Ultra Interview with Narc Con
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ก.ค. 2024
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HG Tudor discusses all things narcissist with Narc Con.
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Legacy Achieved ✅. You’ve helped so many people regain their happiness by educating us. Your legacy of happiness may not be experienced directly, but is nonetheless as valuable, true and real.
The analogy of the handbags was helpful. Knowing that a narcissist never loved to begin with is the hardest part for me.
I am in the middle of leaving the pain is unbearable. 30 years married to a grandiose narcissist who has destroyed me on every level. I am taking strength from the universe 🙏
Wishing you strength and peace.
Grrrr let me offer you strength. Paula, H.G. And The Little Shaman light the way for Me. Leave. Plan it well and don’t let him know a single thing till you’re a safe distance away.
I had always known my father was a complex man that seemed always need attention. In the over 22 year he was married, he was always running around on my mother. After listening to your volumes of information, I now know he is a narcissist. Although my father is skilled with his hands in things like carpentry, painting, and even mechanical. I learned those skills, but set my life skills from my mother.
It has helped to keep me from following my father's narcissism. The phrase a narcissist is never really happy , explained my father seldom happy at home unless other were there and he was in the center of attention, the rest of the time he always seemed angry.
Thank you for your legacy!
What a great interview! Pleasant surprise. H.G. Tudor is using his "gift" in a great way. We now know what it is about from a Ultra Narcissist. Truly a valuable source.
I hate him for what he's done to me, I could go on and on. But I respect you for helping me to understand what I went through. I listen to you every night. And I just want to say thank you for being a badass and helping me to cope through the most despicable unreal part of my life with this unstable person. I truly thank you
Sharon, I hope you’re doing ok still today ❤
Very good analysis on the aging Narc and the empath that stays… right on point- the empath finds happiness through other means - to the extent she can in the trade off.
You are being mind screwed by the narcissist until you realize, or really admit , this person never loved you and cannot love anyone .
Excellent! Narc Con & H.G. ! My two favorites! Worthy of multiple replays 😀!
Brilliant Paula +H G - The first confluent joining of information!!
Halfway thru my sentence with this lower level lesser he asked me in a coffee shop
“Do You think I’m
A Narcissist” “I’ve heard this all my life” and my answer was
“Yes!100% without a shadow of a doubt.” So fascinating that you both discussed this in this Interview.
Great Questions Paula. Great Answers H.G. This is like a meeting of the Titans for me as I value you both. Synergistic to see you working together - towards facts. Incredibly refreshing!
Thank you HG. You have taught myself and others so much.
Wonderful interview! Thanks to you both!
You have helped me tremendously understanding my lower mid range narcissist. The mauling video was spot on! I look forward to your audio consultation to implement my no contact regime. Thank God for HG!
I hope you got on i and HG was able to help you further and you’re doing well today 💕
Excellent interview. Thank you. Wish I had discovered HG when he started in 2015.
What a great interview! Every time I see an interview with HG, I find it fascinating! I am a NORMAL, so I am able to see all this from an outside perspective, which is always entertaining.
Great questions Paula & great Answers HG. This was one of the best interviews ever on Narcissism.
My son (42) is threatened if you ask an innocent question; questions that are not deserving of a second thought but he's always sure of an ulterior motive.
I also dread when he pops over to ask for my opinion on "whatever" -- because inevitably if my response is not what he's expecting 🙄 he goes through a diatribe as to why he disagrees; or why I'm flat wrong. So I started asking him:
"Do you want my opinion or are you wanting me to agree with whatever you're already thinking about doing?" If he says "I want your OPINION"... I will answer, but it is usually difficult for him to not engage. However, since I placed this boundary, instead of an immediate reaction, he will insert a calmer "Just need you to tell me why". I've discovered a good answer:
_"The first thought off the top of my head, but you are smart and capable; I'm sure whatever you've considered will turn out great! What are you thinking?"_
WHATEVER HE SAYS, I TELL HIM "BRILLIANT! MUCH BETTER THAN MY IDEA!"
I learned to stroke his ego and withhold as much fuel as possible so he gets it somewhere else. Its working.
Situation diffused.
It is a generally good parenting advice (for all the mixes of narcissistic and empathic traits in the children) with the exception of last capitalised statement, which would be misleading and unnecessary in the case there was some budding conscience in the individual. I would rather repeat "you are a capable, smart indiv., so whatever you decide will turn out brilliant" :) [and hope it would stimilate reflexion in the case of bad...results]? But if you are 100% sure it is a narcissist it is inconseqential than -to him, but what you say may still make a difference to you, to your integrity-feeling
Eh… you might want to book an appointment with HG. Wow!
Such a good interview! The interview er asks some very insightful questions. I always appreciate listening to these HG.
I learn something new every time I listen.
I have learned so much from you. I took my ex back four times and because of your information I now have the strength to have him completely blocked and move on. Thank you.
HG is very helpful. But we have to remember he is indeed an aware narcissist. And he's repeatedly said this is all for his purposes. It's always interesting when people think he is doing this with empathetic reasons.
This interview was conducted a year ago. At that point there was not the same amount of information regarding HG or Narcissism.
Relax. hG reminds his listeners frequently that he isn’t a nice person. And that when you realise, you leave. You don’t want to be with him. You get out and you stay out.
I really don't understand his motives, but it is sure helping with understanding what to look out for.
Are his motives purely financial? Is his motive attention? What is his ego "food?"
Going to a bar is less expensive than going to a psychiatrist. Cheers, everybody.
But not nearly as effective.
Just don’t root at the bar, child support is more expensive than a psychiatrist.
Thank you HG, this explains what's happening with the MLSOMATIC I'm living with now and how he's lowering the amount of abuse he's dishing out to me. ..he's manipulating me to keep me around.
Hg helped so much with his videos
Great questions and thank you for answers!...
Mind blowing!
Wow. I sent my first message way before the 43:00 minute mark in this video.
Cognitive dissonce is the key. Once you break that- you will start to heal. Check it out ...it's the key.
Brilliant interview
No mention of the interviewer: how very Narc! 😂
So relived at your answer to the question about those questioning if they are the narcissist. I questioned this myself many times over several years. I never asked anyone outright but I would often think about it. I grew up with a narcissistic stepparent who accused me of being a narcissist previously. I heard someone else said this behind my back connected to this. So I sat and ruminated on it for so long. Watching videos online, thinking ‘what if I am the narcissist after all’. I don’t know what I am normal or empathic but at least I know now that narcissists can accuse you of being one as a means of control. Thank you HG!
HG has a Narc Detector and and Empath Detector. You should use them to reassure your thoughts.
@Jenny, I hope you’re doing well today.
Absolutely amazing, thank you
Very informative! Thank you. ❤
Excellent insight on meta cognition towards the end, to help end the ruminating.
HG, another great video interview, with Narc Con.
It's very informative. Repetitive, yes, nonetheless bears repeating. And you're quite engaging and rather lively in the answering of Narc Con's questions. Right on, HG.
In my opinion, he has to be repetitive.
He can say the words, but for empathetic people it doesn’t resonate.
We have difficulty understanding how someone can be void of remorse, love, sympathy and empathy.
It’s completely alien.
It took me 4 months just to comprehend this.
I still struggle sometimes and I’ve been here for 2 and a half years.
I appreciate that he is candid and frank and drills it into our brains.
I remind myself all the time that the narcissists brain is wired completely different.
I only wish I found this information 30 years ago.
If he repeats it it’s because you need to learn it. Shut up and learn it, cupcake 😂
(Sugar video😂)
So weird to hear HG say “Harry’s wife” real name 😂
Narc con are you just now catching on to this? This is the narcissistic perspective. Pay attention. You may not win, but your at least garaunteed a draw.
Question: Would you or any of your friends consider doing a video on cognitive dissonance?
There is some chinese saying somewhere that says: If you know yourself and don't know your enemy-You will lose Everytime, but if you know yourself AND know your enemy-your at least gauranteed a draw.
You can beat this -No matter what the odds are.
Love your videos and your spirit.
I got a feeling your gonna win your battle, the trouble is-you have to do it yourself.
No one can do it for you.
God Bless.
Agreed. I also dislike the God complex some empaths have. They think their subservience and “love” is a magical potion that will fix another person’s flaws, that it will heal genetic personality disorders. When Empaths find a snake they try to force the fangs off it and don’t understand why the snake would like to keep its fangs and then they’re upset when the snake bites and poisons them. They need to stop obsessing over snakes and leave them alone and worry about protecting themselves from bites
Then there is you and I don't even have to leave the house.
Are you motivated in part by contempt for lesser narcissists - to expose them and make them less effective?
He has never said anything to agree to this. But he does detest them! 😂
It seems that no matter how many times you try to explain it to us we just cannot understand malevolence. It’s impossible! It doesn’t make sense. I’ve spent most of my life either in hiding or recovering from these horrific encounters. I haven’t been able to live my life! I may never recover from this last experience, but what about all of them put together. It’s hard to even think of it. One 10 minute conversation can turn into stalking for an entire year, even after warnings from the police. One date and kiss can cause someone to sneak past the front door guard and breakdown a door, and a romantic relationship break-up can lead to private detectives following an every move and tapping every phone call, with midnight knocking on the windows. Even simply giving out a phone number can lead to a vicious and horrifying death threat, if unable to return the call right away. There comes a time when it feels like it’s too dangerous to even look into the eyes of the opposite sex for fear they will hunt you with relentless viciousness. No matter how many death threats nor how much research or understanding one might seek, it cannot be understood why someone would want to terrorize or harm someone else for their own amusement or gain, especially, not you, H.G. It makes me cry. I just don’t want you to be one of them.
Wow , that sounds like a psychopath- not sure a narcissist would go to that extreme unless they invested a “ lot” of time in you already . They typically find another source if they can’t get fairly immediate gratification or control. These people typically move their victims in fairly quickly or move on.
HG has said that he reserves most of his psychopathic behaviors for his work life, which seems to be some type of military work.
These stalking behaviors sounds like someone with a severe mental illness!
@@girlinterrupted9145 - I agree with what you just stated. Sounds like the narcissists in their life are also riddled with anti social personality. Sociopath or psychopath. I understand, I’ve come across these types -but recognize in the behavior almost immediately. My gut tells me. I always listen to my instincts.
@Lisa, as sad as it is, HG is a psychopath and a narcissist.
When he was a young boy, he was hurt, very badly.
This damaged HG and the damaged lead him to develop into the man he is today.
Listen to what HG says. He’s telling you what you need to know.
HG can you talk about the relationship between NPD and schizophrenia
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Only 30 HW parts?! This was conducted quite some time ago.
Yes, this interview was conducted a year ago.
Sounds like a Davos intro.
Lol
i know that legacy is a thing among narc at least all them french policitian that s what they do they build libraries monuments etc to their name while they are presidentd so they can be remembered
Do Narcissists always have ineffective parenting? With good parenting, will the Person with predisposition not become a Narcissist?
I have many many videos to watch, so I may have just not gotten to it yet. I was curious if you’ve analyzed the potato called POTUS.
All Presidents have been narcissists. Are you trying to figure out his “level or cadre” or whatever
I guess she is in your dungeons, HG.... She said narcissistic s🙊ly more than once!
can you add Bill Gates to your list and maybe Schwab?
Have a look in the playlist ❤
How does he know if he is with another narcissist?
Listen to his videos.
Once you are aware of your Narc ishness, surely you could change it through CBT or some other approach?
The question is WHY would he want to?
I would suggest listening to what causes a narcissist and what one characteristic narcissists lack which you need NOT to be a narcissist.
LOL 😆 fucking on the floor supercalifunny.
Thank God for Doug. That recent interview was AWESOME. Pleased that Doug just got on with it and did not waste HG's valuable time repeating the same HG 101 questions. With all of HG's knowledge, it is ridiculous to keep asking a different variation of the same basic questions in every interview video.
I've listened for about 7 minutes. I'm done, can't listen to this anymore.
These interviews are from other channels though. So basic questions need to be asked as most people know next to nothing about narcissism.
River Man, I know what you mean, but, I would advise you to listen, she makes very interesting questions, you won't get disappointed. It's a very good interview.
That's because this interview was conducted A YEAR AGO (on April 3rd of last year). Those questions were relevant back then. Even with that, I truly enjoyed this interview.
If you go onto her channel, and read her replies from only two months ago, her comments are very different to what she’s displayed here. Disrespectful is one way I took some of them, uninformed is another.
I think genetics plays a huge part in narcissist they are born basically I think.
Or they are physically, sexually or emotionally abused and a lack of boundary home.
why would HG care about legacy???😮
Explained this many times, try listening.
@@hgtudor-theultra send the minions to sort him out! 😂
HD is not narcissist. HD is psycho.
Incorrect.
Interesting, you speak of feeling weak or perhaps you meant your Perception is that you might look weak- ( something you said your mother told you- she must have had quite the influence for you to believe what she said and perhaps you grew to regard your father as weak, especially if he allowed her to control him and showed his emotions ) but in my observation, it seems you frantically try to gain control because weakness could lead to feeling vulnerable , which you absolutely cannot have . This does not mean that you cannot feel, but rather, you do not want to ; hence, the need for control, in my opinion, or that could be a question . Again, we see the narcissist seeking pleasure and avoiding pain. It leads me to think of the wounded little boy inside .
Girl, HG is also a Paychopath. He isn’t just a narcissist. He’s been officially diangosed. He knows what he is. What you’ve said is wrong. Your interpretations are wrong about HG. He can’t feel, he can’t love. When he tells you how things are. You listen.
43:05 exactly!!!! No need to watch a 3rd rate channel like Narc Con.
The comments she’s written under this and another interview with HG on her own channel two months ago are very telling!
"haytch"? no no no... it's 'aitch'. Please consult with the Oxford dictionary. 'Aitch Jee' Tudor, is the correct pronunciation !