What If...? How Would I Live As A Young Man Today ©

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  • @OnlyJayBoss
    @OnlyJayBoss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2278

    Came back to this video after hearing about his passing … men we gotta level up and live by what he taught - forget about these women - boss your life up because they’ll always be here but you won’t - rest godfather you did your part 🙏🏾

    • @camonthekeys
      @camonthekeys 2 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      Agreed man, we can’t let his teachings go in vein. He always wanted us as men to be the best version of ourselves financially, physically, and mentally. Now it’s time we live up to that 💯

    • @PandaCoasters
      @PandaCoasters 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      "they’ll always be here but you won’t"
      Damn, what a revelation.

    • @danielrodgers8780
      @danielrodgers8780 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I can’t believe he passed 😔

    • @danielrodgers8780
      @danielrodgers8780 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      But I agree. We need to do that he taught and level up!🔥💪💯

    • @chopitup4027
      @chopitup4027 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too my brother!!!

  • @DrJosephKim7
    @DrJosephKim7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2143

    What he said here to young men "work at least 60 hours a week or more" is such golden advice. Even at minimum wage, 60-70 hrs a week with good investing can literally change a young man's life in less than 10 years. Believe me ages 25 to 35 go quick, very quick.

    • @jamesrichardson8379
      @jamesrichardson8379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +213

      @El Truco 60hrs a week at a job is just 5 days of 12hr shifts a week bruh. That sht is lowkey fun cus it keeps you busy, and feels very progressive.
      Plus its fool proof. Men are made to work. If you have a minimally physical job, them 12hrs just feel like simple money.

    • @jtotherg3451
      @jtotherg3451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      All Facts

    • @fevrenevanescence6901
      @fevrenevanescence6901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@jamesrichardson8379 it depends on what you do tho, if you work from home

    • @torachan23
      @torachan23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +205

      I make 15 dollars an hour and I work at least 73 hours every week, and sometimes 80-90. Along with the time and a half and taking more hours on the weekend, on a good month I take home $5,000 after taxes. I've been doing this since late August, and I'm on track to pay off my major debt going into 2022.
      If I can keep this up until June of 2022, I'll have a nice nest egg and be able to invest more. I wouldn't have started working this much if I didn't listen to Kevin's shows where he was talking to men.

    • @hirambrown669
      @hirambrown669 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @El Truco If they are already working that hard, then they don't need to watch his show. They are already on their purpose.

  • @Deshawn1
    @Deshawn1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1120

    Time stamps

    0:00 Pre show songs, 🎵 Keep on talking by Lionel Quick 🎵
    1:55 🎵 Kiss the Ring (For all the PHD's) by Halyte 🎵
    3:31 🎵 Good lies by Vividry 🎵
    6:32 🎬 Show starts, Candle of the evening One hotel Brooklyn, Fragrance of the evening Oud for greatness
    9:27 Monologue, How would I live as a young man today? Along with explanation of three male archetypes
    51:10 📱 1st Caller Anthony age 27 2nd Caller age 36
    1:06:29 3rd Caller Jonny age 29 4th Caller age 31
    1:17:17 5th Caller age 26 6th Caller Martin age 28
    1:24:32 7th Caller age 32 8th Caller age 28
    1:36:19 9th Caller Gary age 38 10th Caller age 21
    1:45:10 11th Caller age 22 12th Caller age 28
    1:52:08 13th Caller age 39 14th Caller age 24
    1:57:47 15th Caller age 32 16th Caller age 23
    2:13:50 17th Caller age 25 Matthew 18th Caller age 27
    2:21:28 19th Caller age 26 20th Caller Wolf age 30
    2:29:50 21st Caller age 21 Bless
    2:33:51 Closing Song

    • @jonathanmarvens
      @jonathanmarvens 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      The real MVP 💪🏾

    • @mrdeecroft3114
      @mrdeecroft3114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Thanks bro

    • @R.T.12
      @R.T.12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      SUPER MVP

    • @gabriellahcorleone132
      @gabriellahcorleone132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Thanks for the timestamps! I watched the live show but my man was at work and missed it. I still can't get over the guy from Detroit. He kind of threw a temper tantrum.

    • @p.IvanCornejo
      @p.IvanCornejo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you

  • @TeamMD0
    @TeamMD0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +478

    Don’t be afraid to be apart of the hit squad fellas. I did it myself for 5 years as a truck driver (60k) now I’m a HENRY, as a software engineer (250k). I’m only 27. My best piece of advice is to plan out what you want to be and do and then work your plan….relentlessly. Need to be working 6 days a week. If you’re not at your job working then you need to be working on your goal in your free time.

    • @luiginocharles9990
      @luiginocharles9990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That's how it should be, I'm 18 making 2M a year. Just be patient.

    • @TeamMD0
      @TeamMD0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@luiginocharles9990 nice ! E-commerce ?

    • @GHOST-cr2je
      @GHOST-cr2je 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@luiginocharles9990 Bro I’m 18 and I would appreciate it if you gave me advice on how you did that

    • @mo8969
      @mo8969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@luiginocharles9990 curious digital business?

    • @andjohn7912
      @andjohn7912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Planed to becoming a software engineer too then start a business later when I gained more knowledge

  • @ThorMaximus
    @ThorMaximus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    Everything he says-roommates, leverage before women, career skills, network, physique & physical, it’s all 100% true. It takes years and failures, but it’s so worth itx

  • @MikeLitirous
    @MikeLitirous 3 ปีที่แล้ว +771

    This is by far one of the most important lives Kevin has had. Its a complete guide full of gems for young men to follow to become successful and the best version of themselves. I KNOW many men watching weren’t told most of this by their fathers/ men around them so this live is VITAL

    • @jatall2797
      @jatall2797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Agreed!!!!

    • @brofessormex
      @brofessormex 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      We need more of this. Coach Greg Adams is diving into the financial advice tip. Which I love. Kevin's advice is in line with minority mindset channel. And I'm looking forward to seeing myself as I think about myself. We can't have guns in Germany. Imagine that.

    • @evanatbri-s13
      @evanatbri-s13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He has one very similar but quite more detailed - something like "what your father should of teach you". Its really really good video. Especially the last 20-30 minutes.

    • @christian6455
      @christian6455 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Definitely made me feel better

    • @DaForgottenGentleman
      @DaForgottenGentleman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@evanatbri-s13 saw that one... dude had to literally tell niggas WASH YO ASS!!!

  • @jabbarirby7812
    @jabbarirby7812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +366

    This one was gold. Unfortunately, it probably won't get the views but this is an example of the conversations that we all should've had with our fathers.

  • @chriss6945
    @chriss6945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1302

    I wholeheartedly agree with everything Kevin said in this video.
    I’m currently 30. I haven’t had a “wolf pack” since senior year of high school. I finished college, created side businesses, paid off all my student loans, got 2 paid off cars and purchased a house last year all on my own.
    I do agree with Kevin saying that people need people and that having friends Is important. I never really had that since high school. Tried to be friends with other men, but they were never really my taste.
    I’m used to being alone and doing things by myself at this point… but it would be cool to meet a few like minded men I could get along with.

    • @nigelcardoso7653
      @nigelcardoso7653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      What type of career do have?

    • @chriss6945
      @chriss6945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@jasonphilips4731 I’ll keep that in mind. Thanks.

    • @chriss6945
      @chriss6945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@nigelcardoso7653 I work in marketing

    • @Genjuro22
      @Genjuro22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I've been blessed with a core group of friends who fit high value. It was accidental but they say you are the average of your friends.

    • @DebraMonae
      @DebraMonae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Chris hopefully you will get connected with some men who are driven and focused. I don't know you but for me being around people who have things in common with me keep my interest. Happy holidays...

  • @msmika951
    @msmika951 3 ปีที่แล้ว +786

    I am a single mom and my oldest is turning 18 next year. I made sure I sent him this video. Thank you KS, you are teaching young men the things we can't. Priceless.

    • @kwameopoku3576
      @kwameopoku3576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      U beautiful luv from uk

    • @01..........
      @01.......... 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      As a man we appreciate you giving your kid good advice 💯 👍👍

    • @msmika951
      @msmika951 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@01.......... thank you! I really want to see the black community win, and that won't happen without our black men winning. I gotta start at home.

    • @SkeezyGN
      @SkeezyGN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      W mom ❤️

    • @fevrenevanescence6901
      @fevrenevanescence6901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cap

  • @daniel__emil
    @daniel__emil 2 ปีที่แล้ว +451

    I miss this man more than words can express. The impact he made in my life still amazes me. I will not let you down, godfather. Rest easy, big man.

    • @ArielBerloto
      @ArielBerloto 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      " I will not let you down, godfather" , That's a great way to put it. Me too.

    • @daniel__emil
      @daniel__emil 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@ArielBerloto Stay at it, brother.

    • @Jayy_CAMP
      @Jayy_CAMP 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@daniel__emil 🙏🏽💯

    • @rafiki172
      @rafiki172 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lost my way a bit, but concurr.☝R I P

    • @prolificseeker4778
      @prolificseeker4778 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No kidding💯

  • @mysteryschoolofplanetki8983
    @mysteryschoolofplanetki8983 3 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    This by far the best role model I have to emulate I’m 22 and do HVAC and the tips you give are soooo essential to become a real provider and protector for my family and myself

    • @CASHGOTJUICE
      @CASHGOTJUICE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same here this was a helpful episode forreal 🙏🏾

    • @jasonbenham9338
      @jasonbenham9338 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Keep it up king.

    • @kingamir7487
      @kingamir7487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Keep it up good brother get certified learn all you can and if you want open your own thing doing HVAC you can do it and actually hire your own people. Instead of most of these low budget entrepreneurs that be mad at Kevin for speaking facts.

    • @Thee_Publicist
      @Thee_Publicist 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Great career choice sir! Best wishes to you as your build the future you want for yourself and family 🥂

    • @teemuhammad6899
      @teemuhammad6899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great job!!

  • @jdom01354
    @jdom01354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    To my young men.
    A man is like a train, it takes time to get the wheels moving. If a girl wants to join you she is going to have to jump on while the train is moving because a train doesn't have brakes. You can't stop to let her on because you will have to start all over getting the wheels moving again.

    • @levikainalu5825
      @levikainalu5825 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Great advice right here! I was one who stopped my train, I must admit it’s HARD creating momentum with a woman onboard once you stop. They naturally want the momentum for themselves and then get upset if you ignore them for yourself (but are also attracted to that and will fight you to see if it’s genuine… a lot of headache!)

    • @laughattack1204
      @laughattack1204 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I make money with trading, but I get why people make fun of it. They should really make a law that no more than 10% of the economy can be automated. Without a free economy, jobs will always remain necessary to our lives and the future. Automating everything, making a few rich, and reducing the population is a bad idea. Select businesses could be more automated, but lack of physical connection leads to a lesser life. Everyone can do better, but I'm not looking foward to eating bugs, every financial market revolving around bitcoin, no uprising, the politicians have a lot to answer for. I mean, we didn't make feminism, destroy the justice system, create inflation, start Covid, etc, etc.

  • @parvinjeyabalan4727
    @parvinjeyabalan4727 3 ปีที่แล้ว +344

    When Kevin says "OK, lets go down that path", you best be prepared to get schooled. All jokes aside, a very good show, I personally learnt a lot today.

    • @BPTtech
      @BPTtech 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wonder where Kevin’s mom is…

    • @BPTtech
      @BPTtech 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ya think Kevin’s dad signed his birth certificate?

    • @naeem9795
      @naeem9795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I rub my hands together like Birdman

    • @tashnix9987
      @tashnix9987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I get nervous for the caller every time he says that lol

    • @mr.duanesharpe
      @mr.duanesharpe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@BPTtech seriously. I mean. My guy. If you’re gonna make a comment please please please don’t sound like a chick. Gat damn. You have no value to what you’re saying. I mean at this point you’re just taking shots and why? Emotional? You’re dismissed.

  • @popmop1234
    @popmop1234 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    13:13: 💼 The video discusses the importance of understanding one's masculine archetype and style personality for young men in their 20s to 30s.
    13:13: There are three masculine archetypes: refined, rugged, and rake.
    15:41: Understanding one's archetype helps in aligning image and lifestyle choices.
    16:24: The speaker identifies as a refined archetype with a European style personality.
    17:23: Young men often make the mistake of dressing too young for their age.
    18:02: 💪 In this video, the speaker gives advice to young men on how to succeed in life, including living in a major city, finding a supportive network, investing in personal development, and learning self-defense.
    18:02: Living in a major city, preferably one with public transportation and density, is important for young men between the ages of 21 and 35.
    19:12: Having roommates and splitting the cost of living can make living in expensive cities more affordable.
    19:36: Being flexible and willing to move to where the opportunities are is crucial for success.
    21:24: Investing in both hard and soft skills is important, with the full-time job paying for core skill sets and the part-time job paying for personal development and networking.
    22:07: Building a supportive network of like-minded individuals in similar industries can open doors and create opportunities.
    22:45: Spending only a small percentage of time dealing with romantic relationships and being cautious about unplanned pregnancies is advised.
    24:05: Taking care of physical fitness and learning self-defense, such as martial arts and firearm training, is crucial for personal safety.
    26:05: Living in a world where personal security is important, having non-lethal and lethal self-defense tools is recommended.
    28:38: Carrying oneself with confidence and avoiding confrontations is key, as trained individuals tend to avoid physical altercations.
    30:10: Investing in personal development, including physical fitness and self-defense, is essential for young men to succeed in life.
    30:58: ! The importance of building a network and investing in personal development as a young man.
    30:58: Having a coach or mentor is important for personal and professional development.
    32:00: Being socially adept is crucial for success in the world.
    32:28: Understanding the risks and experiences when dealing with women.
    33:47: Consider long-term relationships and marriage after 35 for high earners.
    38:42: Choose to be in the top 20% and invest in personal development and financial growth.
    39:54: Allocate budget for clothing and dating separately from primary expenses.
    41:55: Focus on building a social network for opportunities.
    42:43: Being a solitary rogue agent is not effective for success.
    43:01: Develop a network and become known in your city.
    43:06: 💼 The speaker advises young men to focus on building their professional network and becoming successful before considering marriage.
    43:06: Build a professional network and become successful before considering marriage.
    46:46: Live in a city with an NBA, NFL, and MLB franchise.
    48:20: Focus on physical health and personal grooming.
    49:28: Consider seeking arrangements or hiring sugar babies if financially successful.
    53:29: Live for yourself and prioritize your own happiness.
    54:48: Don't take on financial responsibilities for family members.
    55:37: Don't rely on dating apps, improve your style and social skills.
    55:50: Don't come across as beta or dependent on others.
    56:38: 🗣 The host confronts a caller who is stuck in a victim mentality and offers advice on therapy and self-improvement.
    56:38: The caller is stuck in a victim mentality and blames his mother for his current situation.
    58:55: The caller admits to not knowing his father and has never pursued finding him.
    59:25: The host advises the caller to seek therapy and work on his thinking patterns.

    • @stanopltd
      @stanopltd 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you.

    • @mikewest557
      @mikewest557 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How did you do this pls, will be surprised if you did this manually!

    • @BlackSheepMedia101
      @BlackSheepMedia101 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks

  • @everydayclassics4578
    @everydayclassics4578 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    22 years old made 30k so far this year wholesaling real estate, glad I’m taking this type of content serious and applying it to my life 🔑

    • @joonjonjew
      @joonjonjew 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      30k really nothing 😂

    • @cole7276
      @cole7276 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@joonjonjew he said this year. He made almost 8k a month so far

    • @TRUSTYOSELFMEL
      @TRUSTYOSELFMEL 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joonjonjew wow your a joke

    • @YungL.i.X.
      @YungL.i.X. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good shit keep going

    • @nathanfoss766
      @nathanfoss766 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Anyone here in Texas? Looking to start the wolf pack

  • @knowledgegad1294
    @knowledgegad1294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +470

    I’m a barber who’s trying to take my life to the next level, and your show is motivation for me. It keeps me grounded and purpose driven. Thanks for being a true elder who teach but also hold people accountable....

    • @MAR2264419
      @MAR2264419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm thinking about going to school to get my barbering license is it worth it?

    • @djbabbotstown
      @djbabbotstown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This guy is giving golden advice here for young men. For free.

    • @CappuccinoTX
      @CappuccinoTX 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm thinking about getting into barbering as well, do you have any advice?

    • @Meetoss76
      @Meetoss76 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I am a barber since 2004. I Love wat I do however it's up and down. You won't get rich just enuff to maintain. You hav to pay booth rent weekly. No weekends off. I do well but I said all that to say I'm getting my CDL liscence and Upgrading my Money and Lifestyle!

    • @knowledgegad1294
      @knowledgegad1294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@CappuccinoTX you either go to school for 6 to 10 months, or start buying barber tools one by one. Buy the whole set if you can buy it. Start practicing on yourself family members or friends. Find a barbershop in your area where you can work under a professional so you can get your 1,500 hours to get a certificate

  • @threeriversforge1997
    @threeriversforge1997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +484

    Network is critical. I'm the guy KS is talking about -- solo from the get go. It has absolutely killed me. It came about from being betrayed or let down time after time in my younger days, so I figured it would be better to just handle things on my own. After awhile, it becomes so ingrained in you that you just can't break the cycle. Running solo sounds cool and there are some perks, but now that I'm 20 years down the road.... I can see just how bad it's left me.

    • @kamekings
      @kamekings 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Never to late man. Cool thing about men. If you have a hobby that other men do. Grab some food/beer, and let the good times roll.

    • @threeriversforge1997
      @threeriversforge1997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@kamekings I honestly wish I could believe that. Thank you for the kind words, though.

    • @legion8617
      @legion8617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I relate to this comment as if I typed it.

    • @threeriversforge1997
      @threeriversforge1997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@legion8617 I often say that I'm a great role model of what not to do.

    • @kamekings
      @kamekings 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Dude one of my best things is making friends, and the way I do that is just figure out one common ground I share with whoever I meet. One thing I notice a lot of times when ppl look to making friends. They look with one specific reason that they want that friend to fulfill. To me I think that isn’t very good way to approach networking. How I most times start when meeting anyone new and it could be very random encounter. I ask “what music do you listen to?”, but the reason I ask this is bc I have put a large amount of time listening to a lot of different genres of music. So I’m confident I can find common ground, but my main point is it’s not hard making friends with the right effort. I mean even something as simple as video games have a lot of rl communities that get together to game, and you could even replace gaming with marital arts, working out, fixing cars, religion, and so much more. Also in today’s society most rl hobbies have a internet way to find said event. Remember you can’t fix confidence or being lazy. Just got to choose to fix it yourself.

  • @bkjohnson2522
    @bkjohnson2522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Kevin isn't lying about trucking. I found out that you can make money driving. I got my license and a job the next week. I got my hazmat and tanker endorsement. I haul fuel and bring home 80k after deductions, also I'm home every night (work 2am-4pm) I'm going to buy my first truck next year. Hazmat is a way to make money and be home every night.

    • @jasonphilips4731
      @jasonphilips4731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Congrats bro.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Congrats man

    • @macdofull
      @macdofull 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Keep pushing, there's cash to be made but it won't be 40 hrs weekly we talking upper 70s

  • @eden6299
    @eden6299 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    3:31 🎵 Good lies by Vividry 🎵
    6:32 🎬 Show starts, Candle of the evening One hotel Brooklyn, Fragrance of the evening Oud for greatness
    9:27 Monologue, How would I live as a young man today? Along with explanation of three male archetypes
    51:10 📱 1st Caller Anthony age 27 2nd Caller age 36
    1:06:29 3rd Caller Jonny age 29 4th Caller age 31
    1:17:17 5th Caller age 26 6th Caller Martin age 28
    1:24:32 7th Caller age 32 8th Caller age 28
    1:36:19 9th Caller Gary age 38 10th Caller age 21
    1:45:10 11th Caller age 22 12th Caller age 28
    1:52:08 13th Caller age 39 14th Caller age 24
    1:57:47 15th Caller age 32 16th Caller age 23
    2:13:50 17th Caller age 25 Matthew 18th Caller age 27
    2:21:28 19th Caller age 26 20th Caller Wolf age 30
    2:29:50 21st Caller age 21 Bless
    2:33:51 Closing Song

  • @SagerWorld
    @SagerWorld 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    22 years old. Car sales - 6 figures with only a high school diploma. Improved my social life, made me a better communicator, built a network. I would recommend the car business to any young, hungry, single man. Work 60-70 hours a week

    • @gabrielwilliams5387
      @gabrielwilliams5387 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m 17 and trying to find a good job to start in. When did you start working in the car business?

    • @SagerWorld
      @SagerWorld 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gabrielwilliams5387 I was 18 and only previous work experience was McDonald’s. 5 years later I’m still up there. Dealerships will hire young newbies as long as you interview well and seem hungry and confident.

    • @gabrielwilliams5387
      @gabrielwilliams5387 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SagerWorld I’m interested in the job. You say it helped your life outside of money so that drew me in. What was your starting pay and how long it took to work your way up?

    • @SagerWorld
      @SagerWorld 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@gabrielwilliams5387 I went from a shy kid to having to talk to a bunch of strangers everyday. Learn to build rapport with different types of people and learn the art of sales. Sales is in everything that we do. It opened up my personal life and I’ve become a better, more social man because of it.
      Sales is commission base. My base pay started at $2k a month and there is no “moving up” if you come in your first month and sell 20 cars you could make a $10k check. Nobody dictates your income besides you

    • @Topsealguy
      @Topsealguy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SagerWorldme when I lie

  • @TheAcad3mic
    @TheAcad3mic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +294

    When you hear these calls with the men coming in its honestly kind of heart breaking how many young men out here really have absolutely no clue at all what they're doing, why or what for. Hardens my resolve to continue my studies, get my PhD, and become a therapist and clinician for men. Mental health professions are massively female dominated and that is what it is but we have a lot of men out here that seriously need help and I don't see it getting any better over the next 30 years when these kids have kids.

    • @d3s1r3dpk
      @d3s1r3dpk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Remember, he was raised by single mom. Good parenting/mentorship can prevent most of these early adult mid life crisis

    • @CastleHassall
      @CastleHassall 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey Good on you. That's really great you are wanting to help people. I've really struggled in life a lot so thankyou.

    • @Bxbywoo
      @Bxbywoo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts good outlet for career and help our society strengthen back up im 20 and I can see clearly we way off the deep end but there’s hope we the hope 💯👑👑

    • @robertcarter1542
      @robertcarter1542 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mind your damn Business & stop worrying about what others are doing 🤷‍♂️

  • @Eli7o7
    @Eli7o7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    These shows for the men are legendary and are so helpful Godfather. Much respect and appreciate everything you do✊🏼

  • @whatwouldezrado
    @whatwouldezrado 3 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    Im 45yrs old and wish I would've heard this at 18yrs old. Moved alone or with people not moving in the same direction. This is a sermon.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The info ain’t new! Just a new person telling it

    • @jamesw22185
      @jamesw22185 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s never too late.

    • @thedarkestknight8381
      @thedarkestknight8381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jamesw22185 it is for him he’s in his late 40s it’s over

    • @blkghostxx
      @blkghostxx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@thedarkestknight8381 not true! I know men in their 50s that change their lives in 1 or 2 years. Now they are living a good life!

    • @JuniorChante
      @JuniorChante ปีที่แล้ว

      it's not too late

  • @MrAntd1
    @MrAntd1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I'm 42 I messed up my 20's so bad I hate thinking about it. I was trying to live like I was big dog and wasn't close. I made bad financial decisions, bad purchases when it came to vehicle's, wasted time and money in relationships that wasn't going anywhere and wasted time and money in the clubs, if I could have invested half of that...man! I had to learn everything the hard way. I'm married and doing well now. Glad I didn't get married until I was 38. I would be divorced if I had married in my 20's.

    • @isambarddev4045
      @isambarddev4045 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for imparting your lived experience. Glad you are doing well now.

  • @gabrielgarcia439
    @gabrielgarcia439 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    this episode literally had me speed run through therapy, get the help I needed, go back into school full-time while working.

  • @1beatsbytdot
    @1beatsbytdot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    I moved out my moms house and got a part time job all while being enrolled in community college because I stopped procrastinating and took 60 hrs a week serious . Kevin said your place doesn’t have to be the biggest but it has to be YOURS. Thanks godfather I’m 25 and been being productive for about a year now.

    • @nigelcardoso7653
      @nigelcardoso7653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What are you studying?

    • @rasheemthebestfirstone3274
      @rasheemthebestfirstone3274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What you studying

    • @1beatsbytdot
      @1beatsbytdot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@nigelcardoso7653 Audio Production & Sound Engineering. I plan on opening multi-purpose recording studios for music and podcasts. Believe it or not hustling sessions at $30/hr helped a lot as well. I just took MY skill and honed in on it.

    • @RobinXlone
      @RobinXlone 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@1beatsbytdot never thought about podcast studio. W business model

    • @rasheemthebestfirstone3274
      @rasheemthebestfirstone3274 ปีที่แล้ว

      How did you do the 60 hour thing?

  • @zackarynoble9611
    @zackarynoble9611 3 ปีที่แล้ว +501

    He’s absolutely correct in his monologue. That network is a huge factor building a wolf pack. All my close friends in my Wolfpack started off in the military or with me in law Enforcement. Since leaving our tenures of service. We went from 40k salaries to well over 110k in less than 5 years in our early 30s. Once I left LE I pulled my members of my Wolfpack up to corporate at 30 years old. We have been skating for the past 3 years and making moves to get into AVP to VP levels in corporate level investigations. We information share and build relationships with other wolfpacks to build alliances. I am a product of this without even knowing that KS is a promoter of this movement amongst men.

    • @TranceCore3
      @TranceCore3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Wish I had that kinda bond with my vet friends, but I didn't.
      Military is probably the best social networking device we have.
      I had plenty of good ideas for my vet friends to make money, mostly by just going to school first, in my neck of the woods just doing that is profitable, before you even graduate.

    • @stephanietillman182
      @stephanietillman182 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😍

    • @xman666soad
      @xman666soad 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great job.

    • @jmove6206
      @jmove6206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey Zachary I'm 27. Joined 2 years ago into Army service. I was wondering what corporate work you all did after service to earn your six figures? I would like to do the same.

    • @CEWIII9873
      @CEWIII9873 ปีที่แล้ว

      that's nice
      Did you leave LE because you sh ot an unarmed black man?

  • @NigelMcgregor
    @NigelMcgregor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +377

    This monologue by KS is golden . I executed this blueprint back In 2012, left fort lauderdale and moved back to NYC, kept a strict marathon fitness regimen (worked out and cross trained 6 days a week to stay sharp) while hammering away in the engineering industry. Gentlemen, You have to take risk and be willing to be out of your comfort zone to grow and be a force in The community. When i took this risk, people laughed saying it was impossible (including some family members). Believe me, it's paying off now in my 40s. 💯

    • @nigelcardoso7653
      @nigelcardoso7653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Engineering?

    • @NigelMcgregor
      @NigelMcgregor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nigelcardoso7653 yes.

    • @3089280288
      @3089280288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The hell with NYC

    • @zanewilliams906
      @zanewilliams906 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Left lauderhill to pursue finance 🤝🤝

    • @elibaltodano1820
      @elibaltodano1820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Are you still in NYC? If so, do you recommend living there?

  • @mammonamuccona9884
    @mammonamuccona9884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i dont know why but thé fact hes not hère no more make thèse messages resonate more, its liké at thé end we all die but your legacy if you are great lives for ever, being high value makes you "live longer" people will bé happy that you lived. and more people will remember you when you dead. you wont regret thé life you lived, you have nothing to loose, thank you sir for everything.

  • @EtienneProduction
    @EtienneProduction ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I miss this man so much... his words and energy really got my ass in gear for the better... building my value - "no one cares if your working less than 60 hours a week."

  • @mr.blademonktravels1880
    @mr.blademonktravels1880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    Just turned 41 and I wish my father would've been here to teach me this. I'm in a rut right now, but am digging my way out of it. I might have to hit rock bottom before I get it but I'm determined to get it. I'm part of that son husband B.S. and I'm praying and fighting to break free from it. I might need to move to Anchorage, though I do hate the cold.

    • @gabriellahcorleone132
      @gabriellahcorleone132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I hope things work out for you.

    • @mr.blademonktravels1880
      @mr.blademonktravels1880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@gabriellahcorleone132 preciate it

    • @DuttyRockb
      @DuttyRockb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Keep going man, it ain’t over yet. You got a whole lot of life left!!!

    • @mr.blademonktravels1880
      @mr.blademonktravels1880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@DuttyRockb I'm not giving up, just a little tired of running this race. But I agree, that it ain't over until God says so.

    • @kamekings
      @kamekings 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@mr.blademonktravels1880 yo if you are husband son. It’s easy man. Just pull off the band aid. Doesn’t mean you have to do anything disrespectful, but what Kevin was saying is true. Get a wolf pack at a major city, get in nice shape, make good money, and enjoy life man(really everything Kevin was saying). Even if you feel to old or whatever have you. The amazing about being a man with money making skills, in shape, and confidence is it’s all things you can control.

  • @MylesKillis
    @MylesKillis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +242

    I’m a Marine. As soon as my work for the day is done I do Uber eats until 8PM. I made 600 extra dollars last week and I’ve made 320 so far this week. If you’re not working at least 60 hours a week nobody cares about your problems. Work harder and take extreme ownership of your life. Period.
    I’ll add that I consistently go to this local Waffle House and I flirt with the waiters. It’s definitely good practice reading women and learning watching them interact with other men. That and jujitsu are my social life.

    • @ST19890
      @ST19890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hoorah !!!

    • @BWill-dq9ri
      @BWill-dq9ri 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Semper Fi, Devil.

    • @erickqwesibentilmanie2382
      @erickqwesibentilmanie2382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hoorah. Keep it up mate.

    • @midnightkilla45
      @midnightkilla45 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oorahsemperfikillkbartothethroatreenlistrah!

    • @MylesKillis
      @MylesKillis 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@midnightkilla45 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Southside_Militia
    @Southside_Militia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +405

    I just want the ladies to take note how rough he talks to with the males, it's not that he's a jerk; he's just direct, honest and blunt. This society *MUST* Stop calling truth telling bashing

    • @clmk28
      @clmk28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      whats also observable is once the men take KS advice they get better within months

    • @skinfanjay
      @skinfanjay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Facts. 💯

    • @skinfanjay
      @skinfanjay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💯

    • @Thee_Publicist
      @Thee_Publicist 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      💯

    • @faves2012
      @faves2012 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wasted sentiment g. Tis what it tis

  • @yannmondon9821
    @yannmondon9821 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’ve watched this playback a few times and it keeps getting better. Rest in power Godfather.

  • @lorenzojackson1419
    @lorenzojackson1419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thank you KS for this broadcast. I’m a young man turning 22 next month. This conversation is what is needed that a lot of young men don’t have and absolutely NEED to hear.

    • @nathanfoss766
      @nathanfoss766 ปีที่แล้ว

      You in Texas? Looking to start the wolf pack

  • @JittyJittyBangBang
    @JittyJittyBangBang 3 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Kevin's monologues in themselves are things of beauty! I might not have time to watch the full show in one go, but I always listen to the monologues.

    • @deancarter2490
      @deancarter2490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yep, the are dope , good sh*T !

    • @SanctifiedLady
      @SanctifiedLady 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can watch listen later and increase the speed in the upper left corner of the screen

  • @THiZZAAFuRR
    @THiZZAAFuRR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    Wolf pack mentality is so true. I work in Seattle where tech is high in demand. Starting salary is at least 52k. My friends who I am grateful for all work in tech companies such as, Facebook, Samsung, TMobile, Amazon, Microsoft etc…Having a strong connection like that helped me get my foot in the door. Gentlemen, who you know and where you live makes a great impact on your future success! Thanks for sharing God Father!

    • @OmarAli-vq8gs
      @OmarAli-vq8gs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      52k starting in Seattle??? That’s ridiculously low. Unless you meant to say 152k lol

    • @kingamir7487
      @kingamir7487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@OmarAli-vq8gs it’s not low if you have roommates and know how to manage your money. You can turn that into something great and getting further more certified. Please let us know what skills you have to make 150k

    • @Betterdailyy
      @Betterdailyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yooo this is true!!! I’m in Seattle too at a tech company. I’m trying to find a Wolfpack now

    • @THiZZAAFuRR
      @THiZZAAFuRR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@OmarAli-vq8gs My bad , I meant a person with little to no experience lol. My mentors make well over 150k. Plus bonuses! Gentlemen, come to tech! That’s where the money is! But it will cost the time and hard work. It ain’t easy but very well rewarding!

    • @THiZZAAFuRR
      @THiZZAAFuRR 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hakaritoocold consultant

  • @viperviper5
    @viperviper5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +291

    I feel this guy who is paying for his moms condo. I had a mom like that and at 20 years old I figured out what she was trying to do. She would always talk bad about my dad which he was never around. Something inside me told me to seek out my father to get his side of the story and I did just that at 23 years old. Kevin is right seek out the other parent to gain the whole picture. Listening to one parent will not give you the whole picture.

    • @jkfd97
      @jkfd97 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Your single mother is your greatest obstacle as a young man. She sees you as a man that she wants to turn into the opposite of your father, not as her son to nurture. Get the hell out of that position however you can and save yourself from that hindering nightmare.

    • @BPTtech
      @BPTtech 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Let’s assume he’s dead. Now what?

    • @reese85
      @reese85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I don’t get it? What was she trying to do? And what great reasoning did ur pops have for not being around for 20 plus years?

    • @malarki5
      @malarki5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@BPTtech again
      let's assume that hot chick at
      the Mall has a boyfriend!
      You see the defeatist attitude
      at work here, dude? Confirm
      whether he's alive....or dead
      for yourself!

    • @ralpherl5657
      @ralpherl5657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Same! My mom would always turn me against my dad and made me hate him. Now that I'm older and have dated psychos I see that she is very dramatic, histrionic, needs validation, needs to be right every time, doesn't respect men, and has a big ego

  • @kelseyfebos3775
    @kelseyfebos3775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Idc what anyone says, you are actually harder on the men than the women you speak to. You don’t even curse at women but you do with men. So it’s clear you do not hate women, you’re just fair. Thank you for all the messages you said today. I’m not even a man but I found this video so encouraging.

  • @chrislife1101
    @chrislife1101 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You did your part godfather and you did it well. Inspired and changed generations of men, you will continue to live on ♥️

  • @iBryanDBrown
    @iBryanDBrown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Kevin can’t do it all…budgeting is a MUST! As an accountant, I know millionaires who never made 6 figures in a year. It’s not how much you make, it’s what you do with it!!! Live in yours means!

    • @TILLEYJS
      @TILLEYJS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Act your wage.... As they say.

    • @joeldouglas533
      @joeldouglas533 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What I'm working on now. Cutting expenses

    • @iBryanDBrown
      @iBryanDBrown 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joeldouglas533 exactly! Eliminate debt.

  • @jatall2797
    @jatall2797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Kevin doesn’t just give great advice and reality checks to women only… his advice and reality checks to the brothers are really SPOT ON!!! Excellent Advice… and excellent mentoring … Kevin is the man!!! We love you out here bro!!!

    • @Blacktolite
      @Blacktolite 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kevin says 10, 000 hours is 5 years when in fact it's 1-year and 45 months to prefect anything not 5 years

    • @mra.4466
      @mra.4466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Blacktolite The 10k theory is well known. That definitely isn’t 2 years. Your probably thinking of low earning areas of expertise. CPAs, Lawyers, Doctors all need many years in their fields before they are any where near masters. Read Robert Greene Mastery. These things are well studied and not just opinion.

    • @mra.4466
      @mra.4466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Blacktolite Just noticed you did 1 year and 45 months. Why you trolling? 😂 that’s 4.75 years bro.

  • @nataliabrizan
    @nataliabrizan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    Wow, this show was on another level, Legendary.

    • @JackedStacked21
      @JackedStacked21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agreed!

    • @curlygirl9023
      @curlygirl9023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      For real

    • @deandreaallen418
      @deandreaallen418 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree. gives me another perspective for him and a newfound Respect!

    • @jerraytomlinson
      @jerraytomlinson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      mannnn the guy that knocked up the artist.

    • @GnosticCushite
      @GnosticCushite 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You look like you got trouble written all over you.

  • @JS-dj1pu
    @JS-dj1pu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I’m 25, a CPA, make low 6 figures in the Northeast and Kevin is the best thing to happen to me this year. Keeps that foot up my ass whenever I get complacent and see me doing better than the people my age around me. I gotta go to work

    • @nathanfoss766
      @nathanfoss766 ปีที่แล้ว

      You in Texas? Looking to start the wolf pack

  • @sanchoelmatador
    @sanchoelmatador 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Agreed with everything!!! Started over financially at 30 and about $30k in debt. Worked my ass off and lived below my means, including having a roommate. Invested most of my income. I just turned 38 and will be a millionaire before I turn 39 and that's if I don't add anymore $ to my investments. I can easily afford living by myself, but I prefer having the extra $ to invest in. Being frugal is freeing...and frugal doesn't mean being cheap!
    I'm now working on getting in shape and want to take martial arts classes. I'm adding two more sources of income in the next few months...and I only see women when I'm done with work...at night. 🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @rich5248
    @rich5248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    This is a great video for Kevin's critics who accuse Kevin of hating women, in particular black women.

    • @Ben-Ken
      @Ben-Ken 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      They're not watching these shows. They only show up for the drama that fits their narrative.

    • @moedollas8265
      @moedollas8265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Facts

  • @jacobmullins8280
    @jacobmullins8280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I worked like this through my whole 20’s and now I own my own business. I like how honest and pragmatic you are. I’m never getting married though. I don’t want kids and the juice is hardly worth the squeeze. I hate living in the city but my location has benefitted me greatly.

    • @earl-larsen
      @earl-larsen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      gotta love the leo life. string of 23 year old girlfriends until death lol

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good for you. As long as you dont want kids

  • @TheVillageBeast
    @TheVillageBeast 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Hope all my guys out there is chasing their purpose daily !!!

  • @keatonmoore7413
    @keatonmoore7413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    I’m 23. Getting this advice so young while listening to you give advice to the guest on the show is life changing. Really appreciate the content Kevin, thank you

    • @smmaistheway
      @smmaistheway 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I wish I started at 23..I'm 26 now

    • @xman666soad
      @xman666soad 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      You’re on your way young man.
      Diligence, dedication and discipline.

    • @Cahrtier
      @Cahrtier 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@smmaistheway stop complaining we are all in our 20s this applies to you as well

    • @nathanfoss766
      @nathanfoss766 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Anyone here in Texas? Looking to start the wolf pack

    • @josephkidney1171
      @josephkidney1171 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m 23 as well Keaton. In the NYC area. If you are ever in the city, respond to the comment.

  • @Parzzyval
    @Parzzyval 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Just heard what happened. Rest In Peace sir. I don’t agree with everything you say, but as a young man, I appreciate the knowledge you bestow upon me.

  • @OMichelle
    @OMichelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    As a Michigan born woman who lives in Atlanta. My son lives in Detroit and it’s a crap hole. He is married with 2 children and works as a PA, but he is trying to move also.

  • @Michael-ep7lx
    @Michael-ep7lx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    If I could do those years over again, I would focus on three things: 1) Maximizing my income, 2) Long--term investing 50% of that income, and 3) Personal growth and physical fitness. No marriage and no kids.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Depending on how old you are, you can still do those things!

    • @hitandruncommentor
      @hitandruncommentor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yeah If I could redo my twenties, I would have skipped college, gone to trade school or started working blue collar right away and invested immediately as heavy as I could. I knew Amazon would be big back in 08 when eBay was king. If I had followed that path. Well anyhow I’m course correcting and making up for lost time, one advantage of being a minimalist.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@hitandruncommentor don’t beat urself up for choices you didn’t make in the past! Just take the knowledge you have now and be better! It’s never really 2 late to change ur outcomes! Stay blessed

    • @BitterPeachh
      @BitterPeachh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@reese85 Facts

    • @Businessmindedjamaijan
      @Businessmindedjamaijan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@reese85 Agreed

  • @NOCDIB
    @NOCDIB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +300

    KS speaks the truth at 25:00 . Most men couldn't defend themselves against a surprise attack or a bigger opponent. I've been doing Brazilian Jiu Jitsu for 16 years and I can attest to how having martial skill changes the way you carry yourself and how people see you.

    • @alake33558
      @alake33558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true

    • @livennlearn
      @livennlearn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      So does having a muscular body and being tall with broad shoulders. I’ve never martial arts trained in my life but am 6’2 230 and very strong and imposing. Keep yourself in shape and no one will challenge you because they know the risk they take is very great. Even objectively speaking, If I saw me or other men my size I wouldn’t mess with me/them either. Training does not matter unless you are small and non imposing. If you are small, being trained will make you see and carry yourself different (less fear) but it will not change how the world sees you. In the open world small trained men would still be challenged more than big imposing men. I’m never challenged. And if I were, I’d honestly be very afraid because I know that person is likely strapped. You’d be a fool to try and fight me. Too much risk.

    • @Northsmen
      @Northsmen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Get firearm training it’s 2021 people will flatten you so fast still do your thing thoe.

    • @minominomino6024
      @minominomino6024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@livennlearn not so practical as most people arent 6'2. Most people can learn how to throw a 3 piece combo and a biscuit to the chin or a swift kick to the testicles and knock the biggest mf out cold.

    • @theurbanlifestylechannel2825
      @theurbanlifestylechannel2825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I trained myself in martial arts and I am Licensed to carry a firearm. These men out here better step their game up.

  • @FeelnLikeIDoEveryDay
    @FeelnLikeIDoEveryDay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    We miss you Kevin. Gone but not forgotten

  • @davion_mp3759
    @davion_mp3759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This video made me a better version of myself and I thank you for that. It’s funny how your viral moments that got the most clicks are the same moments you’re being judged for now. May you rest in peace.

  • @WillyLeclaire
    @WillyLeclaire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Hi Kevin, I am French afro Caribbean. ex non-commissioned officer French ground army, then master degree in business than corporate job. I couldn't find the way to go access the managerial level in order to get into a career.
    Thanks to your advices I just booked sessions with a therapist regarding the scars of a terrible childhood and also a business/behavioral coach.
    My next step will be to get the most useful business certifications needed .
    thank you very much Mr. Samuel!

  • @chadyenko
    @chadyenko 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Thank you for tonight's show. Tytytytytytytyty.
    My father, nor any other man, has ever talked to me this way. This was great, some accountability, really checks, go on offense, what do you want, live for yourself.
    Good stuff man, jolly good.

    • @gw6496
      @gw6496 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      👍🏾👍🏾

  • @TXLorenzo
    @TXLorenzo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Totally agree about the no baby thing. It will be a negative for a young man's life goal that will set you back for years.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not necessarily! Some ppl it pushes them to be better cuz they have someone to look after!

    • @TXLorenzo
      @TXLorenzo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@reese85 I don't disagree that fatherhood can make you a better person, but you need to do it on your own terms and not be held hostage to the system. Not always easy to do.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TXLorenzo didn’t say create a baby with anyone and get caught up lol!

    • @therealist2000
      @therealist2000 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@reese85 Some but rarely most.

  • @HAZYGOTEM
    @HAZYGOTEM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Wish I could have caught these shows live. Didn't know about his content until after his passing, top tier. RIP

    • @Xscape128
      @Xscape128 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The live chats were fire every night

  • @ArthLud
    @ArthLud ปีที่แล้ว +2

    RIP Kevin. Thank you very much for all your work. You name will not be forgotten

  • @dwilliams90222
    @dwilliams90222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I have been truck driving for 3years now. I'm tellin y'all first hand it's life-changing 💲

  • @TheVillageBeast
    @TheVillageBeast 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Life is good as young men 28 yr old with no kids 🙏🏿 🙏🏿🙏🏿 chase ur purpose! Not a women !

  • @samestuffdifferentday5712
    @samestuffdifferentday5712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Kevin is telling the absolute truth young men. God if I knew this thirty years ago. My life would be on a totally different trajectory. This guy is dropping invaluable information.

  • @deandreaallen418
    @deandreaallen418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I know this show was for solely Men but I enjoyed it. outside of KS trying to save the black families and holding Grown women accountable which I highly recommend and I am receptive to the constructive criticism this video here gives me another Perspective of Mr Samuels. when my son gets 16 I'm going to make him watch this video. Respect !

  • @DaForgottenGentleman
    @DaForgottenGentleman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Yo that one phone call with the 31 year old single dad... when he said i didnt think i would make it to 18 to 21... i felt that!!!... So many of us as black men in disenfranchised areas are hit with an overwhelming notion that we won't live to see a certain age... like its a given and that the descisions we make have no impact on that... then we make it to that age and we don't know what the hell to do!... Now i didnt have that mindset growing up, but so many of my old friends did and i would always be like WTF is wrong with y'all!... but its crazy how common that mindset really was when i was growing up

  • @jasonweishaupt1828
    @jasonweishaupt1828 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    KS speaking truth. I’m married with kids, house, 2 cars, six fig salary. My wife is an accountant. I got a black belt in TKD. Got defensive tactics training in the police academy. I lift weights. I carry a knife or a gun. I avoid confrontation at all costs. Ninja mode.

    • @mikemaryniuk571
      @mikemaryniuk571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      How I roll, I move in silence. Nobody knows what I have

    • @osmanbey8796
      @osmanbey8796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      im in my early 20s & you sound like what I wanna be in 10-15 years. God willing I reach that point.

    • @mikemaryniuk571
      @mikemaryniuk571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@osmanbey8796 save your money and invest in yourself and a skill that will pay. Avoid bad debt and wear a condom always. You'll be fine.

    • @nigelcardoso7653
      @nigelcardoso7653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      U an accountant too?

  • @chickenbroski99
    @chickenbroski99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    As a 28 year old man who spent 6-7 years working on himself with the intent to get more women and make more money. I was feeling lost and you have helped me to find my next steps. Trainers to learn how to fight properly, therapy, a 20 hour part time job in hospitality all to up my game to the next level physically, mentally and work ethic wise. I appreciate it and I'm confident taking these moves can put me in the top 1-3% in the next 5 years.
    Wolf pack is huge too. As someone who has moved around the globe all my life, possibly the main thing holding me back has been the wolf pack. A lot of time spent alone being miserable. I've got a few homies now but finding more should be a priority. Having humility and working on myself will help with that as well. Having a competitive attitude is good but being angry or jealous of those above me socially is counter-productive.

    • @shannonr112
      @shannonr112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are already half way there by being accountable to self.... keep pushing.... you will get there no doubt.

    • @Skinny_Pimp
      @Skinny_Pimp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Military reserves. Immeditate Access

  • @FlipmasterFED
    @FlipmasterFED 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I'm glad that he said work over 65hrs a week. This is a must I believe I'm 37 and still doing that. I think hanging out with guys of different ages is also something that will open your mind up.

  • @yorkie4220
    @yorkie4220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Rewatching this to stay on track. Miss you Kevin!

  • @muddyheartboyz9974
    @muddyheartboyz9974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    As a truck driver it felt cool when he said truck drivers are part of the Hit Man squad aha 💯🤘🏼💸💰

  • @OffDaChainChico7
    @OffDaChainChico7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Man, I missed this type of content. I’ve been subscribed to Kevin’s channel for about three years now. I love how he has evolved, but it’s nice to hear him address us men. I’m already motivated, but hearing this type of content is like food for the soul.

  • @toshiaspeaks2742
    @toshiaspeaks2742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My son moved out at 18 and now lives in Boston and he's not worried about his mom or siblings he comes when we need him and lives his life

  • @damightyom
    @damightyom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I'm a late bloomer, 44 living in Denver, working in tech right now and at night writing code. What he said just hit home for real. I'm actually from Baltimore, trying to live my best life. Wound up in Denver looking for tech work. I work out at least three times a week, eat right every day. Started boxing again a few months ago. Maybe I should look at Austin like the Godfather said... Money World!

    • @andjohn7912
      @andjohn7912 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m interested in tech been learning on my own but sometimes I feel stuck. are u willing to have a student give me some tips bout programming

    • @damightyom
      @damightyom 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@andjohn7912 Sure. Look up my channel actually. I created a few videos that might be helpful. Check those out and see if you have any questions. I can also make some recommendations based on what you want to do. I have experience in IT and coding

    • @andjohn7912
      @andjohn7912 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@damightyom alright thank you I truly appreciate the help

  • @richardtpgusa7236
    @richardtpgusa7236 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    The more I hear Kevin speak, the more I appreciate what he's doing for the community. All the names he mentioned, I've been fortunate to benefit from the training of those men.

  • @Vsuarez93
    @Vsuarez93 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Coming back to this video after his passing makes it hit a lot harder

  • @skynett1100
    @skynett1100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Aye I would like for us to make these clips viral because ppl think he is tough on women but sheesh. He picks these guys apart in 30 seconds of getting on. Like he doesn’t even entertain men if they don’t give him a question immediately. I love this leadership

  • @michelewest2342
    @michelewest2342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +234

    As a black woman, the background of most of the men that called in appeared to be very good men; well spoken, ambitious. There are very good black men out here. And it’s our own fault that we are not prepared for them. This has opened my eyes a lot. Yes some of us have met some bad apples but there are good ones out here who deserve a submissive fit woman. Good job men!!! Loved this live!

    • @glecservices3114
      @glecservices3114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@x1571-i2r stop disrespecting the platform using Kevin’s name to make money

    • @tcompound327
      @tcompound327 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Thank you for being honest and owning up to this. Blk people really want each other it’s just a lot of bad communications

    • @williamtucker220
      @williamtucker220 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @zellabaptiste9656
      @zellabaptiste9656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Totally agree!

    • @anolove8150
      @anolove8150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I can’t like this comment enough!! It’s so true and I have this conversation with the black females in my life. A lot of them tend to chase after the same kind of guy for some reason. There are so many wonderful types of black men with different backgrounds, personality types and interest. 🥰🥰

  • @bwlondonpodcast
    @bwlondonpodcast 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Adding men to the show is fantastic and shows us a bigger picture. I'm half way through and this is pure quality as always 👌🙌

    • @Bezeltene
      @Bezeltene 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      *He added women
      This was his original show.

    • @bwlondonpodcast
      @bwlondonpodcast 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Bezeltene I know but it was before he was as popular so it’s nice to have it now I think.

    • @splurgehooligans1639
      @splurgehooligans1639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Men has always been on the show from the beginning

  • @hvathlete2
    @hvathlete2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Jiu Jitsu gives me a confidence I wish I had in high school. I plan on opening a gym in the Detroit area to mentor young black men. I believe this would cut down on violence in the inner city

    • @Donyce19
      @Donyce19 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He is a good man

  • @EddyDee3
    @EddyDee3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I needed this brother thank you!! I had kids at 21 and I’ve so behind because I took all my time raising my kids, and then ended up getting married but it’s like I’m starting all over again at 33 but I’m focused not on women anymore, but personal devleiplment, growing my network and worrying about my legacy. For my brothers it’s okay to get off track but as long as you get back on this horse and get your shit together:
    ✅Physically
    ✅Financially
    ✅Emotionally
    It’s never to late to restart because we all have past.. but if your single no kids do what’s Kevin says and focus on building yourself up in all areas and don’t worry about women and just build 🙏🏾🙌🏾💯

  • @melindapierre6616
    @melindapierre6616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My little brother needed this. Thank You Mr. Samuels.

  • @kokoalaska9888
    @kokoalaska9888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    This was one of the most powerful live streams so far. I just started a new job and a man asked for my number. I was so flattered that there are still men in 2021 that have the b@lls to cold approach a woman that I happily gave it. He was confident. No matter what the outcome is, men please listen to Kevin’s points. 🙂

    • @H1GHD3FF
      @H1GHD3FF 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      How about the women listen to Kevin. Lose the weight, the attitude, and maybe a man would cold approach them

    • @R.Yvette.X.
      @R.Yvette.X. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Where are they cold approaching? I need to move there. Congrats!!!

    • @BitterPeachh
      @BitterPeachh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Jaylen Smith How is it too risky to do cold approach?

    • @earl-larsen
      @earl-larsen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That man is crazy. never shit where you eat!'

    • @kokoalaska9888
      @kokoalaska9888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@earl-larsen True but I’m only doing a temporary assignment there. Maybe he just wants to be “ friends” 🤣🤣🤣jk

  • @BryanCKing
    @BryanCKing 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I have to say this was really important show tonight. Thanks Kevin and Healthy and Happy Thanksgiving everyone.

    • @KNByam
      @KNByam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I thought you qere the Lead Attorney for a moment.

    • @gabriellahcorleone132
      @gabriellahcorleone132 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy Thanksgiving to you too!

  • @mariaallenajasiah5664
    @mariaallenajasiah5664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Crying real tears for this man…. GONE TOO SOON 💔. See you when we get there Kevin RIP Gracias 🙏

  • @SirWoolfolk
    @SirWoolfolk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Man I enjoy hearing the dude conversations wayyyy more than the women 😅 these conversations get through wayy more efficiently, we get wayy more callers in, and it's just an easier listen. Voices don't get raised, not as catty, & conversations are so much more sensible 😅 good gawd

  • @Ty-uy6bf
    @Ty-uy6bf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Funny thing what Kevin is preaching is what my mom and auntie been preaching to me since I was in high school.
    With there guidance and learning life lesson the hard way I’m making $100k a year after taxes debt free 70% of my income goes to investments and rest of it goes to rent gas etc and I kick back at my place 🙏🏾
    Keep preaching man who never has guidance or help love to see my brothers achieve there goals

  • @Jokeman718
    @Jokeman718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    You see how the interactions are more respectful? Loved this stream

  • @pookatim
    @pookatim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The best approach I found for success, can be done in almost any job. Look for tasks that other employees avoid doing because they are difficult or unpleasant is some way but vitally important to the business. Then make that your job. Volunteer for it, take all available training for it. Soon you will become the "Subject Matter Expert" and that greatly increases your value as an employee. It isn't only about college degrees.

    • @therealist2000
      @therealist2000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hear about this in tech all the time, where people find ways to automate the stuff people don’t want to do.

    • @internetdude2576
      @internetdude2576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This was my fathers advice “find a job no one wants to do and do it better than anyone ever could and you will become indispensable”

  • @ca8a
    @ca8a 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I’m turning 36 next year and reaching a 1M net worth now looking forward to slow down my work pace and start enjoying life more. I have been working 70 hours a week for the past 10 years. Wished I had Kevin’s advice earlier and would have triple my net worth I’m sure.

  • @FWWBrand
    @FWWBrand 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    KS is right. As a Personal Trainer, people need to take your health seriously. It's not just about building muscle, it's about self defense. Go take a MMA class, as well as strength training and flexibility (yoga, hot yoga, etc). I'm all for legal firearms as well. Learn how to respect the firearm and take a class. I did MMA about 10 years ago, then suffered a significant back injury. Once I get my 💰💰 back up, I'll be back in!!

  • @Michael-ep7lx
    @Michael-ep7lx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    "... for the children ought not to lay up for the parents, but the parents for the children." - 2 Corinthians 12:14 KJV
    "A good man leaves an inheritance for his children's children." - Proverbs 13:22 KJV
    This is one of the main problems with single motherhood. We are supposed to be living our lives - earning, saving, and investing money - FOR OUR CHILDREN! And our grandchildren. Not for our mothers who made poor choices in their lives.
    Single motherhood inverts the natural transfer of wealth flow for families. It's out of order. At some point, we have to break this cycle. That's why KS focuses on women - particularly mothers - having HUSBANDS. So your kids don't suffer the consequences of your choices.

    • @cool_cat007smoove3
      @cool_cat007smoove3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Too True

    • @jkfd97
      @jkfd97 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Absolutely on the money. Nothing is more selfish than parents living vicariously through their children and not letting them have their own unique experience. F that s. It's pathetic and unjust.

  • @chickenbroski99
    @chickenbroski99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Great advice on the wolf pack and sleeping with women, I'm just working this out for myself at 28. Doing well financially, but I have spent a lot of time going after women. While I'm glad I did it, looking back I could have had the same results if I was smarter about how I was spending my time. Thanks for the advice chief

  • @jamesrichardson8379
    @jamesrichardson8379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    100% The way you dress, is a big factor in the women you attract. It also makes women behave a certain way when speaking to you initially.
    Then they way you talk, behave, and so on…

  • @jordanbronner3752
    @jordanbronner3752 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This man is GODSENT His sermons are powerful ! I must say I literally was dozed some reality two things I got no therapist or coach etc can fix laziness and cowards and also how it’s important to let go of your family ESPECIALLY if they mis managed their life . Amazing wisdom ! Really is a confirmation that I’m doing the right by cutting off my negative single mom. This was the first year I didn’t spend thanksgiving with her and each year I did out of guilt always felt like I needed to “be there” to be supportive this was painful to me but I’m done with her bs . I have cut her off financially this year completely and have now cut her from using me as her emotional dumpster. I have a better marriage and less guilt to be honest . Thankyou Kevin for enlightening us to the truth you’re better then any pastor hands down

  • @wandersonfcastro
    @wandersonfcastro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I am beyond impressed with the amount of wisdom Kevin accumulated in such a young age , he gives actionable advices that are priceless to the listener who is smart enough to heed his wise words. I miss him every single day. RIP Godfather!

  • @DejiDigital
    @DejiDigital 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    Kevin is such a nerd man. I love it. Not a reference he's made that I didn't get. Now I don't feel so bad binge watching all the movies and series I love lol

    • @frassout3882
      @frassout3882 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      You should NEVER feel bad for doing sum you like g💯

    • @donovanjr2746
      @donovanjr2746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fax

    • @larrysouthern5098
      @larrysouthern5098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Kevin is like Bond.... James Bond...007.. license to kill...and move on...He can hang with the Falcons..and fly!!!

    • @Ben-Ken
      @Ben-Ken 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol. He watches all my favorite shows and movies. Sometimes he asks women if they've seen a certain movie and they almost never have. Same reason most women don't gravitate to STEM jobs. A love for science and engineering is tied into sci-fi movies. A young lady tried to tell me that it's because society don't promote that kind of thing to girls. I asked her if her and her girlfriends watched the marvel movies yet. She disappeared.

    • @earl-larsen
      @earl-larsen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Ben-Ken Captain Marvel and Wonder woman directly advertised for women lol

  • @bigsteve3530
    @bigsteve3530 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great show. My Pops has been preaching work ethic to us since I could remember. I preach the same to my boys. Keep up the excellent advice.

  • @blake7675
    @blake7675 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This knowledge is so valuable, thank you so much Kevin. I’m a 20 year old male and the impact you have had on me can not be put into words. Your a God send!

    • @nathanfoss766
      @nathanfoss766 ปีที่แล้ว

      You in Texas? Looking to start the wolf pack

  • @nehemiahwilliams3537
    @nehemiahwilliams3537 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Notice how much smoother and less argumentative these convos with the men go as opposed to the women (besides the couple homies that came with the N in SIGN language). Godfather was dropping mad gold and platinum wisdom in this joint to the point where now I’m pumped! Watch this multiple times if you’re smart!!!

  • @ktk75ll
    @ktk75ll 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This show was amazing! I had this same conversation with a coworker. He'd always be talking about the things he needs to buy and do for his mother. I said you're her son not her man. That's not your responsibility. He went on to say that she raised him without his father and how he needed to step up to the role. I said no you don't. She was supposed to put that shit in an order BEFORE she had children. It's not your responsibility to fix anything. You have your life to live. Why do you have to put yours on pause because hers is a mess? He got quiet and was salty for the rest of the evening but I know that my words got through to him. Already saw a change in his attitude. Hope he keeps it up.