Is It Wrong To Spank Your Kids As A Means Of Discipline? (A Biblical View)

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  • @michaelschmidt4352
    @michaelschmidt4352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I do everything I can to avoid it. I'll tell you that when I have to it's never out of anger and it always messes my whole day up. I often have to hold back tears.

  • @haveagreatday-x1g
    @haveagreatday-x1g 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    For me, pain didn't even exist when God created life. But I don't accept spanking. When I was little my mom always spank me each time I disrespect. But I found out how my brain reacts in the future now, I see like some people don't even care if they get spanked, or some people get very sensitive and more violent if they get spanked, it looks like it depends on people's personality. In the Bible, probably there r 2 verses that say the opposite thing of discipline

  • @paulineagius1402
    @paulineagius1402 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Proverbs 29:15
    The rod and reproof give wisdom, but a child left to himself beings shame to his mother.

  • @MaSasan5GS
    @MaSasan5GS 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    2024 I am 14 now in 8th grade
    My Dominican dad and Mom discipline me I am good at school and at home s yeah I don't that it's wrong

    • @mozarkozark
      @mozarkozark 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Spanking taught you the valuable lesson of obeying your master kid. Good job.

  • @KingAries85
    @KingAries85 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    No pain is our best teacher

    • @mozarkozark
      @mozarkozark 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Get spanked kid.

  • @MayflowerHomeschool
    @MayflowerHomeschool 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was so helpful!! Thank you!

    • @LanceVanTine
      @LanceVanTine  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so glad! Praise God!

  • @munanyo4670
    @munanyo4670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Why not discipline by grounding or taking away their wants.

    • @LanceVanTine
      @LanceVanTine  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Definitely a method of discipline, but not the only one.

    • @YahwehsChild30
      @YahwehsChild30 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This doesn’t always work.

    • @haveagreatday-x1g
      @haveagreatday-x1g 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @YahwehsChild30 yeah, for the parent's side its a simple discipline, but the truth, the kid will be more violent if they take their wants

  • @johndaniels6347
    @johndaniels6347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How would you suggest administering the spanking itself?

    • @chrisobrien6254
      @chrisobrien6254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not an expert but I’d suggest just one or 2 swats on the bum over the clothes. If you’re using your hand then you can swat twice if you find it necessary. If you’re using a wooden paddle then just once. Just my opinion

    • @bhh2100
      @bhh2100 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bend uhm over.

    • @thor5446
      @thor5446 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chrisobrien6254What’s your opinion on over the clothes vs without them? I know many people find it more effective without that extra padding in the way

    • @okkatelynjosey5401
      @okkatelynjosey5401 ปีที่แล้ว

      My Mom talks to me about spanking and I learn to learn from it, my Mom spanked me, but she was still a patient, smart, and understanding person, she is my friend, she talks to me when I ask about God, she's my friend, but she still disciplines me and teaches me life, my Mom is just my friend and my parent both at the same time, she's been patient and inpatient when she has to be, but I stilk love her as a friend and a mother, God bless her

    • @marclabrie6027
      @marclabrie6027 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Best without the clothing​@@thor5446

  • @Omega-AlphaStudios-lh1rz
    @Omega-AlphaStudios-lh1rz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    No. Temporary pain is better than eternal one.

    • @LanceVanTine
      @LanceVanTine  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen

    • @mozarkozark
      @mozarkozark 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I put on that song “Slap My B*tch Up” by The Prodigy every time I went to spank my kids and now I can just play the song whenever they act up and the little demons run in fear from the Lord Almighty without me even smacking their butt! Haha

    • @Omega-AlphaStudios-lh1rz
      @Omega-AlphaStudios-lh1rz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mozarkozark Troll somewhere else

    • @mozarkozark
      @mozarkozark 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Omega-AlphaStudios-lh1rz Im not trolling, its important to strike the fear of God into kids and you cant do that without spanking them. The bible teaches that one should fear God. I want my kids to fear Gods wrath every time they act out. Im getting them ready for the real world when they have a boss one day. If they go against their boss or any authorities wishes, I want them to feel the repercussions. Im teaching them early now about what the real world is like; if you disobey authority, the punishment you receive is by God.

    • @Omega-AlphaStudios-lh1rz
      @Omega-AlphaStudios-lh1rz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mozarkozark Ah OK, your comments first sounded sarcastic to me. I repent of my misjudgment.

  • @benbinoeaster409
    @benbinoeaster409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How would you have handled the situation on the plane?

    • @marclabrie6027
      @marclabrie6027 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Spanked

    • @mozarkozark
      @mozarkozark 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Spanked

    • @OliviaGray-b7u
      @OliviaGray-b7u 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Well there not anywhere private on a plane

  • @louisemayrand1549
    @louisemayrand1549 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Only as a last resort.

  • @TheJodisherrell
    @TheJodisherrell 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So how should the mom on the plane have handled it? If she spanked I can guarantee you someone on that plane would call CPS.

    • @tonyf4991
      @tonyf4991 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      We ought to obey God rather than man. Mankind can do or say anything they want, but those that follow God should follow His Word.
      If they call, they call.
      Scripture also says not to fear what man can do to you, even kill you, but fear the Lord who can destroy you both body and soul.

  • @cherisel6715
    @cherisel6715 ปีที่แล้ว

    What’s the proper way to give the actual spanking though to avoid abuse? Could you maybe do a follow up video explaining how to spank/what the process should be

    • @LanceVanTine
      @LanceVanTine  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good question! I believe I mentioned it in the video. Did you watch the whole thing? :) God bless you ~

    • @cherisel6715
      @cherisel6715 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LanceVanTine yes, I watched the whole video over. You give some good general guidelines around spanking but not the actual process/details on how to actually give the spanking, which I think would be helpful for many young believers with children. Think you could follow up? Thanks and God bless you!

    • @jesussprichtmitderlieblich7168
      @jesussprichtmitderlieblich7168 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You misinterpret the word discipline! Such video should be forbidden ! To physical spank a child is abuse and is a misinterpretation of gods love. Gods disciplines in a different way but hitting children is dangerous. I’m shocked about some of the opinions of my brothers and sisters in Christ

    • @tonyf4991
      @tonyf4991 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@jesussprichtmitderlieblich7168spanking is physically striking the buttocks. Scripture mentions the rod STRIKING a fool's back, and STRIKING your disobedient child.

    • @evansglobal1
      @evansglobal1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@jesussprichtmitderlieblich7168 please read Proverbs 23:13-14. Discipline in parental context is caning.