I can't get my girlfriend to open up emotionally | What's Troubling You with Philippa Perry

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  • @Gorboduc
    @Gorboduc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is such hilariously sociopathic advice. Not just counseling him to abandon his distressed loved one, but reading his mind to find sinister motives behind the question. I'm creeped out in only three minutes!

  • @bolivar1789
    @bolivar1789 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love this woman! She is so wise and warm hearted. I recommend everyone her book
    " How to stay sane".
    Thanks a lot for this upload! This is a very valuable advice I'll have to keep in mind all my life too.

    • @oglingling
      @oglingling 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Chris Taylor i think this advice was awesome 🤘🏻 leave the broken bitch! This guy sounds amazing af and if he keeps running into a brick wall with her somewhere he wants to go in the relationship, then not only does he deserve better, but SHE has a long road to recovery.. if she ever chooses to seek help.

    • @33aberas
      @33aberas 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That wasn't a very nice way to name someone with a difficult past. Hopefully, you never have to go through horrible hardships in your life.

  • @duaneharris7934
    @duaneharris7934 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I so needed to hear this from a man's perspective I totally agree. it's not your job to save everyone. save yourself and the ppl who suppose to be in your life will apear.

  • @sketchessays6940
    @sketchessays6940 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    so...give up on them. is what i got

    • @thezebrapig4132
      @thezebrapig4132 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sketches says fr, “help my gf is emotionally unavailable and I want to help her” well that’s your issue, you care too mush about the person you spent 7 years with

  • @oglingling
    @oglingling 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How does someone someone channel their tendency to rescue into their work or otherwise?

    • @savagenature1
      @savagenature1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Certain jobs lend themselves to rescuing more so than others. There are the obvious professions like law enforcement, doctors, & firefighters. There's a show on Animal Planet called Wolves & Warriors and it's about combat veterans working at a sanctuary for wolves and wolf-dog hybrids. This job allows them to channel purpose they found in the military, the need to go on a mission to protect and rescue and helping them to heal at the same time. Even being a teacher can be seen in that capacity because you are trying to help kids learn and stay on the right path.

  • @JamesLee-zd9my
    @JamesLee-zd9my 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    whats all the bs background music for

  • @lolipanda2763
    @lolipanda2763 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤕 Tendency to rescue.

  • @celebrity_rooster7488
    @celebrity_rooster7488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can't get my girlfriend to open up emotionally aka I can't stop being a narcissist to turn my girlfriend weak