I quit my PhD a year ago. This is what happened.

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ม.ค. 2020
  • Timestamps:
    2:11 Do I regret leaving my PhD?
    3:02 Highlights from 2019
    3:53 Vsauce3 story
    6:28 Veggietales
    6:54 Lowlights
    9:52 How do I get paid?
    11:14 A day in my life
    12:57 What do I miss about my PhD?
    14:17 Am I thinking about going back?
    14:42 Do I think other PhD students should quit?
    16:41 Patron Cat of the Day
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  • @tibees
    @tibees  4 ปีที่แล้ว +813

    Timestamps:
    2:11 Do I regret leaving my PhD?
    3:02 Highlights from 2019
    3:53 Vsauce3 story
    6:28 Veggietales
    6:54 Lowlights
    9:52 How do I get paid?
    11:14 A day in my life
    12:57 What do I miss about my PhD?
    14:17 Am I thinking about going back?
    14:42 Do I think other PhD students should quit?
    16:41 Patron Cat of the Day

    • @yashveersingh1795
      @yashveersingh1795 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hey Hey.. hold on pal...
      she’s phd to ‘US’ ✨

    • @qwmf05gcpt42
      @qwmf05gcpt42 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Are you familiar with the Alex Dainis channel? You both have simlar interest.

    • @ZipplyZane
      @ZipplyZane 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hey, if you could, it would be great to have a link to all those other videos you've been in on other channels. I missed way too many of them.
      In this post or the description would be fine.

    • @__WJK__
      @__WJK__ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Happy New Year Tibees! Such a wonderfully candid video, all the best to you in the new year... so looking forward to seeing what you have in store for your channel in the coming year!

    • @perkedelkornet840
      @perkedelkornet840 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      hi

  • @alankramer8734
    @alankramer8734 3 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    I quit my PhD when I was in my late 20’s. I regretted it the older I got. I am now 51 and have just been accepted into a program. I am in a better headed space to finish it. Never too late.

    • @robertkimera5632
      @robertkimera5632 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      One of the best things you may have done .

    • @broxxad
      @broxxad 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Everyone has different pace in life. I didn't pursue my graduate degree in my 20s because I didn't know why I wanted to do it. Now I'm in my 30s and definitely know why I want to go to a certain route.

    • @drbonesshow1
      @drbonesshow1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I suggest that the PhD should be completed before age 40. Many good reasons for this suggestion.

  • @hexlollipop
    @hexlollipop 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1462

    "I have a bit of anxiety right now" said Tibees in the most genuine reassuring voice ever...

    • @ZMorpheus
      @ZMorpheus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      If you have anxiety we should meet up with me somewhere. I'm really friendly. Especially to making new friends.

    • @Ken.-
      @Ken.- 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      9:29 "I've been plagued by a bit of anxiety this year....." Prophetic words

    • @martymcfly5423
      @martymcfly5423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@ZMorpheus
      "The path of the righteous man is beset on all sides by the
      Inequities of the selfish and the tyranny of evil men
      Blessed is he who, in the name of charity and good will
      shepherds the weak through the valley of darkness
      for he is truly his brother's keeper and the finder of lost children
      And I will strike down upon thee with great vengeance and furious
      Anger those who attempt to poison and destroy my brothers
      And you will know
      My name is the Lord when I lay my vengeance upon thee"
      - allegedly Ezekiel 25:17

    • @msmlolmanpolybrige0335
      @msmlolmanpolybrige0335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      happy 666 likes ;)

    • @fermansmith6042
      @fermansmith6042 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ZMorpheus Are you the real deal or just an impostor?

  • @m1lkweed
    @m1lkweed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3146

    A student quit her PhD. This is what happened to her kidneys.

    • @XarkXD
      @XarkXD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Oh my god I'm actually dead

    • @satoshinakamoto5710
      @satoshinakamoto5710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +229

      chubbyemu?

    • @goodtoGoNow1956
      @goodtoGoNow1956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      Hahah. Some people won't get this. But it is hilarious.

    • @o.o1858
      @o.o1858 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Almost choked on my food lol

    • @kavemustermann
      @kavemustermann 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Presenting to the emergency room ...

  • @geepeeone
    @geepeeone 4 ปีที่แล้ว +400

    She has a weirdly soothing voice. I feel relaxed just listening to her.

    • @abdusabdud8218
      @abdusabdud8218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Relaxing music bro but my voice is very bad but I like singing

    • @gustavosena7876
      @gustavosena7876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I fell the same...
      When I see a video from tibees I always click to relax and enjoy

  • @sriramkiron4566
    @sriramkiron4566 4 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    I like that Tibees does TH-cam for her enjoyment and for the enjoyment of others, not just for money. I find it really kind of her to not do mid-roll ads. Thanks for the great content!

    • @Authenictruthoid
      @Authenictruthoid 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      If more people were like her , You Tube would be a better place !

  • @XanderGouws
    @XanderGouws 4 ปีที่แล้ว +352

    Toby, you are an absolute inspiration. It was an honour to be in Mathvengers with you!

    • @XanderGouws
      @XanderGouws 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Also having my logo in this vid at 3:36 made my day :D

    • @XanderGouws
      @XanderGouws 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@PapaFlammy69 Hey!!!

  • @ZerofeverOfficial
    @ZerofeverOfficial 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1130

    You're one of the nicest and most pleasant people I've never met.

    • @grandmastergyorogyoro532
      @grandmastergyorogyoro532 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Agreed.

    • @TheDsasadsad
      @TheDsasadsad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I've never met sounds a little bit strange
      Ha ha
      You could say watched on TH-cam or something

    • @bertthebird2341
      @bertthebird2341 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@TheDsasadsad You did not really get the joke, right?

    • @chyngyzismailov5821
      @chyngyzismailov5821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@bertthebird2341 I didn't

    • @Tofi_ytchannel
      @Tofi_ytchannel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Zerofever I came to say the same thing somehow, but you've nailed it with that line. :)
      She's wonderful ^_^

  • @mathematicus4701
    @mathematicus4701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    I have a PhD in Mathematics. I did my PhD at the Max Planck Institut for Mathematics in the Science (Leipzig) and spend 5 additional years as a researcher at the institut. It was the best time of my life. I traveled a lot and get paid for my true passion (applied mathematics). It was my dream and to give it up was never an option. But I can understand you. We were 10 new students, only 2 finished PhD. So it is normal.

    • @nicholas_as
      @nicholas_as ปีที่แล้ว

      How difficult it was to get a PhD?

  • @ericgoldstein4734
    @ericgoldstein4734 4 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    I can’t imagine why anyone would anything unpleasant to you. I have found your videos unique, interesting and enjoyable! Keep up the good work!

  • @CommodoreFreak
    @CommodoreFreak 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I also quit my PhD one and a half years ago. I don't regret it, but I regret having started it in the first place. The most important advice I can give: Don't start with a research topic that does only semi-interest you (e.g. because you want to be a professor later or for some other reason). Only start with a research topic that REALLY does interest you 100 + x %. If you don't find one - leave it.

    • @ileanadominguez6055
      @ileanadominguez6055 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Could you please elaborate a little? I find your comment really valuable at this moment of my life

  • @johnrose8145
    @johnrose8145 4 ปีที่แล้ว +560

    Good for you, Tibbees, but above all stay safe - I feel for everyone in Australia right now, it must be scary. Keep the basil close.

    • @eartheternal3565
      @eartheternal3565 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What's wrong with Australia?

    • @eartheternal3565
      @eartheternal3565 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @hextakatt
      Oh! 😬

    • @versace4k124
      @versace4k124 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Eartheternal some real bad fires, to give you a scale, they are said to be 7 times worse than the 2019 Amazon fires and 3 times worse than the 2018 California fires

    • @eartheternal3565
      @eartheternal3565 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@versace4k124
      What a nightmare. I just heard someone say that it smells like smoke no matter where you go.
      They'll be in my thoughts.

    • @vk2ig
      @vk2ig 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@eartheternal3565 As of last week, the total area burnt in Australia in this fire season exceeds the sum of the areas burnt in the Amazonian, Siberian, and Californian fires in the last few years.

  • @niksake5568
    @niksake5568 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is so motivating! Those last lines mean a lot. I wanna thank you for this, I am also stuck in one such situation where am not understanding what am doing in life is right or do I need to leave it. Thinking whether "is this getting the best out of me or not ?" is one great way to decide. Thank you so much! cheers!

  • @campbellmorrison8540
    @campbellmorrison8540 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Lovely to hear your views. Im 65 and have been through the same things you talk about ( no I dont have a Phd, I struggled to be a BSc Math extramurally ) having worked in IT and engineering all my life. I now am retiring and doing the things I really want to do, and feel I need to do, to fulfill my own needs. Its great to hear somebody as young as you expressing the same worries and expectations that frankly I believe everybody goes through but all too many never allow themselves to actually step out of their comfortable ( probably more predictable than comfortable ) path where they may find themselves. You trundle on completing your Phd ( figuratively ) and find a large chuck of your life has gone by and you are not feeling fulfilled and more like locked in. I enjoy your videos and your honesty, its great you didn't just move all your time into videos, just shows there is more to life than study and making a living. PS dont be too free with your honesty there are thousands of useless scumbags out there just waiting to abuse you and make to feel bad just to try and make themselves feel better, F.. them! :)

  • @Saidor570
    @Saidor570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I started a PhD three months ago and, although I like it so far, I still fear to be unable to complete it, or lose my passion for my subject. You are truly a source of inspiration for a 'beginner' in the scientific world like me, and your way of talk of science contributes to my passion so, thank you :)

  • @discomfort5760
    @discomfort5760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm really happy you're okay from the fires. I hope you're able to say the same for all your friends and acquaintances as well. Always enjoying your content, so thank you!

  • @edmund3504
    @edmund3504 4 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    I'm just now starting my second semester as a physics undergrad and I just want to say people like you, Andrew Dotson, 3blue1brown, and so many other people really inspire me and motivate me to pursue physics and math. I'm actually thinking about starting my own channel and making my own videos because of how much I love the little community that all these science and math channels have. Keep up the great work!

    • @trongphucnguyenang87
      @trongphucnguyenang87 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good luck, man!

    • @andersvn6369
      @andersvn6369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Quality content so far

    • @edmund3504
      @edmund3504 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@andersvn6369 lol me?

    • @mohammadwasilliterate8037
      @mohammadwasilliterate8037 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YES....I want fries with that! With so many diversity placements resulting from a lowered bar, having a degree means a life paying student loans and earning capacity negated by interest.

    • @IkKorp
      @IkKorp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@edmund3504 yo whats with that hentai thing lmao

  • @gibsonj5035
    @gibsonj5035 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm glad to see and hear you again. I think of you often with all of the wild fires in your country. I hope you and your family will be safe during this treacherous time. Looking forward to your next production. Please be safe and I hope the fires are under control soon.

  • @quicktastic
    @quicktastic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +503

    Imagine what someone's life must be like that would make nasty comments to this lady. Some are probably just trying to get a reaction for some twisted thrill. The rest must be some real sorry souls.

    • @arlenestanton9955
      @arlenestanton9955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      quicktastic so true

    • @martm216
      @martm216 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Could not agree more. Cannot add anything to your comments. They sum up my thoughts and feelings entirely.

    • @TheRocketman136
      @TheRocketman136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      nah, my life is pathetic but I don't make ones. It's about what they are as people in general.

    • @Blox117
      @Blox117 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      so everyone should behave exactly the same, like robots. what a comforting and lovely world your small mind lives in

    • @gderu6109
      @gderu6109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@Irenicus33 if someone were to make nasty comments here, I would definitely judge that their life must be pretty horrible. A normal, ok person would not want to insult or threaten anyone in the way that she was describing, much less insult tibee, who must be one of the calmest nicest TH-cams around. Although we can't be sure about these commenters, we can make inferences that if they do something like this, they're probably not ok.

  • @obeyahayah9013
    @obeyahayah9013 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Your voice is putting me to sleep (it's currently 2am and i have been having trouble drifting off for hours) Thank you for being such a chill presence!!

  • @nicolebeitle1324
    @nicolebeitle1324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Keep up the amazing videos!! They have helped me so much. I hope you have a MATHEMATICAL 2020!!

    • @chitrang2441
      @chitrang2441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nicole BEITLE ARE YOU FROM NEWZELAND??

    • @abdusabdud8218
      @abdusabdud8218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@chitrang2441 no

  • @egillandersson1780
    @egillandersson1780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You have a so calming voice !
    Thank you for this year of good videos and good luck for 2020.

  • @tygertyger8597
    @tygertyger8597 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Praying for rain in Australia for you Miss Tibees. All the best and be safe. ❤️🌧️

  • @RobSHoglund
    @RobSHoglund 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your ability to share so much of you is what makes this such a special channel. Keep up the awesome work!

  • @BibhatsuKuiri
    @BibhatsuKuiri 4 ปีที่แล้ว +574

    i quit my PhD at IISc Bangalore ( India's Rank 1 institute).After 1 year, I am really happy that i quit. I can work on whatever i want to do.
    Not just grinding papers and depressing lab atmosphere.

    • @dhruvruparel3144
      @dhruvruparel3144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Having completed your MSc, what kind of job offers do you get?

    • @BibhatsuKuiri
      @BibhatsuKuiri 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      @@dhruvruparel3144 i have my own business now. Btw you are eligible for all kind of jobs including professor for B.Sc level. PhD is only required for very small section of posts.

    • @dhruvruparel3144
      @dhruvruparel3144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@BibhatsuKuiri what do you have to do to get into research?

    • @BibhatsuKuiri
      @BibhatsuKuiri 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@dhruvruparel3144 interest

    • @aravindhkumar3976
      @aravindhkumar3976 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Did you clear kvpy?

  • @Omnifarious0
    @Omnifarious0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You have the right tone and an excellent approach to making your Bob Ross style math videos. I love those, even though you're usually covering math that I have a pretty good handle on. 🙂

  • @trenawhite
    @trenawhite 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the update video, Toby! What a great year you had. Here’s hoping for awesome things in 2020!

  • @stoictraceur4794
    @stoictraceur4794 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is very wholesome and down to Earth, I love it. Makes me think about what I want to do.

  • @sheaheanaz
    @sheaheanaz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Great video! The way you speak is so calming and genuine. Your channel is a breath of fresh air, I really appreciate your content :)

    • @toddboothbee1361
      @toddboothbee1361 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "fresh air"...I thought your joking, with all the fires and smoke.

    • @obeyahayah9013
      @obeyahayah9013 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Strange. I just commented something similar (about her voice). And you and i have nearly the same username #simulatedreality 😂

    • @sheaheanaz
      @sheaheanaz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@obeyahayah9013 Haha that is definitely some type of simulated reality!

  • @rohanbawa9631
    @rohanbawa9631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    You always look very calm,I hope to achieve the same.

    • @arecus54
      @arecus54 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @Deneb Scott and its not even the "im dying inside" type of calm

    • @Rumbple
      @Rumbple 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Karan Australia

    • @TuringMachine001
      @TuringMachine001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      If you're not a calm person, don't be one. Be yourself.

    • @gb469x
      @gb469x 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Math does that to people. 😂😂

    • @LIGHTISBURNING
      @LIGHTISBURNING 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TuringMachine001 even if I'm the incredible hulk?

  • @usptact
    @usptact 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tibees, thanks for sharing your journey and experiences! Much appreciated!

  • @vk2ig
    @vk2ig 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Toby, your comment about the Ph.D hours you liberated being less than the additional hours spent making videos resonated with me. I have taken some breaks from my career, with ideas that I would get some project or another finished in that time, and each time it just didn't happen. In my case I think this was due to two things: firstly, it turned out that I really could spend too much time on my passion and get bored or jaded with it (the symptom was procrastination), with the result that I just had to allow time to do some other things during my day; and secondly, with seemingly lots of time on my hands to work on my project, the pendulum swung too far to the "perfectionist" side of things ... which contrasted with my approach when I had limited time and would take a more practical view of "Yep, that's good enough for this bit - stop right now and move onto the next part".

  • @aromview
    @aromview 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are really amazing being able to speak about heavy and difficult topics in a very articulate and refined manner, whether it's education, physics, and mathematics, and a direction of life.

  • @rvizarreta
    @rvizarreta 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You're awesome, Tibees! Thank you for inspiring me :D

  • @nishthahari
    @nishthahari 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks, @tibees for sharing your experience and giving some of your advice, it's really appreciating. ❤

  • @user-in8pl4qp9o
    @user-in8pl4qp9o 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I passed out my high school recently but still i connect with you on many things. You're so awesome and genuine person. Really wish you good luck for the future! 😀❤

  • @richardreinertson1335
    @richardreinertson1335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I quit my biochem PhD before I even started. I thought, "Why am I going for a PhD? I don't even LIKE biochem!" I had a lot to learn about myself, and I did.

  • @patrickcardiff7811
    @patrickcardiff7811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    All I know and care about Tibees is that she makes it easy to review some math stuff, and to ponder. I didn't even know she was enrolled in a PhD program. That meant as much to me as her height/weight. Certificates are supposed to give us qualifications, supposed to make us experts, but they don't guarantee we we will be; sometimes, in fact, education - at least the organization and structure of it, keeps us from our heart's goals. I expect more ideas from this engaging woman!

  • @energyeve2152
    @energyeve2152 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you ever so much for sharing. I had seen your other video about you leaving a while back and just came upon this one after rewatching the other one. It just felt like you were speaking directly to me. Thank you for sharing and for your liberating words.
    I hope to shine as bright as you are now. A million Thank you’s! I can’t thank you enough
    Keep shining Tibees and I wish you the best on your journey moving forward

  • @jorgejoaquinpuentenovell3183
    @jorgejoaquinpuentenovell3183 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    As I searched through all other related vids about Phd droppouts, I instinctively chose yours because it seemed the most objective, honest, and unbiased. Thanks for being so outspoken and straightforward.

  • @benb_
    @benb_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm glad you are doing well! I really enjoy your content and personality :)

  • @garegardner4699
    @garegardner4699 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    The world needs more people like you

  • @shivangigusain24
    @shivangigusain24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Some decisions prove to be life changing. This was one such decision. Thanks for sharing all this with us.
    Hope you have more such great times in your life.
    🍀🌸

  • @ketanshah6613
    @ketanshah6613 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I so appreciate you being so honest and candid about what changed when you stopped the phd program. Thanks a lot you are very inspiring and your videos make me want to learn even more and more

  • @georgebisson6142
    @georgebisson6142 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tibees I super super appreciate all the work you are doing much hearts and great art, loved the tree square roots vid

  • @agentdm2818
    @agentdm2818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love this channel it's great I usually come here when I feel lost with school.

  • @setphaser
    @setphaser 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “i think it’s a good story” this really sums up what seems to be the key about you. it’s nice! though you look as tired as if you were still doing that phd! but let’s put it down to the shit going on here in australia. ❤️ take care, be a beautiful person and remember these lovely ups along with the downs... that’s life right?

  • @juanitalaliebre
    @juanitalaliebre 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Talking about your 'time not spent well' or even 'wasted' reminded me of myself... I feel that this is not time you didn't use wisely, but time that helped you avoid a burn-out situation in the future! Rest and 'doing nothing' are also an important part of life! Carry on, I love your content! Thanks for sharing with the world

  • @clickdevice80
    @clickdevice80 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love to following your vlogs this is one that I was waiting for

  • @davemmar
    @davemmar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I regretted never completing my engineering degree. But as a docent at DMNS, I find I have the freedom to pursue internet studies of various science and nature recent findings. Astronomy is by far my favorite. But I have found my calling in being able to share that knowledge with others. I have seen a few wondrous results from my labors and I realize I am exactly where I was meant to be. Your work is inspirational and applicably informative. I would add, keep being true to yourself.

  • @Salma-cq9mz
    @Salma-cq9mz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have no idea how much that helped me...thank u so much ..I felt a huge relief when u answered the first question with "NO" ..🌺🌸

  • @Felipe-sw8wp
    @Felipe-sw8wp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice to hear that you took that step. You know what's best for you.
    I'm so drained up by my phd and it's such a drag (sorry for the negativity but it's how i feel lol). The only thing that keeps me in is the pursuit of the title. I completely understand anyone who quits.

  • @derdagian1
    @derdagian1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I still have to listen to you for the edification of my ears and eyes! Plus, You make me smarter, regardless.

  • @deananderson8186
    @deananderson8186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey Tibees! Really enjoy all your content I and I hope the fires don't inconvenience you too much! Good luck working on youtube

  • @baddad9141
    @baddad9141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the summary and update! See you lots in 2020!

  • @Micetticat
    @Micetticat 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for a great 2019 of high quality TH-cam content! For 2020 I wish for you to find time for your writing project that sounds super exciting. And I truly hope for a 2020 with less environmental disasters for Australia: what is happening right now is heartbreaking.

  • @jamestaylor8217
    @jamestaylor8217 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Don't feel bad. You did what you thought was best.
    I quite my PhD at MIT in 1984. For two reasons: 1. I chose an inappropriate thesis project, and 2. the Navy transferred me before I could figure that out and change topics. I did pass qualifiers.

  • @anuragg7007
    @anuragg7007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Happy New Year Toby 🎉
    Be Safe !!!

  • @jimgolab536
    @jimgolab536 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very glad to hear your update, and that you are doing well. Losing the structure of the academic world is a huge change, but now you do not have most of your focus forced in only one direction. Continued good luck to you!

  • @mohamedfadhelomar3240
    @mohamedfadhelomar3240 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really appreciate your sincerity, actually it is rare to hear TH-camrs talk about their vulnerability or things that didn't go very well, but that's part of the experience and it's very instructive to hear from you.
    Best of luck for what you're doing,
    F.O (math student)

  • @perfection4749
    @perfection4749 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for that awesome advice!! As to your quitting your PHD, I have felt I am in the wrong job, and this is me deciding I’m not using my strengths!! Thanks! 😉

  • @nemesis9410
    @nemesis9410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    You in January 2020: this is my first video of 2020 and I've had a bit of a crazy week already
    me from April 2020: you better buckle up for this one, fam

    • @Felyxorez
      @Felyxorez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      and then June 2020: hold up, stop

    • @JohnDoe-xo2yf
      @JohnDoe-xo2yf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh, boy, just wait until September kicks in!

    • @jingjinw9068
      @jingjinw9068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      September is getting crazier!

    • @XiyuYang
      @XiyuYang 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      November: oh you sweet summer child...

    • @Abii_fornoreason
      @Abii_fornoreason 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Little did they know 1 thicc boat would damage the economy...

  • @FritsvanDoorn
    @FritsvanDoorn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gelukkig nieuwjaar! I am looking forward to your math videos. They are very fun and intetesting. Thank you!

  • @estebancarrasco5823
    @estebancarrasco5823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Tibees, I like your channel because is quite different to the usual content of TH-cam, you bring knowledge and that is very important. Thanks for this videos Tibees and best of luck to you in this new year.

  • @lorenzopirovano6727
    @lorenzopirovano6727 4 ปีที่แล้ว +350

    Her: There is some terrible stuff that I read in TH-cam comments.
    Me: π=3

    • @dude1394
      @dude1394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      = e

    • @yoavmal
      @yoavmal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      =√10

    • @patchaudo3140
      @patchaudo3140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You are all so rude.

    • @AmadeuShinChan
      @AmadeuShinChan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Why c=3?

    • @dubber889
      @dubber889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      π = e = square root (g)
      this the most rebelious thing i've ever done in my life.

  • @arnabbose5398
    @arnabbose5398 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for being so honest.

  • @HadiLePanda
    @HadiLePanda 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're a sweet person :) I like your videos, they're very calm. So much so that I often feel like I'm in a conversation listening to you telling a story or sharing knowledge!

  • @nickbryant2318
    @nickbryant2318 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Keep creating vids and teaching us! I really enjoy your content, you bring science (and math) to new people in a cool way. Never stop!

  • @hot4hypatia
    @hot4hypatia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I also quit a maths PhD program, so I can totally relate. I spent 22 years teaching in both 4-yr and 2-yr colleges and the old school (haha) education model is dead. That's one big reason I retired a few years early, the old system just didn't work anymore.
    I think any intelligent person can find 99% of what they need online. If you are an active learner this is all you need.
    TH-cam, TwitchTV, Khan Academy, and other online platforms are the way to go. You made the right call and you are very good at this.

    • @eshwarao
      @eshwarao ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Respectfully disagree. While you are right that a good/resourceful self motivated student can find things online, a good Teacher can be a huge positive influence on such and other types of students - I don't think these online resources can ever replace a good Teacher. What then about "great" teachers. P.S: I'm not a Teacher but I'm indebted to the few good ones that I've been fortunate to have in my life.

  • @jchampanzee8561
    @jchampanzee8561 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey Toby, I felt for you when you said you felt a bit lonely.
    You seem good at making friends and you seem very lovely.
    Maybe putting yourself out there a bit more would be a more fulfilling way
    to spend some of your free time?
    Anyway, you did really great this year!
    Wish you the best.

  • @DarkNight-bo7om
    @DarkNight-bo7om 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pls keep up the good work Tibees👍👍. U indirectly have helped a LOT with my studies..Honestly , ur videos on science are very very informative....

  • @georgebartholemew8444
    @georgebartholemew8444 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you fir sharing. It's always a pleasure to listen to you.

  • @NeonTurtle55
    @NeonTurtle55 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I love watching these types of videos where people talk about their stories and experiences with schooling. I personally agree with doing something you’re good at while also enjoying it. I grew up my whole life thinking I wanted to be a doctor and I worked my ass off in high school to make sure I got into a good university. Unfortunately, during my senior year I got super depressed over a girl and when I ended up going to University (UCSD), I ended up feeling so lonely because I was completely on my own and had no friends coming with me. I’m now working on becoming a computer programmer and enjoy coding in my free time because I found out that being a doctor wasn’t something I wanted to do because I enjoyed it but because it provided the money for the type of lifestyle I want. I’ve come to realize now that I would rather live a simple life with someone I love than worrying about having a mansion and a Lamborghini. Anyways, this video spoke to me and I wish you the best.

    • @LIGHTISBURNING
      @LIGHTISBURNING 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow Alex, you have courage.

  • @jessjulian9458
    @jessjulian9458 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Physics brought me here to your channel. But it's not what keeps me here. I found you very interesting. I love to hear you talk. I find myself listening to your voice, not necessarily what you are saying. I hope you don't mind. You are a very interesting person and I do hear what you say most of the time. Please don't let the bad people/comments get you down. You seem like a very sweet person. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Happy new year.

  • @TacticalCornField
    @TacticalCornField 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really appreciate what you said about evaluation wether or not your job/school/whatever is using your strengths or not. I've had an incredibly hard time deciding if I want to go to college or not, and this idea really helps me. I've got a much better idea of what to look for when I start now, in deciding if it's right for me. Thanks so much :)

  • @berbudy
    @berbudy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are my inspiration for art and math, the last advice is really what I need to hear, thank you!!!

  • @HarshaVardhanJ
    @HarshaVardhanJ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your voice is so soothing..Keep up the good work :)

  • @cristianmeraz4181
    @cristianmeraz4181 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Don't understand why anyone would say anything unpleasant to you, you're always so calm and cheerful in your videos while spreading good math and science to the masses. But there will always be gross people or people who just want to say gross things. Best of luck besting these things, especially with the dire situation going on in Australia.
    I'm currently an applied math major in Texas for some context on some of your viewers! Cheers!

  • @1Earl100
    @1Earl100 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    As I've been following you for a while it's really fun to see your train thought numbers and physics, and with this video life so many things to figure out.
    Seeing how well you communicate is a gift.
    Love your passion.
    I think you'll find 15 minutes in the morning to do a short meditation and see what changes.
    Many world famous scientists through time have mentioned thats one of their secrets for answers and direction.
    Looking forward to many more videos.

  • @maximodiaz6628
    @maximodiaz6628 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thinking of you! Thinking of ... and hoping for the best for you and and Australia. Thank you for your videos!! Keep them coming please,

  • @Alienalloy
    @Alienalloy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    You’re the sweetest person... my original ASMR bed time viewing ...before I even discovered ASMR actually existed!

  • @entewurzel2109
    @entewurzel2109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I also quit my phd. 2 1/2 years ago. I am so happy like everything turned out for me 😊

  • @trudatbellyfat7358
    @trudatbellyfat7358 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy New Year to you! I love your channel so much. I love your relaxing math tutorials. ❤

  • @electrifyingminds5552
    @electrifyingminds5552 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for making such good videos that helped me a lot. You have a great amount of knowledge. Love your videos. And a happy new year

  • @sheepman6291
    @sheepman6291 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I also left my computer engineering masters degree for almost all the reasons you gave, and for a few more. The 16 hours days left me wondering what the educational system's true purpose was. Its been a half a year and to tell you the truth I could have never been happier. I picked up playing old 1990's video games with my wife, and began attending church again. My wife was more then relived. She was up with me some times to 4 AM helping me figure out HW questions. I gave everything for that masters degree for 2 years taking prerecs and grueling algorithms courses that left me and my straight A wife angry and bitter over it all. For almost 3 months I was plotting on getting onto the board of regents and changing the education system as best I could(yeah I know crazy). The funny thing is that I gave up my plastic injection molding business to help pay for the masters. I'm glad I did it though because I now know how to program embedded control systems into C and put together power supplies which i have been utilizing to design a few inventions of mine during my lunch hour. Anyways I guess what I'm saying is you not alone, and to not give up. My dream is to grow a business that sells an important reliable product, and have a family. If your dream is to get a PHD then do it! From what I tell its more about TH-cam and providing a fun product to you fans. I thought a masters would help me toward my dream but it wasn't so I moved on to a new plan. My wife just read this comment and sighed in agreement while leaving the room. We understand.

  • @JohnDoe-tx8lq
    @JohnDoe-tx8lq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    10:15 ...so are 'mid rolls' ads that appear in the middle of the video? I didn't realize the TH-camr could choose when ads appear, I just thought they were automatically inserted. Makes sense I guess. 😎 Some channels seem to have irritating ads every 5 mins... I'll be more aware of that from now, it's the creator doing it!!

    • @KutuluMike
      @KutuluMike 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      support.google.com/youtube/answer/6175006?hl=en The default is auto-placement but you can opt to manually place them if you want, you just have to take extra steps.

    • @defaultuser1447
      @defaultuser1447 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KutuluMike Yeah, some creators definitely do not want midroll ads because it ruins what they're doing. Pretty much no ASMR videos have midroll.

    • @trueriver1950
      @trueriver1950 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The channel selects whether to have ads at all; if they chose to have ads then they can choose whether to include mid roll ads. Of course the more advertising a channel carries the more money they make.

    • @JohnDoe-tx8lq
      @JohnDoe-tx8lq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@trueriver1950 the point I was making was I didn't realise they can choose at what point in the Vid the ads will appear, rather than being automatically inserted 50% of the way, or whatever, and how many.

  • @felipe1055
    @felipe1055 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your videos. I am on the verge of deciding my future and they're giving me a lot to think about

  • @chaoss5
    @chaoss5 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Take care of yourself and stay save. I love your videos and want to see and learn more from you in 2020.

  • @grandmastergyorogyoro532
    @grandmastergyorogyoro532 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your smile is precious! Keep smiling and spreading Joy!!✌️

  • @shinnok4941
    @shinnok4941 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Toby, thanks for the advice and insights you shared. The first year is always stressing, even if it's all good - just that drastic change is enough to make everything feel like chaos. Many people would therefore never dare to quit. You'll get the hang of it. Ups, downs... all part of the journey. I would advice you to try meditation. There are many great teachers, but I strongly recommend Sam Harris. I think you've mentioned that you're interested in psychology, philosophy, and you seem to me to have a natural ability. Meditation is for everyone, nevertheless. Keep it up!

  • @comc35
    @comc35 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank u for sharing your updates! Always impressed by your deep thought and details. Hope I can see u soon :)

  • @rockbore
    @rockbore 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Inspiring.
    It's normally hard to watch a 'to camera' chat in the raw like this. It's kind of hard to do as well. But you speak very well and the content was interesting. It was what it said it was too, so i liked that too.
    Thanks for your effort here, it's appreciated.
    I hope the fires lead to some solid ideas for future protection and that the damage can be quickly limited.
    Xx

  • @johnnycolin4895
    @johnnycolin4895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I discovered your channel a couple days ago. I'm French so the english content is not highlighted. Anyway, I like very much your videos, I like physics and mathematics a lot too. And I'll get behind you on Patreon because I see authenticity and how good it makes you feel to do this. So good luck, I wish you all the best :)

    • @julesclarke6140
      @julesclarke6140 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yo bro, si ce que tu recherches c'est des chaînes scientifiques en Français, y'en a de très bonnes. J'imagine que tu préfères Anglais parce que ça permet de s'habituer à l'anglais "scientifique" et à s'ouvrir davantage, mais si tu veux des titres de chaînes françaises, je peux en écrire ici. Peace ✌️

  • @colinmurray2976
    @colinmurray2976 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Happy new year. Have a great decade everybody :)

    • @keithwatkins6465
      @keithwatkins6465 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Happy New Year

    • @danielbaer2319
      @danielbaer2319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thus far it has not been a happy year. Can we reset 2020???

    • @paulcassidy4559
      @paulcassidy4559 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@danielbaer2319 Lol. I remember partying in Vienna on NYE with my sis and one of my best friends talking about how excited we were for 2020 and all the stuff we were looking forward to. The universe got one over on all of us this year for sure!

  • @leyzork
    @leyzork 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So glad that you are doing great. Wish you the very best of luck & fun!

  • @jamesbaak7170
    @jamesbaak7170 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good luck in the new year and can't wait to see what creative content you produce this year!

  • @DM-72
    @DM-72 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Don’t let the trolls get you down. You are awesome! Thank you for your videos.

  • @nedmerrill5705
    @nedmerrill5705 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I was a Ph. D. student in Chemistry, left that, and many years later took a Ph. D. in Computer Science. All I can say is that you can feel in your gut if staying in the Ph. D. program is the right or wrong thing to do (at least that is the way it was for me). The only regret is that in finally getting it was that it took too long.

    • @FirstnameLastname-fd9cp
      @FirstnameLastname-fd9cp 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I appreciate this is an old comment but I am curious about how you went from chemistry to computer science.

  • @dimasgomez
    @dimasgomez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi, Toby, about time and loneliness, it is not intuitive, but I've learned that having time to yourself does not mean you will definetely be able to do much more of what you want. It takes a lot discipline and resourcefulness to be able to enjoy yourself and make good use of your own time. We are raised to be led by others and by institutions, which already makes our will pretty unprepared for this kind of life. I hope you can get the most out of the experience. We are here for you! Happy 2020!

  • @muayon-rm9ud
    @muayon-rm9ud 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are soft-spoken and quite eloquent! I enjoyed your content. Thanks for experience sharing on doing a PhD