How do you do that undercover video, Words are so clear , I have a son that wanted to prove he can stay clean & sober , wish he would find a sober woman 👠👠 he helps these people he dates get sober , he should work at a hospital, but not date these people that use all he earned.
@@stephaniemariemcdonald9096 Sometimes a man can’t help, but be Captain save a Hoe I’m a man and have done this many of times and got burned many of times till one day I realised I needed saving from them and my mental health and well-being has never been better since I’ve stopped to help them and help myself i hope your son finds his to self-worth and peace and that he has a family that loves him keep hold of him he an angel on this earth with a huge hart x
Learn to live with it? I lost my 23 year old daughter a year ago. And I'll never learn to live with it. Know what the fuck you're talking about before you comment.
It’s been almost a decade after I lost a really good friend of mine to suicide…. I’ve learned before that incident that it is best to live and let go if necessary.
I’m glad some people can cope with a loss like that. They are much stronger than me. I know I’d never live a moment without my son. It’s why he won’t have any siblings. I can’t have that obligation.
This just touched me. You never get over losing a child. My brother died being crushed in a work accident. My mom would go through weeks of grief and crying for the last 3 years. Mother's day was her tipping point. She cried from Sunday through Thursday. Friday, she stopped because she felt dizzy, I told her that I was taking her to the hospital, and she said to give her 2 hours and she'll go if she didn't feel better. An hour later, she was unresponsive and died on May 19th, 2023. I just buried my mother next to my brother 2 days ago. The coroner said that her heart enlarged and gave out. My mother just died of a broken heart, but now she is reunited with her son. My heart is broken, but sometimes the unknown is too great for people to handle. She needed to know he was ok.
My little brother was crushed in a work accident too Dec 31' 99. My mom went bankrupt was losing her house and had a bad stroke. She survived that now my 11 y.o niece was killed in an car accident. My mom n stepdad watched that girl almost everyday so she's buried 2 kids but thankfully she has her faith to get thru this. Me on the other hand i lost my dad the year b4 my neice made me realise why so many of us so screwed up and hurting inside
Man I had a similar situation. Lost someone very close to me in a tragic way, and I broke down completely for quite a few months. And I’ve always been strong, stayed home in high school to get younger siblings to elementary school and help around the house etc. But this threw me into a fog and for months I was like a zombie. But there’s two paths from there, full endless breakdown, or rebuild from your broken down state. I’ve got to say it changed the way I look at things, and treat people. Not at a surface level I’ve always been a decent and friendly person, and always tried to treat people fairly on the face, although nothing in life is as you want it. But I’ve realized now how precious life is, and how important it is to really take the time to understand and help people sometimes. I still hear of an accident on the radio and assume the worst, and worry about my family. I don’t think that part will ever leave, and it’s good to keep me on my toes I think. I mean it a terrible gut feeling but keeps me understanding that anything can happen to anyone at any given time. Myself or my loved ones. That realization makes you actively try to not take things for granted, and to do your best every day for yourself and everyone around you.
Don't think l could ever move on, she's strong. My daughter is turning 9 at the end of the month. She's my only daughter too, it doesn't make people bad parents because they grieve hard. I think I'd definitely be lost for years and years......and years, if my girl was taken from me. I hope l never have to find out.
I think a lot of people feel guilty for being happy after suffering such a tragic loss. So they don't want to move on and be happy out of guilt and sadness over the loss. If I died, I wouldn't want anyone to wallow in misery and never be able to move on. I'd want them to be happy, and go out and accomplish all their goals and dreams.
I lost my daughter when she was 25 and she had lost her baby to murder. Sometimes people will say I'm strong but guess what you only have 2 choices one is to lay down and give up. The other is to live your life the way your child and grandchild would want me to. So I've chosen to live. I still cry and miss them. Things happen for a reason. God Bless you can make it. Life is very short! ❤😊
I'm retired but I was a cardiovascular tech for many years. I can remember some patients who chose me to share their stories with. I remember one lady who had lost her little boy to a brain tumor. She talked about the pain he would have from the headaches and how she felt so bad she couldn't help him and she began to sob. I sat with her on the side of her bed and just let her cry. She told me she felt better when I got up to leave. I thanked her for sharing that part of her life with me and left her room. Patients were a gift to me. And I remember so many. I want to see them again in heaven.
I can’t imagine having to be her seeing her baby boy with headaches that severe and can’t take the pain away. My migraines get so severe and last for hours and hours that I’ve had my ears pop and liquid come out. And I’ve sat their screaming from the pain. I can only imagine a little boy having to deal with something the same and worse than that 😢 and a mother not being able to do anything. Thank you for being there for your patients and comforting them.
That's so true even though nowadays you have to be more leery because of all the craziness that's going on but sometimes you just never know who you're talkin to and never know what a kind word can do to somebody how I can just change somebody's day in the most littlest and the most drastic way also at the same time
The only silver lining in loosing a child is that no matter what happens in life, nothing in your life could ever compare to that pain. If you can overcome and move on after that, no boss, or authoritarian tyrant figure can shake you in the least.
That’s for SURE!!! I lost my 9yo but it was my “fault” and you’re right. ‘I’ll Never Love Again’ (Gaga) but NOTHING will ever feel worse so I agree with you.
@@jefferyepstein9210 3 years ago couldn’t stop abusing inhalants (she saw me turn blue,etc) long rehab, did it again. She couldn’t bear more heart break, shut me out Dad backs her up.
I lost my daughter in 2021 tragically. Spent two years crying every single day. There's a hole in your heart that can never be mended. Life will never be the same. All your doing is just living day to day.
lost my daughter also. it's been 2 years and I still can't move on. she was 21. it kills me everyday still. I go see her everyday at the cemetery.never missed a day as we speak.
"And good things come out of it" 🤔 I wonder what good things she thinks came out of her daughters death for her to say that.. Either way it's good she thinks that, because there's nothing good that can come out of blaming yourself for things that are out of your control. There's nothing good that comes out of stopping to live life or enjoy life for things that are out of your control either. I'm glad she has a "good things come out of it" and "maybe there's a good reason behind it" attitude.. but saying good things come out of it is shocking tbh.
@@jonslg240 She's obviously got her own reasons that she hangs on to after all the soul searching she must have done so if it works for her then godbless her ? It's certainly not for you to judge and say it's shocking TBH ! 🏴
When you've been through something extremely painful you have to find the silver lining. You have to remember we are here to learn all kinds of different things. Life is about contrast. If we wanted to only have good times we would stay on the Otherside. She knows she will see her daughter again. Finding the good is the absolute best way to handle any tough experience. It's sad that this behavior is a shock. We should all be so accepting and loving. She's an excellent example of honouring her child's life and death.
I lost my mom in a car accident 9 months ago. My husband 6 months before her and my best friend 6 months after my mom. I'm barely able to face the day, finally. I can't imagine losing my child. I do hope something good comes from the loss. This lady is very strong. I wish her all the best.
They called me to tell me my dad passed away in his sleep, then the next day my sister died of cancer. Buried my dad on Saturday and my sister on monday. Been 14 years ago.
Lost my only child after 39 days in a coma. He turned 20 years old in the ICU. Parents are not meant to bury their children. It truly is the worst thing. Never thought I would survive it. But I did and now have ministry helping parents in those brutal early days of tye loss. When I look at them, i see how far God has carried me. One mother I met recently kept staring at my manicured nails and finally said, "You had your nails done." She just could not imagine ever doing anything normal like that ever again.
My sister passed away 17 years ago on her 25th birthday. My mother is still in just as much pain and agony as she was when it happened. She told me that her physician wanted her to get grief counseling of some kind but my mother has refused to get any kind of grief counseling and she says that she never will because she does not want to go to any form of counseling designed to make her move on or forward. She views it as a betrayal to my sister to even try to feel anything other than pain & grief. I have tried telling her it would not be a betrayal. I have also told her how unfair it is to me that she would rather live everyday only grieving for my sister and ignoring the fact that I am also her child who needs her mother, and my kids needs their grandmother but she tells me that bc I said that to her, it makes me selfish and a hateful, jealous b*tch. Grief has consumed my mother to the point that she has such intense anger and cruelty towards me. She has so much rage towards me bc I lived after my ex-husband had attempted to murder me, and my sister died two years later.
@armurph1102 I am so so so sorry you are facing this. Grief can be so consuming if we allow it. Read about a situation called long grief. Pls do some reserch on it. I read a book in the early days called " its ok that you are not ok" by Megan Divine a phycologist that really helped. She took us through a 30 day journaling of our grief experience. I got to meet a community of people who were in the same place as me. They understood every emotion guilt pain anger I felt. It's 6 years on and I still go back to this community on days when the grief comes back like a sunami. They hear me, encourage me because everyone else in my life has moved on. Maybe this may help your mum and you. You are in my prayers.
I lost my son 2 years ago and haven't been able to recover since. NOBOBY and i mean ABSOLUTELY nobody tried to help. All i needed was for someone to help me get my house in order. Im still trying to recover and organize but its overwhelming. Boxes EVERYWHERE and i get stuck so i pray for people that grieve everyday
I loss my 4 month old daughter to SIDS in 1991 and it seems like it was yesterday. I was the rescuer because I found her unresponsive. It's a pain like no other pain. I still take one day at a time. Thomas Dutkiewicz
I was heading to bed at 1.00 a.m & my left arm started to hurt a little.. i thought it was because i’ve been holding the mobile phone for too long watching TH-cam.. the pain got worse & then the chest pain became unbearable.. the arm felt as if it’d been hacked off.. i was in the back of an ambulance by 3.30 a.m waking up at 8.a.m in A & E to be found with the artery behind the heart 100 % blocked
@@user-be5xr9zc6p yes that is all it takes to know something is wrong. Really wrong. It wasn’t your time so now you have a chance to appreciate each day/ hour/ minute. Glad you made it. There is so much to appreciate.
@@33Justthinking I appreciate David Austin roses that i have & blue tits & robins that come to the fat balls .. & megpies & blackbirds…..&.. they all come to the bird seeds i put out for them
Same here. Mine is 19 now and she hasn’t spoken to me for an entire year, and 2 days. I miss her so much, but she is at that age where she thinks she’s knows everything. Tears me up.
My son, my only child is forever 39, he died in 2021, just 13 months after my husband died in 2020. I truly couldn't summon the strength to bathe, brush my teeth or hair. I couldn't see the point. I continually prayed for Peace... I'm finally seeing the fog lift. It'll hurt Forever, but I'm here and will find a way to carry on. Life is decidedly worth living. We're all stronger with the Grace of God. ❤ RIP SON❤ RIP GENE❤
This lady is truly full of grace & gratitude. Even when faced w/the worst situation life coulda dealt her...she still chose to fight & persevere. God bless u sweet lady...u are an absolute HERO xo!!!❤
As a parent, this made me gasp in horror. I can’t imagine the pain she lives with everyday. Kudos to her for trying to find meaning and joy in life again.
What an incredible lady, at peace with herself, generous, kind, compassionate and not at all bitter. Losing a child is like shredding a piece of your limb and heart.
This lady is absolutely telling the truth. I also lost a daughter and like her nothing can hurt me any worse than that did. Live everyday like it's your last ❤
She actually seems really smart, and death in the family can absolutely make you completely aware of the finite life we live. It can change you completely to the point where you're happier every day because every day you're one step closer to death. Because of that, every day has more and more meaning found in it. If we were immortal, it works in reverse; our life would become more and more meaningless by the day.
@@kerkertrandov459 lol, people tend to think that living longer would make them happier, but whether a tortoise lives for 300 years or a flower blooms for just one day, they both live a lifetime
@Michael Bestgen immortality is deeper than that. Your basically saying anyone who is religious and wants a paradise afterlife isn't going to like it which to me sounds like a huge assumption on so many levels.
@Dokes it's not an assumption, it's simply how the existence of awareness and consciousness operates. The human consciousness functions by ignoring constants. For example, if your shirt fits and is comfortable, then you dont typically notice it. If, for some reason, the tag starts itching you, then you'll notice it immediately. We dont typically wake up in the morning and thank god for the air we breathe or think, "thank goodness theres a floor", those things simply are ignored by consciousness. But if we suddenly couldnt breathe or if the floor suddenly disappeared, we'd become fully aware of their existence or lack-there-of. Likewise, you wouldnt be able to read these words I'm typing unless the color theyre presented as were in contrast to the background theyre presented on. If the words were the same color as the background theyre typed on, then we wouldnt be able to read them because the foreground is blended in with the background. All of that said, in order to be conscious of something, we need to be aware of its opposite. In order for something to have any meaning at all, it must be accompanied by its counterpart. That said, if life never ended, we would never have any reason to enjoy it and we couldnt possibly appreciate it because we would have no death to compare it to. If there is no opposite or contrast, then there is no meaning. There is no such thing as a right side without a left side. Thats as absurd as imagining you could have an up without a down. And these people who think theyll eventually reach a place after life where everythings up and nothings down, are full of shit and they completely miss the point of life.
A strong woman. I lost my son when he was 22. A loss to this world. IF I didn't belive in Jesus I could not have gotten thru it. Faith the size of a mustard seed. If I'm wrong, oh well. BUT for the non believer, my heart aches for you.
I don't know how she could talk about her daughter's death, so causality w/o a single tear. I lost my little daughter in 1968, and I still can't speak about her w/o tears.
It’s true, u do die a thousand deaths, with grief, even now, and it’s been 12 years since my son’s suicide. It’s a bizarre event, because many people completely ignored it. One close family member told me not to mention it at a big party/event 3 months after he died. Life always follows death though, and he’s alive in “heaven”, I’ve seen him there many times.
@@janetpattison8474 Janet my daughter died from suicide at age 18 in 2021. People say things like they would ‘just die’ if they lose a child. But, they don’t. It just goes on. It’s really tough to lose a child to suicide ♥️ I am sad for our losses.
My mom (God rest her soul) said "A parent should never have to bury their child! Please, honey, please! If something ever happened to you or your sister...just lock me up in a mental asylum!" She helped me stop fixating on ending my life. I broke her heart, I accused her a lot of "Just trying to guilt trip me out of my feelings to die. That it's like trying to keep an animal you 'love' alive as it's laying there eviscerated and suffering! I just want it to END! I'm 17 and feel like a 70yr old broken old woman, mom! It's no one's fault, I just CAN'T feel anything but hate, anger, rage, and sorrow! No! I'll never 'be that happy baby you remember', mom! That, 'Mary', died a looong time ago...and I'm sorry...". She cried, she got sober from alcohol when I was 16, she was a sweet, naive, lady with an appreciation for wit. I found God. I prayed for control of my emotions. I prayed for understanding and the ability to forgive, if not forget, for insight into why I was "cursed" to be fat & ugly, a misfit, a mistake, and a disappointment to my family...Lord, forgive my not fully formed teenaged brain for the evil, hateful, ridiculous things I said, done, and felt. And thank you, God for giving me peace of mind, empathy, understanding, and the knowledge that I am not everything I thought I was and for everything I have grown to be. Mind, body, and soul. I have truly found peace. Lost my mom is April 2017. My fiancè in July 2019. But, EVERYTHING is according to God's will & His plan. I have seen & known evil. Now my soul is wiser and I feel free. At 25, I found what God led me to. I am now 34, and can't think of one person I "hate". Made peace with my body/face image. I'm a realist who loves the saying "it is what it is"
I'm so sorry for your loss, I lost my son at 21, and you are so right! You must live and love every single day, one day at a time, sending much love! Thank you for sharing your story ❤😢
Her life isn't yours. She lost her daughter yet in her life, things have still been gained despite that loss. She can't bring her back, it isn't healthy to solely focus on your loss. Her daughter wouldn't want her mother to suffer. Yes, grieve, absolutely grieve. Take the time you need to do that, but life doesn't stop regardless of how much you want it to. She knows this. How you respond to a tragedy of this magnitude speaks volumes of character. God bless her.
I find it amazing the bosses ALWAYS manage to find someone with aheartbreaking story and just happen to work alongside them, pretty similar to programs likke america got talent etc, i know everyone has bad things happen to them in life but dam, even working with people i havent come across that many bad stories......
@@AcedrinksLIVE there are certain types of people who other just pour out their hearts to. I think most of these bosses are trying to deeply connect with their employees and kind words like those said in this clip can encourage people to open up
They all do interviews prior to being on television so they know they are going to be on TV but they don't realize it's for undercover boss, they think it's for a behind the scenes video usually following a "day one trainee" through the company (who more often than not ends up being the undercover boss) And they steer them towards the more interesting workers or the ones with the saddest stories.
People who have had near-death experiences say they are shown how tragedies are learning experiences, but you don't fully understand why until you are on the other side of the veil. You seem pretty spergy though, so you likely don't have the capacity to even consider such things.
It's her philosophy, if that helps her get threw each day more power to her.. You never know what can happen live each day like it is your last is great advice. She will never forget her daughter, but with time she will heal. We believe God has a reason for everything and everyone in our lives. Good or bad we believe there is a purpose , her purpose is to teach others that through it all you keep putting one foot in front of the other.
Ugh religion🤦🏻♂️ but at least it helped her move on by making her believe it happened for a reason even though it didn’t. That’s the main selling point for religion: false hope
That really hit me. I've always considered myself to be a sympathetic person but after you have a child your much more empathetic. I can't imagine losing my child especially at nine years of age. Then being such a positive loving person like her. God Bless her.🙏❤
We lost my husband's brother a little more than a year ago and it doesn't get any easier but you learn to cope. I still cry every day. He died from a brain aneurysm, it was so sudden he may as well have been murdered. We miss Mike every single day! I try to live for him through his kids, my neices and nephews are so important to me.
I can't imagine the pain she has to live, I would be crushed if I lost my baby, she's so much fun just a ball of energy, ma'am I'm praying God gives you the strength and comfort to keep living everyday he gives you breath, God bless you God is Love
I lost my daughter too and I can say , you really never forget . Yes you learn to live with it . But that pinch in your heart occurs each time I see other mothers with their girls . I’ll always miss her . But , it’s comforting to see this mother . stay strong . My deepest sympathies to her .
Absolutely, I also lost my daughter, and to this very day I am still devastated and I miss her terribly, but nothing is going to flatten me anymore, today, tomorrow and onwards I grab life. 👏🏻👏🏼👏🏾👏🏿👏
My daughter and I were in a car wreck 6 years ago and almost killed by a Drunk driver...she lost her unborn baby 7 months preg. I could have been angry but I refused to be filled with hate... I thank God every day I'm still here to be a mom to my 4 children... I've touched many lives speaking about this and knowing God uses people even in trails n tribulations to help others...
Sometimes you have no choice but to move forward because you have other family who NEEDS YOU!!! You have my DEEPEST HEART FELT SYMPATHY AND ADMIRATION!❤ GOD BLESS YOU ❤️🙏🏻❤️🥰🤩
I lost my 15 year old son in 2006, I agree that there's a reason these things happen, moving forward is so difficult, but you have to do it and it definitely makes you stronger.
She is such a special person shes honouring her daughter so beautifull while some people would sink into bitterness. When my dad fpund out he had terminal cancer i was so angry because he was a good man who did so much for other people and i asked why hom amd his response was 'why not me?' That was me humbled right there. Love smd miss you dad ❤ this lady deserves all the happiness in the world.
Watch the full clip here: th-cam.com/video/aTAC26-kKQI/w-d-xo.html
Best advice...so says this 70 years young woman
Full clip my elbow it's another short that's pretty shitty to do to us viewers
How do you do that undercover video, Words are so clear , I have a son that wanted to prove he can stay clean & sober , wish he would find a sober woman 👠👠 he helps these people he dates get sober , he should work at a hospital, but not date these people that use all he earned.
@@stephaniemariemcdonald9096 Sometimes a man can’t help, but be Captain save a Hoe I’m a man and have done this many of times and got burned many of times till one day I realised I needed saving from them and my mental health and well-being has never been better since I’ve stopped to help them and help myself i hope your son finds his to self-worth and peace and that he has a family that loves him keep hold of him he an angel on this earth with a huge hart x
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You never get used to losing a loved one. You just learn to live with it. Condolences mom.
11years for me too...i developed the exact same philosophy...
Learn to live with it? I lost my 23 year old daughter a year ago. And I'll never learn to live with it. Know what the fuck you're talking about before you comment.
It’s been almost a decade after I lost a really good friend of mine to suicide…. I’ve learned before that incident that it is best to live and let go if necessary.
Or divorce ...
I’m glad some people can cope with a loss like that. They are much stronger than me. I know I’d never live a moment without my son. It’s why he won’t have any siblings. I can’t have that obligation.
This just touched me. You never get over losing a child. My brother died being crushed in a work accident. My mom would go through weeks of grief and crying for the last 3 years. Mother's day was her tipping point. She cried from Sunday through Thursday. Friday, she stopped because she felt dizzy, I told her that I was taking her to the hospital, and she said to give her 2 hours and she'll go if she didn't feel better. An hour later, she was unresponsive and died on May 19th, 2023. I just buried my mother next to my brother 2 days ago. The coroner said that her heart enlarged and gave out. My mother just died of a broken heart, but now she is reunited with her son. My heart is broken, but sometimes the unknown is too great for people to handle. She needed to know he was ok.
I'm so so sorry 😔 I'm sorry, I don't even know what to say 🫂
I'm so sorry 😢
My little brother was crushed in a work accident too Dec 31' 99. My mom went bankrupt was losing her house and had a bad stroke. She survived that now my 11 y.o niece was killed in an car accident. My mom n stepdad watched that girl almost everyday so she's buried 2 kids but thankfully she has her faith to get thru this. Me on the other hand i lost my dad the year b4 my neice made me realise why so many of us so screwed up and hurting inside
So very sorry for your losses. God Blesss You. Sending prayers from Sacramento, CA ❤
People easily lose themselves after tragedy, but she made the choice to keep moving forward in her daughter's memory. She's a good mom
She said good things came of it
Man I had a similar situation. Lost someone very close to me in a tragic way, and I broke down completely for quite a few months.
And I’ve always been strong, stayed home in high school to get younger siblings to elementary school and help around the house etc.
But this threw me into a fog and for months I was like a zombie.
But there’s two paths from there, full endless breakdown, or rebuild from your broken down state.
I’ve got to say it changed the way I look at things, and treat people.
Not at a surface level I’ve always been a decent and friendly person, and always tried to treat people fairly on the face, although nothing in life is as you want it.
But I’ve realized now how precious life is, and how important it is to really take the time to understand and help people sometimes.
I still hear of an accident on the radio and assume the worst, and worry about my family.
I don’t think that part will ever leave, and it’s good to keep me on my toes I think. I mean it a terrible gut feeling but keeps me understanding that anything can happen to anyone at any given time. Myself or my loved ones.
That realization makes you actively try to not take things for granted, and to do your best every day for yourself and everyone around you.
@@justinstevenson2061 thank you
Don't think l could ever move on, she's strong. My daughter is turning 9 at the end of the month. She's my only daughter too, it doesn't make people bad parents because they grieve hard. I think I'd definitely be lost for years and years......and years, if my girl was taken from me. I hope l never have to find out.
I think a lot of people feel guilty for being happy after suffering such a tragic loss. So they don't want to move on and be happy out of guilt and sadness over the loss. If I died, I wouldn't want anyone to wallow in misery and never be able to move on. I'd want them to be happy, and go out and accomplish all their goals and dreams.
I lost my daughter when she was 25 and she had lost her baby to murder. Sometimes people will say I'm strong but guess what you only have 2 choices one is to lay down and give up. The other is to live your life the way your child and grandchild would want me to. So I've chosen to live. I still cry and miss them. Things happen for a reason. God Bless you can make it. Life is very short! ❤😊
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I'm retired but I was a cardiovascular tech for many years. I can remember some patients who chose me to share their stories with. I remember one lady who had lost her little boy to a brain tumor. She talked about the pain he would have from the headaches and how she felt so bad she couldn't help him and she began to sob. I sat with her on the side of her bed and just let her cry. She told me she felt better when I got up to leave. I thanked her for sharing that part of her life with me and left her room. Patients were a gift to me. And I remember so many. I want to see them again in heaven.
That's beautiful that u r the type of Dr. that honestly listens and cares ❤️
Wow your telling was good, the ending was the best.
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I can’t imagine having to be her seeing her baby boy with headaches that severe and can’t take the pain away. My migraines get so severe and last for hours and hours that I’ve had my ears pop and liquid come out. And I’ve sat their screaming from the pain. I can only imagine a little boy having to deal with something the same and worse than that 😢 and a mother not being able to do anything.
Thank you for being there for your patients and comforting them.
Bless you
We never know the burden others are carrying. Please stop to think if we get annoyed with a stranger in public.
Well said
That's so true even though nowadays you have to be more leery because of all the craziness that's going on but sometimes you just never know who you're talkin to and never know what a kind word can do to somebody how I can just change somebody's day in the most littlest and the most drastic way also at the same time
The only silver lining in loosing a child is that no matter what happens in life, nothing in your life could ever compare to that pain. If you can overcome and move on after that, no boss, or authoritarian tyrant figure can shake you in the least.
That’s for SURE!!!
I lost my 9yo but it was my “fault” and you’re right. ‘I’ll Never Love Again’ (Gaga) but NOTHING will ever feel worse so I agree with you.
So very true.
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Your fault? How?
@@jefferyepstein9210 3 years ago couldn’t stop abusing inhalants (she saw me turn blue,etc) long rehab, did it again. She couldn’t bear more heart break, shut me out Dad backs her up.
This is so true, nothing can shake you, it would be a tiny fragment compared to the pain of losing a child.
I lost my daughter in 2021 tragically. Spent two years crying every single day. There's a hole in your heart that can never be mended. Life will never be the same. All your doing is just living day to day.
I'm so sorry. I couldn't imagine losing my child. Peace to you.
My condolences I'm so sorry
lost my daughter also. it's been 2 years and I still can't move on. she was 21. it kills me everyday still. I go see her everyday at the cemetery.never missed a day as we speak.
I am so sorry for your loss and may you find peace and happiness. 😊
Exactly 💯 , it's like the main light has gone out, never will come on again
No parent should bury their children.....but unfortunately life is cruel sometimes.....god bless this woman for being strong
"And good things come out of it" 🤔
I wonder what good things she thinks came out of her daughters death for her to say that..
Either way it's good she thinks that, because there's nothing good that can come out of blaming yourself for things that are out of your control.
There's nothing good that comes out of stopping to live life or enjoy life for things that are out of your control either.
I'm glad she has a "good things come out of it" and "maybe there's a good reason behind it" attitude.. but saying good things come out of it is shocking tbh.
God bless her? Didn't God take her child?
@@rfcbass6810 Good 👍 Point .........
@@jonslg240 She's obviously got her own reasons that she hangs on to after all the soul searching she must have done so if it works for her then godbless her ? It's certainly not for you to judge and say it's shocking TBH ! 🏴
When you've been through something extremely painful you have to find the silver lining. You have to remember we are here to learn all kinds of different things. Life is about contrast. If we wanted to only have good times we would stay on the Otherside.
She knows she will see her daughter again. Finding the good is the absolute best way to handle any tough experience. It's sad that this behavior is a shock. We should all be so accepting and loving. She's an excellent example of honouring her child's life and death.
I lost my mom in a car accident 9 months ago. My husband 6 months before her and my best friend 6 months after my mom.
I'm barely able to face the day, finally. I can't imagine losing my child. I do hope something good comes from the loss.
This lady is very strong. I wish her all the best.
They called me to tell me my dad passed away in his sleep, then the next day my sister died of cancer. Buried my dad on Saturday and my sister on monday. Been 14 years ago.
Bless you. Praying for you.
That woman is beautiful inside and out we need more people like that in the world I'm terribly sorry for your loss no one should have to lose a child
She better keep that employee no matter what
Heart is important more than anything
Lost my only child after 39 days in a coma. He turned 20 years old in the ICU. Parents are not meant to bury their children. It truly is the worst thing. Never thought I would survive it. But I did and now have ministry helping parents in those brutal early days of tye loss. When I look at them, i see how far God has carried me. One mother I met recently kept staring at my manicured nails and finally said, "You had your nails done." She just could not imagine ever doing anything normal like that ever again.
I love you and I’ll be praying for you. I am so sorry.
I wish you all the Peace in the world!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾💐💐
My sister passed away 17 years ago on her 25th birthday. My mother is still in just as much pain and agony as she was when it happened. She told me that her physician wanted her to get grief counseling of some kind but my mother has refused to get any kind of grief counseling and she says that she never will because she does not want to go to any form of counseling designed to make her move on or forward. She views it as a betrayal to my sister to even try to feel anything other than pain & grief. I have tried telling her it would not be a betrayal. I have also told her how unfair it is to me that she would rather live everyday only grieving for my sister and ignoring the fact that I am also her child who needs her mother, and my kids needs their grandmother but she tells me that bc I said that to her, it makes me selfish and a hateful, jealous b*tch. Grief has consumed my mother to the point that she has such intense anger and cruelty towards me. She has so much rage towards me bc I lived after my ex-husband had attempted to murder me, and my sister died two years later.
@armurph1102 I am so so so sorry you are facing this. Grief can be so consuming if we allow it. Read about a situation called long grief. Pls do some reserch on it. I read a book in the early days called " its ok that you are not ok" by Megan Divine a phycologist that really helped. She took us through a 30 day journaling of our grief experience. I got to meet a community of people who were in the same place as me. They understood every emotion guilt pain anger I felt. It's 6 years on and I still go back to this community on days when the grief comes back like a sunami. They hear me, encourage me because everyone else in my life has moved on. Maybe this may help your mum and you. You are in my prayers.
I lost my son 2 years ago and haven't been able to recover since. NOBOBY and i mean ABSOLUTELY nobody tried to help. All i needed was for someone to help me get my house in order. Im still trying to recover and organize but its overwhelming. Boxes EVERYWHERE and i get stuck so i pray for people that grieve everyday
I 💯 agree! Lost my son 6 years ago...never know what tomorrow will bring, be kind, be loving and just be the best you, that you can be!
I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤😢
@@user-cl5co8kl1z Thank you!
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Sorry for your loss, God Bless you.
@@kh-se4zt Thank you!
I loss my 4 month old daughter to SIDS in 1991 and it seems like it was yesterday. I was the rescuer because I found her unresponsive. It's a pain like no other pain. I still take one day at a time.
Thomas Dutkiewicz
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Hang in there. ❤
Bless to you everyday - angels all around you - my heart and prayers are with you - blessings ❤❤❤
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🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
There you go. She nailed it! Live everyday like it’s your last because you never know. Be happy and caring.
I was heading to bed at 1.00 a.m & my left arm started to hurt a little.. i thought it was because i’ve been holding the mobile phone for too long watching TH-cam.. the pain got worse & then the chest pain became unbearable.. the arm felt as if it’d been hacked off.. i was in the back of an ambulance by 3.30 a.m waking up at 8.a.m in A & E to be found with the artery behind the heart 100 % blocked
@@user-be5xr9zc6p yes that is all it takes to know something is wrong. Really wrong. It wasn’t your time so now you have a chance to appreciate each day/ hour/ minute. Glad you made it. There is so much to appreciate.
@@33Justthinking I appreciate David Austin roses that i have & blue tits & robins that come to the fat balls .. & megpies & blackbirds…..&.. they all come to the bird seeds i put out for them
Tomorrow is never promised
I lost my dad, he was 46 and died suddenly, I changed so much after that, I’m a completely different person now.
I feel this woman’s pain
Blessings to you 🎉
Sorry for your loss, try and remember your good times together!
🙏 friend
My heart breaks for this woman. So much stronger than me. If I lost my daughter, it would kill me.
Same here. Mine is 19 now and she hasn’t spoken to me for an entire year, and 2 days. I miss her so much, but she is at that age where she thinks she’s knows everything. Tears me up.
My son, my only child is forever 39, he died in 2021, just 13 months after my husband died in 2020. I truly couldn't summon the strength to bathe, brush my teeth or hair. I couldn't see the point. I continually prayed for Peace... I'm finally seeing the fog lift. It'll hurt Forever, but I'm here and will find a way to carry on.
Life is decidedly worth living. We're all stronger with the Grace of God. ❤
RIP SON❤
RIP GENE❤
@@Agrillot6 It's so hard! I pray she is finding that she will always have her mom and will save future days to see you. ❤
This lady is truly full of grace & gratitude. Even when faced w/the worst situation life coulda dealt her...she still chose to fight & persevere. God bless u sweet lady...u are an absolute HERO xo!!!❤
I wish we could just live in a world where children can't die.
Or one’s partner.
People who can take a tragedy and turn that into helping others takes a special type of person. ❤️
Sweetheart I lost my son and my daughter march of 87 and I feel your pain it's very hard to just move on
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Im sorry youve had to deal with that
I’m Sorry for your losses I don’t have kids but Ik it has to be one of the worst feelings in the world
I'm sorry to hear that. I loss my 4 month old daughter to SIDS in 1991.
Thomas Dutkiewicz
@Thomas Steffy, we appreciate you. Thanks for your comment. Be encouraged in your mission. We pray for you to be blessed with peace.
Those words are so true ... life is to short on earth but eternal life is for ever✨️
She is safe in His arms 🙏🏽
As a parent, this made me gasp in horror. I can’t imagine the pain she lives with everyday. Kudos to her for trying to find meaning and joy in life again.
God bless that woman. as a mom, thats a nightmare. a true nightmare
What an incredible lady, at peace with herself, generous, kind, compassionate and not at all bitter. Losing a child is like shredding a piece of your limb and heart.
This employee is an awesome role model. Her attitude makes her an epic person to know. I wish her the best. 💜💕❤️🙏🌈💜💕❤️🙏🌈
This lady is absolutely telling the truth. I also lost a daughter and like her nothing can hurt me any worse than that did. Live everyday like it's your last ❤
Sorry to hear this, stay strong. ❤
❤blessings to you everyday
This lady is on the exact right path in life and hopefully the best for her will come out of it...
She actually seems really smart, and death in the family can absolutely make you completely aware of the finite life we live.
It can change you completely to the point where you're happier every day because every day you're one step closer to death. Because of that, every day has more and more meaning found in it.
If we were immortal, it works in reverse; our life would become more and more meaningless by the day.
I wouldnt mind living 1k years instead of 100 tho. But when im 240 i will be like im 24. Thatd be pretty nice.
@@kerkertrandov459 lol, people tend to think that living longer would make them happier, but whether a tortoise lives for 300 years or a flower blooms for just one day, they both live a lifetime
@@kerkertrandov459 if you follow Jesus, you can live 1k years.
@Michael Bestgen immortality is deeper than that. Your basically saying anyone who is religious and wants a paradise afterlife isn't going to like it which to me sounds like a huge assumption on so many levels.
@Dokes it's not an assumption, it's simply how the existence of awareness and consciousness operates.
The human consciousness functions by ignoring constants.
For example, if your shirt fits and is comfortable, then you dont typically notice it. If, for some reason, the tag starts itching you, then you'll notice it immediately.
We dont typically wake up in the morning and thank god for the air we breathe or think, "thank goodness theres a floor", those things simply are ignored by consciousness. But if we suddenly couldnt breathe or if the floor suddenly disappeared, we'd become fully aware of their existence or lack-there-of.
Likewise, you wouldnt be able to read these words I'm typing unless the color theyre presented as were in contrast to the background theyre presented on.
If the words were the same color as the background theyre typed on, then we wouldnt be able to read them because the foreground is blended in with the background.
All of that said, in order to be conscious of something, we need to be aware of its opposite.
In order for something to have any meaning at all, it must be accompanied by its counterpart.
That said, if life never ended, we would never have any reason to enjoy it and we couldnt possibly appreciate it because we would have no death to compare it to.
If there is no opposite or contrast, then there is no meaning.
There is no such thing as a right side without a left side. Thats as absurd as imagining you could have an up without a down.
And these people who think theyll eventually reach a place after life where everythings up and nothings down, are full of shit and they completely miss the point of life.
Thus lady is one Strong woman!😢❤
I remember watching this. I cannot imagine her grief. Saying a prayer for her continued strength. 🙏🏻
What an AMAZING WOMAN
My heart is so heavy for this beautiful hard working lady , I was a waitress and loved my job it's amazing ❤
Couldn’t imagine losing a child, nothing worse. Bless those who have and healing daily.
Her attitude is 10/10
A strong woman. I lost my son when he was 22. A loss to this world. IF I didn't belive in Jesus I could not have gotten thru it. Faith the size of a mustard seed. If I'm wrong, oh well. BUT for the non believer, my heart aches for you.
AMEN! GOD BLESS YOU, DEAR!
Brave lass , wish her all the best for the future !🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
No parent should ever have to bury their child.😢
What a strong woman. Bless her heart for her loss.
So Sorry she lost a daughter. Strong Woman. God Bless Her.
I don't know how she could talk about her daughter's death, so causality w/o a single tear. I lost my little daughter in 1968, and I still can't speak about her w/o tears.
If I lost my 9 year old I would fucking die
Same. I understand you CAN live past it, I just refuse to.
It’s true, u do die a thousand deaths, with grief, even now, and it’s been 12 years since my son’s suicide. It’s a bizarre event, because many people completely ignored it. One close family member told me not to mention it at a big party/event 3 months after he died. Life always follows death though, and he’s alive in “heaven”, I’ve seen him there many times.
@@janetpattison8474 Janet my daughter died from suicide at age 18 in 2021. People say things like they would ‘just die’ if they lose a child. But, they don’t. It just goes on. It’s really tough to lose a child to suicide ♥️
I am sad for our losses.
@@janetpattison8474I am so sorry for your loss. ❤️
People have no idea what it's *really* like.
My mom (God rest her soul) said "A parent should never have to bury their child! Please, honey, please! If something ever happened to you or your sister...just lock me up in a mental asylum!"
She helped me stop fixating on ending my life. I broke her heart, I accused her a lot of "Just trying to guilt trip me out of my feelings to die. That it's like trying to keep an animal you 'love' alive as it's laying there eviscerated and suffering! I just want it to END! I'm 17 and feel like a 70yr old broken old woman, mom! It's no one's fault, I just CAN'T feel anything but hate, anger, rage, and sorrow! No! I'll never 'be that happy baby you remember', mom! That, 'Mary', died a looong time ago...and I'm sorry...".
She cried, she got sober from alcohol when I was 16, she was a sweet, naive, lady with an appreciation for wit. I found God. I prayed for control of my emotions. I prayed for understanding and the ability to forgive, if not forget, for insight into why I was "cursed" to be fat & ugly, a misfit, a mistake, and a disappointment to my family...Lord, forgive my not fully formed teenaged brain for the evil, hateful, ridiculous things I said, done, and felt. And thank you, God for giving me peace of mind, empathy, understanding, and the knowledge that I am not everything I thought I was and for everything I have grown to be. Mind, body, and soul. I have truly found peace.
Lost my mom is April 2017. My fiancè in July 2019. But, EVERYTHING is according to God's will & His plan. I have seen & known evil. Now my soul is wiser and I feel free. At 25, I found what God led me to. I am now 34, and can't think of one person I "hate". Made peace with my body/face image. I'm a realist who loves the saying "it is what it is"
I'm so sorry for your loss, I lost my son at 21, and you are so right! You must live and love every single day, one day at a time, sending much love! Thank you for sharing your story ❤😢
Nope, nothing good can come from losing your baby girl
Her life isn't yours.
She lost her daughter yet in her life, things have still been gained despite that loss.
She can't bring her back, it isn't healthy to solely focus on your loss.
Her daughter wouldn't want her mother to suffer.
Yes, grieve, absolutely grieve.
Take the time you need to do that, but life doesn't stop regardless of how much you want it to.
She knows this. How you respond to a tragedy of this magnitude speaks volumes of character.
God bless her.
Never try to take away someone's positivity.
May your god bless you, you are such a wonderful human being.
My thoughts are with you.
Prayers for her in those moments we all know will bring her to her knees. 😢
Cool woman. Horrible she lost her daughter & is still nice
I find it amazing the bosses ALWAYS manage to find someone with aheartbreaking story and just happen to work alongside them, pretty similar to programs likke america got talent etc, i know everyone has bad things happen to them in life but dam, even working with people i havent come across that many bad stories......
Everyone's stories have heartbreak. It wouldn't surprise me if they weren't faked
While I agree with you, it's not always so easy to see. Everybody has problems, just depends on if they want to open up about it.
@@AcedrinksLIVE there are certain types of people who other just pour out their hearts to. I think most of these bosses are trying to deeply connect with their employees and kind words like those said in this clip can encourage people to open up
While I agree because surely someone is doing work to find the "interesting" people to put the boss with, some people's lives are fucked
They all do interviews prior to being on television so they know they are going to be on TV but they don't realize it's for undercover boss, they think it's for a behind the scenes video usually following a "day one trainee" through the company (who more often than not ends up being the undercover boss) And they steer them towards the more interesting workers or the ones with the saddest stories.
Nonsense. I know why victims say that but the idea that there is a "reason" for thT is Nonsense.
People who have had near-death experiences say they are shown how tragedies are learning experiences, but you don't fully understand why until you are on the other side of the veil.
You seem pretty spergy though, so you likely don't have the capacity to even consider such things.
@@reesewithered-poon8282 learning something doesn't mean there was a "reason""
Who decided that reason?
It's her philosophy, if that helps her get threw each day more power to her.. You never know what can happen live each day like it is your last is great advice. She will never forget her daughter, but with time she will heal. We believe God has a reason for everything and everyone in our lives. Good or bad we believe there is a purpose , her purpose is to teach others that through it all you keep putting one foot in front of the other.
Been there as well and came out of the darkness 30 yrs ago. Blessings
I wish I had the kind of strength as a person. 💖
Why does her face look like she couldn't care less during the lady spilling her guts to her?
THAT IS NOT TRUE !!
Did she just say that there’s a reason her daughter died ???
Thats religion for ya lol, self soothing behavior imo
Ugh religion🤦🏻♂️ but at least it helped her move on by making her believe it happened for a reason even though it didn’t. That’s the main selling point for religion: false hope
@@edwinyounes4934 unfortunately true, but as I get older whatever get them thr comfort they need ya know?
You both know nothing about “religion” and it shows
I know her pain my son passaway
"...I've been through the worst-- nothing's gonna bring me down!" --Amen to that, lady!...
Mentally strong women. God bless her and her daughter in heaven.
Unfortunately, there is no bigger reason behind tragedies. There is no god, that is the harsh reality of the universe.
We are here because of God. Period
Wow, what a wonderful Lady, with a truly beautiful spirit. God bless her ❤️
Such a beautiful lady, both of you. God bless you and your beautiful families. 🥰🙏❤️
Remarkable woman, RESPECT!!
I like your energy & strength. Stay positive 💝🙏
The loss of a loved one is devastating. But you will go on, and the memories bring tears but also happiness.
Deanna is an AMAZING WOMAN!!!
this is a truly beautul woman heart soul and all-encompassing anyone in her presence should be grateful
She's a beautiful woman with a beautiful soul!!!..God Bless you
That really hit me. I've always considered myself to be a sympathetic person but after you have a child your much more empathetic. I can't imagine losing my child especially at nine years of age. Then being such a positive loving person like her. God Bless her.🙏❤
God bless your Mom, for this powerful message.❣️😊♥️♥️
I LOVE YOUR ATTITUDE ❣️❣️
That lady is an INSPIRATION!!! Thankyou!!! We all need to be reminded what is really important!!
GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS THIS WOMAN WITH HER POSITIVE ATTITUDE...
We lost my husband's brother a little more than a year ago and it doesn't get any easier but you learn to cope. I still cry every day. He died from a brain aneurysm, it was so sudden he may as well have been murdered. We miss Mike every single day! I try to live for him through his kids, my neices and nephews are so important to me.
This lady is amazing and has the strength of 1000 men she’s great
God sees her and Her beautiful Angel Daughter...
She's positive and beautiful! I love her voice!
God Bless You MA'AM ☝🏾👐🏾🙏🏾💪🏾
Love this mom. Grief never leaves but turning that pain into an excellent life philosophy! Blessings!
I can't imagine the pain she has to live, I would be crushed if I lost my baby, she's so much fun just a ball of energy, ma'am I'm praying God gives you the strength and comfort to keep living everyday he gives you breath, God bless you God is Love
This Woman is So Inspiring God's Love Is With You! I So Appreciate You sharing this ❤ 💕 your Amazing
Oh so
Heart wrenching.
But built herself to deal with issues. Rise above.
Incredible.
I lost my daughter too and I can say , you really never forget . Yes you learn to live with it . But that pinch in your heart occurs each time I see other mothers with their girls . I’ll always miss her . But , it’s comforting to see this mother . stay strong . My deepest sympathies to her .
Absolutely, I also lost my daughter, and to this very day I am still devastated and I miss her terribly, but nothing is going to flatten me anymore, today, tomorrow and onwards I grab life. 👏🏻👏🏼👏🏾👏🏿👏
My daughter and I were in a car wreck 6 years ago and almost killed by a Drunk driver...she lost her unborn baby 7 months preg. I could have been angry but I refused to be filled with hate... I thank God every day I'm still here to be a mom to my 4 children... I've touched many lives speaking about this and knowing God uses people even in trails n tribulations to help others...
Condolences on your loss
Not easy recovering from a loss like that prayers stay strong
Your daughter is your angel she is watching over you God bless you and your family.❤
Wisdom from a wounded heart is the best . God bless this mother !
Sometimes you have no choice but to move forward because you have other family who NEEDS YOU!!! You have my DEEPEST HEART FELT SYMPATHY AND ADMIRATION!❤ GOD BLESS YOU ❤️🙏🏻❤️🥰🤩
What a wonderful outlook this mom has.
Im the same way . She is a beautiful Lady with a beautiful soul god clearly shines threw her. Amen
GOD BLESS THIS LADY!!! I SALUTE YOU, PRECIOUS MAMAS!!! 😢😢😢❤❤❤
Beautiful lady’s ,so loving and compassionate!!
What an amazing lady!!!💖 God bless you!🤗
What a beautiful woman with a beautiful soul.
🌻✨️💕✨️💖
She’s a strong woman. God bless her❤
I lost my 15 year old son in 2006, I agree that there's a reason these things happen, moving forward is so difficult, but you have to do it and it definitely makes you stronger.
GOD BLESS YOU and you beautiful outlook
I lost my dog and can’t get over it, can’t imagine the pain you have, god bless you
God bless this woman
Wow ..this woman. Is speaking such words of wisdom..what a true inspiration she is
She is such a special person shes honouring her daughter so beautifull while some people would sink into bitterness. When my dad fpund out he had terminal cancer i was so angry because he was a good man who did so much for other people and i asked why hom amd his response was 'why not me?' That was me humbled right there. Love smd miss you dad ❤ this lady deserves all the happiness in the world.
The strength of a mom is very powerful❤