Traditionally to curb cheating, polygamy was practiced. To my thoughts all these points means that you start building up your own emotional independence. Once you are there you are above him.
In my opinion the last point is a big NO crying will ruin all your work, it's better to wait when he eventually comes for a conversation then you tell him it hurts, not cry to him, a man that cheats does not regard your emotions what makes you think that crying about what he did will make any difference.
@@loladeyetunde5536yes exactly. Ex husband told me that. I left him for good. He now realize he lost a real wife but too late. Years gone. I moved on.
My Dear Friend you are referring to a professional man. Family Background plays a role. If a man comes from Family of polygamy, unfortunately a woman has no say. Personality also plays a role. I appreciate your advice, very educational, thank you ❤
Some women dey take things I knew of someone who her husband has been cheating years back even before I married till now the woman is still there and the man refuse to change till tomorrow,and the way thus woman carry him for head,even this man went extra miles to the extent of sleeping with his friend daughter and they dated till the lady got married,there is no how to handle a man who cheats as far as am concerned
@@ooyeniyi5300hope he's praying for her salvation too. We are called to obey them and be submissive yet they are not our gods.They need to know their mistakes. That's why we need to look for money money money money money you will see the difference
if the fear of God is to both the man and the woman one cannot cheat being contented shuld be the key since the holy spirit of God is in you; we shld not justify a mistake which is forbidden even by God ; Remeber the judgement is there and cant be removed from book of judgement ; the commandment says do not practice adultery
This is really helpful as I regained my composure after watching the video. before watching it though I was really depressed am was about doing the wrong things thank you so much for your counselling
Oh,sorry, I've been there I know it hurts. I've ever done such tactics and it works though as Rev. Has put it after some rime u see it again with again somebody seems new.some usually have a wife and another woman periodically. Masculine dominating world gave them an upper hand.
If a man cheat the good weapon is to be very smart dress well eat well and dont Show him that you re up Set yes you can feel but havea boy friend somewhere,and after few yrs move on
The best way is stop asking, nagging, ignore him,love yourself,look good,work on building up yourself and trust God in the process,it will kill him. By the time you will move out,it will not hurt you but him
If I hadn’t texted his GF and asked what was the nature of her relationship with my husband, to get silence in return, he’d still be denying it. I will never regret doing that. I had to know the truth, and he was never going to tell that to me. So I bent too low.
Mine asked me to invite him with the lady for a conversation. I told him am not part of their love affair. I dropped it and since then 2017,he can't fulfil his conjugal rites. He never sleeps out,but I zipped my mouth and shut myself. Our relation ends at the grave.I have a better husband,my lord.
Why block your glory on this earth over a useless man?? Divorce in the Bible is only permissible if either partner engages in an adulterous relationship outside of marriage. The more he sleeps with women, he connects you with souls, severe that bondage!!
A man closes ur business, and you allow it? You women really give the men inur lives the right to really do noonsense. He has no right whatsoever to close ur business.
That was me never commented or asked I would continue with my life as if nothing was happening. It ate him up at times he would say please hit me hard and would say I don't have the time for that.
What i know with cheating husband is that the wife cannot change him however much she tries.change is a choice,a personal decision just like it is cheating. My advice for wives....you can choose to live with your cheating husband or leave. Period
That’s why u should always act like you careless but u letting him see you hurt he won’t stop hurting you but act careless his mind won’t touch ground😂
Sir I cought my own husband with multiple exhibits but he couldn't apologize.He was with more than one woman out there.When I cut off the benefits started accusing me of having Men outside him.Until his sister's sister in law came serving him food on my table to my husband😢😮 absurd right.
The woman can keep quiet but it doesnt mean it doesnt hurt lets learn to aprreciate what we have since it is ones choice at fast ; greedy upon you flesh thats cz selfishness
All those tips are spot on! They actually work. Ignore him, love yourself and develop yourself. Tried and tested 💯☑️
Thanks for this cos mine never changed.ge even follows married women
Practice self love 💕 ❤
There are those who are not ignorable, the worst thing is when he wants intimacy by force
@@anazialovelyn5429😊😊😊😊 pp
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A Narcissist can never beg you
Especially a religious narcissist, they are the worse
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@@ayerinsarahoseyemi4376Religious narcissist are the worse set of narcissist, I dont wish any woman
Narcissist are soooooo heart🤞🤞🤞
Less
The only smart way is to LEAVE HIM🙄🙄🙄 people like that never change, you keep forgiving and you end up with endless STDs and low self respect
I agree
Exactly 😊
EXACTLY....ONLY SOLUTION IS TO MOVE ON...
True
So true
Cheating is a choice not a mistake 😢
Exactly. They always planned it
This is it.
The only drug of choice is abandoning a cheater.
You will come to embrace this precious advice and apply it to your life.
I love all the points ! But crying for a cheater is a no for me !
You've never been there, you don choose to.... But tears go,.. Eventually
A stray dog will never hear the hunter's whistle .
How I wish I had known this earlier.
I thank God for delivering me from narcissit's life. 😊
Please summon this man to men conference to explain why he's selling men out.
Not all, demons(narcissists) will never apologize infact they do it openly to frustrate you.
Exactly dear
Sure
Very true
Traditionally to curb cheating, polygamy was practiced.
To my thoughts all these points means that you start building up your own emotional independence.
Once you are there you are above him.
Cut off the benefits
No extra care
Extra key on the table
No extra pleasure
Go out often looking your best
I support this 💯
Don't bend too low for the side chick.Ignore the other woman
Some men who make sure you never be close to his phone! There is no way to have facts on messages
God open All doors.
I tell you,mine comes home once a wk from work and he doesn’t use a smartphone unless I contact the lady
If a man cheats on you,just give other men a chance. Omo don’t die with misery
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Or AIDS 😅
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😂😂😂😂😂 kabisa
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In my opinion the last point is a big NO crying will ruin all your work, it's better to wait when he eventually comes for a conversation then you tell him it hurts, not cry to him, a man that cheats does not regard your emotions what makes you think that crying about what he did will make any difference.
true
Exactly, d more u cry d most he enjoys it
Best thing is love urself & kids d more & pray to God to deliver him
Such men will tell you why are u crying? Are u a baby?
@@loladeyetunde5536yes exactly. Ex husband told me that. I left him for good. He now realize he lost a real wife but too late. Years gone. I moved on.
It depends on the man you are with.....some men never cry
My Dear Friend you are referring to a professional man. Family Background plays a role. If a man comes from Family of polygamy, unfortunately a woman has no say. Personality also plays a role. I appreciate your advice, very educational, thank you ❤
This is so unfair what if he infects you with hiv😢you are with him all in the name of marriage
Exactly, all the time u still waiting for him to understand, HIV boom 🤯🤯
At this point u can't be intimate with him
Best punishment LEAVE !!.before he brings you all the skunk from outside !!
May God help us women o
Some women dey take things I knew of someone who her husband has been cheating years back even before I married till now the woman is still there and the man refuse to change till tomorrow,and the way thus woman carry him for head,even this man went extra miles to the extent of sleeping with his friend daughter and they dated till the lady got married,there is no how to handle a man who cheats as far as am concerned
This are very practical lessons. Every married woman needs to see this.
I am living with one and I did almost of your points, he is still a liar
You're lowering your value
Pray for his salvation
Let him pray for himself
Pray for God to transform his heart but focus mostly on taking care of yourself dear
@@ooyeniyi5300hope he's praying for her salvation too. We are called to obey them and be submissive yet they are not our gods.They need to know their mistakes. That's why we need to look for money money money money money you will see the difference
Once a cheater always a cheater
Absolutely.
@@ifeomasandra6086not true
if the fear of God is to both the man and the woman one cannot cheat being contented shuld be the key since the holy spirit of God is in you; we shld not justify a mistake which is forbidden even by God ; Remeber the judgement is there and cant be removed from book of judgement ; the commandment says do not practice adultery
Very true dear
Let him come home to cold like a freezer 😆😆😆
This is magic and the advise here is very very underrated!!! This needs to get out to the world.!!! Thankful I came across the video! Bless you
This is really helpful as I regained my composure after watching the video. before watching it though I was really depressed am was about doing the wrong things thank you so much for your counselling
Oh,sorry, I've been there I know it hurts.
I've ever done such tactics and it works though as Rev. Has put it after some rime u see it again with again somebody seems new.some usually have a wife and another woman periodically.
Masculine dominating world gave them an upper hand.
PLEASE NOTE: These tips DO NOT apply when dealing with a narcissistic man.
I agree with you
Very true
True so how can you deal with this kind of man please help me
💯 Thanks for sayn this haki😢
Also a demon possesd one 😂 .
If a man cheat the good weapon is to be very smart dress well eat well and dont Show him that you re up Set yes you can feel but havea boy friend somewhere,and after few yrs move on
The best way is stop asking, nagging, ignore him,love yourself,look good,work on building up yourself and trust God in the process,it will kill him. By the time you will move out,it will not hurt you but him
These tips are so helpful, wise counsel indeed
Very very true
If I hadn’t texted his GF and asked what was the nature of her relationship with my husband, to get silence in return, he’d still be denying it. I will never regret doing that. I had to know the truth, and he was never going to tell that to me. So I bent too low.
Good job ❤
I'm in the process of divorce because of cheating. Man don't change we have 3 children 20yrs of marriage 😢😢
If you stayed for 20yrs,why giveup now
Please, don't give up.
I will advise you follow the points listed here and you will smile at the end, May God help you Sis
My friend please don't dissolve that marriage, Jesus never threw us away despite cheatings,we have had done to Him
Pls , no divorce especially if ur d one pushing, ignore , be happy , look good for urself. Pray for ur healing & peace of mind
@@ShiruwaAnn057Its her choice,she has taken it all and she can't take it no more.
Sounds like he's saying the truth about how to deal with men. But, women need patience in deploying these tactics.
This is so educative and it really works. Thank u for this episode
Wao this is really very strong medicine to my soul going to put all this into consideration thanks very much sir
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No tears for a narcissistic person
That cry is a no no for me
The solution does not lie in punishing but in counseling based on facts.
Am happy for the best advice for my soul.I stopped talking about that long time
This is the best medicine ever 💯 👏
Wonderful message truly, i have ever used these tricks and they worked for me
Some men accept yet they are not ready to change
Not at all
Just file for divorce… this is not worth it
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Abi ooo😂😂😂
Thank you from today am gonna do what you have taught me now, God bless you
Mine asked me to invite him with the lady for a conversation.
I told him am not part of their love affair.
I dropped it and since then 2017,he can't fulfil his conjugal rites.
He never sleeps out,but I zipped my mouth and shut myself.
Our relation ends at the grave.I have a better husband,my lord.
Why block your glory on this earth over a useless man?? Divorce in the Bible is only permissible if either partner engages in an adulterous relationship outside of marriage. The more he sleeps with women, he connects you with souls, severe that bondage!!
Have not understood
She is no longer sleeping with him
She is no longer sleeping with him
She is no longer sleeping with him
This man is me because these were exactly what I did when my man was womanising. And he came back to his senses.
Sure a man is family oriented, this do not apply to a covert narcissist.
I have subscribed. I have learnt a lot today. I am in Harare Zimbabwe
The tips work absolutely 💯. They worked for me
Kindly do one on how to punish a cheating wife.
Divorce is the only answer they have to that 😢
@@janetfoluke9426 😂😂😂 with immediate effect
@@janetfoluke9426That's unfair
No need. Once she is cheating, she has cut u off emotionally. I advise u leave if not u may die of heart attack.
Leave him to do his facts after showing him the facts..if he doesn't apologize leave it to God..karma will do it
People differ for some it works and for some it will make things worse but if he fear God he will not do it coz God is everywhere
It's true,he closed my business and am a housewife.Now i know
Same thing happened to me
A man closes ur business, and you allow it? You women really give the men inur lives the right to really do noonsense. He has no right whatsoever to close ur business.
Good advice from the elder, trust your God and love your self
My husband doesn't apologize
Mine too
Oh yeah neh mine too
That’s makes 2 of us!😢
Same here
Same
Kick the cheaters out of your life. Divorce him.
Wow.....wow....wow wonderful. I love that sharing. God bless u so so much.
That was me never commented or asked I would continue with my life as if nothing was happening. It ate him up at times he would say please hit me hard and would say I don't have the time for that.
Very true they don't want you working am victim,i give him extra attention and no changes
Some men even if u cut off extra pleasure he will never change from cheating. Some men just have cheating in their DNA
Exactly I can wash my clothes as long you still check for children's
I need a part two of this series
I wish I knew this some years ago, very informative 👏🏾
I got my husband with multiple facts, receipts, l, phone calls, but he never apologized.
Thank for this , i started feeding better in my marriage after watching this. God bless your union
May God bless you man
A man like you are scares
This advice is for old school men, Not this present new generation men,
Thank you so much for sharing 🙏 God bless you
Thank you so much for the teachings.Very
Even with facts, hard-core evidence he'll deny...I don't know will be a reply.
End the marriage
Period!!!!
I once tried going out as he says, weeeee the beating i got is still fresh 10years+ down the line. And that's how it ended.
It depends on personality
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂sorry but thats funny
Tell your friends not to try this at home
😂😂😂😂. It's funny. But it shows that he really didnt like you. So its better it ended.
Ooooh waw...this is so wonderful,,the best advice ever thanks and may God bless you 😊
I like the facts, good teachings
Thank you so much. I just subscribed
I cried day and night Pastor. He didn't nothing😅 I'm done crying
Mine is never bothered with my tears,infact he will not even ask, zero emotions
Start planning your exit. And if you choose not to leave, then harden your heart and focus on you and yoir children.
Thanks for a powerful teaching.
Spot on!! Well done...
Wow I love this God bless you sir
It's true, u have to be smart always
He will change thanks bro, be blessed
When a man is discussing fellow men especially in a topic where most men are victims, kaa mbali kidogo umwangalie tena. 😢
Very perfect points 😂🙌👏🏼.
Amen mr advicer now you are talking cut the reasonces i like it. Am on the same situation now
He will jump and still comes down, the law of gravity still works on him
He is not your child stop proving him just leave.He already showed that you are nothing
I needed to hear this
What i know with cheating husband is that the wife cannot change him however much she tries.change is a choice,a personal decision just like it is cheating.
My advice for wives....you can choose to live with your cheating husband or leave.
Period
Thanks for those good points
Another thing dont confront or call the gfriend let him know that you now know who she is
Not my husband when I cry it feels like he like it😢
That’s why u should always act like you careless but u letting him see you hurt he won’t stop hurting you but act careless his mind won’t touch ground😂
Thanks for this episode
This is really good!! Thank you so much❤❤
Get dress up all the time snd go out😂😂😂😂
Point number 5 is the best 👌, to me, he's like wind oo😅
Sir I cought my own husband with multiple exhibits but he couldn't apologize.He was with more than one woman out there.When I cut off the benefits started accusing me of having Men outside him.Until his sister's sister in law came serving him food on my table to my husband😢😮 absurd right.
The woman can keep quiet but it doesnt mean it doesnt hurt lets learn to aprreciate what we have since it is ones choice at fast ; greedy upon you flesh thats cz selfishness
Truly i catch him he apologies God will judge
With this get my subscription, I love it
Eish I should have learnt this way back, feel its too late
Very true because I have noticed that arrogance
True about cheating Husbands they love their wives back home. 😅
Wonderful advice,
My own does not come home again. He abandoned i and the kids completely.
Best video you will see online today 🎉🎉🎉…. It’s 💯
Pay time will come.
Not all apologizes. Some are animals