More now than ever before....the disease has infected all women in America, not just black women. (By women, I mean the old fashioned ones without dicks)
When my wife and I met she was heavier than she was several months later. My wife has been the same weight since. We got married 40 years ago. I have a wife many men would wish they had but I have her. She is very smart but never draws attention to herself. My wife is beautiful. When my dad first met her he said, "You'd better marry her because you won't find another one like her." The older I get the more I am glad I married her. She is a precious lady.
@@mindfortress105 Beta ? That fact you parrot a narrative without with even knowing someone is telling. Definitely not the National Society of Black Engineers / Accountants type.
I’m 20 and I want the boring one 💯😭 but I’m leveling up right now & it’s sort of difficult but I won’t stop no excuses. Women have to understand that we’re on a time clock and we shouldn’t waste our youth.
@@Konfiden644 so true. Don’t go after d bad guys who just want sex and adventure in ur 20s and hope to settle down with those u called boring but were serious now you’re in your 30s.
You can be the most well read, well traveled, interesting, kind, fun woman in the world, but unless you meet his physical criteria, he will never walk across the room to meet you and find out how amazing you are. For a man, it starts with your look and it doesn't matter how you feel about it - that's just the way it is. I'm an older lady and not in the demographic at which Kevin aims his message, but here are some things I've learned about what men want: physical beauty turns other men's heads when she walks in the room dresses like a lady in public (no short skirts, no low cut blouses) dresses provocatively in private (he'll let you know what he likes and often buy you what he wants to see you in) gets along with his friends and family is happy and positive is affectionate doesn't whine and complain doesn't compete with him admires and respects him and makes sure he knows it is able to make interesting conversation ESPECIALLY in the presence of his family/friends knows the social graces This is mostly in order of importance ACCORDING TO MY EXPERIENCE. I love listening to Kevin because we can never get enough good advice and a man telling us what men want is going to be good advice.
Not really. Just give us a inviting smile and we'll approach. There's someone for everyone. Just depends on where you are and what you are looking for.
Ppl will see abuse in their house growing up everyday Know it’s wrong but still turn around and repeat the patter, whether that be being the abuser or welcoming one into their lives. And it’s not intentional that’s the scary part. So self awareness THEN therapy is essential
Kaci, the world don’t owe folk understanding and the guy a chick is destined to be with can only help so much and vice versa. Change is necessary, excuses for no change is bull ish
A woman who says she CAN be feminine when she wants to is like a Man saying he’ll be masculine once in awhile when he’s not busy being emotional and switchin his hips...you won’t be respected.
My husband proposed to me at the age of 20 and we've been married for 18 years just celebrated our anniversary 4 days ago real talk and I don't see myself with no one else he is my rock
They want a leader like them, then you end up with two bulls and he must submit otherwise he doesn't respect her. Bottom line, she's gonna want to lead in reality. Using my wife's TH-cam lol..from South Africa.
Women can't take on stress like men do. You would think a man who wants to take the lead woman at very least would say ok do it. The liberal feminists indoctrinated woman believes men are stupid.
Women who are independently wealthy should stop dating for security and start dating for companionship. No need for the security of a man, when you have your own bag. Your wealth affords you the ability to seek out happiness first.
Not enough chads for every woman. So they look for men that can provide but even there these woman don’t need that . Their success becomes their curse.
When a man gets a raise, he says “look what I can provide for my family”. When a woman gets a raise, she says “look what I can provide for me”. So no, your money don’t mean anything to us.
I used to travel to NYC (45 min from my home) and talk to random people and ask them questions like, “how would you rank your happiness in life?” I did that for 2 years just building my people skills way up there. Communication and confidence is everything, having the belief in yourself that it doesn’t matter if women reject you or anyone rejects you for that matter. Everything will be ok no matter what happens, if you have that belief, it doesn’t matter what life throws at you! Enjoy your channel Kevin you have very wise words.
This guy is my new favorite podcaster.And I'm a white guy. So much of what my brother here is saying is important for understanding the breakdown of the nuclear family, morals and society.
And shortly after he became your new fav, sadly the world took a HUGE lost when he passed. I’m white as well, and absolutely feel 95% of what he said transcended skin color for sure. I wish someone like him was around for my generation 30 years ago, he would have saved me SO MUCH loss and heartache. I haven’t burned through all his content yet, but I know that day will come….damn he is missed!! 👍☮️
I'm married. Started looking for a husband at 19. I was worried that I would run out of time if I waited. And I was very attuned to the fact that I had a limited time to search. Nobody told me this, not even my mom. Honestly, I think at that age I was thinking like a lot of the women who starts thinking about settling down in their 30's. maybe that's why I met and married my husband early in life.
I was the same way but have found it difficult finding a HVM at 24. Lots of older men but prefer someone w potential to grow, work ethic, etc. How long did it take you to find a husband?
Byron... This is y I love this guy too... He lash out at both gender... I've learned so much from him a whole lot... Thank u KS... The haters n big Shirley's can 8 all they want...
I just read an African Proverb that says,a woman is beautiful until she speaks. I'll just say this to young women,the way you treat men when you're in your 20s is the way men will treat you when you're in your 40s.
A woman is beautiful until she speaks? Who said that? Where? I’m african and I’ve never heard that proverb. Proverbs teach lessons... what’s the lesson in this one? Don’t forget Africa has already had female heads of state when the US still hasn’t.
@@Joy-xu9wk Having a female head of state doesn't mean anything. What is important is that the person who won was who the people wanted and deem right for the job. Clearly US just hasn't found a candidate who happens to be a female who could fit that criteria as yet.
@@incogb6696 "they want to suppress us, because they need us" I've read this multiple times, just so I didn't miss the context. Yet this statement doesn't make since to me. According to the definition, you suppress something you don't want to express share, something you want to keep secret, etc... Can you clarify this statement for me? I am having trouble comprehending what you're trying to convey 🤷🏾♂️ • In reality women are needed by men to procreate. Other than that, women don't build anything of sustainable value.... Why do men need y'all again? Sex?
Hello Kevin, I wish someone was telling me the things you talk about when I was in my twenties. I was told I don't know what you will marry and taught to be independent but my grandma taught me how to be a wife. Your information would have given me the balance I needed. Never too late to learn to help others. Thank you and keep speaking to the women because the older women are not teaching the younger women because they are you competition lol. So true.
@@TonyaWilliams Feminism worked, it taught them men have no value and do nothing, now they don't want to hear that they're wrong. Another generation of angry cat ladies, voting for men to bail them out of life decisions they made.
I also wish he would have been around in my late Teens or Twenty. I would have been a better man in my choosing of women. Raised by single mom who lived to be 73 years of age but never married in her life and died alone. Including me 3 other kid's were born so there were Men around never thought about this until Kevin Samuel ..
That is true. KS alluded to the point that women believe they can turn it on and off. They cannot. A man cannot turn on or off his masculinity, either. He is a masculine man or he is not.
@@beauty4u132: No, you cannot control your femininity. The very idea behind controlling one’s femininity is itself a masculine approach to character management. A woman should always be who she is. Because men are the providers, protectors, producers, and builders, we must have four years of masculinity. It’s evolution. It doesn’t work that way for women. Femininity is the binary opposite to masculinity, which is why women are considered the fairer sex. That is why a woman is either feminine or is not. A woman may be able to pretend to be something she isn’t, but the act of pretending…attempting to wear different hats and demonstrate different gears of femininity is a masculine act.
"Opinionated" is just another word for having a slick mouth, feeling that because of the education, their opinions are more superior, or more correct than the next person's. Tennessee Williams stated "All cruel people describe themselves as paragons of frankness."
The more educated, the more the need to be "right". Whatever it take to feel that they're right. Attitude, raising their voice, get angry you name it. Yes I've seen this many times over the decades to say it's so. (Yeah, not all but MOST)
@@empressali601 It doesn't take an entire day to recognize sunshine. It's called discernment. Wisdom is the art of living life skillfully. Combine the two and you become a DSA practitioner. (Dumb $*** Avoidance)
A note to women, all women that want a husband. Find a man that you can be proud of. A decent, kind man. A man that is self motivated and has a strong work ethic. A simple, grounded man. Self confidence is a must. To be loved you will have to convince your man that you love him. This sounds odd but it’s both things simultaneously. Keep it simple as possible but be ready for complicated situations. I could go on but if you get it it isn’t necessary. Good luck to everyone. Love
And ladies, SIMPLE does NOT MEAN STUPID, DO NOT CHOOSE MEN WHO CANNOT SPEAK WITHOUT PAUSING MULTIPLE TIMES, lay with mongos get up with mongfleas and wonder why the 8th "relationship" in a row is a failure
I don’t have what would be considered a high value man as far as his finances, but I am a stay at home mom and we do live in one of the safest and nicest areas in my state (in the Midwest where it doesn’t take anywhere near $300k to live as I described), but the point is I’m happily married and just had my first child. I’m 28. I was so lucky to figure this out right after graduating college and met who is now my husband one month after graduating, at 22. Ladies of my generation and younger please take notes. My husband did not grow up with mom and dad in the house but his mom had the sense to let his dad raise him and it shows. My grandparents, born in the 40s raised me and have been married roughly 60 years, and I thank god my mom left me with them or I wouldn’t have half the head I do on my shoulders. Our young men, who were raised my single moms and women around my age are so broken and confused, but like Kevin says your upbringing does not have to determine your destiny.
I don't know if it was because my mom was a wife first, and not just a baby momma, but she got divorced and raised my brother's and I. None of us are broken or confused. My younger brother has 3 sons and is doing a hell of a job raising them. I treat woman very well and have never disrespected on. There is a such thing as right from wrong and knowing that doesn't require you being raised by a man. I know other guys from single homes with good heads on there shoulders. A lot of guys are just full of shit and they were going to be that way regardless
Men make more money as they get older. Take care of home. Make sure he's at peace and taken care of and, as you know, he will take care of you and the kids.
Interesting enough if people actually managed money well and stop trying to keep up with the Jones. You don’t “need” 300k a year to have a very comfortable lifestyle.
KS: what type of man or husband do you want? Caller: Someone who will be a husband and a father to my children. KS: what’s he going to get? Caller: a beautiful wife… KS: “… whaoo hold on… beautiful?!? How tall are you? “……. Goes down hill from there!!! 🤣 🤣
1st woman I ever heard talk about black men good was Michelle Alexander and sister sharizzard Ali. I dont even know then but I never heard a black woman I know for myself to say black men are good and need their woman to help them. I felt like they get it and wonder why women I know cant comprehend this.
This video is SO good! Thank God, the Lord was looking out for me when he sent my husband. But, PLEASE listen to him, ladies. The work doesn't stop when you get married.
As a 70 yr old guy who has outlived 2 wives I gotta say the amount of paints, glitters, whatever, women use to hide their face is off-putting. I used to tell one she didn't need to put on clown face & she stopped thank gawd. The current practice of every woman stenciling in fake eyebrows so everybody looks the same is asinine. Men prefer to know what a woman looks like without a mask.
Make up is not the problem. Using too much make up is the problem. Lipstick and mascara adds to a women natural beauty. Even though men don't like it, they still mess with the women. Why? If she is off putting. You have the option to keep it moving. That's what I do when I see a man with braids and nasty looking facial hair.
To be completely honest as a man we don’t want aggressive mean masculine woman. We are tired of the attitude. When we go out into the world to make money we come home to be refreshed. And that is where woman are losing with us today. The aggression and the competitive attitude has to shift back to us or things are never going to get better. Period.
Although there is some truth to what is being said here, I believe this thinking is why many relationships don’t work these days. I met my wife when I was a broke college student while standing in line at the movies, I didn’t even have a vehicle. She stood by me when I had nothing. I now make six figures and we have been married for 15 years. I got married at 23 years old. The reason why it worked is because our relationship was built on substance. We have both been fully committed to one another regardless of how much money either of us has made. What this guy continuously describes are completely superficial and vain relationships that will never survive financial struggles or any other serious problem.
He’s already stated that sweat equity is the exception..bonds like that are irreplaceable..this channel is for the ones who didn’t marry their high school sweetheart but expect to gain a high value man that they didn’t help build
@@kevmanshawty6402 I understand what the channel is about and I admit that it’s very interesting to listen to. I’m always interested in hearing about different people’s views on relationships. I enjoy hearing how he thinks and how the females that call in think about relationships. Just makes me wonder why his advice doesn’t work for him. Bro is in his 50s and still single. Been married twice and is currently divorced. I’m not going to say he was specifically at fault for his divorces because I don’t know anything about his personal business but makes me question why this advice didn’t work for the “expert”.
As a medical device rep, I was trained to speak to surgeons in a particular way. I needed to know their lives and the difficulty of thier position. I was trained to add vaule to the product I sold to them so I always offered to provide additional value over my competition and this is who i became the first ethnic female sales and marketing director. I used the same technique to get my husband even when I passed the age 30. women need to learn about the man and how he moves and identify how she can add value. If she is trained in sales, she might be able to crack it.
You're a point about stepfathers disciplining stepchildren is very important. In my CPA practice I have seen stepfathers who try to physically discipline their stepchildren, be arrested for assault. So stepfathers be very very careful as those stepchildren are not yours. Even if you're married to their mother, there could be severe legal ramifications if you physically touch her children. Living with non-biological children can bring a whole host of potential legal and financial problems. It is definitely something to avoid.
Living that story now..i dont touch them..but she doesnt care about trying to correct them either so i leave all their asses alone amd mine my business
It should be default in 2021 to never involve yourself with a single mother. Especially if you have no children of your own. Dudes seem to only learn the hard way. 🤷🏻♂️
Admittedly, I hear some of the women who call into his show and with some, I have to wonder how many of them hang up and think "Psh, screw that guy." Then continue doing what they were, with the same results.
Exactly I think they do exactly what you said..hang the phone up on a guy and continue the same pattern with the same results..Haven't learned anything from their mistakes.
Also, one of these girls hit right in the feels. An ex of mine just acted like she knew everything about everything there was. Always argumentative, always angry over nothing. I chased her for 11 years to have it all implode 5 weeks later. What a waste.
Yep, the ridiculousness is finally getting coming into the light. After too many years of men being bashed, feminists are getting the truth pushed back into their faces. It’s about time.
Kevin gives good advice and tips but why do these Women ask him what do they need to do like he GOD. He has given general tips and advice it is up to you if you choose to use some of it he can not solve all your problems.
I read a report that says many break up between 1 and 3 years. It said the ones that were miserable with each other that stayed together over the 3 year marked lasted years more because they molded to each other. Those numbers alone proves that marriage is work so in your 90 days something goes wrong dont run off, not unless someone cheating or trying to harm you.
He helps point out the truths most females over look about themselves. Things other men don’t say cuz they mostly trying to fuk u. Pay attention. He’s saying everything we don’t.
More women needs to tune in to this show, my brother is speaking the absolute truth, well done on cutting through the bs and tells it how it’s supposed to be done. I’m 40 years old and I can say honestly I have found the right grown ass man channel. Keep cooking up boss!!
To the point, no fluff I'm learning a lot of new things on this channel. Been proposed 5 times in my lifetime, been single for a while after being a widow after be8ng married for 10 years, one son who an adult now. I've done a lot of inner work and still work in process. It's connection if he feels safe with his emotions and you have more than just looks to offer. I never stop learning and will continue until I take my last breath. Great show!
If she can't keep a "man" then she need to broaden her horizons and swirl. Sisters should go where they are appreciated with men who build, provide, and protect.
I'm a elder woman, I agree on everything you're saying. I wish you were around when I was growing up. Young Ladies need to take heed to your teachings; Amen!
So can I ask you what if the man you’re submitting to is verbally abusing you and use demeaning words what do you do ? I’m only asking because I genuinely want to know what older adults think
@@spookydilworth8767 wrong advice, you're the old women kevin be talking about. She and her man needs counselling to work out their issues. You're a bitter old bag
Thank you Kevin. I have grinding on my business and my business is slowly but surely getting bigger and bigger but I can’t compete with these type of growth these Women are making. I just moved out into my own home, currently losing weight at a steady pace and getting in shape, but for some reason these women don’t want to take me seriously. I personally don’t care about all this higher value stuff I’m just focusing on me looking to date average cute women who’s still make it hard for me to try and get me to jump through all these hoops. I appreciate you pointing that out.
Kevin- You should have millions of subscribers. This shit is as real as I have heard. I am sooooo tired of all the BS in society with excuses for everything. You bring a direct dose of TRUTH to the game. Thank you sir
I just heard a brother talk about getting a degree in IT. I just want to give a little bit of encouragement and advice. I went to DeVry university for got my bachelors of science in network and communication management. My first job out of college i started out making $53,000. I have been in the IT industry now for 12 years i now make $200,000+. Oh I’m also black, and I’m 38 years old. Go for it brother. Put in the work and time get in a field in IT that you really enjoy and that challenges you. Listen to others in your field that are more experienced they will help you.
I’m noticing a trend with these women in regards to family structure and self-esteem. This is a lot deeper than what many can fathom. Unfortunately, the black community is dealing with trauma and it shows up in all areas of ones life. So much healing needs to be done 😕
@Jan LeMay you clearly can’t comprehend the notion for which I had conveyed. I was speaking of a broader more underlying issue where as you are discussing the individual decisions that people make. We are talking about 2 different things. But perhaps the capacity of your brain is incapable of actually attaining such information. Also no one has a victim mentality. Get yourself together, Jan. You sound really miserable. You’re probably not even in the position to speak on this. Your comments don’t matter, you just want to add your 2 cents so you feel like you did something. Good for you Jan. Feel any better? I sincerely hope so. Take care.🙃
Your are 100% correct Kevin. As a middle class guy I need to be qualified to get the woman that I want. Also the same goes for women. That's way I'm always working on myself to be the best I can be. Not for women , but for myself. Thanks Kevin for great insight on this issue.👍👍
1:55:00 This is the man they said was a woman-hater?? The way he didn't judge this lady and her, how he was able to give her sensible advice in a caring and respectful way.
"I'm feminine for the right man" means 'I'll play a feminine role as long as you have money, status, are good looking..._and I'm not bored enough to cash out_'.
Just do like I do. If you can't think of anything to say, just tap her gently with your car. Jump out and say "Oh hell, miss are you okay??" Conversation flows naturally then. Helps to look for wedding/engagement ring first though....
Open your wallet with a fake check in your name for 10,000$ works like a charm drop the check near her make sure she sees it. Tell her about your "successful" consulting business 😆.
omg yesss, I dated a guy a few times who had no conversation. i really tried but he just could not hold a conversation. It made me question if he was even really interested. So I backed off, but later he was saying i thought we we were doing good. Im like you don't talk to me 🤦🏽♀️
To the ladies in the comment thread who clearly came here to shoot the messenger thinking it makes you less abhorrent of a potential wife: “You’re right. You know it all. You got all the answers. Your high value husbands of decades must be so proud of you....If we could all be like you the world would be less lonely....” I mean that’s what the world you live ALONE in keeps telling you right? It’s everyone else’s fault. Go ahead and compare apples to shit like we don’t see your false equivalences a mile away...
Wow! You are so “EFFED UP”! What a devastating comment!..... because it’s sooooo SPOT ON, so true about the mindset of so many modern westernized females (of all races in the west) They DO walk around like they know it all and have their shit together....and a SICK society manipulates them by lying to them and agreeing with them.
This man is doing the lord's work. I've learned so much from this channel, and my man constantly comments on how much better things have been between us. I struggled for a long time with stepping into my femininity but ladies I'm telling you, the second you do, the game changes! Anything I could ask for now I get now, back then, not so much, it was like pulling teeth. Thank you for the work you do! It's necessary!
When my boyfriend and I met, he approached me. He said to himself, “I don’t care if she doesn’t give me the time of day, I’m going to talk to her!” No man has ever been bold like that in the past. I loved his boldness, and we’ve now been together almost 2 years, soon to be married. He’s an amazing black man, and treats me better than ANY man, including my ex husband who’s white. Be bold guys, bc we love it!
Literally no one asked you about their races, it’s weird you brought up him treating you better than your white ex husband and said that as if it’s shocking a black man could do that. Weirdo
@@hotmess9640 This is a free platform for everyone to comment. No, I didn’t say it as if it was a shock. It’s called a compliment for a wonderful black man. Learn some kindness towards others. God bless you in spite of your bitterness. 🙏
Thanks K your raw, tough love is much appreciated. Submission is ladies submitting to their own egos, masculine, and yang. Then living, embracing, and growing from yin-the well-spring of feminine divine. Femininity in its most positive form is a perfumed-aura (aphrodisiac) that effortlessly attracts and disarms anyone. This authentic form is a woman who overflows with and shares, her best level of self-respect and self-love. This Truest form of feminine charm inspires, benefits, and uplifts our entire community, especially our men.
Great man. Your teachings live on my brother. You have saved alot of men and women in particular. Your. Legacy never dies but lives on forever. Rest well KS
Women I believe love the idea of being married, but don't really want to be married. It's deep bc we as a people today don't have a decent clue about being married let alone or in a meaningful relationship. Kevin is really good at it what he does.
Men want to continue the relationship they either experienced or lacked with their mothers in their women at home. Majority of men also need help with providing, so women are still working after marrying, and assuming the majority of the home and childcare responsibilities. If she’s working already and will have more work after it’s kind of hard to find the appeal. Everything Kevin said about women outpacing men needs to be brought to the forefront bc that is the issue. Men these days tend to need a lot of assistance with those things.
@@courtneyyy9220 well, GM CourtneyW lol it's hard to say men want to experience our mothers in our women, that's more of an anecdotal statement imo. Not to mention maybe the majority of the men u know & experience can't provide and are looking for a mother figure. Again, that's a your own experience type of statement. Sounds like u need to step outside the circle of dudes u kick it with frfr, bc those guys are clouding ur judgement on all men. When Kevin speaks of women outpacing men, can u provide a little more context lol it's hard tryna grasp a statement someone made without knowing what he was referring to in any specific time frame or jus a random thought.
@@d.t.williams5034 hi Derrick! I have actually just experienced this once. I found KS recently though and through the commentary- left on videos and by members during the broadcast, as well as points made by KS about how 80% of households (of black children) are raised by single moms who toughen their daughters and comfort their sons-my statement is the net net of this experience. I have seen MANY on here talk about needing nurturing and cultivation as men. I came here for a little research before I go back outside but it’s been confusing and disheartening. I accept that the majority with these opinions aren’t my type and I understand what I’ve got going and my ticking clock however my point is that this is not only my anecdotal experience bc I’ve only experienced it once and recently, moreso a summary of documented feedback on these channels. Early on the monologue KS talks about women in their 20’s outpacing men in earnings, career, salary. That should be a call to action for men not an opportunity to attack women. He calls that part how it is. As far as men I know not providing, it’s the majority of men we all know if that’s the case because 72% of women are not able to stop working after kids because they must contribute to pay significant household bills.
Thank you because as a man you made me have to look at myself in the mirror and improve myself and work towards better for me because I need to be better before someone can accept me for who I am!
“It’s something I’m looking into.” Translation: i don’t feel comfortable going to those lengths because I’m too prideful & insecure and I don’t want to appear desperate
Girl!!!🙌 ok? Married for 18 here and all i can say is WOOOOW! I'm here to learn what my mom never taught me so that i can be a better teacher for my daughter. My single/ divorced friends are just done, them heffas will remain single. No hope for them.
@@MimiMoments Funny thing is right now an 18year old telling me she wants to settle at 30, and get kids, she want to have fun, can't make this shit up 😂😂💀,i hadta check her ass, i literally said 25-30 you should be a mom. If you want to get married. Smh.
The balance shifts in favor of men once their SMV increases. Women tend to have the first laugh but in the end men reach real success while women end up alone, no kids, no real talent other than her body that's it. Stop bashing men because you'll get what you give, is an universal law.
Making it so women of color are the top earners of the household via heavy policing, mass incarceration and media manipulation in order to disrupt our family structure was a brilliant idea. Who knew it would work so well.
Men aren't the problem for her and her relationship losses. Y'all want to blame all men for your personal troubles... When you choose who you are and who you date... Y'all hate accountability. This channel is geared to women. If you want to hear those geared towards men go find it.
I tell women it’s our fault. Women don’t take time to study men and ask and learn what their man wants. I’ve been studying how to be a good woman and wife and mom since I was 12 years old. I’ve mastered the art of treating a man well I also attract mostly good men. My current relationship is a woman’s dream! I’m happier than ever 🥰 he knew within 3 months he wanted to marry me and proposed. I’m extremely happy and thankful for my man and I show so much appreciation each and every day. I ask him about his day I gladly cater to him I enjoy his presence all of the love I put into him is consistently reciprocated.
My mother never verbally taught me these qualities Mr. Samuels speaks about however she demonstrated these principles through her actions, she was definitely a submissive wife and I saw her gentile and submissive nature as weakness and decided to pattern myself after my father instead of my mother. 🤦🏾♀️I wish she was still alive so I could to learn now what I rejected in my youth.
Growing up, I resisted learning how to type because I didn't want to be like my mom! It's 2023- still can't type..wish I had gotten the chance to apologize. ❤😢
You just earned a new subscriber! Great knowledge! Waking a lot of young guys up to not let these type of females control them and get into a relationship with a women like this 💯
Kevin was a serious man who spoke the real, real, he would curse you out quick if need be. This woman has been off the Market being a Widow and now wants to re-enter the dating market. So she is out of touch. She should grab up the man who will help cut the grass do chores and help with the bills. It just may be somebody she digs. She already has had her youths best so she should now grow into her twilight yrs together with another man on a different level and not alone. Don’t forget to give him what he wants & needs on demand, enjoy yourselves.
Everything has become so trivial and material now. Look at our grandparents and great grandparents; they were married for 30-40 some even 50 years! There was none of this extra crap that didn’t matter it was hey I like u u like me let’s make this happen. I’m sure the husbands had flaws as did the wives. Nowadays we have so many preferences that we forget we’re lucky to even find true LOVE
@Hate Speech NPC I agree with what you said... however some of the guys on here, seem hell bent to just put a woman down and put them in a lesser catogory based on their outside substance...
i live for the moments where he humbles the individual callers then sips his red bull through a straw. it’s the perfect, “you thought….you really thought”
i was taught to become a wife, and married 3 mos after graduating high school. while dating my spouse i was responsive, feminine, agreeable and willing to let him lead. i could cook, sew, crochet, knit, quilt, do laundry and clean. i knew how to nurture important relationships, plan and organize events. after my divorce after 13 yrs of marriage and raising children. i decided to neva marry again. although i really liked being married. i loved, i lost and i will never lose again.
Please dont ever take Mister Samuel's videos down! He is very much needed in this world😢
More now than ever before....the disease has infected all women in America, not just black women.
(By women, I mean the old fashioned ones without dicks)
When my wife and I met she was heavier than she was several months later. My wife has been the same weight since. We got married 40 years ago. I have a wife many men would wish they had but I have her. She is very smart but never draws attention to herself. My wife is beautiful. When my dad first met her he said, "You'd better marry her because you won't find another one like her." The older I get the more I am glad I married her. She is a precious lady.
lucky joker
What a sweet thing to say. Your wife is a lucky woman to have you too. Good luck to you both.
ur a women
@@ponchorio47 exactly 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
@@ponchorio47 WOMAN*** not women
That boring serious guy you wanted NOTHING to do with in your 20’s is now the High Value Man you WISH you had today.
keep telling that to yourself beta
@@mindfortress105
Beta ? That fact you parrot a narrative without with even knowing someone is telling. Definitely not the National Society of Black Engineers / Accountants type.
I’m 20 and I want the boring one 💯😭 but I’m leveling up right now & it’s sort of difficult but I won’t stop no excuses. Women have to understand that we’re on a time clock and we shouldn’t waste our youth.
@@Konfiden644 You got it, girl!👍
@@Konfiden644 so true. Don’t go after d bad guys who just want sex and adventure in ur 20s and hope to settle down with those u called boring but were serious now you’re in your 30s.
You can be the most well read, well traveled, interesting, kind, fun woman in the world, but unless you meet his physical criteria, he will never walk across the room to meet you and find out how amazing you are. For a man, it starts with your look and it doesn't matter how you feel about it - that's just the way it is.
I'm an older lady and not in the demographic at which Kevin aims his message, but here are some things I've learned about what men want:
physical beauty
turns other men's heads when she walks in the room
dresses like a lady in public (no short skirts, no low cut blouses)
dresses provocatively in private (he'll let you know what he likes and often buy you what he wants to see you in)
gets along with his friends and family
is happy and positive
is affectionate
doesn't whine and complain
doesn't compete with him
admires and respects him and makes sure he knows it
is able to make interesting conversation ESPECIALLY in the presence of his family/friends
knows the social graces
This is mostly in order of importance ACCORDING TO MY EXPERIENCE.
I love listening to Kevin because we can never get enough good advice and a man telling us what men want is going to be good advice.
Not really. Just give us a inviting smile and we'll approach. There's someone for everyone. Just depends on where you are and what you are looking for.
Pretty spot on
Great advice 🙂 you are spot on! That’s how I landed my husband
Last two are unimportant
Lucinda thank you for this!!!
“ your upbringing is not your destiny “
Thank You 😊
Tru but it has a big impact ma'am.
Actually it is unless you have the courage to change it
Ppl will see abuse in their house growing up everyday Know it’s wrong but still turn around and repeat the patter, whether that be being the abuser or welcoming one into their lives. And it’s not intentional that’s the scary part. So self awareness THEN therapy is essential
Kaci, the world don’t owe folk understanding and the guy a chick is destined to be with can only help so much and vice versa. Change is necessary, excuses for no change is bull ish
@@KSlay21 the"courage" you speak of is YOUR responsibility so...
A woman who says she CAN be feminine when she wants to is like a Man saying he’ll be masculine once in awhile when he’s not busy being emotional and switchin his hips...you won’t be respected.
Truth
Facts
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@@yoso5934 Speak for yourself
@@yoso5934 I am a man
My husband proposed to me at the age of 20 and we've been married for 18 years just celebrated our anniversary 4 days ago real talk and I don't see myself with no one else he is my rock
Congratulations 💜
Congratulations beautiful ish
I’m married as well I thank god for my husband I could not imagine dating in this day and age.
@@vbrown4290 extremely difficult I tell you.
Congratulations you guys have been saved from the over saturation of the cesspool. Stay married and continue to be blessed.
“Book a session, you got businesses... you can afford it!” 😭
He's going to match her
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Its amazing that when Kevin asks "what do you want from a man" none of these women say Leadership
They can't say that coz they see themselves as the leaders
They want a leader like them, then you end up with two bulls and he must submit otherwise he doesn't respect her. Bottom line, she's gonna want to lead in reality. Using my wife's TH-cam lol..from South Africa.
It makes sense if you realize they don’t want to be led. They want to run the show.
Women can't take on stress like men do. You would think a man who wants to take the lead woman at very least would say ok do it. The liberal feminists indoctrinated woman believes men are stupid.
Most aren’t leaders, just controlling. A true man that knows how to lead, just does and she follows or submits.
“Are you QUALIFIED for what you want”? Wow! What a question!
Powerful indeed
It's the damn truth.
Ding! Me exgf right there. Got me one that is certified and qualified!
Iti
A very good question.
Women who are independently wealthy should stop dating for security and start dating for companionship. No need for the security of a man, when you have your own bag. Your wealth affords you the ability to seek out happiness first.
Not enough chads for every woman.
So they look for men that can provide but even there these woman don’t need that .
Their success becomes their curse.
That goes against a woman’s nature. Women date for security and stability.
Relationships aren't logic based.
Great advice
100...I’m learning the truth in this day by day
My son will have a guide like no other! Thank you 🙏🏾 Rest On Brother
When a man gets a raise, he says “look what I can provide for my family”. When a woman gets a raise, she says “look what I can provide for me”. So no, your money don’t mean anything to us.
So true
Not true for all. I certainly let go of the I for we and us a long time ago.
MORE PURSES MORE SHOES AND MORE HAIR….. OH AND MORE CLOTHES!!! SPEND THAT MONEY WISELY LOL
Sure not true for all, but the other 90% give the rest a bad name.
Spot on!!!
As a woman, at the age of 25, this is so informative!
Best of luck to you
The degree you need to focus on is your MRS.
@Nunchi Being a Wife... you know “Mr” n “Mrs”
I am SO happy to hear that! I hope you put the information to good use Sarah.
Use this time to plan and get the outcome you want.
Time is like sand in your hands!
I used to travel to NYC (45 min from my home) and talk to random people and ask them questions like, “how would you rank your happiness in life?” I did that for 2 years just building my people skills way up there. Communication and confidence is everything, having the belief in yourself that it doesn’t matter if women reject you or anyone rejects you for that matter. Everything will be ok no matter what happens, if you have that belief, it doesn’t matter what life throws at you! Enjoy your channel Kevin you have very wise words.
Nowadays, people would just think you're trying to recruit them for an MLM! It's gotten bad out there for us random-chatters. :)
@@astarryeyedgirl 😭😂😂
@@khalifaNzuri What happened? I'm from the BX, so I want to know how it was for you.
I approve this message, thanks Craig Axe
Very good perspective
This guy is my new favorite podcaster.And I'm a white guy. So much of what my brother here is saying is important for understanding the breakdown of the nuclear family, morals and society.
Has very little to do with skin color in itself, if you listen carefully.
same here!
I'm in agreement with you, Mexican here still going back and rewatching his videos.
Check out Tom Leykis. You would like him too.
And shortly after he became your new fav, sadly the world took a HUGE lost when he passed. I’m white as well, and absolutely feel 95% of what he said transcended skin color for sure. I wish someone like him was around for my generation 30 years ago, he would have saved me SO MUCH loss and heartache. I haven’t burned through all his content yet, but I know that day will come….damn he is missed!! 👍☮️
I'm married. Started looking for a husband at 19. I was worried that I would run out of time if I waited. And I was very attuned to the fact that I had a limited time to search. Nobody told me this, not even my mom. Honestly, I think at that age I was thinking like a lot of the women who starts thinking about settling down in their 30's. maybe that's why I met and married my husband early in life.
That’s the age imma start looking really now but I’m focused on my goals
I was the same way but have found it difficult finding a HVM at 24. Lots of older men but prefer someone w potential to grow, work ethic, etc. How long did it take you to find a husband?
I'm 30 so I lost my time. It is what it is
Just cause you marry young doesn’t mean it will last.
Congrats to you.
I love this guy because he holds both men and women accountable both sexes . Thank you sir
Man he made me reevaluate myself and my dealings with women.
Ppl love “both” lol
Byron... This is y I love this guy too... He lash out at both gender... I've learned so much from him a whole lot... Thank u KS... The haters n big Shirley's can 8 all they want...
Real talk... Men & women K.S. Pulls you to the carpet and makes you reevaluate yourself.
@@xxstract28 women love saying “both” but in reality they just mean men! I learned to stop using weasel words and “both” is one of them!
I just read an African Proverb that says,a woman is beautiful until she speaks. I'll just say this to young women,the way you treat men when you're in your 20s is the way men will treat you when you're in your 40s.
A woman is beautiful until she speaks? Who said that? Where? I’m african and I’ve never heard that proverb. Proverbs teach lessons... what’s the lesson in this one? Don’t forget Africa has already had female heads of state when the US still hasn’t.
@@Joy-xu9wk Having a female head of state doesn't mean anything. What is important is that the person who won was who the people wanted and deem right for the job. Clearly US just hasn't found a candidate who happens to be a female who could fit that criteria as yet.
Pierre Henry this is in response to the original comment of “a woman is beautiful until she speaks”... I’m wondering why you didn’t comment on that?
If that was only true.
@@incogb6696 "they want to suppress us, because they need us"
I've read this multiple times, just so I didn't miss the context.
Yet this statement doesn't make since to me. According to the definition, you suppress something you don't want to express share, something you want to keep secret, etc...
Can you clarify this statement for me? I am having trouble comprehending what you're trying to convey 🤷🏾♂️
• In reality women are needed by men to procreate. Other than that, women don't build anything of sustainable value.... Why do men need y'all again? Sex?
Hello Kevin, I wish someone was telling me the things you talk about when I was in my twenties. I was told I don't know what you will marry and taught to be independent but my grandma taught me how to be a wife. Your information would have given me the balance I needed. Never too late to learn to help others. Thank you and keep speaking to the women because the older women are not teaching the younger women because they are you competition lol. So true.
Also, I’ve attempted to teach younger women “the truth” and they do not want to know how to treat a man..😳😨
@@TonyaWilliams Also, younger women don't give a F* about men...
@@TonyaWilliams Feminism worked, it taught them men have no value and do nothing, now they don't want to hear that they're wrong. Another generation of angry cat ladies, voting for men to bail them out of life decisions they made.
I also wish he would have been around in my late Teens or Twenty. I would have been a better man in my choosing of women. Raised by single mom who lived to be 73 years of age but never married in her life and died alone. Including me 3 other kid's were born so there were Men around never thought about this until Kevin Samuel ..
someone was telling you. just didnt listen
A soft voice doesn’t make you feminine. It’s an attitude, a way of being. Not something you actively control or manipulate.
Thank you! They think they fooling us....
Maybe, but it helps. I know a chick who has a voice like Fred Sanford. Not an attractive feature at all.
You can control it
That is true. KS alluded to the point that women believe they can turn it on and off. They cannot.
A man cannot turn on or off his masculinity, either. He is a masculine man or he is not.
@@beauty4u132: No, you cannot control your femininity. The very idea behind controlling one’s femininity is itself a masculine approach to character management.
A woman should always be who she is. Because men are the providers, protectors, producers, and builders, we must have four years of masculinity. It’s evolution. It doesn’t work that way for women.
Femininity is the binary opposite to masculinity, which is why women are considered the fairer sex. That is why a woman is either feminine or is not.
A woman may be able to pretend to be something she isn’t, but the act of pretending…attempting to wear different hats and demonstrate different gears of femininity is a masculine act.
KS dropped so many one liner gems in this video I had to pull out my audio recorder. He will be missed...
I agree! He will be missed! Man I couldn’t believe it
Aww man, the girl calling crying is making me tear up, I hope she finds a great therapist to help her out 🙏🏾
that bothered me, too, as she seemed to be so young. I hope whatever was going on has righted itself for her.
I hope she finds one also . I felt her pain
"Opinionated" is just another word for having a slick mouth, feeling that because of the education, their opinions are more superior, or more correct than the next person's. Tennessee Williams stated "All cruel people describe themselves as paragons of frankness."
I agree with Mr Williams.
What does his quote insinuate about the men that insult women in the comments section?
@Shad Rox yeah and you're a really important guy so that's gonna sting,
@@Georgia.J That they're correct.
Unfortunately they be right
The more educated, the more the need to be "right". Whatever it take to feel that they're right. Attitude, raising their voice, get angry you name it. Yes I've seen this many times over the decades to say it's so. (Yeah, not all but MOST)
Because she's not. Amazing women tend to be married whenever I meet one, and goes to show why they got snatched-up quick.
Someone pays attention 👏👏👏!!
True.
Married women have a certain look too.
So you talk to the woman long enough to know her that well to know she was amazing?
@@empressali601 It doesn't take an entire day to recognize sunshine. It's called discernment. Wisdom is the art of living life skillfully. Combine the two and you become a DSA practitioner.
(Dumb $*** Avoidance)
A note to women, all women that want a husband. Find a man that you can be proud of. A decent, kind man. A man that is self motivated and has a strong work ethic. A simple, grounded man. Self confidence is a must. To be loved you will have to convince your man that you love him. This sounds odd but it’s both things simultaneously. Keep it simple as possible but be ready for complicated situations. I could go on but if you get it it isn’t necessary. Good luck to everyone. Love
But that's boring... wheres the fun, excitement, violence and insecurities?
Women dig dat
@@786checkmate
😂😂 ure so wrong !!!
Go on!
Na stay away from us we don't want useless con pussys I'm good
And ladies, SIMPLE does NOT MEAN STUPID, DO NOT CHOOSE MEN WHO CANNOT SPEAK WITHOUT PAUSING MULTIPLE TIMES, lay with mongos get up with mongfleas and wonder why the 8th "relationship" in a row is a failure
I don’t have what would be considered a high value man as far as his finances, but I am a stay at home mom and we do live in one of the safest and nicest areas in my state (in the Midwest where it doesn’t take anywhere near $300k to live as I described), but the point is I’m happily married and just had my first child. I’m 28. I was so lucky to figure this out right after graduating college and met who is now my husband one month after graduating, at 22.
Ladies of my generation and younger please take notes. My husband did not grow up with mom and dad in the house but his mom had the sense to let his dad raise him and it shows. My grandparents, born in the 40s raised me and have been married roughly 60 years, and I thank god my mom left me with them or I wouldn’t have half the head I do on my shoulders. Our young men, who were raised my single moms and women around my age are so broken and confused, but like Kevin says your upbringing does not have to determine your destiny.
I don't know if it was because my mom was a wife first, and not just a baby momma, but she got divorced and raised my brother's and I. None of us are broken or confused. My younger brother has 3 sons and is doing a hell of a job raising them. I treat woman very well and have never disrespected on. There is a such thing as right from wrong and knowing that doesn't require you being raised by a man. I know other guys from single homes with good heads on there shoulders. A lot of guys are just full of shit and they were going to be that way regardless
You’ve won ma’am. Just don’t break your home with divorce.
Men make more money as they get older. Take care of home. Make sure he's at peace and taken care of and, as you know, he will take care of you and the kids.
Interesting enough if people actually managed money well and stop trying to keep up with the Jones. You don’t “need” 300k a year to have a very comfortable lifestyle.
KS: what type of man or husband do you want?
Caller: Someone who will be a husband and a father to my children.
KS: what’s he going to get?
Caller: a beautiful wife…
KS: “… whaoo hold on… beautiful?!? How tall are you? “……. Goes down hill from there!!! 🤣 🤣
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Dress Size
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😂😂😂😂😂
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The culture of the United States does not require women to understand men
Very good Point brother !!!!!!
1st woman I ever heard talk about black men good was Michelle Alexander and sister sharizzard Ali. I dont even know then but I never heard a black woman I know for myself to say black men are good and need their woman to help them. I felt like they get it and wonder why women I know cant comprehend this.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 yes oooo
Don't try to understand women! Women understand women, and they hate each other!
Blac women*** but u on the money
As a woman instead of choosing to feel attacked , I choose to listen. I don’t agree with everything he says BUT i take from it the lessons
🎯 ABSOLUTELY!!
I totally agree with you. 💖
There shouldn't be a feeling of attack, as Kevin is only telling everyone what men want. Women only call it bashing if it sounds too much like them😂
The 29 y/o is more mature than the 45 y/o with 2 kids.
You’re right. This is the only logical way to think.
@@pikachuuuuuuu1928
View it as an interview for a job.
@@jasonphillips2204 that part 🔥
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Still no man.
"Give up the need to be right." Ouch, that one hit close to home. I needed to hear that. Thanks Godfather.
Second part was the real gold, "... and settle for being correct"
My mom always told me women want love. Men want Respect 🙌
I have a feeling you not black?
Go thank your mom as she is 100% correct and she has put you ahead of the curve with this revaluation.
Where you from?
Your mom was correct!
💯 I’m guessing you aren’t American?
Why can’t they just ask/answer the question? Why the hesitancy... it’s annoying. And too many ‘uhms’ and ‘likes’.
Very poor speech for being so high value...
U single? Answer with no hesitancy 😂😂
I KNOW RIGHT?!!!! Dayum.
Cause they goofy 🤪
Its sad, and this is just one end of the extreme... the opposite end is the bridal shop owner.
This video is SO good! Thank God, the Lord was looking out for me when he sent my husband. But, PLEASE listen to him, ladies. The work doesn't stop when you get married.
As a 70 yr old guy who has outlived 2 wives I gotta say the amount of paints, glitters, whatever, women use to hide their face is off-putting. I used to tell one she didn't need to put on clown face & she stopped thank gawd. The current practice of every woman stenciling in fake eyebrows so everybody looks the same is asinine. Men prefer to know what a woman looks like without a mask.
Yes, makeup is supposed to highlight features and enhance, not change someone’s looks.
They all look like an angry bird cartoon😂
Make up is not the problem. Using too much make up is the problem. Lipstick and mascara adds to a women natural beauty. Even though men don't like it, they still mess with the women. Why? If she is off putting. You have the option to keep it moving. That's what I do when I see a man with braids and nasty looking facial hair.
To be completely honest as a man we don’t want aggressive mean masculine woman. We are tired of the attitude. When we go out into the world to make money we come home to be refreshed. And that is where woman are losing with us today. The aggression and the competitive attitude has to shift back to us or things are never going to get better. Period.
Everytime he sip that Red Bull he about to go in😂😂
Right? Lol
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Brooooo every time 🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣😂😂 I gotta develop a energy drink and get him to sponsor it. Bro just with us I’ll be set.
I wish he’d cutback...it’s not healthy for him
😂 every single time
If you are jealous of Pookie and Ray Ray, you should probably take a good look at your choice in women as well.
Good point lol
wow you just said a mouth full, more black men should hear this
Wow. This comment
Agreed.
Facts!
Meet my wife when I was 19(1992). Married in 1997 we will be celebrating 25th anniversary soon. It's not and easy road" 🇯🇲🇺🇲 Hard Hard Work
Women today want men as an accessory like a handbag.
True.
They want recourses
Resources
good day. on youtube many women are teaching this and girls are applying it. sad i know.
Yup they just want the validation there desirable..
Shouts out to Kevin for expanding his content and channel into the right direction....from fragrances to real talk! Proud of you brother
Although there is some truth to what is being said here, I believe this thinking is why many relationships don’t work these days. I met my wife when I was a broke college student while standing in line at the movies, I didn’t even have a vehicle. She stood by me when I had nothing. I now make six figures and we have been married for 15 years. I got married at 23 years old. The reason why it worked is because our relationship was built on substance. We have both been fully committed to one another regardless of how much money either of us has made. What this guy continuously describes are completely superficial and vain relationships that will never survive financial struggles or any other serious problem.
Your the exception
You do realize Men are smart enough to see through your comment.
@@sylkstarks6595 there are so many exceptions actually more than you think
He’s already stated that sweat equity is the exception..bonds like that are irreplaceable..this channel is for the ones who didn’t marry their high school sweetheart but expect to gain a high value man that they didn’t help build
@@kevmanshawty6402 I understand what the channel is about and I admit that it’s very interesting to listen to. I’m always interested in hearing about different people’s views on relationships. I enjoy hearing how he thinks and how the females that call in think about relationships. Just makes me wonder why his advice doesn’t work for him. Bro is in his 50s and still single. Been married twice and is currently divorced. I’m not going to say he was specifically at fault for his divorces because I don’t know anything about his personal business but makes me question why this advice didn’t work for the “expert”.
As a medical device rep, I was trained to speak to surgeons in a particular way. I needed to know their lives and the difficulty of thier position. I was trained to add vaule to the product I sold to them so I always offered to provide additional value over my competition and this is who i became the first ethnic female sales and marketing director. I used the same technique to get my husband even when I passed the age 30. women need to learn about the man and how he moves and identify how she can add value. If she is trained in sales, she might be able to crack it.
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The fact that he has to tell people 2 and 3 times to follow simple instructions on the call ins says it all.
Yeah it shows that they’ve never been called out or held accountable.
I truly had to see it to believe it..
Speak on it
Because many people that are calling in lack basic listening and comprehension skills smh 🤦🏽♀️
@@nellynel6141 it shows they are morons
"let go all the arguments youre not an expert in, give up the need to be right"....Best advice i have seen anywhere.
She can't keep one because they become too preoccupied with getting what they want. After a while most of them just want their way. Self-righteous.
True.
That part
Your upbringing is not your destiny. Good stuff, Kevin. I totally agree with this! 💯
You're a point about stepfathers disciplining stepchildren is very important. In my CPA practice I have seen stepfathers who try to physically discipline their stepchildren, be arrested for assault. So stepfathers be very very careful as those stepchildren are not yours. Even if you're married to their mother, there could be severe legal ramifications if you physically touch her children. Living with non-biological children can bring a whole host of potential legal and financial problems. It is definitely something to avoid.
Living that story now..i dont touch them..but she doesnt care about trying to correct them either so i leave all their asses alone amd mine my business
@@bernelrichardson1752 man leave that woman and her kids alone. I dealt with the same problem and got outta there.
@@bernelrichardson1752 sad
It should be default in 2021 to never involve yourself with a single mother. Especially if you have no children of your own. Dudes seem to only learn the hard way. 🤷🏻♂️
Been there done that. "Run Forest, Run!"
Admittedly, I hear some of the women who call into his show and with some, I have to wonder how many of them hang up and think "Psh, screw that guy." Then continue doing what they were, with the same results.
Exactly I think they do exactly what you said..hang the phone up on a guy and continue the same pattern with the same results..Haven't learned anything from their mistakes.
Definition of Insanity : Repeating the Same Mistakes Over and Over and Expecting a Different Result
I wonder why they even call
The definition of insanity..doing the same thing over and over while being the same exact results.
Omg...I love when you put these women in their places...I just wait for it...😀😍 Sir, please continue to tell us women the truth. Thank you...
When a woman don't mind learning new things, and her feelings are not easy hurt by hearing the truth... Thx u💐
@@mrvisionaryseekinoftruth3862 literally. I've never benefited from being lied to or sugarcoated. Tell me what it is so I can fix it.
I learned a lot from this show. Very eye opening and very candid.
Also, one of these girls hit right in the feels. An ex of mine just acted like she knew everything about everything there was. Always argumentative, always angry over nothing. I chased her for 11 years to have it all implode 5 weeks later. What a waste.
Yep, the ridiculousness is finally getting coming into the light. After too many years of men being bashed, feminists are getting the truth pushed back into their faces. It’s about time.
Kevin gives good advice and tips but why do these Women ask him what do they need to do like he GOD. He has given general tips and advice it is up to you if you choose to use some of it he can not solve all your problems.
Head over to Salkis Re channel
These women sound so childish, they need to read more and travel, expand their mind, I am truly embarrassed!!!
Exactly!
I read a report that says many break up between 1 and 3 years. It said the ones that were miserable with each other that stayed together over the 3 year marked lasted years more because they molded to each other. Those numbers alone proves that marriage is work so in your 90 days something goes wrong dont run off, not unless someone cheating or trying to harm you.
He helps point out the truths most females over look about themselves. Things other men don’t say cuz they mostly trying to fuk u. Pay attention. He’s saying everything we don’t.
More women needs to tune in to this show, my brother is speaking the absolute truth, well done on cutting through the bs and tells it how it’s supposed to be done. I’m 40 years old and I can say honestly I have found the right grown ass man channel. Keep cooking up boss!!
To the point, no fluff I'm learning a lot of new things on this channel. Been proposed 5 times in my lifetime, been single for a while after being a widow after be8ng married for 10 years, one son who an adult now. I've done a lot of inner work and still work in process. It's connection if he feels safe with his emotions and you have more than just looks to offer. I never stop learning and will continue until I take my last breath. Great show!
Proposed 5 times… that’s not even counting dating. I really hope you got therapy. You’re severely damaged.
If she can't keep a "man" then she need to broaden her horizons and swirl. Sisters should go where they are appreciated with men who build, provide, and protect.
Sad part is it’s 2020& the only “build providing & protecting” goin on is by the beta males
Right if SHE can't keep a man let's down talk the black man. Swirl then but remember other races have serious expectations from wives.
@@BigPapaVerde17 and that's fine. Alphas are the minority anyway.
@@BigPapaVerde17 There are high value Beta males ie Will Smith types🤷🏾♀️ Every guy that *thinks* he’s an Alpha is not ie Shug Knight types.
You require : build, provide, and protect.
Men require: maintain, appreciate and be nice ( feminine).
I'm a elder woman, I agree on everything you're saying. I wish you were around when I was growing up. Young Ladies need to take heed to your teachings; Amen!
So can I ask you what if the man you’re submitting to is verbally abusing you and use demeaning words what do you do ? I’m only asking because I genuinely want to know what older adults think
@@Soneelicious Don't hesitate; leave him (do it secretly & quietly and relocate) share it with someone you trust. Your life and time is valuable.
@@spookydilworth8767 wrong advice, you're the old women kevin be talking about. She and her man needs counselling to work out their issues. You're a bitter old bag
@@exerciseisantidote9337 I'M not in negative of any sort. I'm at peace & happier standing & owning positivity.
@@Soneelicious don't chose a verbally abusive man
When Kevin said most classics don't have road miles 🤣🤣🤣
Real talk 4k to 10k miles at best.... these girls be hopping from pole to pole... wearing out the o ring 🤣🤣
Good One!!!
That was Accurate AF
Thank you Kevin. I have grinding on my business and my business is slowly but surely getting bigger and bigger but I can’t compete with these type of growth these Women are making. I just moved out into my own home, currently losing weight at a steady pace and getting in shape, but for some reason these women don’t want to take me seriously. I personally don’t care about all this higher value stuff I’m just focusing on me looking to date average cute women who’s still make it hard for me to try and get me to jump through all these hoops. I appreciate you pointing that out.
Kevin- You should have millions of subscribers. This shit is as real as I have heard. I am sooooo tired of all the BS in society with excuses for everything. You bring a direct dose of TRUTH to the game. Thank you sir
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I just heard a brother talk about getting a degree in IT. I just want to give a little bit of encouragement and advice. I went to DeVry university for got my bachelors of science in network and communication management. My first job out of college i started out making $53,000. I have been in the IT industry now for 12 years i now make $200,000+. Oh I’m also black, and I’m 38 years old. Go for it brother. Put in the work and time get in a field in IT that you really enjoy and that challenges you. Listen to others in your field that are more experienced they will help you.
I’m noticing a trend with these women in regards to family structure and self-esteem. This is a lot deeper than what many can fathom. Unfortunately, the black community is dealing with trauma and it shows up in all areas of ones life. So much healing needs to be done 😕
@Jan LeMay lies
@Jan LeMay you clearly can’t comprehend the notion for which I had conveyed. I was speaking of a broader more underlying issue where as you are discussing the individual decisions that people make. We are talking about 2 different things. But perhaps the capacity of your brain is incapable of actually attaining such information.
Also no one has a victim mentality. Get yourself together, Jan. You sound really miserable. You’re probably not even in the position to speak on this. Your comments don’t matter, you just want to add your 2 cents so you feel like you did something. Good for you Jan. Feel any better? I sincerely hope so. Take care.🙃
@Jan LeMay
Go get some sunshine. Tootles.
@Jan LeMay you have thoughts? Wow I’m intrigued.
Good for you, Jan. I’m proud of you!
Take care ma’am.
True story.
He speaks to women and men. I appreciate the advice and improve myself with his shared wisdom.
I love when Kevin makes a great point, you then just hear crickets! I love it! He leaves women speechless!
Your are 100% correct Kevin. As a middle class guy I need to be qualified to get the woman that I want. Also the same goes for women. That's way I'm always working on myself to be the best I can be. Not for women , but for myself. Thanks Kevin for great insight on this issue.👍👍
1:55:00 This is the man they said was a woman-hater?? The way he didn't judge this lady and her, how he was able to give her sensible advice in a caring and respectful way.
"I'm feminine for the right man" means 'I'll play a feminine role as long as you have money, status, are good looking..._and I'm not bored enough to cash out_'.
he def right alot of us guys are scared to approach women and dont know how to hold a conversation either
this truly needs to be talked about
Just do like I do. If you can't think of anything to say, just tap her gently with your car. Jump out and say "Oh hell, miss are you okay??" Conversation flows naturally then. Helps to look for wedding/engagement ring first though....
Better yet her shopping cart. (I AM KIDDING, folks!!!)
Open your wallet with a fake check in your name for 10,000$ works like a charm drop the check near her make sure she sees it. Tell her about your "successful" consulting business 😆.
omg yesss, I dated a guy a few times who had no conversation. i really tried but he just could not hold a conversation. It made me question if he was even really interested. So I backed off, but later he was saying i thought we we were doing good. Im like you don't talk to me 🤦🏽♀️
I don't know how to either but I've been trying to start off with ice breakers (not the mint).
To the ladies in the comment thread who clearly came here to shoot the messenger thinking it makes you less abhorrent of a potential wife: “You’re right. You know it all. You got all the answers. Your high value husbands of decades must be so proud of you....If we could all be like you the world would be less lonely....” I mean that’s what the world you live ALONE in keeps telling you right? It’s everyone else’s fault. Go ahead and compare apples to shit like we don’t see your false equivalences a mile away...
Talk that shit Bro! The truth hurts down in the bones and soul!😂😂😂
Royce Jay I just tell these broads that I only argue with husbands these days because those circles they run around go on forever...
TheDCGuitar13 Facts
Damn...he fried’em!
Wow! You are so “EFFED UP”!
What a devastating comment!.....
because it’s sooooo SPOT ON, so true about the mindset of so many modern westernized females (of all races in the west)
They DO walk around like they know it all and have their shit together....and a SICK society manipulates them by lying to them and agreeing with them.
This man is doing the lord's work. I've learned so much from this channel, and my man constantly comments on how much better things have been between us. I struggled for a long time with stepping into my femininity but ladies I'm telling you, the second you do, the game changes! Anything I could ask for now I get now, back then, not so much, it was like pulling teeth.
Thank you for the work you do! It's necessary!
love it
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Lol hilarious
I appreciate it when he mentions going to therapy, and it's not just women but for us men as well.
When my boyfriend and I met, he approached me. He said to himself, “I don’t care if she doesn’t give me the time of day, I’m going to talk to her!” No man has ever been bold like that in the past. I loved his boldness, and we’ve now been together almost 2 years, soon to be married. He’s an amazing black man, and treats me better than ANY man, including my ex husband who’s white. Be bold guys, bc we love it!
What are your boyfriend dude with the wrong woman will catch up with me too case. He was lucky that you were open to the cold approach
Literally no one asked you about their races, it’s weird you brought up him treating you better than your white ex husband and said that as if it’s shocking a black man could do that. Weirdo
@@hotmess9640 This is a free platform for everyone to comment. No, I didn’t say it as if it was a shock. It’s called a compliment for a wonderful black man. Learn some kindness towards others. God bless you in spite of your bitterness. 🙏
@@kimberlyhudson4439 lol 😂 there was no reason to throw in the race of your ex husband lmao but you just had to
Easy for you to say. You don’t risk shit…
Thanks K your raw, tough love is much appreciated. Submission is ladies submitting to their own egos, masculine, and yang. Then living, embracing, and growing from yin-the well-spring of feminine divine. Femininity in its most positive form is a perfumed-aura (aphrodisiac) that effortlessly attracts and disarms anyone. This authentic form is a woman who overflows with and shares, her best level of self-respect and self-love. This Truest form of feminine charm inspires, benefits, and uplifts our entire community, especially our men.
I can imagine how these women break down in tears after they hang up. It's such a harsh truth for both women and men.
I drink those tears with glee
Facts. I see them laying in bed staring at the ceiling replaying the convo over and over.
Great man. Your teachings live on my brother. You have saved alot of men and women in particular. Your. Legacy never dies but lives on forever. Rest well KS
Women I believe love the idea of being married, but don't really want to be married. It's deep bc we as a people today don't have a decent clue about being married let alone or in a meaningful relationship. Kevin is really good at it what he does.
Okay
Yes, a lot of women want a wedding but not a marriage.
Men want to continue the relationship they either experienced or lacked with their mothers in their women at home. Majority of men also need help with providing, so women are still working after marrying, and assuming the majority of the home and childcare responsibilities. If she’s working already and will have more work after it’s kind of hard to find the appeal. Everything Kevin said about women outpacing men needs to be brought to the forefront bc that is the issue. Men these days tend to need a lot of assistance with those things.
@@courtneyyy9220 well, GM CourtneyW lol it's hard to say men want to experience our mothers in our women, that's more of an anecdotal statement imo. Not to mention maybe the majority of the men u know & experience can't provide and are looking for a mother figure. Again, that's a your own experience type of statement. Sounds like u need to step outside the circle of dudes u kick it with frfr, bc those guys are clouding ur judgement on all men. When Kevin speaks of women outpacing men, can u provide a little more context lol it's hard tryna grasp a statement someone made without knowing what he was referring to in any specific time frame or jus a random thought.
@@d.t.williams5034 hi Derrick! I have actually just experienced this once. I found KS recently though and through the commentary- left on videos and by members during the broadcast, as well as points made by KS about how 80% of households (of black children) are raised by single moms who toughen their daughters and comfort their sons-my statement is the net net of this experience. I have seen MANY on here talk about needing nurturing and cultivation as men. I came here for a little research before I go back outside but it’s been confusing and disheartening. I accept that the majority with these opinions aren’t my type and I understand what I’ve got going and my ticking clock however my point is that this is not only my anecdotal experience bc I’ve only experienced it once and recently, moreso a summary of documented feedback on these channels.
Early on the monologue KS talks about women in their 20’s outpacing men in earnings, career, salary. That should be a call to action for men not an opportunity to attack women. He calls that part how it is. As far as men I know not providing, it’s the majority of men we all know if that’s the case because 72% of women are not able to stop working after kids because they must contribute to pay significant household bills.
These tracks at the beginning are BANGIN'.
Facts! "Is your attitude right" "do you make a good GF or wife"?!
Thank you because as a man you made me have to look at myself in the mirror and improve myself and work towards better for me because I need to be better before someone can accept me for who I am!
“Unless your woman’s name is Polly”.... LOL!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Perfect ending. Fellas, become the BAG!
“It’s something I’m looking into.”
Translation: i don’t feel comfortable going to those lengths because I’m too prideful & insecure and I don’t want to appear desperate
The last half hour of this stream when Kevin was speaking to the men was nothing but straight facts.
Wow....IM so glad I married...27 yrs....😂..this is so sad....I watch this show to help my friends.
Once your friends hit 30, you can’t help them anymore.
Girl!!!🙌 ok? Married for 18 here and all i can say is WOOOOW! I'm here to learn what my mom never taught me so that i can be a better teacher for my daughter. My single/ divorced friends are just done, them heffas will remain single. No hope for them.
@@MimiMoments Funny thing is right now an 18year old telling me she wants to settle at 30, and get kids, she want to have fun, can't make this shit up 😂😂💀,i hadta check her ass, i literally said 25-30 you should be a mom. If you want to get married. Smh.
Tell your friends to lose ALL masculine habits and be a loving wife who supports and not try to take the lead.
@@sage_comics she will realize her mistake when she enters the danger zone. Too late!!! The guys want the YOUNGER version of you.
The balance shifts in favor of men once their SMV increases. Women tend to have the first laugh but in the end men reach real success while women end up alone, no kids, no real talent other than her body that's it. Stop bashing men because you'll get what you give, is an universal law.
What is SMV ?
Sexual market value
@@yvelineyuok2235 SOCIAL Market Value
That's so true.
The people you step on, as you climb up are the same ones who you will see again on your way down.
KARMA'S A B!+€H.
@James Cox you weren't born because your parents were alone. Think about it
I feel like black people are the only people that add all these dating and relationship complexities. The shit should be simpler.
Exactly
Making it so women of color are the top earners of the household via heavy policing, mass incarceration and media manipulation in order to disrupt our family structure was a brilliant idea. Who knew it would work so well.
The incarceration rate has went down 35% in the last ten years for bm. 51% of bm are childless and single. 64% live in the middle class.
Can u say that again please
Amen to that
I wish I had a father like you growing up.
"men aren't the problem at this point"
There you go with that accountability Kevin. You know they don't want to hear that. Everything's our fault.
Men aren't the problem for her and her relationship losses. Y'all want to blame all men for your personal troubles... When you choose who you are and who you date... Y'all hate accountability. This channel is geared to women. If you want to hear those geared towards men go find it.
Kevin why is your ring finger empty yet you're so desired and self confidence?
@@pamelahaywood7859 Call into the show and ask him.
Rebecca Lynn pope does a better job with pointing out whos accountable for what. Kevin is correct in some things but so one sided
I tell women it’s our fault. Women don’t take time to study men and ask and learn what their man wants. I’ve been studying how to be a good woman and wife and mom since I was 12 years old. I’ve mastered the art of treating a man well I also attract mostly good men.
My current relationship is a woman’s dream! I’m happier than ever 🥰 he knew within 3 months he wanted to marry me and proposed.
I’m extremely happy and thankful for my man and I show so much appreciation each and every day. I ask him about his day I gladly cater to him I enjoy his presence all of the love I put into him is consistently reciprocated.
My mother never verbally taught me these qualities Mr. Samuels speaks about however she demonstrated these principles through her actions, she was definitely a submissive wife and I saw her gentile and submissive nature as weakness and decided to pattern myself after my father instead of my mother. 🤦🏾♀️I wish she was still alive so I could to learn now what I rejected in my youth.
Growing up, I resisted learning how to type because I didn't want to be like my mom! It's 2023- still can't type..wish I had gotten the chance to apologize. ❤😢
You just earned a new subscriber! Great knowledge! Waking a lot of young guys up to not let these type of females control them and get into a relationship with a women like this 💯
Kevin was a serious man who spoke the real, real, he would curse you out quick if need be.
This woman has been off the Market being a Widow and now wants to re-enter the dating market. So she is out of touch.
She should grab up the man who will help cut the grass do chores and help with the bills. It just may be somebody she digs. She already has had her youths best so she should now grow into her twilight yrs together with another man on a different level and not alone.
Don’t forget to give him what he wants & needs on demand, enjoy yourselves.
These woman struggle to answer simple questions! Yet they probably drill brothers up and down like attorneys doing cross examinations!
Good point.... very good point.
Grownups and can’t answer questions..
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haha
Best belive they took brothers down to divorce court.
Everything has become so trivial and material now. Look at our grandparents and great grandparents; they were married for 30-40 some even 50 years! There was none of this extra crap that didn’t matter it was hey I like u u like me let’s make this happen. I’m sure the husbands had flaws as did the wives. Nowadays we have so many preferences that we forget we’re lucky to even find true LOVE
They took lots of abuse too.
@@bria2luv305 LOTS
Men were typically providers as well❣️
@Hate Speech NPC I agree with what you said... however some of the guys on here, seem hell bent to just put a woman down and put them in a lesser catogory based on their outside substance...
"If the market doesn't buy you are mispriced" that's a harsh reality that women definitely won't accept well. good stuff kevin
Just found your channel from The Roomates podcast. Immediately subbed. Thank you for spreading this information !
This man kevin Samuel is ice cold on these women.
Yes. Very cringey.
@@ts8024 only cringey to people who can’t handle the truth
You have to bruh
The p hand is strong
This man can't stay married and yall are taking him seriously?! Ok.
i live for the moments where he humbles the individual callers then sips his red bull through a straw. it’s the perfect, “you thought….you really thought”
i was taught to become a wife, and married 3 mos after graduating high school. while dating my spouse i was responsive, feminine, agreeable and willing to let him lead. i could cook, sew, crochet, knit, quilt, do laundry and clean. i knew how to nurture important relationships, plan and organize events. after my divorce after 13 yrs of marriage and raising children. i decided to neva marry again. although i really liked being married. i loved, i lost and i will never lose again.
42:33 $50K a year is bread winner status
Kevin: That's bread eater status
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Grown man shit 😤😂😂😂
@@pedror504 😂
I caught that too 😂😂😂
50k a year as a single man in a regular size town is good money to me :D
@@icynok not everybody needs to buy overpriced bullshit like $75 stake dinner thats worth $8 .I save at 50 k.