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😂mmmm6 no
It is not enough to draw a red line over the EYES of an innocent person's face. Still, in most cases, the person's coworkers, family members and other acquaintances can easily recognize him - and quickly draw wrong conclusions about the person in the picture without watching the video - from their close relatives. And it's your fault - the publishers of the video! The easiest way to take into account the reputation of these completely outsiders is to make a black silhouette picture of the face and the fake name and question mark used by the scammer in red or yellow.
Don't play with the feelings of those who are completely outside the case!
They blurred the dog's face to protect his identity! I LOVE it🤣
I figured it had an identifying tattoo or birthmark 😂
It is actually pretty funny, but the dog’s face is searchable too and would lead to the victim.
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I think the women scammed somehow thoight Richard was still Franklin when they said they uncovered his real identity of that photo with his dog. This broad will be hunting down Richard and his dog, she is really in love.
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Nothing makes me fall in love faster than someone I've never met telling me to give them money.
100% 😂😂😂
Sad desperation
Exactly!
Well said!
Asking for money, asking me to go to WhatsApp will result in immediate blocking.
“He even asked my favorite color!” Ma’am the bar is on the floor
What's your sign?😅
Lol
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This woman is smart. She figured out it was a scam and stopped sending money. Coincidentally this happened just as she had no money left.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
obviously not smart enough...she fell for this bs scam
😂😂😂😂
No, if she was really smart she would never have sent even one penny
@@kathybrem880 wow you're really smart
Some people shouldn't be allowed to use the internet without supervision.
Agree!!! A man tried to scam me and I told him to get lost, that I'd seen him on Dr Phil. Never would I give anyone $$ who wasn't family or lifelong friend.
I just don't understand how these people go along with this when they've never even had a legitimate phone call or an in person meeting yet still send money on a regular basis. It's so sick and sad as if they are under a spell.
You said it all.
Hilarious and true.
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'I owe him an apology if he's real'.
What? For lying and treating you like a cash machine?
Yeah, even if he was real he would be a dick 👁️👁️
Why?
Is he an adolescent?
Are you his mother?
WHY OH, WHY do women feel it is their duty to dole out money to men?
Where is your dignity, ladies?
Seriously. If you don't give me the money I'm going to be pissed. What??
He owes her an apology.
I'm sorry but people like that are true pieces of shit.
I feel sorry for her dog. What a revelation to find out that you are smarter than your owner.
Yeah I feel she takes him for granted and he's a beautiful dog.
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😢😅😅😅
Its unhealthy and painful enough to be in a relationship with an abusive partner. Why anyone would allow themselves to be "cyber-abused" is beyond my comprehension.
Scary. Sad. Creepy...😮
Tough ----.😮
Boy, the first message "You NEED to send me money" would have gotten a big FU from me, and it wouldn't be a gift card.
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I always wonder what the FU means in that link lol 🤣
I couldn't believe she wasn't taken aback when he asked about equity in her home. They haven't even met so what's that to him? Crazy. Oh and scammers don't even ask, they just say "I need." Um NO
My Reply to Such a Message: "That's funny. I was about to ask YOU to send ME some money." Watch the scammer disappear real quick like!
@@Esther0393 or tell them no, you can't help and they'll also go away. And right!...They always have so much money but it's always tied up and always need something.
How shameful. I'm an older man. I'm dating. I'm on OKCupid, and I don't care how desperate I was. I would never in a million years ask a potential date for a dime. That's embarrassing. Men don't ask women for money. I'd rather panhandle for a week by the freeway than ask a date for a dime. Women should remember this. Real men don't ask real women for money. End of story. That's the test. That's it. No further investigation required.
I think it’s important to add the caveat that if ANYBODY you don’t know asks you for ANYTHING valuable (not just money, your social, birthdate, pictures of you or your family, address, phone number etc) DO NOT SHARE IT.
There are employment scams, refund scams, inheritance scams. So many. Basically if it’s something you might need, there is a scam out there to cover it.
Thank you!!!!
Great advice.
Respect to you sir.
Duh you so right
Facts. And as a 53 year old woman I don't ask men for money.
Don't ever apologize to a man who speaks to you so abusively or pressures you for money. You have children to raise. If this guy is real he's a user and abused.
It’s very depressing how she says “he sent me this beautiful email” when actually I get warmer messages from a random work colleague or my electrician. “Good morning, I hope this email finds you well.” The love!
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How much$$ do you need?😅
How did this woman survive 50 years on this earth? Unbelievable.
I'm sensing she has suffered from abuse previously as this man was very abusive and she ignored the signs
Lol
IKR? smmfh
under a rock, isolated ???
“If Frank is real, I’ll have to apologize to HIM” … No, girl, dump his @$$ regardless and apologize to yourself and your kids and move on. No one deserves your last dollar besides them.
Telling a stranger online your address when there's kids in the house never sits right with me
That is because it is dangerous and just plain stupid.
@@Plethorality That’s probably why she’s constantly been single. She sucks as a person and guys of decent quality wouldn’t want her.
Crazy😮!
That is a predator invite...
He’s rich, with lots of funds … but needs $500.
Even if he was real, why was she OK with him talking to you like that? I don't get it.
EXACTLY!!!
Right! “You need to” …. boy bye
It irritates me when people who have children or pets will send their (almost) last dollar to someone they've never met. If there's an emergency with any of them, then what? And in this case, the scammer is demanding that she sent her last dollar. Real or not, why would someone want to be in a relationship with someone who would treat them that way?
Me too.sad for the dog😭😭
I agree...if the dude was real surely he has other people he can borrow money from
Exactly, shame on her!
I say the same thing pretty much after every new episode. I have said this before there was a single mom in England who was forced into going to a food bank for tins of soup as she had sent all her money to s scammer that one made me cry.
@@FreeRadicals305 Shame on her?
Let's not get outta hand, it's her money.
If she wants to shred it or set it on fire that's her choice.
A stupid choice.
But still HERS to make.
“He made me feel wanted”. Yeah, he wanted your money.
Yeah. Nicole said the same thing about OJ.
Frank asking her what she ate for breakfast was a red flag and when she told him she doesn't eat breakfast but continued to ask what she ate for breakfast was double red flags 🙄
Idiots like this woman are hard to feel sorry for. She could have figured out this whole thing was a scam with literally 10 minutes of online research. Fact is, she didn't want to know this was a scam. She wanted to waste money on this ridiculous online boyfriend fantasy.
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Hahahaha😮
The absolute NERVE, the GAUL, of anyone to tell you or demand you take out a loan from your boss!! Why wasnt she outraged?
Gall
Yes, gall. Gaul is divided into three parts...
@@HO-bndk😂 good one
@@HO-bndkCaesar's Gallic Wars. Opening lines. Latin.
@@HO-bndkCaesar
Usually scammers try to be nice and sweet. This guy was an absolute prick and she still went along with it all.
And she gave him all money she had... 😮🤯
Could this happen to anyone? I had a guy ask me to borrow $20 after knowing him a week and I told him its sad and pathetic to ask to borrow money from a single mother that he hardly knows. I was totally turned off by a guy asking me for $20 (in person not even on line)! My heart does go out to the gullible! Raise your bar when it comes to men.
20$? wow thats sad
you did the right thing, ghost anyone who asks for money !!
I've had women ask me for money. I'm like yeah no.
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Yea ur right!!! 💯 I’m going say same crap $20 very low bum they don’t Even have $20 and especially if they trying to see you romantically huge turn off.
"He made me feel wanted..." 😂 He's mean and "demands" money from you and you feel wanted? Get help!
Yeah wanted for an atm
Or a lobotomy...
Get a lobotomy.😮
It's crazy that she still wanted him after the rude demands he made on her.
She liked it. Weird😮
Victims so often say they’re so happy their instincts were right.
WHAT???!!!
Their instincts should have been right thousands and thousands of dollars ago!
What idiots.
Even if he was real, why would you want a man like that? He's super aggressive about getting money, near threatening, involved in many suspicious activities overseas.
"Why did you do what I tell you? Now you're going to have to send me more money"
How does someone let a stranger talk to them like this??
exactly!
Every time i watch these episodes i feel my blood pressure going up because of so much stupidity!
Internet scams started day one.
it’s painful to watch
The demand for a screen shot of her bank account really lit me up.
You know that's right! They are a bunch of idiots.
But the images had date stamps on them! You can't edit images!
The guy was not just a scammer, but he was also a bully. It’s crazy that she accepted that type of behavior. If someone told me they’d be angry if I didn’t send them money, I’d say see ya and let the door hit me in the ašš on my way out so that Id know better than to turn back. Thats a huge personality red flag.
They fall in love with complete strangers that ask them the most basic stuff. Its really pathetic and sad.
Right? Can you imagine sitting on the bus "have you eaten my Queen? Send me $1300 for rent or we can't talk anymore" or something? That's about the gist of it
It’s astonishing that this woman feels the need to justify herself and her finances to a complete stranger. I will never get this.
This is one of the most shocking cases of catfishing and one of the most clueless victims I have ever seen. He literally starts demanding her money just a month after they started talking, and somehow she never saw a red flag in that, she just kept going, playing his games, meeting all his demands. She literally had to make up lies, excuses, and schemes to handle the situation, but it never crossed her mind to stop for a second and think that it should be him giving her all sorts of justifications as to why he was demanding her money, not her explaining herself to him. It's just mind-blowing, I will never get this either. She was actually even thinking she might owe him an apology. It's like Stockholm's Syndrome on steroids.
Ta ridiculous I hope she never raised any children.
They hide behind “loneliness “ and that’s bullsh*t 🤦🏽♀️.
Something is seriously wrong with some of these people.
Why is his face blurred.
Why is his face blurred.
@@tmcurlyshe has children.
Who asks a casual online acquantance for money for business purposes? Don't vicitms wonder how this person has managed for decades?
They make up BS stories that sound like obvious lies to most people but preys on the vulnerable and naive. Things like a big inheritance is coming and they just need a little help, they’re stuck in a foreign embassy with no access to their bank accounts (but assure that they’re loaded), a big box of gold and jewels in a box is waiting but have to pay the customs, all BS but all with a lot of money coming in the near future to pay them back and take care of them for life so they fall for that on top of wanting to be loved. They hook them with love first by “love bombing” to earn their trust.
Yea I do
Same thing with the CIA guys getting stuck abroad and needing money for a ticket home. How is the CIA still a thing when they can't provide basic transport for employees lol
I think that sadly the reason these women can get victimized all can be drawn from loneliness and zero self esteem. I say they deserve to get got cause she was reaching for a man who in other circumstances she knows wouldn't consider her more than a granny type figure . I say she knows it cause why not go out and try to meet a local man her age and in her range as far as looks
@@tinejensen8309 I sometimes wonder if these scammers deliberately make up the silliest story they can think of, just to see what they can get away with. Who buys this kind of nonsense? It's beyond me.
The breakfast thing is a red flag right there. Guy can’t even be bothered to remember the details of his plethora of victims
“He sent me a beautiful message for my birthday from Ghana” 😂 then proceed to ask her for $600 on her birthday 🥳
Happy Birthday!
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He wanted her to take out equity in her home. Drain her bank account. Send him her paycheck. Be late for work to send him money, and told her she wouldn’t get fired. Mutual funds. On her 50th birthday. That’s a keeper!
Yes! What a gem. Maybe I'll start dating again. LOL
Low intelligence. 😮
I bet if her kids asked her for that money it would of been a problem.
@Porcini ..I'd bet that you are correct 😂🤣😂
Would have been
U right probably this chick priorities r messed tf up
100% i agree.
Even if she gave it away,it's HER money.
These people who talk every single day. I don’t talk to anyone every single day unless my son is at my house. That would drive me bonkers.
If a man said you have to send me all your money or I'll be pissed id literally laugh!! And send him pictures of me spending it in various ways 😂
This woman who has her children living with her told this criminal her address? That's insane. Not to mention sending all her money to him. What a negligent caregiver.
Exactly!! wtf 😭🫣
tbh hes not coming from Nigeria but its all stupid
NEVER EVER send a stranger money!
They can kiss my ass! Id NEVER send a stranger money!
Period.
Yes Darcy it's been said a million times
@@flblackbutterfly1 full stop not period.
I'd be even cautious sending money to ppl I know.
Jesus christ. He had the audacity to blackmail her psychologically to get money from her or else he ll be pissed??? And you told him that you won't have money for rent and he didn't give a damn? And u still kept senting? Lady why Why???? U deserve so much better
That's the problem, they're self service and feel entitled to use people to advance their own lives. It's pathological. They're evil a-holes.
Apparently she doesn't think so.
I think the dog is the only innocent one in this story 😂😂😂😂
Agree.
She paid for a fantasy. I can’t believe she told him “the only thing I have left is my paycheck” These people are absolutely desperate 😂
Simps i guess
You are right it is a fantasy.. people are in love with their own imaginations.. it is unfortunate.
Its always BELOW AVERAGE looking women who don't think they are. Its A PATTERN.
@@Ephemeral2023 Bahahaha! Fax
She, and other people in these videos, received EXACTLY what they paid for. That's why they keep going back. A comfortable fantasy. A boyfriend/girlfriend experience.
You blurred the dog's face. Good on ya. He doesn't want to be associated with scammers, just like his owner.
It’s not the real guy. The guy in the photo is not a scammer his pic was stolen. Do you all not watch the stories 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
@@dw6418 I think it was a joke
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God, it doesn’t even matter if he’s real or not. He treats her horribly! Then she says she would apologize to him if he were real? Girl. Seek therapy.
She needs help. Now.
This woman continued to send him money despite the fact that he is not only a complete stranger, the attitude and tone he gave her when he asked for money, like 'it's my money, send them to me now'. I would never let family members or friends talk to me that way, especially if they are asking for my money that I worked hard for. It's CRAZY!
Fact
This scammer is even very rude. Difficult to understand why anyone would continue sending him money.
Imagine getting pissed. because someone can't send you money they don't have.
I know it is hard to understand but that is actually part of the manipulation. Nice then nasty then nice again. It's a tactic used by abusers to de stabilize the victim and confuse them. It's part of the grooming. The victim will try harder to please the abuser so they will be nice again. It's twisted but it does work. Cult leaders also do this and pedoph***s.
@beingchanzi.1285 It's part of the scam. If the victim isn't put off, then they know they have you on the line.
Easy way to find the professional victims. Most people would tell someone to go swivel if they were spoken to like that but if you're still hanging on they know they have a keeper.
Sheer desperation on her part.
Wow. “Happy Birthday. Now send me all of your money.” 🤦🏾♀️
Ikr!
That’s messed up!
Yeah that was something else!
Right? Such a gentleman, a true romantic! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
What kind of parent sends all her money to a bloke she’s never met? If you have pets and/kids you’re responsibility is to them first.
Text: "I'm going to need to come up with $10,000"; correct response: "Good luck with that." Text: "I don't understand why it's so hard for you to do what I tell you. You're going to have to send me more money now...."; correct response: "Screw you." Text: "Kristina you need to send me the money or I'm going to be pissed"; correct response: block the POS.
Why do women like this think that it’s their responsibility to help a grown ass man with his business expenses?
Because they are woman like this
If he's not real (100% certainty) then he is scamming you. If he is real then he is a complete loser for asking you for money. Either way stop being desperate!
Delusional women are a scourge!
Amen!
This. Don’t get me wrong if my partner of four years needed money, I’d be happy to help him out if I can. But we’ve been together for 4 years. We’re together all the time. We recently got back from a trip to see his parents.
People need to calibrate.
It is so hard to feel sorry for these people.
Lonely unattractive women 😂
A domestic abuser would LOVE to get their hands on this woman. She’s the perfect target for a person like that, so easily steamrolled and bullied into compliance.
How many times do we have to scream it from the hill tops? Do not send money to people you’ve met online and never met in person.
Apparently not enough
Mind boggling!
Scream it continuelesly until the end of time & still it seems that wouldn't be enough
Or to any man, regardless. He's supposed to do nice things for you. There's a reason for this cultural norm, to help women weed out the weak, insolvent men who will not be good providers for their future family.
This is about on the advice level of 'make sure you look both ways when you cross the road'
“I don’t understand why it’s so hard for you to do what I tell you to do.” “Send the money of I’m going to be pissed.” Why in the world put up with such a jerk, even if he were real, and he didn’t ask for money???
My response to him would be, "Well, it totally sucks to be you "Franklin"!
If my husband had talked to me like that when he was deployed (25 years military) I'd have told him "idk who tf you think you're talking to but you better calm tf down or ask yo mama!" I'm dead serious!
@@darcylett486 exactly! I'd tell him to go suck an egg
When my husband was deployed and we talked I can promise if he said something like that I'd have laughed, cussed him out and hung up the damn phone
Because that's part of her online boyfriend fantasy. She likes men bossing her around. Probably fits the pattern of her past actual boyfriends. She went online looking for a man to fulfill her fantasies, and that's what this (probably Nigerian man) provided her.
5 Red Flags
1. Never video or phone chat you.
2. Sending a gift too soon
3. Being abusive on ANY form!
4. Texting way too much.
5. ASKING FOR MONEY OF ANY AMOUNT!
Do NOT do it!
My Queen, my baby
Works in the army abroad.
Works on an oil rig
Has problems when flying home and ows customs money.
And being far more attractive and FIT than you are.
Asks you if you’ve eaten
"Send me all your money or I'll be pissed". 🤣 "Happy Birthday. Send me $1300" 😂 Her: "I only have $300" Him: "Well then send that"😆
😂😂😂😂😂
This is one cold scammer. No "my queen"? "I love you"? This one is focused and cold as stone. I wonder how he managed to seduce her? You can feel the psychopathy in this texts.
I think she thought that he cared for her saying that he didn't want her to hurt herself renovating, and calling her beautiful, and sending her flowers.
@@JaimeMesChiens what a horrible comment
This is a very efficient scammer. "Hi, happy birthday. Okay, enough talking, send ALL of your money to me right NOW!!" 😂
@@JaimeMesChiens Working? 😂 You think scamming people online is 'working'? 🤦♂🤣
That he asked everyday what she had for breakfast, even if she said she never eat breakfast, is such a clear sign that they just follow like a standardized script saying the same things to a number of people. Like
At x time, say good morning to client a, b, c, d, e, f and ask what they had for breakfast. Perhaps they even have a bot that sends out that message at a certain time.
Them asking for favorite color, flowers, birthdays etc could be a way to find out as much about the person to get to their accounts and passwords. Never tell people you don't know your mother's maiden name, your first teachers name, your dad's middle name, first pet's name or things like that, even if it could seem like innocent questions.
(And of course... goes without saying, never use your pet's name, or your kid's birthdays as your passwords...)
You hit the nail on the head! The breakfast question is possibly the most obvious way of knowing that you're talking to a scammer. There usually are so many of them working together to release you of your hard earned $$. If you hear "How was your breakfast dear"? Run, and run fast! Lol 😋
@@KimberlyHolland0205 My friend was scammed recently and she said he always asked what she had for breakfast....I said I thought it was odd - then I realised that obviously he was reading from a script every day. I hope they all rot and burn in hell
@@mariarobson8116 Yes, they have plenty of scripts for everything. Try the channel Kitboga. He covers every scam imaginable. He plays and old grandma a lot, and he takes these fools for a crazy ride sometimes for hours at a time. They scream, beg, and some even cry when they get nothing. He has a completely fake computer along with fake bank accounts and can play many different people at a time. It's great fun to watch them get what they deserve. He does it with class too, which is cool to watch.
@@KimberlyHolland0205 kit is hilarious. I also like perogi
If one of these victims asked the scammer "what's my name?" They'd save themselves a lot of heartache
Imagine have standards so low, that a man asking you for money is acceptable. Incredible!
So as long as Frank is real then it's perfectly acceptable that he demands money from her. WTF!
I love scambaiting the scammers. I have fake name, an email for junk and a VPN. I love building them up just to tell them NO when they ask for money. It is satisfying. I love when they say “you are so hard on me!” I love to make them dread every moment of talking to me but unable to stop thinking they may get money.
Me too girl!!!!!! I’ve only done it once but I loved sending an atm receipt. My husband is the recipient of a structured settlement so I can have like 70k in checking & it’s like LOOK AT ALLLLL THIS MONEY YOU CANT HAVE BABY. So satisfying
Maybe I need to start doing this lmao !! Because it sounds like a good time 😂
You must have a lot of extra time
@@strawberryseeds I know I do. My kids in school now & I have a good 8 hours of free time a day
Sounds like fun
The same story over and over.. Lonely, desperate and gullible people. So sad..
Whenever I feel down or depressed I watch one of these episodes and it makes me feel much better.
Y’all saw that text at 5:43?!
I would have got out my folding chair immediately!
The nerve to demand 😡 and she didn’t even realize there’s something wrong with that
People in business can get bank loans. They can borrow from family, friends and colleagues. They don't need to borrow money off a woman they just met on the internet.
@@JaimeMesChiens the high she gets from his attention clouds their judgement
Something that really bothers me with so many of these scammers and victims, is when the victim says they don't have money to send, the scammer gets really nasty and threatening, and the victims are just like 'oh this is fine, they are still this amazing person that I think I'm in a relationship with'.
If any of these relationships were actually real, these victims are absolutely okay with being straight up abused, and that is seriously concerning. I have seen countless romance scam victims show messages (and scambaiters are showing the same kind of messages, so it happens across the board with romance scammers) where the victim says they are literally broke, and the scammer says oh you're lying, you are so awful, you don't really love me, ect ect'. So these scam victims would still marry and spend their lives with someone who spoke to them this way frequently.
It just adds a whole new level of awfulness to the whole scammer/victim dynamic, but also makes me wonder what these people would put up with in a real relationship.
Totally agree!
Now that you brought that up, it's scary to think about. These people would literally marry people who verbally and mentally abuse them 😔
Even if I know the person, personally...it's none of their business how much $$$ I have....bring up $$$...and thats the quickest way to end my friendship !
you are right but I think there's also a degree of desperation on the victims' end... some of them have never had a relationship or haven't in a long time, so they'll do anything to have some form of a relationship
Same thing I said.
“Then you need to send the money right now”.. boy please, you would just have to “starve”. She is dense.
Doggo giving her the side eye.. 😂Wish he could talk some sense into her 😂
I'll never get over these women sending strangers money and believing these immature stories. These are mature women! They're raising kids or have raised them.
LONELINESS... Believing, he might be my Prince Charming
@@sunshineproductions4122 Prince Charming draining their bank accounts? Lonely, spend time with their kids or get a cat.
They are idiots, I'm sorry to say.
@@sunshineproductions4122 Beyond loneliness. Stupidity more like.
And people they never had a verbal conversation with.
What shook me so much was that she thought she might owe this horrible person an apology..the abusive things these guys say seems Not to put them off in anyway..Never be sorry for not sending money.
Yes and the way he spoke to her, such a hateful, demanding tone!!! On THAT alone, I say DUMP HIM!
The first time he said something mean to me he would be history
@@EuleneWages4644 Me, too! Anything mean/abusive, and I'm out.
@@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529 👍🏻👍🏻
Exactly. She needs to get therapy for self-esteem issues.
I'd rather have my money and be alone than be with a loser man that constantly asks for money.
Wonder what her kids lost out on as a result of her emptying her bank account to please him. How can a person be that desperate for a man they don’t even know?
Needs adult socialization: What about hobbies, meetups, volunteering?
@RedPilledReyes stop trying to get with commenters 😮😂
@RedPilledReyes Are you on an Oil Rig by any chance? Maybe Brinda can help you with covering for the exploding barrels.😂
These guys go from super sweet to rude and forward overnight. Doesn't this scream red flag to them? I would never continue talking to someone that spoke to me that way!
Had them cuss me call me greedy which then I just block
Right? Let’s say it’s that rare case where they are legit and just broke. You speak to me like that even once and I’m gone.
Like “but he/she might be real!” And? They’re still abusive. Fuck em
Happens irl too. Abusers luring partners by love bombing then eventually turning into domestic violence, let alone just rude. Don't want to read too much into a back story that we don't know, but I suspect she's got some history. Unfortunately the abused tend to have a pattern of seeking validation and attracting further abusers...
Yeah they're pathetic. Kowtowing to some dumb loser
I can't believe these women really believe the scammers. I would block anyone who asked me 10 dollars.
no one asks me, my former friend got taken for 800.000 her husband had died and that was his work life insurance. They asked the scammer for help in how to invest it he took it by having her put it into a crypto account she never checked on it and he started asking for gift cards and loans she finally had checked her crypto account and the money was gone,
It's mindboggling that all these men say the most clichéed things, real platitudes, and these women take them as unique personal messages.
They are so hungry for attention
What I will never understand is why these people send money to someone who is openly demanding and abusive. Even if they weren't getting scammed, why would you stay with someone like that? That's just absolutely insane to me.
desperation and loneliness
She sounds so excited that he even asked her favorite color!
Lol, it's question 3A in the scammer's playbook!
That makes me wonder if her past husbands abused her or not.... She seems to not mind verbal abuse and thinks it's sweet when a man does the bare minimum 🤔
@@LydiaIndica that is an interesting thought. How sad!
@@LydiaIndica women who are abused sometimes accept and EXPECT to be abused again .
It’s normal to them . They are just repeating the cycle
@@B.H.56 lol!
I love when they’re like “he asks me so many questions about myself, about my kids and where I live and even my favorite color!” because the scammer is just using the info to populate an excel spreadsheet for reference later.
That’s it! I officially no longer blame the scammers. These people make it too easy and deep down know that they’re not talking to the person they claim to believe they are. They are basically renting attention and digital companionship. I say get paid scammers!
keep watching, there are worse ones than her - it's an eye opener
People, please stop giving out your address to people you’ve never met! Even just for flowers! That’s not why they want it and ESPECIALLY if you have kids living with you.
@RedPilledReyes Go away, she's MY queen!
Even if he is real, he would still be a swindler. A gentleman will not ask a lady he has just started to talk with for her money also. I am glad she wizened up.
Tru Dat !
i don't know how people could let this happen to themselves. the fact that this woman actually felt she had to take a screenshot of her bank account to show that she didn't have any money is beyond my comprehension.
I once met a girl on Tinder, and within 5 minutes asked if she could 'borrow" money. even asking for $5 right away is a big red flag. no way.
the f*cking audacity to tell someone to ask their boss for a loan so they could send you more funds.
The dog having a blurred face is hysterical- we all know, the jig is up! You're a German Shepherd and you look like one! 😂
It’s soooo hard to feel sorry for people who willingly give money to people they’ve never met 😞
@RedPilledReyes Give it up, Slick. She's not sending you any money.
I don't need much, babe.
Cristina, you have to change your tone !
Hope can sometimes be a dangerous thing.
Like another comment when I saw the blurred dogs face ,just made me laugh.
A businessman would never ask you for money so that's a red flag right there!
This woman is insane.
Look at her.
This one really blew me away because he was literally bullying her and she STILL sent money. He negged her and it worked. I'm just shocked.
Why do they call it "stealing"? The women whole heartedly give these scammers their money.
Although it's true that they send the money themselves, if the person promises to give it back, but never does, then it can be called 'stealing'.
Exactly, just let a burglar in your house…as long as they are sweet and call you hunny and my Queen 😂😂😂
Yes, but it is under false pretenses.
Yeah fr. It's like leaving your car unlocked and being shocked ur stuff was taken
They blurred the dog’s face. 😂
a man that asks for money is a big NO.
This is why we need to teach critical thinking in schools.
He’s not real! At 50 you should know better get real!
If he has money. Why is he not spending his. No bank will never keep you from your money.
don't be so sure of that. a small country about 2 yrs ago, got in bad shape & shut the banks down. u can' get ur money if the acc. is frozen. they ended up stealing some of the people's money.
....i went to my bank to draw my money out except for $150. they told me i could only draw out a $1,000. i ask-
she said it started in dec. 2022. i've been doing this for 5 or more yrs. if i go to the main bank,tho, they will.
i told her that's convenient!! on the other side of town. ..u better start thinking rational about the world we live in now & protect ur self from what's coming!
If we go to only digital currency as the WEF/ Klaus Schwab want us to, YES, THEY CAN AND WILL. It happened last year in Canada when Trudeau had the banks stop access for the protesting truckers to THEIR OWN MONEY. It's in the works, unless we wake up and stand up to it, by paying cash/ frequenting businesses that accept cash (and I do NOT mean in Ghana or Nigeria! 😀) Cheers!
I’m 51 and have 2 teens and there’s no spare time. I don’t have time to date and don’t want to! But just enjoy being a mom and I work full time and I have my dog and my hobbies and friends. I’m always busy! She should spend more time with her kids.
Anyone who makes your life more stressful and hard, is NOT someone who cares about you
A REAL man...would never ever want you financially strapped
Even if 'Frank' was real I could not put up with rude, aggressive, demands of cash. Such a catch!
Every victim the same scenario: They will pay you back, offer you luxurious life.
The fact they send flowers to your own door is really creepy. Is somebody checking out your property/assets?
Are you speaking with someone, who has actually been watching you? The victim selected purposely, through the dating site ((your profile picture/location).
This person knew that 'Christina' had little more value to chase. Their intentions were to fleece 'Christina' out of every penny she had. Then just drop her.
Save your hard earned money for yourself. Never send or borrow money to anyone.
Hadn't thought of the address verification with flowers. Then, a few clicks on Zillow and they know the house value, if it's a rental, more.
Block him first time
She gave him her address….you think she stopped at all her bank information and personal identification information?? she’s just trying to save face like he “got the address” somehow Lmao.
Will a decent man ever ask you to “lend” him money? How is it possible that a mature woman with good kids and a lovely dog sends all her money to a photo?
A totally lovely dog that she didn't even mention at all. That dog deserves better.
I think some of these women would think twice if a family member asked for a large amount of money. But a total stranger, yes sure I'll empty my bank account for you, even sell the house whatever you want.