Is It Biblical to Spank Your Child? | Tony & Bre Wood

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  • @ThomasSmith-z5q
    @ThomasSmith-z5q 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +136

    Honestly, this book ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’ gave me the encouragement I needed to stay strong in raising my kids with Christian values, it’s comforting to know Im not alone on this journey

    • @TrevonFoxxx
      @TrevonFoxxx 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah I bet it’s comforting having your abuse be normalized amongst other monsters

  • @heidilees.4407
    @heidilees.4407 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Not spanking does not have to = a lack of consistent discipline with boundaries. I did not spank but I did have immediate and consistent consequences. Our sons grew up to be respectful, thoughtful, responsible, well mannered, good husbands and fathers. They are all in their 40’s now raising children of their own.

    • @ladaleswaim9794
      @ladaleswaim9794 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Exactly because there are other ways to discipline your children🙂

    • @TruthEvangelism
      @TruthEvangelism 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Are they brothers in Christ?

    • @dvdaltizer
      @dvdaltizer 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      what are some examples of immediate consistent consequences?

    • @diamond_p
      @diamond_p 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Can you give some examples for toddlers?

    • @mei.mei1
      @mei.mei1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@diamond_phow about you give an example of a behaviour you would like to stop, and I give you an example that does not use spanking to get the desired outcome?

  • @crzyplaya
    @crzyplaya 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Will spanking a kid for being curious about the electrical socket correct the curiosity? Kids are learning all the time. Corporal punishment can cause kids to anger or fight back.
    Here is an alternative to corporal punishment. Acknowledge the feeling or desire of the child. Communicate the limit, and target an alternative, something positive to do.
    I grew up being spanked😢. It didn’t help with limiting desires or feelings. Instead it pushed me to shutdown my emotions. Now that I am a parent, I have not spanked. I’ve adopted the 3 principles and my kiddos are respectful and obedient. Just like any child or adult, we do fail, but instruction and nurture goes long ways!
    God is our shepherd. When we go astray he doesn’t use corporal punishment. Instead he uses his staff to gently bring us back to the flock. Ps 23.

    • @krixpop
      @krixpop 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I was Spanked 3 times as a child.
      (that I remember)
      Last when I stole an apple from the market.
      My ww2 veteran Grandfather, went with me back to where I stole that apple.
      Paid the Apple.
      And then home gave 5 hard slashes with his belt on my behind.
      And then he cried with me and cared for my "wound" and made sure I understood what and why.
      And with my behind red as an oven and with his words in my heart, I learned.
      I was 10.
      I lost him 40 years ago and miss him a lot...
      ...
      I found a wallet a while ago.
      With 2 credit cards and some 1000 €.
      I went to the Police and made sure the owner received his lost wallet intact.
      I refused all rewards.
      Possible I won a person for God?

    • @Peonies925
      @Peonies925 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🎯💯

    • @TrevonFoxxx
      @TrevonFoxxx 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@krixpopsorry your grandpa was weird for that and you definitely should’ve kept the reward that’s dumb, just cuz you can rationalize your abuse doesn’t mean anyone should suffer under such a barbaric and ruthless form of physical punishment

    • @ERROR_SCAMLIKELY
      @ERROR_SCAMLIKELY 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      1 Spanking is all it took me to LEARN not to play with the electrical socket 🎯🧐...something gotta be literally mentally wrong with you to not learn from a spanking, Y'all must love the pain from the socket or just don't value your lives 🎯

    • @entropicmomathome
      @entropicmomathome 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I got spanked at 14 for getting low grades. My parents were working super hard to put me in a private school and give me better opportunities which o was throwing do own the drain, I didn’t care. The lack of honor, respect and appreciation towards my parents efforts was shameful, they spoke to me patiently and with sadness in their faces and I still didn’t care. Until my mom saw my report cards, grabbed a belt, cancelled tv and grounded me until I got straight A’s. It worked. I never felt anger towards my parents as a matter of fact I wish they spanked me more. Read scripture, there are many more verses that talk about spanking and no it doesn’t mean shepherd with a staff, it means beating on the loins or the behind. Abuse is always wrong but it doesn’t mean Gods commandments are abusive , that is sin. It’s like saying I won’t submit to my husband because men can be abusive. Obey the scriptures.

  • @paulineagius1402
    @paulineagius1402 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Proverbs 29:15
    The rod and reproof give wisdom, but a child left to himself brings shame to his mother.

  • @PUBLIUS.INVICTUS
    @PUBLIUS.INVICTUS 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Great job guys. I applaud you for having the courage to communicate a Biblical message about child discipline on a public forum. Well done. :D

  • @basquehound1999
    @basquehound1999 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My parents used to physically discipline me and my siblings. My mom and dad used to paddle me so hard I could neither sit down, get up, or walk for days. I grew up in terror of my parents. One time, I screamed myself hoarse. I sometimes would lock myself in the bathroom because I was terrified. I actually tried running away a few times I was so scared. I vaguely remember my mom doing the same to my older sister because she smoked and drank. She doesn’t do it anymore, but the memory still haunts me.
    Edit: I have a full time job now. And I’m currently using it to get away from all of it. I’m terrified of my family, terrified to be in a relationship, terrified of crowds, you name it. Oh, and I forgot to mention that I am 25 years old.

    • @ManuBrightside
      @ManuBrightside 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Be free! Theres another life after this. Been there

    • @EDV-js1oe
      @EDV-js1oe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sorry you went through that, you didn't deserve that. You are worthy of love. I hope we will find it

    • @PUBLIUS.INVICTUS
      @PUBLIUS.INVICTUS 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      that's not discipline. that was abuse. I'm sorry they abused you. they weren't well and were most likely abused themselves. God isn't an abuser and that doesn't reflect His character. don't let that ruin your relationship with God. I'm glad you're doing better. Take care and Be well.

  • @EmberVan84
    @EmberVan84 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I disagree with the reasoning that physical punishment is necessary to teach a child God’s truth.
    The rod and staff of God that brings us comfort, does so because we find peace knowing He’s in control, gives guidance, and protects us as his flock. When the sheep go astray he carries them back, and redirects their path.
    Discipline comes from the word disciple which is to teach. When we are told we will spoil our children if we spare the rod, it is meant that without instruction, guidance, and care to lead our children (especially by example) we fail to fulfill our obligation and degradation can occur. Teaching our children happens gracefully when we connect first(showing trust) and obedience follows. As they witness our example and steadfast love(with boundaries for direction) they will gladly obey.
    When consequences are needed, they should be natural to the situation and relative based on age and circumstances. If my two year old draws on the wall, I remind him crayons are for paper only. If he does not abide by that he will have it taken away, clearly explaining why, and redirected to something else. He will learn that if he wants to color he needs to do so properly on what’s provided, as opposed to being spanked, which does not show direct and reasonable consequence for his action.

  • @lindsaysimplified
    @lindsaysimplified 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    If you’re going to argue that this is a command and must be taken literally then it has to be a rod (not a hand or spoon) and it has to be applied to the back (not the buttocks) and should leave bruises. If you went “literally” you’d be thrown in jail for child abuse.
    If it’s not literal then you could make the argument that discipline is mandatory, but modern spanking is not. Because the Bible doesn’t talk about or address modern day spanking.
    It should also be advocated for adults because proverbs also says to use the rod on foolish adults. This argument is so biblically weak and eisegeted from scripture to justify modern day spanking.

    • @haystackhomeschool
      @haystackhomeschool 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's how I interpet the verses in Proverbs. If you read them all together, it's obvious that it is talking about a juvenile delinquent, not a small child. Also considering that the law allowed for stoning... then when you read, "If thou beatest him, he shall not die," has a whole new context.

  • @BeccaMiller-uk8qg
    @BeccaMiller-uk8qg ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Scripture also commands the parent to not frustrate the child and if spanking is causing the child to become frustrated and bitter it therefore becomes a stumbling block to the child is now a sin to commit against the child. Ephesians 6:4

    • @blackperson5283
      @blackperson5283 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      With that logic then dont punish you child because they're become frustrated and bitter.

    • @lylemoors4194
      @lylemoors4194 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Proverbs 23:13-17, Proverbs 13:24 I don't 'condone' or have thoughts about it. Just a bible reference for you to see. We had a radio program on the subject a few weeks ago. There was a lot of feedback from listeners. The programmers tried to remain impartial and let listeners give their opinions. Interesting topic. GB

    • @brandonlance3601
      @brandonlance3601 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That makes zero sense

  • @steveearleisthebest1884
    @steveearleisthebest1884 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m confused. We are not supposed to hit or swat anyone as adults biblically. So why would we do that to our kids. Isn’t the rod a representation of gods authority. Did Jesus spank kids?

    • @maryandrews9160
      @maryandrews9160 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@steveearleisthebest1884 yea, it’s a double standard that parents think it’s ok to spank kids because “ it’s not hitting”. It’s the stupidest thing I’ve heard

  • @imjustheresoidontgetfined5269
    @imjustheresoidontgetfined5269 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thanks yall for being honest, holding the line, on such a serious topic ✝️

  • @CecilJohnHowell
    @CecilJohnHowell 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    The reason why so many people are against spanking is because they were abused as children and think that this is what spanking is. There is a thin line between the two, but they are not the same. Are there any books/resources that explain this difference?

  • @cheyenne5375
    @cheyenne5375 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I Haven’t had a reason to hit my kid yet. Usually misbehaving is either lack of regulation, struggling with relationships, or a misunderstanding. Honestly I’m disappointed and think this is a lack of knowledge of the child brain and developmental milestones.

    • @cheyenne5375
      @cheyenne5375 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I know! Thank the Lord for the intuitive mothers out here who are parenting the whole brained child not just reacting in the moment.

  • @ladaleswaim9794
    @ladaleswaim9794 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You people know that there are other ways to discipline your children?
    And spanking isn't always necessary right when I was spanked it didn't help me at all it only made me angry my attitude during those times was like "oh,so you wanna fight do you?!" and I would fight back in self defense ,I'll have you know I hated my father's guts and did not trust him all that much at all and that's why if I ever become a mother I will not spank and I will not allow my husband to spank either because even the mere thought of it drives me crazy and it is a serious major trigger on me plus not all discipline is physically painful it can also be emotionally painful take it me a woman who was diagnosed with minor depression, whose been on and is still on medication and whose been and is still talking to a psychologist who is a good Christian woman who has really helped me out a lot. Also each and every child is different and not all types of children require spanking some you can just sit down and talk to my aunt Gina she's never been spanked in her life she was an easy-going child who would listen as for the word discipline itself there is a meaning of it I've looked it up and to discipline does not mean to spank to discipline actually means to teach and to tell the truth using your words can work just as well and maybe try giving your children bible lessons by reading to them directly from the Bible these methods of discipline can work just as well if your willing to really be patient and work at it.
    I'm a Christian myself 🙂

    • @roublerattv3793
      @roublerattv3793 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Every child needs to understand there are consequences to their actions so they might be spared from the wrath of God one day

    • @LadyLiberty-c8i
      @LadyLiberty-c8i 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      ⁠@@roublerattv3793But Spanking doesn’t have to be the only consequence for misbehavior.

    • @roublerattv3793
      @roublerattv3793 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LadyLiberty-c8i God says in Proverbs 23:13-14 : Do not hold back discipline from the child, Although you strike him with the rod, he will not die. You shall strike him with the rod And rescue his soul from Sheol.
      If you raise Godless heathens then God will surely punish you. Sure have other disciplines or whatever but when it comes down to it every kid needs a spanking at some point.

    • @mei.mei1
      @mei.mei1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@roublerattv3793and how does spanking directly correlate to any consequence to a child trying to learn? If you're in the workplace learning a new skill, how helpful is it that an adult man or woman spanked you so that you "get it right" next time? Or if you're trying to learn a new language or skill? That person will be charged with assault, so where in the real world is it beneficial for a child, who cannot defend themselves against an adult, to learn that if they or someone else messes up, hitting and violence will fix the problem?
      Children have developing brains and are developing skills such as self-control and language (sometimes they cry and whine bc they don't have the verbal capacity for expression). "Hitting" to solve a problem rarely works in the real world. Just admit that you have limited skills to rear children and learn better skills.

    • @roublerattv3793
      @roublerattv3793 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@mei.mei1 haha spanking your kids does not teach them to use violence against other people, it shows them that they shouldn't be doing whatever they were doing and teaches them to be responsible for their own actions. Parent your kid however you want. I'm going to raise my kids how my parents raised me 🤷‍♂️

  • @aris4124
    @aris4124 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    If you spank a child you are an abuser😡😡. Shame on you🤬

  • @jakecivis7402
    @jakecivis7402 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    A 100 years of non spanking where in the future did you come from. This is disheartening. What a sad video. Making it okay to lay hand on another person.

  • @KingofkingsChristJesus
    @KingofkingsChristJesus 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Please do not hit your children it is unholy.

    • @KingofkingsChristJesus
      @KingofkingsChristJesus 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      “Thy rod and they staff they comfort me” Jesus is a God of peace we are told that one of the fruits of the spirit is gentleness - you can not gently beat a child. The rod in the Old Testament was known as knowledge passed down from king to heir, not a literal beating. If you withhold teaching (discipline) from a child you are withholding the rod of knowledge hence forcing them to live in sin without consequence. Also keep in mind that Jesus says do unto others; if you teach with pain you will be taught with pain.

    • @jimmybishop9816
      @jimmybishop9816 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Having children is unholy.

    • @gjm2669
      @gjm2669 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jimmybishop9816jimmybishop9816 is unholy.

    • @danielstamegna2391
      @danielstamegna2391 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen brother. I strongly stand with you on this.

    • @ScotchIrishHoundsman
      @ScotchIrishHoundsman 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Spare the rod spoil the child.

  • @David-bj7zr
    @David-bj7zr 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    If you strike a child you have failed as an adult and as a parent

  • @urbansaints
    @urbansaints 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    please please have more on such sharing especially for parents. This is great!

  • @1963wheeler
    @1963wheeler ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Discipline does NOT equal physical abuse.
    A firm flat hand on the butt 2-3 times swatted does NOT equal abuse.
    250 pounds standing on the chest of a 10 year old boy in an empty bath tub IS ABUSE!
    THERE IS A DIFFERENCE!
    I NEVER KNEW WHAT A 'SWAT' FELT LIKE.

    • @teslaeubanks8198
      @teslaeubanks8198 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      There are different levels of abuse with spanking being one of them. Sure it may not physically harm the child long term but mentally it will

    • @askfortheoldpaths
      @askfortheoldpaths ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen!

    • @kesley.
      @kesley. ปีที่แล้ว +6

      yes. my parents spanked me, not beat me. and my dad would calmly explain to me why it was necessary. i remember one time the smack I received didn’t hurt at all so i asked him for another one because “the first one didn’t sting” 😂

    • @1963wheeler
      @1963wheeler ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kesley. I hope and pray. You still have a wonderful relationship with your father. Who loved you enough to teach you? How to obey and how to behave as a kind human being!
      God bless your daddy.

    • @jeppe.ejsing.christensen
      @jeppe.ejsing.christensen ปีที่แล้ว

      And grapping a womans ass without permission is not rape, but it is still not okay.

  • @jimmybishop9816
    @jimmybishop9816 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This kind of stuff is sickening. What a sickening videos.

  • @Arleyluvs
    @Arleyluvs 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My parents still spank me (I’m 11 now). I’m not sure that it’s abuse because of how they do it and how they treat me otherwise so I’ve been doing some research. Any advice?

    • @maryandrews9160
      @maryandrews9160 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Arleyluvs it’s abuse. It’s not healthy for a brain

    • @saoirsejb
      @saoirsejb วันที่ผ่านมา

      Dear young person. There is a horrible culture in USA, where "winning" means dominating. They're obsessed with power & control. Spanking is NOT normal. It IS wrong and harmful. These people are spewing the false Gospel of Christian Nationalism. They are reviling people of colour and queer people. They look & present oh-so-sweet, but there is hate & violence behind these ideologies. It is perfectly possible to raise children to be responsible, kind, sensible, moral, self-disciplined caring people with good boundaries WITHOUT any sort of hitting or punishment. It's not ABOUT controlling behaviour, but about MODELLING desirable behaviour and supporting the young person to develop their own inner compass of their moral code & compass. It is good that your parents don't abuse you in any other ways, other than the spanking. From that, it sounds like they could be good parents. So, why spank? If you, and them, are great people & you're a great kid, WHY SPANK? There's a great resource called Flourishing Homes & Families. It's genuinely Christian & Bible-based, and teaches how with good communication & authentic connection & clear boundaries, you can raise children in the nurture of the Lord without hitting, yelling or punishing. I used to smack my children and I am so sorry for it now. I un-learned all the stuff these "influencers" are saying, and found a much better way to parent.
      11 is way, way too old to still be spanking, and it can interference with the child's sexual development & dignity too.
      I hope you're safe & alright, dear young person, and I wish you all the healing, & freedom & good mental health in the world.

  • @vipkidteacher
    @vipkidteacher 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Oh my goodness, the wife looks so controlled, miserable, brainwashed and extremely emotionally manipulated and suppressed. Exudes no confidence or anything godly but she seems so oppressed. I discern they are in religious legalism and their beliefs are not biblical.

    • @Omega-AlphaStudios-lh1rz
      @Omega-AlphaStudios-lh1rz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How is spanking legalistic?

    • @Mark-jb1fj
      @Mark-jb1fj 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He probably beats her " according to the scripture"

  • @yesorno1768
    @yesorno1768 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Some people apparently think that if you agree with spanking, you want the child to be abused. 🤦‍♀️

    • @DoopDoopMcLoop
      @DoopDoopMcLoop 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are not the child . You don’t know what pain they are going through when hit . It can be very traumatic which makes the pain worse . My experience is when people use violence they are always angry and go too far

    • @yesorno1768
      @yesorno1768 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      It sounds like you did not have a spanking done correctly. I was a child obviously, and I was spanked. I do appreciate the discipline my parents gave with the knowledge that they had.

  • @derrickminion9874
    @derrickminion9874 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Don't beat your kids!!!!!!!

    • @mollysmith624
      @mollysmith624 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Spanking is not beating.

    • @elibonham4388
      @elibonham4388 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      ​@@mollysmith624yes it is

    • @mei.mei1
      @mei.mei1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      ​@@mollysmith624 if an adult man or woman spanked you for messing up in any setting while you are learning something, professional or recreational, they'll receive an assault charge. Why do you think it's more acceptable to hit a child when a child is learning new skills and the brain is still developing, who is unable to defend themselves against an adult, and cannot differentiate between spanking, beating, or hitting?

    • @coachkevan2016
      @coachkevan2016 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@elibonham4388spanking is not beating.

    • @coachkevan2016
      @coachkevan2016 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@mei.mei1a spanking is not beating.

  • @maryandrews9160
    @maryandrews9160 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Spanking is not biblical and is harmful just like abuse. You don’t need to leave a mark for it to be abuse or harmful

    • @juliamyer2266
      @juliamyer2266 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Look up the two Proverbs on using the rod. It can be beneficial in cases of 1) danger, 2) defiance, 3) disrespect. The way you do it matters, as with many things in life. Just because can’t do it biblically, doesn’t mean you get to shame those who can.

    • @maryandrews9160
      @maryandrews9160 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @juliamyer2266 I don’t believe there is a way to biblically hit a child. That’s not biblical just cause society calls it discipline

  • @JBM101
    @JBM101 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    may as well cut the hand offf as well since its in the bible. "A firm flat hand on the butt 2-3 times swatted does NOT equal abuse." Sure how hard? whats firm? ... when is it firm enough, when is it not firm enough? Try that with an employee you get charged but its fine when its your own child ... anyone in new testament encourage this?

    • @dontedriskell
      @dontedriskell ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Know the difference between old covenantal law and Biblical Wisdom throughout all of scripture for Godly living. Discipline is commanded by God not to punish but ultimately to restore in the Home and in the Church.

    • @Xelenteontae_
      @Xelenteontae_ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Listen man, cutting of your hand means cutting off anything that causes sin.

    • @mei.mei1
      @mei.mei1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@Xelenteontae_sure, and a rod in the Bible meant a sceptre of authority and as a shepherding tool used to guide, pull sheep out of holes/trouble, and to defend sheep from wolves, bears, and other predators. Never was the rod used by a king to strike subjects or by a shepherd to strike sheep.

    • @travisvanvelze8765
      @travisvanvelze8765 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mei.mei1the rod is described as by disciplining a child. Sometimes it is needed to show a child the consequences of his/her actions. This doesn’t involve bruising or abusing the child. It must be firm so that a child understands that it is for correction. In the same breath we must lift our children and cherish them for the things they do right so they understand what sin is and can set boundaries based on the bible between what is wrong and what is right. I am grateful to have been spanked as I built a respectable relationship with my parents when I finally understood what they meant when they said that my actions were wrong. And i saw that they did it for my best interest.

  • @travisvanvelze8765
    @travisvanvelze8765 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I was a bad kid and i was spanked for it. I am grateful for it because a built a sense of respect for my parents. At the time i resented it but after a while of thought I understood why i was spanked and I didn’t do it again. Kids are not perfect little creatures that poop rainbows. They are sinful and that sin needs to be knippend in the bud immediately before it can grow to be ugly. I actually wish i was spanked more for some of the things i did.

    • @jimmybishop9816
      @jimmybishop9816 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What a joke. You don’t hit children. It is ridiculous. “I deserve a spanking” is your attitude. Sickening

  • @danielrowell
    @danielrowell 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you both for holding the line on this. So hard to find anyone sticking to the biblical instructions for parenting-especially among modern Christians. Spanking is a very good thing.

    • @Peonies925
      @Peonies925 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      It isnt. There are SOOO many more ways to discipline than hitting someone.

    • @danielrowell
      @danielrowell 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Peonies925 it’s not hitting. That’s a ridiculous assertion and it’s not biblical.
      Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him. -Prov13:24
      To pride yourself on not spanking your child is, biblically speaking, a hateful thing to do. What’s worse is you then assert moral authority as if it’s such a virtuous endeavor to avoid spanking.
      I will stick to scripture.

    • @Peonies925
      @Peonies925 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@danielrowell I WILL STICK WITH SCRIPTURE TOO! The Fruit of the Spirit is Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, GENTLENESS, faithfulness and self control. GALATIANS 5:22-23. You cant spank someone gently. Spanking is not of the Holy Spirit. There are 100s of ways to discipline without spanking.

    • @danielrowell
      @danielrowell 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Peonies925 All those caps, virtually trying to scream at me, is the opposite of self control. If it’s that easy for you to fly off the handle then someone like you probably shouldn’t be spanking.
      You and I both know that gentleness in that context isn’t referring to discipline, but an overall attitude. Yes we should be gentle and tender hearted, but we are also called to be diligent in discipline. Spankings should be thoroughly thought through and never an emotional reaction. It is well within the bounds of the fruit of the Spirit.

    • @vision9676
      @vision9676 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Peonies925 OK so let’s say 100 ways don’t work what are you going to do now because you cannot guarantee your way is going to always work when it comes to discipline because honestly it doesn’t

  • @EDV-js1oe
    @EDV-js1oe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why not discipline kids by letting them do the dishes or something.

    • @juliamyer2266
      @juliamyer2266 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Spanking is ideal for ages 18 months up to age 7. My four year old can’t load the dishwasher.

    • @DoopDoopMcLoop
      @DoopDoopMcLoop 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@juliamyer2266 Let the child sweep the kitchen or something . Use your imagination . 2000 ways to punish a child without hitting . Whole countries don’t spank and have better behaved kids than the USA

  • @pattrell5257
    @pattrell5257 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    But, quoting Paul?! See Rev 2 VS 1 Cor 8!

  • @Villiam_07
    @Villiam_07 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    No, its unacceptable.

  • @askfortheoldpaths
    @askfortheoldpaths ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome video! 👍 I really appreciate your practical advice based on the Scriptures. What's your opinion on whether the bottom should be bare with spanking?

    • @haystackhomeschool
      @haystackhomeschool 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There is no scripture on this whatsoever, so anyone's opinion is moot.

    • @askfortheoldpaths
      @askfortheoldpaths 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@haystackhomeschool Maybe not on the specifics, but there is definitely Scriptural support for spanking:
      "Scolding and spanking a child helps him to learn. Left to himself, he brings shame to his mother." (Proverbs 29:15 TLB)

    • @DoopDoopMcLoop
      @DoopDoopMcLoop 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This is exactly why corporal punishment shouldn’t exist, when the weird comments start

  • @JamesSullivan-p9m
    @JamesSullivan-p9m หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    King David says yes! In the 23rd Psalm: thy rod (the spanker) and thy staff (the word) they comfort me. If parents don't spank their children when there's hope, they will grow up and spank the parents.

  • @kvelez
    @kvelez ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great response.

  • @rachellemacawile6904
    @rachellemacawile6904 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you ❤

  • @AnglicanCuriosity
    @AnglicanCuriosity ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very biblical and insightful

  • @lwearj0rts
    @lwearj0rts ปีที่แล้ว

    Only Freud, what about Marx, Lenin, Kinsey and even a “Christian” in Dobson?

  • @EDV-js1oe
    @EDV-js1oe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They talk so nicely and have such sweet voices. I hope it's all real

    • @DoopDoopMcLoop
      @DoopDoopMcLoop 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I thought it was a skit . Horrifying that it’s actually real

  • @Sportsfan18
    @Sportsfan18 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonderful👏🏻

  • @maryandrews9160
    @maryandrews9160 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You don’t only have 6 years. I don’t know where you heard that from, but that is wrong

  • @raelenekelly8306
    @raelenekelly8306 ปีที่แล้ว

    The intro to this 😭😭😭😭😭❤️

  • @BeautifulQueen9112
    @BeautifulQueen9112 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My parents beaten me

  • @kevinvidal1243
    @kevinvidal1243 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a good video!

  • @louisemayrand1549
    @louisemayrand1549 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes but only as a last resort

  • @Daniellenicole566
    @Daniellenicole566 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    AMEN!!

  • @flimsyjimnz
    @flimsyjimnz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Appalling how many naively call spanking abuse.
    Saying spanking should be banned because its abuse is like saying the Boy Scout Movement should be banned because it's the same as the Hitler Youth Movement.

    • @DoopDoopMcLoop
      @DoopDoopMcLoop 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are not the one being hit . You DONT know how much pain a child suffers . A guy I went to school with used to laugh after a paddling . In his suicide note years later he described the pain as unbearable but as a male he didn’t want to let on he was hurt . He also had self esteem issues

  • @artluvr6170
    @artluvr6170 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Before a parent hits a child in the name of an invisible and mythological god, the parent must first demonstrate that the invisible god actually exists. Otherwise it is a sick and perverted act.

    • @juliamyer2266
      @juliamyer2266 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why do atheists comment on Christian teaching? I see it all the time on Reddit threads. Always hateful and mocking. Of course if you don’t believe in God you won’t like what he says. Nobody’s making you watch this. Why are you here?

    • @DoopDoopMcLoop
      @DoopDoopMcLoop 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This comment only makes Christians worse even though you mean well . Most of them are on a power trip , introduced by their Pastor who goes out of his way to tell parents that the children are possessed by the devil and need to be hit 🙄

    • @juliamyer2266
      @juliamyer2266 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@DoopDoopMcLoop No. I am not making Christians look worse. Your comment is. I have NEVER heard a pastor say that "children are possessed by the devil and need to be hit." That is not Christian teaching and is nowhere in the Bible. Your comment shows that you have never read the Bible and do not talk to real Christians, but instead perpetuate a caricature of Christians. You are pointing at the speck in my eye when there is a log in your own.

    • @juliamyer2266
      @juliamyer2266 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@DoopDoopMcLoop I was genuinely asking why the commenter saw any point in commenting on this video. If I were a vegan, would it make sense to leave nasty comments on a TH-cam video about the benefits of a carnivore diet? Sure it would be satisfying to anonymously mock another's beliefs (a power trip?), but that reveals more about my own insecurity in my beliefs. If I need to turn the other side into a straw-man to win my argument, then my position must be pretty weak. Ironically, I think your comment makes Christians look worse than they are. I have never heard a pastor tell parents that "children are possessed by the devil and need to be hit." Nor have I read anything of that sort. I don't know where you heard that. If you read the Bible or listen to biblical preaching, you will not find that in there.

  • @goddessdes
    @goddessdes ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you !!

  • @JulieChasen
    @JulieChasen 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Small flexible twig’ lol

    • @DoopDoopMcLoop
      @DoopDoopMcLoop 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah , a whippy plastic rod more like . Which is very painful to a child . Adults forget that they have a much higher pain tolerance than children

  • @elkellenhabla
    @elkellenhabla ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Black Lives Matter to God. 🤷🏽‍♂️
    White conservatives are strict capitalists in once the deck has been stacked in their favor through centuries of racism/discrimination.
    Anyway, now that I’m done with my ranting: this is a tricky topic because most adoption agencies don’t allow corporal punishment today.

  • @lylemoors4194
    @lylemoors4194 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    And Look at how modern kids are now.

    • @coachkevan2016
      @coachkevan2016 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That’s due to lack of spankings. This cowardly redirecting and gentle parenting doesn’t work.

    • @Omega-AlphaStudios-lh1rz
      @Omega-AlphaStudios-lh1rz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@coachkevan2016Ditto

    • @DoopDoopMcLoop
      @DoopDoopMcLoop 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Most kids are ok . Single parent families and other issues contribute to some children’s behaviour . Curfews should be in place in every town to keep them off the streets at night . But the Universities are full each year of good students who worked hard in High School

  • @elibonham4388
    @elibonham4388 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Spare the rod spoil the child