I messed up this morning and lost it on one of my twin girls. The Holy Spirit convicted me a few moments later and made me apologize to her. I was driving to work and something said what if God your Father made you feel the way she probably felt in that moment. I felt so bad. I prayed and ask God to help me parent with love and grace. Not only did I hurt the twin who I yelled at but her sister too. This episode helped me to realize that our Heavenly Father corrects us but then He also opens His arms wide to us letting us know no matter what we did He still loves us 🥹
I had a similar moment with my 3yr. I ask God to help me too to parent with love and grace. Also, to know right time to discipline my daughter and when to extend grace.
I’ve been struggling with how to balance technology and faith in our home, and ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’ provided some amazing insights that we’ve already started using
Watching this as I struggle through every day with my small kids. It’s just a lot sometimes and I don’t know how to handle it without getting into rage. This is such an important topic especially for those of us who grew up with bad role models.
You have to shift your perspective as being a overwhelmed adult to being a child and thinking “if this was me as a child what would I need in this moment”
This makes me feel less alone I have a little one as well she is learning about behavior control and yelling it can get like and episode of super nanny over here and I feel like a failure
@@Dana-mb1hd taking moments to yourself when you can has been the only thing that resets my mind so I can come back with less mental stress otherwise most days I feel at a loss haha
My toddler turned 3 recently and OH MY GOODNESS, i am trying so hard to maintain the fruit of the Holy spirit while disciplining. They hit and yell at me, i didnt realize how fleshly toddlers are and how much they need Jesus, just like us adults do.
I'm experience the same thing. It breaks my heart at times. Because you know you taught Christ to them. The Tantrums are the worst😢 i pray God Holy Touch to deliver us both! Praying she grows out of it now!
I read this comment at the perfect timing because I am currently experiencing this with my 3 year old. My goodness this age brings something out in me. Just when I believed I was a patient person!! Jesus is needed indeed!
I'm new here and bing watching your videos and so deeply touched and going to the word and wanting to grow in my relationship with Jesus so that I can do this right ! The little sweet smile that he gave to Julie when his dad complimented their child rearing was just the sweeeeeetes ! Beautiful beautiful beautiful!
Being extreme is the problem too harsh or too lenient. I’m facing consequences of too lenient. Painful time for me having a rebellious teenager. I accept I have failed as a parent and now laying everything down to Yahweh to help us. Praying and fasting and waiting for the day that I can see children as a blessing.🔥
tonight we had a special prayer meeting at church, and as a single mom I had a six year old and three year old in tow. I did my best with the situation, but ultimately my six year old has had a consequence for being disobedient and distracting in the service. rather than whoop him, he will have to return to "big church," with a few things provided to help him sit still, until he learns to act appropriately in situations that call for respectful behavior. my children are home schooled and I fear them losing out on learning proper respect. I lectured him pretty heavily to try to help him understand why it was disappointing and why it is important to learn that not every event is all about his entertainment. I hope my approach is right. he ended up apologizing when I compared it to being left out from something I really look forward to. it can be extra tough without a dad at home.
I agree discipline is good but if that’s all a child (9 year old step son) gets and never gets any one on one fun time, then that’s not good. My daughter is 27, her new husband will be 22 the end of the month. They live with me. My grandson really wants “his dad” to spend time with him but he says he’s depressed and needs to play his video games with his friends so he can have a distraction. He has been doing this since Christmas break and it’s almost the end of Jan. My daughter is pregnant too and starting to feel neglected. He laughs and seems like he’s having a great time when he’s playing games and my daughter had a friend and her boyfriend come over to visit and my daughter’s husband laughed and seemed fine with them. I’m wondering if he just doesn’t like her son. I could tell this morning my grandson was very sad. I asked him and he said cause his “dad” wasn’t spending time with him. Of course he was playing a game online with his friend instead. My heart is sad for my grandson who just wants time. Any suggestions?
One day I got a severe beating by my father because I skipped school for a week. It didn't matter that two bullies were threatening to beat me up and I was trying to avoid them. my parents lacked empathy. I now have issues with lack of empathy. The beatings my parents gave me taught me a lesson: There's no need to worry if someone is being bullied. No person's sufferings matter. I'm not angry on the outside, but I care little about the plight of others.
very easy to fall into that. if no one showed me grace, why should I show others? if my own parents were impatient with me, why does anyone else deserve my patience? the only thing that can resolve that is God's grace towards us. because He has forgiveness the worst of the worse in us, we are commanded to forgive, love, be empathetic, etc. it's no longer tit for tat bc of Jesus, and that grace is absolutely extended to our children. you really have to know, believe, experience, meditate on God's love and truth so that it can take root in your heart and replace the bitterness/hardness of our hearts.
Hey I'm sorry you're going through that. Maybe try talking to them about it & tell them you feel afraid to go or that you want to avoid people who are threatening to hurt you. Is there a school counselor you can talk to? Try praying about it, ask God for guidance. Im sorry your parents lack empathy and maybe you can find a fav teacher or something too. God will make a way and things will get better. Ask for catch up work to do at home so your parents think and see you being responsible and accountable even though you skipped!! God bless you.
I re read your comment I think you were talking about past tense. & I thought it was you going through that now. But If that's the case, I would say pray before you speak to certain people, ask God to soften your heart & see whatyou need to change about yourself. We all hurt and pain we carry because ppl hurt us but that doesn't mean we should become like those who hurt us, we are called to better things & we don't have to hold that weight. you have to take care of yourself by being more gentle on yourself and others. You can feel Empathy again. Trust in the Lord
Is it okay to tell your 15 year old daughter “If your going to live in this house these are the rules you have to follow “ (then list) please all comment I need help with this.
I think that’s alright, I would also say be led by the spirit/ sensitive to the promptings of the Holy Spirit so we have to remain calm and patient most times to do that. Your kid is going to mess up the same way we mess up and fall short from the standards of God. It can get frustrating but remember you will not be able to control everything and don’t drive yourself crazy when they are being disobedient
Yes, even framing it living in our home means your responsibilities are the following. Decide when to use natural consequences and when to use rewards.
Godly Discipline: #DONOTbeARubyFrankeoraJodiHildebrandt. Ever. All actions are caused by your actions from yesterday. Firmly. Clearly. Lovingly. I rebuke the spirit of ruby franke and jodi hildebrandt
Call parents that don’t discipline. Their children are usually the kids that bite. every one of my friends who are non-spanking parents, they have the worst behaved children
I disagree i was so bad as a kid n did whatever i wanted. 7 boys n 1 girl. We are all so grateful. Me especially i would never take that back. My parents gave me clear boundaries and when I cross them you need to consequences and today i know these boundaries set by god n follow his word closely cuz i know some decisions i make will have very dangerous consequences
you are not sons or daughters of God, sorry, you are God's humans to obey him. And God is one not 3 parts and Jesus is not his son or your father but his prophet.. why is it so hard to believe it?
How sad that's how you see it. If we were just "his humans" to obey him...we would all be perfect. In fact we have free will, bc our father in heaven wants us to choose him. So I disagree with that. Also, God is 3 in 1. Jesus is both God's son, sent to earth to suffer for us and defeat the grave, and he is part of the trinity. Jesus is essentially God's human form, yet he still prayed to his heavenly father and obeyed him. I pray you can find the answers for yourself, bc I am nobody. Just wanted to share my view from a respectful place. I hope you have a blessed day!
I messed up this morning and lost it on one of my twin girls. The Holy Spirit convicted me a few moments later and made me apologize to her. I was driving to work and something said what if God your Father made you feel the way she probably felt in that moment. I felt so bad. I prayed and ask God to help me parent with love and grace. Not only did I hurt the twin who I yelled at but her sister too. This episode helped me to realize that our Heavenly Father corrects us but then He also opens His arms wide to us letting us know no matter what we did He still loves us 🥹
I had a similar moment with my 3yr. I ask God to help me too to parent with love and grace. Also, to know right time to discipline my daughter and when to extend grace.
I’ve been struggling with how to balance technology and faith in our home, and ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’ provided some amazing insights that we’ve already started using
Watching this as I struggle through every day with my small kids. It’s just a lot sometimes and I don’t know how to handle it without getting into rage. This is such an important topic especially for those of us who grew up with bad role models.
What helps me is what I'm thinking about that causes me to yell. We are some where before we get to yelling and angry.
You have to shift your perspective as being a overwhelmed adult to being a child and thinking “if this was me as a child what would I need in this moment”
This makes me feel less alone I have a little one as well she is learning about behavior control and yelling it can get like and episode of super nanny over here and I feel like a failure
@@OoothermotherI’m struggling as well any tips?
@@Dana-mb1hd taking moments to yourself when you can has been the only thing that resets my mind so I can come back with less mental stress otherwise most days I feel at a loss haha
My toddler turned 3 recently and OH MY GOODNESS, i am trying so hard to maintain the fruit of the Holy spirit while disciplining. They hit and yell at me, i didnt realize how fleshly toddlers are and how much they need Jesus, just like us adults do.
I'm experience the same thing. It breaks my heart at times. Because you know you taught Christ to them. The Tantrums are the worst😢 i pray God Holy Touch to deliver us both! Praying she grows out of it now!
I'm struggling with this exact thing to with my 3 year old. Its been so hard!!!!
I read this comment at the perfect timing because I am currently experiencing this with my 3 year old. My goodness this age brings something out in me. Just when I believed I was a patient person!! Jesus is needed indeed!
This is good! We are lead by God's word to raise our children. Great wisdom!
I'm new here and bing watching your videos and so deeply touched and going to the word and wanting to grow in my relationship with Jesus so that I can do this right !
The little sweet smile that he gave to Julie when his dad complimented their child rearing was just the sweeeeeetes ! Beautiful beautiful beautiful!
I have 5 children. 7,5,3,1,4mo. And I’m also leading my household because the man doesn’t know how to.. it’s hard. Please pray for me ♥️
yes girl. God is our refuge and strength. His grace is sufficient ❤
I’m in the same boat. I know how you feel. I also have 5 children ages 8,6,4,2 and 5 months 😭 @tihanioliveira
Praying😊 I'm in the same position
Hey sisters, watch their podcast episode "Protect your Home from Chaos"!! It's on the playlist "Conquering Spiritual Warfare at Home"!
Same boat, 5 children but older, 14-6. x
This was so refreshing and opened up a healthy conversation between my husband and I. We desire to please the Lord with how we raise our kids ❤
Being extreme is the problem too harsh or too lenient. I’m facing consequences of too lenient. Painful time for me having a rebellious teenager. I accept I have failed as a parent and now laying everything down to Yahweh to help us. Praying and fasting and waiting for the day that I can see children as a blessing.🔥
😢
tonight we had a special prayer meeting at church, and as a single mom I had a six year old and three year old in tow. I did my best with the situation, but ultimately my six year old has had a consequence for being disobedient and distracting in the service. rather than whoop him, he will have to return to "big church," with a few things provided to help him sit still, until he learns to act appropriately in situations that call for respectful behavior. my children are home schooled and I fear them losing out on learning proper respect. I lectured him pretty heavily to try to help him understand why it was disappointing and why it is important to learn that not every event is all about his entertainment. I hope my approach is right. he ended up apologizing when I compared it to being left out from something I really look forward to. it can be extra tough without a dad at home.
Great talk about discipline without a single example. Learned a lot 👌🏾 lol
I agree discipline is good but if that’s all a child (9 year old step son) gets and never gets any one on one fun time, then that’s not good. My daughter is 27, her new husband will be 22 the end of the month. They live with me. My grandson really wants “his dad” to spend time with him but he says he’s depressed and needs to play his video games with his friends so he can have a distraction. He has been doing this since Christmas break and it’s almost the end of Jan. My daughter is pregnant too and starting to feel neglected. He laughs and seems like he’s having a great time when he’s playing games and my daughter had a friend and her boyfriend come over to visit and my daughter’s husband laughed and seemed fine with them. I’m wondering if he just doesn’t like her son. I could tell this morning my grandson was very sad. I asked him and he said cause his “dad” wasn’t spending time with him. Of course he was playing a game online with his friend instead. My heart is sad for my grandson who just wants time. Any suggestions?
Love, Love, Love!!! 🙌🏼🥰🙌🏼🥰
What about all the studies that show otherwise?
For those who did not grow up with an older brother who watched WWE/WWF..... boys would constantly say "suck it"......
Is there a full episode? This is goooood
Which episode is this from?
Episode 12; it's such a good one! ❤
One day I got a severe beating by my father because I skipped school for a week. It didn't matter that two bullies were threatening to beat me up and I was trying to avoid them. my parents lacked empathy. I now have issues with lack of empathy. The beatings my parents gave me taught me a lesson: There's no need to worry if someone is being bullied. No person's sufferings matter. I'm not angry on the outside, but I care little about the plight of others.
very easy to fall into that. if no one showed me grace, why should I show others? if my own parents were impatient with me, why does anyone else deserve my patience? the only thing that can resolve that is God's grace towards us. because He has forgiveness the worst of the worse in us, we are commanded to forgive, love, be empathetic, etc. it's no longer tit for tat bc of Jesus, and that grace is absolutely extended to our children. you really have to know, believe, experience, meditate on God's love and truth so that it can take root in your heart and replace the bitterness/hardness of our hearts.
I’m sorry that you went through that 💜
Hey I'm sorry you're going through that. Maybe try talking to them about it & tell them you feel afraid to go or that you want to avoid people who are threatening to hurt you. Is there a school counselor you can talk to? Try praying about it, ask God for guidance. Im sorry your parents lack empathy and maybe you can find a fav teacher or something too. God will make a way and things will get better. Ask for catch up work to do at home so your parents think and see you being responsible and accountable even though you skipped!! God bless you.
I re read your comment I think you were talking about past tense. & I thought it was you going through that now. But If that's the case, I would say pray before you speak to certain people, ask God to soften your heart & see whatyou need to change about yourself. We all hurt and pain we carry because ppl hurt us but that doesn't mean we should become like those who hurt us, we are called to better things & we don't have to hold that weight. you have to take care of yourself by being more gentle on yourself and others. You can feel Empathy again. Trust in the Lord
God can change that about you. If you repent and surrender fully to the Lord, He makes you new inside
I’m just here wondering what the WWE phrase was that he said?
Is it okay to tell your 15 year old daughter “If your going to live in this house these are the rules you have to follow “ (then list) please all comment I need help with this.
I think that’s alright, I would also say be led by the spirit/ sensitive to the promptings of the Holy Spirit so we have to remain calm and patient most times to do that. Your kid is going to mess up the same way we mess up and fall short from the standards of God. It can get frustrating but remember you will not be able to control everything and don’t drive yourself crazy when they are being disobedient
Yes, even framing it living in our home means your responsibilities are the following. Decide when to use natural consequences and when to use rewards.
@@sheleania literally crying thank you for speaking out of ❤️ love!!
@@algebrawithmrswangenheim Thank you 🫶🏼
Ofcourse!!!!
🙏🏽♥️
What is wwf?!
Wrestling.
World wrestling federation
It’s now the WWE
I know what it was.. Should I say it 😅 D-Generation X with triple H and Shaun Michael's brother great time to be a kid😂
Godly Discipline:
#DONOTbeARubyFrankeoraJodiHildebrandt.
Ever.
All actions are caused by your actions from yesterday.
Firmly. Clearly. Lovingly.
I rebuke the spirit of ruby franke and jodi hildebrandt
If you spank,or hit your childeren you have failed as a parent and an adult
Call parents that don’t discipline. Their children are usually the kids that bite. every one of my friends who are non-spanking parents, they have the worst behaved children
@@wkudelt492 I agree with you. Everyone I know that does not spank their kids have the meanest most disrespectful kids.
@@followtheKing1111screw your religion shit
I disagree i was so bad as a kid n did whatever i wanted. 7 boys n 1 girl. We are all so grateful. Me especially i would never take that back. My parents gave me clear boundaries and when I cross them you need to consequences and today i know these boundaries set by god n follow his word closely cuz i know some decisions i make will have very dangerous consequences
@ god did evil things
Nerds
you are not sons or daughters of God, sorry, you are God's humans to obey him. And God is one not 3 parts and Jesus is not his son or your father but his prophet.. why is it so hard to believe it?
How sad that's how you see it. If we were just "his humans" to obey him...we would all be perfect. In fact we have free will, bc our father in heaven wants us to choose him. So I disagree with that. Also, God is 3 in 1. Jesus is both God's son, sent to earth to suffer for us and defeat the grave, and he is part of the trinity. Jesus is essentially God's human form, yet he still prayed to his heavenly father and obeyed him. I pray you can find the answers for yourself, bc I am nobody. Just wanted to share my view from a respectful place. I hope you have a blessed day!
Amen
Because it is not true and will Never be true!