I messed up this morning and lost it on one of my twin girls. The Holy Spirit convicted me a few moments later and made me apologize to her. I was driving to work and something said what if God your Father made you feel the way she probably felt in that moment. I felt so bad. I prayed and ask God to help me parent with love and grace. Not only did I hurt the twin who I yelled at but her sister too. This episode helped me to realize that our Heavenly Father corrects us but then He also opens His arms wide to us letting us know no matter what we did He still loves us 🥹
I’ve been struggling with how to balance technology and faith in our home, and ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’ provided some amazing insights that we’ve already started using
Watching this as I struggle through every day with my small kids. It’s just a lot sometimes and I don’t know how to handle it without getting into rage. This is such an important topic especially for those of us who grew up with bad role models.
You have to shift your perspective as being a overwhelmed adult to being a child and thinking “if this was me as a child what would I need in this moment”
This makes me feel less alone I have a little one as well she is learning about behavior control and yelling it can get like and episode of super nanny over here and I feel like a failure
@@Dana-mb1hd taking moments to yourself when you can has been the only thing that resets my mind so I can come back with less mental stress otherwise most days I feel at a loss haha
Being extreme is the problem too harsh or too lenient. I’m facing consequences of too lenient. Painful time for me having a rebellious teenager. I accept I have failed as a parent and now laying everything down to Yahweh to help us. Praying and fasting and waiting for the day that I can see children as a blessing.🔥
My toddler turned 3 recently and OH MY GOODNESS, i am trying so hard to maintain the fruit of the Holy spirit while disciplining. They hit and yell at me, i didnt realize how fleshly toddlers are and how much they need Jesus, just like us adults do.
I'm new here and bing watching your videos and so deeply touched and going to the word and wanting to grow in my relationship with Jesus so that I can do this right ! The little sweet smile that he gave to Julie when his dad complimented their child rearing was just the sweeeeeetes ! Beautiful beautiful beautiful!
One day I got a severe beating by my father because I skipped school for a week. It didn't matter that two bullies were threatening to beat me up and I was trying to avoid them. my parents lacked empathy. I now have issues with lack of empathy. The beatings my parents gave me taught me a lesson: There's no need to worry if someone is being bullied. No person's sufferings matter. I'm not angry on the outside, but I care little about the plight of others.
very easy to fall into that. if no one showed me grace, why should I show others? if my own parents were impatient with me, why does anyone else deserve my patience? the only thing that can resolve that is God's grace towards us. because He has forgiveness the worst of the worse in us, we are commanded to forgive, love, be empathetic, etc. it's no longer tit for tat bc of Jesus, and that grace is absolutely extended to our children. you really have to know, believe, experience, meditate on God's love and truth so that it can take root in your heart and replace the bitterness/hardness of our hearts.
Hey I'm sorry you're going through that. Maybe try talking to them about it & tell them you feel afraid to go or that you want to avoid people who are threatening to hurt you. Is there a school counselor you can talk to? Try praying about it, ask God for guidance. Im sorry your parents lack empathy and maybe you can find a fav teacher or something too. God will make a way and things will get better. Ask for catch up work to do at home so your parents think and see you being responsible and accountable even though you skipped!! God bless you.
I re read your comment I think you were talking about past tense. & I thought it was you going through that now. But If that's the case, I would say pray before you speak to certain people, ask God to soften your heart & see whatyou need to change about yourself. We all hurt and pain we carry because ppl hurt us but that doesn't mean we should become like those who hurt us, we are called to better things & we don't have to hold that weight. you have to take care of yourself by being more gentle on yourself and others. You can feel Empathy again. Trust in the Lord
Is it okay to tell your 15 year old daughter “If your going to live in this house these are the rules you have to follow “ (then list) please all comment I need help with this.
I think that’s alright, I would also say be led by the spirit/ sensitive to the promptings of the Holy Spirit so we have to remain calm and patient most times to do that. Your kid is going to mess up the same way we mess up and fall short from the standards of God. It can get frustrating but remember you will not be able to control everything and don’t drive yourself crazy when they are being disobedient
Yes, even framing it living in our home means your responsibilities are the following. Decide when to use natural consequences and when to use rewards.
Call parents that don’t discipline. Their children are usually the kids that bite. every one of my friends who are non-spanking parents, they have the worst behaved children
Proverbs 23:13-14 "Withhold not correction from the child: For if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die. Thou shalt beat him with the rod, And shalt deliver his soul from hell."
you are not sons or daughters of God, sorry, you are God's humans to obey him. And God is one not 3 parts and Jesus is not his son or your father but his prophet.. why is it so hard to believe it?
How sad that's how you see it. If we were just "his humans" to obey him...we would all be perfect. In fact we have free will, bc our father in heaven wants us to choose him. So I disagree with that. Also, God is 3 in 1. Jesus is both God's son, sent to earth to suffer for us and defeat the grave, and he is part of the trinity. Jesus is essentially God's human form, yet he still prayed to his heavenly father and obeyed him. I pray you can find the answers for yourself, bc I am nobody. Just wanted to share my view from a respectful place. I hope you have a blessed day!
I messed up this morning and lost it on one of my twin girls. The Holy Spirit convicted me a few moments later and made me apologize to her. I was driving to work and something said what if God your Father made you feel the way she probably felt in that moment. I felt so bad. I prayed and ask God to help me parent with love and grace. Not only did I hurt the twin who I yelled at but her sister too. This episode helped me to realize that our Heavenly Father corrects us but then He also opens His arms wide to us letting us know no matter what we did He still loves us 🥹
I’ve been struggling with how to balance technology and faith in our home, and ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’ provided some amazing insights that we’ve already started using
Watching this as I struggle through every day with my small kids. It’s just a lot sometimes and I don’t know how to handle it without getting into rage. This is such an important topic especially for those of us who grew up with bad role models.
What helps me is what I'm thinking about that causes me to yell. We are some where before we get to yelling and angry.
You have to shift your perspective as being a overwhelmed adult to being a child and thinking “if this was me as a child what would I need in this moment”
This makes me feel less alone I have a little one as well she is learning about behavior control and yelling it can get like and episode of super nanny over here and I feel like a failure
@@OoothermotherI’m struggling as well any tips?
@@Dana-mb1hd taking moments to yourself when you can has been the only thing that resets my mind so I can come back with less mental stress otherwise most days I feel at a loss haha
This is good! We are lead by God's word to raise our children. Great wisdom!
I have 5 children. 7,5,3,1,4mo. And I’m also leading my household because the man doesn’t know how to.. it’s hard. Please pray for me ♥️
yes girl. God is our refuge and strength. His grace is sufficient ❤
I’m in the same boat. I know how you feel. I also have 5 children ages 8,6,4,2 and 5 months 😭 @tihanioliveira
Praying😊 I'm in the same position
Hey sisters, watch their podcast episode "Protect your Home from Chaos"!! It's on the playlist "Conquering Spiritual Warfare at Home"!
Same boat, 5 children but older, 14-6. x
Being extreme is the problem too harsh or too lenient. I’m facing consequences of too lenient. Painful time for me having a rebellious teenager. I accept I have failed as a parent and now laying everything down to Yahweh to help us. Praying and fasting and waiting for the day that I can see children as a blessing.🔥
My toddler turned 3 recently and OH MY GOODNESS, i am trying so hard to maintain the fruit of the Holy spirit while disciplining. They hit and yell at me, i didnt realize how fleshly toddlers are and how much they need Jesus, just like us adults do.
I'm new here and bing watching your videos and so deeply touched and going to the word and wanting to grow in my relationship with Jesus so that I can do this right !
The little sweet smile that he gave to Julie when his dad complimented their child rearing was just the sweeeeeetes ! Beautiful beautiful beautiful!
Love, Love, Love!!! 🙌🏼🥰🙌🏼🥰
Is there a full episode? This is goooood
For those who did not grow up with an older brother who watched WWE/WWF..... boys would constantly say "suck it"......
One day I got a severe beating by my father because I skipped school for a week. It didn't matter that two bullies were threatening to beat me up and I was trying to avoid them. my parents lacked empathy. I now have issues with lack of empathy. The beatings my parents gave me taught me a lesson: There's no need to worry if someone is being bullied. No person's sufferings matter. I'm not angry on the outside, but I care little about the plight of others.
very easy to fall into that. if no one showed me grace, why should I show others? if my own parents were impatient with me, why does anyone else deserve my patience? the only thing that can resolve that is God's grace towards us. because He has forgiveness the worst of the worse in us, we are commanded to forgive, love, be empathetic, etc. it's no longer tit for tat bc of Jesus, and that grace is absolutely extended to our children. you really have to know, believe, experience, meditate on God's love and truth so that it can take root in your heart and replace the bitterness/hardness of our hearts.
I’m sorry that you went through that 💜
Hey I'm sorry you're going through that. Maybe try talking to them about it & tell them you feel afraid to go or that you want to avoid people who are threatening to hurt you. Is there a school counselor you can talk to? Try praying about it, ask God for guidance. Im sorry your parents lack empathy and maybe you can find a fav teacher or something too. God will make a way and things will get better. Ask for catch up work to do at home so your parents think and see you being responsible and accountable even though you skipped!! God bless you.
I re read your comment I think you were talking about past tense. & I thought it was you going through that now. But If that's the case, I would say pray before you speak to certain people, ask God to soften your heart & see whatyou need to change about yourself. We all hurt and pain we carry because ppl hurt us but that doesn't mean we should become like those who hurt us, we are called to better things & we don't have to hold that weight. you have to take care of yourself by being more gentle on yourself and others. You can feel Empathy again. Trust in the Lord
God can change that about you. If you repent and surrender fully to the Lord, He makes you new inside
Which episode is this from?
Episode 12; it's such a good one! ❤
Is it okay to tell your 15 year old daughter “If your going to live in this house these are the rules you have to follow “ (then list) please all comment I need help with this.
I think that’s alright, I would also say be led by the spirit/ sensitive to the promptings of the Holy Spirit so we have to remain calm and patient most times to do that. Your kid is going to mess up the same way we mess up and fall short from the standards of God. It can get frustrating but remember you will not be able to control everything and don’t drive yourself crazy when they are being disobedient
Yes, even framing it living in our home means your responsibilities are the following. Decide when to use natural consequences and when to use rewards.
@@sheleania literally crying thank you for speaking out of ❤️ love!!
@@propertieswithmariaisabel Thank you 🫶🏼
Ofcourse!!!!
🙏🏽♥️
If you spank,or hit your childeren you have failed as a parent and an adult
Call parents that don’t discipline. Their children are usually the kids that bite. every one of my friends who are non-spanking parents, they have the worst behaved children
Proverbs 23:13-14
"Withhold not correction from the child: For if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die. Thou shalt beat him with the rod, And shalt deliver his soul from hell."
@@wkudelt492 I agree with you. Everyone I know that does not spank their kids have the meanest most disrespectful kids.
I know what it was.. Should I say it 😅 D-Generation X with triple H and Shaun Michael's brother great time to be a kid😂
What is wwf?!
Wrestling.
World wrestling federation
It’s now the WWE
Nerds
As an actual Christ follower this is 🤮 🤮 🤮 🤮 snakes ^^^
Why do you See it like this?
you are not sons or daughters of God, sorry, you are God's humans to obey him. And God is one not 3 parts and Jesus is not his son or your father but his prophet.. why is it so hard to believe it?
How sad that's how you see it. If we were just "his humans" to obey him...we would all be perfect. In fact we have free will, bc our father in heaven wants us to choose him. So I disagree with that. Also, God is 3 in 1. Jesus is both God's son, sent to earth to suffer for us and defeat the grave, and he is part of the trinity. Jesus is essentially God's human form, yet he still prayed to his heavenly father and obeyed him. I pray you can find the answers for yourself, bc I am nobody. Just wanted to share my view from a respectful place. I hope you have a blessed day!
Amen
Because it is not true and will Never be true!