Because most people aren't really your friend. Most people will act like your friend or act pleasant as a part of their public facade to look and feel good about themselves. I have no time for awkward small-talk. I go to work to work, make money, and go home.
"The aim of the wise is not to secure pleasure, but to avoid pain." - Aristotle "He who is unable to live in society, or who has no need because he is sufficient for himself, must be either a beast or a god" - Also Aristotle "In solitude, be a multitude to thyself" - Tibullus I always recommend reading the old thinkers from antiquity. The endless source of wisdom beats any meaningless blathering with people who's minds are consumed by societal BS.
I like that ! I actually had bumper stickers made that read...Got Integrity ? Finally...a label that fits me...Sigma Male, translation...a man with integrity. Thank you Sesna.
Totally agree with you! I started doing what is called a mud check early in life and family will back stab you just as fast as friends! Set a course to stay independent and they can't touch you!
I've worked hard for 33 years (now 48) to take the time to understand and deal with my emotions through balance. I used to but no longer, because I had no backbone and let everyone walk all over me, drop what I do for anyone and allow anyone with emotional baggage that I've learned to ditch for myself. Does this mean I'm perfect? Heck no, it just means I can't allow another person who is emotionally weak, doesn't work to improve self into my personal circle because they are a threat. A person who has no impulse control on their emotions, often goes to extremes with thinking and has no sense of balance. Balance takes work and I do that work each day, I work hard to maintain myself so I can be there for others. I know mostly dramatics, users, ghosters and manipulators, people can't handle my kindness and compassion they treat me like I'm some one armed bandit they can keep jerking around. No more, I don't have to invite people into my life who are a threat because they don't try to be better people but expect everyone to bow to the BS. I'm not a sigma male, I don't like labels, but I am someone who cares about all life and prays for it every day on this entire earth. I don't care If no one replies to this comment or not I just wanted to share this with others. Peace everyone!
I’ve been called a ‘loner’ all of my life, like it was a bad thing. I never knew what being a ‘stoic’ or a ‘sigma’ until much later in life and began to study more about psychology and learned more about myself along the way. I prefer to be alone in a dimly lit room with a book to read or a watch to tinker with over a loud, bright area with social interactions and stimulus overload. I have always been happy in my own company and very few ever make it to my inner sanctum beyond what I allow the outside world to see about my life. If someone crosses a boundary I go zero contact and don’t give in to drama or guilt.
You nailed it with that last sentence. It’s such a simple; but life changing tool in the value it has. We are wired to feel obligated to reciprocate and be genial no matter what, but once you figure out that nobody anywhere for any reason has the right to take away your peace, all you have to do is disengage and mean it. I think the concept is too frightening to implement for most people, but it works so well if you fully embrace it.
Tell your children and grand children you are never going to respect them, till they prove that they have earned it! Respect when given even in the face of disrespect, or ignorance of how to behave like a normal well rounded person is the very thing that teaches others that respect is one of the greatest super powers a person can have, it shows integrity and a strong scene of self worth that quietly demands mutual respect, this is what builds relationships with friends or family.
I can't Stand Gossip !!! I am usually thinking about Something so I haven't got time for people who pretend they are better than me !!! I have no time for Anyone now. My 2 Dogs are my True Friends. Also I am 70 yrs old and my Life is in Order. So I don't want some Big Head telling Me what to do !!!
Same here. After my last relationship ended 13 years ago I didn't really have it in me to try again. The drama people bring disrupts my peace and happiness. I've tried through the years but people are into themselves. I make the most money I have made in my life now, though not wealthy I am above the average. Im looking at buying land, hopefully with an old farm house I can restore and become self sufficient so I don't have to work for anyone else again. Just me and my dogs on my land doing what I love to do. I can't wait to get there
Several years ago, at a gathering, a family member told me he wanted to tell me something. But I had to promise to not tell anyone else. I stopped him. I said, If I'm not supposed to tell anyone else, then I don't want to know what it is. He got indignant over that. He couldn't believe it. He was perplexed and didn't know how to handle my response. I completely shut him down. The end.
I expect nothing from anyone. I return what others give me first. I know perfection is subjective. I seek a woman to be my partner, not my next problem. I don't say any of this lightly. I pray for a day we all seek peace.
The reason I ignore people is they're no different from children except that they're bigger which allows them to carry more baggage. I got tired of trying to help people that don't really want my help as a friend but instead just want to complain while I listen. I have my wife of 17 years, two boys and a small collection of friends. Everything else is just static. If you really want a happy life, ignore the static.
@@AlexLR The potential outcome of any given situation must be weighed between the pro's and con's...the objective is defined by a favorable decision, which usually are outweighed by the consequences
This describes me perfectly. I have 2 close friends and much prefer to be alone and do not like any drama in my life. I had 2 co-workers get married this summer and was not invited to either wedding. Did not have to buy a gift or go and interact with people i did not want to be around. I hike alone and golf when I want to. I will take the quiet peaceful lifestyle.
Ghosting/ Blocking-out All Negativity from Any/ALL mediums via ear-bugs and unplugged/silenced electronics including phones = essential survival / thriving tactics...
Never suffer fools, never show emotion, never loose a stare and never loose your temper. If only it was that easy, at times, it is hard not to respond.
People have let me down . I used to trust them and believe they had my back. Not so much anymore. Women have tought me lessons . Believe in the power of one . Once again into the fray
Remarkable how rare a sigma male is suppose to be yet a lot of men seem to identify themselves as sigma males. A lion doesn't have to convince an antelope that it's a lion. A true sigma male wouldn't refer himself to be a sigma male or try to convince others that he is one. He just is.
Hello, Ive been watching hunderds of vids on sigma, but yours are truly to the point. Several of the points you made are spot-on, keep them coming ;-) met vriendelijke groeten : John from the Netherlands
All these sigma male videos really resonate with me. I never thought of myself as an alpha or a beta. Almost every point made in these videos are 100% how I think and feel. These points also sound like aspects of autism but like autism lite.
Best _Sigma Male_ vid yet! Quickly and emphatically gets to the main points of how sigmas deal with betrayal, narcissists in the workplace, and rudeness at social gatherings. Just walk away! Best revenge, and it gets their attention.
The past year I've had to cut ties with my entire sad excuse for a "family" after they all betrayed my Father and myself after his death. I hurt inside and out yet won't give in to their disgusting attitude towards me. My once "friends" all betrayed me when I needed help the most,n now I'm glad to be alone and away from all their bullshit.
I would consider myself a sigma personality. I don’t think I’m better than anybody else, but I also don’t need anything from anyone else to enrich my life, so I don’t really interact with anyone except when absolutely necessary. People often misinterpret this as arrogance, in my experience.
Video came out on my feed but so glad it did, it describes me to a tee, a lot of the time I don’t want to interact with others, especially at work and especially women who I basically ignore, 51 years old so more than used to being disrespected by the opposite sex so I cut them out of my life completely, they are mostly just materialistic and superficial now and not worth my time. I have friends, good friends who like me are honest genuine people. I spend a lot of my time in thought, constantly working on some plan or strategy, I have never felt alone even though I have pretty much spent my whole life alone.
I've lost track of the number of people who have charged me with each of these 'offences'. One thing I get a lot of, when I try to show someone something... 'Am I going to know what I'm looking at? Because when you talk, most of us don't know what you're talking about.'
For me respect is FUNDAMENTAL, and when it is lost, it is lost, for me losing my respect is worse than losing my Trust, I don't usually trust anyone anyway so you prob wont have any to lose in the first place, but Respect, ooooooh that can go easily. Same goes with me perceiving that I am not being respected, it just flips a switch in my mind and that person is deleted.
One other thing , when we speak our thoughts out loud and talk about our point of view , most people especially shallow people don't understand us. we could be discussing football , the average person will discuss minor details while sigmas will discuss the fundamentals of this sport and what really makes it work behind the scenes. people usually don't dive deep and investigate the things we do everyday without pausing and asking questions.
Wow….just…WOW! I’m doing the exact same thing at my Job now to someone and I know it’s killing them and they are confused at this point. Not my problem especially when I cut them off basically it being the 2nd time on a similar circumstance which I didn’t know they had a issue with me and I WENT TO THE INDIVIDUAL CAUSE I FELT IT. Months later ..they did the same thing..similar circumstance but WAY less issue and they acted outta character. I now act like they don’t exist and I work right next to them. The individual gotta COME TO ME NOW TO RECTIFY THE SITUATION. Until then…. 💁🏾♂️ IGNORED!
I'm 40 yo, it is 100 percent about me, even if I never knew about this term (sigma). i call myself a looser and I'm pretty sure 90 percent of population call me that too. no need making being a looser a good trait.
If they are so dedicated to the truth ,They should stand up for it and not stay silent and ignore the lie and liar.That is just cowardness avoiding confrontation .Ignoring falsehood is not honorable behaviour !
I identify with a lot of those points. I did a Myers Briggs personality test a few months ago and came out as an Architect (INTP). The sigma male fits this rather well.
Yup that's me too. The problem with a lot of these is the descriptions lack specifics and are a bit too generic the way horoscopes can be. I used to think I was HSP, ADD maybe even autistic. No label truly 100% fits. But sigma and INTP hit very close to the mark.
My sigma brothers am a sigma who did not take shit so I ended up being in a relationship with a woman who is manipulative and used to judge everything I do as toxic to her it ended up crushing the way I thing and see things how can I deal with this type of situation I made a promise that I won't leave since am man of integrity but now am starting to loose myself help a fellow brother here I no longer believe what I see or analyze due to the manipulation because I've ignored red flags
You are being gaslit, and you need to work on discernment, so you can identify when manipulative tactics are being ran on you. Start studying this type of stuff and you won't get tricked anymore and then it's up to you to have the backbone to lay down firm boundaries and don't budge
@victormc2878 I had an option to when you are mentally weak another thing when I keep a promise I don't change it now I've made a decision to move on myself being drained made me to that point having kids with someone sacrificing a lot of stuff
@@covenantkhosa7189 gaslighting is not a joke! You will literally feel like you’re losing your mind dealing with somebody who does that shit. They will think you’re crazy when they’re the problem all along. Run, My guy!
If you made that promise to keep your integrity intact,then through toxicity,your integrity has been eroded and destroyed over time, then that person has no respect for what you hold sacred.You have to get out of this A bomb situation to rebuild what was pulled down by someone else.This person has no respect for you so why should you keep giving??Best of luck 💪
The observations (externals) are correct, but the motives expressed here are rarely correct and contradictory. A person valuing truth, independence, reason, understanding and a wholistic philosophy on life very quickly becomes aware they are different. Their social interactions are driven by the need to give of themselves (teach) others, those he deems are not receptive to receiving what he offers or that they have only canned/shallow/regurgitated opinions and ideas are simply not worth his efforts. He is not shunning them, punishing them or demanding respect. It is simply the correct response.
i called myself a recluse and i dont think i am better i just cant stand society, never heard this name fits perfectly, i will say this is a very hard life to live and can be wow just wow i am always alone and dont mind it, and when talking some find it hard to understand what i am saying, my gas tank is already 3 quarters full of bullshit i say. Also people always want something
Sad that I had to distance myself from one of my brothers. Quite honestly there's a decent age gap and partially I cannot relate too much to either brother because of that age gap. We don't have all that much in common. And then one of them crossed the line with me and was very offensive and disrespectful so I just continued the silent treatment. Again there's no real reason to chat if there's nothing in common and he can't relate or empathize with any of my struggles
Ghosting for me can go both ways, if a person ghosts me to annoy me they are screwed, because that signals me that it is over that person gets deleted from my life forever. When it comes from another sigma, it is perfection cause, message received, good luck with you life. xD Simple and efficient. :D
As others have noted downstream, this video overthinks the issue. We ignore people because they take up time better spent on just about anything else. IOW, they're boring.
THought I was anti social and my sense of logic and need for genuine nature was a mental issue... after talking to many psychologists and insted of them helping me I help them learn i realized I am SIGMA AKA REAL MAN!
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Wait are u a sigma male
Is there a correlation between sigmas and those with Aspergers?
We ignore people cause what makes them interesting?
We ignore people because they are damned annoying
Lol. True
We see through the bull 💩 that comes with 99.9% of the human population. No time
We jus get a vibe and we have to protect ourselves tho!
and stupid
I’ve been driving a London taxi at night for thirty years, and I agree 😂
Some of us value (demand) a drama free life.
IMAGINE! ha ha! Bravo!
Some of us are just massive autists
Amen to that. Top of my list.
Because most people aren't really your friend. Most people will act like your friend or act pleasant as a part of their public facade to look and feel good about themselves. I have no time for awkward small-talk. I go to work to work, make money, and go home.
spoken out of my soul, sadly small talk skills seems to be required a lot in very different professions.
................and don't forget, you don't need a union to tell you how to vote, or what you need out of life!
Bingo!
well at least you talk to us on youtube, just please don,t look at me
I don’t need a title, I take pride being humble, honest, sarcastic, animal loving, get sweaty and dirty do it myself guy. It got me a good life.
Exactly brother, I do the same thing but yet I get called an asshole all the time!
"It got me a good life"... ditto. Although, some will not know what you mean by a "good life".
Amen
Well said
Definitely. That's how I feel about life too. 😎
According to your definition of a sigma male, I am one. "I don't hate people, I just like it better when they're not around"- Charles Bukowski.
@TonyRedunzo
I enjoyed his novels and short stories. RIP skid row Hemingway.
"The aim of the wise is not to secure pleasure, but to avoid pain." - Aristotle
"He who is unable to live in society, or who has no need because he is sufficient for himself, must be either a beast or a god" - Also Aristotle
"In solitude, be a multitude to thyself" - Tibullus
I always recommend reading the old thinkers from antiquity. The endless source of wisdom beats any meaningless blathering with people who's minds are consumed by societal BS.
I agree
@@Tyrfingr Television has been our ruin.
@@hadmatter9240 That and those even more hellish cellphones.
Ghosting and silence my favorite
That is me... I'm a perfectionist in silencing/ ghosting anyone who gets on my nerves
Amen, specially when your "friend" don’t ask you but tell you and don’t take a no for an answer.
A simga is just a healthy developed man.
exactly
im not special but sort of am because im not dumbed dumb, sick, or weak
100%, correct
An INTJ
Not many of those in society nowadays.
So is a Sigma
Sigma is another word for integrity!
I like that ! I actually had bumper stickers made that read...Got Integrity ? Finally...a label that fits me...Sigma Male, translation...a man with integrity. Thank you Sesna.
Amazing perspective, thank you
I find that almost everyone I encounter is shallow and superficial. Especially todays woman...
True, not many honest nice friendly people left in the world there a rare species.
100% right!!!!!!
I completely agree with you
Sigma is the man that uses the brain, doesn’t care about tik tok or the other things that put them out of their thinking
Crap like Tik Tok and video games are what I consider "Mental Masturbation", and nothing besides.
Most men used to be like this until social media pussified everybody.
Most people thought I was standoffish and selfish. Now I know I'm a Sigma !
They think you are selfish because you don't let them suck the life out of you, they are narcissists.
Most so-called friends, will betray you in the end. Better keep clear and keep distance! They also talk too much!
Totally agree with you!
I started doing what is called a mud check early in life and family will back stab you just as fast as friends!
Set a course to stay independent and they can't touch you!
Exactly
I've only had one friend who were the exact opposite who sadly passed away. The worst loss i ever felt.
@@Tyrfingr Yes, that hurts. I know. 👃
Because we know ''PEOPLE SUCK!''
If you burn your bridge...I won't acknowledge your existance...I've been that way, forever
We ignore most people, because most people aren't worth wasting a breath on them..
I like people watching, from a distance.
I've worked hard for 33 years (now 48) to take the time to understand and deal with my emotions through balance. I used to but no longer, because I had no backbone and let everyone walk all over me, drop what I do for anyone and allow anyone with emotional baggage that I've learned to ditch for myself. Does this mean I'm perfect? Heck no, it just means I can't allow another person who is emotionally weak, doesn't work to improve self into my personal circle because they are a threat. A person who has no impulse control on their emotions, often goes to extremes with thinking and has no sense of balance. Balance takes work and I do that work each day, I work hard to maintain myself so I can be there for others. I know mostly dramatics, users, ghosters and manipulators, people can't handle my kindness and compassion they treat me like I'm some one armed bandit they can keep jerking around. No more, I don't have to invite people into my life who are a threat because they don't try to be better people but expect everyone to bow to the BS. I'm not a sigma male, I don't like labels, but I am someone who cares about all life and prays for it every day on this entire earth. I don't care If no one replies to this comment or not I just wanted to share this with others. Peace everyone!
I’ve been called a ‘loner’ all of my life, like it was a bad thing. I never knew what being a ‘stoic’ or a ‘sigma’ until much later in life and began to study more about psychology and learned more about myself along the way. I prefer to be alone in a dimly lit room with a book to read or a watch to tinker with over a loud, bright area with social interactions and stimulus overload. I have always been happy in my own company and very few ever make it to my inner sanctum beyond what I allow the outside world to see about my life. If someone crosses a boundary I go zero contact and don’t give in to drama or guilt.
You nailed it with that last sentence.
It’s such a simple; but life changing tool in the value it has.
We are wired to feel obligated to reciprocate and be genial no matter what, but once you figure out that nobody anywhere for any reason has the right to take away your peace, all you have to do is disengage and mean it.
I think the concept is too frightening to implement for most people, but it works so well if you fully embrace it.
I say "fuck em".
Respect is earned.
Tell your children and grand children you are never going to respect them, till they prove that they have earned it! Respect when given even in the face of disrespect, or ignorance of how to behave like a normal well rounded person is the very thing that teaches others that respect is one of the greatest super powers a person can have, it shows integrity and a strong scene of self worth that quietly demands mutual respect, this is what builds relationships with friends or family.
I can't Stand Gossip !!! I am usually thinking about Something so I haven't got time for people who pretend they are better than me !!! I have no time for Anyone now. My 2 Dogs are my True Friends. Also I am 70 yrs old and my Life is in Order. So I don't want some Big Head telling Me what to do !!!
So can I. Don’t like people being gossip. Talking about us Sigma
Good for you. Too much narcissistic ego out there
Same here. After my last relationship ended 13 years ago I didn't really have it in me to try again. The drama people bring disrupts my peace and happiness. I've tried through the years but people are into themselves. I make the most money I have made in my life now, though not wealthy I am above the average. Im looking at buying land, hopefully with an old farm house I can restore and become self sufficient so I don't have to work for anyone else again. Just me and my dogs on my land doing what I love to do. I can't wait to get there
Several years ago, at a gathering, a family member told me he wanted to tell me something. But I had to promise to not tell anyone else. I stopped him. I said, If I'm not supposed to tell anyone else, then I don't want to know what it is. He got indignant over that. He couldn't believe it. He was perplexed and didn't know how to handle my response. I completely shut him down. The end.
I expect nothing from anyone.
I return what others give me first.
I know perfection is subjective.
I seek a woman to be my partner, not my next problem.
I don't say any of this lightly.
I pray for a day we all seek peace.
A woman like this doesn’t exist.
I wish you well on your search though.
Peace and women are incompatible.
Don't have the energy to be around negativety it's anxiety and stressful being around people like that
NO WOMEN NO CRY
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NO WOMEN NO CRY
The reason I ignore people is they're no different from children except that they're bigger which allows them to carry more baggage. I got tired of trying to help people that don't really want my help as a friend but instead just want to complain while I listen. I have my wife of 17 years, two boys and a small collection of friends. Everything else is just static. If you really want a happy life, ignore the static.
I am a Sigma and rule number 1 is don't waste time on unproductive or unfruitful activities.
Rules are for those who can't operate without guidance.
@@AndreAndre-yd5gw
Or can't think constructively for themselves
unproductive leisure time i just as important as being productive.
Sounds like something said by an egocentric person.
@@AlexLR
The potential outcome of any given situation must be weighed between the pro's and con's...the objective is defined by a favorable decision, which usually are outweighed by the consequences
It's gone so far that i strongly consider the cabin in the woods solution, with neighbors preferably being miles away.
I live in the woods by myself.
It’s the most quiet, peaceful existence you will ever know.
You won’t ever go back.
Yes I agree, it can be hard for sigmas in a shallow ego driven society!
Not can be, IS!
I Concur...Why deal with the Unnecessary Drama...They'll Just Step Away from all the Nonsense.💯👍
KEY... Be - VERY - Selective about Which People WE ALLOW to enter OUR Space
- And - How long WE ALLOW them to continue to interact with us. 🙂👍
This describes me perfectly. I have 2 close friends and much prefer to be alone and do not like any drama in my life. I had 2 co-workers get married this summer and was not invited to either wedding. Did not have to buy a gift or go and interact with people i did not want to be around. I hike alone and golf when I want to. I will take the quiet peaceful lifestyle.
I totally agree, I’m too valuable to waste my energy & time!!!
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How are you valuable?
Most people are a liability, and a waste of time. Great video!
Ghosting/ Blocking-out All Negativity from Any/ALL mediums via ear-bugs and unplugged/silenced electronics including phones = essential survival / thriving tactics...
Excellent video my friend thanks. Right on time as always 💯
Thank you! 👑
Never suffer fools, never show emotion, never loose a stare and never loose your temper.
If only it was that easy, at times, it is hard not to respond.
finally,... its only taken me until now to realise I am not alone and am quite ok being this way... honestly had never heard of this term before..
People have let me down . I used to trust them and believe they had my back. Not so much anymore. Women have tought me lessons . Believe in the power of one . Once again into the fray
Remarkable how rare a sigma male is suppose to be yet a lot of men seem to identify themselves as sigma males. A lion doesn't have to convince an antelope that it's a lion. A true sigma male wouldn't refer himself to be a sigma male or try to convince others that he is one. He just is.
Exactly, that's why I never watch all these awesome vids
Hello, Ive been watching hunderds of vids on sigma, but yours are truly to the point. Several of the points you made are spot-on, keep them coming ;-) met vriendelijke groeten : John from the Netherlands
Thank you! Will do! :) 👑
I agree with this. If anyone no matter how long the friendship if they mess with my purpose or path I simply disconnect
All these sigma male videos really resonate with me. I never thought of myself as an alpha or a beta. Almost every point made in these videos are 100% how I think and feel. These points also sound like aspects of autism but like autism lite.
Best _Sigma Male_ vid yet! Quickly and emphatically gets to the main points of how sigmas deal with betrayal, narcissists in the workplace, and rudeness at social gatherings. Just walk away! Best revenge, and it gets their attention.
The past year I've had to cut ties with my entire sad excuse for a "family" after they all betrayed my Father and myself after his death. I hurt inside and out yet won't give in to their disgusting attitude towards me. My once "friends" all betrayed me when I needed help the most,n now I'm glad to be alone and away from all their bullshit.
At 70 I've been alone most of my life and I like it I don't let people in easily
Silence is key to peace. That's the main reason. Wisdom comes from those that enjoy silence the most. Remember this. It works for everyone every where
We are still normal people.. not wanting our lives full of drama doesn’t make us weird.
I would consider myself a sigma personality. I don’t think I’m better than anybody else, but I also don’t need anything from anyone else to enrich my life, so I don’t really interact with anyone except when absolutely necessary. People often misinterpret this as arrogance, in my experience.
Thank you!
Video came out on my feed but so glad it did, it describes me to a tee, a lot of the time I don’t want to interact with others, especially at work and especially women who I basically ignore, 51 years old so more than used to being disrespected by the opposite sex so I cut them out of my life completely, they are mostly just materialistic and superficial now and not worth my time.
I have friends, good friends who like me are honest genuine people.
I spend a lot of my time in thought, constantly working on some plan or strategy, I have never felt alone even though I have pretty much spent my whole life alone.
I've lost track of the number of people who have charged me with each of these 'offences'.
One thing I get a lot of, when I try to show someone something... 'Am I going to know what I'm looking at? Because when you talk, most of us don't know what you're talking about.'
I've gotten that over the years, my normal response is "I refuse to dumb myself down for anyone". It sure pisses off the Alpha males!!!!
Thank you for your videos. It does a lot to recognize yourself, to see you are not alone. Bless you
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100% True! Thank you.
For me respect is FUNDAMENTAL, and when it is lost, it is lost, for me losing my respect is worse than losing my Trust, I don't usually trust anyone anyway so you prob wont have any to lose in the first place, but Respect, ooooooh that can go easily. Same goes with me perceiving that I am not being respected, it just flips a switch in my mind and that person is deleted.
One other thing , when we speak our thoughts out loud and talk about our point of view , most people especially shallow people don't understand us. we could be discussing football , the average person will discuss minor details while sigmas will discuss the fundamentals of this sport and what really makes it work behind the scenes. people usually don't dive deep and investigate the things we do everyday without pausing and asking questions.
Sigma males are a breath of fresh air and create a social justification of wisdom to pierce the boundaries of negative and condescending emotions.
Everything said about Sigma is spot on. The concept of fundamental loneliness is right. I now better understand myself. Thanks
I'm more of the belief we are fundamentally alone, not fundamentally lonely.
We ignore people because their value system is based on superficial things
Wow….just…WOW! I’m doing the exact same thing at my Job now to someone and I know it’s killing them and they are confused at this point. Not my problem especially when I cut them off basically it being the 2nd time on a similar circumstance which I didn’t know they had a issue with me and I WENT TO THE INDIVIDUAL CAUSE I FELT IT. Months later ..they did the same thing..similar circumstance but WAY less issue and they acted outta character. I now act like they don’t exist and I work right next to them. The individual gotta COME TO ME NOW TO RECTIFY THE SITUATION. Until then…. 💁🏾♂️ IGNORED!
I can go days and weeks without people around . I was wondering why I’m like this ? I’m totally fine doing my own thing all day every day .
I'm 40 yo, it is 100 percent about me, even if I never knew about this term (sigma). i call myself a looser and I'm pretty sure 90 percent of population call me that too. no need making being a looser a good trait.
Thumbs up all my SIGMA BROTHERS... love you guys, we are a brotherhood
A lot of "alphas" like coaches or youth leaders are just tryhards
Proud to be one . The masterkey is being stress free
Man, you described this perfectly.....
Let’s go SIGMA power 💡
Because most people are simply put a waste of time. My peace of mind is of the utmost importance.
If they are so dedicated to the truth ,They should stand up for it and not stay silent and ignore the lie and liar.That is just cowardness avoiding confrontation .Ignoring falsehood is not honorable behaviour !
Wow this is me. I've never even heard this term before. Well I learned something today.
This is me, and I can't change even though family members do not understand.
I totally agree with your keys views. I must be a sigma guy
You hit it on the nail. Wooow!! Great video..
Thank you! 👑
We read, we learn, we have peace. Some people dosent understand that.
🏆👁️ Sigma males see , watch , Note , memorize ,& retaliate silently without excuses to maintain self worth AND 💯 Peace ☮️
I guess i fit the bill in almost all areas.
Never realized that until watching this.
I identify with a lot of those points. I did a Myers Briggs personality test a few months ago and came out as an Architect (INTP). The sigma male fits this rather well.
Yup that's me too. The problem with a lot of these is the descriptions lack specifics and are a bit too generic the way horoscopes can be. I used to think I was HSP, ADD maybe even autistic. No label truly 100% fits. But sigma and INTP hit very close to the mark.
@@FlorisDVijfde interesting. It would be great to have a conversation with you to compare experiences.
Didn't know there was a label for how I am. lol. But yeah...this is 100% me.
Thank you for educating me on this issue. I am grateful that I am not the only one.
Great Video....one of your very best!
Thank you very much! 👑
I think it is difficult for us to understand self absorbed people and people who hurt other people for their own self- interest.
My sigma brothers am a sigma who did not take shit so I ended up being in a relationship with a woman who is manipulative and used to judge everything I do as toxic to her it ended up crushing the way I thing and see things how can I deal with this type of situation I made a promise that I won't leave since am man of integrity but now am starting to loose myself help a fellow brother here I no longer believe what I see or analyze due to the manipulation because I've ignored red flags
A true sigma will not seek advice from anyone.
You are being gaslit, and you need to work on discernment, so you can identify when manipulative tactics are being ran on you. Start studying this type of stuff and you won't get tricked anymore and then it's up to you to have the backbone to lay down firm boundaries and don't budge
@victormc2878 I had an option to when you are mentally weak another thing when I keep a promise I don't change it now I've made a decision to move on myself being drained made me to that point having kids with someone sacrificing a lot of stuff
@@covenantkhosa7189 gaslighting is not a joke! You will literally feel like you’re losing your mind dealing with somebody who does that shit. They will think you’re crazy when they’re the problem all along. Run, My guy!
If you made that promise to keep your integrity intact,then through toxicity,your integrity has been eroded and destroyed over time, then that person has no respect for what you hold sacred.You have to get out of this A bomb situation to rebuild what was pulled down by someone else.This person has no respect for you so why should you keep giving??Best of luck 💪
The observations (externals) are correct, but the motives expressed here are rarely correct and contradictory.
A person valuing truth, independence, reason, understanding and a wholistic philosophy on life very quickly becomes aware they are different.
Their social interactions are driven by the need to give of themselves (teach) others, those he deems are not receptive to receiving what he offers or that they have only canned/shallow/regurgitated opinions and ideas are simply not worth his efforts. He is not shunning them, punishing them or demanding respect. It is simply the correct response.
Respect is earned not given or by force taken.
i called myself a recluse and i dont think i am better i just cant stand society, never heard this name fits perfectly, i will say this is a very hard life to live and can be wow just wow i am always alone and dont mind it, and when talking some find it hard to understand what i am saying, my gas tank is already 3 quarters full of bullshit i say. Also people always want something
Now even just realising how horrible some people are and keeping your distance is wrong.
Agreed you say all about me here 😊🤗
My "friends"say i'm crazy cause i always want to be alone..
Sad that I had to distance myself from one of my brothers. Quite honestly there's a decent age gap and partially I cannot relate too much to either brother because of that age gap. We don't have all that much in common. And then one of them crossed the line with me and was very offensive and disrespectful so I just continued the silent treatment. Again there's no real reason to chat if there's nothing in common and he can't relate or empathize with any of my struggles
We ignore People because we are in another level
As sigma you have learned to adapt for the best possible outcome and does not want or take any crap
Ghosting for me can go both ways, if a person ghosts me to annoy me they are screwed, because that signals me that it is over that person gets deleted from my life forever. When it comes from another sigma, it is perfection cause, message received, good luck with you life. xD Simple and efficient. :D
Thanks for the expose
As others have noted downstream, this video overthinks the issue. We ignore people because they take up time better spent on just about anything else. IOW, they're boring.
THought I was anti social and my sense of logic and need for genuine nature was a mental issue... after talking to many psychologists and insted of them helping me I help them learn i realized I am SIGMA AKA REAL MAN!
Well, trat does explain a lot…
Know Thyself , a true sign of a Sigma male..
Crazy how accurately this describes me
They dont talk to someone that is stupid, boring or just fking annoying.
Although i don't consider myself a sigma male, this video describes me to the letter.
Yep that's me 100%,!
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