They don't leave until they can go directly to the new one. They never have a gap. Even while in relationship with one they have others during your relationship. ❤❤❤
Those weird beings have several superficial "supplies" going on the entire duration. Unfortunately, "shallow" is their only function. I'm thankful this garbage is loooong gone. NO CONTACT. Feels better every day to accept I didn't live a lie. Continuing to forgive myself for believing HE is a lie. NO CONTACT.
I stayed 40 years. RUN away at that moment you were uncomfortable and couldn't figure out why. Our maternal instinct wanted to protect them from their own faults. Sad but true
I stayed for 42 years. No sense in regretting the wasted years, but however long I have left to live, it's going to be peaceful. I'm divorcing him now. Blessings to you.
@ValerieRoberts-uv7kf I'll never regret that marriage. I raised a kind healthy son in spite of his father. He is a miserable old man now with nothing to show for his life. You understand that. We are happy now. God bless you 🙏 ❤️
I stayed married 31 yrs, now 3 months divorced. We also raised a family. They are all good people. I’ll never regret that but I have a cpo against him for 3 yrs for assaulting me Dec 5th last year. I filed for divorce 6 days later. I am struggling financially but the peace is worth it
@sandraleehurst7350 Sandra... get your self a dog. Men are scared to death of them. AND they are much more loyal than that man ever was. Peace to you sister 💕 We are free!
I got this feeling from someone I recently went on 3 dates with. Had to end it because I was simply uncomfortable around her, had a gut feeling. Red flags were there but not overt.
This is my experience. Was seeing this narc for 18 months or so.. We had spent the night and then within a couple days after ..I was blocked, and he had moved in with his new supply.
Funny every time a guy breaks up with a girl he magically becomes a narcissist that he was such a great guy until he broke up with her. I'm calling BS on 80% of this narcissist talk
@sniper1444 it's in the bible call bs all day long..the word of God stands no matter what you call..wolves I sheep clothing and angels of lighr..satans children...to God be the glory
@@sniper1444With due respect, study the matter & you’ll see this stuff is exactly on point. Or , if preferring a defensive posture for, uh. whatever reason, cool. Not like it’s a crime~ Best wishes either way.
Thank you for proving my point. If someone pushes back on someone claiming they're a narcissist that obviously means they're being defensive because they truly are a narcissist😅😅😅 can't make this stuff up people will do anything to get out of accountability
Red flag! When we first started talking I asked him if he was seeing someone already. He said "yes, but I can cut her loose, no problem" I was struck by how callous he sounded, I actually felt sorry for her. Sure enough, he discarded me just as easily for someone else. Because of the trauma bonding, I settled for side chick to the new relationship. Then it occurred to me that's part of his pattern. Circling back to past gfs and giving you hope that the new relationship isn't working out. No contact and continuing to forgive myself.
Indeed, quick! And I secretly 🙄did not rise above my normal human feelings regarding what I felt when Ms .Rebound also made a mad dash for the door, so to speak.
I ended my relationship with my narcissistic ex 12 days ago and have stayed completely no-contact since then. She was in a new relationship the same day I left. She’s texted four or five times, saying she misses me and wants to see me, but I haven’t replied, not even once. I can sense that this is likely driving her crazy, and I wouldn't be surprised if she’s mistreating others in her life out of frustration, wondering why her "favorite supply" just left like that. When an empath and a Scorpio set boundaries, there’s no going back - and that’s the power of real strength and self-respect.
14 years with a narcissist. He absolutely never ended our relationship without having another girl. He cheated constantly. Also, we've been separated for 10 years and he's still never even for 3 days been single before. He can't be alone at all
Same here he had women added all over his Snapchat Facebook twitter whatever it was even met them in person constantly I finally left but it was 4 1/2 years of misery and games abuse I don’t know if they’ll get karma for what they do to us it’s bad enough they gonna find someone else to harm with their abusive nature
I dated a woman for 3 months that in hindsight I believe was a covert narcissist. I sat covert, specifically, because I have some education on personality disorders. It was 6 days after I'd sent her text that went unanswered and not a peep from her that it occurred to me that she was going to ghost me. I got on her Facebook page and she posted something that could literally only be interpreted as soliciting sex from, well...whomever. I never heard from her again.
In my case his girl friend had break up with NPD 2 day before I meet him . ,but I didn't know I just find out 2 week later ,,when she called him in his car for a drive.,& the ex name shown on the car screen,,& this 70 years old ,NPD TOLD ME She had break up on Saturday,,on Monday he was in a date with me,, it didn't last much longer ,I break up to many red flags . ,exploiting me mind games to use my resources Selfserving Manipulation etc . Thanks to my knowledge about NPD.
Divorced narc ex wife 2 months ago after 10 years of hell. I don' answer texts, post or look on social media. Trying to move on and heal like it never happened. I don't know what's she's doing but I know it's treacherous for all involved and won't end well.
It is exactly same thing with Axl Rose of Guns and Roses he got married one day and next day Axl divorced his wife and later married a new woman later same day so who knows maybe Axl Rose is a Narcissist.
I guess I’m weird, or just in a place where I’ve finally accepted reality and moved on…I kinda want them to move on quicker.😅😅 I feel the process to freedom is so slow, but I know it’s important for my kids and so I can establish and maintain my freedom ❤
Here's the thing- if you gave been seriously abused by a TRUE narcissist..20 years and PTSD from the trauma..I now have no problem cutting off ANYONE who shows even glimpses of red flags..so don't confuse reactionary actions with being a narcissist. I have no apologies. My boundaries are brick walls and I would rather be alone the rest of my life than deal with anyone who even attempts to manipulate me.
Narcissist are Cold Blooded in Relationship just like One Night Stand. If I had to Potrait a Cartoon of a Narcissist who is so so Unstable in relationship I always imagine of a Narcissist in the form of Dancing Neon Lights hanged on a Big Christmas 🎄 Tree or hanged out of the Main Door 🚪 during Festivals.😊 The Lights move in kind of Rhythm like First Move 1 2 Cha Cha Cha Dance and then the Neon Lights take another move with a Snap of a Finger - Chak Chuk Chak Chuk, Chak Chak Chak Chuk 😊
I've met a few people who told me, "I move on fast don't take it personally I've done it to everyone." (This is regardless of how long or deep the relationship was). I personally move on REALLY slowly (takes me long to heal), but I still feel like these people move on FASTER than the majority population. I still am on the fence as to whether this is also a pathology or some people are just able to do it. Society encourages moving on quickly so nobody looks into this but I always feel something is off if people move TOO fast.
Mutipple relationship..they have different levels of intimacy ....they lack utterly ...in any loyalty value ...when the connect with a individual everything goes thru the window it's sucking dry the present one ....parasites
They get their karma everyday as they’re all so THOROUGHLY miserable! But yes, no one can ever escape karma (Universal Law of Cause & Effect). It’s impossible to.
@@ValerieRoberts-uv7kf , I believe you’re assuming being a narcissist means you don’t have human empathy. The two are different and and if you are a narcissist, you can have an over abundance of empathy.
They can’t be alone with themselves
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They don't leave until they can go directly to the new one. They never have a gap. Even while in relationship with one they have others during your relationship. ❤❤❤
Yes! Ah….the good ‘ole overlap 🤬🤮🎯
Those weird beings have several superficial "supplies" going on the entire duration. Unfortunately, "shallow" is their only function.
I'm thankful this garbage is loooong gone. NO CONTACT.
Feels better every day to accept I didn't live a lie. Continuing to forgive myself for believing HE is a lie.
NO CONTACT.
That’s the word shallow they like have no core no soul
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True they are shallow you can be constantly triangulated they always have another one in mind or already on line 😢
I stayed 40 years. RUN away at that moment you were uncomfortable and couldn't figure out why. Our maternal instinct wanted to protect them from their own faults. Sad but true
I stayed for 42 years. No sense in regretting the wasted years, but however long I have left to live, it's going to be peaceful. I'm divorcing him now. Blessings to you.
@ValerieRoberts-uv7kf I'll never regret that marriage. I raised a kind healthy son in spite of his father. He is a miserable old man now with nothing to show for his life. You understand that. We are happy now. God bless you 🙏 ❤️
I stayed married 31 yrs, now 3 months divorced. We also raised a family. They are all good people. I’ll never regret that but I have a cpo against him for 3 yrs for assaulting me Dec 5th last year. I filed for divorce 6 days later. I am struggling financially but the peace is worth it
@sandraleehurst7350 Sandra... get your self a dog. Men are scared to death of them. AND they are much more loyal than that man ever was. Peace to you sister 💕 We are free!
I got this feeling from someone I recently went on 3 dates with. Had to end it because I was simply uncomfortable around her, had a gut feeling. Red flags were there but not overt.
She’s a 100% right
💯% right
So true ! This differentiates marked narcissistic tendencies from other "normal " ones!
This is my experience. Was seeing this narc for 18 months or so.. We had spent the night and then within a couple days after ..I was blocked, and he had moved in with his new supply.
Funny every time a guy breaks up with a girl he magically becomes a narcissist that he was such a great guy until he broke up with her. I'm calling BS on 80% of this narcissist talk
@sniper1444 it's in the bible call bs all day long..the word of God stands no matter what you call..wolves I sheep clothing and angels of lighr..satans children...to God be the glory
After 18 months Lucy you need some explaining please at least
@@sniper1444Ty im writing that in my little bs note book I keep handy- you said 80percent. Got you! 😂
@@sniper1444With due respect, study the matter & you’ll see this stuff is exactly on point. Or , if preferring a defensive posture for, uh. whatever reason, cool. Not like it’s a crime~ Best wishes either way.
Thank you for proving my point. If someone pushes back on someone claiming they're a narcissist that obviously means they're being defensive because they truly are a narcissist😅😅😅 can't make this stuff up people will do anything to get out of accountability
So true, experiencing this with a family member who I have let suck me dry. After watching almost all of your posts I told her goodbye God bless.😢
Red flag! When we first started talking I asked him if he was seeing someone already. He said "yes, but I can cut her loose, no problem" I was struck by how callous he sounded, I actually felt sorry for her. Sure enough, he discarded me just as easily for someone else.
Because of the trauma bonding, I settled for side chick to the new relationship. Then it occurred to me that's part of his pattern. Circling back to past gfs and giving you hope that the new relationship isn't working out.
No contact and continuing to forgive myself.
Indeed, quick! And I secretly 🙄did not rise above my normal human feelings regarding what I felt when Ms .Rebound also made a mad dash for the door, so to speak.
God bless you, Dr. Ramani!!! ❤
I ended my relationship with my narcissistic ex 12 days ago and have stayed completely no-contact since then. She was in a new relationship the same day I left. She’s texted four or five times, saying she misses me and wants to see me, but I haven’t replied, not even once. I can sense that this is likely driving her crazy, and I wouldn't be surprised if she’s mistreating others in her life out of frustration, wondering why her "favorite supply" just left like that. When an empath and a Scorpio set boundaries, there’s no going back - and that’s the power of real strength and self-respect.
Shocking and really hurtful
They expand fast add more
❤ yes they all about image
14 years with a narcissist. He absolutely never ended our relationship without having another girl. He cheated constantly. Also, we've been separated for 10 years and he's still never even for 3 days been single before. He can't be alone at all
Same here he had women added all over his Snapchat Facebook twitter whatever it was even met them in person constantly I finally left but it was 4 1/2 years of misery and games abuse I don’t know if they’ll get karma for what they do to us it’s bad enough they gonna find someone else to harm with their abusive nature
FACT #THEY CANT BE ALONE
I dated a woman for 3 months that in hindsight I believe was a covert narcissist. I sat covert, specifically, because I have some education on personality disorders. It was 6 days after I'd sent her text that went unanswered and not a peep from her that it occurred to me that she was going to ghost me. I got on her Facebook page and she posted something that could literally only be interpreted as soliciting sex from, well...whomever. I never heard from her again.
Am humble one lover
💯💯💯💯
The XN did just that upon divorce separation.
Total sicko.
They really do. Surprisedly fast.
EXACTLY!!!
In my case his girl friend had break up with NPD 2 day before I meet him .
,but I didn't know I just find out 2 week later ,,when she called him in his car for a drive.,& the ex name shown on the car screen,,& this 70 years old ,NPD TOLD ME
She had break up on Saturday,,on Monday he was in a date with me,, it didn't last much longer ,I break up to many red flags .
,exploiting me mind games to use my resources
Selfserving Manipulation etc .
Thanks to my knowledge about
NPD.
Facts! 🖤👽🧙
I knéw it! 💡
Right...
Divorced narc ex wife 2 months ago after 10 years of hell. I don' answer texts, post or look on social media. Trying to move on and heal like it never happened. I don't know what's she's doing but I know it's treacherous for all involved and won't end well.
It is exactly same thing with Axl Rose of Guns and Roses he got married one day and next day Axl divorced his wife and later married a new woman later same day so who knows maybe Axl Rose is a Narcissist.
Was.
I guess I’m weird, or just in a place where I’ve finally accepted reality and moved on…I kinda want them to move on quicker.😅😅 I feel the process to freedom is so slow, but I know it’s important for my kids and so I can establish and maintain my freedom ❤
They eventually implode though
Narcissists move onto a new relationship quickly and very easily
HOW/WHY?
it’s upgrade for them
for non narcissistic people? it’s never quick nor easy
Next!! They've already planned your replacement.
Yes l agree
Then, if someone leaves them, ego breaks
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How do we know the difference between someone who was never that invested anyway, vs a narcissist?
Here's the thing- if you gave been seriously abused by a TRUE narcissist..20 years and PTSD from the trauma..I now have no problem cutting off ANYONE who shows even glimpses of red flags..so don't confuse reactionary actions with being a narcissist. I have no apologies. My boundaries are brick walls and I would rather be alone the rest of my life than deal with anyone who even attempts to manipulate me.
Very much familiar territory of my life in my X husbands.
55❤ so true
im his primary supply, then found out theres another supply in line. Then, he left just like dat
Make hay while thr sun shines quick make a quick bugg ...
Oh yeah -11 years of marriage and the new supply moved in 4 days after I moved out!
Wow
Narcissist are Cold Blooded in Relationship just like One Night Stand.
If I had to Potrait a Cartoon of a Narcissist who is so so Unstable in relationship I always imagine of a Narcissist in the form of Dancing Neon Lights hanged on a Big Christmas 🎄 Tree or hanged out of the Main Door 🚪 during Festivals.😊
The Lights move in kind of Rhythm like First Move
1 2 Cha Cha Cha Dance and then the Neon Lights take another move with a Snap of a Finger - Chak Chuk Chak Chuk, Chak Chak Chak Chuk 😊
I've met a few people who told me, "I move on fast don't take it personally I've done it to everyone." (This is regardless of how long or deep the relationship was).
I personally move on REALLY slowly (takes me long to heal), but I still feel like these people move on FASTER than the majority population.
I still am on the fence as to whether this is also a pathology or some people are just able to do it. Society encourages moving on quickly so nobody looks into this but I always feel something is off if people move TOO fast.
Excellent point!! 🎯🎯 society praises and rewards this kind of behavior, so it’s overlooked!!
Mutipple relationship..they have different levels of intimacy ....they lack utterly ...in any loyalty value ...when the connect with a individual everything goes thru the window it's sucking dry the present one ....parasites
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Do narcs ever get karma in life for what they did to annoy one they had damaged?
Comment below your stories @ me or comment
They get their karma everyday as they’re all so THOROUGHLY miserable! But yes, no one can ever escape karma (Universal Law of Cause & Effect). It’s impossible to.
What is her name ?
Dr Ramini
Had a new gf move into his house a week later....
Dr Ramani you look so sexy and beautiful, powerful like a goddess woman. ❤👑
❤️❤️ yes
Here’s an interesting question. It’s a given there are bad narcissists, are there good narcissists?
How is not having empathy good?
@@ValerieRoberts-uv7kf , I believe you’re assuming being a narcissist means you don’t have human empathy. The two are different and and if you are a narcissist, you can have an over abundance of empathy.
Yeah because thay a cheating with there new boy friend be for that they leave you
Yoo my ex did that what’s the odds 😂
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Your name tina
And really disgusting
* cough trump cough *
Keep Trump out of it 😂
You need awig