I grew up in a house with 5 women I watched them all disrespect and devalue every man they ever encountered. About 8 years ago my mom confessed to me that she hates men and always will. It was both liberating and heart breaking at the same time. Liberating because I finally understood why my dad walked out he didn’t leave me he left her. Heartbreaking because I suffered all types of spirit breaking abuse from my mom and sisters all because they didn’t want me to become a man. My mom now has dementia and guess who’s taking care of her. I’m still trying to heal 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
The same group of women who think smiling at a man is promiscuous behavior are the same women who think twerking in public with little or no clothes on is empowering, smh.
It is empowering to them. They're going to get some sucker to dump their seed in them, get a free ride on the welfare system, and have power over that man for the next 18-21 years when that child is born. Then they get to live with victim benefits forever.
I remember walking up towards a store with a lot in my hands including my baby. A black man came out the store and helped me in the store and held the door for me. I smiled warmly and thanked him for helping me, he told me whenever he does this for other black women he gets a dirty look and gets told they don’t need his help. 🤦🏽♀️ I needed his help and I appreciated his help and I always smile at all men, it’s not promiscuous to be kind. 😔
That's very sweet of you, I come in with Sweet and Kindness at a Fast food Place. I say good Morning, NO response🤣😂, I asked how was your Day, No response, and I always Sandwich it with Have a Good day, Still gets no Answer🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Even the most racist White Woman will grudgingly say Thank you to a BM for holding the door for her or some other act of kindness but on average Black Women are gonna ignore the gesture as if u weren't even there. So very rude and disrespectful.
@@fredrickmeredith513 it’s strange to my inner soul but it’s the truth. I’m guilty of leaving them alone. Their demeanor speaks and so I listen. I swing the door hard enough for her to catch it. That’s equal to the level of appreciation I’ve received in recent years for being a gentleman when I would hold doors. Now I’m select with my kindness. And that bothers me because I wasn’t raised that way. I also wasn’t raised amongst these types of women, either. So…🤷🏾♂️
@@thatruest8928 The really bazaar thing too is that the modern Black Woman ON AVERAGE will absolutely acknowledge and PROFUSELY thank Men of other races for acts of kindness towards them but will treat a BM with contempt that's why unless she's (Black Woman) over 65 years old or has multiple small children I'm perfectly content to let that door slam right in her face. Sadly,ON AVERAGE this is what they deserve and they've certainly earned that with me. Let's face it brothers, we're the only race of Men in the world that does not have a Woman. PERIOD.
I've watched a couple videos randomly. I learned about this man after his passing. I'm Mexican but from an Indigenous community in Mexico. These videos have been shocking and eye opening. This one in particular really hit me hard. I feel for my Black brother's. No one has ever given me lip for being chivalrous to random Mexican women. I feel that it's expected of me as a man. I've helped change tires, load lumber, grab grocery items from the top shelf for Mexican women who are complete strangers. It's not even sexual or anything like that. I know that Mexican women have our back. It's not even a question. A regular Mexican man making $40K, anywhere in the US, can find a solid wife no problem. For 3 years my shift changed at my work and I had to wake up at 3am to go work outside in this triple digit heat. My wife would wake up with me, make me breakfast and coffee. She would also make me lunch. I have a hard time waking up to an alarm clock too. She is the reason I was never late in those 3 years. I never once asked her to do any of these things for me. She just did it. She changed the whole routine in our home to facilitate me getting to bed at 8pm. I would get home around 5pm or 6pm if I had to get groceries or run other errands. I would take a shower and dinner was ready when I was done getting clean. Then we'd watch TV together as a family or go work in our vegetable garden. After that it was bedtime. I made damn sure I washed all the dishes no matter how tired I was. Just to show her that I appreciate everything she does for me. I'm not rich y'all. I'm just a simple man. These videos are making me understand how blessed I truly am. This one just broke my heart y'all 💔 😢 This is tragic.
Black women wouldn't even want to breathe the same air as a black man who makes $40,000 a year, Hispanics really care about each other and keep families together.
In college I worked at a shoe store. Two beautiful twin sisters walked in. They knew a friend of mine who also worked there. I remember really wanting to talk to one of the sisters. I tried to offer her assistance and I was always met with a cold harsh energy. I didn’t give up hope. When she was ready to check out, I made sure I was the one who assisted her. I tried to compliment her, joke, and ask what her plans were for the weekend. She was stone cold and didn’t even smile at me. I gave up and left it alone. When she checked out, she wen to where her sister and my friend were. When they left, I asked my friend about the sister I was wanting to talk to. He told me that she told him “he sounds and looks like he only talks to white girls”. I can’t tell you how much hearing that destroyed my confidence. I never let it make me hate black women, but it taught me early that some women are just turned off to us black men and our image early in life. I was home schooled, so I didn’t get to experience high school where many people learn about their peers.. Wow does this episode hit home for me.
Don't let her comment touch you. She was not interested. Some young girls do not like respectful,educated, "sheltered" men. If you were home schooled that means your parents take full responsibility to guide you. If she could not be pleasant towards you as an employee that says she is ill mannered and disrespectful. The "looks like he dates white girls" was an insult. You are far better off to have found out her true nature upfront and avoiding her all together. I wish you happiness with a Black FBI. She is out there!
The lady mad at someone telling her to smile nearly took me out. I left the gym this morning and a man said something to me. I didn’t hear him so he repeated and said I gave you a compliment. I stopped, apologized that I didn’t hear him and thanked him for his compliment. He was polite and deserved a polite response. I learned something from this one.
@@bodhisattvasvow2804 wow we really are that simple aren't we. Huh when I think about it i rarely see black women smile. I used to be so happy whenever my ex smile at me. It could really brighten my day.
You can call it what you want but I don't compliment women that are not family members unless I slept with them it cuts out all the foolishness involved with trying to be nice to women
They talk about us men not protecting them, when they are the ones who betray us call the enemies into our camp to take us out. How can you protect someone that's sleeping with the enemy?
LOL...don't be sorry. Recognize the silliness of too many BW as an opportunity for yourself (if you're single) and eligible BM. My wife, an Asian woman, sure did.
chiile this the one. Heal and be whole. Black women are labeled as angry allllll the time...smiling is simple and essential. Cost nothing to be polite even when offended..Some of us are sour as lemons but I say add a lil sugar and water and drink up!🍯👑
This is why I’m in therapy. What is offensive about being told to smile? I was having a bad day & a brother told me “Smile beautiful, everything will be alright.” I smiled back & thanked him. That statement made my day. Everyday I smile at everyone especially my black men before I put my mask on. It doesn’t harm anyone to smile at them. Smiles are contagious in a positive way.
We often don't say smile for the sake of our own benefit but as a way to cheer a stranger up when we sense their having a bad day! When you smile the whole world smiles with you. Even if you don't feel like smiling you'd be surprised how much your mood changes when you do!
I only say “Good Morning” in passing to old women. Younger women think it’s a pickup line smh. People prefer random likes online over real attention these days.
Same. I like greeting older women long as they don't hit on me. I say "hi, Ms. Whatever" they call me something nice like "Hi baby" or "sugar", or "sweetie". And that's that. Imagine me calling a young woman "sweetie" or "doll". I'm being condescending or sexist.
Facts. I live in a majority white neighborhood and a WW is more likely to say Goodmoring and smile to me than a BW. However, if I see a brother it is always love and we don’t even have to know each other. Crazy.
I'll share my "smile" story. I was in my hometown and had just left my moms graveside. Afterwards, I went to California Dreamers to grab dinner. So I'm at the bar and two BW were sitting 6ft away from me. We greeted...I started to reflect on my mom. After a bit,, One of the BW said , "smile". I did. We started laughing and conversing, platonically. By the end of the night, I treated them to dinner, they left. The end. Moral of the story Her *suggestion* was taken as a positive and changed my mood for the better.
I'm a woman and there has never been a time when I was ever offended by a man asking me to smile. I usually end up laughing or having a quick wit convo and I was on my merry way. I couldn't fathom that caller saying she was "offended". 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏾♀️ Then again that is why I mostly have male friends.
And they both got free dinners out of you for their request/ suggestion. All 3 of you were platonically happy. If women could expect free dinners for telling men what was told to you, I'm sure more would. Especially a platonic intentioned man like yourself.
if it’s one thing that you can bet on every time it’s that women especially black women gonna duck and dodge that accountability. it’s always the mans fault and they are the victims.. no more of that bs
This remind me of the interview with Ice Cube for "Contract With Black America." His contract was for ALL black people, but the BW wanted to feel above everyone.
You deserve an Emmy for this one. If they were to give awards out for TH-cam content. Have to admit I got a little emotional when you were talking to the therapist. You broke down every black man's wants and desires of black women to it's bare bones. So proud of you Kevin. Keep up the stellar work.
This was the best convo because that lady was an educated health care professional and supposed to be a educator for black women but still don’t understand the black mans plight in relations to our sisters
You know how many times I've been in places (Airport, grocery store, job, restaurant etc etc) and black women would greet everyone with a smile (non-black) and when it gets to me that smile turns into a scowl and attitude, mind you I don't know these women from a hole in the wall, but it's clear now. Thank you Mr.Samuels, thank you....
Happened to me at a Chipotle yesterday. Beautiful sister, solid 9 was all bubbly and delightful greeting the white folks as they ordered their food. When I got up to her, she barely smiled and didn't even say anything.
I was working as a temp at a Post office. This black chick that I worked with would talk, smile and joke with all the women (mostly black women). But when she was left in the sorting room with me, nothing. Not that I cared but when I asked her to do things she had attitude, like what I was saying wasn't apart of the job. Her energy was so damn toxic, I had to bring my headphones to tone out her existence. When she needed something from me it was always an edge to it. Mind you, I did nothing to this woman and didn't even know her.
I 100 percent feel you bro..Was at the gas station today and this young white lady gave me the biggest smile walking pass me and it made me feel good to get a warm smile..Because she was friendly.. I rarely get that from sistas throughout my life..But I’d get it consistently from other races..
I'm in the DMV area... And I get the same thing from BW in customer service... Smiles for the below average pot belly white boy in front of me, but when it's my turn I get a scowl. SYSBM
I really regret that I didn't hear about this man before he died. I've been binge watching for weeks and it's sad to say that what he says about black women I saw in every woman of my family. They purposely pick Beta males because they are obsessed with control. I began to change my outlook and perspective and now my mother and sister calls me a weak woman. 😔 Hurt my heart, but I gotta distance myself and my husband from my family.
You're not. You've got to go outside of your race and date, simple as that. Two of my buddies, one is with a white girl, the other an ABW, exactly like that first woman. We can be anywhere 5 minutes and his fn phone starts blowing up. It's nuts man. Date outside. The white girl worships my buddy, and he's not a Tyrone, a little overweight but a solid guy, just an average guy. KS is right, don't waste your time. The risk is too high.
I'm 42 years old and I've never witnessed in my lifetime a man work so hard to bring us black people back together... I've never seen it...that therapist convo ending broke me down all the way....
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I know Kevin, and many of his followers want to make this a black and white issue. But this has nothing to do with race, it doesn't make a damned bit of difference if you're black, white, purple or green, female behavior is almost identical in every race. And the courts could care less what race you are, if your a man, you are toast in divorce court. It's time everyone quit ignoring the elephant in the room, this is a sex issue and almost half the problems going on right now could be traced back to feminism at least to a degree.
@Amari Antiquity my friend, I can't speak to your personal problems or anyone else's. But what I can speak to is that we live in a gynocentric society where there are over a hundred and fifty pieces of legislation on our books federally specifically geared to benefit women of all Races equally. With none for men as a gender. We live in a gynocentric culture with gender bias divorce courts that only care about the sex of the defendant. I wouldn't deny that it is probably affecting the African American Community far more than others as they have the highest rate of single mothers currently in America. But when a man of any race ends up in court at a divorce, the outcome is almost always the same As for getting in the fight, I've been in the fight for years my friend and that's why I'm in this section as well as many others constantly trying to Enlighten, inform, and assist young men and other men going through hard times or putting themselves in a position of Destruction by this system. I have been counseling, mentoring, young men for decades of all Races. And that is in my career as well as online The problem is far bigger than you or I or anyone else. There are more female voters in America than men. And any man who speaks out politically will be deemed a misogynist or a sexist. The men's rights activist have been attacked for decades. The only fix will be time and a crash that is inevitable. The good news, people like Kevin, you, and I and all the others across the manosphere are finally getting the attention of women. And I want to thank you and every man in this comment thread regardless of their position in this discussion for being part of the solution and not part of the problem
Wow. I had no idea black men were this badly respected by black women. I knew it was bad…but this is eye opening man. It must be maddening and extremely frustrating to be a black man at times in this country. Always having to work for anyone’s damn respect!!
yeah man and the divestors are making it very easy to start legit hating your own kind. i don't mind interracial relationships- but when you start slandering us that's where i draw the line
KV saved my sister relationship since I send her links to his channel. she works out 4 times a week, more submissive, cook, bake, less hostile more friendly. My brother in law is much much happier so I'm happy for them thx God father
As a BW, I’ve been saying BW are mean and disrespectful to the BM for the past 5 years and we need to change. I would get dragged for weeks on social media by both young and older women. Those women that said “why should I smile” was absolutely sickening and those are the same ones screaming protect BW. I’ve ALWAYS been protected by BM simply because I know how to smile and be pleasant towards the BM.
Thank God I had a present, supportive & loving Father. Now I have a present, supportive & loving husband. We will be celebrating 22 years of marriage in July. Alot of black women are broken. I believe it starts in the home. Father's are very important in a child's life. There are too many women controlled households. I am a black woman & I hate dealing with some of us.
Strong independent black women don’t need no man has been the talk for decades and i just laughed and thanked myself for discovering the better options outside early. My wife is from Europe, but is mixed with Asian and never looked back or will!
I'm a mixed black male, and my aunt was black. She was very toxic and ruined my mental health and ruined my love for black women. And as I got older, I realized that it wasn't just her that was like this. And yes she's divorced to. I only wanted to be with white girls for a long time. I eventually did grow my love again for black women though. But it was years before that happened. I love black women, but there are some things they need to work on in general.
I used to think black women didn't care about black men feelings but after this I realized they don't think we have feelings at all and that is the saddest thing I've ever seen.
Yeah but not exactly, They’re entitled, they don’t consider the possibility that our feelings should be considered. It doesn’t even get far enough in their minds for them to consider if we have feelings or not
I hate the notion that as a black woman, ur considered a “pick me” because you don’t see the need to be unnecessarily disrespectful and angry when it comes to black men
I literally felt Kevin's pain in this one. He is trying so hard to help and it is a burden as if he taken full personal responsibility to repair our community. He nearly cried after feeling hopelessness when realizing that a professional, black, female therapist who is paid to heal the black community don't even respect black men.
I've spoken to multiple female therapists, who all offered me advice. At face value, they sounded like they purposely wanted to set me up for ruin and failure.
The first time I watched this, I cried! The second time I watched this, I cried! I have made it my mission to be that woman who "speaks" to other women, and believe you me, I come with the same energy that Kevin did!!! I've been told, I can't believe that you are supporting men, not holding men accountable, blaming women...all that! Let's me know; I'm doing my job! Period!!! My man...yes I got a man...A HIGH VALUE Black man at that (by Kevin's Standards!) and he sometimes calls me Kevinetta! Lol. He fully supports me in this endeavor, and I'm loving it!! 100%
I won't lie…my heart sank a little bit when Kevin had to take the time-out after speaking to the lady therapist. Her complete cognitive dissonance was on full display. He had to put the video of Asia dancing to Money World on again and just take a minute to compose himself. You could hear the pain and frustration in Kevin's voice when he was trying to get her to be real with the way things really are. I feel for Kevin. He has the best interest for men and women and wants to see things improve. But there's just a huge disconnect with the majority of women these days. Thanks for making a difference Kevin. Keep pushing.
Exactly. 👍🏿 I feel you sister. Me as a young man I’ve had to go through some of those type of experiences multiple times. Rarely any smiles, givin’ me dirty looks just passing by, at a mall, down the street, etc. It absolutely ridiculous. His finally message at the ending of the video is the absolute truth. . .
@Matthew Pauley make a platform for it. Each time our ppl try to get on a better note with one another outside races run to interject themselves in our spaces. Create your own space for y’all’s issues. Simple
I’m almost 25 and have been married since I was 19. I’m striving to be a better help mate to my husband. I’m trying to unlearn the dysfunctional examples I experienced growing up. Man black men deserve so much more! My black king deserves so much more. Grateful for this content.
I already knew how our female counterparts felt in their hearts about us as men. But to actually hear it come out of their mouths...... bruh, that hit different. What I heard from theses women was absolutely heartbreaking. And I’m not even gunna lie to you, I teared up and cried a little bit. With black female counterparts like this who needs white supremacy. Thank you Mr.Samules for providing us a platform that FINALLY tells the men’s side of the story for a change. May God bless you sir. Keep your head up KING 👑, we need you out here.
Facts. Very painful episode. But I'm glad so many of us can admit this ish right here hurt to the core. I teared up to brother. Kevin was legit hurt and for the first time I could see the weight of trying to carry the torch by himself. We gotta stand next to this brother and support him.
Bruh...We ALL cried a little on this show. Kevin put words on what we all felt and ALL OF US know that the nagging feelings we have had for YEARS are not crazy and we are NOT alone... This is going to be a breakthrough moment for the men who listen to KS.... Black women have NO IDEA... Trust and believe
@@beedavisjr take accountability for how blk men treat women. Blk women experience it from a young age being put down abt their bodies how they look etc expected to sleep with men fast and etc and if u dont ur treated like trash.
I am rewatching all his conetent and I probably will every 5 years. I don't think he worked himself to the grave. I believe they took him out on account to the damage he was doing. ♾️👑🫡
I feel like most of these women call in just in hopes of being “discovered “ and seen as “cute”... and all they do is show ignorance and lack of accountability
Exactly. And Kevin calls that out too! "If you just callin up and using me as clout, just say IT, & get off my line ma'am. You do this on your own channel ma'am & get off mine."👏
I honestly think these women calling in are being 100% honest and that’s what makes this shit so crazy because women really walking around w that type of mind set and ideology
When he asked the therapist do every other race of women act like they belong to their men and she said yes. Then when he asked her do BW act like they belong to BM and she said no. I felt every bit of that.
So do you believe the Bible? The same book that says all the world's problems started when an evil, talking snake temped a woman to eat from the wrong tree?? And other clearly made up stories like a man named Jonah hanging out in the belly of a whale for 3 days before returning back on land...If religious books are all you've got to back yourself up with, time to re-consider your opinions.
Tell them!! Women who actually want to serve their men are demonized. It's insane. I was having a chat with my mom about this, and so grateful to have a mother who encourages me to the woman God has created me to be.
Wow! I can’t believe that woman said the reason they have attitudes, don’t smile etc.. is because they’re mourning & carrying grief around for our brothers 🤣🤣 if that wasn’t bs then I don’t know what is
For her personally because she's a therapist, it was her truth. But Kevin does a good job of broadening the answers. I felt her connect with him when he bought some truth to the light. She seemed to genuinely care
Witchcraft has never been so vivid on a live show. I can’t believe that Gaslighting attempt and I commend KS for checking that statement. These 🧙♀️ are straight up evil
@@WillieHandy79 talk without cursing and express yourself respectfully as did I and then we can respond . She's looking at it from a therapist point of view which is why she in particular may have lee way
You are not going to get a lot of heat for this show. This is probably your most defining show. Too many guys are already discussing how powerful this one is. Salute
@@WillieHandy79 you’re saying class never existed in black women overall? Or in the specific pregnant woman who tried to fight the grown man on youtube live?
When he said, “This is my oppressor, the woman beside me. The one who brings the white man into my house.” His conversation with her was more powerful than I expected. Instant mic drop
Absolutely. Some women even say that they will put that enemy in a mans life word for word. They're traitors to the entire race. Blk men stand up for everyone so they need tu realize it has a ripple effect.
You definitely have to come with facts when disputing something and not on emotions. Some people are emotionally unstable therefore I can't rely on that for the basis of your truth.
What a difference a few words can make! They actually teach this in debate and public speaking IN HIGH SCHOOL!! This is why they can’t articulate what they’re saying because they don’t have an argument other than “I want to disagree because I FEEL I should”
# save the drama for your mama because you put people through too many of your trauma and damages DONE and some of these women can't repair it because of their pride then they'll fall !
“Black women. The world is tired of your out of order behaviour”.This statement doesn’t apply to all but far too many. Especially compared to other races.
Your comment is dead on . You can actually see and hear the opinions, of other races. Have you noticed the word "ATTITUDE " is now synonymous with Black women?
They will always be out of order the government has tricked them into depending on him and bm get with other races it all worked in the mans favor in the end sadly
I know Kevin won’t probably read this but he changed my marriage, The show when he talked about the smoke detector noise to the woman saying it was a single woman thing, that hit me. I have lived with my husband for 14 years and I have never changed a smoke detector or anything else. After watching that show I changed my views about our marriage.
@@DCRefugee123 preach brother I told my wife if I am not doing what she wants we can get a divorce. Guess what she is still here after I gave her the option of divorce
I understand your premise. When I watch his videos and live streams, he speaks to the men, just as much as he speaks to the women. One thing that I focus on, is understanding that a man has to continously add value to himself.
I do see it and that’s why I commend him. I live this show and I’m a woman! Not mad at him at all. We as black women are very harsh on people and we need to do better especially with wearing them ugly bonnets and pajama and slippers out the house that looks horrible and disgusting! Looks like they rolled out the doggone bed and didn’t even brush their doggone teeth while in public
Damn the conversation KS had with the mental therapist was deep. I felt the passion in his voice just wanting black women and the black community to be better. I honestly teared up after that 🙁 it's sad. Shoutout to this man 💪🏿✊🏿🙌🏿
That woman actually called and said she feels offended when someone says "smile". "It comes across as demanding" & "It doesn't feel necessary to smile at every man that you see....don't that come off as promiscuous?" No ma'am screwing every man that you see would be promiscuous. Welcome to the twilight zone ya'll. You can't make this shit up fellas🤦🏽♂️
Notwithstanding that women could stand to smile and be more friendly in general toward men, there needs to be a specific exception in the context of women in retail or other public facing jobs. Some troll customers WEAPONIZE telling the worker to smile, when they aren't smiling themselves and SURE in the hell aren't going to smile about it when their no-situational-awareness distractions cause her to make an error. There also exist thirsty beta creeps who think a big smile is an invitation to follow her to her car at the end of her shift. In a retail setting, not offering the same big uncalibrated smile to every customer isn't born of general hatred of men but is a necessary survival skill. Let's remember to take this into account before judging all women in all contexts for not smiling at all men.
@Ghost Girl Remade That’s not actually true. Countless times I have approached women off the street and they’ve become my temporary girlfriends , immediate sex partners, or women who were not interested. You had to meet people face to face before all this digital ish. Attractive women just don’t want unattractive men approaching them./
@Ghost Girl Remade So assuming you have a significant other was he not a "stranger" to you prior to him approaching you🤔 S.I.G.Need to be right in practice yet again🙄🤦🏽♂️...smh
No. As Mrs. Ali has said, the black woman is the most protected. The protection must be removed so that they can be checked and judged in order to adjust, just as we as black men have.
That therapist lady was so full of it. It's always how they feel and not what actually IS! She couldn't even answer the hard questions directly because of her loyalty to girl power.
The therapist and the 24 year old made my husband and I cry. This crushed our souls. We are trying to mentor our peers and young men and women for what?! So our black boys and men can be treated as less than human? I wanna scream.
My wife and i have been talking about this for hours...had to hold back the tears...we need each other...we need to heal. Share this content with your girlfriends...
This whole conversation hurt my soul me and my husband have a son and this is what he's going to have to walk into. It hurt me so much to know that our men don't feel loved or appreciated.
@@lady7571 The sanctuary you offer your son in the home, the confidence you grant him through righteous teaching and the protection of the Lord, will be enough. I don't mean to preach, it doesn't have to be evangelical. Just righteous intent and your best effort with open eyes. Judging by your post, your heart is in the right place. Thank you.
Agree, now just needs to add a VU meter to his control panel so the mic levels stay consistent. Have to keep gain riding so a brassy woman doesn't blow my speakers then turn it back up to catch Kevin's quiet wisdom while ready to snap it back down at the first syllable when she speaks again.
For her 2+2= "I feel like with all the excuses and pandering that I'm used to that we're getting there but what was the question? It doesn't really matter to me unless I give it power of my choice and that's what he left my azz four". I can't. Stand. It.
We have to protect this man at all cost. This had to be the saddest episode I have ever watched. Our black families are in more trouble then I even imagined. So heartbreaking to watch
Kevin is a national treasure at this point and I’m a white man! Several these points can be made about white women as well. They’re getting worse with each succeeding generation.
Bruh, when she said that, I was shocked. The look on his face during that break, I felt the same way. I normally work while listening to his shows and I had to back up off the work and catch myself.
I'm a man and White women, White men, and other Black men smile in passing. It doesn't mean we're all walking around cheesing it. It's a subtle smile, an acknowledgment, a greeting. Even a head nod, which is something us men typically do in passing. That's the equivalent of a smile to us. Black women don't even smile at each other. You can't be truly happy if you take issue with smiling at people. The reason black men are asking you to smile is because they see a woman who looks miserable and they're trying to brighten up your day. You should be happy they care to even speak to you with that mean mug you got on
If "Black Girls Rock" and "Black Girl Magic" didn't let you know our women see themselves as separate "overseers" over the black man in 2021; this show definitely should let you know tonight.
And all black men can say “THIS IS WHAT WE SEE IN OUR WOMEN” and most black women a STILL say “Well I don’t FEEL like that’s true”. Like even when the Product YOU WANT is telling you what it sees in the market place you still go back to the way you “FEEL”. Women really don’t get that they’re “Feelings” and reality are two different things. For example, if you owned a bakery and majority of your customers tell you your pineapple cake is too sweet. Your not going to tell them “well I FEEL like the sweetness is just right. No your going to add less sugar on the next pineapple cake”
@Lina Mason Who says we have to protect your loud mouthed ass? Lol ...you better channel that anger into some mixed martial arts classes. Modern women of the future are gonna need it.
@Lina Mason Point is without respect you do not receive protection. You can't just nag and berate bm over what we are "supposed" to do but you can't even give a smile or show gratitude. Very simple.
I’m 57 yrs old. By the time I was 17, I was convinced that black women, in general, hated black men. My mother confirmed this for me when she said that women sometimes hate their sons who serve as constant reminders of the men they left... all the women I dated in H.S. College etc were just like the woman who didn’t want to smile... All of them. I feel so sorry for the young generation dealing with this mess. Thank goodness Bro Samuels is turning on the light.
Being that long ago, was that mostly just in the in the black community? I’m about a decade younger than you, and I don’t remember all this man bashing/hating growing up in the 80s, or in college in the early 90s. I don’t think I even heard the word patriarchy until after college in my 20s. I recall some talk shows when I was young would have debates with working moms and stay at home moms, but it seems like at some point feminism moved from fighting other women to fighting/hating men? What I noticed more was in the late 90s/into the 2000s was how sitcoms and commercials were portraying men. I mean we went from capable dads solving problems to complete morons where the wife runs circles around them. Is there any show that has a competent dad? Idk, I got rid of my tv a few years ago.
@@anneb889 I grew up in the south... that probably is relevant to a degree but the opinions and attitudes I experienced in my youth are seared into my mind. I recognized the issue very early but I could not grasp a competent understanding... of why black women hated black men. My mother would often tell me that, although she “loved” me, she, in fact did “not like me”. (Probably Because I’m an exact copy of my father)And like the previous commenter, I also ended up as her caretaker in her final days.
@@nujaz I am so sorry, no kid should ever be told that, even when I scold my kid I tell them I love them but I am not happy with what they did/said. I also don’t believe in hitting kids, which I know has been a disagreement between me and some of my black coworkers. Parents need to provide unconditional love.....where else do we ever get that in life? They say they need to prepare their kids for how hard life is for black people, so you hit (whoop them?). I am sure I cannot relate to your mothers generation, especially being black in the south back then (I’m from Philly area). But hopefully as an adult you realize it was more about her issues than you. Wish you the best.
@@anneb889 Talk shows in the 80's & 90's made MILLIONS off of dollars off of black women bashing & demeaning black men DAILY. It's funny the things people ignore, that's common knowledge. Black women have BEEN out of order.
At 26 newly married I can honestly say yes I was excited to be submissive to my black man as he is the head of our household. I consciously at the age of 22 made the decision to heal from all childhood trauma, not be like my mother (secretive, narrow minded, and judgmental) I make a little less than 6 figures annually but, will never feel like I don’t need a man. Shiiiiiittt I’ll be the first to say I need them. As a black woman I am appalled at some of the things black women say and do. I believe critical and logical thinking goes out the window when talking to and especially arguing with women. We’ve got to do better.
This was one of the most profound shows I’ve seen out of the KS playlist. There was clearly a visceral reaction Kevin had, along with many of the Black males viewers, when drilling down on these issues and the underlying true was revealed. It highlighted what many men have felt and observed for decades now.
That 24 year old is sad as hell! Smh who is raising u girls?? U don’t feel the need to be one with the black man yet she tried to say why can’t y’all help us build businesses etc... why would a black man help u in any way if u feel no need to be one with him?? Make that make sense!🤦🏽♀️
@@mms9393 it’s crazy out here. I’m so glad I found these videos when I did.. very eye opening. I’m 27 & literally went to my man today & told him I’m gonna do better as his woman lol I can’t believe the things I’m hearing from the women that call in
Damn! This made me tear up and hug my husband even tighter. I've got your back, my man, always have, and always will. It's so painful to see how black men just want to be loved and respected by their women- I am so sorry, my brothers... We really need to sit up, sisters.
My last relationship ended with my now ex attacking me; jumping on my back, biting, trying to kick me down the stairs, scratching and punching, breaking my phone and headphones all over me not agreeing with her opinion and apologizing the way she wanted me to. Never in my life had I been so close to hitting a woman but I still walked away. And then she had the audacity to call the cops. Luckily I recorded it. Never got an apology and she even called me disgusting because I recorded it. Its crazy because before she knew I was recording she started screaming intruder while the cops were on the phone and saying I was attacking her. 6 months later still emotionally drained. If a man did this to a woman he'd be in jail no doubt. She hid it so well its scary to even trust
I’m sorry to hear this.... she showed absolutely no signs of crazy out the gate?? Like no oddly aggressive behavior... for fun? Or “playfully” being crazy (I.e. accusing you of cheating, or jumping to conclusions)?
I felt that man's pain when speaking to the therapist!!!!!!!! Every black woman I dated no matter where I was at age wise has found a way to show disrespect and attempts to emasculate me all in one. When I did react and held her accountable she played the victim. Kevin is a blessing and has stood at the top getting people to open their eyes to the bullshit good black men deal with.
Smiling = friendliness 😊 It doesn’t have to be a full big one 😄 it can be a soft gentle smile ☺️ It’s not that serious of a thing. You’ll look friendlier, happier, more feminine & approachable to EVERYONE
I don’t know about that Ebony....the sister in the didn’t really bring her point home, but it is: The whole “smile beautiful” thing from a black man is not just him being friendly. Most often it is a manipulative way of that dude looking to come on to you. It’s not an absolute but more than likely that is just another form of cat calling. I hate to see dudes do that. It looks creepy to me, so I can certainly appreciate the fact that it might put off a woman. Don’t get it twisted there’s a lot of ish that women do that I disagree with but as far as I am concerned there are much more productive and genuine ways to approach a woman (especially sisters) with the standard “smile beautiful” bullshit line. What the sister in the video is probably trying to say is that she feels objectified.....but what do I knowI......my wife left me two years ago🤐🤐🤐🤐......just sayin......
@@terryscott7307 I agree. It can be very manipulative, thus causing them to let their guard down when it should remain high. This is being presented in an extreme way on this platform. And by the way, if white women are smiling at black men, then it can't be true that they are also crossing the street and clutching their purses; can it?
When the "therapist" said that bl@ck wmn are "mourning for the lost brothers" as an excuse for their attitudes I almost threw my damn phone! I'm glad Kevin shut that nonsense down.
I was driving in the car one day, and my window was half way down, I was going through a lot. The car next to me a black male told me to smile & I did, I felt noticed from a stranger. It kinda made my mood better.
@Asia Banks: So, decide every morning you wake up that you will start smiling , and saying hello every bm you see! Practice on bw first, until you’re comfortable with it❤️
Sometimes that’s all we want. We know things aren’t always the best, but we luv y’all so damn much. Remember this every woman on this planet emulate the BW. And to think we don’t luv y’all is crazy to me. For us to date out of our race it’s just that we been push out there.
This was the episode Kevin was looking for. This is a cold truth I learned since junior high. I've turned numb to it. It is what it is. I asked my mother did she love my father and I come to find out my father was her ticket to the U.S. Women adapt and survive. Blk man understand you are truly alone. Embrace it.
Being alone makes you strong fellas. Use the time to be introspective find out who you are and what you want out of life that’s independent of a woman. Become the best version of yourself women are a perk to the better me package.
@@Smuckatelli seriously...we can’t have this weak victim mindset like black women owe us something ..God put plenty races of women here for a reason ...we ain’t doomed to black woman...trust me
At my job we had a new sista start and she was all soft spoken and respectful. I was like ooh she seems nice. As soon as it was just us, the ghetto came out. So disappointing.
As a BLACK man I'm sick of sistas seeing us get killed AND incarcerated only to turn around and talk about how it affects them more! That sh*t is crazy!😤 Your struggling but I'm DEAD
it blows your mind right....this grief and trauma they speak of is disingenuous as if black men are not experiencing it also. The difference is we are dying daily, often thrown to the wolves by our own women.
I call it the "Hillary Clinton Syndrome." She is quoted as saying "Women have always been the primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat." As if you're LESS of a victim of your OWN loss of life than someone that merely witnesses your loss.
@@mpscorporation6874 YES! rollo tomassi mentioned that too. Solipsism at it's finest. Thanks to the red pill awakening I learned not to pay too much attention to them because they talk in circles and I leave with a headache lol
I have been saying this for years and nobody wants to listen! I tired of seeing Black Women cry and slober and March when a Black men gets killed and I don't they like us!!!
You’re fixed it for you. Self accountability and more respect among bm can fix those problems also this isn’t a competition you can’t ask women to cooperate with you but make everything a who has it the worse challenge..
Black women don't want to smile but you want us to protect you - KS Long Live KS, man this was a great show, 4th time watching this and I learn something every time I watch it
Seems like black woman are more cooperative when a brother is faced with police brutality and oppression and talk about feeling “scared for him”, but in his own home a black woman facing the black man himself they are combative and become that same mental brutality black men face physically in the street.
Man the call before he cut to the dance video hit different, that “therapist” is a perfect example of how systemic the problem is. Imagine your wife going to see someone like that for help? She probably has broken many homes. If these are the educated people that are supposed to be helping then we are doomed
She was spewing post modern critical race theory madness. None of this has any impact on real interpersonal relationships. This stuff is born from resentful, misguided intersectional feminism.
Hi, I'm right here. No need to stop me. I encourage healthy relationships with Black men and women all of the time. As a matter of fact I encourage Black Women to work on themselves so they can be better helpmates for the man they have and the potential man that they want. I would love to further share in your thoughts. Kevin is a good interviewer and there were a few things I held back on that would provide a wider scope of my perspective and the work I do. Love and respect to you.
When Kevin went AFK from the show. My heart sank. I have a friend i consider a brother. Hearing this broadcast gave me an insight into his pain as a black man. As a fellow man it has strengthen my solidarity to my fellow men. Strength and Wisdom to you all my brothers.
@@jasminegrisson5847 Away From Keyboard. There was a point where Kevin went quiet and let the money world girl dance. Kevin took a sec to regain his composure and continued with the broadcast.
I'm 64 years of age. As a married man, with grown children and two grandkids, I have never understood women like I do now since listening to KS for about a year. Funny thing is, I'm an avid church goer, and not even the church talks about this. A couple of weeks ago, I sent several of KS's videos to a friend of mine who I thought would appreciate it. I was blown away by his assessment of KS as 'trash'. Talk about being 'lost'! I miss this brother! I'm already sick of his content being regurgitated by people who only want to capitalize on his passion. I wish there was a way to stop it.
The caller that said she’s a licensed therapist was a attempting to say the reason our women don’t smile at/for us is because they’re feeling some sort of deep hurt for us & it saddens them. That was incredibly ridiculous.
Do they carry that worldly burden when they’re on their way to brunch or the nightclub? So Anything outside of that you’re carrying all that trauma with u everywhere u go and make no apologies for how that has negative effects on others? Smfh can’t make this shit up
@@jcdenton6864 they always try to get all noble and introspective to deflect from the fact they done collectively gave us their asses to kiss in public. Where was all that empathy and Godliness when u were cursing us out cuz u didn’t feel obligated to be cordial and nice to a black man that wasn’t fucking you or giving u money?
The women smiling segment was so sad.. I can’t believe that this is how far off the rails relationships between men and how women have gotten to the point where women have decided to treat men horribly for no reason other than to just “do it”. These are things that could be changed so easily and quickly by women with almost instant results just by being cooperative and supportive of men or your man The women from the smile segment reminded me of a verse in Proverbs 30:20 that said, Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness. Completely fits the current reality😔💔
This is easily a top 5 podcast show he did...man put his heart and soul and emotions into this...i bet even non blk men are lookin at this like: "gawdamn...."
@@jrod22986 BINGO... how can someone who is infected themselves try to bring others out of the infection? I've come across many black woman therapist who are exactly like this. In-fact many placate and feed into the delusions of the black women who come in for help.
I grew up in a house with 5 women I watched them all disrespect and devalue every man they ever encountered. About 8 years ago my mom confessed to me that she hates men and always will. It was both liberating and heart breaking at the same time. Liberating because I finally understood why my dad walked out he didn’t leave me he left her. Heartbreaking because I suffered all types of spirit breaking abuse from my mom and sisters all because they didn’t want me to become a man. My mom now has dementia and guess who’s taking care of her. I’m still trying to heal
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Dang, wow....that's deep. Be blessed fam... Smh
Dam I'm sorry to hear that my guy. Keep pushing & continue to stay 💪🏾💪🏾 ✊🏾
A lot of these women, when Karma comes.....
God bless you brother! Hope you heal.
KS said it clearly: Black women are raising the men they claim to hate.
The same group of women who think smiling at a man is promiscuous behavior are the same women who think twerking in public with little or no clothes on is empowering, smh.
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It is empowering to them. They're going to get some sucker to dump their seed in them, get a free ride on the welfare system, and have power over that man for the next 18-21 years when that child is born. Then they get to live with victim benefits forever.
FACTS
@@S2pidMedia living that reality now.
@@vidosanchez6900 I'm sorry man. I hope you can make the best out of it.
I remember walking up towards a store with a lot in my hands including my baby. A black man came out the store and helped me in the store and held the door for me. I smiled warmly and thanked him for helping me, he told me whenever he does this for other black women he gets a dirty look and gets told they don’t need his help. 🤦🏽♀️ I needed his help and I appreciated his help and I always smile at all men, it’s not promiscuous to be kind. 😔
That's very sweet of you, I come in with Sweet and Kindness at a Fast food Place. I say good Morning, NO response🤣😂, I asked how was your Day, No response, and I always Sandwich it with Have a Good day, Still gets no Answer🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Even the most racist White Woman will grudgingly say Thank you to a BM for holding the door for her or some other act of kindness but on average Black Women are gonna ignore the gesture as if u weren't even there. So very rude and disrespectful.
@@fredrickmeredith513 it’s strange to my inner soul but it’s the truth. I’m guilty of leaving them alone. Their demeanor speaks and so I listen. I swing the door hard enough for her to catch it. That’s equal to the level of appreciation I’ve received in recent years for being a gentleman when I would hold doors. Now I’m select with my kindness. And that bothers me because I wasn’t raised that way. I also wasn’t raised amongst these types of women, either. So…🤷🏾♂️
That’s cool you was kind to him I can relate to how he feels not all women but it’s alot y’all seems to be angry 😡 and that’s not cool
@@thatruest8928 The really bazaar thing too is that the modern Black Woman ON AVERAGE will absolutely acknowledge and PROFUSELY thank Men of other races for acts of kindness towards them but will treat a BM with contempt that's why unless she's (Black Woman) over 65 years old or has multiple small children I'm perfectly content to let that door slam right in her face. Sadly,ON AVERAGE this is what they deserve and they've certainly earned that with me. Let's face it brothers, we're the only race of Men in the world that does not have a Woman. PERIOD.
I've watched a couple videos randomly. I learned about this man after his passing. I'm Mexican but from an Indigenous community in Mexico. These videos have been shocking and eye opening. This one in particular really hit me hard. I feel for my Black brother's. No one has ever given me lip for being chivalrous to random Mexican women. I feel that it's expected of me as a man. I've helped change tires, load lumber, grab grocery items from the top shelf for Mexican women who are complete strangers. It's not even sexual or anything like that. I know that Mexican women have our back. It's not even a question. A regular Mexican man making $40K, anywhere in the US, can find a solid wife no problem. For 3 years my shift changed at my work and I had to wake up at 3am to go work outside in this triple digit heat. My wife would wake up with me, make me breakfast and coffee. She would also make me lunch. I have a hard time waking up to an alarm clock too. She is the reason I was never late in those 3 years. I never once asked her to do any of these things for me. She just did it. She changed the whole routine in our home to facilitate me getting to bed at 8pm. I would get home around 5pm or 6pm if I had to get groceries or run other errands. I would take a shower and dinner was ready when I was done getting clean. Then we'd watch TV together as a family or go work in our vegetable garden. After that it was bedtime. I made damn sure I washed all the dishes no matter how tired I was. Just to show her that I appreciate everything she does for me. I'm not rich y'all. I'm just a simple man. These videos are making me understand how blessed I truly am. This one just broke my heart y'all 💔 😢 This is tragic.
Niiiiiiiiiice enjoy it u deserve it
Amen💔💔💔💔✅
Love this
Thanks Bro.🤔 From a Black Woman✊🏾❤🖤💚😍👍🏾👍🏾
Black women wouldn't even want to breathe the same air as a black man who makes $40,000 a year, Hispanics really care about each other and keep families together.
“It's better to live alone in the corner of an attic than with a quarrelsome wife in a lovely home.”
Proverbs 21:9
hafeez gang
Right on time!
King Solomon was on one.🔥💯
The conversation with the therapist bought me to tears. A serious wake up call.
dud I'm so glad you posted this an I read the bible on an off and never came across this makes me feel better in my position getting from the word.
In college I worked at a shoe store.
Two beautiful twin sisters walked in. They knew a friend of mine who also worked there. I remember really wanting to talk to one of the sisters. I tried to offer her assistance and I was always met with a cold harsh energy.
I didn’t give up hope. When she was ready to check out, I made sure I was the one who assisted her.
I tried to compliment her, joke, and ask what her plans were for the weekend. She was stone cold and didn’t even smile at me. I gave up and left it alone.
When she checked out, she wen to where her sister and my friend were. When they left, I asked my friend about the sister I was wanting to talk to.
He told me that she told him “he sounds and looks like he only talks to white girls”.
I can’t tell you how much hearing that destroyed my confidence. I never let it make me hate black women, but it taught me early that some women are just turned off to us black men and our image early in life.
I was home schooled, so I didn’t get to experience high school where many people learn about their peers..
Wow does this episode hit home for me.
Don't let her comment touch you. She was not interested. Some young girls do not like respectful,educated, "sheltered" men. If you were home schooled that means your parents take full responsibility to guide you. If she could not be pleasant towards you as an employee that says she is ill mannered and disrespectful. The "looks like he dates white girls" was an insult. You are far better off to have found out her true nature upfront and avoiding her all together. I wish you happiness with a Black FBI. She is out there!
Bruh you royalty and was dealing with peasant energy. It’s your kingdom and it’s a privilege for a woman to come under your command.
Talk that talk!
Shit like that really DESTROYS the hopeless romance side within a man. The mentality is malignant!!!!
You are so lucky and loved by your parents to have been homeschool. Marry a wonderful traditional woman who will happily submit
The lady mad at someone telling her to smile nearly took me out. I left the gym this morning and a man said something to me. I didn’t hear him so he repeated and said I gave you a compliment. I stopped, apologized that I didn’t hear him and thanked him for his compliment. He was polite and deserved a polite response. I learned something from this one.
@@bodhisattvasvow2804 wow we really are that simple aren't we. Huh when I think about it i rarely see black women smile. I used to be so happy whenever my ex smile at me. It could really brighten my day.
You can call it what you want but I don't compliment women that are not family members unless I slept with them it cuts out all the foolishness involved with trying to be nice to women
Good for you sis! So did I!
The pick me energy is off the charts 📈📈📈
Yeah I don't understand females like her. She had me ashamed to be a black woman.
I miss this man ☹️ He made a lot of good points here. I’m definitely going to work on smiling, in particular smiling at black men 😘 rest in peace KS
He's missed a lot.
And the spiritual servant
Also Dante fortson, thoughtscameraaction, benyahah Israel
Smile at me Cecilia
Every day.
Don’t gotta worry about white supremacy when I gotta worry about who I’m laying next to - KS 🔥💯
Nothing but the truth
They talk about us men not protecting them, when they are the ones who betray us call the enemies into our camp to take us out. How can you protect someone that's sleeping with the enemy?
That's the purpose of white supremacy. To be the devil on your shoulder helping you choose the wrong path
That line touch my soul!!!
That was the realist thing quoted
I’m sorry black men you all deserve more than smiles 💜
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🤙🏽 Thanks hun
LOL...don't be sorry. Recognize the silliness of too many BW as an opportunity for yourself (if you're single) and eligible BM. My wife, an Asian woman, sure did.
Thank you
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"Women keep women single."
😩😩😩 It is the TRUTH. 🤦🏾♀️ So glad I stopped listening to my female family & friends.
If you don't mind my asking, what bad advice did they give you Kim?
@@williamallen2565 curious too
@@noneofyourbuizness Yes Pepita, inquiring minds want to know.
We wanna KNOW KIM
chiile this the one. Heal and be whole. Black women are labeled as angry allllll the time...smiling is simple and essential. Cost nothing to be polite even when offended..Some of us are sour as lemons but I say add a lil sugar and water and drink up!🍯👑
This is why I’m in therapy. What is offensive about being told to smile? I was having a bad day & a brother told me “Smile beautiful, everything will be alright.” I smiled back & thanked him. That statement made my day. Everyday I smile at everyone especially my black men before I put my mask on. It doesn’t harm anyone to smile at them. Smiles are contagious in a positive way.
Your smile could make someone day. Their smile back could make yours too. Joy like laughter is contagious .
We often don't say smile for the sake of our own benefit but as a way to cheer a stranger up when we sense their having a bad day! When you smile the whole world smiles with you. Even if you don't feel like smiling you'd be surprised how much your mood changes when you do!
I will start smiling
We are not your black men……
@@tangoalpha94 damn bro stop looking for negatives in everything
I only say “Good Morning” in passing to old women. Younger women think it’s a pickup line smh. People prefer random likes online over real attention these days.
Same. I like greeting older women long as they don't hit on me. I say "hi, Ms. Whatever" they call me something nice like "Hi baby" or "sugar", or "sweetie". And that's that.
Imagine me calling a young woman "sweetie" or "doll". I'm being condescending or sexist.
Hello from Germany, it’s the same here, sadly, ...
Facts. I live in a majority white neighborhood and a WW is more likely to say Goodmoring and smile to me than a BW. However, if I see a brother it is always love and we don’t even have to know each other. Crazy.
Shit some of the old head BW be some of the most disrespectful too
Bro "People prefer random likes online over real attention these days" this quote right here on point.
I'll share my "smile" story.
I was in my hometown and had just left my moms graveside. Afterwards, I went to California Dreamers to grab dinner. So I'm at the bar and two BW were sitting 6ft away from me. We greeted...I started to reflect on my mom. After a bit,, One of the BW said , "smile". I did. We started laughing and conversing, platonically. By the end of the night, I treated them to dinner, they left. The end.
Moral of the story
Her *suggestion* was taken as a positive and changed my mood for the better.
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I'm a woman and there has never been a time when I was ever offended by a man asking me to smile. I usually end up laughing or having a quick wit convo and I was on my merry way. I couldn't fathom that caller saying she was "offended". 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏾♀️ Then again that is why I mostly have male friends.
And they both got free dinners out of you for their request/ suggestion. All 3 of you were platonically happy. If women could expect free dinners for telling men what was told to you, I'm sure more would. Especially a platonic intentioned man like yourself.
@@ntitus3025 lol. No man wants a girl with mostly male friends. Lol lol
Scary how a licensed “therapist“ arguments remove all accountability from women.
She’s part of the problem & doesn’t even realized it.
Exactly. Making the issues worse.
She can't be a licensed therapist
if it’s one thing that you can bet on every time it’s that women especially black women gonna duck and dodge that accountability. it’s always the mans fault and they are the victims.. no more of that bs
That's how they are MIS EDUCATED in the "Halls of LOWER Learning"!
that is what shook kevin, the problem is that deep
I’m sincerely sorry for being out of line / order…We as black women are dangerously out of order…This has got stop… We gotta love and respect our men💕
Appreciate this baby girl
Thanks so much. The sad part is that your comment only gets 21 likes, when a bw bashes about bm in the comments, it gets 1k or 2k likes.
lol fake apology go be with brad
Both men and women can be at fault. God knows men have contributed to the downfall of relationships. Enough with the bashing of women.
@@industryexposedofficial as a black female I want to see our race come together, she wants it and so do I, it's not a fake apology we swear it's not
This remind me of the interview with Ice Cube for "Contract With Black America." His contract was for ALL black people, but the BW wanted to feel above everyone.
i lost it when they said "whats in it for us?" ...... I was done
They wanted a seperate plan that dealt with them exclusively. Crazy.
Yup Kevin broke this down too. Truly sad
Bw are sick smh
i remember that, they attack him.
You deserve an Emmy for this one. If they were to give awards out for TH-cam content. Have to admit I got a little emotional when you were talking to the therapist. You broke down every black man's wants and desires of black women to it's bare bones. So proud of you Kevin. Keep up the stellar work.
This one is a classic.
The best one. I felt his pain through the show.
@@rael6974 I feel you Ra
@@bigguy671 Right on Bigguy
This was the best convo because that lady was an educated health care professional and supposed to be a educator for black women but still don’t understand the black mans plight in relations to our sisters
You know how many times I've been in places (Airport, grocery store, job, restaurant etc etc) and black women would greet everyone with a smile (non-black) and when it gets to me that smile turns into a scowl and attitude, mind you I don't know these women from a hole in the wall, but it's clear now. Thank you Mr.Samuels, thank you....
I know exactly what you talking about facts!
Happened to me at a Chipotle yesterday. Beautiful sister, solid 9 was all bubbly and delightful greeting the white folks as they ordered their food. When I got up to her, she barely smiled and didn't even say anything.
I was working as a temp at a Post office. This black chick that I worked with would talk, smile and joke with all the women (mostly black women). But when she was left in the sorting room with me, nothing. Not that I cared but when I asked her to do things she had attitude, like what I was saying wasn't apart of the job. Her energy was so damn toxic, I had to bring my headphones to tone out her existence. When she needed something from me it was always an edge to it. Mind you, I did nothing to this woman and didn't even know her.
I 100 percent feel you bro..Was at the gas station today and this young white lady gave me the biggest smile walking pass me and it made me feel good to get a warm smile..Because she was friendly.. I rarely get that from sistas throughout my life..But I’d get it consistently from other races..
I'm in the DMV area... And I get the same thing from BW in customer service... Smiles for the below average pot belly white boy in front of me, but when it's my turn I get a scowl. SYSBM
I really regret that I didn't hear about this man before he died. I've been binge watching for weeks and it's sad to say that what he says about black women I saw in every woman of my family. They purposely pick Beta males because they are obsessed with control. I began to change my outlook and perspective and now my mother and sister calls me a weak woman. 😔 Hurt my heart, but I gotta distance myself and my husband from my family.
Yup, they complain about it then do it again.
Good for you!! Your wise!
This show tonight really hurt my soul. The Black Man has no one. We’re not loved. We’re tolerated. We truly are alone. 💔
This is not true for some BW, like myself. We love you & are ready/always ready to work with you. ❤️
@@tianahardy5004 awwwwn
I feel the same way bro. It’s hard.
You're not. You've got to go outside of your race and date, simple as that. Two of my buddies, one is with a white girl, the other an ABW, exactly like that first woman. We can be anywhere 5 minutes and his fn phone starts blowing up. It's nuts man. Date outside. The white girl worships my buddy, and he's not a Tyrone, a little overweight but a solid guy, just an average guy. KS is right, don't waste your time. The risk is too high.
@@tianahardy5004 But what are you gonna do about it? Whether you like it or not this is your persona that other black women portray. Much love to you.
I'm 42 years old and I've never witnessed in my lifetime a man work so hard to bring us black people back together... I've never seen it...that therapist convo ending broke me down all the way....
Thomas Sowell, Walter Williams, Shelby Steele, Larry Elder, Booker T Washington, Fredrick Douglas, Peter Kirsanow, Jason Riley, Manning Johnson, John Hamilton McWhorter, Wilfred Reilly, Allen West, Tim Scott, Taleeb Starkes, Vernon Jones, Kathy Barnette, Roland Fryer, Robert L. Woodson Sr., Alveda King, William J. Seymour, Carol M. Swain, Jason Whitlock, Ben Carson, Sheriff David A. Clarke Jr, Burgess Owens
They’re many more Black men and women who have tried tirelessly.
With all due respect you haven't been looking at all then my brother. We are in the midst of some great black scholars and revolutionaries
I know Kevin, and many of his followers want to make this a black and white issue. But this has nothing to do with race, it doesn't make a damned bit of difference if you're black, white, purple or green, female behavior is almost identical in every race. And the courts could care less what race you are, if your a man, you are toast in divorce court. It's time everyone quit ignoring the elephant in the room, this is a sex issue and almost half the problems going on right now could be traced back to feminism at least to a degree.
@Amari Antiquity my friend, I can't speak to your personal problems or anyone else's. But what I can speak to is that we live in a gynocentric society where there are over a hundred and fifty pieces of legislation on our books federally specifically geared to benefit women of all Races equally. With none for men as a gender. We live in a gynocentric culture with gender bias divorce courts that only care about the sex of the defendant. I wouldn't deny that it is probably affecting the African American Community far more than others as they have the highest rate of single mothers currently in America. But when a man of any race ends up in court at a divorce, the outcome is almost always the same
As for getting in the fight, I've been in the fight for years my friend and that's why I'm in this section as well as many others constantly trying to Enlighten, inform, and assist young men and other men going through hard times or putting themselves in a position of Destruction by this system. I have been counseling, mentoring, young men for decades of all Races. And that is in my career as well as online
The problem is far bigger than you or I or anyone else. There are more female voters in America than men. And any man who speaks out politically will be deemed a misogynist or a sexist. The men's rights activist have been attacked for decades. The only fix will be time and a crash that is inevitable.
The good news, people like Kevin, you, and I and all the others across the manosphere are finally getting the attention of women. And I want to thank you and every man in this comment thread regardless of their position in this discussion for being part of the solution and not part of the problem
KEVIN SAMUEL NEEDS TO BE PROTECTED BY THE BLACK MEN. WE CAN NOT LET THIS MAN BE CANCELLED OR TORN DOWN
I disagree we as men just need to better and get our own then we ain't got worry about such notions
100% agree!!!
Any man who disagree is not a man!!!
100%
How are you going to stop that from happening?
Facts bro
Wow. I had no idea black men were this badly respected by black women. I knew it was bad…but this is eye opening man. It must be maddening and extremely frustrating to be a black man at times in this country. Always having to work for anyone’s damn respect!!
Definitely is
Thx
yeah man and the divestors are making it very easy to start legit hating your own kind. i don't mind interracial relationships- but when you start slandering us that's where i draw the line
KV saved my sister relationship since I send her links to his channel. she works out 4 times a week, more submissive, cook, bake, less hostile more friendly. My brother in law is much much happier so I'm happy for them thx God father
You did right! You stepped in and corrected a member of your family that was operating in " Error ". This is love.
🔥
That’s lovely.
That's wonderful
"Love is more stern and splendid than mere kindness."
C..S. Lewis
As a BW, I’ve been saying BW are mean and disrespectful to the BM for the past 5 years and we need to change. I would get dragged for weeks on social media by both young and older women. Those women that said “why should I smile” was absolutely sickening and those are the same ones screaming protect BW. I’ve ALWAYS been protected by BM simply because I know how to smile and be pleasant towards the BM.
Keep doing what you are doing sister
Well said
@@sdneytaco2226 stop it 😂. We appreciate her mindset.
Ma'am BW as a whole have been disrespectful to black men for over 54 years.
Shahrazad Ali wrote a book about the disrespect coming from black women in the early 90s
Thank God I had a present, supportive & loving Father. Now I have a present, supportive & loving husband. We will be celebrating 22 years of marriage in July. Alot of black women are broken. I believe it starts in the home. Father's are very important in a child's life. There are too many women controlled households. I am a black woman & I hate dealing with some of us.
Congrats sister
I grew up in a totally male dominated family. I love the black men in my family.
@@lovelychoka9456 same here I have 7 brothers & 5 sisters all from the same parents.
@@Mrs.Fluellen That’s awesome!
That's just it ma'am most ladies who have a good relationship with the men in their family don't have this problem.
"You cause black men more grief than the LAPD"... another classic... keep em coming!!
The one women who said that now we are all free, Black women don’t need Black men was out of pocket. That hit me like a ton of bricks.
Worst than that. She said they don't trust black men. Super painful
@@ericdilworth1320 gives me some perspective. How can women like that want protection and can’t give us any respect?
@@workingonmyself want protection but can't even trust us or even want us. This stream was needed but its sad how deep the wound in the community is
Strong independent black women don’t need no man has been the talk for decades and i just laughed and thanked myself for discovering the better options outside early. My wife is from Europe, but is mixed with Asian and never looked back or will!
@@workingonmyself why would you care if they need protection! I don’t
Can we just take a minute to appreciate all the Relationships he is building and saving ?
@Chris Robinson yes💅🏾
@@malikwilson7387 ok good I’m happy for you. His advice got me a black boyfriend 💕
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"It's better to live alone than to be with someone who makes you feel alone."--Robin Williams
I'm a mixed black male, and my aunt was black. She was very toxic and ruined my mental health and ruined my love for black women. And as I got older, I realized that it wasn't just her that was like this. And yes she's divorced to. I only wanted to be with white girls for a long time. I eventually did grow my love again for black women though. But it was years before that happened. I love black women, but there are some things they need to work on in general.
You sound Awakened and Kind! Keep Shining! Stay Encouraged...
That's real...
I like the way you put that! It wasn’t being racist or bias. Just heartfelt truth. Hope you find your Friendly Fit Young queen
I used to think black women didn't care about black men feelings but after this I realized they don't think we have feelings at all and that is the saddest thing I've ever seen.
Sad but that’s reality bro keep your head up tho
Yeah but not exactly, They’re entitled, they don’t consider the possibility that our feelings should be considered. It doesn’t even get far enough in their minds for them to consider if we have feelings or not
And black men care about black women feelings?
SYSBM
Sad but true
I hate the notion that as a black woman, ur considered a “pick me” because you don’t see the need to be unnecessarily disrespectful and angry when it comes to black men
Only women can change that narrative when they are in these social media rooms you must be vocal lol
Twitter is a toxic app
Hollywood screenwriters couldn’t make this shit up
But most BM could careless now
It is what it is. BM didn't encourage that, your sister's auntie's and Grandma's did.
I literally felt Kevin's pain in this one. He is trying so hard to help and it is a burden as if he taken full personal responsibility to repair our community. He nearly cried after feeling hopelessness when realizing that a professional, black, female therapist who is paid to heal the black community don't even respect black men.
That one got me too. Just watching her incessantly try to lie and deflect really had me like- damn, and she's a therapist.
Man this is so sad this is what we have mostly left.And a few good black women left.
I've spoken to multiple female therapists, who all offered me advice. At face value, they sounded like they purposely wanted to set me up for ruin and failure.
And alot of black women wonder why they see a brotha with a woman from a different race.
I'm grateful that I'm not a Clinician that does that to my client's. All Therapist/ Counselors don't do this & for that I'm grateful
The first time I watched this, I cried! The second time I watched this, I cried! I have made it my mission to be that woman who "speaks" to other women, and believe you me, I come with the same energy that Kevin did!!! I've been told, I can't believe that you are supporting men, not holding men accountable, blaming women...all that! Let's me know; I'm doing my job! Period!!! My man...yes I got a man...A HIGH VALUE Black man at that (by Kevin's Standards!) and he sometimes calls me Kevinetta! Lol. He fully supports me in this endeavor, and I'm loving it!! 100%
I won't lie…my heart sank a little bit when Kevin had to take the time-out after speaking to the lady therapist. Her complete cognitive dissonance was on full display. He had to put the video of Asia dancing to Money World on again and just take a minute to compose himself. You could hear the pain and frustration in Kevin's voice when he was trying to get her to be real with the way things really are. I feel for Kevin. He has the best interest for men and women and wants to see things improve. But there's just a huge disconnect with the majority of women these days. Thanks for making a difference Kevin. Keep pushing.
The therapist was in her feelings too because she realized what the reality is. I hope this serves as a pivotal moment
Imagine that some
Bodies “therapist” drove a grown man to see a therapist. I’m embarrassed for her
Well said
💯💯💯💯
Exactly. 👍🏿 I feel you sister. Me as a young man I’ve had to go through some of those type of experiences multiple times. Rarely any smiles, givin’ me dirty looks just passing by, at a mall, down the street, etc. It absolutely ridiculous. His finally message at the ending of the video is the absolute truth. . .
"Black men just want black women to be nice to us. That's it"
My gosh honestly it's actually saddening...
Notice how pink sweater said, “Black women shouldn’t be obligated to smile at Black men.” Not “obligated to smile” smile at Black men!
Point blank period bruh..!
And you get stuff like “he ain’t man enough to handle me “ 🤷🏾♂️
Y’all aren’t nice lmaoo
Very very sad and it seems so difficult to get
I’m grateful for this brother’s platform!! Black men and women need this kind of conversations!!!
Yes indeed we do.
@Matthew Pauley make a platform for it. Each time our ppl try to get on a better note with one another outside races run to interject themselves in our spaces. Create your own space for y’all’s issues. Simple
Amen
@@kailzl1211 Ikr, that's why I'm glad Kevin is doing his own thing...
Facts this platform is very necessary💯
I truly miss this man... He taught me things I never knew, and the reason why I met the man of my dreams!
sista all you have to do is spread his word...teach these black women how to be respectful
I’m almost 25 and have been married since I was 19. I’m striving to be a better help mate to my husband. I’m trying to unlearn the dysfunctional examples I experienced growing up. Man black men deserve so much more! My black king deserves so much more. Grateful for this content.
Naw we good bm are done
Thank you for trying
Good girl. I got married at 22 best decision ever
Just wait until you find about the true history and who really civilized the world.
@@tjsantana9600 Then why are you here if “you’re done”?
I already knew how our female counterparts felt in their hearts about us as men. But to actually hear it come out of their mouths...... bruh, that hit different. What I heard from theses women was absolutely heartbreaking. And I’m not even gunna lie to you, I teared up and cried a little bit. With black female counterparts like this who needs white supremacy. Thank you Mr.Samules for providing us a platform that FINALLY tells the men’s side of the story for a change. May God bless you sir. Keep your head up KING 👑, we need you out here.
Facts. Very painful episode. But I'm glad so many of us can admit this ish right here hurt to the core. I teared up to brother. Kevin was legit hurt and for the first time I could see the weight of trying to carry the torch by himself. We gotta stand next to this brother and support him.
Bruh...We ALL cried a little on this show.
Kevin put words on what we all felt and ALL OF US know that the nagging feelings we have had for YEARS are not crazy and we are NOT alone...
This is going to be a breakthrough moment for the men who listen to KS....
Black women have NO IDEA...
Trust and believe
The conversation Kevin had with the therapist was very helpful, deep, and informative.
❤️🙏
Amen
We black men are alone. Focus on your purpose gents. Thanks Kevin, keep it up.
Other blk men made the females feel the way they do
@@Violetsinbloom No accountability. Smh
@@beedavisjr take accountability for how blk men treat women. Blk women experience it from a young age being put down abt their bodies how they look etc expected to sleep with men fast and etc and if u dont ur treated like trash.
@Tyler Walton its not lies. Most blk women can name 5 things blk men have said to them that have hurt them
Naw man you all got your brothers!
Rewatching this broadcast it made me upset we no longer have this brother. He literally worked himself to death trying to save our community.
Black women should be arrested for murder. Dealing with them every night exhausted him.
@@robertlunderwood fact😂😢
Bruh he saw the inevitable rip to unk
I am rewatching all his conetent and I probably will every 5 years. I don't think he worked himself to the grave. I believe they took him out on account to the damage he was doing. ♾️👑🫡
@@robertlunderwoodlol!
It’s funny. But sadly true.
I love sistas!
But it’s getting harder and harder to deal with them.
I feel like most of these women call in just in hopes of being “discovered “ and seen as “cute”... and all they do is show ignorance and lack of accountability
Exactly. And Kevin calls that out too! "If you just callin up and using me as clout, just say IT, & get off my line ma'am. You do this on your own channel ma'am & get off mine."👏
Facts
💯💯💯💯 exactly why no man take them serious
Exactly
I honestly think these women calling in are being 100% honest and that’s what makes this shit so crazy because women really walking around w that type of mind set and ideology
When he asked the therapist do every other race of women act like they belong to their men and she said yes. Then when he asked her do BW act like they belong to BM and she said no. I felt every bit of that.
He could’ve ended the broadcast right there but he soldiered on...
@@damienthrash2202 I'm actually glad he didn't because that one chick afterwards told the truth about their "independence". That needed to be heard.
@@floridaheat6996 where is this part I gotta hear it
=(
Smdh...so true
I will confess I had a few tears seeing how deeply Kevin was moved by the discussion with the Therapist. Mr. Samuels, you've earned my respect.
I did too
Timestamp??
@@hammypie 2:00:46
I Agree, That Part Touched My Heart Also. 1st Time I Have Commented, But The Ending Part With The Therapist Was Very Deep...
@@14734390 An unscripted, unfiltered and genuine passion for the topic he is bringing forward.
These women fail to realize that they’re actually in opposition to God’s purpose for creating them.
That is true these are the same women that go to church every Sunday
They don't want to know what purpose is bc then they'll hv to held accountable for going against it.
So do you believe the Bible? The same book that says all the world's problems started when an evil, talking snake temped a woman to eat from the wrong tree??
And other clearly made up stories like a man named Jonah hanging out in the belly of a whale for 3 days before returning back on land...If religious books are all you've got to back yourself up with, time to re-consider your opinions.
@@ChildrensRightsFirst947 right, and 0+0= universes, planets, and constellations. Check your “science.”
Tell them!! Women who actually want to serve their men are demonized. It's insane. I was having a chat with my mom about this, and so grateful to have a mother who encourages me to the woman God has created me to be.
Wow! I can’t believe that woman said the reason they have attitudes, don’t smile etc.. is because they’re mourning & carrying grief around for our brothers 🤣🤣 if that wasn’t bs then I don’t know what is
For her personally because she's a therapist, it was her truth. But Kevin does a good job of broadening the answers. I felt her connect with him when he bought some truth to the light. She seemed to genuinely care
Shit sounded so silly..shouldn’t you be doing the opposite if you’re “carry the grief of black men”? 🧐
@@kaykaysthoughtfuldays Please don't start that "her truth" shit. We was trying to save face the whole time.
Witchcraft has never been so vivid on a live show.
I can’t believe that Gaslighting attempt and I commend KS for checking that statement. These 🧙♀️ are straight up evil
@@WillieHandy79 talk without cursing and express yourself respectfully as did I and then we can respond . She's looking at it from a therapist point of view which is why she in particular may have lee way
You are not going to get a lot of heat for this show. This is probably your most defining show. Too many guys are already discussing how powerful this one is. Salute
FACTS! This show was definitely eye opening, especially with the last caller!
It’s embarrassing to witness a pregnant woman threatening to fight a grown man. Where’s the class?!
It never existed. It's was just a mask
@@WillieHandy79 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Or the common sense.
@@WillieHandy79 yup, from my experience i concur... and its only getting worse
@@WillieHandy79 you’re saying class never existed in black women overall? Or in the specific pregnant woman who tried to fight the grown man on youtube live?
When he said, “This is my oppressor, the woman beside me. The one who brings the white man into my house.” His conversation with her was more powerful than I expected. Instant mic drop
Yo that was bars on a whole different level….
Brother...that was a classic truthbomb.
Absolutely. Some women even say that they will put that enemy in a mans life word for word. They're traitors to the entire race. Blk men stand up for everyone so they need tu realize it has a ripple effect.
That was so powerful. I mean I could not have said any better...
Hell yea…it’s crazy man I been thinking this shit for years and he knows how to just say it all. 🙏🏾🤞🏾
Women that overly use, “I think”, “I believe”, “I feel”, make me appreciate the women that use, “I know”, “it is because”, or “the reason why”
Facts my guy. That’s a whole different realm right there
You definitely have to come with facts when disputing something and not on emotions. Some people are emotionally unstable therefore I can't rely on that for the basis of your truth.
fr
What a difference a few words can make! They actually teach this in debate and public speaking IN HIGH SCHOOL!! This is why they can’t articulate what they’re saying because they don’t have an argument other than “I want to disagree because I FEEL I should”
FR
Black Woman: Where did the good men go?
Me: You ran them off.
More like she put them on ice but we defrosted ourselves. We’re not waiting in line to marry post wall thots. Those days have ended.
Boom!
@@bensisko-theemissary4940 All the above
@Jonathan Ribeiro 😂
Ladies, you are responsible for your OWN trauma. And, YOUR happiness is YOUR choice, NOT Men or anyone else.
Stop making them take accountability lol
# save the drama for your mama because you put people through too many of your trauma and damages DONE and some of these women can't repair it because of their pride then they'll fall !
They will say "we are not therapists for broken men" and then say "deal with my toxicity and manage my trauma". It's madness.
Exactly they picked the "no good man" to be the father of they're child so now they gotta deal with it. Its was their choice, they pick em trust me.
So true my brother... some of our women act like our brother ole them something but at the same time they have no respect for them.
“Black women. The world is tired of your out of order behaviour”.This statement doesn’t apply to all but far too many. Especially compared to other races.
Your comment is dead on .
You can actually see and hear the opinions, of other races. Have you noticed the word "ATTITUDE " is now synonymous with Black women?
They will always be out of order the government has tricked them into depending on him and bm get with other races it all worked in the mans favor in the end sadly
👍💯%
I know Kevin won’t probably read this but he changed my marriage,
The show when he talked about the smoke detector noise to the woman saying it was a single woman thing, that hit me. I have lived with my husband for 14 years and I have never changed a smoke detector or anything else.
After watching that show I changed my views about our marriage.
How did it change your view?
@@DCRefugee123 preach brother I told my wife if I am not doing what she wants we can get a divorce. Guess what she is still here after I gave her the option of divorce
I hear them smoke detectors with my relatives all the time and I laugh.
🙂👍👍
@@DCRefugee123 I know her feelings were hurt when you said that 🤣🤣
These are the *"I'm independent but I need alimony."* type women. 💯
Facts
Exactly...👏🏽 👍🏽 👍🏽 👌🏽
I know them very well.
Not alimony😭💀
I wonder if anybody sees this man wants to fix black America and reinstate our pride and standards back
I understand your premise.
When I watch his videos and live streams, he speaks to the men, just as much as he speaks to the women.
One thing that I focus on, is understanding that a man has to continously add value to himself.
I'm a fan!
Exactly.. crazy how we dont want to fix our own problem!
I do see it and that’s why I commend him. I live this show and I’m a woman! Not mad at him at all. We as black women are very harsh on people and we need to do better especially with wearing them ugly bonnets and pajama and slippers out the house that looks horrible and disgusting! Looks like they rolled out the doggone bed and didn’t even brush their doggone teeth while in public
bro
Damn the conversation KS had with the mental therapist was deep. I felt the passion in his voice just wanting black women and the black community to be better. I honestly teared up after that 🙁 it's sad. Shoutout to this man 💪🏿✊🏿🙌🏿
This might be the most powerful episode he has ever done.
FACTS
Agreed 💯
100%
Definitely.
Your right!! I had to share this!!
That woman actually called and said she feels offended when someone says "smile". "It comes across as demanding" & "It doesn't feel necessary to smile at every man that you see....don't that come off as promiscuous?"
No ma'am screwing every man that you see would be promiscuous. Welcome to the twilight zone ya'll. You can't make this shit up fellas🤦🏽♂️
Notwithstanding that women could stand to smile and be more friendly in general toward men, there needs to be a specific exception in the context of women in retail or other public facing jobs. Some troll customers WEAPONIZE telling the worker to smile, when they aren't smiling themselves and SURE in the hell aren't going to smile about it when their no-situational-awareness distractions cause her to make an error. There also exist thirsty beta creeps who think a big smile is an invitation to follow her to her car at the end of her shift. In a retail setting, not offering the same big uncalibrated smile to every customer isn't born of general hatred of men but is a necessary survival skill. Let's remember to take this into account before judging all women in all contexts for not smiling at all men.
@Ghost Girl Remade That’s not actually true. Countless times I have approached women off the street and they’ve become my temporary girlfriends , immediate sex partners, or women who were not interested. You had to meet people face to face before all this digital ish. Attractive women just don’t want unattractive men approaching them./
It is weird when a stranger demands you to smile.
@Ghost Girl Remade So assuming you have a significant other was he not a "stranger" to you prior to him approaching you🤔 S.I.G.Need to be right in practice yet again🙄🤦🏽♂️...smh
She took it out of context. Saying beautiful is not offensive even from a stranger. Maybe he wants to cheer you up
When they say "Protect Black Women", I say well "Respect Black Men".
Black women are or at least were being protected. Why do you only really hear stories about that from men?
New saying... "We protect as you respect." or "The more you respect, the more we protect" or " Give respect and we protect"
No. As Mrs. Ali has said, the black woman is the most protected. The protection must be removed so that they can be checked and judged in order to adjust, just as we as black men have.
That therapist lady was so full of it. It's always how they feel and not what actually IS! She couldn't even answer the hard questions directly because of her loyalty to girl power.
"Go seek professional help. Because the rest of us do not need to suffer you."
Mr Samuels... thank you brother !!!!
I would normally agree. But after seeing that therapist speak pure LIES I'm not sure even therapy will help. Hell, it might make things worse
@@BigCal-3000 he def needed a drink after this broad cast. I normally don't send donations to creators. I sent him a bit, brothers next drink is on me
WE ARE WITH YOU BROTHER. The truth must be told
Amen 🙏
Whatever .
The man is preaching
@@inarcidyeastrail5728 Quiet Ma’am
Yes we are✊🏾
The therapist and the 24 year old made my husband and I cry. This crushed our souls. We are trying to mentor our peers and young men and women for what?! So our black boys and men can be treated as less than human? I wanna scream.
My wife and i have been talking about this for hours...had to hold back the tears...we need each other...we need to heal. Share this content with your girlfriends...
This whole conversation hurt my soul me and my husband have a son and this is what he's going to have to walk into. It hurt me so much to know that our men don't feel loved or appreciated.
This shit is craziness
Ridiculous
@@lady7571 The sanctuary you offer your son in the home, the confidence you grant him through righteous teaching and the protection of the Lord, will be enough. I don't mean to preach, it doesn't have to be evangelical. Just righteous intent and your best effort with open eyes. Judging by your post, your heart is in the right place. Thank you.
What the hell is going on with these women talking about all of the "trauma" and "aggressions"? What is this? The Dark Ages?
Kevin can setup any random room to look better than most TH-cam professional channels.
Much respect.
Agree, now just needs to add a VU meter to his control panel so the mic levels stay consistent. Have to keep gain riding so a brassy woman doesn't blow my speakers then turn it back up to catch Kevin's quiet wisdom while ready to snap it back down at the first syllable when she speaks again.
@@lironmtnranch4765 You are right.
You so right!
Facts! A lot of them spend their time hating on him when they should be learning. Love him or hate him you have to admit he’s good at what he does
The black therapist was even lying and deflecting and refusing accountability 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ sad!
For her 2+2= "I feel like with all the excuses and pandering that I'm used to that we're getting there but what was the question? It doesn't really matter to me unless I give it power of my choice and that's what he left my azz four". I can't. Stand. It.
We have to protect this man at all cost. This had to be the saddest episode I have ever watched. Our black families are in more trouble then I even imagined. So heartbreaking to watch
Aww man I was saying The same thing, I kinda wanted to cry. To see how deep this shit really is!!! And I’m a black women
Kevin is a national treasure at this point and I’m a white man! Several these points can be made about white women as well. They’re getting worse with each succeeding generation.
Frfr.
Bruh, when she said that, I was shocked. The look on his face during that break, I felt the same way. I normally work while listening to his shows and I had to back up off the work and catch myself.
The truth that we all knew played out for everyone to see!!!!
I'm a man and White women, White men, and other Black men smile in passing. It doesn't mean we're all walking around cheesing it. It's a subtle smile, an acknowledgment, a greeting. Even a head nod, which is something us men typically do in passing. That's the equivalent of a smile to us. Black women don't even smile at each other. You can't be truly happy if you take issue with smiling at people. The reason black men are asking you to smile is because they see a woman who looks miserable and they're trying to brighten up your day. You should be happy they care to even speak to you with that mean mug you got on
Kevin i swear this was your best show ever don't stop
Protect this man!!
I said the same thing
Facts!!
If "Black Girls Rock" and "Black Girl Magic" didn't let you know our women see themselves as separate "overseers" over the black man in 2021; this show definitely should let you know tonight.
Bro i was gonna make a video about that. Black girls have sought sovereignty
Man facts
Every woman is a "queen" or "Boss" now, without earning that title.
Abs-a-fu*kin'-lutely! Aliens amongst us.
And all black men can say “THIS IS WHAT WE SEE IN OUR WOMEN” and most black women a STILL say “Well I don’t FEEL like that’s true”. Like even when the Product YOU WANT is telling you what it sees in the market place you still go back to the way you “FEEL”. Women really don’t get that they’re “Feelings” and reality are two different things. For example, if you owned a bakery and majority of your customers tell you your pineapple cake is too sweet. Your not going to tell them “well I FEEL like the sweetness is just right. No your going to add less sugar on the next pineapple cake”
"We can't ask you to smile but you want us to protect you" - KS
@Lina Mason I think the point went over ya head
@Lina Mason Who says we have to protect your loud mouthed ass? Lol ...you better channel that anger into some mixed martial arts classes. Modern women of the future are gonna need it.
@Lina Mason Point is without respect you do not receive protection. You can't just nag and berate bm over what we are "supposed" to do but you can't even give a smile or show gratitude. Very simple.
@Lina Mason maam if you can’t see or understand this correlation with good faith you the ...nvm
@@s.boundless3163 BM are so fucking sensitive
Bruh this man was criminally misunderstood, glad he was here for the time that he was.
I’m 57 yrs old. By the time I was 17, I was convinced that black women, in general, hated black men. My mother confirmed this for me when she said that women sometimes hate their sons who serve as constant reminders of the men they left... all the women I dated in H.S. College etc were just like the woman who didn’t want to smile... All of them. I feel so sorry for the young generation dealing with this mess. Thank goodness Bro Samuels is turning on the light.
i can relate
Being that long ago, was that mostly just in the in the black community? I’m about a decade younger than you, and I don’t remember all this man bashing/hating growing up in the 80s, or in college in the early 90s. I don’t think I even heard the word patriarchy until after college in my 20s. I recall some talk shows when I was young would have debates with working moms and stay at home moms, but it seems like at some point feminism moved from fighting other women to fighting/hating men? What I noticed more was in the late 90s/into the 2000s was how sitcoms and commercials were portraying men. I mean we went from capable dads solving problems to complete morons where the wife runs circles around them. Is there any show that has a competent dad? Idk, I got rid of my tv a few years ago.
@@anneb889 I grew up in the south... that probably is relevant to a degree but the opinions and attitudes I experienced in my youth are seared into my mind. I recognized the issue very early but I could not grasp a competent understanding... of why black women hated black men. My mother would often tell me that, although she “loved” me, she, in fact did “not like me”. (Probably Because I’m an exact copy of my father)And like the previous commenter, I also ended up as her caretaker in her final days.
@@nujaz I am so sorry, no kid should ever be told that, even when I scold my kid I tell them I love them but I am not happy with what they did/said. I also don’t believe in hitting kids, which I know has been a disagreement between me and some of my black coworkers. Parents need to provide unconditional love.....where else do we ever get that in life? They say they need to prepare their kids for how hard life is for black people, so you hit (whoop them?). I am sure I cannot relate to your mothers generation, especially being black in the south back then (I’m from Philly area). But hopefully as an adult you realize it was more about her issues than you. Wish you the best.
@@anneb889 Talk shows in the 80's & 90's made MILLIONS off of dollars off of black women bashing & demeaning black men DAILY. It's funny the things people ignore, that's common knowledge. Black women have BEEN out of order.
At 26 newly married I can honestly say yes I was excited to be submissive to my black man as he is the head of our household. I consciously at the age of 22 made the decision to heal from all childhood trauma, not be like my mother (secretive, narrow minded, and judgmental) I make a little less than 6 figures annually but, will never feel like I don’t need a man. Shiiiiiittt I’ll be the first to say I need them. As a black woman I am appalled at some of the things black women say and do. I believe critical and logical thinking goes out the window when talking to and especially arguing with women. We’ve got to do better.
Thank you for sharing this Alexis. 🙌🏾
@@NavyBluesandShoes Anytime!
Thank you, thank you and Thank you for understanding Us a men. Your husband is truly lucky.
Can I ask you, what's your occupation ?
@@thermologo3451 ICU registered nurse as well as Home Health registered nurse.
This was one of the most profound shows I’ve seen out of the KS playlist. There was clearly a visceral reaction Kevin had, along with many of the Black males viewers, when drilling down on these issues and the underlying true was revealed. It highlighted what many men have felt and observed for decades now.
That 24 year old is sad as hell! Smh who is raising u girls?? U don’t feel the need to be one with the black man yet she tried to say why can’t y’all help us build businesses etc... why would a black man help u in any way if u feel no need to be one with him?? Make that make sense!🤦🏽♀️
Preach sister
@@mms9393 it’s crazy out here. I’m so glad I found these videos when I did.. very eye opening. I’m 27 & literally went to my man today & told him I’m gonna do better as his woman lol I can’t believe the things I’m hearing from the women that call in
@@trishc93 you have a great mindset. I hope everything goes well for you.
@@mms9393 thank you🖤 more women have to be open to taking constructive criticism
Preach
Damn! This made me tear up and hug my husband even tighter. I've got your back, my man, always have, and always will. It's so painful to see how black men just want to be loved and respected by their women- I am so sorry, my brothers... We really need to sit up, sisters.
Blessings to you and your family
Are you and your husband ADOS? Just curious
Your comment gives us hope, but what’s the use when the majority of your sisters feel we don’t even qualify to be with them to begin with 😞
@@Sociallydetached thank you; blessings to you and yours as well.
@@kilduce4423 no, we're not. Why?
My last relationship ended with my now ex attacking me; jumping on my back, biting, trying to kick me down the stairs, scratching and punching, breaking my phone and headphones all over me not agreeing with her opinion and apologizing the way she wanted me to. Never in my life had I been so close to hitting a woman but I still walked away. And then she had the audacity to call the cops.
Luckily I recorded it. Never got an apology and she even called me disgusting because I recorded it. Its crazy because before she knew I was recording she started screaming intruder while the cops were on the phone and saying I was attacking her.
6 months later still emotionally drained. If a man did this to a woman he'd be in jail no doubt.
She hid it so well its scary to even trust
Thats simply psychotic
Sorry to hear that Bro
man glad u got outta the whole mess without any criminal charges. sorry u had to go thru all that.
DAAAAAAAAAAAAMN
I’m sorry to hear this.... she showed absolutely no signs of crazy out the gate?? Like no oddly aggressive behavior... for fun? Or “playfully” being crazy (I.e. accusing you of cheating, or jumping to conclusions)?
I felt that man's pain when speaking to the therapist!!!!!!!! Every black woman I dated no matter where I was at age wise has found a way to show disrespect and attempts to emasculate me all in one. When I did react and held her
accountable she played the victim. Kevin is a blessing and has stood at the top getting people to open their eyes to the bullshit good black men deal with.
Smiling = friendliness 😊 It doesn’t have to be a full big one 😄 it can be a soft gentle smile ☺️ It’s not that serious of a thing. You’ll look friendlier, happier, more feminine & approachable to EVERYONE
Exactlyyyy! My mom has always told me this. By the way i LOVE your channel ❤️❤️
Beyond that it lifts your own mood :) Josephine Baker said “Just smile anyway”
I don’t know about that Ebony....the sister in the didn’t really bring her point home, but it is: The whole “smile beautiful” thing from a black man is not just him being friendly. Most often it is a manipulative way of that dude looking to come on to you. It’s not an absolute but more than likely that is just another form of cat calling. I hate to see dudes do that. It looks creepy to me, so I can certainly appreciate the fact that it might put off a woman. Don’t get it twisted there’s a lot of ish that women do that I disagree with but as far as I am concerned there are much more productive and genuine ways to approach a woman (especially sisters) with the standard “smile beautiful” bullshit line. What the sister in the video is probably trying to say is that she feels objectified.....but what do I knowI......my wife left me two years ago🤐🤐🤐🤐......just sayin......
.....but here it is:
@@terryscott7307 I agree. It can be very manipulative, thus causing them to let their guard down when it should remain high. This is being presented in an extreme way on this platform. And by the way, if white women are smiling at black men, then it can't be true that they are also crossing the street and clutching their purses; can it?
When the "therapist" said that bl@ck wmn are "mourning for the lost brothers" as an excuse for their attitudes I almost threw my damn phone! I'm glad Kevin shut that nonsense down.
Honestly that shit made no sense, you mourn us but can’t even project a smile at the black man.
SAME!
Yeah that was extremely distasteful, the nerve... smh
If sisters were mourning for brothers, there would be more empathy for black men, not contempt..
Logic Bomb💣
You can mourn the dead but you must appreciate them while they are alive before you can make such a declaration
I was driving in the car one day, and my window was half way down, I was going through a lot. The car next to me a black male told me to smile & I did, I felt noticed from a stranger. It kinda made my mood better.
@Asia Banks: So, decide every morning you wake up that you will start smiling , and saying hello every bm you see! Practice on bw first, until you’re comfortable with it❤️
Sometimes that’s all we want. We know things aren’t always the best, but we luv y’all so damn much. Remember this every woman on this planet emulate the BW. And to think we don’t luv y’all is crazy to me. For us to date out of our race it’s just that we been push out there.
@@raymondstewart5787 🥺this made me emotional 💕
The convo with the sister that was a therapist got heavy for the home. I felt that shit
This was the episode Kevin was looking for. This is a cold truth I learned since junior high. I've turned numb to it. It is what it is. I asked my mother did she love my father and I come to find out my father was her ticket to the U.S. Women adapt and survive.
Blk man understand you are truly alone. Embrace it.
Being alone makes you strong fellas. Use the time to be introspective find out who you are and what you want out of life that’s independent of a woman. Become the best version of yourself women are a perk to the better me package.
@Dr. Who? ... WOW! My manager and I spoke about this the other day. His wife and daughter tries to do the same thing to him.
Bruh we ain’t alone just don’t date black woman
@@robertlee6285 💯 bro, bottom line, date other races.
@@Smuckatelli seriously...we can’t have this weak victim mindset like black women owe us something ..God put plenty races of women here for a reason ...we ain’t doomed to black woman...trust me
At my job we had a new sista start and she was all soft spoken and respectful. I was like ooh she seems nice. As soon as it was just us, the ghetto came out. So disappointing.
My sister did this shit to get her now husband. He regrets every minute of it.
@@ericjordan6059 O Dear 😯
As a BLACK man I'm sick of sistas seeing us get killed AND incarcerated only to turn around and talk about how it affects them more! That sh*t is crazy!😤
Your struggling but I'm DEAD
it blows your mind right....this grief and trauma they speak of is disingenuous as if black men are not experiencing it also. The difference is we are dying daily, often thrown to the wolves by our own women.
I call it the "Hillary Clinton Syndrome." She is quoted as saying "Women have always been the primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat." As if you're LESS of a victim of your OWN loss of life than someone that merely witnesses your loss.
@@mpscorporation6874 YES! rollo tomassi mentioned that too. Solipsism at it's finest. Thanks to the red pill awakening I learned not to pay too much attention to them because they talk in circles and I leave with a headache lol
I have been saying this for years and nobody wants to listen! I tired of seeing Black Women cry and slober and March when a Black men gets killed and I don't they like us!!!
You’re fixed it for you. Self accountability and more respect among bm can fix those problems also this isn’t a competition you can’t ask women to cooperate with you but make everything a who has it the worse challenge..
Black women don't want to smile but you want us to protect you - KS
Long Live KS, man this was a great show, 4th time watching this and I learn something every time I watch it
Seems like black woman are more cooperative when a brother is faced with police brutality and oppression and talk about feeling “scared for him”, but in his own home a black woman facing the black man himself they are combative and become that same mental brutality black men face physically in the street.
💯 Was just thinking the same thing!
And then they fund raise money for support, and then buy houses for themselves.
Man the call before he cut to the dance video hit different, that “therapist” is a perfect example of how systemic the problem is. Imagine your wife going to see someone like that for help? She probably has broken many homes. If these are the educated people that are supposed to be helping then we are doomed
It was truly saddening
She was spewing post modern critical race theory madness. None of this has any impact on real interpersonal relationships. This stuff is born from resentful, misguided intersectional feminism.
I might have to tell my wife to find a new therapist after this frfr
I didnt even think about that m we need to find who she is and stop her. How do we go about doing that.
Hi, I'm right here. No need to stop me. I encourage healthy relationships with Black men and women all of the time. As a matter of fact I encourage Black Women to work on themselves so they can be better helpmates for the man they have and the potential man that they want. I would love to further share in your thoughts. Kevin is a good interviewer and there were a few things I held back on that would provide a wider scope of my perspective and the work I do. Love and respect to you.
When Kevin went AFK from the show. My heart sank. I have a friend i consider a brother. Hearing this broadcast gave me an insight into his pain as a black man. As a fellow man it has strengthen my solidarity to my fellow men. Strength and Wisdom to you all my brothers.
That’s exactly how I felt!
Well said
I agree. I dropped off a comment awhile ago while I was at work. It was real sad to hear this.
What is AFK?
@@jasminegrisson5847 Away From Keyboard. There was a point where Kevin went quiet and let the money world girl dance. Kevin took a sec to regain his composure and continued with the broadcast.
I'm 64 years of age. As a married man, with grown children and two grandkids, I have never understood women like I do now since listening to KS for about a year.
Funny thing is, I'm an avid church goer, and not even the church talks about this.
A couple of weeks ago, I sent several of KS's videos to a friend of mine who I thought would appreciate it. I was blown away by his assessment of KS as 'trash'.
Talk about being 'lost'!
I miss this brother! I'm already sick of his content being regurgitated by people who only want to capitalize on his passion. I wish there was a way to stop it.
Don't stop it. The knowledge and message still lands and that's too valuable
The caller that said she’s a licensed therapist was a attempting to say the reason our women don’t smile at/for us is because they’re feeling some sort of deep hurt for us & it saddens them. That was incredibly ridiculous.
Yea these chicks are on some serious PROBLEMS....
Do they carry that worldly burden when they’re on their way to brunch or the nightclub? So Anything outside of that you’re carrying all that trauma with u everywhere u go and make no apologies for how that has negative effects on others? Smfh can’t make this shit up
but they will smile and "yes sir" for police officers. 🤣😫🤧
@@chadj4237 Yep, don't see them carrying that trauma doing 'hot girl summer' or twerking in the middle of streets in Miami etc.
@@jcdenton6864 they always try to get all noble and introspective to deflect from the fact they done collectively gave us their asses to kiss in public. Where was all that empathy and Godliness when u were cursing us out cuz u didn’t feel obligated to be cordial and nice to a black man that wasn’t fucking you or giving u money?
The women smiling segment was so sad.. I can’t believe that this is how far off the rails relationships between men and how women have gotten to the point where women have decided to treat men horribly for no reason other than to just “do it”. These are things that could be changed so easily and quickly by women with almost instant results just by being cooperative and supportive of men or your man
The women from the smile segment reminded me of a verse in
Proverbs 30:20 that said,
Such is the way of an adulterous woman;
she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith,
I have done no wickedness.
Completely fits the current reality😔💔
B/c twitter and Instagram said so. Whatever society say they follow
@Done told ya Jones I was going to post the exact same thing. Truth!
Wisdom
This is easily a top 5 podcast show he did...man put his heart and soul and emotions into this...i bet even non blk men are lookin at this like: "gawdamn...."
Facts!!
I don’t think he knows how to do it differently man perfection good job Kevin!
it breaks my heart for you blck men
We are man, we are
@@Th3_Gael Unfortunately to Black Women holding us to the Dread Scott Decision. 3/5ths compromise. 😔
This literally made me feel teary! Wow we are in a depressing state indeed!
This show truly show how alone Black men are. That therapist conversation hit the nail right on the head.
Biased therapist. She is hurting women not helping.
@@jrod22986 BINGO... how can someone who is infected themselves try to bring others out of the infection? I've come across many black woman therapist who are exactly like this. In-fact many placate and feed into the delusions of the black women who come in for help.
@@jcdenton6864 that’s true.
We all we got!
@@jcdenton6864 When the bw cheats on her man that therapist will be there to tell the man how it's his fault. I separate the the from therapist.