helped. Basic. Haven't even tapped into the hard stuff yet. I've also realized that, as a human overall but especially a woman, that you get waaaaaay more out of life (and people) if you take responsibility and accountability with both hands. Power comes from responsibility so why women leave their power by the wayside to then gain negative masculine attributes is ridiculous and works against them.
"Like all millennials I've never been in a relationship." I'm a millennial and have had multiple relationships and I'm in a long term relationship now. Stop the excuses. Take a shower. Hit the treadmill. Get a clue. I have zero respect for women who make excuses for being obese and I have zero respect for men who make excuses for being broke.
He killed me with the "his place" thing lol. My shit was basic af and I was for sure surviving on Ramen and 12 pack Aldi brand polishes that cost 3 bucks. A good day was finding enough change in the couch to buy myself a cheeseburgers from McDonald's. It was mine though and I paid my rent and kept my lights on.
Kevin can talk over anyone...it's his show...yall don't understand how respect works. You in my house...on my show. Who makes the rules? The guest? I think not
What happened in 1 generation? All the men and most the women spoke this frank and honest when I was a growing up in the 90s. And if your feelings got hurt from the truth. That was your ish, and a you problem! Not the messenger. Which is the case now in our hyper sensitive , everyone gets a trophy world.
Maybe its because im half latina so i had that influence growing up, but i never understood lazy women. I stay home because this is what my husband wants, but im doing stuff all day. I work 14 hours a day. Im up at 5am to make my husband breakfast and then im getting kids ready, cooking, cleaning, doing laundry. We own a small farm so im also doing farm chores. My work doesnt stop until 7 or 8 at night. Even right now, im listening to this while steam cleaning my couch. I only took a break to write this comment, then its back to it. On top of that, my family and i go to the gym and i workout with my husband 3 nights a week. So im working my butt off and still maintain 118lbs at 5'4". I also still take care of my skin and hair and dress nicely so my husband doesnt have to come home from a long day to an ugly bridge troll. I actually see this laziness more with white women. I know a woman who has a sign in her home that says "dont mind the mess, my family is making memories". She has 1 kid and her house is a disaster. I have 3 kids and 2 large dogs, and my house is immaculate. What "memories" is her kid going to have of his mom when hes a grown man? I know other women who also stay home, and these women dont even get dressed in the morning. They dont even brush their hair. I dont even know how they are married, let alone how they got a man to put a baby in them. It makes me mad because they call me crazy for doing all of this for my husband, but at the end of the day, my marriage is still running strong after a decade while theirs is falling apart.
@Gus Fring Los Pollos Hermanos Chicken, Crystal Meth get off her neck. She's pulling her weight. That's not her job unless absolutely necessary. She handling her business raising her family, his job is to provide so she can do so. Leave this woman alone.
Thankfully I’m not lazy. I work out 3-4x a week. For my mental health, physical health, and as a hobby. Im 27, 126lbs and 5’ 4” i would call myself submissive and have become sweeter w/ time. I am very fond of growing and bettering myself. No one is perfect and sometimes life can disrupt but it is not an excuse to let yourself go as a person. I only wear make up on occasion, I’m starting to like dressing more modestly because I do not like cat calling or male gaze. Modesty is a form of self protection. Eat well, treat your body good and be as natural as possible to yourself. One thing I’ll say though is that I do wear wigs, and some are saying it’s lazy which can be the case but wearing wigs is just easier sometimes especially because I workout a lot I need to be able to fix my hair up quickly in between that, taking care of house hold duties and running errands. I’m conjunction to wearing wigs I do take care of my natural hair and wear breads as a protective style. The hair topic I believe is subjective because there are many uses for changing styles. Personally I have dry brittle hair so when it is in a protective style in between ha big my hair out, I am able to care for it better and low manipulation helps w/ hair growth. I do believe the wigs should look closer to your natural hair for day to day looks I haven’t always been this but I have been working on myself all my life throughout the trials and tribulations. I love what Kevin is doing for our community, it is realistic and it will bring us much more value. I encourage everyone don’t lose hope there is ALWAYS room for improvement as a person we are not robots. Above all please put God first, this is the greatest of foundations
You don't need the wigs. There are plenty of us out here that are actually attracted to natural hair. Either way, you sound very balanced, and that's refreshing.
My sisters had half their thyroid taken out. Cutting carbs, bread, pasta, rice and other grains helped one of them lose weight. That is go keto paleo and exercise. Thyroid and hormone problems are related to diet. Black women have higher estrogen levels which causes them to gain weight, have thyroid and fibroid problems. Eating foods that lower estrogen such as cruciferous veggies, weight training , a lot of cardio ( good for preventing thyroid and fibroid problems) and cutting carbs can help a lot. Focus on your health so you can age gracefully and healthy without getting those dietary diseases. One hour of working out will not kill you. Plus kill the attitude. Being combative, loud and highly sensitive will not make your life enjoyable. Read the 4 agreements which will help with the need to be always right and argumentative. This goes for both sexes.
@waking people up is hard to do wow how much did you consume? It has to be quite a lot. You could have had thyroid nodules for quite a long time. Did you also take sea kelp for iodine? This balances everything out.
theyre gonna get worse. Carbs are what humans have been eating for ever. The FAT is what is making people FAT but people are too dumb to see that HIGH FAT DIETS MAKE YOU FAT (I eat plenty of carbs, pasta, rice and look fabulous and I'm in great health and fitness)
FACTZ.....😐😑 I'm 27 years old coming up and hardly ever wore makeup except for my senior pics and my prom I got pretty skin and still don't wear makeup all I need to do is fix my hair up put on a little lip gloss to get my eyebrows done it without even a little an extra extra I still get it😊🙄 we really need to learn how to start bringing old beauty back pronto
@@princess__blueberry1775 not only does it crack their skin and takes away their natural beauty but they go to f*** around looking like Pennywise and Ronald McDonald like s***🙄😑
It’s so crazy how on point you are with this personality type. I have a female friend who fits everything to a tee…even within her responses. She responds exactly how you say she will. She’s overweight, a single mom and doesn’t work out at all. If I’m being honest, when she gets off work, she spends her entire evening on the couch, eating and watching tv. If I tell her that not many men want her and it’s going to be hard to find the type of man she wants, she tells me it’s not fair to say that. She says I’m being negative. She has this empty hope that one day some guy will come along and just want to take care of her and her kid. She hasn’t found it yet or even come close, she just thinks it’s going to happen one day. She also tells men that she won’t care if they leave because her son comes before him. I’m honestly reconsidering being friends with her. It’s just hard to interact with her because she’s so delusional. Whenever I prove a point to her, she finds a bunch of ways to disregard it.
All he’s doing is asking women to raise their value or simply desire men on their level; which is the same standard that he sets for men. But for some reason it seems like the majority of women who call into the show have a problem with self improvement or appreciation for our men. It’s scary and baffling.
Weight loss happens when you cut back on the portion size of your meals and never, ever eating seconds and thirds. It doesn’t take mounds of food on your plate to feel full and satisfied. It also helps considerably when you remove soda, added sugar and processed foods from your diet. When you do this, that extra weight will disappear in no time. Also, avoid eating desert every night. Eat sweets in moderation. While exercise is important, you can lose weight without exercising. It takes self-control and saying no to overeating, period.
@@watchvidz7162 Genetics might be a component of obesity, but genetics can be tweaked a little when it comes to weight loss. Just stop eating so much and being tempted by everything in sight that looks good. Just say NO.
Kevin is right. I got married when I was a Junior in college, the best thing I did. My friends thought I was crazy, crazy as a fox. Now most of them are still single, the others are divorce and the divorce women friends are bitter as hell. The divorce husbands married women remarried women half their age.
@@triplemoyagames4195 right! ?? I stopped hanging with my divorced and my miserable single friends. We have nothing in common plus i don't want that energy spilling over in my marriage.
@@shootermcgavin214 she just saying right! Remember these divorced single miserable women are in the schools teaching your children! Facts! Imagine how mean these women are to the students.
Some of these sistas...Smh. Kevin, since you mentioned in the video, I think it's just about time to drop that video with women of other ethnicities. I really don't think some sistas truly realize how serious some Asian, Hispanic, and White women in regards to finding a HVM and the lengths they will go to keep one. It would definitely be an eye-opener for some sistas.
A woman that has a lot to loose will Kill a side chick HERSELF even tho she knows her husband is cheating. They are not & Will Not leave their husbands!!
I want a motivated, career oriented, family oriented man who has plans for his life but acts in a spontaneous romantic fashion who will provide me a nice home in a nice neighborhood to stay at home with our children but fund my business ideas with lots of travel. In other words, I want five men and a nanny.
I think it’s ok for women to live with their family until they get married. Hopefully the woman has been developing herself. Many traditional families especially out east... it’s normal to remain with the family until marriage.
Ghost Killer terrible dad. A little 18 year old daughter cant make grown man living. That’s only gonna make her masculine. She gonna be bringing strange men to her house. I don’t give a damn if you was 15 and moved out ... you supposed to provide a better life for kids than you had
@@slygeebee7575 when corporations need young target markets to be intertwined in their webs they incentivize independence and make it seem possible and affordable for younger age individuals to get out and do it on their own and have some sort of pride as their reward . Now, like the Pavlov effect, the incentive has slowly died away, and now independence is just a pride thing.
Why can’t people just listen and do their research after. Why do they care about what Kevin says and want to correct him? I always worry about my weight if I get a bit chubby. My mother would never shut up if I gained weight even my step mother is on my little sister. I don’t know if it is a Jamaican thing but some of those older women who value their beauty, ( both my mom and step mom are hot especially my size 4 mom who was an 8-9), won’t hold their tongue when their daughters get fat or carry themselves badly. I never home without lipstick 💄 pre-COVID even to the corner store. As I get older, I want to be like Angela Bassett, Wendy Ida and Ernestine Shepherd. I’m into the As Pretty as Possible at all times movement.
I'm from India....same story here....family, friends , neighbours...everyone will comment on your weight. ....keeps things in check. My mother always says...don't walk out looking like you got no parents at home.
I'm African American and my elders have never held their tongue about my weight. I'm into holistic health so weight isn't a problem that I battle with but some years ago I was a bit greedy.
True Even my dad said I was getting too plump A lady from my church and even old coworkers I’m 5’5 and about 148 now I had a baby in July and was 180 at my heaviest I’m proud of myself and still have more weight to shed.... I used to be a size 2 but that was after gymning twice per day and a super super strict diet Normally I should be 135 and I’m reaching for that I eat healthy though Maybe 2-3 cookies a day but fruits vegetables and lean meat and fish No pop or Gatorade My mom is 60 and is in better shape than me We both can fit a size 6 jeans
Some women don't need to be told that. Some women get dogs specifically just for that. They call themselves Dog Moms to fill the void of where actual motherhood should be. Sad thing is, a lot of them are hot too.
GOD Bless you Kevin you are saving our women. Black women have been brainwashed, I don't totally blame them for the issues we have. Thank for help the black community unity and saving women.
Kevin, i think you are doing a great service here. you hold men and women accountable on your channel to the highest degree. as a man who's working to become high value - this is something i very much appreciate. don't stop what your doing our community needs it. Thank you.
Miss you kevin, I remember my Grandmother, class, pride, & poor, she went to school , and put down pmt, on 3 houses & mortgage pmts for her kids, until they got on the feet, & we all took from thier and made her proud. 🙏🏾👏🏾
I go to Planet Fitness and it cost $10.00 a month. Many people spend that a day on their morning coffee and doughnut!!! There are no excuses Ladies. Just plain Laziness and no motivation nor discipline. It is not attractive to men. The gym I go to is a black area and filled with Latinos and whites. I am super disappointed in the majority of Sistas!!
I go to Planet Fitness too and even though it's not heavily populated with us in there, I do see that more of the ones coming are actually heavier and trying to turn things around. I do see a few of us do the cardio and weight machines, but not nearly like the brothers or white men.
I just want to say thank you to Mr Samuels. For the first time I have realized that my value is higher than I thought especially when it come to the SMV. At nearly 44 I made it and continue to establish myself as a man of high value. No longer will I accept women of low value because like you say I have options. Thank you for what you do and depressing the truth.
I agree 100%. There are no "if, and's or but's) imo. My Dad encouraged me to attend college & get a degree in a field that I enjoyed. Never did he say "get a master's degree". He always told me that I was beautiful & nurtured me. I love being physically attractive. I didn't wear make-up (outside of lipstick) until I made 49 last year. I am getting myself together so that I can choose the right man to be with for the rest of my life. Watch out world because Kevin has upgraded my perspective. Thank you.
Sweetheart, you were saying all the right things until... Saying "I can choose the right man"..... When in reality, men control access to marriage, and will choose you. Stay positive, and keep great vibes!
I wonder if you ever got ur self together so hopefully one will notice you and hopefully THEY will choose yo dusty ass. After a year now, how’s it working for you?
@@S.T.G43 My husband says the same thing. He calls it burning hair when my daughter and I do our hair! We stopped going to the salon 2 years ago. We do our own nails and hair again!
I’ve been weave free for almost five years and my hair is to my armpits I also stopped making excuses and I keep my weight in CHECK what you won’t do another woman will
@@chanel123ful this is true 😂 whether it’s a twist out, silk press, extensions, wig, braids, or whatever different men like different things. I can do it all. I take care of my natural hair.
It's really sad Kevin all the kick back from these Black Women. When I ran across your show, I said, nothing I have to watch the show and see if the content fits my life and where I trying to go. So I've watched over 30 of Mr. Samuel shows. I love that a brother has to developed a great content that we need. Fight it all you want, if you want to have a Healthy and long relationship (listen) first. I don't have to call him or check him, about Information he took the time to gathered Marriage information. Great show again!
Laziest profession is plus size model. Literally a job you get paid to just wake up and put on makeup. Don't have to workout or diet, and ironically if you lost weight and became a healthy size, your modeling career would end.
Plus size model... The dream job of most every woman I've ever met. Seriously, I know so many men who work out on a routine basis their whole lives but women do it in spurts at best. I'll never understand it.
@@masonflowers9740 negative. Do you think a plus size model has the looks to be a regular size model. A plus size model has the looks of an average woman.
I totally agree that if I want a particular type of partner then I should be able to to offer things comparable. If I want someone who is fit and takes care of themselves then I too should be fit and take care of myself.
The careers which allow men to travel internationally for business multiple times per yer tend to be the World Bank & (International) Development Banks, etc.
Media Mafia also, they're always jet-setting from one side of the world to the other (especially when wars break out- as nothing sells like bad news, remember).
Yeah I agree with your video. I’m 26 and 5’5 and weigh 165. And I’m slowing losing weight. I finally can fit a size 12. All I been doing is running a lot on the treadmill. And working out at the gym I barely see black women in my gym.
Eat fruits veggies no juice Gatorade pop chips or cookies Fruit for dessert low fat yogurt w almonds instead of ice cream Weight will melt off Plus ur young at 26... Good for you and keep up good work
One of the biggest issues, is women don’t correct women, they’re forever in support even when it’s wrong which just continues the behavior......it’s a reason why good looking women run in circles with good looking women and not so good looking one run with not so good looking 🤷🏾♂️
As a woman I can attest that being a woman and delivering the same message does not elicit a different result lmao, they still don’t like to hear the truth or answer direct questions.
Women dont correct other women for the reason you avoid them as well. They start getting loud, profanity and say who hurt you? I can only save myself, not them
Sis.. If you see this comment, I suggest you get to a neuropath, get your hormones balanced, implement intermittent fasting with healthy keto and do Tabata.. It works wonders for me.. I'm down 74 pounds!!
I love this guy! Hair-brained schemes, lazy, entitled women, losers, set in their ways! Genius insight! He tells it like it is. Some females hate him, because they don't realize that he holds them accountable for once, big difference between honesty and a jerk. He's actually doing them the biggest favor by forcing them to face the truth, so they can actually improve.
@@MisTracy39TheVeganLady good for you! Few women these days that are eligible will take any responsibility and henceforth improvement. Are you now single, whole and ready to marry and have children?
I love your show. At 1:42:00 It is the Pareto Principle, named after economist Vilfredo Pareto, specifies that 80% of consequences come from 20% of the causes.
"Oh my god" holy smokes... your absolutely right, I googled " black women of the 50's and was totally and forever changed.... what a difference between yesteryears and today for black females, and men for that matter, I did notice the guys unlike myself all seemed to be dressed like yourself and not many being "High Value" in those days. Thanks for what you do Keep up the good work and I admire you for not getting swept up in what other TH-camrs say about you. Again thanks for keeping it real...from a very happy beta male.
Women are too concerned with the messenger than the message, emotionally charged over Kevin's tone instead of heeding what he's saying which is true. Plenty of videos put so much into perspective for me but my friends might die alone...lol because they aren't receptive to the real truth.
Why do women fight this weight issue so much? They'll say, "some carry it different". How differently do you carry 250 pounds? Men don't say, "I'm 5 foot 4 but I look taller"
I like this question and really would like an answer. Ladies say they wear certain weights well, and better then most. Im mentally asking myself what does that actually mean as I'm slowly walking away from poor logic
Al just cuz they wear it well. Why would you even want to wear it
When they say "they wear it well" that means they got big boobs or a fat ass.
"I only make 24k a year but i wear it different" see how silly it is ladies?
@@koreylr the equivalent would be, "I only make 24K a yr but I SPEND it differently"
this is powerful: "What a man does in his 20s pays dividends the rest of his life."
"We don't have communities, we have black people living in neighborhoods" Facts!!!!!🔥
And we don't want to create communities en masse either. A lot of these problems could be resolved if we rebuilt our own neighborhoods back into communities again.
Trav That’s a lot of places with us as black folks. It’s as if we are conditioned to not speak to one another
@Trav same in Chicago too
@Trav If that's happening in Harlem... that speaks volumes.
@ Harlem actually has a rich history of black cohesion, and pride so no your surmise is wrong.
RIP Godfather you are missed dearly, but your videos will last for a lifetime. Thanks so much for what you have given us. This video is so on point. I had to ditch the lady I was with, she worked from home half the time in bed and swore her job owed her $100,000 a year. And you are 100 percent correct all I saw was her wig the whole time I was with her never seeing what was under there.SMH!
You and I are in the same boat. My current gf comes home, and parks her overweight lazy ass on the couch. She stays there from 6pm until 11pm when she goes to bed. No ambition. No dreams. No desires. Just weapons grade lazy.
Kevin literally has me working out 5 days a week 😂 I’ve lot 10 pounds since listening to him. Need my dose of Mr. Samuels on a daily.
Me tooo. 😩
And me as well. I'm married with a 4, 2, and 1 year old. At the age 43 I have no sexual market value. Got to keep my husband happy!😄
Me too! 😁
@@mommymj9529 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hopefully you get to do it for health. Maybe for you kids if you have any. Men like to date women small but we also understand that it is a sign. If you not disciplined with your diet. Then how will your attitude be with us. Be whatever weight you want to be. Stay disciplined in anything you do. Even if its making it to work on time all year.
This is better than television!
They can't show this on broadcast TV. Advertisers would never buy in.
That's an old school quote right there. Better than television lol!!!
This is the new television.
Kevin is what Patrice O’Neal may have become if he managed to get his life together. Very sharp takes on the culture. 🙌🏾
@@kingkongversations man look....... Damnit I hate to make that comparison cuz Patrice is the GOAT in my eyes. But you right tho. He's like a new age Black Phillip.
I'm sitting on the bycicle workout machine pedaling my *ss off watching KS talk about fitness and appearance for black women and I can tell what he says is so true. If you know your ranking and put your expectation based on that, it will make you happier with what you choose.
I'm 5'2 110lbs dress size 4, 25 years old and adjustable 6 on the face, I'm dating with a pharmacist and we're about to get married by the end of this year. He might not be high value based on KV's definition but he is a decent guy, he takes care of me perfectly fine, willing to be the main financial pillar of our future family. I never ask for more and I'm happy to have him.
Lol
@@aisha-3857 she's aisan
You have won! Congratulations and good luck to you and your future family
How'd it go with the pharmacist? They can be good earners. My wife is 5'2. At some point she was 240 lbs before me we met. When I met her she was 110lbs. She understood wieght matters. We're coming up on 15 yrs married.
She'll be home sipping wine with her feet up later tonight.
Keep it strong!!
Perfect start dear!!! The RIGHT MIND SET is where victory is had for women!!! Thank you......
Growing up I was raised by my grandmother. I remember when I turned 13yrs she bought me my first pair of high heels. on Saturdays I had to practice walking in heels because "I was a yong lady now." Also I could not leave the house unless my hair was done and clothes cleaned and pressed. My grandmother was a very feminine woman never a hair out of place.
That was how women with class used to be. Obviously, your grandmother had class.
Thats old school, My mom had to do the same stuff. wearing gloves and everything. and All the men wore suits.
@@mikepowell8611 yes people took pride now most people walking around naked with tattoos and piercings and altering their bodies to look like cartoon characters
@@Pursuepeace0715 I agree. I'm a woman and certain tattoos make women look trashy.
@@erehistruth2356 there was one I saw on this woman upper arm it was the drawing of a Japanese geisha it was gorgeous and classy. it looked like a painting! that was the closes I got to getting a tattoo but knowing me I dont like anything permanent on my body. I didn't do it.
yes some people over do it I think but if its tastefully done like the one I saw its cool
I am 5’1 at 115 pounds, 49 and married. I eat twice per day and mostly vegetables. Once your stomach shrinks you can’t eat too much without getting sick. If you eat a lot you will always get hungry.
@Jack Strawb you're eating too much sugar/carbs and not enough fat/protein keto helps
If you’re here catching up on old shows , Keep It Up , You’re Doing Great 💪🏿
Lazyness leads to bad decisions. Lazyness +greed+envy is a deadly trifecta.
laziness
@@jenniferthiebaud1427 merci
💯💯💯💯
Socialists/commies in a nutshell. And politicians on the left constantly pander to them
Laziness means you'll take anything and let bums hit it raw.
That 46 year old, sounds Just like my HR director. Overweight, mean, set in her ways , doctorate degree, toy poodle, drives a Buick, treats all the black men in the department like crap. She has said on multiple occasions " if y'all Brothers don't step up I might have to go get me a White one. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Ma'am , stop it.
My response to her would be... You promise?
😳
Damn bro... i would tell her to go ahead and get Brad and have a nice day.
Brad don't want they fat asses either
My real question is how much credit card and student loan debt she got. To add weight watchers debt, shape lifters debt, body shapers debt, weave, false eye lash, KIDZ out of wedlock debt. It's not your income but outcome as well. Fellas be practical and use common sense/ live within your means. You will be fine
I have a friend who’s a single mom and she won’t take responsibility for her decisions. She says the reason she had a child young was because no one taught her about birth control and abstinence. She’s basically claiming that she had no idea that if a man came inside her she would get pregnant. You can’t make this shyt up
"A group can rise no higher than the moral position of its women" what a quote
If that’s the case we cave ppl
For all of the recent KS followers, welcome!
I remember when all of us would await the latest KS episode bc it was another revelation. Obviously entertaining.
Meanwhile, society still walked around with a blindfold, judging, incredulous.
God bless the goat, KS. Thank you, Mr. Samuels! We’re gonna see you again.
Unless you have a medical condition, you do not have to eat 3 times a day. Depending on your caloric needs for your activities, you can eat once a day and be fine. Fasting is very good for you.
So true!
3 times, 1 large meal, or 6 small meals a day, doesn't matter how many time a day you eat, though one large meal will can cause heart issues and 6 is the best to keep you from over eating, you need a certain amount of calories or your body will began breaking down muscle, you'll experience heavier periods, no periods, infertility, lack of energy, difficulty staying hydrated or keeping down water, sunken eyes, poor appearnce overall, you won't have enough salt to stay hydrated, later you're brain begans to starve you'll experience seizures, comas, diabetes, keep playing with yall bodies, anorexia is actually a more painful and immediate death.
I totally agree with the things you said in your comment
Smart cookie I eat twice, breakfast and dinner
It’s not sustainable for the grand majority of people.
I realize I’ve done a lot of things wrong so I intend to advise my daughters the right way..
Bless ya heart
Best wishes to them
At least you are willing to admit it
You realize it so you can do better. Much respect!
That is a generational mindset and therefore can be highly respected.
I like the part where Kevin said if you don’t want to work to improve things, man or woman, stay out of the conversation. If you just wanta argue, argue amongst yourselves. This is a conversation for individuals that want to improve their situation and work to improve their situation.
Mr. Samuels got me working out, eating plant based, and constantly working on my faith and marriage. My marriage has never had issues, but I will not wait until we do. My SMV is gonna drop when I gave birth to my son, and I am gonna make sure he sees what a true cooperative marriage is like.
Me too. Eating plant-based and I feel gingerly.
Wow great
He's the 1st TH-camr that I hit the like button for even before he speaks. No cap
What is difficult in NO WEAVE, no OBESITY and no COMBATIVE ATTITUDE
Natural hair is not a difficult request
It’s not difficult at all, most women just want to have their way and think it’s empowerment. Once they learn the truth it’s usually too late
Anthony Bush I never said it’s empowering I said most women who wear it think that it is. Are you asking me why they think it’s empowering? They think it’s empowering because it allows them to look different, feel different, lifts up confidence, it conveys a certain image.
Yall keep saying no weave but most of yall don't even like women with natural hair. When yall say natural hair most of the time it is referring to loose textured curls. When a non ambiguous black woman has long hair especially natural hair yall don't even believe that it's her hair. That goes for men and women.
@@MzCrayKray no weave, no obesity aka THICK / STRONG / no world war attitude.
I have just expressed my opinion. You are free to spend your money on weaves. As far as i am concern, i will always take the original woman you are MIMICING.
To each his own. I hold no grudge to women who prefer rich men.
Wear weave in peace and God bless.
Today, my brother just had to revive his wife of 26 years from a heart attack, it does not look good that she will make it. My point; she did not get a high value man but she did get a quality man. He was there when she needed him most, and she is not dying alone, but with a man who LOVED HER TO LIFE!
If she would of married a high value man she wouldn't be here today because he would be out paying for escorts for power and control.
What’s the update? Is she alright?
@@WakethBaketh She moved on to inhabit a new shell. Thanks for asking.
My condolences @Eric G
I'm so sorry for you and your brother's loss. I do agree with you. I married a regular, but good man. Don't regret it one bit. Settling is underated.
They don't want husbands, they want sponsors.
Agree
Submissive financiers!
Sponsorships implies men are getting something for their money; what are they getting? What they want is a man's wallet to use as their own personal ATM, at their disposal 24/7.....
@@guppy0112 if you ask them, they'll gladly tell you that you get THEM. And that's more than a fair deal.
That's if you ask THEM.
On the Divorce Court TV Show the judge asked one woman: why did you marry this man ? Without missing a beat she said: " He had a Check and Penis ".
Enuff said ?
I wish I Had heard these words 50 years ago. "You can choose the kind of life you have". Young men listen to Kevin. His words can change your life.
Agree with you, I am taking your advice Sir
Alot of these women call in thinking the host is gonna feel sorry for them and then baby talk them. Wrong show.
When a woman leads with her resume and college transcript. Exhibiting an aggressive, quarrelsome demeanor. It's already over. Therefore a waste of time and effort. Then she gets dismissed, ignored/ghosted.
People go on dates just to talk about their resume?
Late 20s black man here... Appreciate the info you really putting me on game Mr Samuels.. Future muti-millionaire and HVM but I'm not married but still desire a black woman.. But sista needs to step their game up
@Roy_Thousand facts bro I wait till I'm in HVM status
@freedom300 what the sistas in Crenshaw?
Any black men here 30+ who thinks likes this and living in The Netherlands 🇳🇱?!?! 😂😅 signed a slim BW
Lifeisfun84 no if your body count is in the double digits
@House Of Masculinity so it be best to get a young bw
Excuses
Blameshifting
No accountability
Deflection
That's the modern women for yall guy's especially black women
💯 I don't think you can add any more to the list! 😂
^^^^^^
@Thamfkn Boss show data
@Thamfkn Boss U just nailed the Deflection on the list👍😠
@@omarshaw9181 🎤50 Go Get The Gotdamn💥💥🔫Strap!!💯😎🤙🏽
I dont think I have ever enjoyed a YT show as much as this one....well done Kevin!!
Rip good father we all miss you there should been more man like him😪😪😪😪
What's interesting is I was talking about brother Kevin with my mom (married to my dad for 25 years before me) and she and I agreed with a lot of what you say. She and I didn't understand why people were mad that that brother said he was the prize.
I came to the realization that men don't really ask for much at the most basic level. Being a good husband or wife doesn't have to be so difficult when both are trying to be the best asset to their spouse and the world as much as possible.
Fit, feminine, Beautiful, submissive, friendly, agreeable, actually wants to help and not just be helped. Basic. Haven't even tapped into the hard stuff yet.
I've also realized that, as a human overall but especially a woman, that you get waaaaaay more out of life (and people) if you take responsibility and accountability with both hands. Power comes from responsibility so why women leave their power by the wayside to then gain negative masculine attributes is ridiculous and works against them.
Call me a pick me if you want. I'm Muslim and we like being picked 😂 I'll be married inside a year
Good luck Sis. Sounds like you will be a suitable bride for the right man.
If your married why are you on this high value male page if you Aleady have one
You forgot being a complete freak too, need great sexier else gonna get it from someone else
@@tmolarackz9412 I said my mother is married not me.
Kevin : what do you want?
Lady : companionship
Kevin: get a dog...(whip)
😂😂😂
Dogs are great companions.
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
he very clearly set her up for that... very predictable woman
"Like all millennials I've never been in a relationship." I'm a millennial and have had multiple relationships and I'm in a long term relationship now. Stop the excuses. Take a shower. Hit the treadmill. Get a clue. I have zero respect for women who make excuses for being obese and I have zero respect for men who make excuses for being broke.
Any millennial woman who isn’t ugly and has never been in a relationship was single by choice.
Preach!
Amen
Ive never been in a relationship.
i concur!!
“Who hurt you?”
KS: “yo mama, that’s who hurt me”
😂😂😂😂
He killed me with the "his place" thing lol. My shit was basic af and I was for sure surviving on Ramen and 12 pack Aldi brand polishes that cost 3 bucks. A good day was finding enough change in the couch to buy myself a cheeseburgers from McDonald's. It was mine though and I paid my rent and kept my lights on.
Hahaha same man, those times taught me the most
You are so right.
Kevin can talk over anyone...it's his show...yall don't understand how respect works. You in my house...on my show. Who makes the rules? The guest? I think not
Preeeaaaccchhh
Exactly!
Exactly. Oprah and Ellen don't let guests come on their shows and disrespect them or talk over them.
Why would Kevin allow it?
It’s because he is a man
Facts. No one over talks Letterman
This brother speaks an old school language. He has figured it out and now sharing, I salute you Sir. Please keep up the great work.
I'm loving it.
🌸🌸🌸
What happened in 1 generation? All the men and most the women spoke this frank and honest when I was a growing up in the 90s. And if your feelings got hurt from the truth. That was your ish, and a you problem! Not the messenger. Which is the case now in our hyper sensitive , everyone gets a trophy world.
Maybe its because im half latina so i had that influence growing up, but i never understood lazy women. I stay home because this is what my husband wants, but im doing stuff all day. I work 14 hours a day. Im up at 5am to make my husband breakfast and then im getting kids ready, cooking, cleaning, doing laundry. We own a small farm so im also doing farm chores. My work doesnt stop until 7 or 8 at night. Even right now, im listening to this while steam cleaning my couch. I only took a break to write this comment, then its back to it. On top of that, my family and i go to the gym and i workout with my husband 3 nights a week. So im working my butt off and still maintain 118lbs at 5'4". I also still take care of my skin and hair and dress nicely so my husband doesnt have to come home from a long day to an ugly bridge troll.
I actually see this laziness more with white women. I know a woman who has a sign in her home that says "dont mind the mess, my family is making memories". She has 1 kid and her house is a disaster. I have 3 kids and 2 large dogs, and my house is immaculate. What "memories" is her kid going to have of his mom when hes a grown man? I know other women who also stay home, and these women dont even get dressed in the morning. They dont even brush their hair. I dont even know how they are married, let alone how they got a man to put a baby in them. It makes me mad because they call me crazy for doing all of this for my husband, but at the end of the day, my marriage is still running strong after a decade while theirs is falling apart.
@Gus Fring Los Pollos Hermanos Chicken, Crystal Meth you serious man ? The girl is almost a unicorn and you still complainin ?
God bless the good men and woman of this 🌎. There is hope.
Sounds like the husband made a good choice. I’m happy for you guys 🙌🏾
Same I love my husband
@Gus Fring Los Pollos Hermanos Chicken, Crystal Meth get off her neck. She's pulling her weight. That's not her job unless absolutely necessary. She handling her business raising her family, his job is to provide so she can do so. Leave this woman alone.
Thankfully I’m not lazy. I work out 3-4x a week. For my mental health, physical health, and as a hobby. Im 27, 126lbs and 5’ 4” i would call myself submissive and have become sweeter w/ time. I am very fond of growing and bettering myself. No one is perfect and sometimes life can disrupt but it is not an excuse to let yourself go as a person.
I only wear make up on occasion, I’m starting to like dressing more modestly because I do not like cat calling or male gaze. Modesty is a form of self protection. Eat well, treat your body good and be as natural as possible to yourself. One thing I’ll say though is that I do wear wigs, and some are saying it’s lazy which can be the case but wearing wigs is just easier sometimes especially because I workout a lot I need to be able to fix my hair up quickly in between that, taking care of house hold duties and running errands. I’m conjunction to wearing wigs I do take care of my natural hair and wear breads as a protective style. The hair topic I believe is subjective because there are many uses for changing styles. Personally I have dry brittle hair so when it is in a protective style in between ha big my hair out, I am able to care for it better and low manipulation helps w/ hair growth.
I do believe the wigs should look closer to your natural hair for day to day looks
I haven’t always been this but I have been working on myself all my life throughout the trials and tribulations. I love what Kevin is doing for our community, it is realistic and it will bring us much more value. I encourage everyone don’t lose hope there is ALWAYS room for improvement as a person we are not robots.
Above all please put God first, this is the greatest of foundations
You don't need the wigs. There are plenty of us out here that are actually attracted to natural hair. Either way, you sound very balanced, and that's refreshing.
Really hard to believe that he's no longer with us smh rest easy sir until we meet again
One of a kind. We will not see another KS in our lifetime
Omg Kevin I absolutely agree with you 100 percent ladies pay attention to your self care and appearance
Rest well Godfather! Solid gold and evergreen content!
My sisters had half their thyroid taken out. Cutting carbs, bread, pasta, rice and other grains helped one of them lose weight. That is go keto paleo and exercise. Thyroid and hormone problems are related to diet. Black women have higher estrogen levels which causes them to gain weight, have thyroid and fibroid problems. Eating foods that lower estrogen such as cruciferous veggies, weight training , a lot of cardio ( good for preventing thyroid and fibroid problems) and cutting carbs can help a lot. Focus on your health so you can age gracefully and healthy without getting those dietary diseases. One hour of working out will not kill you.
Plus kill the attitude. Being combative, loud and highly sensitive will not make your life enjoyable. Read the 4 agreements which will help with the need to be always right and argumentative. This goes for both sexes.
Well stated.
You referring to the book by Don Miguel Ruiz? If so, I agree. Quick read and powerful.
Poor eating habits
@waking people up is hard to do wow how much did you consume? It has to be quite a lot. You could have had thyroid nodules for quite a long time. Did you also take sea kelp for iodine? This balances everything out.
theyre gonna get worse. Carbs are what humans have been eating for ever. The FAT is what is making people FAT
but people are too dumb to see that HIGH FAT DIETS MAKE YOU FAT
(I eat plenty of carbs, pasta, rice and look fabulous and I'm in great health and fitness)
Kevin’s suits are impeccable!! Dude stay fly you can tell the Quality in them
Do you think they fit right though. He looks uncomfortable because it appears he cannot move.
@@chicarobertson4706 they're tailored for his body so in sure he's comfortable. You can tell tailored from off the shelf crap.
I haven't had a suit in 17 years...But kevin got me back to loosing 25lbs and getting 4 bad ass suits!!💪💪💪🔥
@@chicarobertson4706 His suits are expensive! .. I'm sure they're soft and comfortable! 😎
🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂
I can’t help but laugh to keep from crying 🤦🏽♀️
cause im 46 and that my genX Sista was embarrassing!
Keep speaking the truth Sir✊🏾
I’ve been saying this FOREVER...y’all look so much more appealing with little to no makeup....but why listen to me....I’m just a MAN
That part is too deep for them to get it 😥
FACTZ.....😐😑 I'm 27 years old coming up and hardly ever wore makeup except for my senior pics and my prom I got pretty skin and still don't wear makeup all I need to do is fix my hair up put on a little lip gloss to get my eyebrows done it without even a little an extra extra I still get it😊🙄 we really need to learn how to start bringing old beauty back pronto
@@paulabarnes233 These women don't care, They think it's cute wearing layers of makeup on.
@@princess__blueberry1775 not only does it crack their skin and takes away their natural beauty but they go to f*** around looking like Pennywise and Ronald McDonald like s***🙄😑
"We don't wear make up to please you". If I had a dollar for every time I was told that lol. Like I love that natural look, ain't nothing like it.
It’s so crazy how on point you are with this personality type. I have a female friend who fits everything to a tee…even within her responses. She responds exactly how you say she will. She’s overweight, a single mom and doesn’t work out at all. If I’m being honest, when she gets off work, she spends her entire evening on the couch, eating and watching tv. If I tell her that not many men want her and it’s going to be hard to find the type of man she wants, she tells me it’s not fair to say that. She says I’m being negative. She has this empty hope that one day some guy will come along and just want to take care of her and her kid. She hasn’t found it yet or even come close, she just thinks it’s going to happen one day. She also tells men that she won’t care if they leave because her son comes before him. I’m honestly reconsidering being friends with her. It’s just hard to interact with her because she’s so delusional. Whenever I prove a point to her, she finds a bunch of ways to disregard it.
Cut her off
Fat and lazy is contagious
All he’s doing is asking women to raise their value or simply desire men on their level; which is the same standard that he sets for men. But for some reason it seems like the majority of women who call into the show have a problem with self improvement or appreciation for our men. It’s scary and baffling.
U nailed it... they think we cant tell
Agree
Yes this shit out here is scary 😨
Now you get a small glimpse in the life of a Black man navigating picking a woman
Weight loss happens when you cut back on the portion size of your meals and never, ever eating seconds and thirds. It doesn’t take mounds of food on your plate to feel full and satisfied.
It also helps considerably when you remove soda, added sugar and processed foods from your diet. When you do this, that extra weight will disappear in no time. Also, avoid eating desert every night. Eat sweets in moderation.
While exercise is important, you can lose weight without exercising. It takes self-control and saying no to overeating, period.
They think its genetics lol
Definitely. I lost 80lbs in less than a year just by portion control and cutting out soda and chips.
@@cmsmith1031 There you go!! Weight loss can be achieved if you are resolved with dogged determination to be healthy and look your best. Good for you!
@@cmsmith1031 That’s how you do it. Corey. Keep up the good work. There's nothing like being a fit and slender person.
@@watchvidz7162 Genetics might be a component of obesity, but genetics can be tweaked a little when it comes to weight loss. Just stop eating so much and being tempted by everything in sight that looks good. Just say NO.
Kevin is right. I got married when I was a Junior in college, the best thing I did. My friends thought I was crazy, crazy as a fox. Now most of them are still single, the others are divorce and the divorce women friends are bitter as hell. The divorce husbands married women remarried women half their age.
why you hanging with divorced and bitter folk?
@@triplemoyagames4195 right! ?? I stopped hanging with my divorced and my miserable single friends. We have nothing in common plus i don't want that energy spilling over in my marriage.
Her comment is honing in on the forests, not the trees.
Just like a women making herself out to be victorious but still putting down everyone around them to make her feel special
@@shootermcgavin214 she just saying right! Remember these divorced single miserable women are in the schools teaching your children! Facts! Imagine how mean these women are to the students.
Some of these sistas...Smh. Kevin, since you mentioned in the video, I think it's just about time to drop that video with women of other ethnicities. I really don't think some sistas truly realize how serious some Asian, Hispanic, and White women in regards to finding a HVM and the lengths they will go to keep one. It would definitely be an eye-opener for some sistas.
I have personally observed what these women do to get and keep their men! They are ruthless and persistent!!!
A woman that has a lot to loose will Kill a side chick HERSELF even tho she knows her husband is cheating. They are not & Will Not leave their husbands!!
As far as the international travel thing goes, they want a celebrity, that's what is really considered high value to them.
I want a motivated, career oriented, family oriented man who has plans for his life but acts in a spontaneous romantic fashion who will provide me a nice home in a nice neighborhood to stay at home with our children but fund my business ideas with lots of travel.
In other words, I want five men and a nanny.
Suit looking sharp Godfather.
With that black tie 🙌🏾 yes
He came for the blue gang thoo🔵🔵
Another good one from this brother!!! He'll be missed!!!
Kevin has been 100% correct and I'm glad someone is shining the light on these topics.
I think it’s ok for women to live with their family until they get married. Hopefully the woman has been developing herself. Many traditional families especially out east... it’s normal to remain with the family until marriage.
It's also normal for the males to remain at the family home until married. Only in the West is that practice frowned upon.
Ghost Killer you sound stupid. This is exactly why black women are so masculine now SMDH
Ghost Killer terrible dad. A little 18 year old daughter cant make grown man living. That’s only gonna make her masculine. She gonna be bringing strange men to her house. I don’t give a damn if you was 15 and moved out ... you supposed to provide a better life for kids than you had
That's our typical culture here in the Caribbean
@@slygeebee7575 when corporations need young target markets to be intertwined in their webs they incentivize independence and make it seem possible and affordable for younger age individuals to get out and do it on their own and have some sort of pride as their reward . Now, like the Pavlov effect, the incentive has slowly died away, and now independence is just a pride thing.
Why can’t people just listen and do their research after. Why do they care about what Kevin says and want to correct him? I always worry about my weight if I get a bit chubby. My mother would never shut up if I gained weight even my step mother is on my little sister. I don’t know if it is a Jamaican thing but some of those older women who value their beauty, ( both my mom and step mom are hot especially my size 4 mom who was an 8-9), won’t hold their tongue when their daughters get fat or carry themselves badly.
I never home without lipstick 💄 pre-COVID even to the corner store. As I get older, I want to be like Angela Bassett, Wendy Ida and Ernestine Shepherd.
I’m into the As Pretty as Possible at all times movement.
I'm from India....same story here....family, friends , neighbours...everyone will comment on your weight. ....keeps things in check. My mother always says...don't walk out looking like you got no parents at home.
Same here haha my mom would let me know 😂 and I’d take action.
I'm African American and my elders have never held their tongue about my weight. I'm into holistic health so weight isn't a problem that I battle with but some years ago I was a bit greedy.
Indeed. Even my parents, they never said "pretty as possible." But "never leave the house without making yourself presentable."
True
Even my dad said I was getting too plump
A lady from my church and even old coworkers
I’m 5’5 and about 148 now
I had a baby in July and was 180 at my heaviest
I’m proud of myself and still have more weight to shed....
I used to be a size 2 but that was after gymning twice per day and a super super strict diet
Normally I should be 135 and I’m reaching for that
I eat healthy though
Maybe 2-3 cookies a day but fruits vegetables and lean meat and fish
No pop or Gatorade
My mom is 60 and is in better shape than me
We both can fit a size 6 jeans
"I want companionship!" - Get a dog. *slap*
I was on the floor when he said that
Some women don't need to be told that. Some women get dogs specifically just for that. They call themselves Dog Moms to fill the void of where actual motherhood should be. Sad thing is, a lot of them are hot too.
Whaaaap!
@@StageInTheSkyCreations yeah it's sad, pet mom's. Treating animals like people.
😂😂😂
Kevin asked the pivotal question. How can a woman claim to be about the community but has no interest in children.or a family? This is insanity.
GOD Bless you Kevin you are saving our women. Black women have been brainwashed, I don't totally blame them for the issues we have. Thank for help the black community unity and saving women.
Please protect this man at all cost. Society will be coming for him.
"Champagne taste, on a beer budget " !!
Kevin, i think you are doing a great service here. you hold men and women accountable on your channel to the highest degree. as a man who's working to become high value - this is something i very much appreciate. don't stop what your doing our community needs it. Thank you.
Miss you kevin, I remember my Grandmother, class, pride, & poor, she went to school , and put down pmt, on 3 houses & mortgage pmts for her kids, until they got on the feet, & we all took from thier and made her proud. 🙏🏾👏🏾
Kevin is what Patrice O’Neal may have became if he managed to get his life together. Very sharp takes on the culture. 🙌🏾
I hear this comparison every time... Rip Patrice 🙏
It's called .. "Thinking with your brain and not your mind control programming!" 🤯 🧠
Patrice did do it, check out Opie & Anthony !!
I've would have loved for them to have an conversation on air.
Patrice was the truth! He started all this! Tom Leykis also!
Kevin; I’ve never subscribed on TH-cam in my life until today! You are the first person worth subscribing to, thank you!
Are you saying I am not worth subscribing to?
Swap meet wig took me out! 🤣
I go to Planet Fitness and it cost $10.00 a month. Many people spend that a day on their morning coffee and doughnut!!! There are no excuses Ladies. Just plain Laziness and no motivation nor discipline. It is not attractive to men. The gym I go to is a black area and filled with Latinos and whites. I am super disappointed in the majority of Sistas!!
They don't like to work out because it sweats out their wigs/weaves & dudes will bang them even though they are fat.
I go to planet fitness as well and I notice, I don't see a lot of sistas either, my fiance' would be the only one a lot of times when we went together
You don't even need to go to the gym. The price that you pay for a purse or shoes could start a home gym.
I go to Planet Fitness too and even though it's not heavily populated with us in there, I do see that more of the ones coming are actually heavier and trying to turn things around. I do see a few of us do the cardio and weight machines, but not nearly like the brothers or white men.
Spoilt two awl hell
I just want to say thank you to Mr Samuels. For the first time I have realized that my value is higher than I thought especially when it come to the SMV. At nearly 44 I made it and continue to establish myself as a man of high value. No longer will I accept women of low value because like you say I have options. Thank you for what you do and depressing the truth.
I agree 100%. There are no "if, and's or but's) imo. My Dad encouraged me to attend college & get a degree in a field that I enjoyed. Never did he say "get a master's degree". He always told me that I was beautiful & nurtured me. I love being physically attractive. I didn't wear make-up (outside of lipstick) until I made 49 last year. I am getting myself together so that I can choose the right man to be with for the rest of my life. Watch out world because Kevin has upgraded my perspective. Thank you.
Sweetheart, you were saying all the right things until... Saying "I can choose the right man"..... When in reality, men control access to marriage, and will choose you. Stay positive, and keep great vibes!
I wonder if you ever got ur self together so hopefully one will notice you and hopefully THEY will choose yo dusty ass. After a year now, how’s it working for you?
Kevin I’m so glad you’re telling the truth, because that means their is hope for the ones who listen and have the courage to change.
A few girls I went to college with all married older guys 30+ and they seem to be the happiest of women I went to school with
Because the man is a provider. Is been proven that women that have a provider 💯 percent providers they are happier
Kevin your making me so weak, in the beginning when you were taking about the wigs 🤣🤣
You don't understand! I was driving. I thought is it safe for me to listen while driving??!
its_ muta no abort abort mission 🤣
Melissa Unicorn and that’s on everything 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@DutchessKay Change channel or park! 😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
This man "IS" a masterpiece!!!!
I love to see a woman that does her own hair! That is super attractive!
awww!
Bro I kno what ur sayin
Exactly.... what the French toast happen to that. Hot combs, curling irons, rollers, when we could actually touch they head wtf 🤷♂️
Thanks!! 😁👍🏾
@@S.T.G43 My husband says the same thing. He calls it burning hair when my daughter and I do our hair! We stopped going to the salon 2 years ago. We do our own nails and hair again!
I’ve been weave free for almost five years and my hair is to my armpits
I also stopped making excuses and I keep my weight in CHECK
what you won’t do another woman will
That's right
I slowed down with the weave too , but black men always ask me stuff like when I’m getting my hair done . Like tf
@@chanel123ful 😭🤦🏿♀️
@@chanel123ful this is true 😂 whether it’s a twist out, silk press, extensions, wig, braids, or whatever different men like different things. I can do it all. I take care of my natural hair.
@J B - Congratulations.....keep up the good work!
They want high value men at a discount. They want Bugatti’s and Bentley’s at Hyundai Sonata prices
Lmfaoooooo i work at a dealership so this shit is funny
Stop I have a sonata 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
What Kevin said he's very very sad but absolutely 100% true.
It's really sad Kevin all the kick back from these Black Women. When I ran across your show, I said, nothing I have to watch the show and see if the content fits my life and where I trying to go. So I've watched over 30 of Mr. Samuel shows. I love that a brother has to developed a great content that we need. Fight it all you want, if you want to have a Healthy and long relationship (listen) first. I don't have to call him or check him, about Information he took the time to gathered Marriage information. Great show again!
That hair comment is definitely true. I love women with natural hair that gets done!
Laziest profession is plus size model. Literally a job you get paid to just wake up and put on makeup. Don't have to workout or diet, and ironically if you lost weight and became a healthy size, your modeling career would end.
It wouldn’t end, but it is a lazy profession. Plus size models would just go into being regular models once the weight is lost.
Plus size model... The dream job of most every woman I've ever met. Seriously, I know so many men who work out on a routine basis their whole lives but women do it in spurts at best. I'll never understand it.
@@masonflowers9740 negative. Do you think a plus size model has the looks to be a regular size model. A plus size model has the looks of an average woman.
@@masonflowers9740 no they would not. there have been interviews where they say the put on even more weight to maintain their jobs
@@lamarkiuscox9016 FACTS!
Screeching halt!! I've been trying to find a woman around my age 53 and Kevin you are right they are very delusional.
That is sooooo true. We were dirt poor growing up but one thing about my mom she ALWAYS made sure we were clean and not a hair out of place.
I know! You’re embarrass not only your whole family buy every black person in the neighborhood if you went out looking trashy
That brother was sharp and SOLID!! Miss Mr Samuels sooo much. RIP Sir👍🏿
1:51:35 I can't breathe! Aunt Irene looking like Big Lutha. 😂😂😭 RIH GODFATHER 🙏🏾💯
I love this show! Thank you for giving me the perspective I was never told but it all makes so much sense to me now!!😳🤯
This is better than anything on television because it's based on Facts and rooted in Progressiveness
Yes.I heard you loud and clear
Agree
I have a job where you travel internationally 4-5x a year.
I work for the Department of Homeland Security.
I totally agree that if I want a particular type of partner then I should be able to to offer things comparable. If I want someone who is fit and takes care of themselves then I too should be fit and take care of myself.
Friday Nights are just not the same 😢
The careers which allow men to travel internationally for business multiple times per yer tend to be the World Bank & (International) Development Banks, etc.
Careers in tech and real estate (especially commercial) allow you to have the time/flexibility to travel too
Media Mafia also, they're always jet-setting from one side of the world to the other (especially when wars break out- as nothing sells like bad news, remember).
Yeah I agree with your video. I’m 26 and 5’5 and weigh 165. And I’m slowing losing weight. I finally can fit a size 12. All I been doing is running a lot on the treadmill. And working out at the gym I barely see black women in my gym.
Eat fruits veggies no juice Gatorade pop chips or cookies
Fruit for dessert low fat yogurt w almonds instead of ice cream
Weight will melt off
Plus ur young at 26...
Good for you and keep up good work
Losing weight is 15% exercise and 85% diet. Check out intermittent fasting and keto, it work❤️
Weight training helps you lose weight fast than cardio itself.
One of the biggest issues, is women don’t correct women, they’re forever in support even when it’s wrong which just continues the behavior......it’s a reason why good looking women run in circles with good looking women and not so good looking one run with not so good looking 🤷🏾♂️
Exactly.
As a woman I can attest that being a woman and delivering the same message does not elicit a different result lmao, they still don’t like to hear the truth or answer direct questions.
Exactly. We are going to "empower" our people to an Early grave
Women dont correct other women for the reason you avoid them as well. They start getting loud, profanity and say who hurt you? I can only save myself, not them
Sis.. If you see this comment, I suggest you get to a neuropath, get your hormones balanced, implement intermittent fasting with healthy keto and do Tabata.. It works wonders for me.. I'm down 74 pounds!!
I love this guy! Hair-brained schemes, lazy, entitled women, losers, set in their ways! Genius insight! He tells it like it is. Some females hate him, because they don't realize that he holds them accountable for once, big difference between honesty and a jerk. He's actually doing them the biggest favor by forcing them to face the truth, so they can actually improve.
Yep .. Kevin's a real class act! .. I've changed everything around in my life! 😎🙏🏽
@@MisTracy39TheVeganLady good for you! Few women these days that are eligible will take any responsibility and henceforth improvement. Are you now single, whole and ready to marry and have children?
Some of these women see you as a challenge and it’s obvious they just want to debate.
I love your show. At 1:42:00 It is the Pareto Principle, named after economist Vilfredo Pareto, specifies that 80% of consequences come from 20% of the causes.
Yooo!! I called the wigs helmets too 😂 we got to chill before that shit starts trending🤣
"Oh my god" holy smokes... your absolutely right, I googled " black women of the 50's and was totally and forever changed.... what a difference between yesteryears and today for black females, and men for that matter, I did notice the guys unlike myself all seemed to be dressed like yourself and not many being "High Value" in those days. Thanks for what you do Keep up the good work and I admire you for not getting swept up in what other TH-camrs say about you. Again thanks for keeping it real...from a very happy beta male.
Women are too concerned with the messenger than the message, emotionally charged over Kevin's tone instead of heeding what he's saying which is true. Plenty of videos put so much into perspective for me but my friends might die alone...lol because they aren't receptive to the real truth.
I absolutely agree!!
Yea. I don't always agree with everything he says but most of it is spot on.
Crazy thing is they know this