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What Men Want with Dr Bakhe & Nokwanda Dlamini
Power couple and marriage therapists, Dr Bakhe & Nokwanda Dlamini demystify the subject of love & marriage
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What is privacy in marriage? Does one's partner have a right to access their phone?

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  • @mzamaneabe1392
    @mzamaneabe1392 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sometimes you just want to be by yourself, talk and listen to yourself.That's not craziness.

  • @mzamaneabe1392
    @mzamaneabe1392 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Cellphone is private and should stay like that .Privacy can be on bank transactions to nudes .That's yours not for your partner.No couple can be one , that's the reality.Individualism .

  • @mzamaneabe1392
    @mzamaneabe1392 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I hope this couple practice what they preach.I've seen couples with powerful motivations going separate ways .be realistic.

  • @Ad-Lo
    @Ad-Lo หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why has the “What Women Want” video never been uploaded?

  • @estherbabyledge5973
    @estherbabyledge5973 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What happens when your partner is a liar decides to communicate what only benefits them A person who will lie about unneccessary things and when you address that they promise to change but still continues to lie

  • @OhanaAndMommy
    @OhanaAndMommy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bazalwane, I need the What Women Want episode. It’s rough la endlini. This episode had my fiancé clapping as though he has won the lottery 😂. We’re using the series as pre-marital counselling 😁

  • @anointedchosen141
    @anointedchosen141 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We need to talk about the issue of men not wanting to be 100% providers. There is 50%/50% nowadays and it is affecting the role of the wife. The wives work hard and always feel tired and still expected to think of motherly and wifely duties. Most men need to step up as leaders of their homes. They expect us women to be everything.

  • @malebohangntsohi
    @malebohangntsohi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow. Thank you so much. I do appreciate. It is my first time watching and I won't look back. I do relate so much to what you have talked about. God Bless❤

  • @vusumuzidube3647
    @vusumuzidube3647 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Truth to life this is power

  • @khumbudzomufunwaini2060
    @khumbudzomufunwaini2060 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yhoo I'm watching and learning so much

  • @khumbudzomufunwaini2060
    @khumbudzomufunwaini2060 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I felt so acknowledged during that pause of updating and thanking us

  • @JustinNoko-v4d
    @JustinNoko-v4d 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You know even though I'm still young you know I'm 35 years of age, meaning I'm in a category of the young adults of these country. You know and again despite the fact that I'm still in a category of single Men of these planet, you know but I can tell you now that ever since I started watching your podcast. You know within a short period of time, I have learned so many things I didn't know as a Man about romantic relationships romance and marriage.🔥✌🏽

  • @Leragoldtattoo
    @Leragoldtattoo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yoh, my phone I my phone and he's phone is his....!

  • @leethusi5899
    @leethusi5899 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What if he cheats?

    • @Ad-Lo
      @Ad-Lo หลายเดือนก่อน

      Divorce. Biblically.

  • @wisegirl03
    @wisegirl03 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dr. Bakhe are you a provider? because I think the major reason for divorces is when the man is not fully a provider materially.

  • @hlobisilemotsa7982
    @hlobisilemotsa7982 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Dr BD and Kwanda❤

  • @phendulwazondo5207
    @phendulwazondo5207 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I blieve money w/out God is dangerous & will definitely b a downfall 2 many.

  • @phendulwazondo5207
    @phendulwazondo5207 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I dnt prefer talking when I'm angry bcoz I lose emotional intelligence. Bcoz I can't take back what I have said. Bt obvious when m the 1 @ fault,I am always ready 2 talk, off course willing 2 wait for my spouse 2 b ready. Fortunately he's always ready 2 talk.

  • @faithing88
    @faithing88 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bn with my partner for 6 years and i struggled with him cos he doesn't communicate at all and when we do he just cant he feels attacked. I had to navigate through this and i realized that because he cant communicate doesnt mean he doesnt want the relationship. I broke up with him several times because of this and i figured its either i accept him as he is or i leave. I stopped making it an issue, and i tried to understand that he cant cimmunicate and he instead chooses to just I will say pretend nothing is wrong. I learned that i communicate with him through example not directed at him. I will say oo i love flowers or i was hurt by what you said or did but i know you didnt mean it, its hard but i have learned him so much that he tells me everything that he is going through, he trusts me with his deep secrets because i dont judge him. He shows his love for me his way 😂😂😂😂

  • @refiloemabena687
    @refiloemabena687 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please post more am learning a lot and discovering a lot and it makes sense

  • @LebogangMosenthal
    @LebogangMosenthal 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Eish!!! I'm just as good as an ATM

  • @LebogangMosenthal
    @LebogangMosenthal 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Interesting conversation

  • @luapearl
    @luapearl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for this Podcast. I am a big fan. I am engaged and the courtship still feels like a new experience even though it has been 8 months. This has been so insightful. Keep them coming, there is a gap.

  • @NkosinathiMasango012
    @NkosinathiMasango012 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My 2nd episode in this Podcast, and big ups, this is beautiful 👏. Looking at the comments section, I realize that there are more ladies than gents watching this 😅. As a gent, i would encourage more guys to watch this, we can all learn a lot here.

  • @khanyiradebe4437
    @khanyiradebe4437 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I absolutely love and appreciate this podcast!

  • @eyesqueen2433
    @eyesqueen2433 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am so feeding here..I need to practice calmness like mrs dlamini I a so striked by her calmness.

  • @sincengilentshingila9415
    @sincengilentshingila9415 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am glad I came across this podcast. I have met an evolved man- not afraid to articulate his needs. This is teaching me how to balance everything. PS# I never understood why a certain man wanted me to pick up what he would wear to work- until one day I asked a friend's brother and he explained the nurturing part.

  • @pulepule2650
    @pulepule2650 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this couple❤️. They are an inspiration.

  • @jennykrim7178
    @jennykrim7178 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What if a man is not married. does it mean that he doesnt have 200 sperms to ejaculate? what will he do? sex outa marriage?

  • @malebelomaphutha6566
    @malebelomaphutha6566 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Anxiety 101 listening to this

  • @lovenessngwenya3229
    @lovenessngwenya3229 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please please post more of these videos, they're very insightful and educational, ayasakhaya. Please find time in your busy schedules for this kind of wisdom for us

  • @lindeloonlyyylelo4303
    @lindeloonlyyylelo4303 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just what i needed ive really learned alot

  • @eveeden465
    @eveeden465 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is great...

  • @eveeden465
    @eveeden465 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello, how do you pour from an empty cup?

  • @NkosinathiMasango012
    @NkosinathiMasango012 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Really enjoyed this Podcast. Came here because i saw Dr Bakhe Dlamini after listening to him on another podcast and enjoyed his way of articulating situations in relationships. I am 29 years old and not yet married, but in a serious relationship and I enjoy watching such content because I am doing my best to improve as a man and my relationships. I think it's very important for us young people who are not yet married to watch such content because marriage doesn't start after the wedding, but the foundations are set during the dating phase, because people don't miraculously learn new habits after the wedding day. So big ups and we need more of this content.

    • @buzzlove8437
      @buzzlove8437 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      this is great wisdom from a young man 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @thulimaluka2993
    @thulimaluka2993 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I will not keep quiet if he takes my idea because his idea failed… that will never happen

    • @Ad-Lo
      @Ad-Lo หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂

  • @kathlegothangwana6577
    @kathlegothangwana6577 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Goodness. This exactly what i experienced just last month. If it wasnt for my kother in law sitting us down with love as showing us how to communicate, appereciate ea other and intentionally making time for our marriage. I enjoyed her counsel considering she isnt a married person. Normally we'd take 2 days to reslove conflict and this time it took weeks! And lets behold pride. I enjoyed this topic

  • @khanyiradebe4437
    @khanyiradebe4437 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for the teachings in this video Dr and Mrs Dlamini.

  • @siboenyoninyoni770
    @siboenyoninyoni770 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great episode,notes taken...Can we also have an episode abt What woman want...l used to do all good but l also have checked out

  • @leratochoma1440
    @leratochoma1440 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My son is used to having his food on a tray, because that's how i taught him from a very early age. He's a teenager now

  • @HedwighKamure
    @HedwighKamure 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So impressive, great topic!!

  • @Sange_filtane
    @Sange_filtane 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    true meaning of finding love in Christ. they are both blessed to have eachother

  • @philiswadyan6580
    @philiswadyan6580 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We even have a saying that "man's phone is like onion, you touch it you cry" hay bo guys how did we get here?🤔 Siphi apha sifike njani. Thanx Dlaminis❤

  • @philiswadyan6580
    @philiswadyan6580 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hope my husband is also following these kind of podcasts so that when we finally meet we will be on the same page. Very informative😊

    • @CynthiaPhahlamohlaka
      @CynthiaPhahlamohlaka 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If they haven't, you can introduce them, we are here to learn and unlearn certain things.

  • @celokuhlepromisejele1326
    @celokuhlepromisejele1326 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    But what if a King doesn't treat you like a Queen but treat you like his slave? What happens then....

  • @minahnyathi1342
    @minahnyathi1342 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😅

  • @Rufaro-bd5dj
    @Rufaro-bd5dj 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im learning

  • @Khanyi_M
    @Khanyi_M 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so beautiful, I have enjoyed . Please film more of these , very powerful ❤️

  • @rofhiwam2411
    @rofhiwam2411 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can we have another part..😢😢

  • @lebogangmoagi4846
    @lebogangmoagi4846 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's my first time here and wow I've learnt alot after listening to this, i have realized my mistakes nd I'm willing to save my marriage by starting over❤❤❤❤thank you so much guys