Really, ALL sigmas struggle with this? SO you have met every sigma in the world and you have come to this conclusion? What research methods did you use to come to this conclusion? Were you results statistically significant and to what degree? Did you use triangulation to test for the validity of your results? Stop using titles such as these, it makes you look like an igornant idiot.
I always do what I Want !!! I am 70 yrs old, never Married or had Children !!! The Biggest problem is Everyone is Jealous of you because they Don't Understand You and they are Jealous of your Success !!! For me it's Wonderful to be away from People in My Own Place with my 2 Dogs !!! People Blunder through Life getting in all Sorts of Trouble !!! But if I give them Advice it's like Telling a Chimpanzee how to fly an F18 Super Hornet !!! So I don't bother any more !!!
@@ifym4382 No !!! I am leaving everything to my Nephew and his Daughter. I never cared about having my own Family. But I never hear from them at all. I don't Care though. I love being with my 2 Dogs in my own Place.
@@justindehaut8363only because we are the only sane people surrounded by packs of dumb monkeys throw their poop all around yet call themselves Intelligent. So yes we are lonely because we see the stupidity of the world around us and long for others that are not dumb monkeys throwing poop.
@@jeffreypbangs sorry but your talking rubbish. I'm a real natural sigma and I've done the research and the tests. I've hit rock bottom many times and considered taking a morphine overdose, I even tried it one time. it didn't work obviously! but I'm still sigma. just because a person is a sigma doesn't mean they cant get down!
Isolation is a result of the harsh reality of betrayal from "friends". We know the end results no matter how optimistic we are about meeting new people. This also applies for when someone cancels plans at the last minute more then once.
I agree. We already know human desires and Weaknesses, So we would rather not get close to someone that we already know will more than likely succumb to Human Impulse and Error
“As I’ve grown I’ve seen how true colors get shown, and learned to keep so-called friends at a safe distance, when you up cats show you love but turn on you like a German Shephard over drugs, long as you got a buzz you can call’em your bud, hit a slump in the ship they ready to jump, start slinging mud, I limit expectations knowing that many men fall victim to last temptations, even the most promising relation, can still be evolved to a hostile separation, I stay in constant preparation so the day of betrayal is no shocking revelation, cuz truly you get no benefit from a friendship with a Brutus, Judas, or Benedict” - Viro The Virus (R.I.P)
Lacking spontaneity and having tunnel vision are definitely part of my Sigma character. I become extremely annoyed when I plan a day and then spontaneous unplanned interruptions are introduced to derail the schedule by people who don't think ahead. On the other hand, I do not mind moving across the country to a place I've never been before if a spontaneous opportunity arises that will add opportunity and interest to my life. I think that kind of spontaneity is rooted in Sigma's reluctance to anchor ourselves to permanent social circles in a specific location like other people do. Tunnel vision is also a problem, yet I am able to make connections to disparate and seemingly unrelated events that reveal insights into people's motives that other people cannot see. Many people are driven by hidden, self-serving agendas they mask to present themselves to the public as noble when they are really snake-ish. I can discern their hidden motives and am often thanked when I reveal them to others who might have been harmed. Sigmas are just mentally wired differently from the norms of other people.
In a bit of a heated argument, my ex girlfriend told me I come across as being cold . I was not cold in the slightest ...I just needed my own space at times . As much as I loved her I eventually realised she was a bunny boiler who was not for me or my sanity... I walked away...
Took me 60 years to explain this to my self. Just thought I was a freak and understanding brings so much relief. Now I can look at things within context and explain many mysteries in my life. The main thing for me is the need to achieve, no matter what and that can be a problem within society, as people tell you you always need to be right. It not the need to be right that is the motivator, but the need to reach as close as possible to the truth even if it is unatainable. The other big one for me is that women will only see what you cannot keep private, such as desire, this leads them to believe that you only want one thing because it shows. But the reality of interest is much deeper, for me at least, so it leads to many missed opportunities for relationships, but again I only consider what I can reach not what is offered.
The point about being spontaneous seems wrong. I'd say we make a structure of "absolutes", as guidelines towards our goals, and when permitted, as long as it is within that frame and does not conflict with it, doing something different can be a great way to recharge. Story time, if you want an example, skip if not: EMTs needed access to my worksite one friday afternoon, so work cut out early. On my way home, since I had nothing planed that weekend, I went with an impulse to not take the exit off of the highway, which would have taken me home. I kept driving for hours and finaly stopped at a hotel where I bought some quality cigars and 12y/o Highland Park. I probably spent 6 hours, watching the coastline from my balcony, while I quietly enjoyed just being by myself and being myself. - Still a fond memory; 11 years later!
Spot on, i would have saved this video to my facebook page BUT, i wanted no one to know my weaknesses. This and other topics with this Sigma Struggle educated me more to of my bi-polar. Not necessarily a double whammy. It is telling me who i am.
For most people that don't like being alone. It's because when they're alone their conscience Is Talking to them, and they don't like the company they are with when their alone.
This video is absolutely correct. I would only add that instead of labeling them weakness, I would say they are one of many possible scenarios a sigma would keep an eye on. Many on the list will tend to happen less and less as a sigma ages. Each one can be refined and mastered but all must be kept in check. I also would like to add when it comes to frustration, sigmas are excellent problem solvers. The issue is if there is a complicated problem to solve and there are missing parts to the equation, you will experience the overthinking, a consequence of a sigmas perspective. It’s exhausting. Years ago my father had a dilemma. He owned a piece of property 6 hours away, and he needed to move 3 pieces of equipment and 4 trucks plus a few different sized implements. I remember he fought for weeks analyzing how by himself, he could drive one truck, towing one of two trailers deciding which piece of equipment or implement to load first and what to bring back for 3rd and 4th trip. He got stuck on trying to find the most fuel efficient way to do it mixed with time efficiency because of the distance. It was the only time I remember him being stumped. It just wasn’t feasible, it could not be solved. He ended up having to ask for help to drive the last vehicle back and then driving the helper home . As I got older I use that as a reference when I catch myself in similar situations. If anyone was to ask me what things frustrate a sigma more than anything is 1, limited funds if there is something a sigma wants or a opportunity arises and their working capital is tied up. 2 when I sigma is in a intersection with 3 lanes stopped at a red light and the only lane that is clear with no traffic is green. Inefficiency mixed with forced idleness is kryptonite.
There's a conundrum in being a Sigma for sure but, like all life's challenges, it's what you make it. Rather than caring about conformity and how you may be perceived, we are more apt to enjoy the thrill of finding your own panacea for our ills drawn from the teachers' of the ages. These points, although perceptive, don't allude to the Sigma's resilience in negotiating them and applying their humanitarian denominator as a value, in the process of resolving them. By this I mean that Sigma's don't perceive themselves in competition with others a la the rat race, rather they are happy to be making a collective contribution, albeit, less attention seeking, so they are not evaluating themselves in constant relation to 'the other'. Consequently, although it may not be socially vogue, it does'nt cause distress. Some examples re- weaknesses illustrate the point. Firstly, when you refine your perception to see reality as it actually is, many of the social ' fitting in' labels don't matter, as they've already become obsolete in your own consciousness and your happy to make connections and contributions when it's relevant and socially purposeful. In the case of overthinking and being overtly analytical, I've always seen this as a blessing as it allows for deeper insight into issues and facilitates making connections between otherwise unconnected subjects and content other people don' t see. Lastly, being mystical, facilitates deep understanding and renders many of life's challenges negotiable. Therefore, with added insight, you put problems in proper perspective and look for unorthodox solutions instead of magnifying elements and creating mountains out of a molehills.
I reckon you're right. Every positive aspect of a person or thing carries within it its own shadow. For every plus one there is a minus one, for every plus nine a minus nine and so on. It is easy to inadvertently stray into the negative area... Thank you 🙏 🔥🌈⛅️
Sigmas are not unfriendly people. Their social isolation likely develops because non-sigmas belong to social factions which have a portion of foolish ideology to which all group members must conform.
I used to think the frustration caused by disruptions was a symptom of undiagnosed autism. Hitting the nail on the head otherwise and thanks for revealing the routine thing. This, I wasn't aware of, but now I understand.
For this video, I agree with 6 of these. Having set routines and schedules and being comfortable with them is not something I agree with; nor do I enjoy them. Often times the mundaneness of routines and schedules feels like a choke-hold around my neck. My ability to be adaptive and find alternatives is where I find pleasure. Predictability can help and lead to stability in many circumstances, but being able to change that predictability in a given moment is a far more powerful weapon. Being alone and being lonely are two different things. Often times when someone is lonely it is because they have a deep yearning for connecting with others. Most of the time when I am feeling lonely it has been when my partner is no longer receptive to my engagement, and I am looking to maintain that deep connection with them. When it comes to being outside a relationship, loneliness is not something that ever comes into my frame of mind. Loneliness is the result of seeking a connection to another and being starved for that connection. Not worrying about that superficial connection and only focusing on deep connection with a select few, often prevents loneliness from occurring. Just because I am alone, doesn't mean I am lonely.
My wife doesn't always listen to me, so i have to show her the truth the hard way, CONSTANTLY! Everyone at my work is an idiot and they're just jealous because they KNOW i should be in charge and the men are just scared because they know I'm a sigma and their wives are always looking drooling at me. Sigma life is good 😈
Three sayings have driven this sigma male throughout my life. Although I am an Atheist two refer to God, but the message is meaningful to me.1. The Serenity Prayer, 2. The Desiderata, 3. From my Dad - "Keep your mind full, and your bowels empty."
I can't agree (completely) with a lot of those. Do I agree that they (would) be an issue. Yes. BUT, they can't be. I'll take one to explain. Spontaneity. That ,IF, something (happens), then that could mess with my "vision" of how this is going to BE. nope. There "IS" no (unexpected) something that could ever happen. I've already "planned" in for that. I've encounter something "unexpected" almost on every mission. A "wrong turn". OK we will do "this". Ur, oh. That didn't work either. OK, eff it. We will do something else (completely). Always have TWO main missions. The SECONDARY objective, will only get the (green light) if something "unexpected" happens to the PRIMARY objective. Something we would have never (set out) to do. But now, We can. Since, we are already this far out here. So, wow. A (Sigma) will take the reigns, no matter where life "thinks" it wants to go. OH YEAH, I almost forgot. AND, everybody along the way, will enjoy and (remember) the experience. BUT remember. If you go "showing" people how doing "wily" and "dip shit" things are so much fun. They always want, "more of the same". And they know I am the spout where it comes out. Then you got all these people (like mosquitoes), always around. And, yes, they are fun. BUT. Time, you know. And I got (almost) enough things calling me away from my "necessary" life. Oh well. I'm just warning that you "plan" for the (aftermath). Well, kinda (aftermath), I guess that is what people call it. That same Logic I just described will hold true, to most of those (Weaknesses) in that compile. It's all (how a person views each of those "attacks"). And the same response hold true for each of them. Do I agree that they (would) be an issue if it were a "regular" person. BUT, the whole short is about a (sigma male). And those little things are not my weaknesses. If I ever "see" something I find beautiful. That is my weakness. Some people find beauty in the (Grand canyon), or maybe the (Mona Lisa), other find their solace in (heroin). And they spend $$$$$$ to be close to those things. If only my beauty could be found in something like those. Those ( 7 Weaknesses All Sigma Males Struggle With (The Sad Truth) ) are "little" things a person can defeat with exercise . My weakness (beauty) is something that can NEVER be (won over).
I don't think Sigmas struggle with any of these. I have never been bothered by being called aloof, weird, odd, different, indifferent, etc. never found it hard to be alone. And so on. None are a weakness or struggle. I am annoyed by one thing, and indifferent-annoyed by one. My annoy is, people trying to control me and make me confirm. The indifferent-annoy is unreliability. It annoys me but because i expect it i am indifferent to it and chalk it up as "just the way things are", but i don't struggle and it is not a weakness.
Being the Wolf that watches from the tree line and sees the insanity of a "civilized" world while assessing our next moves is not a weakness. It's why we seek the quiet uninhabited places that allow our minds to work through our problems unencumbered by the constant drone of others. We are not afraid of living with our failures or ourselves. I don't even play the radio in my truck and detest having to hear other's.
Preference has nothing to do with it. When everyone around you feels strange and alien, keeping to yourself, and isolating is the only path open. Isolation is a blessing, and sometimes, a curse. It is what it is, and many of us embrace the path of the Lone Wolf.
As I get older (70 now), these "weaknesses" become inconsequential...as a matter of fact, so does a lot of everything else, as I learn to simply enjoy life. I'm a responsible and respectful citizen, pay taxes, I help where I can, I've made positive differences in other people's lives, my sex life is great, and it's all good for me. I'm fortunate.
This is very good! My compliments. Weaknesses? I suppose, however, I submit difficulties to be aware of, and mitigate, even implement countermeasures to, if not, resolve, sounds good as well, no? Thank you for your content!
Is it possible to have several aspects of a 'sigma', but lesser portions of other aspects? I find there is no One box that I fit into- but closest to a sigma mentality. Childhood trauma that I never really recognized til recently as trauma. I.e.-- constantly being picked on/in fear of being beaten throughout school years, constantly being told 'not good enough' etc.
Being unable to turn off Lie Detection can be draining and irritating when you're stuck in a group of people BS'ing. Also, yes, hyper-analysis of everything can make decision-making a huge burden. Great video AG! Spot on.
Totally get that. I can't stand being around fakes that 90% of people think are awesome. I'm alone alot of times in hoe I view people amd its painful to watch what you already know.....be learned by stupid sheep people who always try to be positive and trusting Causes so many problems that could be prevented
I didn't see any of these as struggles for a mature sigma. Being closed off equates to making good boundaries. Sigma or not, we are going to be misunderstood, but that is their struggle. All the other areas are quite manageable by a mature sigma...so, this must be referring to the less-mature sigma.
Spontaneity 😊 I smile when thinking of spontenaity; the joy of flitting about , no oversight, open to New decisions of the moment... Whether my own, or other's ability to respond with the edge of the moment decision, as it supports balance, survival, genuine feeling, the best balance has my complete approbation. Relying on another to fulfill inadequacy within me, or to be reliable in doing as promised... Ce La Vie, eh. Perhaps as a young man there was less flexibility 😂, but having grown a mature Root, so to speak, flexibility is simple balance. I do appreciate your efforts to clarify aspects of folks with a certain Bent🎉.
Pretty much all the traits of Sigma Males in this and other of your videos hit me either bulls-eye or at least somewhat close. But, in this video, the Spontaneity topic missed the mark. I do not meticulously plan my days, I don't live my life by routines, and I'm not really put off if something disrupts my plans. I've learned that a closed door here opens another door there. So, maybe that's just Sigma attitudes applied in a different way.
What's "spontenuity"? 😛I'm actually a Sigma who thrives on spontaneity. EVERY time I plan something, it ALWAYS fails. But wonderful things happen from being spontaneous. I don't have any friends to hang out with because my schedule never aligns with theirs.
I think sigma male do have Perfectionist problem . Being way too ambitious in Career or rigid in personal ways , Not being flexible Or lenient when comes to People in general and opposite sex. But at same Time on both ends lack Understanding of each other’s mindset. This becomes a lack of a communication problem between the two opposite mindset . It’s needs more of give and take depending on situations and respecting each other’s boundaries and values at same time Each different mindset is entitled to practice their God given free will, but still be at peace with one another .
I'm not sure the hive collective has enough benefits that outweigh the cost of conformity for a sigma. For any group to get along there seems to be a lowest common denominator that must be reached within a given collective. Call it give-and-take. Now if it is perceived that this give-and-take is actually fostering a sense of phoney identity for the individual, then it might be seen as too high of a cost for the relatively low benefit in gain. This is especially true for a person who feels they have put a lot of time, energy and money into becoming the person that they currently are. Catch-22.
It's not sad, but it is our day and life. People don't understand us. I'm perfectly fine being solitary in my own little world, but my wife doesn't like it. LOL. I've felt alone my entire life, so I'm fine being in my own world in a room full of people until I quietly disappear like a Ninja. 🤣
The loneliness topic seems to be hypocritical. In most of your videos, you mention that a sigma loves being alone. How can you want to be alone but yet are lonely at the same time? Doesn't make sense.
I would hardly call weakness most if not all the points mention. For the most part are only consequences of how a sigma handle and navigate his life. For some sigmas could be irrelevant or minor annoyances while others will see them as calculated and accepted cost. 🤷🏻♂️
Wait until you get old and have to start to depend on people to drive you places and help you do things.. Because you can't do it alone. There are a lot of videos out there glorifying loners, lone wolves and Sigmas. When your young it never comes. When your old it gets here to damned fast. I don't like to ask for help.
I'm most likely a sigma but I am sick being recommended videos on the topic. How insecure do you have to be to need to be told what you are by some youtuber in their bedroom?
Well, what I do is contrast myself with others. I cannot multitask, so anyone I observe regularly doing that effectively, I immediately recognize they're a different personality type than I am.
She agree date to cycling and she have not bicycel . But she want cycling. Why she make critoc if I bring man frame bicycels to get some trip of cycling. Que ? and if she know how cycling ..Why she cycling slow and break that hard every corner and fall and make bad face and talk that is my fault.... Yes I am 53 and she 56 y old but that mind if You can not cycling say it before I can teach or make date in cafe. period, She ruined only my free day with graet weather, and She get what. bad mode for whole week .
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You tell it brother...I'm 73 and could give a rat's ass about what anyone thinks of me. This little riff by the poster swings back and forth, contradicting the basic tenets and personality of the Sigma. It may be possible for a younger Sigma to be conflicted about his self identity but older Sigmas have a lifetime of experience under their belts and understand the bullshit games most everyone play. No....a real Sigma sees the world through a Glass Darkly. He is confident beyond reproach when it comes to the reality of the World at large.
My bro I love your videos but in this one I will totally disagree, as a real sigma there's only one thing that sigmas struggle and it's our weakness, not being able to do what we want especially when you know it's right thing to do and it's going to be beneficial (in our jobs, our relationships and even in society in general)
I don’t think I can agree with you…. When I know it is the RIGHT THING to do, IT IS what I want to do…. doing the RIGHT THING has NEVER been detrimental to either my work, or my relationships….
@@williamjenkins9 are you telling me that as a real sigma ( we don't just talk, we work and plan and analyze and ext to find the best and most beneficial solutions) you haven't been stopped by others either by their ignorance or their selfishness (you know your supervisor or a member of your family and friends)?
I also disagree. I can't see why being misunderstood is a weakness to the sigma. It's not like they're looking to be everyone's friend. This video is a stretch.
Though often alone, by choice, I never am lonely. I can be among others whenever I want. Chitchat, which is the preferred mode of communication by most, quickly drives me away. While alone, I reflect, rejuvenate, and plan. I thrive when among deep-thinkers and philosophers.
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Really, ALL sigmas struggle with this? SO you have met every sigma in the world and you have come to this conclusion? What research methods did you use to come to this conclusion? Were you results statistically significant and to what degree? Did you use triangulation to test for the validity of your results? Stop using titles such as these, it makes you look like an igornant idiot.
I always do what I Want !!! I am 70 yrs old, never Married or had Children !!! The Biggest problem is Everyone is Jealous of you because they Don't Understand You and they are Jealous of your Success !!! For me it's Wonderful to be away from People in My Own Place with my 2 Dogs !!! People Blunder through Life getting in all Sorts of Trouble !!! But if I give them Advice it's like Telling a Chimpanzee how to fly an F18 Super Hornet !!! So I don't bother any more !!!
@@ifym4382 There are plenty of good deserving people and organizations in the world to leave your legacy to.
That's what a sad man tells themselves
@@ifym4382 There are plenty of well-deserving people or organizations to leave your legacy to.
@@ifym4382 No !!! I am leaving everything to my Nephew and his Daughter. I never cared about having my own Family. But I never hear from them at all. I don't Care though. I love being with my 2 Dogs in my own Place.
@@justindehaut8363only because we are the only sane people surrounded by packs of dumb monkeys throw their poop all around yet call themselves Intelligent.
So yes we are lonely because we see the stupidity of the world around us and long for others that are not dumb monkeys throwing poop.
#8: All we want is to fulfil our life purpose, and all everyone else wants to do is play social heirarchy games and beat us into poverty and suicide.
True.
If even a thought of offing yourself enters your mind, recognize now, your something other than sigma
@@jeffreypbangs sorry but your talking rubbish.
I'm a real natural sigma and I've done the research and the tests.
I've hit rock bottom many times and considered taking a morphine overdose, I even tried it one time. it didn't work obviously!
but I'm still sigma.
just because a person is a sigma doesn't mean they cant get down!
@@jeffreypbangs *you're
Whoever reads this comment should understand that this is 200% true .
Isolation is a result of the harsh reality of betrayal from "friends". We know the end results no matter how optimistic we are about meeting new people. This also applies for when someone cancels plans at the last minute more then once.
Also True.
I agree. We already know human desires and Weaknesses, So we would rather not get close to someone that we already know will more than likely succumb to Human Impulse and Error
“As I’ve grown I’ve seen how true colors get shown, and learned to keep so-called friends at a safe distance, when you up cats show you love but turn on you like a German Shephard over drugs, long as you got a buzz you can call’em your bud, hit a slump in the ship they ready to jump, start slinging mud, I limit expectations knowing that many men fall victim to last temptations, even the most promising relation, can still be evolved to a hostile separation, I stay in constant preparation so the day of betrayal is no shocking revelation, cuz truly you get no benefit from a friendship with a Brutus, Judas, or Benedict” - Viro The Virus (R.I.P)
Lacking spontaneity and having tunnel vision are definitely part of my Sigma character. I become extremely annoyed when I plan a day and then spontaneous unplanned interruptions are introduced to derail the schedule by people who don't think ahead. On the other hand, I do not mind moving across the country to a place I've never been before if a spontaneous opportunity arises that will add opportunity and interest to my life. I think that kind of spontaneity is rooted in Sigma's reluctance to anchor ourselves to permanent social circles in a specific location like other people do. Tunnel vision is also a problem, yet I am able to make connections to disparate and seemingly unrelated events that reveal insights into people's motives that other people cannot see. Many people are driven by hidden, self-serving agendas they mask to present themselves to the public as noble when they are really snake-ish. I can discern their hidden motives and am often thanked when I reveal them to others who might have been harmed. Sigmas are just mentally wired differently from the norms of other people.
In a bit of a heated argument, my ex girlfriend told me I come across as being cold . I was not cold in the slightest ...I just needed my own space at times . As much as I loved her I eventually realised she was a bunny boiler who was not for me or my sanity... I walked away...
Took me 60 years to explain this to my self. Just thought I was a freak and understanding brings so much relief. Now I can look at things within context and explain many mysteries in my life. The main thing for me is the need to achieve, no matter what and that can be a problem within society, as people tell you you always need to be right. It not the need to be right that is the motivator, but the need to reach as close as possible to the truth even if it is unatainable. The other big one for me is that women will only see what you cannot keep private, such as desire, this leads them to believe that you only want one thing because it shows. But the reality of interest is much deeper, for me at least, so it leads to many missed opportunities for relationships, but again I only consider what I can reach not what is offered.
Every journey in life has its pros and cons. I have no doubts the sigma male accepts, and embraces, every one of these struggles as part of the deal.
All of the above mentioned, are not weaknesses but rather strengths. It's the way some people choose to protect them selves from nonsense and rubbish.
This is on point..Thanks for the video..💪🏾
The sigma better get a grip on the fact that he is completely alone in a world of endless folly/infinite stupidity.
😂 true that duke.
I am Gripping, Bro!
@@ronaldculley 👍
In stupidity most unique forms of creativity can arise. Multiple forms of chaos can lead to creation as it always does.
@@todokap616 what a bunch of hogwash
The point about being spontaneous seems wrong. I'd say we make a structure of "absolutes", as guidelines towards our goals, and when permitted, as long as it is within that frame and does not conflict with it, doing something different can be a great way to recharge.
Story time, if you want an example, skip if not:
EMTs needed access to my worksite one friday afternoon, so work cut out early. On my way home, since I had nothing planed that weekend, I went with an impulse to not take the exit off of the highway, which would have taken me home. I kept driving for hours and finaly stopped at a hotel where I bought some quality cigars and 12y/o Highland Park. I probably spent 6 hours, watching the coastline from my balcony, while I quietly enjoyed just being by myself and being myself.
- Still a fond memory; 11 years later!
I am a Sigma male but I am not characterized by the last two points (lack of spontaneity and tunnel vision), very much so by the others, however.
I totally agree with you
Spot on, i would have saved this video to my facebook page BUT, i wanted no one to know my weaknesses. This and other topics with this Sigma Struggle educated me more to of my bi-polar. Not necessarily a double whammy. It is telling me who i am.
It's exactly how things are
For most people that don't like being alone.
It's because when they're alone their conscience Is Talking to them,
and they don't like the company they are with when their alone.
This video is absolutely correct. I would only add that instead of labeling them weakness, I would say they are one of many possible scenarios a sigma would keep an eye on. Many on the list will tend to happen less and less as a sigma ages. Each one can be refined and mastered but all must be kept in check. I also would like to add when it comes to frustration, sigmas are excellent problem solvers. The issue is if there is a complicated problem to solve and there are missing parts to the equation, you will experience the overthinking, a consequence of a sigmas perspective. It’s exhausting. Years ago my father had a dilemma. He owned a piece of property 6 hours away, and he needed to move 3 pieces of equipment and 4 trucks plus a few different sized implements. I remember he fought for weeks analyzing how by himself, he could drive one truck, towing one of two trailers deciding which piece of equipment or implement to load first and what to bring back for 3rd and 4th trip. He got stuck on trying to find the most fuel efficient way to do it mixed with time efficiency because of the distance. It was the only time I remember him being stumped. It just wasn’t feasible, it could not be solved. He ended up having to ask for help to drive the last vehicle back and then driving the helper home . As I got older I use that as a reference when I catch myself in similar situations. If anyone was to ask me what things frustrate a sigma more than anything is 1, limited funds if there is something a sigma wants or a opportunity arises and their working capital is tied up. 2 when I sigma is in a intersection with 3 lanes stopped at a red light and the only lane that is clear with no traffic is green. Inefficiency mixed with forced idleness is kryptonite.
Thank you for the insight and education. Continue on w the videos, please.
I find myself chuckling to myself a lot watching these sigma videos... enlightening and weirdly affirming at the same time
There's a conundrum in being a Sigma for sure but, like all life's challenges, it's what you make it.
Rather than caring about conformity and how you may be perceived, we are more apt to enjoy the thrill of finding your own panacea for our ills drawn from the teachers' of the ages.
These points, although perceptive, don't allude to the Sigma's resilience in negotiating them and applying their humanitarian denominator as a value, in the process of resolving them. By this I mean that Sigma's don't perceive themselves in competition with others a la the rat race, rather they are happy to be making a collective contribution, albeit, less attention seeking, so they are not evaluating themselves in constant relation to 'the other'. Consequently, although it may not be socially vogue, it does'nt cause distress.
Some examples re- weaknesses illustrate the point.
Firstly, when you refine your perception to see reality as it actually is, many of the social ' fitting in' labels don't matter, as they've already become obsolete in your own consciousness and your happy to make connections and contributions when it's relevant and socially purposeful.
In the case of overthinking and being overtly analytical, I've always seen this as a blessing as it allows for deeper insight into issues and facilitates making connections between otherwise unconnected subjects and content other people don' t see.
Lastly, being mystical, facilitates deep understanding and renders many of life's challenges negotiable. Therefore, with added insight, you put problems in proper perspective and look for unorthodox solutions instead of magnifying elements and creating mountains out of a molehills.
Totally agree
Very good piece!
Thank you for all the content you share❗
My pleasure! Thank you!
#1 is rejection and #2 is faliure. Everything else doesn't matter to me.
I reckon you're right. Every positive aspect of a person or thing carries within it its own shadow.
For every plus one there is a minus one, for every plus nine a minus nine and so on.
It is easy to inadvertently stray into the negative area...
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Sigmas are not unfriendly people. Their social isolation likely develops because non-sigmas belong to social factions which have a portion of foolish ideology to which all group members must conform.
I used to think the frustration caused by disruptions was a symptom of undiagnosed autism. Hitting the nail on the head otherwise and thanks for revealing the routine thing. This, I wasn't aware of, but now I understand.
For this video, I agree with 6 of these. Having set routines and schedules and being comfortable with them is not something I agree with; nor do I enjoy them. Often times the mundaneness of routines and schedules feels like a choke-hold around my neck. My ability to be adaptive and find alternatives is where I find pleasure. Predictability can help and lead to stability in many circumstances, but being able to change that predictability in a given moment is a far more powerful weapon.
Being alone and being lonely are two different things. Often times when someone is lonely it is because they have a deep yearning for connecting with others.
Most of the time when I am feeling lonely it has been when my partner is no longer receptive to my engagement, and I am looking to maintain that deep connection with them.
When it comes to being outside a relationship, loneliness is not something that ever comes into my frame of mind. Loneliness is the result of seeking a connection to another and being starved for that connection. Not worrying about that superficial connection and only focusing on deep connection with a select few, often prevents loneliness from occurring.
Just because I am alone, doesn't mean I am lonely.
Sometimes I'm amazed that given our uniqueness, we can actually communicate at all
My wife doesn't always listen to me, so i have to show her the truth the hard way, CONSTANTLY! Everyone at my work is an idiot and they're just jealous because they KNOW i should be in charge and the men are just scared because they know I'm a sigma and their wives are always looking drooling at me. Sigma life is good 😈
Loneliness and being misunderstood for me, as a sigma, are huge ones.
Agreed with most the points except for the point about last minute cancelations.... I love it
Three sayings have driven this sigma male throughout my life. Although I am an Atheist two refer to God, but the message is meaningful to me.1. The Serenity Prayer, 2. The Desiderata, 3. From my Dad - "Keep your mind full, and your bowels empty."
with some level of support and understanding it can be a good life, but for many of us life is a sad struggle
I can't agree (completely) with a lot of those. Do I agree that they (would) be an issue. Yes. BUT, they can't be.
I'll take one to explain. Spontaneity. That ,IF, something (happens), then that could mess with my "vision" of how this is going to BE. nope. There "IS" no (unexpected) something that could ever happen. I've already "planned" in for that. I've encounter something "unexpected" almost on every mission. A "wrong turn". OK we will do "this". Ur, oh. That didn't work either. OK, eff it. We will do something else (completely). Always have TWO main missions. The SECONDARY objective, will only get the (green light) if something "unexpected" happens to the PRIMARY objective. Something we would have never (set out) to do. But now, We can. Since, we are already this far out here. So, wow. A (Sigma) will take the reigns, no matter where life "thinks" it wants to go. OH YEAH, I almost forgot. AND, everybody along the way, will enjoy and (remember) the experience.
BUT remember. If you go "showing" people how doing "wily" and "dip shit" things are so much fun. They always want, "more of the same". And they know I am the spout where it comes out. Then you got all these people (like mosquitoes), always around. And, yes, they are fun. BUT. Time, you know. And I got (almost) enough things calling me away from my "necessary" life. Oh well. I'm just warning that you "plan" for the (aftermath). Well, kinda (aftermath), I guess that is what people call it.
That same Logic I just described will hold true, to most of those (Weaknesses) in that compile. It's all (how a person views each of those "attacks"). And the same response hold true for each of them. Do I agree that they (would) be an issue if it were a "regular" person. BUT, the whole short is about a (sigma male). And those little things are not my weaknesses. If I ever "see" something I find beautiful. That is my weakness. Some people find beauty in the (Grand canyon), or maybe the (Mona Lisa), other find their solace in (heroin). And they spend $$$$$$ to be close to those things. If only my beauty could be found in something like those. Those ( 7 Weaknesses All Sigma Males Struggle With (The Sad Truth) ) are "little" things a person can defeat with exercise . My weakness (beauty) is something that can NEVER be (won over).
Well that's pretty accurate in my estimation....
It's called defense mechanisms unique to all to protect people from past pain and not repeating it again
Be the BEST YOU....
I don't think Sigmas struggle with any of these. I have never been bothered by being called aloof, weird, odd, different, indifferent, etc. never found it hard to be alone. And so on. None are a weakness or struggle. I am annoyed by one thing, and indifferent-annoyed by one. My annoy is, people trying to control me and make me confirm. The indifferent-annoy is unreliability. It annoys me but because i expect it i am indifferent to it and chalk it up as "just the way things are", but i don't struggle and it is not a weakness.
Spot on, like looking in a mirror reflecting my life experiences.
Yes, iam a sigma and i agree.
Spontanuity? What’s that? Being ingeniously spontaneous?
Being the Wolf that watches from the tree line and sees the insanity of a "civilized" world while assessing our next moves is not a weakness. It's why we seek the quiet uninhabited places that allow our minds to work through our problems unencumbered by the constant drone of others. We are not afraid of living with our failures or ourselves. I don't even play the radio in my truck and detest having to hear other's.
I prefer the term lower self which can be overcome with persistence and determination.
Appreciate. Very interesting. I am always wonder how You find all this facts.
Preference has nothing to do with it. When everyone around you feels strange and alien, keeping to yourself, and isolating is the only path open. Isolation is a blessing, and sometimes, a curse. It is what it is, and many of us embrace the path of the Lone Wolf.
I totaly agree
Yes, I agree with what you said.
As I get older (70 now), these "weaknesses" become inconsequential...as a matter of fact, so does a lot of everything else, as I learn to simply enjoy life. I'm a responsible and respectful citizen, pay taxes, I help where I can, I've made positive differences in other people's lives, my sex life is great, and it's all good for me. I'm fortunate.
Dont think overthinking in social situations is right.
This is very good! My compliments. Weaknesses? I suppose, however, I submit difficulties to be aware of, and mitigate, even implement countermeasures to, if not, resolve, sounds good as well, no? Thank you for your content!
100% true👍
Is it possible to have several aspects of a 'sigma', but lesser portions of other aspects? I find there is no One box that I fit into- but closest to a sigma mentality. Childhood trauma that I never really recognized til recently as trauma. I.e.-- constantly being picked on/in fear of being beaten throughout school years, constantly being told 'not good enough' etc.
Some of those mentioned are Strength not weakness.
Being unable to turn off Lie Detection can be draining and irritating when you're stuck in a group of people BS'ing. Also, yes, hyper-analysis of everything can make decision-making a huge burden. Great video AG! Spot on.
Thank you! 👍🏻
Totally get that. I can't stand being around fakes that 90% of people think are awesome. I'm alone alot of times in hoe I view people amd its painful to watch what you already know.....be learned by stupid sheep people who always try to be positive and trusting
Causes so many problems that could be prevented
That’s very true
I agree
How do you know all of this?
So very correct
I didn't see any of these as struggles for a mature sigma. Being closed off equates to making good boundaries. Sigma or not, we are going to be misunderstood, but that is their struggle. All the other areas are quite manageable by a mature sigma...so, this must be referring to the less-mature sigma.
Spontaneity 😊 I smile when thinking of spontenaity; the joy of flitting about , no oversight, open to New decisions of the moment... Whether my own, or other's ability to respond with the edge of the moment decision, as it supports balance, survival, genuine feeling, the best balance has my complete approbation. Relying on another to fulfill inadequacy within me, or to be reliable in doing as promised... Ce La Vie, eh. Perhaps as a young man there was less flexibility 😂, but having grown a mature Root, so to speak, flexibility is simple balance.
I do appreciate your efforts to clarify aspects of folks with a certain Bent🎉.
Not weaknesses, just consequences.
Most of the points are true
Pretty much all the traits of Sigma Males in this and other of your videos hit me either bulls-eye or at least somewhat close. But, in this video, the Spontaneity topic missed the mark. I do not meticulously plan my days, I don't live my life by routines, and I'm not really put off if something disrupts my plans. I've learned that a closed door here opens another door there. So, maybe that's just Sigma attitudes applied in a different way.
I would say that sigma male types also have to deal with anxiety.
This list is “how to get along in the world”. We are sigmas - we are not interested.
Overthinking or analysis paralysis I could see, but loneliness? That sounds like a alphas weakness. I co.e up with the best ideas when I'm alone
What's "spontenuity"? 😛I'm actually a Sigma who thrives on spontaneity. EVERY time I plan something, it ALWAYS fails. But wonderful things happen from being spontaneous. I don't have any friends to hang out with because my schedule never aligns with theirs.
I think sigma male do have
Perfectionist problem . Being way too ambitious in
Career or rigid in personal
ways , Not being flexible
Or lenient when comes to
People in general and opposite sex. But at same
Time on both ends lack
Understanding of each other’s mindset. This becomes a lack of a communication problem between the two opposite
mindset . It’s needs more of give and take depending
on situations and respecting each other’s boundaries and values
at same time Each different mindset is entitled to practice their God given free will, but still
be at peace with one another .
What *acknowledged* *reference* *sources* are you pulling this info from?
Spot on
I'm not sure the hive collective has enough benefits that outweigh the cost of conformity for a sigma. For any group to get along there seems to be a lowest common denominator that must be reached within a given collective. Call it give-and-take. Now if it is perceived that this give-and-take is actually fostering a sense of phoney identity for the individual, then it might be seen as too high of a cost for the relatively low benefit in gain. This is especially true for a person who feels they have put a lot of time, energy and money into becoming the person that they currently are. Catch-22.
It's not sad, but it is our day and life. People don't understand us. I'm perfectly fine being solitary in my own little world, but my wife doesn't like it. LOL. I've felt alone my entire life, so I'm fine being in my own world in a room full of people until I quietly disappear like a Ninja. 🤣
The loneliness topic seems to be hypocritical. In most of your videos, you mention that a sigma loves being alone. How can you want to be alone but yet are lonely at the same time? Doesn't make sense.
Smh… everything is not that absolute… there’s varying degrees of everything… someone might like being alone but too much of anything is bad for anyone
I would hardly call weakness most if not all the points mention. For the most part are only consequences of how a sigma handle and navigate his life. For some sigmas could be irrelevant or minor annoyances while others will see them as calculated and accepted cost. 🤷🏻♂️
So treu😢, need to work on this
My shiv-a-gitter is broken.
Somebody know who is behind these Sigma videos and if there is any motivation other than profit?
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Wait until you get old and have to start to depend on people to drive you places and help you do things.. Because you can't do it alone. There are a lot of videos out there glorifying loners, lone wolves and Sigmas. When your young it never comes. When your old it gets here to damned fast. I don't like to ask for help.
I'm most likely a sigma but I am sick being recommended videos on the topic.
How insecure do you have to be to need to be told what you are by some youtuber in their bedroom?
I thought everyone was like this?
Maybe its just the sigma in me, but I don't believe there's any such things as "spontinUity".
"Spontenayyity"...not "Spontenooity"
Don't label yourselves.
Just be you.
Fundamental sigma comfortable do sigma
Every MALE on this planet has a percentage of each of these in their makeup, depending on situation and times...
Well, what I do is contrast myself with others. I cannot multitask, so anyone I observe regularly doing that effectively, I immediately recognize they're a different personality type than I am.
Saw no real weakness there. Just challenges.
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I do not agree with the way you pronounce the word “spontaneity”. It is spontinAYity, NOT spontenooity.
I agree with you, my mistake!
Sigma males have no weaknesses.
It calls autism
She agree date to cycling and she have not bicycel . But she want cycling. Why she make critoc if I bring man frame bicycels to get some trip of cycling. Que ? and if she know how cycling ..Why she cycling slow and break that hard every corner and fall and make bad face and talk that is my fault.... Yes I am 53 and she 56 y old but that mind if You can not cycling say it before I can teach or make date in cafe. period, She ruined only my free day with graet weather, and She get what. bad mode for whole week .
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Rubbish 😂
You don't know anything anything about sigma males. 😄
I’m definitely SIGMA. Analysis of everything. Constantly striving to answer the question ‘WHY’ to everything
You tell it brother...I'm 73 and could give a rat's ass about what anyone thinks of me. This little riff by the poster swings back and forth, contradicting the basic tenets and personality of the Sigma. It may be possible for a younger Sigma to be conflicted about his self identity but older Sigmas have a lifetime of experience under their belts and understand the bullshit games most everyone play. No....a real Sigma sees the world through a Glass Darkly. He is confident beyond reproach when it comes to the reality of the World at large.
My bro I love your videos but in this one I will totally disagree, as a real sigma there's only one thing that sigmas struggle and it's our weakness, not being able to do what we want especially when you know it's right thing to do and it's going to be beneficial (in our jobs, our relationships and even in society in general)
I don’t think I can agree with you…. When I know it is the RIGHT THING to do, IT IS what I want to do…. doing the RIGHT THING has NEVER been detrimental to either my work, or my relationships….
@@williamjenkins9 are you telling me that as a real sigma ( we don't just talk, we work and plan and analyze and ext to find the best and most beneficial solutions) you haven't been stopped by others either by their ignorance or their selfishness (you know your supervisor or a member of your family and friends)?
I think I'm going to have to give you an A For Excellent 😎
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I also disagree. I can't see why being misunderstood is a weakness to the sigma. It's not like they're looking to be everyone's friend. This video is a stretch.
These are not weaknesses; these are consequences of being a Sigma.
Though often alone, by choice, I never am lonely. I can be among others whenever I want.
Chitchat, which is the preferred mode of communication by most, quickly drives me away.
While alone, I reflect, rejuvenate, and plan.
I thrive when among deep-thinkers and philosophers.
I am and feel the exact same way.
Me too
This right here!!!!