I'm white, 66, lower middle class income, so I'm not really part of your audience, however, I want to let you know I truly appreciate the counsel you gave to the Ethiopian girl. I will be divorced after a 38 year marriage with seven daughters. We tried to raise them in a Christian home, and, though we aren't perfect by a long shot, every one of my daughters was raised with biblical morality. Two of them are married to their first love, with kids and hard working men. Three of them have gone into rebellion and lived like "liberated women." Every one of their lives is trashed and, at this point, hopeless. The two youngest, 18 and 13, have warped senses of reality due to the divorce and the issues that have arisen because I am not allowed to see them or have any input into their lives. So, young women that have come from a culture that is more "patriarchal," and where your parents seem to be too strict, get on your knees and thank God for them. You will find NO man that will love and protect you, asking nothing in return, save for your father, and he is looking for that kind of man FOR YOU. As I have told young men, and women alike, there is nothing in the rule book that says a father must like or respect (nor should there be) some guy just because he is in your driveway. Dad's job is to help ferret out the dirtbags (yes, there are many), and help you find what you really want for the long term. I speak from experience, as I have seen some of my daughters go "out there," even as I (literally) pleaded with them to stay under my protection, there is NO man who is more heartbroken to see you ruin your life than your daddy. Thank you, Kevin.
@@antoniotula262 thank you. I failed is some ways but, ultimately, was forced out of the house and I filed for divorce 8 months later. No closure, but I am coming to peace with it all.
Dang I am so sorry you can't see your daughters. I was raised by my mother only. My mother never discussed marriage or even relationships for that matter. Just go to school and get a good job.I believe in bibical values. So much so that I just turned 30 a couple months back and still a virgin. Never had a relationship. I wish I had a father in my life to have guided me. My mother still doesn't talk to me about finding a man.
@@kathryneprickett2083 my daughters are in the same situation. My ex has never helped them in that area either. Hang in there and keep your virtue. I do believe your Father in heaven is there for you.
Real talk, here. Sir, I feel your pain. You will get through it. I see my white male coworkers going through worse. Its an American culture problem. Their wifes are more disrespectful. Money is 'usually' better so the women tone it down a bit, but emasculate(disrespect) their men than no other. Who did the black women learn the disrespectful tactics from?
I know I missed my Good guy because I was stupid and was raised by a bitter, hateful, feminist mother. Not many women can admit they screwed up, but I can. I'm here for the knowledge from the male pov.
Yeeaah! Girl, at least you open to change and doing your research🌸🌸 I hope you get a good man🍀 I reccomend you read Rich Dad, Poor Dad from Robert Kiyosaki. If you don't marry a rich guy, at least you'll have the knowledge to grow what you have🌸🌸🌸
@@stallionshark1726 OMG!!!! That is too funny!!! Yes, that is me in the picture. I'm not built like a wrestler, though. Lol. I'm very much a woman. I'm also about 5'2" and extremely fit, c which is why you see muscles where most women have fat. Lol
Classic conversation with the 28 year old. Life tells them they should be treated like a queen but never tell them what they need to do to end up in the castle
College is the worst place lol especially big schools with tons of bars. I can't imagine how many future wives I've ruined. I still get messages 8 years later from them praying I'm still single and they can get one last ride on the 6'4 athletic guy with new car and house. Not a chance lol I remember telling my last ex the chance of her finding a great husband was .. 10% I recently had a long talk with her about how completely stupid she was. I thanked her tho for sure, great person but I can't imagine what today would be.
"The people you find early in life fall in love with the real you..." - KS. The above statement explains why I will never forsake my wife. The sister stuck by me from my broke beginnings as a doctoral student through the come up. She was better off than me financially in the beginning. Yet, my wife had the vision to see my potential and trajectory early on when we were dating. Now, she does not have to work at all and lives comfortably.
I am not the same person I was at 18. Im a lot wiser and discerning now. Back then I was ignorant with my head in the clouds. So the person at 18 compared to now at 35 are 2 totally different ppl. These are just generalisations coming out of a man who has a show to run.
Eric Deadmon because they trying to come up with a narrative that doesn’t make themselves look bad. They will literally change their story within a whole conversation when you talk to them long enough.
I wish he was still alive. I got up on him too late but it’s a good thing his content is still up. I’m still watching and learning and have grown from his videos. He has left behind a legacy. Controversial to some, informational and inspirational to others. He’s inspirational to me! Rest In Peace brother!!!
@@patb2582 he makes sense and uses enough rational thinking to prove a point. The fact his wife's left him and now have nothing is more proof. Imagine getting the experience first hand. Working 70hrs per week to clear $300k. Then having someone at home crying that you don't spend time with them while you are building the entire life for the both of you and kids. Its unacceptable in our community because we have been bombarded with marketing. Just because you know men have a sexual appetite and can get attention it doesn't equal value in real life.
This is so true. I left my first boyfriend after 5 years because he was too boring. And i thought i could find a better match. It's been 10 years. And I haven't found one.
I dated my high school sweetheart for 3 years and was ready to settle down to marry her but she decided not to get married because she was too young. But I grind on my skills and now I’m married and making 150 thousand a year for more than ten years. My Ex HS sweet heart is still unmarried with 4 kids different dads. You definitely can’t make this shit up.
You see holly berry just went back black said he gave her the life to love again... she just washed and no more white men want her ass but welcome home since if you checked for us in your prime you would have been just fine
I remember dating a woman a couple years back. She was 24 and I was 32. She was educated, fit, smart, a great lover, took me out to dinner for my birthday. Things started off great. As time went on, you could see she was missing the night life. She expected me to propose to her within 1 year of dating and she’s be on Snapchat dancing with her girls at the club. I remember trying to get through to her but one day when we were supposed to go away on vacation together, she said we had different goals and values. I knew at that point things would slide downhill for her. She started off great in the relationship but I stayed great. I treated her very well with our dates. We always had fun and I always treated her with care on every level. So when she told me it was over it hurt me because I loved her but because I loved her I let her go and stayed away from her. She’s 27 now and still single. She thought men like me grew on trees.
I'm 39 and finally engaged to a wonderful man. He was worth the wait and he doesn't even have BAGGAGE from old relationships. He's 40. I feel like finally God listened to my prayers, I love this man so much.
I’m going through this now.. 32 unmarried with two kids.. I wish I had the mindset to settle now with someone who has a plan for our future instead of a man who only wants a good time. I hope these young girls don’t make the mistake I did because you can’t get back your youthful years
@Cedrick Carson most men of value do not want a single mother, or raise another mans kids. She is going to either wait till they are much older or throw in the towel and save for her retirement
@Cedrick Carson wrong answer. The chances of a top tier planning man throwing away his life to give a shot at a woman who is unlikely to be able to continue a family with him. The children will not respect him because he is not their father in reality and why would he do that at 38 when he could take the energy and resources and secure his retirement. Its a horrible idea for a man to sign up for that... No offense. She has already given the best gift away to ransoms when she should have been selective and focused while she was young. You think women at 35-40 are having children easily.. Let alone healthy The medical bill if there is any traumatic birth will break any normal family
The greatest lesson of my life I was taught in high school by my physics teacher, he taught us the SMV graph & told us don't worry, work on yourselves, you will have your pick of women when you have made it, and sure enough it's exactly what's happening now. Great show Kev
@Andrew Nyika - I had the most Ghetto Hood Uncle & Cousin tell me these exact things. You are the one who has to improve yourself so as you get older your SMV (Sexual Market Value) goes up. He said "DO NOT CHASE ANY WOMAN"!!! BECAUSE AS YOU GET OLDER YOU WILL BE THE PRIZE ESPECIALLY IN BLACK AMERICA... Men Please STOP THE CHASE BECAUSE YOU ARE THE PRIZE.
My English teacher told me when I was in high school in the UK that between chosing a full-time career and a family he encouraged me to choose a family to not end up a lonely woman later in life and his words sticked with me💯
Damn Mr. Samuels.. Can't believe you're gone. People can hate on you all they want but you spoke the unfiltered truth. To those disrespecting this man's death .. Shame on you. You may not have agreed with him, but to talk shit on a man who spoke his mind... That's just petty and immature. Kevin, you'll be missed 🙏🏿
Edit your comment to not include about people hating on him. I have been following him for a while and have never heard about people hating on him until I read your comment. You're giving them power by mentioning them, when your comment should only commend Kevin.
He was doing good work. Did his best to take the high road and not be rude to his guests even when they needed a smack of reality. Respect to his efforts
These women don't even see that steve harvey is setting their asses up to be single for the rest of their lives!!!........LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
lol...It's really not funny man, because he's getting paid off it... And that's helping to fck up an entire generation or 3. That effects us all somehow.
@@jesterarts734 word! That's the biggest problem with this whole issue with modern females. As men we know that many will come to understand in their forties, but while they take their time riding the carousel and pumping out fatherless kids the rest of our country suffers. Idk who suffers more the men or the fatherlessness kids
This story's autobiographical for almost all of us. They wasn't ready to settle down, always looking to "better deal" up, until they shoot past their level, and can't go back either. Hence, they end up alone.
Facts; marriage is really for women so they can get those dolly fantasies out but they forget there was a house that came with it that needed to be looked after together for ever not stashed away or sold off. How many of them still have the doll house.
I was watching a video with the Talk I think it is with Loni and Jeannie and some others and they were talking about doing girlfriend and wife things and all I heard was things they weren't going to do as girlfriends, but then when it came to wife things there was only "I might" do it. Had me thinking what you said, These females want a wedding they don't want a marriage. They want to be a bride, they don't want to be a wife.
The music, the man, the memories. Got me through the covid lockdowns and beyond. His voice soothed my tattered nerves. Miss you very much KS...RIP 🕊❤ Signed, One of the normal Karens 💖
Hey is the low key verbal asssin for social manipulative femenist 😂😂😂😂😁and I love it and I can't get enough of it. He honestly has more game than Mr locario no disrespect to him though
That hypothetical story hit so close to home😭I was almost Kim, I had the audacity to hesitate when this guy told me he wanted to be with me. He was an economic major and I was a psychology major😭. I was 22 thinking I had my single life ahead of me. But I realized I had something special and I committed. I’m 25 now and we’re married with a wonderful baby boy. And my husband name is Harry🤣🤣
@@ksjb85 he works in sales. He’s good at it. But I feel compelled to say ,I don’t believe the degree make you. He does well because he enjoys sales, and therefore pursued economics. Economics will work because of you, and not the degree itself. I wish you the best in your education
Sir! You are excellent! my little sis.got married when she was 23 to her college sweetheart,and all her friends in their 30th still waiting for mr "R"!
Men going their own way. When you have your own program and stick to it, most women are not ready for it. Now I tell women "this is what I'm doing". They can choose to climb on-board, or not. I stay on the program.
@@werringertonney7489 Whatever works for you & him. Agreed, black men are not a monolith. Those of us who choose our own path are not bound by social traditions.
😂 bro I’m a Deputy and on my extra jobs I just listen to him talk, it’s all facts! At first I thought it was fake, I was like hold up, how does a 38yr with 2 BD’s who is 5’4” 183lbs think she is a 8!!!! A fucking 8!!!!
The Henry situation you spoke about happened to me in my last two relationships before getting married. Two black women on separate occasions felt the need to explore because it was too early. The next woman who happened to be white was ready and did not have time for games. Was married within a year and have been for almost 10 years now. The previous two ladies had remarks and felt as if I did something to them. I did not end the relationships and even attempt to reconcile with both. But somehow it was my fault. I think it was the lifestyle they saw to include the homes, vacations and cars. My wife was there from the start she saw something and even told me that I was not going anywhere and tell those others it’s over for them.
Hunters HUNT. Same happened to my cousins, those WW were not playing.. I'll never forget my cousin was literally armed to get this woman off his property. 3 kids /9 years and a marriage later.. Her ugly ass won. We laugh today but she works everyday to keep his ass. Literally wakes up to a BJ minimum 3x per week and says her mom told her that was the secret to keeping a man. Damn genius
@@vanderumd11 loooool taking notes for my marriage🌸🌸 I am a danger zoned socially virgin akward woman🤣🤣🤣 But daaammmm these advices are very important... My mom raised my to be a career woman
@@tralaritralarajiju2652 most men are definitely simple in what we require to be happy or comfortable. Most women are raised to look towards a career which is great but there is a negative if you don't put more effort into what will last FAR longer than any job. Relationships are important and understanding how to give so that you receive benefits is important. Some women are taught how to navigate the male gender by society and some are taught by close relatives. It depends on which outcome you are looking for. I hope you manage the best life you can and whenever you are in doubt write it out. Write the guy and ask questions, this way its not awkward and they can see that you are trying.
@@vanderumd11 yes, I'm a BW and went to private school. That was and still is predominantly white. And yes WW are taught to go to school and find a husband,. By their parents and BW are taught to go to school get a good job, make the money and find a man later! And yes BJ thing is true! Glad I went to a White school! 😁😁😁
@@mkane1366 no need to explain. It's so crazy that every woman I seriously dated and fell in love with went to either a boarding school or private school. Just a different sense of cooperating. I think they understand that if a man thinks you are his he will go to the ends of the earth for you. Yes it requires extracurricular activities but realistically what is 3 hours a week to keep your man satisfied. Ppl act like it's pulling teeth. We see who ends up happier in the end.
I am so incredibly happy that I had my parents to help me find my wife. 10 years and 3 kids later, I realize how amazing this is. "Without a family there is no community."
This is so true! It happened to me when I was in college… She said to me that I was the kind of guy you marry not the guy you date in college!?? Long story short. Met my wife at a graduation party. We’ve been married for 15+ years. Three wonderful kids two dogs living in the suburbs.. She ended up getting pregnant and dropping out of college.. she is now a single mom of three working as a cashier..
I dated a girl when I was in my early 20s who broke up with me because I was too boring and I gotta say, I’ve never been more grateful. I met my wife a week after the breakup and now over 20 years later, it’s been a great life with a woman who I’ve grown with and become extremely successful with.
I met my husband in college/party days, graduated in spring and we got married late that summer at 24. my husband is a blessing. Do not pass up on the man that loves you that you met in college!
Met my wife at 17, dated through college and got married at 23. We’re 30 now. We were telling our daughter the other day about when subway used to have that $5 foot long deal and we would split it for a whole meal for two lol, good times
frank man I don’t think that’s a constructive or accurate analysis. I’ve met a lot of great and well mannered black women. A lot. Unfortunately they’ve all been wifed up. I believe every race has good and bad apples
Mr. Samuel's...Im a white 50 year old and are a follower since a few days ago...my wife kicked me in the balls after 18 years of marriage...but make no mistake Im building a few businesses that are making a huge impact on me and my two kids life as well as our underprivileged community upliftment projects through my boxing gym. . in South Africa, Jeffreys Bay... And my ex wife is seeing and feeling the mistake she made by leaving in my struggle times as a dad...that tried his best...now is my time to spark....Thanks a million Kevin
yes and when they are so are we men, being rich wealthy doesn't change how we can tap into reality which is a choice and today many people choose to hear from tv government and not their CREATOR,... THE MOST HIGH and that is more scary than anything.... guidance without GOD... is what we are experiencing ...
I know a beautiful woman that did me just like it and it’s crazy I have one child I’m married almost 40 and I know some with five kids by multiple men and I think some just don’t get it but I hope the younger ladies listen up so they will not die alone
This is my exact story. High school sweetheart. Engaged graduation day. She's at Spelman, I'm at Morehouse. Freshman year...beautiful. Got a perm and contacts and by the end of sophomore year she just went ghost emotionally and then it wasn't me it was her and she needed to explore. Brother devastated almost to the point of suicide. I never understood it from this point of view, but it's dead on.
I was there brother about 20+ years ago (In The AUC) she was eating HIGH ON THE HOG (as my Grandmother would say). I could not get play from the women on my level. They would go mess with these guys trying to level-up. One lady got pregnant, another one lady got the package (the worst STD and died) and another one just ran on the C.C she's sad mess. So I just began dating older women with established careers.
Women that can take what he is saying is valuable . Without her tapping into her defensive mentality ! I applaud the resolve. The society is trying to program our women to be more egotistical and masculine.
I'm going to miss this guy. Everything he said in this vid i experienced and it was with a 32yr old girl , which she should of been more stable but no. This guy does speak the truth and people just can't accept it.
I know a story EXACTLY like Harry analogy. Two dating in college. Guy was premed, can't remember what she was. Anyway, she took an internship overseas for 3 months. Cheated on him with a program coordinator. She got outed. Said she was just exploring herself. They broke up. 15 years later he's a doctor, happily married, kids. She's 36 and still single. He is just lucky she got outed
Great content. I'm a Persian-Canadian guy and I just want to say that all men relate to these issues. It is not strictly a black man/woman thing. All women who have been poisoned by feminism and the modern western culture, and whom have embraced the ideology of "strong independent woman," act and think the same way. Some are more subtle about it and may hide it better, but it always rears it's ugly head somewhere. If I see any signs a woman thinks in such a manner and identifies as a feminist, I don't associate/help/talk with her in any way or form. You are doing both men and women a favor by making the cold hard truth the standard. Keep up the good work!
He only brings up black women due to destructive dynamic of black women in our community. They feel like the black men have failed them. They make themselves successful and put themselves above men. They are trying to be competition and not a mate. They think they are better than us most are angry and abrasive. When you point that out they always say your not strong enough to handle them. Your a weak man yet when the get all the things they felt they needed. They can't find a mate
My ex is BREAKING her neck trying to get back in....I "dodged" a bullet!...why would I put my self back in a situation with a SELFISH female who lies..puts family/friends AHEAD of me...terrible home skills...dressed "sexy" for work...but at home messy hair/jogging pants...LAZY in the bedroom....complain about paying minor bills...take her to NICE place to eat and she orders $30 burgers/fries....she rather watch ATL housewives INSTEAD of getting exercise with me....never sticks to the budget or contribute to savings so WE can build....NEVER admits when she is wrong...plenty materialism.."little" spirituality....ALWAYS checking my phone/computer(but her phones/computer OFF LIMITS).....hitting me/throwing things when she mad.............NOPE!!!!...her leaving made me realize how much I DONT need her OR any black women with "stank" attitude/personality....my NEW spot is lit...RICH now...."peace" when I return home now.....don't have to hear her snore/pass gas ALL night....I have started cooking again......meditate on the Lord without distraction....dating a 10!.....UPGRADED in every way!.....now WHY would I take "her" back????.....lol
Ok just because you’ve chosen to deal with bad black women, don’t try to hate the entire group because of your mistakes... this is what Kevin be talking bout.
CHI If you go back to an ex she will lose all respect for you but still will stay in a relationship with you because she knows that you’re the only guy gullible enough to give her slutty ass a relationship
Damn this is cold truth right here... It really sucks that so many women have thrown away good men. Nobody wins in these situations. The guy get his heart broken and the woman realizes she made a horrible mistake. Its just a sad world we live in.
Chads win bro. They get lots of uncomitted sex from these horney señoritas. Then he kicks them to the curve psychologicly damaged. She marries a beta. A few years after she divorces the beta male and takes his money. New Chad. Rinse and repeat.
if a man is putting women in "layaway" its because he is a top male and has options. it is wise for him to shop around for the best option- thats why layaway exists!... because its good for the market- and the market is men, the product is women. women need to understand that YOU CANNOT FORCE SOMEONE TO BUY YOUR PRODUCT! if the man felt like she was the best possible product he would have purchased her in full immediately.
@@therealariahb shelf life essentially and responsibility for men. Nobody wants a young man.. Essentially one who cannot take on the provider role and is still figuring much out. Many younger women are smart enough to see.. Older men have more money, time, status, less testosterone and can make better families. Men work harder for sex and the relationship in general is how a woman can secure the resources long term. If a woman is just having sex for fun, most men will accept but do place value on how easy it is yo get. Nature & nurture are hard hills to climb.
I agree with the discipline,But moving to the most expensive city in America.With no work skills is very risky because all of that discipline in that city will go out real fast if you don’t have any skills to supplement that 20k
When I caught my case of the stupids and was seperating from my hubby, neither my German shepherd mother or aunt had ANY words of wisdom for me. Luckily I snapped my dumb ass out of it and got back with my husband. My uncle was the only one to congratulate us and convey how proud he was of us for working it out. (He recognized the fact that my hubby was a GOOD man.) Kevin reminds me of unc because he's also a man of noble intent.
All women, if you treated them good, always try to come back into your life at some point. It may be a year later. It may be 10 years later. When they hit the wall, they realize they dumped the best thing they ever had.
I love this brother. I’m glad that one video went viral because it’s the reason I found your page. You’re like the uncle I’ve never had. Dropping gems every video. I’ve been binge watching your segments in my spare time for the last 2 weeks. Thank God for you are truly a blessing Kevin.
Damn. I'm from Cincinnati Ohio. There are a lot of women that are mad aggressive and don't know their dress size even at 28. Cincinnati is very...hood.. like abnormally hood.
I moved the cincy a year ago and verify the degree of hood mentioned. What i also noticed, productive men are HIGHLY sought after, probably to be the cleanup man.
You are absolutely correct! I had my husband when I was in my 20s. Then blew it. Got rid of him and now I’m 48 and this dating scene is crazy. You’re on point! Thanks. ❤️
He was untainted, not too many heartbreaks and an open heart. Now at 48. Tell me a man that’s not more cautious of their heart. I know I will find love soon, but I can’t ever say it wasn’t presented to me. ❤️❤️❤️
Damn...I never thought of it like that...Me and my ex dated when we were 18 very similar to the Henry story. Dated for 5 years and she left me for a girl. Later on i'd find out from her mouth that after 6 months with her, she'd realized she'd made a terrible mistake and wasn't nearly as happy with her new girlfriend as she was with me. Now i'm in a much better place with myself, making good money, single, and childless. Now she's alone and just purchased a dog. Sad that it didn't have to be this way, but I wouldn't be who I am without her...thanks for the life lesson.
A twitter Quote from Lisa Raye "No but seriously. Normalize finding love in your 40's. Normalize discovering and chasing your dreams in your 30's. Normalize finding your purpose in your 50's. Life doesn't end at 25. Let's stop acting like it does." That's what they're pushing to their daughters and nieces out here.
Ken-Won Miller and I agree with her. Life doesn’t end at 25 for anyone, male or female. However we must practice humility and being humble during all times of our lives so that we don’t make prideful and senseless mistakes that will lead to us being unhappy for the long term
I was thinking this myself. A woman will find that man in her early years that wants her, but dumps him. I had a ex do that. 8 years later she tried contacting me, but i didn't get the message till 12 years later. She has her degree, high paying job. Gained weight and looking old. Shes 5 years younger than me, but looks older than me. Now i attract younger hotter women.
A man dumped me for being mary magdalene, playing games, yet the irony his marriage blew up in his face, he came looking for me years later, that happens as well, the hoes and strippers may be the best wives sometimes, dont count us out...
Bruh at like an hour in, this man sat up here and told the entire story of my ex. She left, I got my shit together. 2 years later here she come talking about “I miss you”😂😂😂
This is my story! I am Harry. Had my love (call her S) quit me after I graduated from WFU and she graduated from community college. She went to ATL and threw me over for a F-boy (before that phrase was even created). I pined away for 6 months, then my sister (of all people) told me to snap out of it. I went through a dozen feemails. Then found the woman who would become my wife. S broke up with the guy she threw me over for (she had to put a restraining order on him), then she got up with the next dude who she decided to bring a baby with full term. S came back to town shortly after I got married and took up with a married man who happened to a brother of my sister’s husband. Of course, that didn’t last. I have three very successful and grown kids. S has gone from Fine-As-All-Outdoors to just Big-As-All-Outdoors. Still no husband and worn out. I actually pity her, but I thank God that He pushed me out of that bullet’s way.
Man he has my ex down pack with the Kim just add 2 years to the relationship and a sorority when she flip the switch. Now years later I'm making 6 digits traveling the world, while my wife is a stay at home and one child graduating college and the other in private school in high school. The ex who was the Kim, social worker, bitter towards me and my, can't pay her bills. Never married and no kids. Lol and, still getting ran through by the frats.
Right? It's an actual female version of a scrub. We can't provide resources as men? Were scrubs They can't improve themselves and take a look in the mirror? They're scrubs
Everything you pointing out very true, Steve Harvey knows better if he would have told that woman and pointed out what was really true his show would be shut down the next day. Only on these TH-cam streets you can be true and the truth hurts.
Natalie Van hooi donk we are all African my ancestors were stolen remember brought to the America, and Boston university does not represent all black professors my university spelman university have over 40 African Americans professors they are everywhere luv
@@JasonPhillip303 So right. Most of us have the misconception that, a few white dude just hiked off into the middle of the Congo pointed his musket at the first blacks they saw, and said "March, N%^&*!". Nope. Stronger, more organized tribes sold their African enemies, neighbors & rivals to Afro-Arab brokers, who then marched our ancestors to the slave markets on the coast where they were bought by whites. What a deal! Having your enemies/rivals shipped off to a faraway continent, and getting PAID for it, too! They probably didn't even ask for much in return.
Kevin and AMS are like Good Twin and Evil Twin 😂 because these gentlemen 100% prove each other’s point on female nature. It is what it is. Gentlemen, focus on your purpose, get the biggest bag you can and for the most part you can have what you want out of this world. Don’t fall into the trap of complaining about your circumstance or female nature because that’s not going to change things for you 🤷🏾♂️. Now forward and prosper!!!
I deeply loved my high school girlfriend. When we went to college together she immediately cheated on me and broke my heart thru multiple acts of betrayal while she was a pogo-stick screwing every guy on the horizon. She dropped out of college, became a stripper, then married, divorced, remarried, kids I think with different men. I doubt she is happy given all her buried bodies. It took me many years to get over her. Now I'm a successful above average bachelor, generally happy and content with friends and assets.
@@michaelhansell3166 the "Big 5" Steve use as a analogy pertaining to "high prime game"(8,9 and 10's) and the women in the Audience are really low prime game(chicken heads) who are 4's, 5's and 6's.
@@malachiy13 that's what I was wondering. What is he saying men should do if they come across a chicken that thinks it's big 5 game? I'm also disgusted that he even knows about that? Did Steve Harvey just admit that he goes to Africa to hunt endangered species? Low vibrational and no integrity.
I was too young when I fell in love the first time. But it’s still funny to reflect on in many ways. I bought a home when I was 18, retired the work force at 23 to pursue my career working for myself as a sound designer/producer. I had a fiancé that lived with me while I provided all the finances and she went to culinary school. When we were planning the marriage, part of the plan was for me to help her finance a bakery as she had worked at an internationally acclaimed bakery during school and worked her way into a recognizable position. She had it made in her early 20’s and I loved her through a lot of mistakes that she made within our relationship. I was too young to see the writing on the wall. 2 weeks after we planned a date for the marriage (after 7 years together), she ran off with some other guy. Not a word about it just disappeared. Wound up hooked on heroin. I still get ambulance bills to my house when she overdoses. You could say I dodged a bullet. But I imagine what her life is like years later, what it will be like when she is single likely with a child in her 30’s, how she will reflect on what she walked away from. Meanwhile I have been still building like I was since I was out of highschool.
That woman that called the 28-year old I feel it for her not everyone gets the best start in life. She should look at jobs a 40k Plus and see what qualification she can get within a year or two. She will come through prayers are with her. Keep looking up sister!
What is wrong with these callers? Why do they lack the ability to answer the actual question asked? What is your name? Well, see, the thing is, my dad wanted to name me after my aunt, look! A squirrel! Anyway, my dog barks at me and my name is, bark? Yeah, well...
This definitely hit home…specially when you love someone more than they love you!!! Women take ownership the grass isn’t always greener!!! Even after 30years!!! I lived and went thru exactly what the last caller is talking about! On the guys end!
The Ancient Greek mythical types are the ancient Persian/Mede mythical types which are the egyptian mythical types and in other words... they are worshippers of Cush and Semiramis and their son Nimrod. Who were worshippers of Satan/Lucifer. What I am trying to say is that today’s women, especially black women are just like Eve. They follow the serpent and not the Lord. That’s why they harken back to those mythologies and call themselves queens and goddesses. Because they have Eve’s spirit.. the spirit of the serpent.
I'm white, 66, lower middle class income, so I'm not really part of your audience, however, I want to let you know I truly appreciate the counsel you gave to the Ethiopian girl. I will be divorced after a 38 year marriage with seven daughters. We tried to raise them in a Christian home, and, though we aren't perfect by a long shot, every one of my daughters was raised with biblical morality. Two of them are married to their first love, with kids and hard working men. Three of them have gone into rebellion and lived like "liberated women." Every one of their lives is trashed and, at this point, hopeless. The two youngest, 18 and 13, have warped senses of reality due to the divorce and the issues that have arisen because I am not allowed to see them or have any input into their lives.
So, young women that have come from a culture that is more "patriarchal," and where your parents seem to be too strict, get on your knees and thank God for them. You will find NO man that will love and protect you, asking nothing in return, save for your father, and he is looking for that kind of man FOR YOU. As I have told young men, and women alike, there is nothing in the rule book that says a father must like or respect (nor should there be) some guy just because he is in your driveway. Dad's job is to help ferret out the dirtbags (yes, there are many), and help you find what you really want for the long term. I speak from experience, as I have seen some of my daughters go "out there," even as I (literally) pleaded with them to stay under my protection, there is NO man who is more heartbroken to see you ruin your life than your daddy.
Thank you, Kevin.
Sorry to hear of this divorce after so many years. Be good to yourself, sounds like your conscience is clear. The rest is in God's hands
@@antoniotula262 thank you. I failed is some ways but, ultimately, was forced out of the house and I filed for divorce 8 months later. No closure, but I am coming to peace with it all.
Dang I am so sorry you can't see your daughters. I was raised by my mother only. My mother never discussed marriage or even relationships for that matter. Just go to school and get a good job.I believe in bibical values. So much so that I just turned 30 a couple months back and still a virgin. Never had a relationship. I wish I had a father in my life to have guided me. My mother still doesn't talk to me about finding a man.
@@kathryneprickett2083 my daughters are in the same situation. My ex has never helped them in that area either. Hang in there and keep your virtue. I do believe your Father in heaven is there for you.
Real talk, here. Sir, I feel your pain. You will get through it.
I see my white male coworkers going through worse. Its an American culture problem. Their wifes are more disrespectful. Money is 'usually' better so the women tone it down a bit, but emasculate(disrespect) their men than no other. Who did the black women learn the disrespectful tactics from?
Like I always say, no woman 30 or older will ever convince me they've never had a chance with good man.
Tons of them did, but it’s that pride/arrogance that prevents them from admitting it
They will lie due to ego
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good man only care about sexy virgin if youre not that you lost girl lol
If they say that out loud, it's very telling of their character..
I know I missed my Good guy because I was stupid and was raised by a bitter, hateful, feminist mother. Not many women can admit they screwed up, but I can. I'm here for the knowledge from the male pov.
Respect . You ll find someone
Yeeaah! Girl, at least you open to change and doing your research🌸🌸
I hope you get a good man🍀
I reccomend you read Rich Dad, Poor Dad from Robert Kiyosaki. If you don't marry a rich guy, at least you'll have the knowledge to grow what you have🌸🌸🌸
I wish you well in your journey. I'm glad that you were able to pin point the problem
If that's you in the picture, no man is going for a woman built like Andre The Giant. 🤦♂️
@@stallionshark1726 OMG!!!! That is too funny!!!
Yes, that is me in the picture. I'm not built like a wrestler, though. Lol.
I'm very much a woman. I'm also about 5'2" and extremely fit, c which is why you see muscles where most women have fat. Lol
Beyonce telling all these women to leave their man while she stayed with Jay-Z lol.
@Lori Joy Fine Art Channel how exactly would you know if she’s submissive especially if she doesn’t promote submissiveness 🤔
@Lori Joy Fine Art Channel nope, show me a pretty girl and I’ll show you a man who is tired of fucking her.
@Lori Joy Fine Art Channel who told you Beyoncé is submissive? She’s not even a follower of the Most High. She’s a luciferian
Their marriage is a business transaction. Everyone should know that.
@@fender1000100 " MARRIAGE IS" A BUSINESS TRANSACTION for rearing and raising CHILDREN!
Classic conversation with the 28 year old. Life tells them they should be treated like a queen but never tell them what they need to do to end up in the castle
Kendall Thomas it was brutal - but facts! She should know more than a 21yr old but she doesn't - she's oblivious to life.
Straight facts
Right on the money
Game
Yeah...He broke it down...I thought I heard her say "over a billion" Whew!
"The people you find early on in life ... are the people who fall in love with the REAL you."
@Redrustyhill You are a man brother. Modern women only grow up, rarely mature.
Yeppers
If you keep that early person. You can benefit from they can remind you to stay grounded as you garner success.
Facts!!! I passed mine up out of FEAR.
Problem is with social media women think they the prize and they don't wanna stay loyal or follow duty as wife
This is exactly what happened to my ex. She went off to school and came back different. Guys, when you get in this situation just let her go.
Correct
College is the worst place lol especially big schools with tons of bars. I can't imagine how many future wives I've ruined. I still get messages 8 years later from them praying I'm still single and they can get one last ride on the 6'4 athletic guy with new car and house. Not a chance lol I remember telling my last ex the chance of her finding a great husband was .. 10%
I recently had a long talk with her about how completely stupid she was. I thanked her tho for sure, great person but I can't imagine what today would be.
The same thing happened to me.
Preach.
and don't look back or take back.
"The people you find early in life fall in love with the real you..." - KS.
The above statement explains why I will never forsake my wife. The sister stuck by me from my broke beginnings as a doctoral student through the come up. She was better off than me financially in the beginning. Yet, my wife had the vision to see my potential and trajectory early on when we were dating. Now, she does not have to work at all and lives comfortably.
That's good for you brother
nice 8)
Love to see it❤️
Very sweet
I am not the same person I was at 18. Im a lot wiser and discerning now. Back then I was ignorant with my head in the clouds. So the person at 18 compared to now at 35 are 2 totally different ppl.
These are just generalisations coming out of a man who has a show to run.
Can you imagine Kevin hosting Steve Harveys show for a week. The audience would be in uproar Lol
It might be some name calling too 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
There wouldn't be an audience after day one...
@@macplatt6183 😂🤣😂🤣
Witches and broomsticks
Yep he would be telling every women she gone die alone I’ll be watching everyday lol
Jesus why is it so hard for women to answer a direct question!!!
Bc they know where it leads too
Last{King}85 yeah, the truth.
Eric Deadmon because they trying to come up with a narrative that doesn’t make themselves look bad.
They will literally change their story within a whole conversation when you talk to them long enough.
5'2" 110 lbs gtfoh
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I wish he was still alive. I got up on him too late but it’s a good thing his content is still up. I’m still watching and learning and have grown from his videos. He has left behind a legacy. Controversial to some, informational and inspirational to others. He’s inspirational to me! Rest In Peace brother!!!
So am I my brother!
Happy that you guys found him. It's not too late. Enjoy 💞
He had a purpose, those who see it, see it. We continue his work now.
People would pay you some serious money if you got into matchmaking. Your vetting ability with women is on point. Excellent show.
Kemet Azubuike yeah but he will end up being just as frustrated as famous matchmaker to the elites, a Miss _Rebecca Lynn Pope._
willia3r very true.
Matchmaking is stressful in 2020 he better off doing what he does.
No he wouldn't. This guy has been divorced twice. You are all insane for listening to him
@@patb2582 he makes sense and uses enough rational thinking to prove a point. The fact his wife's left him and now have nothing is more proof. Imagine getting the experience first hand. Working 70hrs per week to clear $300k. Then having someone at home crying that you don't spend time with them while you are building the entire life for the both of you and kids. Its unacceptable in our community because we have been bombarded with marketing. Just because you know men have a sexual appetite and can get attention it doesn't equal value in real life.
This is so true. I left my first boyfriend after 5 years because he was too boring.
And i thought i could find a better match.
It's been 10 years. And I haven't found one.
Ha!
Dumb ass......
Now
Foooool.
How's that exciting 10 years been since you dumped your boring boyfriend
I dated my high school sweetheart for 3 years and was ready to settle down to marry her but she decided not to get married because she was too young. But I grind on my skills and now I’m married and making 150 thousand a year for more than ten years. My Ex HS sweet heart is still unmarried with 4 kids different dads. You definitely can’t make this shit up.
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4? different? baby? daddies?
@@Thiiink at this point are you surprised?
@@Almostthere1234 lol dude by the third bd - how are they still trying? man
@@Thiiink bro after the second its game over for them, they just dont realize it.
"Anything less than everything is _nothing!"_ - Modern women ...
Great topic & nothing but truth. As a wise man once said.
Men understand Life too early & Women understand Life too late
And Women _love_ too early and Men _love_ too late.
nisuperman Love for women is a feeling and for men an action. Which corresponds to the original post.
@@nisuperman woman lust too early and love too late.
Real ass comment
You see holly berry just went back black said he gave her the life to love again... she just washed and no more white men want her ass but welcome home since if you checked for us in your prime you would have been just fine
I remember dating a woman a couple years back. She was 24 and I was 32. She was educated, fit, smart, a great lover, took me out to dinner for my birthday. Things started off great. As time went on, you could see she was missing the night life. She expected me to propose to her within 1 year of dating and she’s be on Snapchat dancing with her girls at the club. I remember trying to get through to her but one day when we were supposed to go away on vacation together, she said we had different goals and values. I knew at that point things would slide downhill for her. She started off great in the relationship but I stayed great. I treated her very well with our dates. We always had fun and I always treated her with care on every level. So when she told me it was over it hurt me because I loved her but because I loved her I let her go and stayed away from her.
She’s 27 now and still single. She thought men like me grew on trees.
304s react negatively when you treat them well. Being too nice to women dries them up. I know it is harsh but it is the truth.
Given how many men have shared a similar story it seems like you do.
But commitment Why were you afraid to get married?
She enjoyed your provisions. The streets was more important.
I'm 39 and finally engaged to a wonderful man. He was worth the wait and he doesn't even have BAGGAGE from old relationships. He's 40. I feel like finally God listened to my prayers, I love this man so much.
I’m going through this now.. 32 unmarried with two kids.. I wish I had the mindset to settle now with someone who has a plan for our future instead of a man who only wants a good time. I hope these young girls don’t make the mistake I did because you can’t get back your youthful years
You gotta be humble sis.
Sis your comment is real. Respect.. Hope women like you can educate other women
@Cedrick Carson most men of value do not want a single mother, or raise another mans kids. She is going to either wait till they are much older or throw in the towel and save for her retirement
@Cedrick Carson wrong answer. The chances of a top tier planning man throwing away his life to give a shot at a woman who is unlikely to be able to continue a family with him. The children will not respect him because he is not their father in reality and why would he do that at 38 when he could take the energy and resources and secure his retirement. Its a horrible idea for a man to sign up for that... No offense.
She has already given the best gift away to ransoms when she should have been selective and focused while she was young. You think women at 35-40 are having children easily.. Let alone healthy
The medical bill if there is any traumatic birth will break any normal family
@@Motochick203 she didn’t say she wanted a HVM. So she still got a chance to find a husband.
The greatest lesson of my life I was taught in high school by my physics teacher, he taught us the SMV graph & told us don't worry, work on yourselves, you will have your pick of women when you have made it, and sure enough it's exactly what's happening now. Great show Kev
Of course his expertise is real world physics. You owe your teacher a thanks.
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@Andrew Nyika - I had the most Ghetto Hood Uncle & Cousin tell me these exact things. You are the one who has to improve yourself so as you get older your SMV (Sexual Market Value) goes up. He said "DO NOT CHASE ANY WOMAN"!!! BECAUSE AS YOU GET OLDER YOU WILL BE THE PRIZE ESPECIALLY IN BLACK AMERICA... Men Please STOP THE CHASE BECAUSE YOU ARE THE PRIZE.
Men must become
My English teacher told me when I was in high school in the UK that between chosing a full-time career and a family he encouraged me to choose a family to not end up a lonely woman later in life and his words sticked with me💯
Damn Mr. Samuels.. Can't believe you're gone. People can hate on you all they want but you spoke the unfiltered truth. To those disrespecting this man's death .. Shame on you. You may not have agreed with him, but to talk shit on a man who spoke his mind... That's just petty and immature. Kevin, you'll be missed 🙏🏿
Edit your comment to not include about people hating on him. I have been following him for a while and have never heard about people hating on him until I read your comment. You're giving them power by mentioning them, when your comment should only commend Kevin.
@@riproar11 hush
He was doing good work. Did his best to take the high road and not be rude to his guests even when they needed a smack of reality. Respect to his efforts
Amen!
Missing him and Good Lies every night. My tummy flips over every time I remember he is gone 😢. Miss you KS and thanks for everything ❤
These women don't even see that steve harvey is setting their asses up to be single for the rest of their lives!!!........LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
lol...It's really not funny man, because he's getting paid off it...
And that's helping to fck up an entire generation or 3. That effects us all somehow.
@@jesterarts734 word! That's the biggest problem with this whole issue with modern females. As men we know that many will come to understand in their forties, but while they take their time riding the carousel and pumping out fatherless kids the rest of our country suffers. Idk who suffers more the men or the fatherlessness kids
Factssss
Thats how he keeps the money
Very true
This story's autobiographical for almost all of us. They wasn't ready to settle down, always looking to "better deal" up, until they shoot past their level, and can't go back either. Hence, they end up alone.
Women want a wedding but they don't want to be a wife.
Facts; marriage is really for women so they can get those dolly fantasies out but they forget there was a house that came with it that needed to be looked after together for ever not stashed away or sold off.
How many of them still have the doll house.
And the "wedding" is really for others! That's unfortunate...
Just think of those news stories about women marrying themselves. Having full ceremonies and everything
Uh oh.. 👀
I was watching a video with the Talk I think it is with Loni and Jeannie and some others and they were talking about doing girlfriend and wife things and all I heard was things they weren't going to do as girlfriends, but then when it came to wife things there was only "I might" do it.
Had me thinking what you said,
These females want a wedding they don't want a marriage. They want to be a bride, they don't want to be a wife.
The music, the man, the memories. Got me through the covid lockdowns and beyond. His voice soothed my tattered nerves. Miss you very much KS...RIP 🕊❤
Signed,
One of the normal Karens 💖
I love how you be tellin these women the cold hard truth in the most respectful and classy way😂😂😂
A level of game to which I aspire
Facts.
Hey is the low key verbal asssin for social manipulative femenist 😂😂😂😂😁and I love it and I can't get enough of it. He honestly has more game than Mr locario no disrespect to him though
@@leonfleming7453 100%
🤣...~no cap
That hypothetical story hit so close to home😭I was almost Kim, I had the audacity to hesitate when this guy told me he wanted to be with me. He was an economic major and I was a psychology major😭. I was 22 thinking I had my single life ahead of me. But I realized I had something special and I committed. I’m 25 now and we’re married with a wonderful baby boy. And my husband name is Harry🤣🤣
Sorry to bug, but what does he do now? I'm getting a degree a degree in Economics and I'm always interested to see what Econ majors do as well lol
@@ksjb85 he works in sales. He’s good at it. But I feel compelled to say ,I don’t believe the degree make you. He does well because he enjoys sales, and therefore pursued economics. Economics will work because of you, and not the degree itself. I wish you the best in your education
Bless your heart
good job
HARRY!!!! 😆😆😆😆
“You’re free to choose, but you’re not free from the consequences of your choice”
Sir! You are excellent! my little sis.got married when she was 23 to her college sweetheart,and all her friends in their 30th still waiting for mr "R"!
Damn 😂😂
@@pikesvillian lose look look lol look look look lol l pool l lol look lll lœ9ll look poolroom ll0 look
Oh my, she was smart!
Bless your sister.
Men going their own way. When you have your own program and stick to it, most women are not ready for it. Now I tell women "this is what I'm doing". They can choose to climb on-board, or not. I stay on the program.
@@werringertonney7489 You have a husband..?!?
@@Ghosted760 oh yes! And he’s black. Goes to show, black men are not a monolith. Thank God! He’s a great provider and all-together awesome man.
@@werringertonney7489 Whatever works for you & him. Agreed, black men are not a monolith. Those of us who choose our own path are not bound by social traditions.
MGTOW dudes are just as crazy as most of the chicks who call Kevin’s show
That's because they don't want to be submissive or better yet be a real woman
😂 bro I’m a Deputy and on my extra jobs I just listen to him talk, it’s all facts! At first I thought it was fake, I was like hold up, how does a 38yr with 2 BD’s who is 5’4” 183lbs think she is a 8!!!! A fucking 8!!!!
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Welcome to black america
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That is legitimately insane
I'm dead!💀💀💀 the dillusion is so real!
“You cannot demand premium for a 10 year old used vehicle” 😂😂😂😂😂 🎯
The Henry situation you spoke about happened to me in my last two relationships before getting married. Two black women on separate occasions felt the need to explore because it was too early. The next woman who happened to be white was ready and did not have time for games. Was married within a year and have been for almost 10 years now. The previous two ladies had remarks and felt as if I did something to them. I did not end the relationships and even attempt to reconcile with both. But somehow it was my fault. I think it was the lifestyle they saw to include the homes, vacations and cars. My wife was there from the start she saw something and even told me that I was not going anywhere and tell those others it’s over for them.
Hunters HUNT. Same happened to my cousins, those WW were not playing.. I'll never forget my cousin was literally armed to get this woman off his property. 3 kids /9 years and a marriage later.. Her ugly ass won. We laugh today but she works everyday to keep his ass. Literally wakes up to a BJ minimum 3x per week and says her mom told her that was the secret to keeping a man. Damn genius
@@vanderumd11 loooool taking notes for my marriage🌸🌸 I am a danger zoned socially virgin akward woman🤣🤣🤣
But daaammmm these advices are very important...
My mom raised my to be a career woman
@@tralaritralarajiju2652 most men are definitely simple in what we require to be happy or comfortable. Most women are raised to look towards a career which is great but there is a negative if you don't put more effort into what will last FAR longer than any job. Relationships are important and understanding how to give so that you receive benefits is important. Some women are taught how to navigate the male gender by society and some are taught by close relatives. It depends on which outcome you are looking for. I hope you manage the best life you can and whenever you are in doubt write it out. Write the guy and ask questions, this way its not awkward and they can see that you are trying.
@@vanderumd11 yes, I'm a BW and went to private school. That was and still is predominantly white. And yes WW are taught to go to school and find a husband,. By their parents and BW are taught to go to school get a good job, make the money and find a man later! And yes BJ thing is true! Glad I went to a White school! 😁😁😁
@@mkane1366 no need to explain. It's so crazy that every woman I seriously dated and fell in love with went to either a boarding school or private school. Just a different sense of cooperating. I think they understand that if a man thinks you are his he will go to the ends of the earth for you. Yes it requires extracurricular activities but realistically what is 3 hours a week to keep your man satisfied. Ppl act like it's pulling teeth. We see who ends up happier in the end.
“He wasn’t spontaneous” 🤦🏽♂️ She’s not wife material. That there is a concubine.
That is ridiculous. She sounds like a child saying stuff like that.
I am so incredibly happy that I had my parents to help me find my wife. 10 years and 3 kids later, I realize how amazing this is. "Without a family there is no community."
Plus God blessings up on you and your family aameen
You are so blessed!!
Well done. All the best 👌
This is so true! It happened to me when I was in college…
She said to me that I was the kind of guy you marry not the guy you date in college!??
Long story short. Met my wife at a graduation party. We’ve been married for 15+ years. Three wonderful kids two dogs living in the suburbs..
She ended up getting pregnant and dropping out of college.. she is now a single mom of three working as a cashier..
And what man leaves a good woman who gives him peace? Not many I know
@Klyne Fitness that’s the difference. Accountability. A woman won’t ever admit until you peel her layers back and she has no choice
Correct
@AJ so true brotha!! Doesn’t matter how gorgeous or how great the sex is if she’s more of a headache it’s not worth it ✌🏽✌🏽
@@renerougeau7238 men rarely leave even then.
Well said
"Single black female addicted to retail" -Kanye West: All falls down
Kanye was speaking TRUTH but that was before Kim Kardashian
theman2017inc
Don’t disrespect the YEEZY
@@theman2017inc but Kim fell in line peep game she help make him millions and she hasn't cheated lol
@@theman2017inc actually no!
Doesn't Kanye West have retail lines now too?
I dated a girl when I was in my early 20s who broke up with me because I was too boring and I gotta say, I’ve never been more grateful. I met my wife a week after the breakup and now over 20 years later, it’s been a great life with a woman who I’ve grown with and become extremely successful with.
Damn that karma was real, a week later and your ex had no chance
I happy for you my brother!!
Love hearing success stories like these. Thank you for sharing
I met my husband in college/party days, graduated in spring and we got married late that summer at 24. my husband is a blessing. Do not pass up on the man that loves you that you met in college!
Right....Met my hubby at 19 we've been married since '18 and together since '16
Met my wife at 17, dated through college and got married at 23. We’re 30 now. We were telling our daughter the other day about when subway used to have that $5 foot long deal and we would split it for a whole meal for two lol, good times
@@mikederucki you took way back in my junior year with me and my woman.
@@kunlejohnson90 god bless my good man!
*Anakiya *man who loves you who you... He is a person, not a thing.
Kevin. All I can say is Thank you! This is my confirmation.
Why? Just curious
@@dialac1 stfu troll
Darrell Reese lol. Tough guy. Keyboard warrior 💪
frank man I don’t think that’s a constructive or accurate analysis. I’ve met a lot of great and well mannered black women. A lot. Unfortunately they’ve all been wifed up. I believe every race has good and bad apples
frank man 🤣 And you’re the smart and intelligent one 👍🏾
Wow. One of his best ever shows. He will be sorely missed. RIP Godfather.
"Pride gonna keep You ALONE"
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POWERFUL
thats a shame the brotha passed my goodness lord
thank you for the time he spent here with us
good to see you here bro, your content helped me quit wfpb veganism
Mr. Samuel's...Im a white 50 year old and are a follower since a few days ago...my wife kicked me in the balls after 18 years of marriage...but make no mistake Im building a few businesses that are making a huge impact on me and my two kids life as well as our underprivileged community upliftment projects through my boxing gym. . in South Africa, Jeffreys Bay...
And my ex wife is seeing and feeling the mistake she made by leaving in my struggle times as a dad...that tried his best...now is my time to spark....Thanks a million Kevin
This 28 year old "girl" is completely out of her mind. These black women are lost. It would be funny if it weren't so sad. 😥
She wants to use men for their resources, so she can sit her lazy ass home. lol
*"oh what the heck I'll laugh anyway HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA"~The Harlequin Of Hate*
When she get 48, with 5 kids by 4 baby daddies, with more stretch marks than dinner dates, she'll be singin a different tune!🤣
yes and when they are so are we men, being rich wealthy doesn't change how we can tap into reality which is a choice and today many people choose to hear from tv government and not their CREATOR,... THE MOST HIGH and that is more scary than anything.... guidance without GOD... is what we are experiencing ...
I know a beautiful woman that did me just like it and it’s crazy I have one child I’m married almost 40 and I know some with five kids by multiple men and I think some just don’t get it but I hope the younger ladies listen up so they will not die alone
This is my exact story. High school sweetheart. Engaged graduation day. She's at Spelman, I'm at Morehouse. Freshman year...beautiful. Got a perm and contacts and by the end of sophomore year she just went ghost emotionally and then it wasn't me it was her and she needed to explore. Brother devastated almost to the point of suicide. I never understood it from this point of view, but it's dead on.
I was there brother about 20+ years ago (In The AUC) she was eating HIGH ON THE HOG (as my Grandmother would say). I could not get play from the women on my level. They would go mess with these guys trying to level-up. One lady got pregnant, another one lady got the package (the worst STD and died) and another one just ran on the C.C she's sad mess. So I just began dating older women with established careers.
Had a friend tell me a girl said to him 'You are Mr right. I'm looking for Mr right now' goes to show you can't have any compassion for these 304's
You nailed it when you said that "You can't charge a premium for a rental or a 10-year used vehicle."
Women that can take what he is saying is valuable . Without her tapping into her defensive mentality ! I applaud the resolve. The society is trying to program our women to be more egotistical and masculine.
I'm going to miss this guy. Everything he said in this vid i experienced and it was with a 32yr old girl , which she should of been more stable but no. This guy does speak the truth and people just can't accept it.
I know a story EXACTLY like Harry analogy. Two dating in college. Guy was premed, can't remember what she was. Anyway, she took an internship overseas for 3 months. Cheated on him with a program coordinator. She got outed. Said she was just exploring herself. They broke up. 15 years later he's a doctor, happily married, kids. She's 36 and still single. He is just lucky she got outed
Oh damn, she messed up
Big loss, gonna miss your work Godfather. RIP 🙏🏼
Great content. I'm a Persian-Canadian guy and I just want to say that all men relate to these issues.
It is not strictly a black man/woman thing.
All women who have been poisoned by feminism and the modern western culture, and whom have embraced the ideology of "strong independent woman," act and think the same way.
Some are more subtle about it and may hide it better, but it always rears it's ugly head somewhere.
If I see any signs a woman thinks in such a manner and identifies as a feminist, I don't associate/help/talk with her in any way or form.
You are doing both men and women a favor by making the cold hard truth the standard.
Keep up the good work!
He only brings up black women due to destructive dynamic of black women in our community. They feel like the black men have failed them. They make themselves successful and put themselves above men. They are trying to be competition and not a mate. They think they are better than us most are angry and abrasive. When you point that out they always say your not strong enough to handle them. Your a weak man yet when the get all the things they felt they needed. They can't find a mate
Salam, brother. I’m in Canada too. Vancouver. Love to see likeminded men and women here figuring out how assortative mating REALLY works.
Be well. 😊
Rewatching these great videos. It's 2am. RIP KS. Love you ❤🤴🏾🕊
Going back to the shows that we missed.😢
@@cyber-sorcersis so many to choose from. He left us with many jewels to act on. 😌🙏🏾🕊
My ex is BREAKING her neck trying to get back in....I "dodged" a bullet!...why would I put my self back in a situation with a SELFISH female who lies..puts family/friends AHEAD of me...terrible home skills...dressed "sexy" for work...but at home messy hair/jogging pants...LAZY in the bedroom....complain about paying minor bills...take her to NICE place to eat and she orders $30 burgers/fries....she rather watch ATL housewives INSTEAD of getting exercise with me....never sticks to the budget or contribute to savings so WE can build....NEVER admits when she is wrong...plenty materialism.."little" spirituality....ALWAYS checking my phone/computer(but her phones/computer OFF LIMITS).....hitting me/throwing things when she mad.............NOPE!!!!...her leaving made me realize how much I DONT need her OR any black women with "stank" attitude/personality....my NEW spot is lit...RICH now...."peace" when I return home now.....don't have to hear her snore/pass gas ALL night....I have started cooking again......meditate on the Lord without distraction....dating a 10!.....UPGRADED in every way!.....now WHY would I take "her" back????.....lol
Ok just because you’ve chosen to deal with bad black women, don’t try to hate the entire group because of your mistakes... this is what Kevin be talking bout.
@@Cookiedesigns254 I would never do that....I see it as the majority..because they lack sincere SPIRITUALITY...(GOD bless the exceptions)
Salute!
Macie Young
90% of them are like this tho
CHI
If you go back to an ex she will lose all respect for you but still will stay in a relationship with you because she knows that you’re the only guy gullible enough to give her slutty ass a relationship
Damn this is cold truth right here... It really sucks that so many women have thrown away good men. Nobody wins in these situations. The guy get his heart broken and the woman realizes she made a horrible mistake. Its just a sad world we live in.
Very sad. The devil’s hand is in it all.
Hell no they don't realize that they made a bad mistake until they haven't found something better.
The people make it that way.
Chads win bro. They get lots of uncomitted sex from these horney señoritas. Then he kicks them to the curve psychologicly damaged. She marries a beta. A few years after she divorces the beta male and takes his money. New Chad. Rinse and repeat.
"he wasn't Spontaneous" translation "he wasn't hood/Street thuggish enough for me."
Facts
Yup!
But wants the stability of the guy that buys them everything. They dont know what they want.
BIG facts!!
True indeed
if a man is putting women in "layaway" its because he is a top male and has options. it is wise for him to shop around for the best option- thats why layaway exists!... because its good for the market- and the market is men, the product is women. women need to understand that YOU CANNOT FORCE SOMEONE TO BUY YOUR PRODUCT! if the man felt like she was the best possible product he would have purchased her in full immediately.
Okay so what’s the difference with Woman
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@@therealariahb shelf life essentially and responsibility for men. Nobody wants a young man.. Essentially one who cannot take on the provider role and is still figuring much out. Many younger women are smart enough to see.. Older men have more money, time, status, less testosterone and can make better families. Men work harder for sex and the relationship in general is how a woman can secure the resources long term. If a woman is just having sex for fun, most men will accept but do place value on how easy it is yo get. Nature & nurture are hard hills to climb.
Omg, very well put 💯💪🏾
@@vanderumd11 hmmm, interesting
RIP sir , you are sorely missed!
I’m actually impressed how that lady that earns so little saved 20k that shows major discipline
busyrand Still impressive most Americans don’t have the discipline to save
I agree with the discipline,But moving to the most expensive city in America.With no work skills is very risky because all of that discipline in that city will go out real fast if you don’t have any skills to supplement that 20k
Well nowadays we can’t really be sure on how she earned it 👀
Mr London Great point there
Mr London yeah and if its the truth
Trust and believe I hope youtube is still around in 15 years because this will be required listening for my daughter
Record it down
I downloaded it screw this.
I’m from Nigeria....thanks Kevin for your advice to the Ethiopian woman. No need to copy a system that is not working.
When I caught my case of the stupids and was seperating from my hubby, neither my German shepherd mother or aunt had ANY words of wisdom for me. Luckily I snapped my dumb ass out of it and got back with my husband. My uncle was the only one to congratulate us and convey how proud he was of us for working it out. (He recognized the fact that my hubby was a GOOD man.) Kevin reminds me of unc because he's also a man of noble intent.
Interesting and how old are you and where you from
Lucky you
I’m glad you worked things out!!
I'm happy for you!
The last segment was powerful. Kevin you’re not only giving relationship advice but life advice. Much respect!!
All women, if you treated them good, always try to come back into your life at some point. It may be a year later. It may be 10 years later. When they hit the wall, they realize they dumped the best thing they ever had.
I love this brother. I’m glad that one video went viral because it’s the reason I found your page. You’re like the uncle I’ve never had. Dropping gems every video. I’ve been binge watching your segments in my spare time for the last 2 weeks. Thank God for you are truly a blessing Kevin.
I wish he was around 20 years ago. Huge asset to society. So many gems.
Damn. I'm from Cincinnati Ohio. There are a lot of women that are mad aggressive and don't know their dress size even at 28. Cincinnati is very...hood.. like abnormally hood.
I moved the cincy a year ago and verify the degree of hood mentioned.
What i also noticed, productive men are HIGHLY sought after, probably to be the cleanup man.
Ohio is a place where women wear Timbs.
I'm from the nati and I approve this message 🤣
My cousin is in Ohio she's street lol but works for the government 😂😭
Lived here my whole life this facts
You are absolutely correct! I had my husband when I was in my 20s. Then blew it. Got rid of him and now I’m 48 and this dating scene is crazy. You’re on point! Thanks. ❤️
Explain. What happened?
Really, I would love to learn from your story
Just what Kevin stated. Thinking something better was out there.
He was untainted, not too many heartbreaks and an open heart. Now at 48. Tell me a man that’s not more cautious of their heart. I know I will find love soon, but I can’t ever say it wasn’t presented to me. ❤️❤️❤️
@@fbrown224 Yeah but what exactly happened? What made you think that?
Kevin brother you spoke the most genuine, honest truth to the young lady from Africa. Salute. I hope she heard you and stays away from this Culture.
You wrong
Uncle kev man where were men like you when we were growing up . keep speaking the cold hard truth brother these young people need it
Damn...I never thought of it like that...Me and my ex dated when we were 18 very similar to the Henry story. Dated for 5 years and she left me for a girl. Later on i'd find out from her mouth that after 6 months with her, she'd realized she'd made a terrible mistake and wasn't nearly as happy with her new girlfriend as she was with me. Now i'm in a much better place with myself, making good money, single, and childless. Now she's alone and just purchased a dog. Sad that it didn't have to be this way, but I wouldn't be who I am without her...thanks for the life lesson.
A twitter Quote from Lisa Raye
"No but seriously. Normalize finding love in your 40's. Normalize discovering and chasing your dreams in your 30's. Normalize finding your purpose in your 50's. Life doesn't end at 25. Let's stop acting like it does." That's what they're pushing to their daughters and nieces out here.
Ken-Won Miller and I agree with her. Life doesn’t end at 25 for anyone, male or female. However we must practice humility and being humble during all times of our lives so that we don’t make prideful and senseless mistakes that will lead to us being unhappy for the long term
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Oh the lady from the movie Video Girl
A woman is done after 30
@@Hottest-in-da-Hood
What do you mean?
I was thinking this myself. A woman will find that man in her early years that wants her, but dumps him. I had a ex do that. 8 years later she tried contacting me, but i didn't get the message till 12 years later. She has her degree, high paying job. Gained weight and looking old. Shes 5 years younger than me, but looks older than me. Now i attract younger hotter women.
A man dumped me for being mary magdalene, playing games, yet the irony his marriage blew up in his face, he came looking for me years later, that happens as well, the hoes and strippers may be the best wives sometimes, dont count us out...
@@jesuswilljudge7296 I dont know? Mary Magdalene was a prostitute, Are you married yet?
MEOW
Bruh at like an hour in, this man sat up here and told the entire story of my ex. She left, I got my shit together. 2 years later here she come talking about “I miss you”😂😂😂
This is my story! I am Harry. Had my love (call her S) quit me after I graduated from WFU and she graduated from community college. She went to ATL and threw me over for a F-boy (before that phrase was even created). I pined away for 6 months, then my sister (of all people) told me to snap out of it. I went through a dozen feemails. Then found the woman who would become my wife. S broke up with the guy she threw me over for (she had to put a restraining order on him), then she got up with the next dude who she decided to bring a baby with full term. S came back to town shortly after I got married and took up with a married man who happened to a brother of my sister’s husband. Of course, that didn’t last. I have three very successful and grown kids. S has gone from Fine-As-All-Outdoors to just Big-As-All-Outdoors. Still no husband and worn out. I actually pity her, but I thank God that He pushed me out of that bullet’s way.
This man is precise with words!!! He so on point.
Listening...AGAIN...and this monologue is GENIUS!!! ON POINT! Kevin was just freakin' MASTERFUL!! My God!!🔥🔥🔥
I've followed Kevin for years. This without a doubt was his best piece of work to date.
This is legit
Man he has my ex down pack with the Kim just add 2 years to the relationship and a sorority when she flip the switch. Now years later I'm making 6 digits traveling the world, while my wife is a stay at home and one child graduating college and the other in private school in high school. The ex who was the Kim, social worker, bitter towards me and my, can't pay her bills. Never married and no kids. Lol and, still getting ran through by the frats.
Met my wife when we were 11 and we're still together at 43. Guess we're one of the lucky ones..
That’s awesome!! May God continue to bless you!!
@@wshelby83 thank you. May God bless you es well.
I laughed so much about you "Steve Harvey telling you your a buffalo when your a rabbit", you tell it like it is, and I love it. Keep me laughing.
*you're
Wow! That was some up standing straight backed grown man advice you gave that young African sister!
Much respect! Much respect!
So basically what Steve is saying is that you can do this⤵
Chicken: Im a Lion, you have to pay $50,000 to hunt me
LOL
😂😂😂On point summation.
Right? It's an actual female version of a scrub.
We can't provide resources as men? Were scrubs
They can't improve themselves and take a look in the mirror? They're scrubs
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But if you have 50k you can open a chicken stand......
Everything you pointing out very true, Steve Harvey knows better if he would have told that woman and pointed out what was really true his show would be shut down the next day.
Only on these TH-cam streets you can be true and the truth hurts.
Natalie Van hooi donk we are all African my ancestors were stolen remember brought to the America, and Boston university does not represent all black professors my university spelman university have over 40 African Americans professors they are everywhere luv
Ebony K yea because spellman is a hbcu
@@ebonymalone8371 Africans wasnt stolen they were sold by other Africans to the whites
No you cant be true on youtube you get censored
@@JasonPhillip303 So right. Most of us have the misconception that, a few white dude just hiked off into the middle of the Congo pointed his musket at the first blacks they saw, and said "March, N%^&*!". Nope. Stronger, more organized tribes sold their African enemies, neighbors & rivals to Afro-Arab brokers, who then marched our ancestors to the slave markets on the coast where they were bought by whites. What a deal! Having your enemies/rivals shipped off to a faraway continent, and getting PAID for it, too! They probably didn't even ask for much in return.
Kevin and AMS are like Good Twin and Evil Twin 😂 because these gentlemen 100% prove each other’s point on female nature. It is what it is. Gentlemen, focus on your purpose, get the biggest bag you can and for the most part you can have what you want out of this world. Don’t fall into the trap of complaining about your circumstance or female nature because that’s not going to change things for you 🤷🏾♂️. Now forward and prosper!!!
@Nick M Alpha Male Strategies..Look him up on TH-cam Fam he about that Life💯...
@Nick M Alpha Male Strategies. He is very good at explaining women's behavior. And he is very RAW about at times.
I deeply loved my high school girlfriend. When we went to college together she immediately cheated on me and broke my heart thru multiple acts of betrayal while she was a pogo-stick screwing every guy on the horizon. She dropped out of college, became a stripper, then married, divorced, remarried, kids I think with different men. I doubt she is happy given all her buried bodies. It took me many years to get over her. Now I'm a successful above average bachelor, generally happy and content with friends and assets.
I look throughout Steve's audience for the "Big 5" and see only chicken heads.
😂😂😂🤣
What’s the big 5?
@@michaelhansell3166 the "Big 5" Steve use as a analogy pertaining to "high prime game"(8,9 and 10's) and the women in the Audience are really low prime game(chicken heads) who are 4's, 5's and 6's.
@@malachiy13 that's what I was wondering. What is he saying men should do if they come across a chicken that thinks it's big 5 game? I'm also disgusted that he even knows about that? Did Steve Harvey just admit that he goes to Africa to hunt endangered species? Low vibrational and no integrity.
Factssss
I agree, $20,000 in California is gone in 8 months or less. That's an emergency fund for the area.
Especially in a place like LA
I was too young when I fell in love the first time. But it’s still funny to reflect on in many ways.
I bought a home when I was 18, retired the work force at 23 to pursue my career working for myself as a sound designer/producer. I had a fiancé that lived with me while I provided all the finances and she went to culinary school. When we were planning the marriage, part of the plan was for me to help her finance a bakery as she had worked at an internationally acclaimed bakery during school and worked her way into a recognizable position. She had it made in her early 20’s and I loved her through a lot of mistakes that she made within our relationship. I was too young to see the writing on the wall.
2 weeks after we planned a date for the marriage (after 7 years together), she ran off with some other guy. Not a word about it just disappeared. Wound up hooked on heroin. I still get ambulance bills to my house when she overdoses.
You could say I dodged a bullet.
But I imagine what her life is like years later, what it will be like when she is single likely with a child in her 30’s, how she will reflect on what she walked away from. Meanwhile I have been still building like I was since I was out of highschool.
powerful my good sir, u dont know how much this comment inspired me... thank you and continue to do that building
That woman that called the 28-year old I feel it for her not everyone gets the best start in life. She should look at jobs a 40k Plus and see what qualification she can get within a year or two. She will come through prayers are with her. Keep looking up sister!
“You Can Ride Life
or Life will ride you.”
-napoleon hill
I was definitely Harry before. That was over 20 years ago. My ex from back then always says “remember when”… lol
What is wrong with these callers?
Why do they lack the ability to answer the actual question asked?
What is your name?
Well, see, the thing is, my dad wanted to name me after my aunt, look! A squirrel! Anyway, my dog barks at me and my name is, bark? Yeah, well...
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Exactly! I be thinking the same thing.
A girl I was seeing told me she didn't want to be know as somebodys girl... She broke it off... 25 years later she is still single
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Every one in the HIT squad has a version of this story somewhere in his history.
Give her credit, she’s right....
Wtf lol she wanted to be known as a harlot instead?
This definitely hit home…specially when you love someone more than they love you!!! Women take ownership the grass isn’t always greener!!! Even after 30years!!! I lived and went thru exactly what the last caller is talking about! On the guys end!
Some of the friends that we tend to follow to the Danger Zone, saw and knew what you had as well..
Misery loves company💯 they don't want to see their friend happy so they give them bad advice
Damn, Steve Harvey be saying some b.s. lmao crazy man
I used to be "Harry". Salute to you KS. Going to give some of this knowledge to my daughters....
bruh chicks these days be claiming they Ancient Greek mythical type creatures with the standards they got ridiculous
The Ancient Greek mythical types are the ancient Persian/Mede mythical types which are the egyptian mythical types and in other words... they are worshippers of Cush and Semiramis and their son Nimrod. Who were worshippers of Satan/Lucifer. What I am trying to say is that today’s women, especially black women are just like Eve. They follow the serpent and not the Lord. That’s why they harken back to those mythologies and call themselves queens and goddesses. Because they have Eve’s spirit.. the spirit of the serpent.
@@Dbo_Sports Absolutely the truth!!!!
They are. You see the names they walk around calling each other QUEEN and GODDESS
Lmao
Followers bra
Shahrazad Ali- the Black mans guide to understanding the Black woman.. please find her and bring her to your show
Man she stepped on alot of womans necks too!
You are on point
The best book ever!!!
She has such a gravity, the short vids I have seen give me a great impression of her care to her culture.
@thankful516 I read both books!!! It was definitely an eye opener!!!