She gave him $83,000 just so she doesn’t have to spend Christmas and New Year alone? For $83,000 you can travel the world on a cruise ship for an entire year and you won’t be alone at all there
She also could’ve got her teeth fixed like Tom Cruise, got lipo (so she can actually look like she goes to the gym that many days a week that she claimed), or other cosmetic procedures like a facelift. 🤷🏻♀️
I love how she said "he's good at what he's doing". No he's not. Any fool can see through these scams and this just proves "there's a sucker born every minute"- P.T. Barnum.
Is she an idiot or what??? How did she pass the “nurses exams”??? Maybe she is an LPN, not possible an RN … too stupid to pass the RN exams. My goodness!!!
Every time they say, "I want to confront him," I cringe. They do NOT care. It's the equivalent of telling a cashier you're no longer going to shop at a store. You're just a job to them. I wish there was some type of justice.
Coz Caucasian Americans don't think west africans have technology or are smart enough to pull off these scams .Little do they know these ppl have elaborate networks
If someone calls you babe, king or queen all the time instead of your name, its because they are scamming so many people they don't want to mess up and use the wrong name.
3. They get angry when you don’t send money. 😂 4. They say “you don’t love me if you don’t send money” It feels like “money” is the keyword here. Add a lot of greed and loneliness in the mix to get the perfect mix. I almost feel that I should think of a career change! Picking up raisins on the beach during daytime and scamming them from home buy night. Think of his income if he has at least 10 of these in parallel, he could take over Nigeria. Or wait, isn’t there a take over of Niger right now?! 😂
She puts her foot down at $83,000 ?! Meanwhile, my daughter asks her brother for $20 and is basically interrogated. He thinks about it for 3 days and he decides she is too big of a risk.
I kinda wish there were decent scammers out there. Like ... Scamming 83,000 from these ridiculously clueless people and then giving it to charity. Y'know there is a housing crisis in the world. Use your powers of persuasion for good. Y'know. Thanks Stephanie. You have housed three families. Nice work
Please ladies, if a man is calling you a "liar" or "mean" or "manipulative" if he does not get his money, he is NOT romantic, and you're not in a "great relationship."
She was married for 31 years and recently just lost her husband and jumped into online dating and immediately gets scammed by a professional catfish…. And just because she’s a woman who is sexually responsive to a man she’s attracted to which is normal and healthy? Your comment is ludicrous and disrespectful. She was looking for a husband and you know it…. It’s ridiculous to shame people in this day and age. Jeesh 🙄
@@HalfB I am commenting and this is my opinion. Being a woman in the same position as Steph - and a nurse as well, I think that allows me some kudos. Nothing wrong with wanting sex or paying for sex but call it what it is and stop being so gullible. Why are you calling me out when other comments support my position? I'm just calling a spade a bloody shovel.
@@HalfB She had a husband for 31 years, maybe she could have taken a little break, jeeeeeeeesh! She didn't have to hand over her life savings to find a husband!
@@HalfB Wait, wait, wait > She sent him $83-Th even though she was "suspicious" but sent it anyway just to hear a man tell her "I love you, babe"! [with an African accent] WOW! Never met him, not even video chat just a voice on the phone! Seriously? And she's a nurse, never mine I hope!
@@stefanjohansson2373 finally someone else points out... these scammers feed greed and lonlyness or naivity, lonlyness (I have sick child, needs help and sometimes too high selfesteem...
@@JaimeMesChiens impossible for her to know about how a millionaire is living and how some banks maybe treats them better than average Joe. She was mainly greedy and lonely and dreamt of his 8 inches…
Enough with these self righteous women!! They willingly give their money to off shore entities in violation of U.S. tax and international money laundering laws!!! When will they be held accountable??
My father (RIP) was a project manager for engineering firms & did projects all over the world. The company take care of _EVERYTHING:_ Housing, food, healthcare, travel, the project costs of course (which are usually in the multi-millions,) dealt w/ ALL the paperwork/costs & the visas needed w/ the local governments. How are people this willfully blind?
I met many I am a widowed...First time I was scammed but not thousand.Then I still continue but when a man ask money I dont respect them specially never see in live cam or in person...When I check SCAMHATER so funny 10 men I met all there the real one.OMG hahaha
She says “people shouldn’t be allowed to mess with women like this.” True. It’s also true that women shouldn’t allow themselves to be so gullible and desperate like this so that they believe the unbelievable. And this is an educated woman. Geesh.
Did anyone else notice the scammer couldn’t spell “Istanbul”? I know texting isn’t always perfect, but bad grammar and spelling (along with certain keywords) is a huge indicator the person isn’t the educated, professional person they say they are.
I once had someone contact me but their spelling was atrocious! I told him if he wanted to catfish me he’d have to learn to spell! He sent back an lol & that was it!
Those texts we see on screen is most likely written by someone on the catfish team. They almost follow what is said in the interview with the victim. So it's probably someone on the Catfish team who isn't a very good speller.
One of the biggest flags to me is when he makes HIS problem YOUR problem. He has a problem and the only solution to that problem is YOUR money. If someone approached you on the street and told you he needed ten thousand dollars because he was locked out of his account or he had an emergency medical problem or his child needed a computer for school or he needed a new cell phone or he had some legal documents that were going to cost thousands of dollars, would you just hand the ten thousand dollars over to him? Maybe I'm not a very nice person but I would try to be nice as I recommended that he go down the street to that bank on the corner and see if they would give him a loan. I've seen so many people agonize over whether someone is "real". Here's a suggestion. DO NOT SEND MONEY TO ANYONE...EVER...then it won't really matter whether he's real or not. RED ALERT: You have never even met this man. You have no idea what type of person he really is. DO NOT let him see you without your clothes. ASSUME that everything you send him will become PUBLIC DOMAIN because it very well might. If he were 16 years old (and he very well may be) it would make more sense for him to want to get ahold of some pictures of a woman in the nude but a man who is 50 to 60 years old and is asking for nude pictures from a rank stranger is just plain strange. Do not turn over anything to him that you would not want to show up on the six o'clock news! BTW, when a man tells you his account is frozen or he is STUCK in some foreign country, RUN, don't walk, in the opposite direction. The things he is saying is SCREAMING scam! He said ONE thing that is absolutely the truth and you can bet the farm that it's true. He told you he would repay you "when he sees you" and that's probably the truth but the catch is that he will NEVER see you.
I agree. When did someone else's financial problems become someone else's responsibility?? My children are much more successful than I am and all five certainly have more money (I'm disabled. I have MS. I can only work part time) but even if the opposite was true and I had lots of money not one of my five children would ask me to pay their bills for them and I wouldn't unless it was a life or death situation and a one time thing!
Nurses deal with so much abuse in the healthcare field. No way to send that hard earned money to someone. She knew better, she just wanted this to be true..
@@Adrianafaith123???? I’m an RN..have been for over 34 years…I’m divorced …and in NO way would I ever 1. Use 0n line dating 2. Except friend requests from someone I don’t know 3. Give one red nickel to anyone I don’t know and even then probably not 4. Send suggestive pics to ANYONE…so do not make such a generalized prejudicial statement..shame on you …
these “deep” conversations they have always get me, it’s literally the most vapid surface conversations lmaoooo nothing about eachother personally. “how are you” “how did you sleep” “you are my queen” is NOT diving deep enough to learn to love someone
We the audience are only getting a snapshot of the conversations. Some of these people are in communication for months and years, so social catfish doesn’t have the time to allow us to see the entire conversation.
Rule #1: No relationships with ANYONE who is not in the country. No relationships with anyone who cannot meet within 7 days. No relationships with anyone who asks for money. Period. End of discussion.
Exactly, the point of dating apps is to find people to go on DATES with. I know several people who married someone they met online including my sister and the Maid of Honor at my wedding. But all of them lived in the same general area and met their partners for a first date within a week of meeting online
@@susaninika7552 why not just meet people in real life if you are just into people who live in your neighborhood, online dating to find someone 3 miles away seems stupid
Generally sensible under most circumstances. I've met and am engaged to a chap from Texas (yes of course we've met a bunch of times), and he's moving over to England in the new year. I will say though, that long distance is exceptionally difficult and takes a lot of momentum and effort to keep going. It's certainly not an easy route.
Anyone who has an altar to herself (check fireplace) is a redflag. I've noticed after watching dozens of these vids, the 'victim' as a bit of a narcissist.
The worse case from catfish was the one where the lady was warned by her FBI friend and her bestfriend. She obviously discarded her bestfriend cos she implied her friend was simply jealous.
Why not? He told her she was the most beautiful woman in the world, so he was a man of common sense. She had common sense by agreeing with him. Makes sense.
Had a so called friend I met online who said he was from the UK try to low key scam me. After a lot of emails and messages, he started crying about owing money to his baby's mother in a way that I could tell he wanted me to ask about so he could ask if I could send him money. I never took the bait. I just told him I would pray for him as I was also struggling financially. Didn't take long for the emails to come a halt. Good riddance. Smoked him right out of his hole.
It’s surprising they are still “in love” even when the scammers get so aggressive about guilting them into giving money. The fact that you’re not turned off by someone being mean to you is alarming
They have been brainwashed. Parts of their brain/body are now addicted to the feelings created. It’s psychological abuse. Akin to emotional abuse. Ie: knowing her hubby unsliced himself and threatened to do the same. A fantasy or harlequin romance novel version of Stockholm Syndrome.
she has a life lesson to learn. Once that lesson is learned, she will walk away from that red flag. when you look for the best in people, you forgive them for being mean, until you learn your life lesson and learn when to walk away
She thinks that by confronting him, telling him she knows he’s a scammer, will make him feel remorseful and ashamed. She doesn’t realise he’s scamming countless women and men at the same time. As for sending naked photos..you can just imagine the laughs they have in the call centre.
@joanneford356 After getting used, her only recourse for taking back control and salvaging her ego is confrontation. But it's futile, just like when a girl unfriends a guy on FB who's mistreated her - the guy doesn't care! 😂
They still want to confront the scammer because in their mind, they still believe they will be talking to that person they fell in love. That person doesn't exist. The scammer doesn't care because there is no feeling, except the craving for money.
I just have no sympathy anymore. Its just ludicrous to me that ANYONE would feel okay sending money to someone they have never met over the internet. Like seriously! And before anyone says the obvious? I have met a significant other over the internet and the only one time he asked me for money because of his own circumstances at the time I just laughed and said no. As much as I loved him at the time and wanted to be with him I wasn't about to spend money I didn't have just to be with him. We continued to be close for another 3 years. and we continue to talk to each other off and on. So as much as I was in love? To this day. We have never met in person. We loved each other at the time. But neither he or I sold our Soul for each other and made fools of ourselves
A scammer used this on a lady I knew and she fell for it. He claimed he had over a million in an account that was frozen until he could pay the bank $15K. I asked her: your bank takes money from your account for fees, his would do the same and there was certainly enough money in there!
The most shocking thing to me about 99% of these cases is that after being continually asked for money, being drained of their life savings and then being verbally abused, the victim always says if the person is real, they'd be happy to continue the relationship... WHY? I wish women learned to love themselves more and stop settling for these scumbags.
Agree. I mean there are all those red flags and then they still continue and think the person might be real and there will be a forever happy after. If you contact catfished deep down in your mind you already know that you were falling for a scam. They just want to have that confirmation. And contacting the scammer one more time to tell him that she knows he is a scammer, does not do any good. He just goes on and continues with somebody else. There are always others out there who are willing to give up their money, their house, and all their belongings.
I also wish they would love their children more. She could have given them $40.000 each. Or it would have been a nice college fund for her grandchildren.
She’s talking with Catfished staff as they are walking her through everything and she still thinks the scammer is real person and that they were in a relationship. Unbelievable.
First of all this woman is wrong. You CAN have a pacemaker/defibrillator in one device. I have one. It regulates my heart rate, AND should I go into a rogue rhythm it will give me a shock. She obviously isn’t a cardiac nurse. Second, this woman needs to understand that any man who will take $80,000+ from you whether they say they will pay it back or not, is a man you don’t want.
I think she was saying that he needed 2 different devices (pacemaker and defibrillator) with 2 different costs/procedures. Not that he needed a single device.
The minute any man sends a d*** pic to me or asks for se** pics is NOT someone you should engage with if you are seeking a proper gentleman. GIRL have some dignity about yourself.
i get them send them sometimes, i usually say thanks, i'll forward this to all my gay friends, along with your details, they'll love it, or i send them that line in monsters inc; put that thing back where it came from or so help me
Right. She says she works out 5 days/week. When I did that, I was thin and in great shape. I wonder what she's doing there. Probably trying to attract a young guy!
The channel deals with a lot of horny older guys, but the reality is women who are 50+ can be horny older women, and let it mess up their decision making.
Poor thing I feel so bad for her imagine losing the love of your life and then while you are vulnerable and just recovering from grieving you get scammed by scum. She wants sex and love , she deserves that. I really hope she gets the support she needs ,all these boomers online are so reckless they need to be reeducated and this poor lady has already gone through so much , I hate how this scambags target vulnerable naive touch and love starved adults the scammers no people desperate for love and sex will fool themselves to get it, sometimes I think social workers should be able to intervene to helo this confused older people but thank goodness this yt channel did it.
He went right away to talking about sex in a vulgar way and asking for money. How does that attract anyone? Any sane person would be turned right off by all that.
SO many of these women want that “final” conversation with the man, as if it’s an actual break-up. She goes not seen to absorb the fact that this person will not feel guilt because scamming IS HIS JOB and obviously, he’s good at it.
The Nigerian guy is probably making close to the equivalent of 6 figures in his local currancy...probably living like a King..so asking him to feel remorse or have a conscience is pretty stupid..🙂
How can people give their life savings to someone that they have never met? It is so unfortunate that these people have so little awareness of the real world.
Heck i feel sick to my own stomach looking at these gigantic figures they freely send away never to be seen again ..id just get a couple of dogs and never be alone plus have unconditional love plus as an added bonus a body guard
Her husband died in December 2021. Her spreadsheet said she loaned money in November 2021. The voiceover said “after a couple years” she started dating 🧐
Is it possible social catfish got the date of her husband's death wrong? If not, she was talking to this scammer 3 months before the "love of her life" died.
Yeah I don't get why the voice over said " after grieving for a few years" she decided to try dating, when she had , according to the dates, started this relationship before her husband's unexpected and sudden death
Oooo I was listening, so I didn't see that! And the """"relationship""""" was so sexual... If that's accurate then she was cheating and yeah, no wonder she got scammed.
When asked to describe their "partner", these people always and only mention three things: 1. How good looking they are 2. How they say sweet things 3. How much they're looking forward to them "coming home" and all the money they'll have.
@@ivanaandric5703 I agree...it's hard for me to feel bad folks who live in lala land giving money to people they never even met before. Goofy behavior imo
Why can‘t these women say, „I will be happy to send you 15,000 but my account has been locked. Could you send me 1,500 so I can get back into my account, honey bunny?“ You know I love you, right?
These women aren’t thinking straight or they wouldn’t send nude photos to the scammers. I wouldn’t give my husband a nude photo of myself so I know I wouldn’t give one to someone I never met. How starved for love are these women?
Why do these women believe that anyone has to pay to leave a country? Also, people who have several millions in the bank ALWAYS have access to their money. This woman is so ignorant of real life she shouldn’t be left on her own!! The fact that she is a nurse is horrifying 😱
It’s like scammer training school. Find an old battle axe; tell her how beautiful she is, call her queen or something, steal poems off the internet and say they’re your own, ask if she’s eaten, ask her to marry, on and on.
I found it interesting that the show states her husband passed away in December of 2021 and the earliest entry on her spreadsheet of giving money to the scammer is on November 24th 2021. The show also states, “After a few years of grieving…”
Woah, I didn't catch that. You're a sleuth, you are.... Wait, a sec: he looked awfully young to be dying, and she seems very ok with his death.... Uh. Ahem.....That's weird. She says he didn't want to be with her anymore, so that was fine, and then he died shortly after.
I used to get so frustrated that my mother wouldn’t learn how to use a computer. Thank god she didn’t. After my father died I spent so much time just chasing off real men trying to scam her. My mother was like these women in that she needed male attention and affirmation so badly. She would trust any man that smooth talked her. She died last year at 83.
Same! My parents are divorced. Thank God my father has zero interest with computers or even smart phones. My mother on the other hand my sister and I have had to monitor her social media and block scammers.
In almost every profession you will find smart people, dumb people, people who are good at their job, people who are bad at their job, and people who are smart and good at their job *but* who lack common sense in other areas.
@@missleader5262 I agree. Any nurse could be dealing with patients with implanted devices so she should know that. I knew that and I never worked in the medical area or anything near it.
It’s to have another tactic to get money out of them. Once they wise up to the scam and stop sending money, they go from romantic talk to blackmail threatening to send the nude photos to family and friends if they don’t pay.
It's just as gross, and embarrassing, for a supposedly educated 60-something woman to send explicit pics of herself over the Internet to a total stranger. She probably would've grounded her kids for life if they'd done that.
@@withgoddessshe describes their relationship as him begging for money, buttering her up then insulting her and making threats then back to begging for money. That to me is a pimp prostitute relationship
Why do so many of these women, who are elderly and mostly unattractive, think that handsome younger men would want anything other than their money? It's bizarre behavior, completely delusional.
@@MissOrchid12 men at least know it's about the money, as the all men do on some level. We know women prefer to date "up", and we have to make a minimum amount to even be considered to date. so an ugly guy has an easier time thinking a hot woman is into him if he spends on her. It's always at least partially about the resources we provide
women are told they are 10s, perfect and deserve the best. The men on the show know they have to send money to a hot chick, it would be the same in real life anyway.
@@willdegra317Have you actually been watching these? The guys are just as delusional as the women. There was one guy WHO IS FAT claiming he doesnt want a woman who is fat. He didnt give her money, but he fell for an obvious crypto scam.
Sounds like he was trying to put her in a situation to extort her with photos of her body. I've seen scammers result to threatening to post intimate photos if the victim won't send them money
"People shouldn't be allowed to mess with women like this." - YOU allowed the scammer to mess with you. Why do you assume this world is all sunshine and unicorns? All we can really control is ourselves. I'm really sorry you were hurt, but this is on you.
I picked up on that line as well! No shade, but it´s like these people believe everything needs to be laid out and broken down for them, so they don´t have to do any of the work! A lot of things shouldn´t be allowed, but they happen! it´s like they don´t know world history! After studying history, why would they think everything is gonna be, like you said, sunshine and unicorns?!
People always want the government to save them from their own foolishness. Be careful what you wish for. Once you have a Nanny State, it will be difficult to dismantle it. The government is already too intrusive in our personal lives and affairs, in more ways than we realize.
The abusiveness of this man she's in love with. Even if she hadn't sent him a dime, the red flags are amassing!! And after all that abuse: "He's someone I could be with," wistfully. Seriously?!
I’ve been single since 37 and I’m now in my 50s after a messy marriage breakup that destroyed my soul. Loneliness is real but it’s a heck of a lot cheaper and less risk than falling in love online.
I'm 40. I have been in 2 big relationships including a marriage. I've seen my mum in a toxic marriage for my whole life. My aunts and uncles divorce, get new relationships, break up. Desperately looking for love. I am SO happy on my own. I have my cat. I have my daughter. That's all I need forever. My happiness comes from me. It's not found in others.
I wish the dating sites had a video people had to watch before signing up that gives specific examples of what fraud techniques to look out for. Maybe that would stop these vulnerable, lonely people from being scammed as often.
It's a great idea. But the people featured on this channel either wouldn't watch them or think it couldn't happen to them because they think themselves too smart to fall for the scam. But, in fact, their narcissism makes them sitting ducks for the scammers.
Did anyone else think the way she described her husband’s presumable death, possibly suicide, was kind of odd? It feels to me like she’s not remotely processed that yet. This is probably just a huge piece of escapism for her - not having to deal with reality. Poor woman.
I agree. After my husband passed I got married again, all he wanted was what I could provide. I just didn’t want to be alone. It wasn’t a scam but just as bad. Being a weak woman I have allowed him to spend all of my 401k.
@@Cindymc211 That is why I never get married again or engaging in any relationship whatsoever. I’m happy alone and I’m content with my little Yorkie, she always loves me unconditionally and never asks for money or betrays me. I’m happy and stay single.
Does she really think a grown ass man would act like that? If you say sorry I can’t give you money right now they cry, run into the street and think you don’t love them any more?? One second short of throwing themselves on the ground having a temper tantrum? Lady what kind of men have you been hanging around?!
Wash, rinse, repeat. The stories, the problems, the dialogue are identical. The women and men who fall for these scams need psychological counseling and support.
@@elipotter369 Also a successful person from a Nordic country like Norway or Sweden would be fluent in English. There are a handful of Twitch Retro Streamers from Sweden and they all speak perfect English with little to no accent.
How can someone with the mental capacity to be a nurse be so goddamn naive? She recognized that he “looks Scandinavian” but not that he *sounds African.*
I have started asking from the first contact, "How are things in Lagos?" And they're gone. I just thought of another one you can use, "What time is it now in Lagos, what time zone are you?"
I worked extensively in the medical field for almost a decade. I worked with many colleagues (nurses) who barely had enough sense to breathe on their own. Just because someone can pass nursing school and the NCLEX doesn’t mean they’re the sharpest knife in the drawer. Several of my fellow nurses seriously scared me with their lack of common sense.
I usually have some sympathy for these victims because I think a lot of what they do is because of loneliness and the need to feel wanted and valuable, after losing a spouse and their children growing up...etc. But, this one is beyond belief!!! Not only sending money to a complete stranger from the internet but sending naked pictures of yourself and not knowing who all will be seeing them and where they will end up?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! Unbelievably stupid!!!!!! And she is a nurse!!! Good Lord!!!!! She says he's "at least 8 inches" Obviously not only lonely, but horned up as well!!! SMH She could have bought a lot of "toys" for $83,000!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Anybody who sends ANY money is completely unaware of what is going on around them. Anyone who sends THAT MUCH MONEY because they promise to pay you back is ridiculously gullible. Who would send $83,000.00? Thanks so much for sending that money to a scammer so they continue to try to scam more people! Another RN? Come on...
@@n0ty0urgh0st2I'd laugh and say send double prints! I couldn't care less. If course I've never shared nudes but if I did it'd be my business and no one else's. Lose 83 grand or have someone see me naked? Show the world. Idgaf
I’ve never met a smart RN. People in the US become an RN because they don’t know what else to do with their lives. Same with teacher’s aides and real estate agents. The trashier version of that is to become a CNA.
I got about 20 of these scammer contacting me on Facebook in the last 8 months. I blocked all of them. I can’t believe women fall for this kind of stuff it’s ridiculous.
It's funny, as soon as I changed my outdated Facebook profile picture for a newer one that shows I'm 40+, these random "hello"s started popping up. I talked to one of them for a while to see what he was going to come up with. His story was that he was a native German living in Liverpool who lost his family to Covid back in April 20 when they went on holiday in China (!). And he was trying to relocate to Germany to start all over. Fun fact: I'm not German and don't even live in Germany. But as a professional translator it was obvious he was using google translate from some language other than English into German. I called him out on it eventually and he told me his German was a little rusty because his parents of course were also dead, as well as his whole family. He didn't have any friends at all and I was the only person he was talking to online, the only one he ever contacted. Long story short I had some fun wasting his time for a few days, asking lots of questions about the German town he supposedly grew up in and details about Liverpool he had to research. And requesting video calls that would make him go offline immediately. In the end he accused me of playing games LOL
People get scammed because they have more vanity or pride than is good for them. Everyone has pride issues, so be careful out there single people. Being single does not mean you're alone. You're with always with you, and you're fabulous.
This ain’t vanity. This is desperation and naïveté. Stop blaming the victims. Like gee, I guess it was native Americans who were too trusting of the settlers! Their fault!
Her husband passed in December of 2021. Then over nine months she sent Perry $83,000. She must have gone on that dating site before the body was even cold! He was the love of my life...I think not. She did not even go through thr grieving process.
yeah i noticed the narration said "after a few years of grieving she decided to get back out there" and im like... even now as i type this he hasn't been dead 2 years!
I believe the nude photo requests are probably blackmail collateral if she refuses to pay up
He probably sold them on the dark web
@@theartistcherrypi6454 haha, yeah cuz photos of some old woman go for lots
Where’s the link to hers? 😂
@@ericrivera8410 #SAVAGE AF 😂😂😂
Who in their right mind would send nudes to a 16yr old Nigerian...
She gave him $83,000 just so she doesn’t have to spend Christmas and New Year alone? For $83,000 you can travel the world on a cruise ship for an entire year and you won’t be alone at all there
For 80K she can have Christmas at my house
@@femalehuman8766😂😂😂😂😂😂 mine too
Hahaha
She also could’ve got her teeth fixed like Tom Cruise, got lipo (so she can actually look like she goes to the gym that many days a week that she claimed), or other cosmetic procedures like a facelift. 🤷🏻♀️
And meet someone nice on cruise 🚢
Is no one going to talk about the fact that he has her naked on screenshots or videos? Her naked self might come back to haunt her😢
I love how she said "he's good at what he's doing". No he's not. Any fool can see through these scams and this just proves "there's a sucker born every minute"- P.T. Barnum.
“I need $15,000 to access my $4 million.”
That’s not how banks work. 😂
Exactly. Some people just need to get out more.
Is she an idiot or what??? How did she pass the “nurses exams”??? Maybe she is an LPN, not possible an RN … too stupid to pass the RN exams. My goodness!!!
Common sense should tell anyone that.
@@princessmarlena1359 These people have more money than sense. But not for long. . . . . .
@@ferociousgumby you got that right!
Every time they say, "I want to confront him," I cringe. They do NOT care. It's the equivalent of telling a cashier you're no longer going to shop at a store. You're just a job to them. I wish there was some type of justice.
Or a Vegas card dealer that you're NEVER coming back!
@@susanlett9632 😂😂Right!
Romance scammers actually call their victims clients.
Good analogy. Whenever a customer told me he was going to Home Depot from now on, I couldn't care less.
as a cashier can confirm no shits given😂
I don't understand how these people don't hear the African accent. That's such a distinctive accent!
Right tho from the Babe to the accent lmao you can hear it’s Nigerian
I hear the accent in these videos right away!
Coz Caucasian Americans don't think west africans have technology or are smart enough to pull off these scams .Little do they know these ppl have elaborate networks
I agree! It’s actually a beautiful accent and unmistakable.
I agree. It's easy to catch
The words “get him home” is one of the big common denominators in all of these. 😵💫
If someone calls you babe, king or queen all the time instead of your name, its because they are scamming so many people they don't want to mess up and use the wrong name.
Real talk
Have you eaten today?
They don't want to confuse the name they're probably talking to a bunch of other people too
😊nailed it
Yep. Had a husband of 16 years who did the same. Found out later he had many women. He never called me by my name…..only mammi
How to know if it’s a scam?
1. Do they ask for money?
2. Do they ask for money?
That’s all you need to know
But what if they super duper promise to pay it all back? lol
Can people like you stop writing these comments, we know already 😅
3. They get angry when you don’t send money. 😂
4. They say “you don’t love me if you don’t send money”
It feels like “money” is the keyword here. Add a lot of greed and loneliness in the mix to get the perfect mix.
I almost feel that I should think of a career change! Picking up raisins on the beach during daytime and scamming them from home buy night. Think of his income if he has at least 10 of these in parallel, he could take over Nigeria. Or wait, isn’t there a take over of Niger right now?! 😂
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Give this man a prize!!! 👏👏👏🥇🏆
Him: babe i need $15000 for an ambulance uber
Her, a health care worker: Ok sounds legit
Private jet 🛩️ 😂
She puts her foot down at $83,000 ?! Meanwhile, my daughter asks her brother for $20 and is basically interrogated. He thinks about it for 3 days and he decides she is too big of a risk.
I kinda wish there were decent scammers out there. Like ... Scamming 83,000 from these ridiculously clueless people and then giving it to charity. Y'know there is a housing crisis in the world. Use your powers of persuasion for good. Y'know. Thanks Stephanie. You have housed three families. Nice work
Lol!! For real!
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😂😂😂factz my kids are the same o feel horrible to say this but i wish i could find some dummy like this lol sad 😞
2 wrongs does not make it right. Making someone fall in trouble for "helping" someone else doesn't make it right.@@beallobear
Please ladies, if a man is calling you a "liar" or "mean" or "manipulative" if he does not get his money, he is NOT romantic, and you're not in a "great relationship."
Why do you think these 50 yo people don't already know this😅
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤ true
More of a thing men need to hear tbh 😂
@@nobodythenobody9779Nah, women need to hear this.
@@NickyBlue99 probably everyone
All this for 8 inches???
A sex-worker would have cost less and come to you in a limousine, not an ambulance.
She was married for 31 years and recently just lost her husband and jumped into online dating and immediately gets scammed by a professional catfish…. And just because she’s a woman who is sexually responsive to a man she’s attracted to which is normal and healthy?
Your comment is ludicrous and disrespectful. She was looking for a husband and you know it…. It’s ridiculous to shame people in this day and age. Jeesh 🙄
@@HalfB I am commenting and this is my opinion. Being a woman in the same position as Steph - and a nurse as well, I think that allows me some kudos. Nothing wrong with wanting sex or paying for sex but call it what it is and stop being so gullible. Why are you calling me out when other comments support my position? I'm just calling a spade a bloody shovel.
@@HalfB She had a husband for 31 years, maybe she could have taken a little break, jeeeeeeeesh! She didn't have to hand over her life savings to find a husband!
@@HalfB Wait, wait, wait > She sent him $83-Th even though she was "suspicious" but sent it anyway just to hear a man tell her "I love you, babe"! [with an African accent] WOW! Never met him, not even video chat just a voice on the phone! Seriously? And she's a nurse, never mine I hope!
Good one 😂
Engineers do not pay for supplies, do not pay for labor, do not pay taxes on the job. Nope, this does NOT happen.
She was looking for a double payback due to greed and her loneliness fooled her. You can’t know about everything, but you can always behave safer.
@@stefanjohansson2373 finally someone else points out... these scammers feed greed and lonlyness or naivity, lonlyness (I have sick child, needs help and sometimes too high selfesteem...
@@JaimeMesChiens impossible for her to know about how a millionaire is living and how some banks maybe treats them better than average Joe. She was mainly greedy and lonely and dreamt of his 8 inches…
Enough with these self righteous women!! They willingly give their money to off shore entities in violation of U.S. tax and international money laundering laws!!! When will they be held accountable??
My father (RIP) was a project manager for engineering firms & did projects all over the world. The company take care of _EVERYTHING:_ Housing, food, healthcare, travel, the project costs of course (which are usually in the multi-millions,) dealt w/ ALL the paperwork/costs & the visas needed w/ the local governments. How are people this willfully blind?
I am continually amazed by the stupidity of people
i work with the public and i see it HOURLY
It's becoming more frequent. People are just stupid and easily brainwashed!!
Me too 😂
I try to be gracious and blame is on a lack of MATURITY...people who think the world is Disneyland and they can find their "true love"
I agree but they will learned thru bad experienced only its sad instead they enjoy their money for trips they make the scammer happy.
The guy's a real conversationalist. "Hello... Babe... Yeah"
If my own husband had called me when deployed and said "hello babe" I'd have said " goodbye hunny!' click.
You mean you didn't fall for him for that?
Ow... a real live wire
@@susanlett9632the word “babe” sounds chauvinistic and demeaning to me-super TURN OFF
He "demonstrates" that he cares. No he "tells" you. He hasnt demonstrated anything.
D. Demonstrate Value
- The D.E.N.N.I.S System
Totally. Talk is cheap.
And fell in love with her (How?) then said he wanted to get to know her. Huh?
I think the last time I believed anything a man told me, I was about 19.
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I am pretty sure he’s a Nigerian just from the “Hello”. 🤦♂️
Me too!
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I met many I am a widowed...First time I was scammed but not thousand.Then I still continue but when a man ask money I dont respect them specially never see in live cam or in person...When I check SCAMHATER so funny 10 men I met all there the real one.OMG hahaha
😂😂😂😂😂
She says “people shouldn’t be allowed to mess with women like this.” True. It’s also true that women shouldn’t allow themselves to be so gullible and desperate like this so that they believe the unbelievable. And this is an educated woman. Geesh.
Did anyone else notice the scammer couldn’t spell “Istanbul”? I know texting isn’t always perfect, but bad grammar and spelling (along with certain keywords) is a huge indicator the person isn’t the educated, professional person they say they are.
I once had someone contact me but their spelling was atrocious! I told him if he wanted to catfish me he’d have to learn to spell! He sent back an lol & that was it!
There were so many other red flags that spelling seems to be a minor issue in comparison.
Istanbul it’s also not the capital of Turkey. That would be Ankara.
Those texts we see on screen is most likely written by someone on the catfish team. They almost follow what is said in the interview with the victim.
So it's probably someone on the Catfish team who isn't a very good speller.
I noticed that too but I thought it was a different spelling depending on where you are from, like Florence, Firenze.
One of the biggest flags to me is when he makes HIS problem YOUR problem. He has a problem and the only solution to that problem is YOUR money. If someone approached you on the street and told you he needed ten thousand dollars because he was locked out of his account or he had an emergency medical problem or his child needed a computer for school or he needed a new cell phone or he had some legal documents that were going to cost thousands of dollars, would you just hand the ten thousand dollars over to him? Maybe I'm not a very nice person but I would try to be nice as I recommended that he go down the street to that bank on the corner and see if they would give him a loan. I've seen so many people agonize over whether someone is "real". Here's a suggestion. DO NOT SEND MONEY TO ANYONE...EVER...then it won't really matter whether he's real or not.
RED ALERT: You have never even met this man. You have no idea what type of person he really is. DO NOT let him see you without your clothes. ASSUME that everything you send him will become PUBLIC DOMAIN because it very well might. If he were 16 years old (and he very well may be) it would make more sense for him to want to get ahold of some pictures of a woman in the nude but a man who is 50 to 60 years old and is asking for nude pictures from a rank stranger is just plain strange. Do not turn over anything to him that you would not want to show up on the six o'clock news!
BTW, when a man tells you his account is frozen or he is STUCK in some foreign country, RUN, don't walk, in the opposite direction. The things he is saying is SCREAMING scam!
He said ONE thing that is absolutely the truth and you can bet the farm that it's true. He told you he would repay you "when he sees you" and that's probably the truth but the catch is that he will NEVER see you.
YES!!!! I totally agree with EVERYTHING u had said!!!!
That’s a great way to put it. 🙌
Yes! If some dude claims to have millions in the bank account he can't access, dude needs to be talking to his banker, not my random broke ass.
I agree. When did someone else's financial problems become someone else's responsibility?? My children are much more successful than I am and all five certainly have more money (I'm disabled. I have MS. I can only work part time) but even if the opposite was true and I had lots of money not one of my five children would ask me to pay their bills for them and I wouldn't unless it was a life or death situation and a one time thing!
Estambul…😂😂😂
Im content with my hamster. He never asks me for money. Just snacks.
Really? I should try that. Lol
Just coriander leaves and celery sticks or is he more demanding ??
I have to get one of these scam busters to call that hamster😂😂he is asking for too much snacks 😂😂😂
Can’t agree with you more! Pets love you and are safe!
😂 too cute!!
ANOTHER nurse. This speaks volumes. Honestly....
Nurses don't live in the real world!
@@Adrianafaith123 *American nurses.
Nurses deal with so much abuse in the healthcare field. No way to send that hard earned money to someone. She knew better, she just wanted this to be true..
@@Adrianafaith123???? I’m an RN..have been for over 34 years…I’m divorced …and in NO way would I ever 1. Use 0n line dating 2. Except friend requests from someone I don’t know 3. Give one red nickel to anyone I don’t know and even then probably not 4. Send suggestive pics to ANYONE…so do not make such a generalized prejudicial statement..shame on you …
Kinda of scary
these “deep” conversations they have always get me, it’s literally the most vapid surface conversations lmaoooo nothing about eachother personally. “how are you” “how did you sleep” “you are my queen” is NOT diving deep enough to learn to love someone
"I love you, I want to marry you, I will take care of you, I have four million dollars in the bank."
i loveyou , send money,have you eaten.have you broken fast,i dont have acces to my bank account, youre beautiful
They fall in love with their own movie in their head.
Lol now that's a comment I love lol
We the audience are only getting a snapshot of the conversations. Some of these people are in communication for months and years, so social catfish doesn’t have the time to allow us to see the entire conversation.
The economy in Western Africa 🌍 is booming because of people like her.
It’s true …
Rule #1: No relationships with ANYONE who is not in the country. No relationships with anyone who cannot meet within 7 days. No relationships with anyone who asks for money. Period. End of discussion.
Exactly, the point of dating apps is to find people to go on DATES with. I know several people who married someone they met online including my sister and the Maid of Honor at my wedding. But all of them lived in the same general area and met their partners for a first date within a week of meeting online
@@susaninika7552 why not just meet people in real life if you are just into people who live in your neighborhood, online dating to find someone 3 miles away seems stupid
No relationship with Anybody you do not know IRL .
That’s a good start. 😂
Generally sensible under most circumstances. I've met and am engaged to a chap from Texas (yes of course we've met a bunch of times), and he's moving over to England in the new year. I will say though, that long distance is exceptionally difficult and takes a lot of momentum and effort to keep going. It's certainly not an easy route.
She is such a wonderful humanitarian for funding a whole African village. Bless her!
You mean for funding Boko Haram? Not great.
This woman has done so many mental gymnastics and ignored every single red flag there is.
Look at the mental gymnastics Trump’s MAGA cult have to do each day. They have been trained for years not to think for themselves.
You never “met” and you never had a “relationship”. What is wrong with these people?!!!
Anyone who has an altar to herself (check fireplace) is a redflag. I've noticed after watching dozens of these vids, the 'victim' as a bit of a narcissist.
So disrespectful to her dead husband . The filth in photos etc .
@@theflacayeah I noticed that too
Desperation can be expensive.
@@theflaca I hadn't noticed that. Wow. You're right.
It never fails, all these women say “I am so intelligent. “No if you fall for scams you have no common sense.
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The worse case from catfish was the one where the lady was warned by her FBI friend and her bestfriend. She obviously discarded her bestfriend cos she implied her friend was simply jealous.
I mean, they will accept a diamond ring, a wedding ceremony, a honeymoon and a house to be with a guy for 7-15 years. This feels balanced and fair.
Why not? He told her she was the most beautiful woman in the world, so he was a man of common sense. She had common sense by agreeing with him. Makes sense.
But But But
Had a so called friend I met online who said he was from the UK try to low key scam me. After a lot of emails and messages, he started crying about owing money to his baby's mother in a way that I could tell he wanted me to ask about so he could ask if I could send him money. I never took the bait. I just told him I would pray for him as I was also struggling financially. Didn't take long for the emails to come a halt. Good riddance. Smoked him right out of his hole.
It’s surprising they are still “in love” even when the scammers get so aggressive about guilting them into giving money. The fact that you’re not turned off by someone being mean to you is alarming
She's desperate
They have been brainwashed. Parts of their brain/body are now addicted to the feelings created. It’s psychological abuse.
Akin to emotional abuse. Ie: knowing her hubby unsliced himself and threatened to do the same. A fantasy or harlequin romance novel version of Stockholm Syndrome.
A mix of greed and loneliness I guess.
she has a life lesson to learn. Once that lesson is learned, she will walk away from that red flag. when you look for the best in people, you forgive them for being mean, until you learn your life lesson and learn when to walk away
Desperation is a hell of a drug
She thinks that by confronting him, telling him she knows he’s a scammer, will make him feel remorseful and ashamed. She doesn’t realise he’s scamming countless women and men at the same time. As for sending naked photos..you can just imagine the laughs they have in the call centre.
He will just ask her for money to pay for his education.
Plus, it’s just whoever’s “on-shift,” ie rolling over to answer his phone and murmur disinterestedly…
Not to mention that these pics were likely requested to be used as blackmail.
@joanneford356 After getting used, her only recourse for taking back control and salvaging her ego is confrontation. But it's futile, just like when a girl unfriends a guy on FB who's mistreated her - the guy doesn't care! 😂
They still want to confront the scammer because in their mind, they still believe they will be talking to that person they fell in love. That person doesn't exist. The scammer doesn't care because there is no feeling, except the craving for money.
I say it every time. How do these adults fall for this obvious BS? It’s mind blowing
Same stupid plot lines.
Agree!
Not just that, but they always say the same thing. "I'm an intelligent person!" Are ya now, because from my perspective I would tend to disagree.
It’s the same as the people who end up in cults. They are missing something and someone is always there to prey on that.
Wishful thinking.
What they want has to be true.
If we felt sorry for stupid people we’d be sorry ALL the time!
I just have no sympathy anymore. Its just ludicrous to me that ANYONE would feel okay sending money to someone they have never met over the internet. Like seriously!
And before anyone says the obvious? I have met a significant other over the internet and the only one time he asked me for money because of his own circumstances at the time I just laughed and said no. As much as I loved him at the time and wanted to be with him I wasn't about to spend money I didn't have just to be with him. We continued to be close for another 3 years. and we continue to talk to each other off and on.
So as much as I was in love? To this day. We have never met in person. We loved each other at the time. But neither he or I sold our Soul for each other and made fools of ourselves
its hard to protect people from their own stupidity.
I love this saying!
Indeed. Fool, money, parted, all that. And she's an RN! Crazy.
"I have 4 million dollars in the bank...but i need you to send me money"...... makes sense.
Absolutely 👍 😂
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I have $ 30,00 dollars ,can u send me some money 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂so I can paid my rent this month 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂and buy me a good beer cigarettes
A scammer used this on a lady I knew and she fell for it. He claimed he had over a million in an account that was frozen until he could pay the bank $15K. I asked her: your bank takes money from your account for fees, his would do the same and there was certainly enough money in there!
@@Sashazur right,poor woman so desperate for a man 😂😂😂😂♂️
Why tf would you give thousands of your savings to somebody you never met face to face? Blows my mind.
Why would you send naked pictures to a stranger? Why send naked pictures to anyone?
Narcissism and greed?
Me too! Unbelievable!
Many people don't have thousands in the bank these days
@@terryKessler42719-so agree--it would turn me off even if I was previously attracted to the person-very low dignity makes me nauseous
The most shocking thing to me about 99% of these cases is that after being continually asked for money, being drained of their life savings and then being verbally abused, the victim always says if the person is real, they'd be happy to continue the relationship... WHY? I wish women learned to love themselves more and stop settling for these scumbags.
Agree. I mean there are all those red flags and then they still continue and think the person might be real and there will be a forever happy after. If you contact catfished deep down in your mind you already know that you were falling for a scam. They just want to have that confirmation. And contacting the scammer one more time to tell him that she knows he is a scammer, does not do any good. He just goes on and continues with somebody else. There are always others out there who are willing to give up their money, their house, and all their belongings.
1000000%. I've always thought this. Best case scenario you're dating a "good looking" guy who spends ALL your money and emotionally abuses you.
I also wish they would love their children more. She could have given them $40.000 each. Or it would have been a nice college fund for her grandchildren.
@@carmenl163 So many good uses money can be put to...
It’s not just women. Men fall for this at least as often.
She’s talking with Catfished staff as they are walking her through everything and she still thinks the scammer is real person and that they were in a relationship. Unbelievable.
First of all this woman is wrong. You CAN have a pacemaker/defibrillator in one device. I have one. It regulates my heart rate, AND should I go into a rogue rhythm it will give me a shock. She obviously isn’t a cardiac nurse. Second, this woman needs to understand that any man who will take $80,000+ from you whether they say they will pay it back or not, is a man you don’t want.
I think she was saying that he needed 2 different devices (pacemaker and defibrillator) with 2 different costs/procedures. Not that he needed a single device.
She never said she was a cardiac nurse just an RN dummy
Shut up, no one asked or cares
That's true, I have it as well it's one device
I thought so. They offered it to my father. Right or wrong, medically speaking, I think it was her conscience knocking.
The minute any man sends a d*** pic to me or asks for se** pics is NOT someone you should engage with if you are seeking a proper gentleman. GIRL have some dignity about yourself.
Particularly at her age.
@@hihoo7969 correct...in fact I don't fancy looking at myself in the nude LOL
Absa-freaking-loutly
@@Pecorino1954, same, lol
i get them send them sometimes, i usually say thanks, i'll forward this to all my gay friends, along with your details, they'll love it, or i send them that line in monsters inc; put that thing back where it came from or so help me
"I like to work out and stay in shape". I've got a feeling the gym is scamming her too.
Right. She says she works out 5 days/week. When I did that, I was thin and in great shape. I wonder what she's doing there. Probably trying to attract a young guy!
I didn't want to mention that but I was thinking the same thing
Same here! 😂😂😂😂😂😂@@dianamarie4351
Can you imagine the scammers laughing at this lady sitting there talking to him with her shirt off. 🤦🏻♀️
The Catfished group pointed out to her that their entire relationship consisted of sex and him asking her for money, and she agreed. Smh.
The channel deals with a lot of horny older guys, but the reality is women who are 50+ can be horny older women, and let it mess up their decision making.
Poor thing I feel so bad for her imagine losing the love of your life and then while you are vulnerable and just recovering from grieving you get scammed by scum. She wants sex and love , she deserves that.
I really hope she gets the support she needs ,all these boomers online are so reckless they need to be reeducated and this poor lady has already gone through so much , I hate how this scambags target vulnerable naive touch and love starved adults the scammers no people desperate for love and sex will fool themselves to get it, sometimes I think social workers should be able to intervene to helo this confused older people but thank goodness this yt channel did it.
Pay for lay
He went right away to talking about sex in a vulgar way and asking for money. How does that attract anyone? Any sane person would be turned right off by all that.
And she was ok with both. She wanted that sex! that’s why she sent all that money. The photo he sent her of his private part got the ball rolling.
He works in Turkey and can't even spell Eeeestambul right? Geez. I'd crack at that point.
😂😂😂
Yes, super funny
SO many of these women want that “final” conversation with the man, as if it’s an actual break-up. She goes not seen to absorb the fact that this person will not feel guilt because scamming IS HIS JOB and obviously, he’s good at it.
It'd be like cussing out a bill collector for harassing you at work. It's their job. They don't give AF
Maybe they’re hoping that somehow, some way, the guy might still turn out to be “real”.
Well spotted. It's hard to accept there was no relationship whatsoever, except in your mind.
right. it would be like yelling at a politician for helping the rich over the poor. they have their bosses even if the scammed don't like it.
The Nigerian guy is probably making close to the equivalent of 6 figures in his local currancy...probably living like a King..so asking him to feel remorse or have a conscience is pretty stupid..🙂
How can people give their life savings to someone that they have never met? It is so unfortunate that these people have so little awareness of the real world.
😂 I get the sweats buying myself a pair of 5$ thrift store shoes...idk what type of life these people are living.
Heck i feel sick to my own stomach looking at these gigantic figures they freely send away never to be seen again ..id just get a couple of dogs and never be alone plus have unconditional love plus as an added bonus a body guard
Her husband died in December 2021. Her spreadsheet said she loaned money in November 2021. The voiceover said “after a couple years” she started dating 🧐
Clearly cheated, boldy lied because she has changed the story in her head. Many signs of personality disorder.
Is it possible social catfish got the date of her husband's death wrong? If not, she was talking to this scammer 3 months before the "love of her life" died.
Yeah I don't get why the voice over said " after grieving for a few years" she decided to try dating, when she had , according to the dates, started this relationship before her husband's unexpected and sudden death
Oooo I was listening, so I didn't see that! And the """"relationship""""" was so sexual... If that's accurate then she was cheating and yeah, no wonder she got scammed.
If she knew all the answers why call for help
When asked to describe their "partner", these people always and only mention three things:
1. How good looking they are
2. How they say sweet things
3. How much they're looking forward to them "coming home" and all the money they'll have.
lust and greed
That’s right, lust and greed. That right on the nose.
Don't forget the salt and pepper hair. Plus they have great muscles. All this from a stolen photos.
Pure fantasy.
Bingo--shallow as hell
What's common with these stories is that the victims don't do anything until they have lost insane amounts of money.
The only victim I see here are the ppl that got their photos stolen.
@@ivanaandric5703look harder then
Yes it's baffling
correction: until they are almost completely out of money
@@ivanaandric5703 I agree...it's hard for me to feel bad folks who live in lala land giving money to people they never even met before. Goofy behavior imo
Why can‘t these women say, „I will be happy to send you 15,000 but my account has been locked. Could you send me 1,500 so I can get back into my account, honey bunny?“ You know I love you, right?
These women aren’t thinking straight or they wouldn’t send nude photos to the scammers. I wouldn’t give my husband a nude photo of myself so I know I wouldn’t give one to someone I never met. How starved for love are these women?
Lol right😅
Only after asking how they slept and if they've eaten today.
😂😂😂
They do, some send small gifts or reimburse small amounts just to keep the game more "realistic"
Why do these women believe that anyone has to pay to leave a country? Also, people who have several millions in the bank ALWAYS have access to their money. This woman is so ignorant of real life she shouldn’t be left on her own!! The fact that she is a nurse is horrifying 😱
LMAO , very true Megan
@@bloodyblade916 I don't think she meant that comment to be funny.
@@bloodyblade916
No kidding...she works out..?
Seriously..?
You could have fooled me. 😀
@@travismccloskey9733 probably not but I thought it was funny in a way
Totally Agree bro 💯
And the scammer now has pics of her which he could use to blackmail her…
Exactly!
I like it how these guys have millions, yet they can never access it.
It’s like scammer training school. Find an old battle axe; tell her how beautiful she is, call her queen or something, steal poems off the internet and say they’re your own, ask if she’s eaten, ask her to marry, on and on.
I found it interesting that the show states her husband passed away in December of 2021 and the earliest entry on her spreadsheet of giving money to the scammer is on November 24th 2021. The show also states, “After a few years of grieving…”
THANK YOU. I was hoping someone else noticed this. I don’t know why they said that because she was obviously doing this before his death.
@@sarahbellum380or, this show is fake. I’m starting to wonder.
@@sarahbellum380 So true! He found out about this and left her dish-rag ass!
@@mahkuntizitchy2083he committed suicide.
Woah, I didn't catch that. You're a sleuth, you are.... Wait, a sec: he looked awfully young to be dying, and she seems very ok with his death.... Uh. Ahem.....That's weird. She says he didn't want to be with her anymore, so that was fine, and then he died shortly after.
The minute they bring up they need money shut them down and block them
Yes. This is the bottom line.
I think the shut down should be when they start love bombing within a few days. Hi how are you/ you're beautiful/ ok I love you now.
I think that it's pretty clear that this woman has a very tenuous grip on reality.
lmao
@@elipotter369 Why not just look at pics of good-looking men and "fantasize"? Men do this all the time. Way cheaper, for one thing.
@ferociousgumby until onlyfans came along now alotta men are tilping these ladies a lot of money
OMG! What an embarrassment to the nursing profession! She thinks she's so smart but falls for a scam like this?
Who want to bet she have not even probably helped her own kids as much as she helped this perfect stranger. Smh
Selfish
Who wants to bet all these stories are completely made up
Facts!
I used to get so frustrated that my mother wouldn’t learn how to use a computer.
Thank god she didn’t.
After my father died I spent so much time just chasing off real men trying to scam her.
My mother was like these women in that she needed male attention and affirmation so badly. She would trust any man that smooth talked her.
She died last year at 83.
I am right there with you. My mother got involved with a real ‘player’ in the middle of Covid My mother was vulnerable to scams BIG TIME
Same! My parents are divorced. Thank God my father has zero interest with computers or even smart phones. My mother on the other hand my sister and I have had to monitor her social media and block scammers.
I’m sorry for her passing . 😞
She just set the entire nursing profession backwards about 50 years.
No, she revealed where it is
I’m scared to get medical care because of this woman 😮
In almost every profession you will find smart people, dumb people, people who are good at their job, people who are bad at their job, and people who are smart and good at their job *but* who lack common sense in other areas.
@Sashazur her erroneous comment about the pacemaker/ defibrillator combo is also reason for concern
@@missleader5262 I agree. Any nurse could be dealing with patients with implanted devices so she should know that. I knew that and I never worked in the medical area or anything near it.
After watching all these stories i have decided to create my scammer profile as well. All the profits will be going to charity
haha
I'ma keep mine whatcha mean 😅
No disrespect bro but you kind of look like you're from Lagos Nigeria 😂 it might not work so good for you bud 😂
@PjMetz-kc4hp it doesn't work that way I don't have to be me. I can even be Barack Obama. But I think easy targets would be Jeff Bezos or Elon Musk
I'd like to get some Lowe's and Home Depot gift cards! Fix up my house!
Real robin hood
There’s something so gross and insidious about these men getting sexual favors from these women while scamming them using someone else’s photo.
It’s to have another tactic to get money out of them. Once they wise up to the scam and stop sending money, they go from romantic talk to blackmail threatening to send the nude photos to family and friends if they don’t pay.
It's just as gross, and embarrassing, for a supposedly educated 60-something woman to send explicit pics of herself over the Internet to a total stranger. She probably would've grounded her kids for life if they'd done that.
Just like a PIMP
He is trying to get compromising pictures so he can blackmail her after.
@@withgoddessshe describes their relationship as him begging for money, buttering her up then insulting her and making threats then back to begging for money. That to me is a pimp prostitute relationship
Why do so many of these women, who are elderly and mostly unattractive, think that handsome younger men would want anything other than their money? It's bizarre behavior, completely delusional.
It's the men too. They're the same.
@@MissOrchid12 men at least know it's about the money, as the all men do on some level. We know women prefer to date "up", and we have to make a minimum amount to even be considered to date. so an ugly guy has an easier time thinking a hot woman is into him if he spends on her. It's always at least partially about the resources we provide
women are told they are 10s, perfect and deserve the best. The men on the show know they have to send money to a hot chick, it would be the same in real life anyway.
@@willdegra317Have you actually been watching these? The guys are just as delusional as the women. There was one guy WHO IS FAT claiming he doesnt want a woman who is fat. He didnt give her money, but he fell for an obvious crypto scam.
It’s sad really. They are soo desperate for love and attention that they lose their minds!! Zero sympathy…
Sounds like he was trying to put her in a situation to extort her with photos of her body. I've seen scammers result to threatening to post intimate photos if the victim won't send them money
Why do they always call it a "relationship"? You are talking to a scammer who is only interested in your money and who you will never meet in person.
"People shouldn't be allowed to mess with women like this." - YOU allowed the scammer to mess with you. Why do you assume this world is all sunshine and unicorns? All we can really control is ourselves. I'm really sorry you were hurt, but this is on you.
I picked up on that line as well! No shade, but it´s like these people believe everything needs to be laid out and broken down for them, so they don´t have to do any of the work! A lot of things shouldn´t be allowed, but they happen! it´s like they don´t know world history! After studying history, why would they think everything is gonna be, like you said, sunshine and unicorns?!
People always want the government to save them from their own foolishness. Be careful what you wish for. Once you have a Nanny State, it will be difficult to dismantle it. The government is already too intrusive in our personal lives and affairs, in more ways than we realize.
She 'allowed' him to mess with her...voluntarily...
No sympathy from me...she deserves all she gets
for being so & gullible & ignorant..☹️
Also, women are off the table but not men?
I agree! This makes me crazy. Men should come with warning labels? They never have before!
When she said he looked like he could be a model, I knew then that she was easy to scam 😩🤣
"I don't trust him."
"I send him money and nudes."
Insane
I wouldn’t do that if i trusted
❤@@catherinerickard699
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The abusiveness of this man she's in love with. Even if she hadn't sent him a dime, the red flags are amassing!! And after all that abuse: "He's someone I could be with," wistfully.
Seriously?!
I cannot even imagine having $80k to send to a stranger. If I had that kind of money, I’m sure I would find a better way to squander it 😔
Desperate for young man.... SMH
What about giving that money to your kids for Christmas? A nurse in a desperate need of mental health treatment
She believes she is getting that money back...
Sorry to say this ..but he looks like he might be gay..?
Pay for an escort!!
If he were Scandinavian, and needed some medical attention, a pacemaker or whatever, he could just go home and get that, for free.
Exactly. Maybe it would be a good idea to do some research before you send any money
I’ve been single since 37 and I’m now in my 50s after a messy marriage breakup that destroyed my soul. Loneliness is real but it’s a heck of a lot cheaper and less risk than falling in love online.
@@azazello1784 pets are good I have a toad.
Good for you. ❤
I'm 40. I have been in 2 big relationships including a marriage. I've seen my mum in a toxic marriage for my whole life. My aunts and uncles divorce, get new relationships, break up. Desperately looking for love.
I am SO happy on my own. I have my cat. I have my daughter. That's all I need forever. My happiness comes from me. It's not found in others.
How the hell did they keep the straight face when she said 'he said his was at least 8 inches' is BEYOND ME 🤣🤣🤣
Right!!!!!😂
Haven’t gotten to that part yet…I thought that they usually omit those types of details.
A LITTLE BIT of an accent? 😂😂😂😂 The delusion is out of this world.
Like maybe Nigerian?
I wouldn't trust a nurse like her with checking my blood pressure.
It’s terrifying that she has a license to be a nurse 😮
I wish the dating sites had a video people had to watch before signing up that gives specific examples of what fraud techniques to look out for. Maybe that would stop these vulnerable, lonely people from being scammed as often.
They have so many repetitive warnings it's ridiculous. Obviously people don't listen or care
Nope! 2023 we have video chat we're Grown people ❤
It's a great idea. But the people featured on this channel either wouldn't watch them or think it couldn't happen to them because they think themselves too smart to fall for the scam. But, in fact, their narcissism makes them sitting ducks for the scammers.
Great idea!
These dating sites for older people specifically is like shooting fish in a barrel.
Did anyone else think the way she described her husband’s presumable death, possibly suicide, was kind of odd? It feels to me like she’s not remotely processed that yet. This is probably just a huge piece of escapism for her - not having to deal with reality. Poor woman.
Yeah definitely off.
I agree. After my husband passed I got married again, all he wanted was what I could provide. I just didn’t want to be alone. It wasn’t a scam but just as bad. Being a weak woman I have allowed him to spend all of my 401k.
@@Cindymc211😢omg that's awful. Take care ❤
Right before Christmas too, with dependent children 😮
@@Cindymc211
That is why I never get married again or engaging in any relationship whatsoever. I’m happy alone and I’m content with my little Yorkie, she always loves me unconditionally and never asks for money or betrays me.
I’m happy and stay single.
Does she really think a grown ass man would act like that? If you say sorry I can’t give you money right now they cry, run into the street and think you don’t love them any more?? One second short of throwing themselves on the ground having a temper tantrum? Lady what kind of men have you been hanging around?!
Right, that sh*t was funny and sad at the same time.
Wash, rinse, repeat. The stories, the problems, the dialogue are identical. The women and men who fall for these scams need psychological counseling and support.
Second verse, same as the first. A little bit louder and a little bit worse!
Sounds like she’s about to get blackmailed with those nude photos since she blocked him.
Yup
Yup…And he knows where she works
The guy could have told me he loved me until the cows came home I'm not sending him any money I'm not sending him naked pictures!!!
These Karens are ridiculous.
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@@Pamela-zy7vcI'm just saying she gave me eighty grand I'd do something for her to earn it ;)
Why is she a Karen?
Yes she did not 'meet' or 'establish
a relationship' with the 'person' on the internet
Why do these people believe that a person would have an entire FOUR MILLION dollars in ONE bank account? That in itself is stupid.
Exactly. It makes no sense. And anyone who has 4 million doesn’t have to rely on someone they’ve never met, to help them with anything.
Why would she believe he's stuck in Istanbul when he messaged her and can't even spell it ... talk about red flags .
People with that kind of money don't keep it in a bank account, it would be invested.
@@elipotter369 Also a successful person from a Nordic country like Norway or Sweden would be fluent in English. There are a handful of Twitch Retro Streamers from Sweden and they all speak perfect English with little to no accent.
Greedy people are easier to scam. Nothing like a potential $4,000,000 payday to reel in a dirty old woman.
How can someone with the mental capacity to be a nurse be so goddamn naive? She recognized that he “looks Scandinavian” but not that he *sounds African.*
Says something about the corrupt medical community
I have started asking from the first contact, "How are things in Lagos?" And they're gone. I just thought of another one you can use, "What time is it now in Lagos, what time zone are you?"
I worked extensively in the medical field for almost a decade. I worked with many colleagues (nurses) who barely had enough sense to breathe on their own. Just because someone can pass nursing school and the NCLEX doesn’t mean they’re the sharpest knife in the drawer. Several of my fellow nurses seriously scared me with their lack of common sense.
Intelligence is no guarantee of common sense
@@StarchildSixxI’m in charge of 50ish nurses. You are exactly right
The ambulance will bring me to your home!!??? HAHAHAHAHAA I'M DEAD. Basically he was almost DOA, or what!? 😂😂😂
Bad enough to get ripped off of almost $100k, but the sexual component is just repulsive. Makes my skin crawl.
And those nude pics probably went to a group of teenage boys. 😮yuck
She was into it 🤷🏻♀️.
@@pizzapizza6756 ...which is even grosser.
I usually have some sympathy for these victims because I think a lot of what they do is because of loneliness and the need to feel wanted and valuable, after losing a spouse and their children growing up...etc. But, this one is beyond belief!!! Not only sending money to a complete stranger from the internet but sending naked pictures of yourself and not knowing who all will be seeing them and where they will end up?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! Unbelievably stupid!!!!!! And she is a nurse!!! Good Lord!!!!! She says he's "at least 8 inches" Obviously not only lonely, but horned up as well!!! SMH She could have bought a lot of "toys" for $83,000!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@keepinitreal833 OMG, for real! And her spouse had been gone for several years....some coping should have been accomplished in that time....
How could she fall for that claptrap about the plane and the ambulance??? Come on now!!! Jeeze!!😵💫
Anybody who sends ANY money is completely unaware of what is going on around them. Anyone who sends THAT MUCH MONEY because they promise to pay you back is ridiculously gullible. Who would send $83,000.00? Thanks so much for sending that money to a scammer so they continue to try to scam more people! Another RN? Come on...
She was probably worried about blackmail by then.
@@elianamckee that's exactly what I said in my comment. They will blackmail her and she will pay.
@@n0ty0urgh0st2 exactly
@@n0ty0urgh0st2I'd laugh and say send double prints! I couldn't care less. If course I've never shared nudes but if I did it'd be my business and no one else's. Lose 83 grand or have someone see me naked? Show the world. Idgaf
I’ve never met a smart RN. People in the US become an RN because they don’t know what else to do with their lives. Same with teacher’s aides and real estate agents. The trashier version of that is to become a CNA.
My eyes rolled so hard they nearly fell out in my coffee! I’m a nurse as well, we’re usually smarter than this, good lord!
I got about 20 of these scammer contacting me on Facebook in the last 8 months. I blocked all of them. I can’t believe women fall for this kind of stuff it’s ridiculous.
Yes me too and you can spot them a mile off! I block immediately
It's funny, as soon as I changed my outdated Facebook profile picture for a newer one that shows I'm 40+, these random "hello"s started popping up. I talked to one of them for a while to see what he was going to come up with. His story was that he was a native German living in Liverpool who lost his family to Covid back in April 20 when they went on holiday in China (!). And he was trying to relocate to Germany to start all over. Fun fact: I'm not German and don't even live in Germany. But as a professional translator it was obvious he was using google translate from some language other than English into German. I called him out on it eventually and he told me his German was a little rusty because his parents of course were also dead, as well as his whole family. He didn't have any friends at all and I was the only person he was talking to online, the only one he ever contacted. Long story short I had some fun wasting his time for a few days, asking lots of questions about the German town he supposedly grew up in and details about Liverpool he had to research. And requesting video calls that would make him go offline immediately. In the end he accused me of playing games LOL
@@annaf3915good job
I’ve been single for 23 years!!!all I wanna say it’s okay to be single! Ladies u don’t need a man to feel happy!
Love urself and respect urself!
That's right
She’s living in a fantasy world.
She heard 4 million dollars and her greed took over. This is about greed, they all are.
Greed and lust.
My hubby always says 'fear, greed and /or panic' leads lots of people into bad decisions.
People get scammed because they have more vanity or pride than is good for them. Everyone has pride issues, so be careful out there single people. Being single does not mean you're alone. You're with always with you, and you're fabulous.
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Yes it's narcissism and arrogance. It's not just "poor lonely person" we've all been lonely, guaranteed,.yes even at 20.
This ain’t vanity. This is desperation and naïveté. Stop blaming the victims. Like gee, I guess it was native Americans who were too trusting of the settlers! Their fault!
Her husband passed in December of 2021. Then over nine months she sent Perry $83,000. She must have gone on that dating site before the body was even cold! He was the love of my life...I think not. She did not even go through thr grieving process.
yeah i noticed the narration said "after a few years of grieving she decided to get back out there" and im like... even now as i type this he hasn't been dead 2 years!
10:12 look at the spreadsheet she made, she was sending money a month before her husband died, she’s no good
She said they started dating October of 2021. He wasn't even dead yet.
Her story doesn't add up
83000!!!! Oh my god! If I were one of her children I’d be so upset with her, give it to you children!
Another brilliant American registered nurse who hands over money to scammers in Nigeria to buy their love!
They need to revoke their licenses
😢😢😢😢 seriously
And did you notice how they often have an excuse for their 'accent'