Priorities are so important. I 100% believe that a marriage where the husband and the wife do not prioritise one another above all else, will not work. I love my friends and my family, but my husband and the family that we have created for ourselves comes before anything else in my life and he behaves like that as well.
My ex husband and I communicated very well and when he started deviating from the marriage, the first thing to suffer was our conversations and it hurt badly to be given the silent treatment 😢
Please please post more of these videos, they're very insightful and educational, ayasakhaya. Please find time in your busy schedules for this kind of wisdom for us
I just love the Dlaminis. I watch MAFS only because of them, and I want to introduce my boyfriend to your teachings. Thanks for modeling God's idea of marriage, guys. You're such an inspiration 🙏❤️
I don't think the listed items are the causes of divorce - cheating/ money etc. The issue is simply how the couple handle the underlying hence communication is considered the number one cause. Failing to communication is simply not "go to hell" but pride and ending up not expressing the issue.
Goodness. This exactly what i experienced just last month. If it wasnt for my kother in law sitting us down with love as showing us how to communicate, appereciate ea other and intentionally making time for our marriage. I enjoyed her counsel considering she isnt a married person. Normally we'd take 2 days to reslove conflict and this time it took weeks! And lets behold pride. I enjoyed this topic
I dnt prefer talking when I'm angry bcoz I lose emotional intelligence. Bcoz I can't take back what I have said. Bt obvious when m the 1 @ fault,I am always ready 2 talk, off course willing 2 wait for my spouse 2 b ready. Fortunately he's always ready 2 talk.
Bn with my partner for 6 years and i struggled with him cos he doesn't communicate at all and when we do he just cant he feels attacked. I had to navigate through this and i realized that because he cant communicate doesnt mean he doesnt want the relationship. I broke up with him several times because of this and i figured its either i accept him as he is or i leave. I stopped making it an issue, and i tried to understand that he cant cimmunicate and he instead chooses to just I will say pretend nothing is wrong. I learned that i communicate with him through example not directed at him. I will say oo i love flowers or i was hurt by what you said or did but i know you didnt mean it, its hard but i have learned him so much that he tells me everything that he is going through, he trusts me with his deep secrets because i dont judge him. He shows his love for me his way 😂😂😂😂
@Bakhedlamini and @Nokwandadlamini so I hear he is my king is it wrong to ask for help with the running of the home? I can speak in the best manner possible but to him it always sounds as if im saying he is useless. How do we move past such issues?
Bathong does he have brothers ? What an insightful man
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His brother might be different from what he is
Priorities are so important. I 100% believe that a marriage where the husband and the wife do not prioritise one another above all else, will not work. I love my friends and my family, but my husband and the family that we have created for ourselves comes before anything else in my life and he behaves like that as well.
Money is a magnifier , so much wisdom
My ex husband and I communicated very well and when he started deviating from the marriage, the first thing to suffer was our conversations and it hurt badly to be given the silent treatment 😢
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Please please post more of these videos, they're very insightful and educational, ayasakhaya. Please find time in your busy schedules for this kind of wisdom for us
Yoh, some people are married on paper only.... powerful
I absolutely love and appreciate this podcast!
I wish man can be open and expressive, just like bakhe
Ephesians 5:22-33.
I am so inspired by you the Dlaminis.
I love this couple❤️. They are an inspiration.
So impressive, great topic!!
Please post more am learning a lot and discovering a lot and it makes sense
Feelings of love euphoria gets people into marriage without them knowing what it is they are getting into.
I just love the Dlaminis. I watch MAFS only because of them, and I want to introduce my boyfriend to your teachings.
Thanks for modeling God's idea of marriage, guys. You're such an inspiration 🙏❤️
I am so feeding here..I need to practice calmness like mrs dlamini I a so striked by her calmness.
The kind of content I am signing up for
Check out pastor Kingsley okonkwo u my love it more
I love them. I'm looking forward to more
Thank you Dr BD and Kwanda❤
I don't think the listed items are the causes of divorce - cheating/ money etc. The issue is simply how the couple handle the underlying hence communication is considered the number one cause. Failing to communication is simply not "go to hell" but pride and ending up not expressing the issue.
True if you can't Communicate in your marriege Kuphelelile
Amazing episode!! There's so much to unpack. Really looking forward to a part 2 on this topic.
Truly informative
Goodness. This exactly what i experienced just last month. If it wasnt for my kother in law sitting us down with love as showing us how to communicate, appereciate ea other and intentionally making time for our marriage. I enjoyed her counsel considering she isnt a married person. Normally we'd take 2 days to reslove conflict and this time it took weeks! And lets behold pride. I enjoyed this topic
Can we acknowledge what stops communication in marriage.
Such an informative session
When God elevates....proud of how far they've come❤❤❤
I dnt prefer talking when I'm angry bcoz I lose emotional intelligence. Bcoz I can't take back what I have said. Bt obvious when m the 1 @ fault,I am always ready 2 talk, off course willing 2 wait for my spouse 2 b ready. Fortunately he's always ready 2 talk.
Great episode very informative and on point, facts facts ...👏 👌 would like to see more
As GOD blesses you can you stand to be blessed wow Power right there.
Bn with my partner for 6 years and i struggled with him cos he doesn't communicate at all and when we do he just cant he feels attacked. I had to navigate through this and i realized that because he cant communicate doesnt mean he doesnt want the relationship. I broke up with him several times because of this and i figured its either i accept him as he is or i leave. I stopped making it an issue, and i tried to understand that he cant cimmunicate and he instead chooses to just I will say pretend nothing is wrong. I learned that i communicate with him through example not directed at him. I will say oo i love flowers or i was hurt by what you said or did but i know you didnt mean it, its hard but i have learned him so much that he tells me everything that he is going through, he trusts me with his deep secrets because i dont judge him. He shows his love for me his way 😂😂😂😂
The host is sooo good ❤❤
Enjoying this talks
Very inspiration
Dr. Bakhe are you a provider? because I think the major reason for divorces is when the man is not fully a provider materially.
@Bakhedlamini and @Nokwandadlamini so I hear he is my king is it wrong to ask for help with the running of the home? I can speak in the best manner possible but to him it always sounds as if im saying he is useless. How do we move past such issues?
Profound thank you.
m taking notes literally
True communication
I blieve money w/out God is dangerous & will definitely b a downfall 2 many.
Interesting ♥️
Where did they study their psychology? Did they have a license to practice in South Africa?
Asibonge 👌👌👌
Never change? Is it not like, "never grow?"
Ephesians 5:22-33.
Love u guys
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