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  • @solideomusical
    @solideomusical 2 ปีที่แล้ว +227

    *"You're not gonna fix dog issues without other dogs"* - Beckman. Your videos are getting better and better each time.

  • @plomo221
    @plomo221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +287

    Watched the whole thing. Learned a lot. Don't even have a dog haha

    • @freshasadaisy4782
      @freshasadaisy4782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      A lot? What exactly
      have you learnt from this video?

    • @Averyverse
      @Averyverse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      No yet

    • @plomo221
      @plomo221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@freshasadaisy4782 experience dog behavior supervised by an expert. That cost money. This was free.

    • @freshasadaisy4782
      @freshasadaisy4782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@plomo221 so nothing? I agree it was entertaining to watch.

    • @overkill1025
      @overkill1025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@freshasadaisy4782 whats your problem dude? did you not have the sound on while watching the video?

  • @OnkyoGrady
    @OnkyoGrady 2 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    There's a LOT of dogs that covid put on the wrong foot like this. I saw it start in my own standard female and the only solution was to yolo it and bring her everywhere despite the pandemic. I've met a ton of dogs in a similar state of tune since then too.

    • @NightLifeDJs1
      @NightLifeDJs1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Seems like you are a covid on dogs expert, either that or you like to make shit up.

    • @griffinreitz7041
      @griffinreitz7041 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ton of dogs in a similar state, and a ton of young dogs being surrendered to rescues. I've had 3 under 10 months now, and an 11 month old coming in today.

    • @OnkyoGrady
      @OnkyoGrady 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@NightLifeDJs1 what are you talking about? People stopped taking their dogs out socially and it's showing. I saw it with my own young dog being undersocialized and since then, others. Making shit up? Way to be the salty douche in the comment thread.

    • @NightLifeDJs1
      @NightLifeDJs1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OnkyoGrady Ok you are not a covid on dogs expert so that leaves YOU LIKE TO MAKE SHIT UP. 1. Where I live the dogs parks are full, dog beaches are packed, I see them daily out for walks on my street so you don't speak for "people". 2) No where in the video does it say this is a covid problem, so stop blaming your dog problems on covid, seriously.

    • @l.yoked.l1784
      @l.yoked.l1784 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@NightLifeDJs1 Not everyone lives where you live? As someone with a great dog I can totally understand where these people are coming from. Yes, they do take the blame for just not going out but people who actually like to take pandemics seriously are going to have this problem. Shocking, I know. Theres no need to be a dick about people who rather just not get sick.

  • @bslizardette4669
    @bslizardette4669 2 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Yeah, 8-9 months is SUCH a sensitive age. My dog had a different problem, he was over-socialized and put into situations he wasn't comfortable in and the owner trusted older dogs to "teach him manners" - meaning forcefully flip him onto his back, unintentionally hurt him in rough games etc. A bit after he turned one, he became extremely fear aggressive and was triggered by almost everything. At 18 months I was asked to take him because his situation had become unmanageable to the previous owner and they couldn't see how to work him out of it. Now, at seven years old, he's still not the best at socializing but has his few close friends and is capable of making new connections with other dogs. I'm still extremely careful which dogs I let him play with, though; took us too much work to dig through all the puppyhood trauma.

  • @saramations
    @saramations 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I feel bad for that poodle. That's not a typical poodle disposition. 😢 Glad to see you're working with him.

    • @ina7084
      @ina7084 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agreed.
      That back end is tragic.
      Probably going to cause unnecessary issues in the future.

    • @serviceaussie6694
      @serviceaussie6694 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@ina7084 ...rear angulation is a very much needed thing. Please research rear angulation before spreading misinformation.

    • @cvl2904
      @cvl2904 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Isnt his booty down cus he’s scared? It always makes them look weird.

    • @CHRONICjon716
      @CHRONICjon716 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m a long time standard owner, I wonder what happened to this guy. 99% of the time they’ are social monsters.

  • @tomokoyoung9551
    @tomokoyoung9551 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I'm doing exactly what you're saying in this video. I take my puppy that's sensitive to new smell, noise and that is afraid of dogs to everywhere I can to desensitize and socialize him. The hardest part was to find a mature and experienced dog who can deal with my puppy's nervous energy. I've talked dozens and dozens of dog owners during my walk and finally found three dogs that can help my puppy. After I watched this video, I became confident that I'm on a right track. Thank you for helping me!

  • @Daddy53751
    @Daddy53751 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It NEVER ceases to amaze me how many dog owners will say
    “But his tail is wagging, he’s just happy.”
    And my personal favorite “ only pitbulls wag their tail when they attack.”
    Tail wagging only means excitement. Nothing more.
    ANY dog breed!

    • @coding32111
      @coding32111 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Not sure if your saying that tail wagging does not mean they are mad but a more stiff slow wag is when a dog is bout to attack

    • @Daddy53751
      @Daddy53751 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@coding32111 I think people overthink and read into it. A wagging tail just means excitement.

  • @kamsm.2556
    @kamsm.2556 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This is exactly how my dog is. He’s a German shepherd mini Aussie mix who turns 2 this month. My fiancé just moved with his fam into a dog friendly complex and while it’s perfect it’s like planning a mission when trying to take him out avoiding every dog as hard as we can. I really hope I can help him :(

  • @centralflife891
    @centralflife891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Wow that poor poodle. I feel for dogs that are not socialized or taken out their comfort zone. I have noticed that making my dog try new things has made him so much more calm and well behaved because he isn’t afraid. I think all animals are fearful and making them do new stuff and be in new situations makes them confident and that confidence makes a good doggo ❤️

  • @mi.Dalton
    @mi.Dalton 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Retraining my gfs 6 year old schnauzer has been a long process. Poor socialization combined with having been attacked by a bigger dog. I'll definitely be using some tips!
    We've already gone from completely dog reactive on walks to being able to take most hikes and 75% of walks with no issues!

    • @teddyfrshhh
      @teddyfrshhh ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i’m in the exact same situation, 4 year old schnauzer attacked by a bigger dog when he was a puppy, then covid came around and no socialization happened, i’ve been trying to socialize him now with very calm dogs that have been all female, unfortunately they don’t play with him like that.
      I’m not sure what to do anymore. i’ve noticed him trying to nip at them, charge etc

    • @adeca5052
      @adeca5052 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      how did you begin to do so? My malamute is 1yrs old and lunging at dogs/squirrels on walks and it’s frustrating

  • @namelessnavnls8060
    @namelessnavnls8060 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I think one of the most telling things of a fearful dog, when juxtaposed to an aggressive dog, is that the fearful dog can react a bit, then repeatedly pull back and hide behind an owner or person they know. A truly aggressive dog isn't gonna do that nearly as much, if at _all._ Always watch your dog's body language to figure out whether or not they're scared and defensive, or actually angry. There is a surprisingly vast amount of things you can learn from how a dog is feeling or thinking by just watching them move.

    • @tiacuppe6681
      @tiacuppe6681 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree. Learning dog behavior & how they show their emotions is key as a dog owner

  • @ellensmith3579
    @ellensmith3579 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I adopted a 3 yo mastiff lab two days ago. great recall. great manners. knows several commands. He's curious about other dogs, he wants to go to the other dogs but will bite any dog that comes too close to him. I live in a remote area- an island off the coast of Maine, I haven't found any trainers for this type of problem. Does anyone know of exercises I can try?

  • @TARALEKTRO
    @TARALEKTRO 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m so blessed with a 3 month old puppy that’s so calm when meeting other dogs. He takes small steps during socializing. First he was scared scared, then he started getting interested in dogs, then he started to sniff every dog I let him meet. Now he checks them out, decides to sniff or not, lays on the ground and barks/communicates, if they give him a go he will play, if not, he’ll wait until we move again.

  • @AgainstEvil8
    @AgainstEvil8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    “Prince is prince, so let’s get him outta there” 😂 oh prince 👑

  • @28704joe
    @28704joe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Very well filmed, put together and narrated, thank you.

  • @marinab.2043
    @marinab.2043 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That poodle is so gorgeous! ♡

  • @DaphneGsell
    @DaphneGsell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m at 9 months with my dog and she hit a fear period. I had no clue this even existed ! This video helped me a lot.

  • @caelanness9862
    @caelanness9862 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Can you do a video solely on dog body language and what common signs mean (tail wag level, tail wag stopping, posturing, etc)? That would be a great help!

    • @romanaraucinova9953
      @romanaraucinova9953 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Joel is doing that in every video… he is explaining body language ,hair up,mouth movements etc…

    • @sneakyturtle2346
      @sneakyturtle2346 ปีที่แล้ว

      Literally just watch cesar milan. 90% of this guy’s philosophy is identical to his. Even the correction taps are identical to what cesar teaches his clients

    • @steamer2k319
      @steamer2k319 ปีที่แล้ว

      One thing that some people get wrong: tail wagging doesn't necessarily mean friendly. It means getting ready for action. In a well adjusted dog, action usually means play. But tail wagging can also mean, "I'm done messing around with you--I'm 'bout to mess you up good".

  • @jillsorbera7247
    @jillsorbera7247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I absolutely love how u say what u are/were thinking and explaining the dog body language!!!

  • @peternixon696
    @peternixon696 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I really like your vids and the honesty in them. Pointing out where you went too far. I have a reactive dog that wasn't socialised, so this is motivating me to find other dogs.

  • @danpatterson6937
    @danpatterson6937 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That is a super important session. Two of my dogs were acquired when they were older AND fearful and it is a pia to work with them to learn new habits.

  • @powerofone1645
    @powerofone1645 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Great info. With this covid disruption to dogs being able to get out and about more there unfortunately are many like this black poodle. Your work excellent and necessary hard core. Gets to the issue. Dogs are great teachers. Mieko is an angel.

  • @Brian53308
    @Brian53308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you! I have a very similar situation -- a Standard Poodle, undersocialized, 9 months old. I'm motivated to help my dog get over this, but it's so hard to find the right situation to help get started. Thanks for giving me a window into what it might look like when I can finally get my dog into a situation where he can meet other dogs, what body language is ok, what is too much.

  • @GreatDogs
    @GreatDogs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for doing this and showing the process. Very few people on TH-cam actually film the details. Keep up the good work.

  • @spencbeats4694
    @spencbeats4694 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how all of the trainers dogs are so chill and well mannered 😂 prince is so adorable, you can tell his dogs are socially mature, Great work!

  • @EES1994
    @EES1994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why are there not more trainers like you! Your videos, have helped me more in weeks than other trainers have in months!

  • @drhandle4498
    @drhandle4498 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Prince is so chill you could keep his own food fresh by tucking it under his blanket.

  • @redponygrrl
    @redponygrrl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There is no “ one fix” for such a dog and there’s no age limit to helping them. We adopted a retired show dog at three years old. We have many years experience with this breed, which can be difficult-Kerry Blue Terrier. We were his fourth home in three countries and he was very reactive to other dogs and men. We didn’t put him in reactive sit like in this video, which would have resulted in someone getting hurt. Instead, he was put into a reliable, consistent routine of walks, meals and play.

    • @jerryjimenez8248
      @jerryjimenez8248 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just simply walking your dog letting him see other dogs from a distance?

  • @andrewdarnley4608
    @andrewdarnley4608 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great approach. I've watched a number of your videos and I really like the balance of positive reinforcement and showing the dog where it sits in the hierarchy. It looked like your dog just about had enough of the poodle's behaviour. It beggars belief that people get a puppy but can't get their head around what to do next.

  • @grethen123
    @grethen123 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a beautiful dog! Hope he is better now

  • @jenniferrothschild4329
    @jenniferrothschild4329 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant narrative. So important and informative. Thank you!

  • @AA-kf7uf
    @AA-kf7uf ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My Henry, a yellow lab rescue, is now 15 yrs old. I fostered his litter of 6 at 8 wks old and kept him. I already jad 2 other labs. I took Henry to puppy kindergarden, dog parks, socialized him like I did the others who had no issues with other dogs. At 1.5 yrs old, Henry would randomly go after his housemates, for no reason that I could see. I hired 2 different trainers...nothing worked. He still is fearful of other dogs and I tried everything I could to help him get over it. I felt I could not rehome...I kept him and it was my responsibility to keep him. He is a sweetheart to me and other humans, but another dog? NO WAY! Now he is old and still cant be with other dogs...my other 2 have passed. I have to think that something with his aggression had to be genetic. When Henry leaves me from this life, if I have another dog that is fearful, I will be coming to see you.

  • @jgmgreen01
    @jgmgreen01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Poor poodle. They're supposed to be super chill and lovey duckies... Happy to see that the owners are being proactive and bettering the situation. Testing his limits and pushing his boundaries a little further with each dog. ty for all the tips and saying that a dog park setting would be a terrible place for doing this.

  • @finngamesknudson1457
    @finngamesknudson1457 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wish I’d seen this ten years ago. Now I have a ten year old with dog aggression issues. At six months he was great at the dog park, but added an insecure older dog to household. Following several uncomfortable interactions we stopped going to dog park and primary dog interaction became correction from his bigger sister. I should have continued taking him to the park without his sister, just avoiding the few aggressive dogs who show up.

  • @isaacandrewerickson
    @isaacandrewerickson 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the video. Your passion is obvious. Keep up the great work!

  • @superdatawolf4652
    @superdatawolf4652 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great video, this is the best dog training channel on youtube!

  • @ashtonsquires3102
    @ashtonsquires3102 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I miss my black standard. She lived to be 17 and was so intelligent! She never loved other dogs but was never aggressive. I'm pretty sure she was just convinced she was a human 😂

  • @chelseaneville9672
    @chelseaneville9672 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    YAAAASSSS! NEED TO HAVE THE CORRECT HELPER DOGS & SPACE TO BE ABLE TO HELP THESE DOGS! And in less than 6 months dogs like this absolutely end up becoming extremely overreactive, often fear aggressive, have no clue how to interact with other dogs (or with many dogs, don't know how to interact or exist in the world), have chronic high baseline anxiety & negative emotional state, can't be walked, owners are terrified & everyone is super stressed, frustrated, confusion all around. Plus the dog may have a bite record by then, generally not super serious or involving actual intent to injure, but a bite record is a bite record all the same. I also just love & appreciate that you don't correct dogs that are already living in an aversive emotional state & as you said, as far as they know they don't have any other option at all!
    This is a really really great video. You understand dogs have emotions and needs and natural dog behaviour & how to read them and that's not something we often see in this industry. Lots of obedience, lots of control & restraint, lots of management... not a lot of pros that understand how to work with behaviour vs training cues.

  • @georgiacahoone8043
    @georgiacahoone8043 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    OMG this is my Dashound mix, she was a rescue dog . I learned so much thank you so much for making your videos. I think my daughter's dog would be perfectly great for this exercise.

  • @vanshika7754
    @vanshika7754 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg ....I needed this video the most , my dog's exactly like this dog and also 8 months old ... please make more like this one 🙃

  • @JalenaTheSuperMutt
    @JalenaTheSuperMutt 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So here's a tip. Dogs don't need other dogs to be friends. They have you. It's good to see dogs get along but it isn't a necessity.

  • @danielalcala5782
    @danielalcala5782 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a rottweiler Siberian husky mix. He is such a great dog. We have been working with him. He snaps at some people even after they pet him and he is all happy. we got him right before covid so he didn't get too much exposure. now I'm scared to take him around. but he is great with my 3-year-old. I mean he is amazing. thanks for all the free advice.

  • @greenman277
    @greenman277 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you do some solid training work and really understand the dogs I like it

  • @hectorEK9
    @hectorEK9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow this is a really great video that so many need to watch, this dog really has issues…I hope he gets better later.

  • @jessicajacobs1500
    @jessicajacobs1500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love seeing all the different kinds of dogs run around together. I used to show Lhasa Apso, with my Mom as a kid, and we had a gorgeous blonde stud that would bark like crazy because he spent a lot of his puppy life in a kennel. But watching Prince prance around reminds me of him. Just less hair.😁🤣 He was a champion and I loved seeing him get to the point where his hair floated just a little longer than the ground. As an adult I chose a weim. No hair. 🤣

  • @Vimsern1
    @Vimsern1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Any part 2 to this video? Super interesting to see how he is progressing

  • @DieselCat13
    @DieselCat13 ปีที่แล้ว

    Our 2 dogs are now about a 1.5 yrs old and very under socialized. One being a Akita/border collie cross and the other being a great pyrenese/red heeler cross, they are both big dogs. They are well behaved at home and excellent with our children. However one is good with people and reactive with other dogs and the other is good with dogs but seems quite reactive with people... alot of good pointers in this video that I am going to try implementing starting today. Really helps lower my frustration and up my understanding of what they may be feeling at certain moments when i would normally be pulling my own hair out. Thank you for this.

  • @van.pec.
    @van.pec. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Gorgeous poodle

  • @brentshirley477
    @brentshirley477 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This support my theory that the "actual" Dog Whisperer with Milan...was Daddy. Daddy was a non reactive steady Eddie AmStaff who radiated calm energy with the most out of control dogs. The few times he reacted were sorely needed and the dog clients were snapped out of their frenzy. Once Daddy passed, his show ended. It has never been the same.

  • @roseault6335
    @roseault6335 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good video and well done!!!!! By tge way those dogs are beautiful but I especially love Prince xx

  • @baileyarivor693
    @baileyarivor693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have the most helpful videos

  • @kristinakay9558
    @kristinakay9558 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Such a pretty dog 🥰 I feel
    So bad for undersocialized pups. They’re so scared and defensive and never really live a dogs life u know..

  • @frankteng
    @frankteng 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love that it’s always us with terrifying working dogs that are trained well, my GSD has been trained and tempered to be perfect for socializing, not dangerous to other dogs.

  • @Maiden_to_mother
    @Maiden_to_mother 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My dog is 4 and extremely unsocialized. She wants to be with other dogs but then when she is, she doesn’t know what to do. A dog will try to play with her and she takes that as an aggressive move and she’ll get aggressive herself. Still she cries and cries whenever she sees another dog, she wants to be with other dogs and it breaks my heart that I didn’t socialize her like I should have. Probably because I don’t socialize much myself, it’s always just been me and her. Sometimes I look at her and can tell she’s sad. It really breaks my heart. I’m at a loss, I don’t know who to turn to and meeting people with dogs who are willing to spend time with us is hard.

  • @Averyverse
    @Averyverse 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I watch your videos in prep for get my dog looking want to be super prepared

  • @TheSchokobony
    @TheSchokobony 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh man hahaha prince always has to meet the crazy dogs: " ahhh here we go again..."🤣

  • @baylee27
    @baylee27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Do you have a video showing how to socialize an older dog that has the issues that Theo has but just never got them addressed?

    • @missdaolovely
      @missdaolovely 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I second this.

    • @kidjetrecon7153
      @kidjetrecon7153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your talking a lot of work, I would find an older dog to socialize with. Younger dog will be way too pushy.

    • @missdaolovely
      @missdaolovely 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kidjetrecon7153 thank you.

    • @suedobosz9016
      @suedobosz9016 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes my French Bull dog wasn't really socialized. He will be 3 in Dec. He was given to me in Sept 2021.

  • @leilahertz5467
    @leilahertz5467 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for these videos! So incredibly helpful. Can you explain what your next steps would be for a dog like this? Is it just repeating these sorts of sessions until they get over it?

  • @astridho2906
    @astridho2906 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im NOT a big fan of your training method in general, but THIS video and explications is just GREAT!

  • @m8trxd
    @m8trxd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a Dobie/GSD/Rott mix and she is an EXCELLENT ambassador for unsocialized dogs. They can be as hostile as they want.... but damn sure they'll think twice before trying to bite her! My girl will just de-escalate the situation but she's such an alpha that no one tries to pick on her. And she's sooooo gentle with small dogs, and disabled dogs... and grumpy old dogs!!

  • @tyw6225
    @tyw6225 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Favorite channel right now

  • @matrixpredator
    @matrixpredator 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    9:30 how prince carefully analysed the situation, even looked to the other dogs owner, before try to intervene. He is so smart 🐶

  • @bluegeese2781
    @bluegeese2781 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great vid, thanks.

  • @jonathanschmidt990
    @jonathanschmidt990 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video again

  • @OnlyTrustTheGovernment
    @OnlyTrustTheGovernment ปีที่แล้ว

    My dog cowars in fear when she sees other dogs

  • @jennifermcfadden8713
    @jennifermcfadden8713 ปีที่แล้ว

    That is exactly what bindi does when timber comes close she bares her teeth and charges

  • @melissarobbins1017
    @melissarobbins1017 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I say my dog is a Covid dog for this exact reason. Took her to a preschool event and it went terribly. She needs socialization so badly. Thanks for the video

  • @alexsilverprogram
    @alexsilverprogram 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you mentioned in the video, "9 months is the hardest time to own a dog". For all the puppy owners, can you elaborate why it's the hardest and what people can do?

  • @randybetancourt6368
    @randybetancourt6368 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this! I'm kinda in the same situation right now but my dog is older than that and I have no friends with dogs unfortunately

  • @wbhedrick
    @wbhedrick 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have a 4 month and 2 week old german shepherd pup. She IS even a bit worse than this. I cannot find a dog or dogs to be around. Charly had a melt down yesterday and ran to a fence wall trying to get away. Charly was in quarantine because of serious health issues from such neglect. She's in our hands and she is mended and is doing great health wise but she hasn't been socialized at all. I always hope to meet other dogs.

  • @chelsea2711
    @chelsea2711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I took my puppy too soon to a dog park and it was a disaster. I didn't know what to do or really even what I was walking into. It was a mistake and I wish I hadn't. I literally know no one with a decent dog to help me get him better socialization. He's an extremely hyper dog, which makes a lot of dogs like react negatively towards him. Idk I have finally given up and called a guy that runs a training business like Joel. I'm more confident training him from watching these videos, however I am not confident I can properly socialize him and I don't want to cause anymore harm. He's still young I don't want him to become aggressive 😫

    • @christie8273
      @christie8273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      A lot of trainers actually don't recommend taking dogs to dog parks at all! There are too many untrained dogs who are not under control by their (often clueless) owners. Unfortunately, this can result in dog fights and cause them to fear other dogs. It also can teach your dog to pull towards and bark at other dogs when on leash because they learn that other dogs= play time. Instead, you can have small play dates with dogs that you know and owners that understand dog body language and have taught appropriate play for their dog. Also, learn about body language and step in when your dog is being too pushy. Do this by making sure you can call your dog off of play and do some obedience training during play time so that they don't get too crazy. Also, going to a large space where you are far from other dogs (on leash) and ensuing that you can get your dog's attention and practice basic obedience or play with them in the presence of other dogs is another great way to socialize! Shows them that other dogs are good but they don't need to pull towards them. Also it teaches them to stay focused on you and listen to you even in the presence of other dogs. Once you achieve this and get consistent recall and obedience around other dogs, you COULD try slowly introducing the dog park again. Make sure you are your dog's focus outside of the park before going in. Do so at your own risk though because no matter how trained your dog is, others may not be.

    • @chelsea2711
      @chelsea2711 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@christie8273 girl I will NEVER do that to my dog again lol big mistake on my part. I obviously want him to be socialized so his behavior is good, but even when I have him thoroughly trained and I trust him, I'll still never take him back. It was ridiculous!

    • @lillieberger2883
      @lillieberger2883 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just say no to dog parks!

  • @michaelquillen2679
    @michaelquillen2679 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your dogs are fantastic! My big guy (Rotty/Chow-Chow mix) would love them! My smaller guy (Aussie/Lab mix) would do OK with them as well.

  • @broombulge
    @broombulge 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is so comforting to hear that 8-9 months is a tough age. My rescue has become super reactive over the last month to dogs and people. He was socialized quite a bit when he was with the rescue but I don't have any friends that have a dog so I'm limited to walking around the outside of the dog park. I've been working a lot on your loose leash method and I'm just hoping that helps.

  • @fyrb3an120
    @fyrb3an120 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My 2 year old dobie is scared of people and dogs her hackles will raise while walking but she was raised around under dogs at the pet hotel I worked at

  • @shaunkellister6597
    @shaunkellister6597 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Prince is different. Gives the Mike Tyson vibes. That dog has no fear and has a will power of if u wanna fight I will win. The star of the show is prince….that dog is a GOAT 😂😂😂😂

  • @josuneh4365
    @josuneh4365 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So did the dog continue having sessions until it was comfortable?

  • @joey8701
    @joey8701 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've had dog trainers that come to my house or I go to the training facility that will bring one of their dogs that is non-reactive and good with other dogs to introduce my dog to. Of course it costs money and kind of expensive to have a dog trainer but that was my only solution to do it in a safe environment.

  • @sararoche2681
    @sararoche2681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello from Spain! I have a year and a half English cocker spaniel (golden) and this happened to him. We took him to a couple trainers when he was 7 months and saw his behaviour, and nothing… and now he is aggressive as you said. We don’t know what to do any more because he barks and bites like crazy when a dog gets too close and none of the places we took him to was any help

  • @chadminor2360
    @chadminor2360 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    We have a two year old bulldog mix. He has only been around our eight year old pit mix female. I just tried to rescue a two year old pit mix female and he wouldn’t have it. We did everything we could do, neutral territory introduction, walks, no toys or food around to be territorial over, and he just wouldn’t accept her. Your video just explained why. At 1 1/2 old the door slammed shut on socializing him, and now he’s aggressive.

  • @myrusEW
    @myrusEW 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My new stray is under socialized. I’ve had her for about 3 months. I’ve been getting her to listen to commands with and without leash, making sure she’s safe with kids/delivery people. I’m starting to take her out and I want to take her to a dog park, but whenever she’s in a big new environment(dog park), she gets super scared and just tries to sit on my toes.
    Idk where to find other dogs because I’m really shy irl

  • @AimiliosR21
    @AimiliosR21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great videos. Can you please post a video about resource guarding? It would be really helpful

  • @gaylefynaut562
    @gaylefynaut562 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a small standard poodle and she is just like that poodle. She is three now and not well socialized. I took her to the dog park once after Covid restrictions were lifted. She wanted to meet other dogs, but was scared to death. She actually ran off to greet other dogs, but came running back in a hurry. Some dogs were just to aggressive. We got her to keep our old lab company after our other lab passed away. He was good and with her. He passed away last year in September. We decided to get another lab. He is seven months now and she dominates him. They get along good, but outside she will chase him down and Roll him on the ground. He eggs it on sometimes. They seem to be playing but I see his fur go up as he is running by. I really don’t want them to play that ruff. Q, my lab is getting bigger and definitely out weighs her now. I know one day Q will turn and pummel her. Plus I’m worried Q will think it’s normal to be chased and thrown to the ground and will do the same to other dogs. Now when I see them getting out of control, I put them back in the house. How can I stop her behavior. I know she probably is insecure. She does act like a bully. What can I do?

  • @backkat9475
    @backkat9475 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My 9month old ACD goes to doggy daycare 1-2 days a week. Is that a good way to socialize if he hasn't had any issues so far? He is a bit reactive to strange dogs on our walks.

  • @frenzyviz6296
    @frenzyviz6296 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish there was someone like you Joel here in the uk, but I think I wouldn’t be able to afford them anyway. No, I don’t have problems like on this video, but your methods look great.

  • @trinapenno6554
    @trinapenno6554 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have a 4 year old large cavalier king Charles who didn't get properly socialized apparently. He used to act afraid when barking at other dogs,but now like you say he's aggressive and goes towards them.how should I help him ? He has made dog friends this summer,but still goes crazy with new ones he sees.

  • @lisairene804
    @lisairene804 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have a black standard poodle that looks just like Theo but she’s a girl. She’s a year old. She’s not aggressive but boy is she reactive. When she sees another dog while on a leash she cries, screeches and barks and lunges wanting to play with them. If I let her off the leash she will jump on them and try to play with them until no end to the point that the dogs are trying to get away from her. How tf do I get her to stop. 😭😭😭 and also if a dog doesn’t like her, she kinda likes to egg them on by invading their space. Lol. But other then that she is such a darling.

    • @w1zzy
      @w1zzy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have a red standard poodle that just turned 5 months old and he’s terrified of strangers. He barks at them and then tries to run away and sometimes even has accidents. He’s been going to a dog daycare during the week and the employees there said at first he was really hesitant but as time went on, he loved playing with the other dogs and meeting new dogs. So hopefully, he stops being afraid of new people and dogs soon. Fingers crossed!
      Edit: On walks, my dog is either super reactive towards people or he’s hesitant around them. He saw a guy walking his black labrador and pushing his baby around on a stroller and my dog wanted to run up and bark at them while pulling on the leash. Later, he saw a mailman come out of the mail truck and he tucked his tail in and tried to run away lol.

  • @WidgetWagyu47292
    @WidgetWagyu47292 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey do you do you happen to make update videos on their progress? I would love to see how this dog acts in 3 months time. Animal behavior is so interesting to me.

  • @michellegoodman5109
    @michellegoodman5109 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Both the exercises and the games are very practical so dog owners may use them throughout the day to have a well-trained dog. There are training nuggets throughout, both in the step-by-step instructions th-cam.com/users/postUgkxfKlzfzw0sMZ_RgZNzMeOPu6d4b5i5XWl and the troubleshooting sections that will help enrich the lives of both dogs and their owners!

  • @theallenshire268
    @theallenshire268 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How many dogs do you need to socialize a 5 year old Mal/Dutchy rescue.
    Riley (who I haven’t met yet, he is coming next week) seems from videos to be a happy sweet active dog. Scared of the hissing cat, curious about horses.
    I have 1 GSD cross senior female and several neighbors total have a miniature poodle, a samoyed, another GSD cross and a chihuahua. I have a friend with another chihuahua and a rottweiler who could probably come to play. Will that be enough? Do they all need to come the same day? How often should they play together?

  • @margobrannan1966
    @margobrannan1966 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love, Love your videos - I haven't watched all of them yet BUT my question is - My almost 2 year old large German Shepherd is really aggressive to dogs that walk by our (his) fenced in property - When on a walk at our neighborhood park he's curious of the other dogs BUT doesn't go crazy like he does in his yard - Is this a normal protective reaction (my neighbor said it is) Is or not I don't like it. My other question is - Is it good to take him to meet the neighborhood dogs or could this make him bark more - Do you have a video to help me with this.

  • @Shivani-Spectrum
    @Shivani-Spectrum 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have one Shih Tzu named Coco, who is very friendly, and a rescued stray named Cola, who is undersocialized. We have kept them together, but Cola (the stray) is only associated with me and my other dog, Coco (Shih Tzu). I don't know why Cola's behavior is very unusual. I have kept her in daycare with other dogs for a few days due to my travel, and she was okay, interacting with the dogs. I take them for a daily walk where she remains calm but scared. She is choosy in making friends with other dogs, especially with another stray who my cola tries to bully her by biting her. Its really overwhelming for me as I have to kept on monitoring cola all the time.
    Additionally, my house helper has been coming to our house for a year now, but Cola still growls and barks at her. Even when friends visit our house, Cola reacts in an aggressive manner, despite them coming frequently. I'm unsure if this is bad behavior or antisocial behavior.
    Currently at my mother's home with both of my pets, Coco (Shih Tzu) is calm and friendly, quickly mingling with everyone. However, Cola (the rescued stray) is still growling and barking aggressively at them. It's been three days, and she hasn't changed. If my sister tries to approach her with love and affection, Cola jumps in an aggressive manner. I am concerned about her behavior. Both pets bought to our house at the same time in the span of 3-4 months, I adopted coco and another cola was rescued from streets( she was very tiny) .. Both interacted in the same manner with other indivuals and dogs..however One is calm and super chill and other is very agressive scared and growling all the time. Get anxious on little noise... 😒

  • @the_radiant_patriot
    @the_radiant_patriot 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My Winnie, she will be 2 in October, and this is exactly what happened. She was supposed to become my service dog. Unfortunately, we had a horrible trainer from Pets mart for just early basic training, but the trainer brought her dogs and didn't keep them in check. They were huge compared to Winnie (she was between 4&5 months old), and then covid happened. I've done my best to train her on my own, but there was a reason why we had training set up! She is very under socialized, and I've asked so many people who claim their dogs are "perfect" but never could help me out. And I may have to get a new puppy, if she cannot be trained properly,BTW she's a sheepadoodle.

  • @tittiesferdays
    @tittiesferdays 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome vid

  • @larissadueck2643
    @larissadueck2643 ปีที่แล้ว

    Also...my poodle hates doodles. Lol

  • @Disneydreamgirl33
    @Disneydreamgirl33 ปีที่แล้ว

    THIS IS MY DOG
    reactionary yet curious, alot of intense barking, but when they turn away shes curious again, so mix of fear and curious

  • @norsk513
    @norsk513 ปีที่แล้ว

    My dog is 8 years old with this problem. Is there any hope for him? He’s such a great dog with adults and children but turns into Cujo around other dogs. I walk him every day at forest preserves and pray that we don’t meet any other dogs. It’s very stressful. I love this dog so much and wish I could calm his fear somehow.

  • @elmafudd9703
    @elmafudd9703 ปีที่แล้ว

    My dog is the opposite every dog needs to be played with even if its aggressive its great fun. He is perfect in every area until he sees a dog to play with and he is off. He actively looks for dogs in the distance. Put him on a lead and he walks to heal to perfection. Put him on a long 40 feet lead he stays within 12 inch of your leg and will not go. But take him off the lead and he hist 30 miles an hour. But only to play with other dogs. I can false click it he just stays. He will come back for food. He will return at a whistle, a hand clap etc. HE will turn when chasing squirrel and come straight back but other bloody dogs. He has a bright orange jacket so I can see him at 500m just legging it. Lets hope he just grows out of it as he is 10 month old. (Male Airedale)

  • @bubbag8895
    @bubbag8895 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good video thanks

  • @melusine826
    @melusine826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Going to be a lot of dogs like this after covid

  • @kayviolet9168
    @kayviolet9168 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My dog was undersocialized, but idk in a different way? She was a small dog, 12ish lbs, and she’d cower behind us and/or run away, only barking at them and not running if she was safe with a fence/railing/window between her and them. She could get used to some dogs if necessary, like if we needed a dogsitter for more than a couple days and the dogsitter had (an)other dog(s), but then next time, even with the same dogs, it would be straight back to cowering. Back when she was younger and we took her to obedience classes that had a bunch of other dogs, she mostly sat right under our chair, and the other dogs didn’t really come over much, other than a tiny, like MAYbe 4lbs pup who she cowered from even though she was like 3x as big as him. The only time she ever really growled would be once in a while when she had a REALLY good treat she thought we were trying to take, or if she was playfighting. She was such a good dog. Loved people so much, even if it took her a bit with other dogs.