The reason why my ex kept running back to me is because I have a good & a peaceful spirit, and he had a very dark & lost soul and he needed my energy and light to draw from
Yesssss Same because I was in a toxic relationship and he would Keats keep coming back even after he told me he didn’t want a relationship but I have a good spirit and heart and he knows that and he wants that for himself but he is fighting it because his spirit is very dark
They will see ☺️ That the grass is really not greener on the other side you don’t need that level of stupidity. Enough is enough. I have all my exes still searching for me... they need to find God!
Mishon White I feel the same way. I am very bright and have a sunshine personality. I think he liked to be around me/ liked how excited I got when I did get to see him and drew from that energy. Luckily I have enough to power a whole town!
The men who won't commit but won't leave you alone either are, most of the time, predators. A lot of them, from what I've seen , suffer from porn addiction and have unhealthy habits in general. Which means, they're not a good match in the long haul. No point begging for them to commit or to stay.
I had two exes like this. Both watched weird porn, smoked and drank. One covered up his drinking and smoking. He tried to invite me to a swingers club. Both bad mouthed me when I left and stalked me!
It’s all you can do. I list 12 years of human connection because I chose men I thought would be my friend and lover. I’m 47 now, and feel ripped off AF.
I shut a door completely to a guy who managed to waste only 1 month of my time. I feel super proud! It was very hard and I cried a lot but I managed to choose what's best for me and to resist the temptation to unblock him or talk to him. Girls, don't allow anyone to waste your time. Always choose what's best for you!
Stop opening the door. Don’t answer his calls, texts, messages sent through family and friends. When you say you’re done, show him that you really mean it
I think it's all part of their plan. Keeping you hanging in the limbo. The utter mental torture. No assurance to commit but also not letting go. Trust me. They love it. 3 partners did the same to me. This uncertainty almost drove me suicidal.
He came back. Lead me on. Then a few days later messaged me and told me he was sorry but that he was already with someone but that he still wanted to remain friends. I haven’t spoken to him since.
Omg this just happened to me. He told me he was going back to his toxic ex gf...but he wanted to remain friends. I know he's putting me on hold when this relationship fails again! I asked him to part respectfully and not have any further contact but he refused. I'm going to have to block him when I am ready. Very hurtful 💔 😢
@@BR9900-w5l I know someone who does that exact thing to me and I don’t even bother entertaining it, I just don’t care for that individual enough to even be bothered with it. Also, he’s a narcissist, so I know i dodged a bullet on that one. Block him girl, and act as if he doesn’t exist and give yourself that peace and tranquility you need and deserve. Don’t give him the power and ammunition to torment you, you don’t deserve that.The more you allow him to call you, the more power he has over you and your mental health. Don’t let him. You’re worth far more than that love. 💕
@UCiYCkhh66qqKHq6ZJqC3t6A exactly right. Why anyone would want to return to a toxic ex gf has me baffled, except he's a narcissist who loves drama. I've never been made a second option in my life so I was shocked, and the fact he wanted to remain friends!. He has played me off this girl since I met him and lied about a lot. I guess it's time to block and delete and move on in my happy life without all this BS. We deserve so much better. Take care too.❤❤
@@BR9900-w5l Indeed, we do. God bless you love 💕 I hope you find the happiness and joy you deserve in the arms of a good man that will cherish you, appreciate you, and also value you as a woman and then possibly his future wife one day. God is good, hunny. I promise you that. Don’t settle for anything less than that.
@@claribelcenteno5358 thank you for your kind words during this confusing time. I guess at the end of the day these people will never be happy whoever they're with and not to take it personally 🤷. ❤
Yup its been 5 months and he hasn't asked me to be official.:( I'm kind of sad to be honest 😕 I got to let him go I already told him I want to be official and he just ignores my desires. I have had enough I'm getting older.
He finally left me alone permanently after I expressed I loved him and he was hurting me. The fact I knew doing that would make him permanently disappear should have been my earlier sign to run the other way. Instead, I dragged it on by picking up every time he came back until he finally broke me.
Mannnnn learning so much more about guys the older I get. I never imagined going through so much with dudes,meaning with them and their decisions. I didn’t have a lot of them in my life far as relationships in my adult life because I got married,but my husband wasn’t as matured as I thought he was. Smh 28 yrs in total separated for 4. Dated others before marriage,but lots of guys are stingy to a certain extent and selfish,but want to try and get what they want out of you...like really! Complicated stuff
Hi. Thanks for this video. I was involved with someone much older with adult children. I been disappointed many times by not keeping plans, making excuses and walking on egg shells with children. I initially did no contact for 4 weeks. Because its inevitably to not see him that process was broken and our deep connection draws me back. I did have a serious conversation with him and expressed my disappointment and that I won't be waiting around forever. He has expressed feeling bad and wanting another chance. I feel its too soon and that I will regret it. My heart is still broken, but I'm putting myself out there to date.
What about when he wants to be around but y’all don’t even have sex. Or he’s not emotionally ready to be in a relationship. Every one is different. There is no one size fits all
This seems to be a running theme with a lot of people right now .... I think because these men are subcontractinh parts of a relationship... eg.he gets the sex elsewhere but you are the emotional side of a relationship
This happened to me. We started as friends with benefits and fell in love 2 months in. However, he never wanted to make it official even though he lived with me 3-4 months in. After we finally made it official I caught him sexting other girls. Imagine to blow I took because I was finally supporting him, supporting him through becoming a first time dad, I encouraged his dreams, I helped him with school. He has ducked me over numerous time and hast he audacity to tell me I wasn’t the “end all be all” girl for him. He’s been stringing me along for 2 years now and I can’t seem to cut him out. I feel low, stupid, and ashamed.
Your so right on this hun we have to close the door so he can't walk through,thanks for opening my eyes that's what he does keep me til he made up his mind who he wants to be with then one of the ladies get hurt.
honestly, I'm not sure if a male would be allowed to seek advice here since we're the "predators" in this scenario. but i am like this and don't know why, I'm not committing but yet still I can't leave and find myself talking to her more than usual, why am I stringing it on, why do i love her but can't commit? ik i hurt her but not having a proper reason for why I don't wanna be with someone I love hurts too
I keep saying I'm single and not in a relationship with any man. That's not hard to understand, is it? I'm not committed to any man, so I'm not on anyone's rotation.
Im 26 but I’m in the same boat, going on 9 n a half years almost ten😩 I know We started young but what’s the hold up if u know who u love and wanna be with🤦🏾♀️ plus we have 3 kids together
My thing is he wanted the relationship he pressured it but he didn’t act like we are together at all he doesn’t express how he feels and since I expressed that it seems like it only got worse and I asked him are we done are what and he won’t say it
I went through almost the exact same thing except he did act like we were together BUT like you mentioned he refused to Express how he feels and hated any type of "feelings talk"...I was left wondering all the time. told him I loved him...then, he broke up with me because I didn't have enough time for him (after I I covid and couldnt see him for weeks)aand he refuses to come to my house bc he couldnt stand my little boys. broke my heart and made me sick. he wanted the relationship in the 1st place! ...but I'm stupid and I really enjoy spending time with him, I still sleep with him, cuddle etc....and we work together too. sucks
I'm going through the same thing His wife left him, and don't want to come back He stick with me and yet still fighting to go back to the wife who is always reject him Me he used me as a pretending girlfriend while I know he doesn't really want to be with me While talking to him daily I can feel he still wants his wife back when I confront him his always denied it like I'm an idiot Please help me move on from this man😞
Marriage is not a commitment we are misleading information religiously and believing it's the right thing to do... commitment is about respect one another with or without ties.
I have had this multiple times AT ONCE...I'm single and that's how I date....I'm multi task wit only sleeping with 1....but yea I cut ALL them off bc of the toxic energy....DONE but they won't leave me alone....one guy would pop up at my house....I jus dnt answer the door🙄
Hi thanks for the wisdom and sharing. I'm in a similar situation been with this guy for 6.5 years and he would never leave. I love him ofcourse but we aren't the right match for each other so I decided to remain single. Now we have a newborn together and he seems to be getting worse. He isnt consistent but he always keeps coming back around and I rather be a single mother than put up with his crap. He just won't leave me alone though and he's older. Any advice ?
I’m going through the same thing but it was 5 years and a complete waste of time. Cut him off and coparent and find a new man. Do not waste another minute on this man boy. They don’t take our threats seriously and they think we will always be here. Show him.
It’s very difficult Angel but you owe it to yourself to speak up and walk out of you must. You cannot win with a man like this if you are not truly prepared to walk 🙏🏾
We went back and forth for a month after the break up I ended things because he didn’t want to commit 5 times. I finally told him I had to block him to move on, it hurt but I did it. He texted me yesterday with a new number asking me how are you? Like it’s been a week since I blocked him. He’s so confusing why can’t he just leave me alone if he doesn’t want to be with me?
I think because: 1) He finally realized, "Oh! Maybe I do want to commit to her.". Sometimes you need to get rid of him to even try & get him to think. But if he tries to come back & he truthfully thought about making a commitment to you then maybe try to give him that one chance & try to honestly prove it to you. Or 2) He just wants to be toxic because he thinks he still has control of you or something. Just block his number. Don't say anything to him. Just blockity block him. Now...in my opinion...I would try to talk to him. See what's up. See what he wants or whatever. But if he tries to pull the same crap then just block his ass. I hope this helps 🙂
I went on several dates with a guy and we slept together a few times. We were a great match and had amazing chemistry but he slept with a friend of mine so I cut it off by blocking his number and across all social media platforms. For 3 years he has attempted to get in touch by creating new social media accounts and changing his number multiple times. I started messaging him again after my most recent relationship ended but he seems reluctant to date me which I find confusing after he put all the effort into contacting me? Help?!
@girlwithpersonality it’s the classic cat n mouse game. Cut it short block him again n move on and this time don’t look back. You have men that like to play the cat n mouse game. By you entertaining him after he know you shouldn’t be you lose power n he looks at it like he has the upper hand because you return back when you should of stayed gone.
This recently happened to me! My boyfriend has expressed that he needs to "pray" about being a better person and find out why he gets scared about marriage! This caused us to break up but he keeps coming over and calling way more than he ever did before. I want to cut him off so that I can heal properly but we have a one year old son. How can I allow him to be a father and heal?
We guys we're dating for 6 months, but never met in face to face or didn't spent time together, we are good compatibility, same interest, point of views, and even similar thought, not even a single day wasn't there when we didn't talk, he didn't want a relationship for he couldn't committ because of his past relationship breakup and during tht recovery time, he loved his single life freedom, because of this he didn't want a committment, this was the reason he couldn't committ to me though we liked each other snd had feelings for each other😞, he says he doesn't want to be in relationship, but during the time we were together we talked and acted like couples even without knowing, but his mind still the same, he was struggling between his feelings and his mindset, so wht should I do, leave him or meet up as frnds to see if any change occurs?
During his final talks itself he told he don't want a relationship and never do want, but this was without meetup or spending time together, so is his decision forever or would it change?
Let me be honest let me give it to you from my point of view and some mens point of you!. I like to be in control of my self I like to have power over myself! That does not mean I want to have power over a woman! But lets not pretend like marriage is a bunch of roses. I have seen many guys who marry a woman and she starts nagging stops giving them sex becomes very demanding and the guys have no choice to do what she wants because a happy wife is a happy life and they dare not leave her because they have a lot to lose by leaving her! Divorce can be messy!. But if you are in a boyfriend girlfriend relationship if she starts nagging or stop sex you can leave with no consequences. I just do not think its worth it its not worth the headache. And by the way this day and age men and women are not monogamous I even know married women who sleep around so its a no from me I ddont mind having a girlfriend but I will not marry her its just not worth the risk maybe if I had nothing to lose but now its just to risky
Let them go New year coming When they confused Satan got them. U try u try praying scripture. They keep going n and out. I kick rocks. Sent the to and someone
You are not worth it. That's the reason. You bring nothing to the table, and you are definitely , not the table lady. You are just good for one thing. You know what that is. Thank feminism for me.
@Marly B it is a shame human beings, male and female , take advantage of others. There are people willing to benefit from stupid and weak individuals and that is evil And both men and women do this. Women do this when they are in their prime and Men do it too later in life.
Larry Rice how about be a grown man and not a grown boy..If you know she ain’t the one ..Let her go so she can be with the man who will love truly...All these men claim player player..Just know Karma is a bitch..And if you have a daughter sister or momma..Then just remember all that player player shit applies to them being treated the same way...Ladies we are doomed..These men now are weak ,grown ass boys..who led themselves let alone a family
W諭 well I agree with you on that!!!It’s just unfortunate that people just can’t be real with them selves and others..Would stop a lot of hurt anger and pain...
@@Twiseshalanda30 becoz I've been thought that and realized that most of the time we didnt let go becoz of the scared, we scared that we might cant find another man, and we already invested a lot in this man etc. But really, if a man doesnt see you or think you is his wife(or into you). No matter what u do or how hard you try, they just won't see your worth.
The reason why my ex kept running back to me is because I have a good & a peaceful spirit, and he had a very dark & lost soul and he needed my energy and light to draw from
Mishon White yes!! That’s how I feel! I get so drained but nope nope I’m all about that positivity
Yesssss Same because I was in a toxic relationship and he would Keats keep coming back even after he told me he didn’t want a relationship but I have a good spirit and heart and he knows that and he wants that for himself but he is fighting it because his spirit is very dark
Yes,...they are attracted to what they don't have ...& Then bring you down as they take all your good energy
They will see ☺️ That the grass is really not greener on the other side you don’t need that level of stupidity. Enough is enough. I have all my exes still searching for me... they need to find God!
Mishon White I feel the same way. I am very bright and have a sunshine personality. I think he liked to be around me/ liked how excited I got when I did get to see him and drew from that energy. Luckily I have enough to power a whole town!
The men who won't commit but won't leave you alone either are, most of the time, predators. A lot of them, from what I've seen , suffer from porn addiction and have unhealthy habits in general. Which means, they're not a good match in the long haul. No point begging for them to commit or to stay.
I know of this powerful man who help me out if you need help 🙏🏼........
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I had two exes like this. Both watched weird porn, smoked and drank. One covered up his drinking and smoking. He tried to invite me to a swingers club. Both bad mouthed me when I left and stalked me!
Interesting!
Wow
If he doesn't know what he wants, I'm closing that damn door.
Preach!
PERIOD bro,that's how it should be never let the door stay nor remain open they are suckingnout the life from you🖤🖤🤔
It’s all you can do. I list 12 years of human connection because I chose men I thought would be my friend and lover. I’m 47 now, and feel ripped off AF.
Prioritize yourself as a woman first, and then God will show you who is for you and whom is not. Plain and simple.
I shut a door completely to a guy who managed to waste only 1 month of my time. I feel super proud! It was very hard and I cried a lot but I managed to choose what's best for me and to resist the temptation to unblock him or talk to him.
Girls, don't allow anyone to waste your time. Always choose what's best for you!
Women cant complain about men until they show better taste in them. You cant change people, go for someone who actually wants to spend time with you.
In these days ….quality men are quite few .
False. It takes experience to learn. People use mental manipulation because it works and that’s not our fault.
He keeps coming back bc he doesn't want anyone else to have me... lol soon as I forget him and moved on he's back!
Exactly we have to take control
He probably has more options too.
Stop opening the door. Don’t answer his calls, texts, messages sent through family and friends. When you say you’re done, show him that you really mean it
Selfish and immature behaviour,not your problem,he is best ignored
I think if someone does this, ignore them. At some point they will surely go away. If you entertain, they will never leave you alone.
This woman needs more subscribers. She is amazing and on point with her content. I'm sure her videos could help a lot of woman.
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Thank you for addressing the reality of 'soul ties'.
Shanika Mack STYLE & SPIRIT yesss
I think it's all part of their plan. Keeping you hanging in the limbo. The utter mental torture. No assurance to commit but also not letting go. Trust me. They love it. 3 partners did the same to me. This uncertainty almost drove me suicidal.
Exactly exactly spot👽🐍👿😈👹👺👁️👁️ on been there for 3 years 6 month now DF here 💔😭😭💔
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1 Corinthians 14:33
For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace,
Omg me too girl
@@ONLYLOVEIZATION thank you I needed that
He keeps coming back because we allow them to rather than getting rid
He came back. Lead me on. Then a few days later messaged me and told me he was sorry but that he was already with someone but that he still wanted to remain friends. I haven’t spoken to him since.
Omg this just happened to me. He told me he was going back to his toxic ex gf...but he wanted to remain friends. I know he's putting me on hold when this relationship fails again! I asked him to part respectfully and not have any further contact but he refused. I'm going to have to block him when I am ready. Very hurtful 💔 😢
@@BR9900-w5l I know someone who does that exact thing to me and I don’t even bother entertaining it, I just don’t care for that individual enough to even be bothered with it. Also, he’s a narcissist, so I know i dodged a bullet on that one. Block him girl, and act as if he doesn’t exist and give yourself that peace and tranquility you need and deserve. Don’t give him the power and ammunition to torment you, you don’t deserve that.The more you allow him to call you, the more power he has over you and your mental health. Don’t let him. You’re worth far more than that love. 💕
@UCiYCkhh66qqKHq6ZJqC3t6A exactly right. Why anyone would want to return to a toxic ex gf has me baffled, except he's a narcissist who loves drama. I've never been made a second option in my life so I was shocked, and the fact he wanted to remain friends!. He has played me off this girl since I met him and lied about a lot. I guess it's time to block and delete and move on in my happy life without all this BS. We deserve so much better. Take care too.❤❤
@@BR9900-w5l Indeed, we do. God bless you love 💕 I hope you find the happiness and joy you deserve in the arms of a good man that will cherish you, appreciate you, and also value you as a woman and then possibly his future wife one day. God is good, hunny. I promise you that. Don’t settle for anything less than that.
@@claribelcenteno5358 thank you for your kind words during this confusing time. I guess at the end of the day these people will never be happy whoever they're with and not to take it personally 🤷. ❤
Because he wants just sex and NOT a relationship.
I have an open door and I need to close it.
Yup its been 5 months and he hasn't asked me to be official.:( I'm kind of sad to be honest 😕 I got to let him go I already told him I want to be official and he just ignores my desires. I have had enough I'm getting older.
Move forward ❤️
He finally left me alone permanently after I expressed I loved him and he was hurting me. The fact I knew doing that would make him permanently disappear should have been my earlier sign to run the other way. Instead, I dragged it on by picking up every time he came back until he finally broke me.
Mannnnn learning so much more about guys the older I get. I never imagined going through so much with dudes,meaning with them and their decisions. I didn’t have a lot of them in my life far as relationships in my adult life because I got married,but my husband wasn’t as matured as I thought he was. Smh 28 yrs in total separated for 4. Dated others before marriage,but lots of guys are stingy to a certain extent and selfish,but want to try and get what they want out of you...like really! Complicated stuff
This is narcissism. 🥺
Thank you, yes the door analogy is spot on...
Hi. Thanks for this video. I was involved with someone much older with adult children. I been disappointed many times by not keeping plans, making excuses and walking on egg shells with children. I initially did no contact for 4 weeks. Because its inevitably to not see him that process was broken and our deep connection draws me back. I did have a serious conversation with him and expressed my disappointment and that I won't be waiting around forever. He has expressed feeling bad and wanting another chance. I feel its too soon and that I will regret it. My heart is still broken, but I'm putting myself out there to date.
Phew! I’m glad I’m no longer in situations like this.
What about when he wants to be around but y’all don’t even have sex. Or he’s not emotionally ready to be in a relationship. Every one is different. There is no one size fits all
Lea Leak that’s what I’m dealing with lol
If he’s not emotionally ready for a relationship then He’s NOT ready to Date.
This where I am too
This is what I’m going through to
This seems to be a running theme with a lot of people right now .... I think because these men are subcontractinh parts of a relationship... eg.he gets the sex elsewhere but you are the emotional side of a relationship
This happened to me. We started as friends with benefits and fell in love 2 months in. However, he never wanted to make it official even though he lived with me 3-4 months in. After we finally made it official I caught him sexting other girls. Imagine to blow I took because I was finally supporting him, supporting him through becoming a first time dad, I encouraged his dreams, I helped him with school. He has ducked me over numerous time and hast he audacity to tell me I wasn’t the “end all be all” girl for him. He’s been stringing me along for 2 years now and I can’t seem to cut him out. I feel low, stupid, and ashamed.
Gabriella sorry to hear it lovely. I know you know that you deserve better so act like it 😘
Chengi's World and I know that logically. But I hurt and I don’t understand why I want someone like that in my life. Because I still do.
Does he feel a void in ur life. If u don't hang with him do u feel lonely. U can have friends but still feel alone fyi
elana604 yes 😞
Because you gave it all before he even claimed you. Its like you were trying to buy him.
Good content I told him yesterday it’s time to say goodbye . What a relief
🙏🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️
Because he doesn't HAVE too. Stop being a YOYO! Demand commitment.
Your so right on this hun we have to close the door so he can't walk through,thanks for opening my eyes that's what he does keep me til he made up his mind who he wants to be with then one of the ladies get hurt.
And that hurt lady is always me😔
honestly, I'm not sure if a male would be allowed to seek advice here since we're the "predators" in this scenario. but i am like this and don't know why, I'm not committing but yet still I can't leave and find myself talking to her more than usual, why am I stringing it on, why do i love her but can't commit? ik i hurt her but not having a proper reason for why I don't wanna be with someone I love hurts too
Then leave the girl alone
Because he’s a selfish clown. Mine was also an absentee father-of course he wouldn’t commit 🤷🏾♀️
It’s ruff out here to find a good man 👨 smh I’m 40 n still single very pathetic
Khyra40 N Never pathetic!!! wait for a good man and in the meantime, work on yourself so you can be ready when he comes!!!
Wait for him to find you age is just a number.. just keep your looks up, love yourself, stay in your femininity and he’ll find you
So am I, but I have hope and refuse to give up.
Same here
Same here. 46. But I won't quit.
Your top looks so great
lenassecretful thank you x
I keep saying I'm single and not in a relationship with any man. That's not hard to understand, is it? I'm not committed to any man, so I'm not on anyone's rotation.
you're beautiful and amazing with gem advices ❤️
Thank you for this information open my eyes some I’m close the 🚪
Story of my life......lol 😄
I need to find that video about the soul ties I been dealing with man over 5 years n he won’t commit 🙄
Im 26 but I’m in the same boat, going on 9 n a half years almost ten😩 I know We started young but what’s the hold up if u know who u love and wanna be with🤦🏾♀️ plus we have 3 kids together
My thing is he wanted the relationship he pressured it but he didn’t act like we are together at all he doesn’t express how he feels and since I expressed that it seems like it only got worse and I asked him are we done are what and he won’t say it
I went through almost the exact same thing except he did act like we were together BUT like you mentioned he refused to Express how he feels and hated any type of "feelings talk"...I was left wondering all the time. told him I loved him...then, he broke up with me because I didn't have enough time for him (after I I covid and couldnt see him for weeks)aand he refuses to come to my house bc he couldnt stand my little boys. broke my heart and made me sick. he wanted the relationship in the 1st place! ...but I'm stupid and I really enjoy spending time with him, I still sleep with him, cuddle etc....and we work together too. sucks
I'm going through the same thing
His wife left him, and don't want to come back
He stick with me and yet still fighting to go back to the wife who is always reject him
Me he used me as a pretending girlfriend while I know he doesn't really want to be with me
While talking to him daily I can feel he still wants his wife back when I confront him his always denied it like I'm an idiot
Please help me move on from this man😞
Awesome content. Whtevee u said spot on and is correct. It resonates with most girls! Such an intelligent woman
God shut that door.
This person I’m dealing with is my child’s father it’s so hard to cut him off
😖😫 the struggle is real
Marriage is not a commitment we are misleading information religiously and believing it's the right thing to do... commitment is about respect one another with or without ties.
No it is NOT respect. All marriage is is a commitment otherwise you can be uncommitted in a respectful relationship.
Chengi this ur second advise video I like and ur inspiring me on my next content too. Plus i like ur make up and hair do
xxx
He tells me he wants a relationship with me and says he will come see me but he doesn’t make plans. What should I do??
Thank-you for clearing that up.....I'm on "rotation"......gosh! But the sex is so good!!
Marilyn hihi better you get out coz the end will not be good
@@doreenakello-dora "Miracles happen everyday."
You maybe a friends with benefits
@@nelsonmcgee3545 "I am".....but It's difficult pulling away after 5yrs. There's definitely chemistry between us!
@@simplymarilyn5295 so what happened six month's to a year in by then you should know what you want.
I work for him..he rejected me and I want to leave his company but he refuse to let me leave and say this are 2 different issue
I have had this multiple times AT ONCE...I'm single and that's how I date....I'm multi task wit only sleeping with 1....but yea I cut ALL them off bc of the toxic energy....DONE but they won't leave me alone....one guy would pop up at my house....I jus dnt answer the door🙄
You so georgeous ❤❗
Because AF the end of it all he needs my love because of the guy at the top
Hi thanks for the wisdom and sharing. I'm in a similar situation been with this guy for 6.5 years and he would never leave. I love him ofcourse but we aren't the right match for each other so I decided to remain single. Now we have a newborn together and he seems to be getting worse. He isnt consistent but he always keeps coming back around and I rather be a single mother than put up with his crap. He just won't leave me alone though and he's older. Any advice ?
I’m going through the same thing but it was 5 years and a complete waste of time. Cut him off and coparent and find a new man. Do not waste another minute on this man boy. They don’t take our threats seriously and they think we will always be here. Show him.
I'm in same situation except no child involved. It's draining!
It’s very difficult Angel but you owe it to yourself to speak up and walk out of you must. You cannot win with a man like this if you are not truly prepared to walk 🙏🏾
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Maybe he's married.
Actually have been fighting about this time to time
How bizarre......how bizarre.......
We went back and forth for a month after the break up I ended things because he didn’t want to commit 5 times. I finally told him I had to block him to move on, it hurt but I did it. He texted me yesterday with a new number asking me how are you? Like it’s been a week since I blocked him. He’s so confusing why can’t he just leave me alone if he doesn’t want to be with me?
I think because:
1) He finally realized, "Oh! Maybe I do want to commit to her.". Sometimes you need to get rid of him to even try & get him to think. But if he tries to come back & he truthfully thought about making a commitment to you then maybe try to give him that one chance & try to honestly prove it to you.
Or
2) He just wants to be toxic because he thinks he still has control of you or something. Just block his number. Don't say anything to him. Just blockity block him.
Now...in my opinion...I would try to talk to him. See what's up. See what he wants or whatever. But if he tries to pull the same crap then just block his ass.
I hope this helps 🙂
But he acts like he is my boyfriend he gets mad at certin things he questions me
thank you
Why he won't leave me alone even he doesn't want getting married in future he loves only stay with me but there no planning in future
Because you let him x
What should we say exactly then than he doesn't feel he never can reach out again?
Block him everywhere and move on with your life
I went on several dates with a guy and we slept together a few times. We were a great match and had amazing chemistry but he slept with a friend of mine so I cut it off by blocking his number and across all social media platforms. For 3 years he has attempted to get in touch by creating new social media accounts and changing his number multiple times. I started messaging him again after my most recent relationship ended but he seems reluctant to date me which I find confusing after he put all the effort into contacting me? Help?!
@girlwithpersonality it’s the classic cat n mouse game. Cut it short block him again n move on and this time don’t look back. You have men that like to play the cat n mouse game. By you entertaining him after he know you shouldn’t be you lose power n he looks at it like he has the upper hand because you return back when you should of stayed gone.
This recently happened to me! My boyfriend has expressed that he needs to "pray" about being a better person and find out why he gets scared about marriage! This caused us to break up but he keeps coming over and calling way more than he ever did before. I want to cut him off so that I can heal properly but we have a one year old son. How can I allow him to be a father and heal?
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So thts y he is acting like tht because he allways say he isn’t ready for a relationship but allways calling me
How do men measure their connection with women?
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We guys we're dating for 6 months, but never met in face to face or didn't spent time together, we are good compatibility, same interest, point of views, and even similar thought, not even a single day wasn't there when we didn't talk, he didn't want a relationship for he couldn't committ because of his past relationship breakup and during tht recovery time, he loved his single life freedom, because of this he didn't want a committment, this was the reason he couldn't committ to me though we liked each other snd had feelings for each other😞, he says he doesn't want to be in relationship, but during the time we were together we talked and acted like couples even without knowing, but his mind still the same, he was struggling between his feelings and his mindset, so wht should I do, leave him or meet up as frnds to see if any change occurs?
During his final talks itself he told he don't want a relationship and never do want, but this was without meetup or spending time together, so is his decision forever or would it change?
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What if it is all three?
Then we have a problem 😉
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How about maybe he doesn’t feel safe with you even if he likes you or you don’t bring him peace of mind
He should leave her alone and move on like a grown man who takes responsibility for his life, peace and happiness
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Let me be honest let me give it to you from my point of view and some mens point of you!. I like to be in control of my self I like to have power over myself! That does not mean I want to have power over a woman! But lets not pretend like marriage is a bunch of roses. I have seen many guys who marry a woman and she starts nagging stops giving them sex becomes very demanding and the guys have no choice to do what she wants because a happy wife is a happy life and they dare not leave her because they have a lot to lose by leaving her! Divorce can be messy!. But if you are in a boyfriend girlfriend relationship if she starts nagging or stop sex you can leave with no consequences. I just do not think its worth it its not worth the headache. And by the way this day and age men and women are not monogamous I even know married women who sleep around so its a no from me I ddont mind having a girlfriend but I will not marry her its just not worth the risk maybe if I had nothing to lose but now its just to risky
Help I really need some advice
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He comes back cause you let him
I have a fat girl stalker I can be gone out and he comes just leave me alone
Let them go
New year coming
When they confused Satan got them. U try u try praying scripture. They keep going n and out. I kick rocks. Sent the to and someone
You are not worth it. That's the reason. You bring nothing to the table, and you are definitely , not the table lady. You are just good for one thing. You know what that is. Thank feminism for me.
@Marly B it is a shame human beings, male and female , take advantage of others. There are people willing to benefit from stupid and weak individuals and that is evil And both men and women do this. Women do this when they are in their prime and Men do it too later in life.
I don't blame the man . player player.she is not the one
Larry Rice how about be a grown man and not a grown boy..If you know she ain’t the one ..Let her go so she can be with the man who will love truly...All these men claim player player..Just know Karma is a bitch..And if you have a daughter sister or momma..Then just remember all that player player shit applies to them being treated the same way...Ladies we are doomed..These men now are weak ,grown ass boys..who led themselves let alone a family
@@Twiseshalanda30 man just a dog. But also woman has a choice too. Sometimes we were the one who hurting ourselves by keep giving chance to these dog.
W諭 well I agree with you on that!!!It’s just unfortunate that people just can’t be real with them selves and others..Would stop a lot of hurt anger and pain...
@@Twiseshalanda30 becoz I've been thought that and realized that most of the time we didnt let go becoz of the scared, we scared that we might cant find another man, and we already invested a lot in this man etc. But really, if a man doesnt see you or think you is his wife(or into you). No matter what u do or how hard you try, they just won't see your worth.
I hate when presenters smack their lips. Very distracting. Can't even get through this video. Too distracting
She is saying a lot in one breath chill out lady
Don’t watch then…