This guy reminds me of my ex, the ranting, the novels over text, and the false accusations. My ex was very generous with name-calling. I've been enjoying 4 years of freedom. Thank you H.G. These kinds of analyses are very informative and important for current victims.
Thank you HG for detailing the analysis of the texts in this real life example. Also, thank you to the original poster of these texts for sharing them .This video is an excellent educational tool where HG explains the behaviours of the narcissist and provides in great detail what the texts mean.
The language I experienced was cleaner, but the tactics were the same. I'm SO happy to have escaped (at quite a $ and mental cost ) ....worth it to be a Free Woman now!
Wow this was great H.G. thank you for sharing this and breaking these down💯🥇🏆 This definitely needs to be taught in schools around the world and also in colleges and it be MANDATORY that it be taken and passed.
I feel so bad for Rose this reminds me of my children's father. We were together 9 years and he had one Job during that time that lasted two weeks but wanted to be in control
I will consider this as a very important video and a must watch video for those looking for answers when trying to escape. Excellent analysis HG. Thank you❤
This sounds exactly like my father. He pulled this kind of crap with my mother except he used to show up at her jobs and stir up trouble. She lost her job on more than one occasion due to his antics. My father struggled holding down jobs too and became incensed that my mom took it upon herself to work for the sake of the family. (This was pre cell phone days). I always suspected my father was a lower mid range , only he knew how to spell and was an excellent writer in spite of his lack of formal education. Such a waste of potential. 😞
HG i haven't watched you for a while due to the content that you have been putting out about Megan etc. But this i have to say is some awsome stuff and has helped me more then anything for quite some time . Especially when the narcissist in these texts counts down twlling her she only has 3 mins or how ever many mins he tells her that she has to respond to him or this or that is going to happen. Not to mention how he threatens he going to cheat on her or saying she is cheating on him. This is your work that is greatly appreciated. This has shown me a lot of what i am dealing with and what i have been dealing with over the last 10 years on and off. He does this same crap and i am do grateful that this came up in my feed today because i cant wait to watch part 2 now and then the other video that you said to watch. Again thank you for your great work.
My nex was like this to a T. Refused to work for others but gave me no end of grief because I worked and couldn't wait on them ten thousand hours a day. Arsehole. Also was a jealous arsehole who actually was the one who was cheating. 🤢🤮
HG, this has to be one of your most helpful videos!! I was ensnared with a LMR and holy hecker, the breakdown of these texts is very similar to ones I got from my ex narc. Especially how he would countdown in texts saying I had 3 minutes to do something… then 2 minutes etc! Fascinating how they operate in similar ways!!!
Wow. I was always perplexed by my ex-bf’s (and parents’) undermining behavior but this helps me understand better how it’s a form of asserting control.
What’s with the narcissist ex that pay all the bills he gift me things last was a golf cart out of no were, but never wants intimacy or ask for it but pay for my family trips give me money but I know nothing about his personal stuff and he gets mad if I talk to someone. Ps he moved us from NY to FL and now I’m here by myself with our daughter
He always uses our son for Hoovers… but then brings up that it is just about the kid… I always know when his intimate partner primary source is pointed black 😅
Note how HG consistently talks about Narcissism like it is a separate entity from the individual, an entity that seems to have a will of its own. He talks about Narcissism driving or compelling the individual to behave in particular ways in order to get what the Narcissism wants; most of the time without the conscious awareness of the individual involved. What are some other terms to describe having a separate entity inside you that is driving, compelling or even dictating your behavior? Hmmmm…..
He's not too clever leaving texts for proof of abuse in a divorce case. My narc was just as horrible but sneaky and would always make sure she had plausible deniability. This guy would be easy to beat in court.
Man, they don't keep those promises of never hearing from them again.
Jesus, this is like dictating text messages from my EX ! Who I thought was a lesser narcissist.. HG Tudor. You never fail 👌
Oh honey these people are textbook predictable. It’s quite entertaining.
@@ameliamorningstar Totally 💯👌
This guy reminds me of my ex, the ranting, the novels over text, and the false accusations. My ex was very generous with name-calling. I've been enjoying 4 years of freedom.
Thank you H.G. These kinds of analyses are very informative and important for current victims.
@kathrynhogan3387 Thank you, he sure is🥰
If someone sends you a wall of text and the relationship is new run.
Very enlightening. Thank you, HG, as always, for your tireless efforts to educate us all about narcissism.
Thank you HG for detailing the analysis of the texts in this real life example. Also, thank you to the original poster of these texts for sharing them .This video is an excellent educational tool where HG explains the behaviours of the narcissist and provides in great detail what the texts mean.
The language I experienced was cleaner, but the tactics were the same. I'm SO happy to have escaped (at quite a $ and mental cost ) ....worth it to be a Free Woman now!
Wow this was great H.G. thank you for sharing this and breaking these down💯🥇🏆 This definitely needs to be taught in schools around the world and also in colleges and it be MANDATORY that it be taken and passed.
I feel so bad for Rose this reminds me of my children's father. We were together 9 years and he had one Job during that time that lasted two weeks but wanted to be in control
HG placed 'my' narcissist in the lower midrange category - the verbal aggression is very similar, it's really awful to experience.
This guy is a monster, I hope she got away from him.
I will consider this as a very important video and a must watch video for those looking for answers when trying to escape. Excellent analysis HG. Thank you❤
We went through this hell on earth wish I could tell her not to fight back no fuel 😅
Oh, I forgot to thank you HG in my last comment. Oh how I lived this as a child. Sound just like my parents.
I am so sorry. That is unthinkable.
This sounds exactly like my father. He pulled this kind of crap with my mother except he used to show up at her jobs and stir up trouble. She lost her job on more than one occasion due to his antics. My father struggled holding down jobs too and became incensed that my mom took it upon herself to work for the sake of the family. (This was pre cell phone days). I always suspected my father was a lower mid range , only he knew how to spell and was an excellent writer in spite of his lack of formal education. Such a waste of potential. 😞
Gosh. I thought my ex was bad but this is incredible. How can anyone put up with something like that?
I did. For 5 years. Until he turned the abuse towards my own son...
HG i haven't watched you for a while due to the content that you have been putting out about Megan etc. But this i have to say is some awsome stuff and has helped me more then anything for quite some time .
Especially when the narcissist in these texts counts down twlling her she only has 3 mins or how ever many mins he tells her that she has to respond to him or this or that is going to happen.
Not to mention how he threatens he going to cheat on her or saying she is cheating on him.
This is your work that is greatly appreciated. This has shown me a lot of what i am dealing with and what i have been dealing with over the last 10 years on and off. He does this same crap and i am do grateful that this came up in my feed today because i cant wait to watch part 2 now and then the other video that you said to watch.
Again thank you for your great work.
Hi Kim, me too, I had the same thing with the countdown. It worked on me as well!
Man, I've heard all that before. Brings back memories.
Hello HG, Thank You for Tutorial! Extremely Relevant in my life today! I’m getting stronger every day! 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽💕🇺🇸
8:06 I suspect Mike is still not raisin 1 finger.
"You likes raisins." - Jenny Meyer
HG, you are my favorite educator!
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This is depressing. He’s such a jerk.
These are so much better than MM love them. Thanks HG amazing work as always.
wow, this is so tiring… great breakdown and explanation though HG, thank you! I like the teaching-videos a lot.
Mine, pulled the same crap on me, only we had no children. Thank the God(s) of every religion . We did have cats that he used for triangulation.
HG, this video helped explain the narcissist’s actions. I know you do this in every video but including texts was eye-opening. Thank you
Brilliant tutorial HG!
Thank you!!
My nex was like this to a T. Refused to work for others but gave me no end of grief because I worked and couldn't wait on them ten thousand hours a day. Arsehole. Also was a jealous arsehole who actually was the one who was cheating. 🤢🤮
Thank you really interesting analysis of the text hoover.
HG, this has to be one of your most helpful videos!! I was ensnared with a LMR and holy hecker, the breakdown of these texts is very similar to ones I got from my ex narc.
Especially how he would countdown in texts saying I had 3 minutes to do something… then 2 minutes etc!
Fascinating how they operate in similar ways!!!
Very interesting. I'll bet his parents would do count down throughout his life as child.
Wow. I was always perplexed by my ex-bf’s (and parents’) undermining behavior but this helps me understand better how it’s a form of asserting control.
Well, I wound write him back that is for sure 😂
Hoovering. The perfect description. Who invented this term?
I swear these narcs have a hive mind lol, he sounds just like my ex.
Good afternoon HG!
Thanks!
What’s with the narcissist ex that pay all the bills he gift me things last was a golf cart out of no were, but never wants intimacy or ask for it but pay for my family trips give me money but I know nothing about his personal stuff and he gets mad if I talk to someone. Ps he moved us from NY to FL and now I’m here by myself with our daughter
He always uses our son for Hoovers… but then brings up that it is just about the kid… I always know when his intimate partner primary source is pointed black 😅
Brilliant HG! These types of examples are gonna be very helpful.
What a total ass he is. It sucks that she's pregnant.
Note how HG consistently talks about Narcissism like it is a separate entity from the individual, an entity that seems to have a will of its own. He talks about Narcissism driving or compelling the individual to behave in particular ways in order to get what the Narcissism wants; most of the time without the conscious awareness of the individual involved. What are some other terms to describe having a separate entity inside you that is driving, compelling or even dictating your behavior? Hmmmm…..
He's a narcissist himself, and that's one of the ways of evading responsibility for what a narcissist does.
HG, why didn’t you post your interview with Eric Hunley on your channel?
I have. It comes out tomorrow.
Please, read his comments as they're written - misspelled as they are! 😀
I hope this individual is in jail
He's not too clever leaving texts for proof of abuse in a divorce case. My narc was just as horrible but sneaky and would always make sure she had plausible deniability. This guy would be easy to beat in court.
How old IS this dude?
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This is just horrid! How is she still with this guy!!!???
No wonder he's no job, he can't even spell simple words(with spell check!)
I can't even listen to this video.. Please change the commentator good gracious
I'd be like... yeah I'm pregnant and i can do this alone as I may aswel be... dnt speak 2 me, ull be doing us a massive favour!