Regrets studying engineering

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  • @tibees
    @tibees  5 ปีที่แล้ว +423

    Jess and I made a video on her channel about research in academia and industry: th-cam.com/video/T_8tA-X2Aag/w-d-xo.html
    My next video will be about veggietales.

    • @jamesdean1074
      @jamesdean1074 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Hmmm I'm in my 30's and had never heard of Veggietales.

    • @aryandivyanshu8324
      @aryandivyanshu8324 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Roses are red
      Violets are blue
      I read vegetables
      So did you

    • @daveseddon5227
      @daveseddon5227 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jamesdean1074 I'm in my 60's (I think) & I watched this last night :-
      th-cam.com/video/j4Ph02gzqmY/w-d-xo.html
      Enjoy!

    • @Koikama
      @Koikama 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@simounibarra2860 People are allowed to believe whatever they want to believe

    • @clickdevice80
      @clickdevice80 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Vegetables and physics mmmmmm?

  • @RiverTechJess
    @RiverTechJess 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    The video turned out so well! Thanks for having me on, what a blast:D

  • @paulokiryuu
    @paulokiryuu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    I can relate so much. Specially the part about being the best student in high school and going to a good University, in my second year I struggled with some classes and at the time I lost all of my confidence and self esteem, but in some weird way I noticed that I wasn't so mature as I thought, emotionally speaking, I never failed so I didn't know how to deal with failures. I learned to be more kind to myself, since I was also dealing with family problems and working at a part time job, so I shouldn't be aiming for impossible results and I shouldn't be too hard on myself.

    • @l.1244
      @l.1244 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Well that implies that the rest of your high school class was very stupid.

    • @skyraven89
      @skyraven89 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I guess I’m going through the same thing rn, expect I’m in my last year of high school. Never knew how to deal with failure, didn’t get the grades I want in the first half of this year, but I still have a chance to turn it around in the second one

    • @paulokiryuu
      @paulokiryuu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sky Raven Do your best and don't be too hard on yourself, I hope you get good grades.

    • @fareehaxoxo8568
      @fareehaxoxo8568 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thankyou for this! I am actually highschool student but I already feel drained and tired

  • @jaybro3713
    @jaybro3713 5 ปีที่แล้ว +724

    In India majority of people study engineering and go for bank jobs.. :D

    • @hal6yon
      @hal6yon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Or civil services lol

    • @aniketbiswas9885
      @aniketbiswas9885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      As an Indian, i confirm.

    • @onlypants2191
      @onlypants2191 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Coz they actually don't know what they want to do

    • @aryandivyanshu8324
      @aryandivyanshu8324 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Not me son. Not me.
      Won't be studying engineering (I guess) but still would be coding.

    • @aniketbiswas9885
      @aniketbiswas9885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@onlypants2191 most intelligent guys here clear most difficult exam, just following the trend just to study computer science BS and at the end of the day IT/coding jobs lol. And then whine about how it's goverments fault that we don't have good researchers/scientists in the country.

  • @kenshinhimura8708
    @kenshinhimura8708 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    God I am at a standstill with electrical engineering right now. Conquered Community college and headed into University for 2 semesters before I was bounced from a professor who celebrated low class averages below 20% in Differential Equations (DE). I have now overcome C/C++,DE,and Linear Algebra (LA) all with A+’s and am going back in May or August. This endeavor will help make the major slightly easier from this point. I have learned so much not only in the classroom but about life from these courses and am not looking back. It’s like a falling angel getting back to heaven. Your videos aren’t only informal but inspirational. I’m sure I wouldn’t get as far as I did if you didn’t keep reminding me why I loved math to the point where it is love and life.

    • @nicholasestrella339
      @nicholasestrella339 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Does your school require electromagnetic fields for EE students? This is class at my school that makes a lot EEs switch majors.

    • @kenshinhimura8708
      @kenshinhimura8708 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nicholas Estrella Yes they do.

    • @ThinkAbstract
      @ThinkAbstract 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@geert574 That's a very depressing way to live your life, giving up because you reach a 'certain age', it's almost as if you aren't in control of your life; society is.

    • @ramind10001
      @ramind10001 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Allow me to test your knowledge from my field, where would you use a singleton in your ADT?

    • @Parmigiano1
      @Parmigiano1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nicholasestrella339 Oh god please no. I have EM fields in the last year. Thought Physics will be the worst subject.

  • @0o0AweSome0o0
    @0o0AweSome0o0 5 ปีที่แล้ว +323

    Im about to finish my masters in civil engineering. What i regret most is that most people seem to have the time of their lives in uni/college. Not me... absolute worst time of my life. It wasnt all bad, but so many stressfull moments, i would go to bed with my heart pounding like i just ran a marathon out of stress. I never passed all my exams in the regular year, each summer i had exams i had to retake, so never had an actual summer vacation. But oh well... finishing thesis now and about to sign with a prestigious construction company, getting good job and decent pay. But was it worth it? i dont know...

    • @dumiedlamini4798
      @dumiedlamini4798 5 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      You should be immensely proud for how far you've gone and you'll definitely reap the rewards, I think it was all worth it

    • @Kate-qu2rw
      @Kate-qu2rw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      When it comes to me, I'm on third year on computer science and I start to regret I'm studying this at all :D

    • @baeradbury5872
      @baeradbury5872 5 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      Fortunately with the money you’ll be making you’ll be able to afford the therapy you need

    • @madhavapraneethomkar58
      @madhavapraneethomkar58 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The effort all put in in engineering. Is not completely utilized and no where u have the reasonable salary

    • @paulshelley7664
      @paulshelley7664 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      you go to uni to learn, not to party!!!!!! stop moaning and realize that life is not about having fun all the time.

  • @jonesbc1412
    @jonesbc1412 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I graduated as a mechanical engineer 40 years ago. The four years on campus were the most stressful years of my life. We had two suicides the first year. The pain was worth the gain. A 40 year career working as an engineer and doing lots of fun technical stuff has been very rewarding. I have traveled the world and worked on billion dollar projects. I would do it again but relax more and try not to stress during the campus years. The only other regret is I went to a tough engineering only University that was 90% male at that time. I missed the social aspects of campus life. That plus I had no money at time made life difficult. Now I am rich $$$ and life is good.

    • @yahyakhalid6160
      @yahyakhalid6160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That is great, where did you work as a mechanical engineer ?
      BTW , it is great that you have enjoyed your later career.
      Good for you.

    • @cinoypaul9262
      @cinoypaul9262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Can you help me find a job? I'm based in India, but willing to relocate?

    • @thanosthemadtitan5518
      @thanosthemadtitan5518 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@cinoypaul9262 linkedin

  • @Hellfudge
    @Hellfudge 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    You are very calm person, i would like to have you as a teacher, you are just phenomenal!

  • @quahntasy
    @quahntasy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +341

    Majority people in India do engineering first and then decide what they have to do in life.

    • @Whadatd
      @Whadatd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Quahntasy - Animating Universe lol

    • @b_08_amitkumarsahu90
      @b_08_amitkumarsahu90 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True

    • @user-wp4pp6gw8h
      @user-wp4pp6gw8h 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      In the arabic gulf region too, the exact same situation.

    • @BoraOyunda1234
      @BoraOyunda1234 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Same in Turkey. The funny thing is relative lack of engineering jobs in these countries.

    • @moa6081
      @moa6081 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Quahntasy - Animating Universe why?

  • @fkungms
    @fkungms 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    It's depends on individual. Personally I like engineering and have no regrets, and today I am a professional electrical/electronic engineer doing design work. As a kid I watched Star Wars (episodes 4,5,6) and was so inspired that my ambition is to design and built fantastic machines when I grow up, and I decided to either be a scientist or engineer. I must admit at the bachelor level it was hard and very stressful. But looking back a large part of the stress is due to my own attitude and ignorance, I am too concerned about exam grades and too competitive. If I had recognized that years after I graduated people would not care about your university results (Maybe the 1st job people will look at your results, mostly employers care more about the ability to learn stuffs, 'real' knowledge and attitude), I would have adopt a more relax approach (joyful effort) and study to gain understanding and not towards exam. Generally if one understand the theory and concepts one would not fail and should be easy to get an average grade. At the bachelor level usually things are 'hazy', I must say most of the time I don't get what the professors are trying to convey and even after I graduate I still feel the stuffs I learnt at undergraduate level are like pieces of jigsaw puzzle that are scattered. It is only subsequently when I resume postgraduate study after working for a few years, that the pieces finally came together and form a coherent picture of the science of electronics. All the mathematics, quantum mechanics, solid-state electronics, circuit theory, Fourier/Laplace transforms, electromagnetics, analog/digital electronics, communication theory, control theory, computer architecture/programming etc finally come together and allow one a bird's eye view of how all these topics related to each other.

    • @Google_Does_Evil_Now
      @Google_Does_Evil_Now ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This. The total separation. They unlink everything. It's the opposite to school where the teacher is taking you step by step in a learning process to get to the end goal and the things you're learning on the way help you get to the goal so in the end you have the big picture.
      At university they seem to break everything down into separate courses and then these are rethought inside of their own domain without it being linked between the courses.
      You can even learn things out of sequence.
      I think there needs to be a better tree structure of the entire degree with the linking branches being made clear between each of the courses and an explanation for them. To give the student and the course creator the explanation of why you're learning this and how they link together.
      You learn all the separate modules but they don't seem to have the interrelationships between the modules joined up.

  • @arnolddalby5552
    @arnolddalby5552 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I have no regrets because after finishing Physics in college, I joined a band as a drummer and lived my dream of playing on a lighted stage because I could always play and had great timing. Live your dreams, money is over rated. Dreams and great people are what will matter when your old and grey like me. Haha.

  • @brianjones9796
    @brianjones9796 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Before my MD, I had done a BS in Chemistry and went to work as a chemist at a Harvard U medical research lab in Boston. I had already decided not to continue in chemistry but had to use the degree to get a job. Fortunately, it gave me a chance to learn about medicine and apply for med school. Wasn't sure what area of medicine either. I think we all need to learn and try things to find what fits us well. The real world doesn't always let us do it this way. Best to listen what is inside us so that we can be happy with out lives. :)

  • @z0uLess
    @z0uLess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am learning so much from these videos about being in university. I am so socially incompetent that it is really dragging me down. Thankfully there is one professor that is really helpful and encouraging.

  • @hardthinking
    @hardthinking 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I always laugh a bit when people tell me it gets harder after you graduate. I worked full time at a hospital, often picking up hours when a coworker would no show. This was immediately after graduating highschool, and yes that was stressful. But university is far more stressful, especially when you work part-time.
    At least with work you can leave it there or at worst you called in and get paid more. At university, I have to hope I get good grades in difficult subjects to procure scholarships. If I get a low grade and have to retake a course, I just lost over $1,000 and 4 months of time. All this to *hope* I get a decent job.

  • @KatieRabbitt
    @KatieRabbitt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You are so right. It seems impossible to try to get a STEM degree outside of being a full time student. I really hope I can get through this.

  • @ronalrocco4922
    @ronalrocco4922 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Baloney, stress motivates and makes a difference in the
    outcome. Exams turn into deadlines at work. Stress is part of job as well as it is in University studying for challenging exams. You blow it off now and that's fine, but you wouldn't
    be as driven to succeed without the stress. You're so young and inexperienced in the work-a-day
    world. Working as a professor(if you got a job doing that, living the student for life trek, relatively non-stressful life of an academic) vs. real work building and designing,etc. and deadlines. Big difference ladies, where money and contracts are on the line as well as next month's payroll. Enjoyable watching you both. I am very
    pleased to see more and more women in University engineering and becoming successful and entrepreneurial. Big changes in last 10 years in parity.

  • @levikiddd
    @levikiddd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love this video, so important for people in college to see! I find myself leaving lectures early simply because some professors just ramble on about sort of irrelevant things to take up time? Id rather go home and study specific topics i know i need to work on. I also have misophonia so its hard sitting in classrooms for extended periods of time.

  • @vortexfc-2ndchannel990
    @vortexfc-2ndchannel990 5 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    Most people are here for studying and exams advice... I’m here for the accent

  • @justpaulo
    @justpaulo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Regrets studying engineering:
    - Studying engineering !

    • @maheshm8516
      @maheshm8516 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LMAO :D

    • @dondominic7404
      @dondominic7404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too studying engineering. No regrets though!

    • @Kevin-fj5oe
      @Kevin-fj5oe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Literally every engineering student at some point of their lives

  • @satrickptar6265
    @satrickptar6265 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I was about to get Forensic Science but my friends brought me to Engineering. I love them so much and I don't regret my decision.

  • @Buddlebot
    @Buddlebot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Any path in life can crush you in regret. Just choose something that will give you a well balanced learning and a real job that will let you see the world and keep a secure a home life.

  • @frankjamesbonarrigo7162
    @frankjamesbonarrigo7162 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    you never know where or when you will need your prior learning. You might combine it into a new thing. Even if it seemed to not matter at the time

  • @limitingchaos
    @limitingchaos 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    EE here and this hits home. I stressed and sacrificed socially so much to graduate with a 4.0 GPA and it really doesn't matter.

    • @nestorv7627
      @nestorv7627 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It doesnt matter unless you go to grad school

    • @GodsOfMW2
      @GodsOfMW2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Only for industry. If it's for grad school, it's extremely important.

    • @tylerliu2760
      @tylerliu2760 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why did u go to such lengths for a 4.0 in the first place

    • @robselfinvest
      @robselfinvest 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you mind me asking, what GPA would have been more optimal in your opinion? I'm guessing like a 3.6?

  • @JimVincitore
    @JimVincitore 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great vids! Graduating university is just a good start. It's just a jumping off point to lifelong learning. For me, I had took a handful of computer science courses (C/C++, Java, PHP, etc), but it took about five years+ to really sink in and make sense. The college also had tutors, I met with the tutor weekly for an hour for years. I learned more from the tutor than the course instructor, because it was a one on meeting. Also, i bought and used a lot of external books and vids (that was before the age of TH-cam). I also recorded all the courses I attended so I could review them over and over.

  • @91722854
    @91722854 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    7:43, seems like a task for machine learning , so it can help students decide what courses they should better take for the future they want by predicting from data in the form of what current courses you take & how much you like them plus what other topics you watch on youtube most often

    • @jackx123
      @jackx123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It only looks at historical data and infer the possible value of a variable assuming that variable is from the same distribution. This is exactly the path the human race should avoid going into, because that basically prohibits real innovation and creativity.

  • @Quiksilverwriter
    @Quiksilverwriter 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I regret not studying what I actually love. I'm studying something that was chosen for me and it drains my lifeforce and willpower.

    • @Kate-qu2rw
      @Kate-qu2rw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I can relate a bit, with one difference - I chose my current course but I found out it's not actually for me. But I have no money to leave to another uni and I have no courses for me in my city.
      In this case, nobody but you should choose your course. Unless other people wants to live your life and you let them do it.

    • @Quiksilverwriter
      @Quiksilverwriter 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Kate-qu2rw I have an upside, it's free to enroll in a university in my Country but I am so close to getting my diploma, it's nonsensical to drop out now.

    • @lil_weasel219
      @lil_weasel219 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      are you indian?
      ps what are you studying?

    • @sayakmandal3240
      @sayakmandal3240 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      R.I.P.

  • @ChessSlav
    @ChessSlav ปีที่แล้ว

    Pushing yourself is definitely a good thing. Knowing your limits is a skill. You are a great listener :)

  • @56shauryasingh33
    @56shauryasingh33 5 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Tibees I'm still waiting on the video in which you teach us how to talk that calm like you ^^

    • @pablopicasso4699
      @pablopicasso4699 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's simple: to speak calmly like that, you yourself got to be calm and composed and comfortable in that particular environment that you find yourself in.

    • @ramind10001
      @ramind10001 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ahmedalshalchi what's up with kiwi?

    • @unidentifiedsouls624
      @unidentifiedsouls624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      me too

    • @bjap1563
      @bjap1563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thinking if she had many suitors!? Hmmm 😶

  • @jlvandat69
    @jlvandat69 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Studying engineering, mathematics, physics, etc., is seldom a joyful experience. However, just like exercise, the benefits become known/appreciated later and have a very positive net effect on life. There's the "tangible benefits" such as greater earnings but there's also some significant "soft, secondary benefits" that are important. One example is the development of rational thinking. The net result is (IMHO) is a much better life and impact on society.

  • @coria6231
    @coria6231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    2nd year engineering student here and it's good to see many people agree in "4 years of full stress, work and sacrifice" bc my family (most are engineers) just say "engineering is the easiest field" and then I'm kinda like 0_o
    Since the 1st year the stress and struggle is real, but never give up.

    • @Michael-mh2tw
      @Michael-mh2tw ปีที่แล้ว

      If you haven't quit yet, keep going.

  • @ypey1
    @ypey1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    that awesome braided ponytail must be outside of euclidian geometry

  • @HandyAndyTechTips
    @HandyAndyTechTips 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I absolutely agree with the first point. In my IT degree, I had a HD average and ended up getting the university medal - so you can only imagine the level of stress I put myself through. Was it worth it? No, because I later discovered I didn't want to work in IT anyway :-)
    I'm now doing a second degree in an unrelated field, and putting in FAR less effort. The difference? I'm much happier, and get to spend more quality time with family & friends (as Jess noted).

  • @geraldmcmullon2465
    @geraldmcmullon2465 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    When taking my daughter to school in the morning she would often ask scientific questions. After a short pause to digest my answer she would ask more until either satisfied or we arrived.
    One day after several questions that got more heavily into the physics she stop and declared "There you go again. Trying to turn me into a fussicists. "
    Yeah I failed. She went into electronics and electrical engineering.

  • @crseabrk
    @crseabrk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for sharing, very brave, very honest - valuable insights!

  • @lottajarvi2907
    @lottajarvi2907 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was so lovely! Thank you for the thoughts

  • @mrcoolgs100
    @mrcoolgs100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I hope my daughter grows up to be like you two - smart and interested in the sciences

  • @tombufford136
    @tombufford136 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good watching this again. Both very bright after years of study and make for very attractive viewing !

  • @JamesJoyce12
    @JamesJoyce12 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    In my engineering class about a quarter went on to med school; a quarter did MBA's and went into consulting and later ran companies and about half became standard engineers. the 50% that got into good MBA programs and med school had really good marks - so it is important.

  • @jamieg2427
    @jamieg2427 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    An academic counselor gave me interesting advice, and for context I'm a math and physics double major. It's important to constantly ask yourself, "Do I need to remember this long term, or do I need a conceptual understanding that will allow me to relearn ideas as necessary when I need them later?"
    It's helped me to focus on the concepts rather than volume of problems. Don't get me wrong: I do a lot of problems. But I first make sure to read and understand the logic of the textbook, then be a bit picky with the problems I solve. Sometimes, I'll solve problems in my head then look at the worked out solutions on Chegg, while for juicer problems I'll definitely solve things on paper. Other times, I'll write an abbreviated solution on paper. But I do make sure that I also set time aside on how to cleanly organize a full solution---and critically how to use alternative and quick methods to check that my solution is good. All this helps me to test well, get a conceptual understanding, problem solving practice, but in a fraction of the time because I'm not doing every single problem rigorously worked out---just a subset.
    Although for some smaller texts, sometimes it is important to do all the problems, time permitting. Even then, randomly pick problems to do so that if you don't have enough time, you have an exposure to a variety of exercises even if you couldn't do all of them.

  • @underwaterchippie
    @underwaterchippie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I regret studying Engineering. Thinking of switching to Welding trade now after two years in an engineering job. (Office Environment is killing me! Seeing the same negative people every day)

  • @chrisstanford3652
    @chrisstanford3652 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A person should not have a regret about knowledge gained. We deal with the challenges of our lives with the tools of maturity, understanding and abilities at the time. Only regret not doing your best and taking time to smell the roses along the way🌹🌹

  • @Ghost572
    @Ghost572 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can relate to stressing over engineering, it takes the fun out of life but at the same time its hard not to stress over the work at the time because its hard to do. Its like if you didn't care then in a way its worst.

  • @MysteryScienceGaming
    @MysteryScienceGaming 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Stress kills. Be a noble gas;
    don't react.

    • @hyperhektor7733
      @hyperhektor7733 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      easier said than done, most people are like methane or propane because they eat unhealthy ;D

    • @tavishu
      @tavishu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Be like fluorine

    • @pianoforte17xx48
      @pianoforte17xx48 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Be like water. Tasteless (modest), odorless (respectful), colorless (transparent), but valuable.

  • @gokurocks9
    @gokurocks9 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don't see myself socializing at all or going to parties :(
    I just would study and prepare mostly and watch my favorite TV shows by myself as recreation...

    • @gokurocks9
      @gokurocks9 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FullAfterburner same :(

  • @DJ_Dopamine
    @DJ_Dopamine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I did a masters degree in Chemical Engineering. A choice I made aged 16 years old, when I knew almost nothing about myself! But that was the protocol at my school back then: pick a degree course based on your A-level choices and then go to uni. After graduation, I chose a different career and did another degree whilst working. I'm very happy with my second choice, but wish I had got a job at 18 or taken a couple years 'out' before deciding to go to university full time. Nice to see so many people get it right, but I certainly didn't...

  • @zekelerossignol7590
    @zekelerossignol7590 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    6:59 You can still learn those other things from MIT free courses.

  • @jordangoes2210
    @jordangoes2210 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    muzing topics!! helped me a lot to fix things before regrets...actually thats what i call spread knowledge! showing people which path choose just before they've taken wrongly

  • @gruffyddgozali
    @gruffyddgozali 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video, very informative for me as a high school student. Thanks!

  • @douglasstrother6584
    @douglasstrother6584 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Learning is on-going: I learned a mountain of stuff on the job, *and* spent my own time and money to learn other topics relevant to my work.

  • @tycho4223
    @tycho4223 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was very helpful, thank you!

  • @JimVincitore
    @JimVincitore 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Most instructors are great, some are last minutes hires. I was hired to teach a C++ course on Saturday, and the course started the following week. A Microsoft MFC course I taught, the college changed to book on me five minutes before the course started. As I was walking into the classroom, I was told the book was changed. The students had bought the previous book, and some already started highlighting text. I have known instructors who teach up to seven high level course per semester, that's just impossible to effectively teach.

  • @everythingisawesome2903
    @everythingisawesome2903 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    *I'm a PO in State Bank of India (2018 batch) and every 6 person out of 10 in my batch is from engineering background.* 😂

  • @JunaidSalehHayat
    @JunaidSalehHayat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Family time is the best time you could spend because you have one mother and one father. So spend quality time with them. Make every moment memorable! Everything else comes after that. Don't stress over petty things.

  • @tombufford136
    @tombufford136 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great to watch this again, fantastic dress Toby you look brilliant ! Jess and I have a lot in common ,both having studied Mechanical Engineering. Jess mentioned doing a lot of 'Stressing' at school. Was stressing ' Stress Analysis, Mohr's theorem FEA, PD Equations etc or did you mean emotionally stressed, all that tough learning taking the strain. Despite your regrets, surely after the way you have turned out, attractive intelligent women it was worth it !

  • @wow1022
    @wow1022 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    American EE here, i just regret not joining clubs and what not, but I'm happy with my job in industry now

  • @coreygraham860
    @coreygraham860 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Having to take courses you're not interested in is one of my pet peeves about the higher education system.

  • @roger_is_red
    @roger_is_red 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Tibees think your channel is awesome for people hitting it hard in science

  • @robertcookjr6100
    @robertcookjr6100 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    These two brilliant young ladies give me hope for our future

  • @saptarshichakraborty5260
    @saptarshichakraborty5260 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Madam. Thank you very much for giving us this knowledge .
    It helps us a lot 💝

  • @saahilrachh6758
    @saahilrachh6758 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One thing I'd like to point out is, she mentioned she regrets the things she did wrong during her engineering course. She didn't say that she wished she had taken another [much less vigorous] course! For all those people just like me, who are losing their faith, thinking engineering is not for them or they might not be able to keep up with it... Just believe in yourself and try remembering why you took up that course in the first place! Turns out that *Motivation and Perseverance* are some of the most substantial ingredients to get through college... All I'm trying to say is, don't quit because the course is too hard for someone else.. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

  • @masskonfuzion
    @masskonfuzion 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Computer Engineering grad here -- The thing I regret most about studying engineering is allowing myself to think that the people who looked like they were having more fun than I was were actually "doing better" than I was. My curriculum was hard, and I felt burned out at times; but I also enjoyed it. I'm just a computer nerd, I guess.. 15 yrs out of college now. I went full circle, from working a career in business (schmoozing, wining & dining, etc. that look like fun) back into heavy tech. Don't get me wrong: the "fun stuff" was actually fun -- but I started to really miss the deep, dirty technical work. When I switched back into tech, I felt like I had fallen behind and needed to catch up to my peers. But I know I'm working in the right field now.

  • @akinoshimo
    @akinoshimo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I enjoyed studying Engineering (got multiple degrees while working full time). I did not have any relationship with any professors until graduate school...that's where one can learn the cool stuff (professors are more open about how they approach and solve problems with grad students and doctoral candidates). I also enjoyed studying advanced engineering mathematics, cultural geography, and Japanese language. The extra mathematics courses proved to be extremely useful in upper level undergraduate and then graduate courses. I can identify with one other commenter: my true passions since I was 12 years old are Art and Physics (particle and quantum physics) . I picked engineering because I thought at the time engineering was using physics to solve problems in a creative way. And, contribute to the betterment of human life by as a team to create products.

  • @rogerhwerner6997
    @rogerhwerner6997 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Grades matter if they represent an honest personal effort. I mostly tried my best, but when I didn't I stressed. If my grade wasn't perfect but my best effort I felt good.

  • @thomasanderson1416
    @thomasanderson1416 5 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    I regret NOT studying engineering.

    • @Whadatd
      @Whadatd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jonney Shih why’s that?

    • @LucasDimoveo
      @LucasDimoveo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What did you major in?

    • @thomasanderson1416
      @thomasanderson1416 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@LucasDimoveo medical, regret it so bad

    • @themac9677
      @themac9677 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@thomasanderson1416 medical is a respectable field as well

    • @BoraOyunda1234
      @BoraOyunda1234 5 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      @@themac9677 It isn't about having a respectable degree. It is about doing what will satisfy you.

  • @MKD1101
    @MKD1101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    _I am a mechanical engineer and I regret remaining a virgin more than doing it!_

  • @djgulston
    @djgulston 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    That last point that you guys spoke about holds true for me. I am also more of a visual learner. Listening in lectures does not really do wonders for my understanding of the content. All it does is it gives me a guideline of what I should study during the week. I would almost always leave lectures and say to myself, "What did I actually learn from that lecture?"
    And my answer would be, "Nothing."
    Only once I read through the work and practiced problems on my own, then I would grasp the concepts of what we were doing.
    I always thought that I wasn't approaching the lectures correctly because some of my classmates would just seemingly understand what the lecturer is telling them and I would just be sitting there with a blank stare on my face without a clue of what is going on. Auditory learning is one of my worst qualities.

  • @miketurner3461
    @miketurner3461 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have a degree in Aerospace Engineering and I definitely regret studying it because of how slow the field moves. Had I studied IT, I would have been doing much more interesting work much earlier.

    • @ezequiel2940
      @ezequiel2940 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dont say that. Having an Aerospace Engineering degree is so cool you have to be proud of it!

    • @miketurner3461
      @miketurner3461 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      It was cool, but I learned an engineering degree can be just as useless as any other.

    • @alb12345672
      @alb12345672 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@miketurner3461 Every degree is useless, it is only as good as what you can do with it. Tools are useless by themselves if you don't repair anything. They just look nice on the shelf. You can certainly be in IT with your degree. You can self study and create a portfolio.

    • @miketurner3461
      @miketurner3461 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alb12345672 I appreciate you trying to state obvious points as "advice", but I've been in IT for a decade now.

  • @ListentoGallegos
    @ListentoGallegos 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    FOMO. You make the best decision at the time with the information you have.

  • @tombufford136
    @tombufford136 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hope you will make some more videos Toby, helps to keep my viewing standards up ! You have considerable female prowess and charm !

  • @discomfort5760
    @discomfort5760 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was a complete academic failure, and yet I ended up having a software developer job where I was alone with not having a PhD or a Master's degree. When it comes to engineering, I don't think you can study it via academy alone. Passion and interest is the greater part of what makes an engineer great. Same goes with math and physics really, but engineering is far more intuitive to a curious mind. Either way, I still deem myself educated through my work experience, even though I lack a degree. If employers didn't blindly stare at academic achievements, they wouldn't complain so much about difficulties finding the right people. We are legion out there, computer science is a very popular hobby.
    But that's my premise coming into this video. Now I'm gonna watch!

    • @reymitonovas3800
      @reymitonovas3800 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      So you landed a job with people who got their masters and PhD while you didn't even go to college. Dude can I be like you?

    • @vegetaz1532
      @vegetaz1532 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      u think a software developer job needs a degree? Im thinking of switching to software eng from mechanical. Or should I just stay in mech?

  • @tombufford136
    @tombufford136 ปีที่แล้ว

    I studied Engineering and with male only courses meeting Jess and Toby was unusual. Many would have regrets.

  • @nurulhasan3953
    @nurulhasan3953 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I actually watching this video laughing out loud on the floor, and looking at Tibees did interview with the engineering student..imagining Tibees like "yeeaah finally I am not the only one stressed out at uni"

  • @mohitnarwal91
    @mohitnarwal91 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is very useful to students. So , we have to share this video more and more .

  • @4Y0P
    @4Y0P 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your voice is so inviting and makes everything you say even more interesting! i'm really enjoying binging your channel

  • @tortureh2371
    @tortureh2371 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My aim is not engineering.. But being born in a developing country.... I have to choose engineering... Coz only engineering colleges are well disciplined.... Here

  • @anaanan69
    @anaanan69 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, Toby
    Your channel is very useful
    Good work and good luck

  • @LthiagoR
    @LthiagoR 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    In the final part, without purpose, you just described the university student´s life and that everlasting question: Is it necessary to go to the lectures? or Can I do it better by myself?. Good Video!

  • @saurabhtewari9920
    @saurabhtewari9920 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The Top reason I watch your videos is because you are smiling all the time. Makes me happy as well. Keep up the good work.. Love from India..

  • @ArjanvanVught
    @ArjanvanVught 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yet another great video.

  • @jamestanaka686
    @jamestanaka686 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I also used to regret studying "physics engineering" degree in my university. In my university, this program takes more than 6 years (170 units) and all the classes are very hard in that I pretty much was studying 7 days a week everyday just not to fail the course, including summer semester and failed to socialize as I struggled in academics. By the time I realized in the final year now, all the concepts of electronics and physics will be not useful to my career (and hence it will be hard to get a job) except a bit of CS/stats related courses since my interest now lies in CS/statistics/ML oriented. But now I don't really regret since thinking about the past is painful and I just think that I will be proud of getting a physics-related degree, which is still indirectly related to statistics or ML field and I guess I will keep learning.

  • @anilsharma-ev2my
    @anilsharma-ev2my 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I will isolate main portion of any equation which we cannot do anything about that
    Unchanged part that is called constant part of equation
    Just imagine whole equation with only constant so we got it's most probable ideal conditions
    So keep talking

  • @rhisavbora2975
    @rhisavbora2975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I will see this video after 4 years when i complete my engineering

  • @aqabdulaziz
    @aqabdulaziz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In India, children don't have the right to decide what they want to study. According to the unwritten divine rule in India, a student must follow what their parents want. Therefore, it is needless to say that all students in India must pursue either engineering or medical degrees. If that does not work, they must become IT professionals. This rule is there because children can make more money and take care of parents in their old age.

  • @flashkraft
    @flashkraft 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I never studied engineering at uni but I do remember meeting quite a few engineering students who seemed to be struggling to finish their courses in the four years you are meant to. With many dropping out altogether. My cousin took 6 years to finish his aerospace engineering course.
    I could not help but think that a lot of these students would have been better off going to a trade school and earning an engineering certificate from there. At least they would be able to finish the course and get a job at the end as a draftsman, technician or a machinist etc. Getting a degree sounds good but you have to know your limitations.

  • @samulimustonen2047
    @samulimustonen2047 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I regret that my uni did not even have programming as an optional course! It's super important!

  • @hansisbrucker813
    @hansisbrucker813 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What a wholesome video. Were you good at handling stress and how did you handle it?

  • @Neelfrost
    @Neelfrost 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just completed my first year of engineering today ( today was the last exam). I am constantly conflicted between trying to learn things or just going for the grade. Cause you can skip like 20% of the course most of the times and get better grades than people who completely study the course. Anyone got tips?

    • @kenshinhimura8708
      @kenshinhimura8708 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Neelfrost Definitely study. When you become an EE,you are expected to know what happens when the machinery goes wrong and why.

    • @sin3358
      @sin3358 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kenshinhimura8708 lol in my country we say that uni degrees are worthless, they're only good in paper. Many students study for grades and actually get their skills themselves by taking courses or learning from whatever materials they can find online. If you still can learn how to do the job your employer requires, that's fine. Plus you'll learn more with time during your time working there, hence why you can sorta relax and not stress about your future. Put in effort but not too much to the point that all you do is study day and night

  • @sierranevadatrail
    @sierranevadatrail 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish I had initially studied electrical engineering instead of mechanical. Most of the the technological advances in my opinion are being done in the electrical area, and at least where I went, the electrical engineering majors take a large portion of the mechanical curriculum. Aside from that, a good program in mathematics that includes a course in system science (ie, heavy treatment of laplace and fourier transforms) and a course in partial differential equations and a rigorous course in probability theory (like random processes) is all you need. You can fairly easily learn the applications, like control theory or dsp, after doing that.

  • @filipester
    @filipester 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a mechanical engineer in Brazil and I regret not studying more. I was not a model student at all, and that closed some oportunities for me in labs and other stuff.

  • @SandeepSingh-qr3dk
    @SandeepSingh-qr3dk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I am from Punjab, India and I am studying electrical engineering. During all the semesters I feel very stressed. Engineering institutes are the source of frustration. I love quantum physics but I also have to maintain my cgpa. Between these two I am squeezed.
    May be my English isn't so good. 😝

    • @Slavolko
      @Slavolko 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good luck. I might be studying that in the future, depending on what I choose.

    • @kenshinhimura8708
      @kenshinhimura8708 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sandeep Singh that was perfect English

  • @salemengineer2130
    @salemengineer2130 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am a third generation engineer and I never seriously thought of doing anything else. I ended up doing chemical engineering and I do have some second thoughts on that choice but overall I have enjoyed my career and I ended up working on projects in 13 US States and 13 foreign countries. As for stressing over grades... Obviously, one needs to get good enough grades to graduate but my feeling is the most important thing is to really learn your subject... Not just to do well on a test but learn it so that you can use it after you graduate. I have known people that successfully faked their way through college and graduated but got fired from their first job. Engineering cannot be faked... Things have to work and, if they don't, it is generally pretty clear who messed up.

  • @vk2ig
    @vk2ig 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Regrets studying engineering?
    I was too stressed about the little things also, so I share that regret; and looking back I can say that I could have had a much more enjoyable time as an undergraduate. What was missing was someone who could say, "I know you're worried about this, but don't be, because it will turn out ok due to these reasons: ..."
    I did spend some wasted time in particular lectures. I am a visual learner as well - I need to read the material and do the problems. The most useful part of some days was the train trip home after lectures, when I could read the lecture notes and the text book.
    Unfortunately; skipping lectures wasn't an option, because the professional engineering association that accredited the course used an artificial metric of lecture attendance to verify that you had actually done the undergraduate degree - we had to attend at least 75% of the lectures in each subject, and the roll was marked at each lecture! It was like being back at high school ...
    Sometimes I feel a tinge of regret that I didn't switch to physics when our Engineering Physics I lecturer made that offer in 1st year, but that's a different question.

  • @coolbeans-vb2ex
    @coolbeans-vb2ex 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No matter how you slice it.. As in with most highly skilled occupations...there is a small slice of the population, even of those that seek the positions, that oossess that certain skillset that comes together to help them excel in their endeavors... js

  • @tombufford136
    @tombufford136 ปีที่แล้ว

    Like some of the people commenting below I studied Mechanical Engineering on a tough 100 % Male course. I survived and have the achievement behind me. My training had a higher Manual element than some. Jess and Toby are perhaps on the Science and theoretical emphasis having a softer more comfortable foundation. You are both impressive, Mechanical Engineering or otherwise !

  •  4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I enjoy this 3 person intellectual discussion.

  • @andrewshepherd383
    @andrewshepherd383 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was in EE but switched out due to stress and general shenanigans. I find these vids quite relatable and inspiring.

    • @azizalaliq8
      @azizalaliq8 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      What did you switch to

    • @andrewshepherd383
      @andrewshepherd383 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@azizalaliq8 A major called Technology, Arts and Media. It's engineering but nontraditional. It incorporates creativity with engineering and focuses on using the technology. It was basically full of people like me who were in engineering but wanted something better.

  • @donarnold8268
    @donarnold8268 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you!

  • @grantcivyt
    @grantcivyt 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good video. I think the trouble stems from the idea that universities train you for work. Uni's have a confused role these days. Their highest purpose is the exchange of ideas. If you want to get a job, go to where the job is being done and ask the people there what you need to know. Better still, ask them for a job and absorb what's needed. Uni's don't make good vocational training centers, but that's the role they've now been shoved into.
    Much better to think of university as a place to go when you have free time to think thoughts and discuss them with others.

  • @SuperEdge67
    @SuperEdge67 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I did a relatively easy one.............an education degree. I don’t regret it. I like being a teacher.

  • @sergey689
    @sergey689 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a major in computer science in russia. But probably i regret not to study engineering because when i studied math and physics i realized that this is something that i really interested in but unfortunately the money is in CS.