3 20's Mistakes That Will Make You Poor In Your 30's
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- If I could go back in time and fix these things I would probably be 10x more successful than I am now. The full list of mistakes starts at about 3:30 BUT you need to understand the entire picture.
If you want to be an entrepreneur, start a business or just make more money over your life time these are absolutely critical.
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NO, IM ON A DOPAMINE DETOX. I MUST NOT FAIL OR I WILL DISAPPOINT MY MOST WOKE EMPTY HOUSE BUSINESS GURU TRILLIONAIRE MENTOR
Fine, I’ll have to break my perfect $1,000,000 bank balance now 🙄
what is your opinion on perfectionism ? or being perfect ?
U still with ur girlfriend then?
Alex 1-2 mil a year will suffice for 90-95% of the worlds population LOL.
My takeaways: In your 20s -- 1. protect the hell out of your time 2. high risk and high reward mentality
Pretty much, and understanding the game is key.
Im 21
And im acting Like A Child.
What is wrong with me!?!?!?
@@fightplayaction7720 What do you mean by that?
The main point is we should not focus on short term decisions that are rewarded instantly, but focus on long term decisions that don't pay too much right away, don't give you an instant gratification, but pay off eventually
@@daddy_chill1530 Not exactly. If you're not protecting your time and focusing on safety, then your long-term decision could land you in a dead-end job that doesn't satisfy you. So it's got to be in the context of pushing the limits of comfort and maximum productivity.
Young guy’s listen up, i’m in my mid 40’s and could have been retired by now. What you do in your late teens, 20’s and 30’s has a vast impact on your life.
End of the day do things and buy things that make u happy and enjoy life.
@ocelot. nope if you have a business ur not
@ocelot. Not if you own your own business... Then your work isn't just x amount of time spent working to make x amount of dollars... When you own your own business its a lifestyle and to many people it is 10 million times more fulfilling than working for someone else. You can either play your own game of chess in life or inevitably you will end up as a pawn in someone else's chess game.
That is very true. And only hindsight can tell you this.
@@C63Bez I'm was not saying not to buy things that make you happy, as long as your doing it for you and not to please others. I very much advocate enjoying life as we all only get one shot and will already have less time than we think, thats why it must be used wisely. Do things while you are young and able as some things are not always possible when you are older or your life just changes.
1. Thinking in short terms instead of long terms.
2. Aimless dating when you are not sure about starting a family in your 20s.
3. Pick your identity randomly and try to identify as something by imitating someone.
An idea has just formed in my mind having seen your comment, pen to paper again. Thank you.
THXS saved me 20min lol
How do you differentiate number 3 from analyzing and implementing others actions into your own personality?
@@lynoxroyal9587 I think you do it by exploring stress factors/anxiety. Action that 95% feels like a natural flow means it matches your personality (maybe not in the short term whilst you adjust to a new behaviour). If new actions leave you either feeling bored a lot or over stressed, then they aren’t matching your nature.
It’s tricky.. I saw an Adele Concert on tv the other day performing at Glastonbury. She said for 3 days before, she was terrified, full of dread about it. At the end of the concert she said “this has been the best moment of my life” you want to feel that the way of being resonates with you, even if it might feel challenging.
People in their 40’s who have nervous breakdowns generally happen because they are living inauthentic lives pursuing false dreams. Be in your element
Thank you!
*Poor mindset immediately sees a surplus as an opportunity for consumption.* *Rich mindset seeks to spend their time,* *Resources,* *And energy on work that continues to pay off long after the effort has been invested.*
That's true.
Anyone who is not investlng now is missing a tremendous opportunity.
Yes. It's better to take risk and make sacrifices than to remain poor or settle for less..
investlng in financial_market is what all rich people do. This is not a living but to grow our portfolio.
I have got to understand now that. A lot of Americans don't even think about investlng little of there money and then grow there portfolio instead they wait for NFP every first Friday of every month hoping there are more employment. You guys are getting it all wrong. Start investlng.
I’m turning 27 in a couple of months and I already feel so late to the game, getting anxiety because of it, but I’m so grateful I have found this and I’m grateful that you’re sharing this wisdom. I hope I’m not too late in making smart decisions that’ll pay off within 4 years…
Trust me you’re not late at all, in fact you’re right on time. I’m a year younger than you. We gotta do this now so when we’re in our 30s we can look back and appreciate what we’re doing now! Cheers!
Yeah I guess I agree with you both, I am 25 but where should we start, what should we do to make us a rich? except from starting some company as co-owners, the three of us?
The fact you're still 20's and here learning all this means you're not late
Sweet angel you're right on time don't be demotivated wonderful creation beautiful babyyy
@@jojowisa1270 That was a very nice thing to say.
I’ve wasted thousands and thousands of hours chasing women when every single relationship ended within a year or two on average. It’s a worthless pursuit in today’s age. Focus on yourself and making your life better! Learning to love being alone was the single best thing I’ve learned my whole life.
13:15 Once again "Alex" (if that's even his real name) proves that he's a bullshitter without a clue. Marriage is the NUMBER ONE mistake that a young man can make in his 20s and is exponentially more risky financially than ANY OTHER MISTAKE. PERIOD. *mic drop*
badass1g amen
Work on yourself and you will find a partner accordingly.
The covid lockdown ha really hampered dating. Its also given me much more "me" time where I concentrate on upping my skills and working on projects.
Candice Campbell explain a little please
“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.”
--Mark Twain
Like not investing bitcoin in 2013
I'm feeling this hard already at 34
@@Jalapablo I feel like punching myself in the face everytime I think about that.
Then a year or so ago when it was only 9k each and I still didn't. 😣
@@Balazak what hurt me was the people I was around. Learned the hard lesson of not discussing my future plans with people until it’s already solidified and 100% in place.
Is this an actual quote of twain?
Takeaways from mistakes you do in your 20s:
*Mistake 1:* Using your energy and limited actions to maximize money, instead of maximizing time. Thinking that time is unlimited, and money is scarce. Therefore spending time and money with a short-term vision to make short-term gains, or get short-term comfort. All actions should be weighed against at least a 10-year vision. Taking the actions that benefit the long term vision are always the correct actions. Ie. Gaining experience, building a resume and focusing on being cool among girls instead of focusing on a long term business.
*Mistake 2:* Getting too comfortable with your achievements so far. Not taking big risks because you want to protect what you achieved so far. Not deploying capital you can afford to lose, not sacrificing your existing comfort, or other irrelevant aspects of your life for a bigger goal or dream.
*Mistake 3:* Following others. Trying to replicate others, because you haven't defined yourself yet. Not identifying your own unique strengths and letting yourself be different, not doubling or tripling down on what makes you, you.
Well...that was a really big reality check I wasn't planning on having this morning
Nicole Morel yeap...sometimes it’s all we need though
i swear
Samw
@Michael Davis because you can not know the message of a video before watching it? Duh? Am I really explaining this? Are you an actual human being?
Yo deadass lol
I’m 29, and I’ve done ALOT, and watched a lot of videos but your first 5 minutes of advice on the 20s is soooo valuable.
I’m 6 months into running my own business full time and this advice is like gold. Thank you Alex. You’ve got me thinking about things differently. Nightmare mode engage.
Nightmare mode is relative. For us it's a nightmare. For the monks it's just another (beautiful) day
Daniel Bourke how is your business going?
this guy simultaneously makes me feel like a loser and gives me hope for the future. SUBBED.
People are missing out on Alex's content I feel blessed for watching him.
Same.
You are blessed, I am blessed. We've been blessed as the chosen one illuminates our very minds through his TH-cam videos. Anointing us to follow in his footsteps to greatness and fulfillment of purpose.
To Believe I've been here all along because a video titled "How I went from broke to Lamborghini in my 20's" all these years ago came from this man makes me wanna tear up you know? Amazing 10/10 life graphics are amazing
I always download his newest videos. I checked alot of them are private
@@WitchLuw need to start downloading the important ones too.
Same
This really hit the spot for me. I am in my mid 20's and I have this scarcety money mindset.
Same. I didn't start making money till I was 20. Now i'm 24 with 0 interest to spend it on anything.
As a 35 year old...I wish you had told me this 15 years ago. I've already been realizing some of these things but definitely did not know them in my 20's.
Same here... and now what?
I’m 30 this video wouldn’t play for me
I'll record it and send it to you. You can show it to your kids.
Why is this video making it seem like it is the end of the world if u dont work figure yourself out in your twenties? What about the people in their thirties who still havent established themselves yet? Are they doomed?
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@Juru ok got it. thank you.
You made me laugh while I was eating. I almost died in my 20s
The girls you get in your 20’s instead of being on your purpose won’t want you by the 30’s...cause you weren’t on your purpose. Its crazy how everything is interconnected
Yeah.. The trick is about forgetting girls and just investing that energy into whatever your purpose is. Too many people get it the other way around. The chase after girls makes it so much more difficult and delusional.
It's so real man. The chicks you were sweating in your 20s you wouldn't even be concerned with in your 30s when you're really on your shit.
I have this huge dilemma. I have a gorgeous girl, who believe I can do anything if I want to. Problem is, I spend almost all my hours with her. I do read, I do work out, both I do with her though. Graduating from High School in two weeks and idk what happens next.
My problem is that I can't decide if I'm "wasting" time or not..
@@tingsborg9375 you're becoming way too dependant on her if you do everything together. First you need to learn how to be properly alone, meditation, reading, working out and all kinds of different stuff, with pure focus. Then after you've mastered your own alone time, I guess spending some more of your time like that with your girlfriend would make sense. But you need to prioritize what's really important to you. Different people have different goals. Just because I'm saying this doesn't mean I'm right though. I'm a different person. I wouldn't want to rely on other people too much, first I want to rely on myself, and then I want to be responsible for others, still not to rely on them. People come and go, who knows what will happen in a few years. Maybe you will have her as your wife and you will have kids and a beautiful home. But will your goals be fulfilled then? Maybe she or you will have an accident or something else will happen that will split your paths, you might become heartbroken if you rely on her too much I guess, then you might become regretful of why you haven't followed your ambitions most of all. Maybe then things would have worked out different, and you still would have had her as your wife, because you were strong enough to protect the relationship? Who knows.. life is small decisions unfortunately, but some things you know deep inside, you just need to search for it and open your mind to it. Good luck.
@@tingsborg9375 My advice at 23, fuck as much as you have the chance to but don't take your relationships too seriously. Also, be honest even if you think it'll prevent you from getting laid.
Thank you for your help and explanation. I'm 27 and feel all scattered with no direction but after hearing this, I understand what I need to do, so ty!
Lol.
I’m 28 and it took quarantine and covid 19 lockdown to finally have time and energy to heal rest and come up with a plan to invest in my life . I spent the years before that working to pay my rent and surviving and when I had free time I’d rest and prepare for the next day . It’s sucks cuz time flew by so fast I could’ve created something during my 20s but I had no time and energy and also successful people around me to focus on myself and learn . And your also young and want to be young and have fun and it’s such a confusing time period in life that just takes a lot of discipline to go in the right direction
Alex is the Pewdiepie for adults 😂
I watch both (I'm 15)
@@conorfarrell8415 he meant adult by mindset not by age
@@AkhileshKumar-fk3od hence my immaturity
is pewdiepie not for adults?... fuk
Facts.
Dude, I’m so much more enlightened listening to you. It’s great to hear. I’m a girl, and an entrepreneur, in my early 20’s. I couldn’t agree that more that dating is a waste of time. My life is kinda like being a drunk F1 driver. I’m a person who is about personal growth, time means everything to me.
Thats just sad
Jorim Edradan it is what it is.
I just hope you don't regret your decision to betray your biology because if you leave it too long you can't go back and there are many women out there with that regret.
Relationships: If you can’t see yourself spending your life with them, don’t spend a day with them.
Business: If you can’t see yourself doing business with them for life, don’t do business with them for a day.
How about if you are lonely and end up in a relationship that isn't ideal
We are emotional creatures.. not always easy to just connect the dots
I needed this
Yarden Marom reas the “Power of Now”. As long as you’re uncomfortable being alone, no relationship will work
Fairytale advice...
@@YardenZada being in "monk modr" isnt easy
“Some people are so poor, all they have is money.”
Patrick Meagher
Money doesn't buy happiness.... but being broke doesn't buy anything. Marinate on that for a sec.
Malcolm Schick Money does buy happiness..if you buy your dream car or a house or what ever jewelry, you will always be happy from the inside from time to time..happiness is how a person feels..it’s the same as when you buy a pizza for example you would be happy
Malcolm Schick
You don't need 100 billion dollars to buy what you need.
exactly, i was just as happy when i saved two months of my income. after that its not any better.
Klop CodeZ that if you put your happiness into materialistic stuff. Try getting into minimalism and you get a whole new meaning of happiness without things
Can you do something for us guys that just Hit 30, who didn't do the best job in there 20's. Now life is putting us under pressure to get our shit together and stop screwing around?
Yes this please!
U just answered your own question...... get your shit together and stop screwing around
Yup, what he said.
i got 24 in january and right now I just realize all this, I got too much money in my 20-23 but I stayed mostly in my comfort zone. I travelled and partied all the money off and invested nothing, I skipped college and went straight to work, now I want to go to college. The realization that I am 30 in 6 years is kicking so hard day to day. Just wow.
It’s simple, 1. Don’t get married 2. Don’t buy a single family home 3. Don’t finance cars.
dont have kids till you are in your 30ties
Nothing wrong financing cars. You can finance a 10k car. Or less. It's more like, being dumb and wasting too much money on cars.
The car is a box w wheels that gets you from point a to b.
I can bet you that the guy who has high social skills, lots of friends and decent things will get more than a clown who drives around in circles trying to show off an expensive car.
You know what's gonna happen? Hes gonna catch a case. And get sued for everything he has. Literally on the news all the time.
Because he made it so he wasnt the prize.
@@ThePresentation010 In your 20's you should avoid debt like a plauge
@The Metalhead great strategy if you want the nicest things you can use right now. Not the best strategy if you want to own it outright or grow your wealth long term. Delayed gratification. Nothing is wrong, everyone should do what they want. I really want a C7 Corvette now at 31, I could finance it right now, but that 35-40 grand now will cost me millions in the long term. If I wait 10 years, I could buy a ZR1 cash no problem saving for a few months. It's just a mindset. No answer is right or wrong. Everyone has different goals.
@Cody Emsky are you married?
This video is making me want to cry. I’ve just made a decision to leave a business partnership that has provided a great income and lifestyle but hadn’t grown over the past year (in my eyes), in order to pursue my own long term goals. You really hit home because I’m 26 with a young family and I have spent my 20’s working my ass off, trying to work myself out and think where I want to be long term. I’m probably going to take a hit short term but I know where I’m going is worth it. Thanks Alex.
Hey David, I think what you did was very brave and not many people would make that decision given the circumstances 👍 How did it turn out for you ? If you don't mind me asking
Alex "give it 5 minutes" Becker
Blazer I don’t think he has 1 video that’s actually 5 minutes 😂
@@ChasingObstacles document.querySelector('.html5-main-video').playbackRate = 4
That 5 minutes felt like 19:58 😅
Frieza
@@tubefile100 Nothing like leveling up for 10 episodes in front of an enemy
This really is a life changing video
I make over 10 000 per month at FRO ZEN PA.C OM
Oh hey Brandon
didn't expect to see you here bruh
I was thinking the same thing. Especially because a lot of this is stuff that I’ve heard from others but he summarized it so well that it’s able to really have a profound affect, whereas it otherwise may have been lost on me
No fr doe 💯💯
Really insightful and inspirational, the aspect of time scarcity really didn't hit me until after hitting the 30s unfortunately. Now I always get up early and structure each day to make the most out of them. I can't imagine being hungover wasting weekends like the college days. Even started a channel to show how fitness can fit into this!
I'm 29 now... I had/have an excess of stupidity but none of the confidence. That was crushed early in my childhood and teens (if it was ever really there to begin with), followed by chronic depression, a metric shit ton of anxiety, stress and self-esteem issues which caused longterm unemployment and multiple burn-outs. But I'm finally trying to turn it around despite being crippled by college debt, having no savings and being broke. Having no guidance or a mentor in your life really is a handicap that's difficult to overcome in a world that's so fast-paced. My one redeeming quality is that I'm decent at drawing... But that's about it. Devouring content on self-improvement in the hopes of regaining some semblance of confidence so I can do something without burning out again.
I have never been so focused on a video in my life, amazing advice. Really does make me realize what I am doing wrong. Feels like a big brother passing you down his experience
Im in my early 20’s i watched the vidéo with my eyes wide open didn’t felt bored you really said it all man and the Way you explain things is very good you made it very clear im not even a native english speaker im really glad i subscribed to your channel
Shows a picture of Matthew Perry as the poor guy in his 30's. Dude makes $20 million a year just from Friends being in syndication. He doesn't need to work lol.
right?!
Hahaha I'd be a very sad rich with his health problems
Here are my biggest takeaways :
1. Long Term Mindset
- Stick to my own strengths and build up my one skill, because in 10 years that's going to mean something (GAIN MASTERY)
- Make sure the future you in 2031 takes priority, not the current you
2. Build my own character, play to my own strengths
- Never mimic other people, don't compare because it makes you play to your own weaknesses
- Triple down on my own weirdness and do what makes me "me"
Dude it’s crazy how much our thoughts align on this! The dating part especially - I almost think some of my friends have a “condition” where they cannot focus on anything outside their 9-5 brain dead job apart from dating and meeting girls. They are wasting SO MUCH time AND money just going on these hinge dates 😂
I'm almost hitting my 40's, but i still find this valuable....
On the note of dating girls in your 20’s, I highly support his point. I was chasing females 18-23 HEAVILY to the point my life revolved around it without me even noticing. Time, money, and energy into getting laid. When I met my wife and realized that she was the one, I gained unreal focus and drive. Which naturally changed my life, changed my circle, and put everything into perspective
Guys listen to what he says about time. I just turned 27 and when your perspective of time shifts it hits hard.
When you're 40+ and didn't have someone telling you all this back when you needed it...*sigh*
This made me realize that the time i spent trying to help and recover the friendship with a girl i knew was a waste of time. It was only going to drain me
In some years it will not matter and then you will look back proud if you stop this early on enough otherwise it will seem like a waste of time and confidence.
Worst mistake in my 20's was not having goals and sticking to them. Goals as short term achievable goals like something you can make happen in a year or less. Also keep track so you'll know how you are doing.
I'm turning 33 and started to realize this truths too late around 30. But it's better than never.
Keep hustling and act bold if you're young, debt free and no kids.
P.s Alex using the word chode makes me think that he had exposure few years ago to the teaching of RSD.
Alex, Thanks for the advice. Wish I had this when I was 20, 30 or even 40. But I have it now and been more focused the past few years.
Any advice to someone who’s 28 and not yet established? Part of me feels like I should be looking for a wife and the other part is still figuring shit out lol
Love how you are able to articulate these super important life lessons so clearly, it just all makes sense to me! Keep up the good work Alex.
I just had a huge aha moment. I'm 19 and this was invaluable. Thank you bro!
Start early when investing, time in the market counts not timing the market.
I've been watching the "most woke"..."billionaire" for a couple of years now. If you are new to this channel and happen to be reading this comment, Becker is an honest guy, who does what he says - which is pretty rare in this market. I've been implementing his ideals in my business and documenting this over on my TH-cam channel (mainly to keep me accountable). I agree on what you are talking about re ideas sticking to them and scarcity. I think people put a lot of pressure on themselves during their 20's to be "successful" when really you should delay the success for opportunities which are more long-term rather than get rich quick/shiny opportunities. Looking forward to the next video Becker.
@HAVE A LAUGH The lamborghini was real lmao, the whole greenscreen thing was a joke lmao
@HAVE A LAUGH He's just sharing his ideas. He doesn't even have a "Buy my course for self development" thing. so I don't see the sense if he ever fakes a lambo, for what? flexing? besides encouraging others to buy a course or for an advertisement I don't see any reason why you should fake a lambo
@HAVE A LAUGH Go on then.. tell us your advice from your business experiences. Don't talk shit against techniques/strategies you haven't seemed to implement or learn from.
@HAVE A LAUGH I hope you are joking hahah, anyway so Alex has done some seminar sort of training sessions before. The people who joined it went to his house too. There was like another Dutch bussiness guru who went to his house and made a picture in his garage which had the car in it too, filmed from a different direction and closer up.
@HAVE A LAUGH I looked it up it was in his insta stories a while back. Tried looking it up havent found it yet, he doesnt safe all stories so it might be deleted might be other proof though
💯% Forget dating and serious relationships in your 20's! Trust!
love how the thumbnail says poor by your 30s yet is a picture of matthew perry who is worth 80 million XD
... and in his 50s.
Bittersweet to listen to this in my 40s. Sound wisdom. Gold.
Alex: Uploads*
Me: Closes down the cat video & taylor swift video tabs and pays attention*
💀
taylor swift videos have an even worse ROI than cat videos bro, dont watch them
THAT FUCKING INTRO ALWAYS KILL ME 😂😂😂
It’s true, you generally know almost all a job has to give for experience is six months...on the same token, now probably isn’t the time to quit your job. But later after this virus, maybe be more open for it.
ocelot. Theres a big difference between knowing a lot and being a master. Settle down and think before you start getting all aggressive
Start day trading and buying random options is what the video taught me thanks!!
The male brain doesn't fully mature until age 25.
Damn right
@HAVE A LAUGHThink of the brain as a computer and the consciousness (you) as software. The computer is complete at age ~25, but you, the software, keeps growing until the computer dies.
Well I have 5 years, wish me luck lads
@HAVE A LAUGH Testosterone also changes by age. People tend to become more calm as they age.
My definition of maturity is when the brain is considered "complete".
@@victoriouswillisorius5362 Hmmm interesting. I have something to look forward to then. I just hope I don't become one of those senile confused boomers.
Man I’m 25 this month and this was probably the hardest hitting video I have seen in a long time, thanks for your insight mate really appreciate it 👌
I love your content, but is it weird to just want to be successful at my profession (being a 3D Artist) and not make millions? Being comfortable and happy sounds enough for me.
I'm the same I try to take this advice and apply it to a modest career (Concept Artist/Illustrator) but its hard not to get excited by the prospect of making tons of cash/10k a month etc etc
But why would a successful 3D artist not make millions? Surely there's a ladder of competency between artists and the best one's make the most, although I agree the money shouldn't be the endgoal, it should be the byproduct of any successful career, if you love what you do aiming at being the best at it seems like a cool goal I.E: Skills, Certain industry specific feats
@@exitoemprendedor3094 Exactly! My approach is to work as hard and passionately as I can on becoming a successful and competent 3D artist. The work is my purpose, the money will be a byproduct.
@@timothy209 that will definitely lead to a happy life!
I disagree that it will be a comfortable one as your "best" will constantly fluctuate as you learn and grow, along with your comfort zone as to what you can accomplish there, but it will definitely be a happy, worthwhile, and meaningful existence, which as good as what anyone should hope for!
Hi there 3D artist here. Here's what I figured out when it comes to money and 3D. You can make tons of money on 3D by teaching it. Allan McKay, Ryan Kingsley literally make millions teaching. Working at a studio is a stepping stone really and if you stay working for studios you'll waste your time in the long run. I say this because I recently named myself a "financial prepper". These financial crashes happen about every 10 years on average. The real way I see I can protect myself and my family is to make real money. Being laid off and depending on a job and losing it, Recovery can take years and if this keeps happening in a 10 year cycle, you are in this constant hamster wheel. In summary, 3D is great, I love it, but you need to have a money strategy in place to survive these stupid crash cycles.
I binge watched your videos and got impressed. You are amazingly smart and ahead of your time. Respect!
I decided to be the first millionaire in my family.
(So what I'm 32?)
Much love from Romania.
you just pointed most of my mistakes from when I was 20, to bad I`m 33 now but I am grateful I found you, read your book also great inspiration man
Im 34 and ive wasted my 20s. The most masive sink of energy and time has been my gf. It has been the most neurotic relationship ive ever known about. Im here i am, wasting my 30s
Same here
I started realizing that time is the most valuable asset when I was 19
Man, this is exactly what I needed to hear in my life right now.
Really nice advices. I Agree 100% and I was thinking a lot about this. Im 26 and i`ve started to worry about time passing 2 years ago. I am surprised that none of my friends / coworkers thinks that its already enough experience. That time is passing and you have to do whatever you need to start what you really want to build asap... Its good to hear that from someone whos over these steps. Cheers.
Most of us don't even realize how inflation reduces the value of what ever we have in our savings but the banks on the other hand, invest the money and still charge you for keeping it, that's why I invest with Suzanne Stephens Ellis.
Thank you Alex! Cash is available, time is limited! Better to use the time to grow instead of focusing on cash. So true man. Dont let money take priority. You can always make your money back. Take more risks and leave your comfort zone to advance in life, you will have newer skills and experience.
Alex Becker is the real proof that a channel's followers and like-dislike count on videos has nothing to do with quality.
This channel is pure gold, I don't even remember how I got to this channel, it was a year and something ago, but if I should choose today to lose all the channels I follow and just remain with one, I would choose this channel.
The vision, the clarity, the awakening, the sharpness is just amazing (and I watched Osho and other gurus as well and I think that even they aren't at this level).
This is brilliant.
The part about thinking money is scarce and time is unlimited hit me hard. Im 27, ready to quit my corporate job that doesnt even pay that much and getting out of my comfort zone moving back overseas.
I APPRECIATE THIS BRO,WHEN AM SMALL I USED TO SAY I WANT TO BE THIS AND THAT BUT NOW AM 20 I DON'T EVEN THINK OF LIMIT IN LIFE I JUST WANT TO BE SUPER RICH AND HELP MANY POOR PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD.GOD HELP ME.
Man, I wish this channel existed when I was in my 20's...
Too many practicing risk management rather than risk taking. Thank you for encouraging us to practice the latter.
GREAT video and advice Alex! We love the wisdom you are imparting on folks who could really use this. Having a scarcity mindset serves no one. We could not agree more with you! Breaking out of comfort zones is also key. Nice one! Keep up the great content! 🙌🏽
I have to say - your content is much better than I thought it would be
Do a video for those in their 30's please, and what you think are the potential downfall. thanks in advance
We have to wait until hes 40.
Alex have great insight, I'm sure he is seeing patterns. Ofcourse when he is in his 40's he will have more, but I think he should be able to do it.
Gotta take those big swings in the meanwhile, can't wait til he's 40 for the mistakes made in 30's video
This will be the English version of my channel soon enough
Yep am in this bracket
I turn 29 next month. I’m mad at how much time I wasted, but it’s only up from here 🚀 I will become wealthy in 2022
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I think on the relationship thing people should date without expectation of serious relationships and really just get to know each other and build good relationships over a long period of time so that when your financially ready you know who's on your team and who's going to be supportive.
too late, i'm already poor in my 30's...
Reinvent yourself my dude
Never too late in life
Yep I'm 50 and with standard schooling and direction, I'm pretty fucked..
Eye opening content , definitely one of my Fav tubers, thank you
13:35 thank god I realized that at 18, saved me so much time and energy 🙏
I love his level of sarcasm and seriousness simultaneously.
This guy is Bruce Wayne if he was a real person and woke
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Trueee
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bruce wayne is alex becker ....except less hot, rich and woke....
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Thank you. I was getting discouraged in certain aspects of what you said, now i know that this is clarity. Monk mode activated 👨🏾🔬
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Thank you for the video Alex, I invest $ 150 each month in stocks. And next to it I try to grow here on the platform
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“In your 20s you believe money is scarce and time is not” that is so true bro
“if you become really successful but are still a little chode” and you got my sub for that, awesome video really good points not like all these other people reppin the same points over and over.
I just turned 20 2 weeks ago and ive been changing my life around because i wasnt doing anything and thought of that. On my birthday I thought I dont like where I am right now and I had to figure out a back up if I dont just get rich like a realistic goal and then research how to get rich which is why I'm here. But my back up was to become a nurse who after 4 years of school can make 50-60k and then do more training over years to get a more specialized job that can make over 100k. Its not a millionaire but thats more than both my parents make now so if thought its good to share it.
Most important point and a great reminder
11:35 - 11:51
I understood the concept of making more money and not making more time early on, in my late teens. But what is even greater advice in my opinion is to look how you balance it as you spoke about in the part of the video mentioned above.
I went from money-scarecity (cause of upbringing) to time is scarce and money, well, not abundant yet in my account but i went from "if it already is worth my time. Then it definitely is worth my money. So the opposite it true too: if I'm not cool with spending money on it, then I mustn't spend time on it."
And that guided me for the past years in a major way in all that I'm doing.
But I find it hard to explain to others.
So I think the a very very good way to start is to ask how easily ready are you to invest time? Compared to your money?
If it's clear that you spend time more rapidly without thought, there's a lesson there.
Edit: I feel like I should clarify that the mindset shift to "you can always make more money and time is the scarce ressource" didn't led me to riches yet. But it definitely made me invest my time in reading, reflecting, investing, risking, trying, failing over and over. And basically just made it possible for me to hunt down my dreams. From doing so you get the confidence that it's more than possible to reach it. You don't let other people talk you out of it anymore. And you get to know more and more how to get there though the failures (experiences) and gained knowledge.
Edit 2: let me talk about why the video part is so important. So, KNOWING that time is more valuable is something a lot of us already know. If not most. But what now? Well, we need a way to IDENTIFY if we already apply this knowledge. A way of "tracking" or measurement if you will.
You do that by COMPARING how easily ready you are to spend time vs spending money. How much do you hesitate for one? And don't do it for the other? How easily are you convinced to spend one compared to the other? And how easily do you give away one compared to the other to people in need who are not even close to bankruptcy with time or money? Losing which of them created more angry moments in your past? And I'm not talking about losing time to the stupid relationship you had somewhen, pointing the problem on somebody else. I mean the moments when you spend your years gaming or hanging out in the clubs. Or doing other stuff that gave you like a 7-10 on the shortterm happiness ladder. But which compared to your dreams would be maybe only a 5-7. If even so.
The short videopart is the best way I have ever heard explain how to measure where you're at with this principle.
Only knowing is not merely enough. We gotta keep ourselves accountable through measurement
I wish I had heard it in my 20s. But even more importantly I wish I had had enough capacity to understand this back then.
"You only have so much time to make 10 year decisions" lowkey gold damn
The part about time is so true and not a lot of people fully grasp the idea, for most of us your 20's comes with a plethora of time that can either be spent wisely, or poorly. Essentially most people in their 20's are throwing out the most powerful investment they will ever receive. Think about companies/extremely wealthy individuals that will pay millions to own/fly private jets, that's literally how much time is worth is to people. You're essentially already "rich" in your 20's if you can free up time and trade it for experience rather than money, but that's where everyone screws up.
Lol he said "chode", Master PUA confirmed, loving it!
dude i love your videos. even though they stress me out to the point of tears, it really pushes me to do better.
I’m going to watch this video tomorrow again, & the next day, & the next to make sure this info sticks. Definitely resonated with a lot of what’s said here specifically feeling like you’ve “made it” as the most successful out of your peer group even though you haven’t done shit yet in the grand scheme of where you could be. Lots more to do!!! 💯
Im so happy I got out of my degenerate state early. I had a year long relationship at 14 and figured relationships weren’t for me.
I was the stereotypical partying dr*g dealer for throughout high school until about 18.
Now I’m 19 and have realized all of that degenerocity never really gave me any satisfaction or anything to show for my time. I was as broke as I’d ever been, had no real goals or ambitions and was so lost in life.
Since then I’ve really sobered up and changed my life around and I think I have found my direction in life. No matter what position you are in you can change your life if you really WANT to ! 💪🏽 thank God
This is way to complex and iffy. Get an education, find a good paying job 75k/ yr, In your 20s put 2k per month in a mutual fund, in your 30s put 1k a month into your fund. No more money required in your 40s, buy at least one houses 15 year loan max. At 50-55 you will be a millionaire and your house and cars will be paid for and you never have to work another day again. It worked for me and it required very little risk. If you don't believe make a simple excel spreadsheet and see for your self compound interest is what will guarantee your wealth.
Wealthy people don't need to sell you anything or tell you how rich they can make you......
By far one of your Best videos, Hope young people listen to you. I’m older and can identify with your wisdom. You are Correct, and on point here.
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My most important takeaway 3 minutes in is that I’m a drunk race car driver and that I don’t realize I’m drunk. This is the real 🔑 here! Okay back to watching the video lol 😂
I'm applying all this 10 years late. I'm thirty and finally figuring it out. Where have you been all my life, dude? lol
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