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  • @andreavozzi8819
    @andreavozzi8819 4 ปีที่แล้ว +807

    I just lost my mom 6 days ago. I’m 23 and she was my everything.

    • @everythingroxy3582
      @everythingroxy3582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Awww babe...
      You will Get through...
      So hard to Believe... I know
      Lost my brother and best friend 5 years in January...
      So painful and devastating.
      Still hurts.
      Please talk about it with very close loved ones and friends.
      Don’t hide the pain
      Or keep it bottled up
      Grieve at your own pace.
      And lastly... Be kind and patient with yourself.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🦋🦋🦋😢😢😢

    • @sheilascanlon4928
      @sheilascanlon4928 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Lost my ma too
      and that's what I say and feel
      So hard and sadder than anything
      Having the greatest of moms just makes it so much harder like half of me is dead too.

    • @kralrchrd
      @kralrchrd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The Midnight Drop prayer line conference call is ON now! Call 1605-462-5300 Acess 535199# Please remember to mute your phone to eliminate background noises... Thank you! It's On NOW 11PM Eastern time 10PM Central time zone Every single Night there is a different speaker on to encourage you, to pray for you, to give you what says the Lord!!! You don't want to miss out... God bless!!! .

    • @ilovejcolee
      @ilovejcolee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      So sorry to hear about your loss

    • @marthadanielle
      @marthadanielle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      im also 26 and i just lost my mom on the 28th of August. im so sorry for your loss and the pain you are going through. stay strong bc im sure she would want you to continue onwards doing your best.

  • @thetravelinsagittarian1316
    @thetravelinsagittarian1316 5 ปีที่แล้ว +809

    Thank you. Just lost my Mom, and had to go to discuss funeral arrangements today. Anger, Guilt and Brain Fog issues keep popping up. I miss my best friend. I'm her only child. This is rough.

    • @pearlgurl106
      @pearlgurl106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      SagittariusBoomBamPOW SheDidThat aww 😫🥺 sooo sorry 😐 for your loss, I definitely can relate, lost my mom last year. She was my best friend, the hurt is palpable. I know it’ll take time, just take care if yourself and be patient with yourself, practice lots of self care. This will ease the symptoms and give you better mental health overall.

    • @thetravelinsagittarian1316
      @thetravelinsagittarian1316 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@pearlgurl106
      Thank you so much ❤️ 💕💕

    • @thetravelinsagittarian1316
      @thetravelinsagittarian1316 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@pearlgurl106 I'm so sorry for your loss too! You only get one Mom, so I speak a positive/ loving/happy future for you on your journey 💖💖💖💖💖

    • @pearlgurl106
      @pearlgurl106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      SagittariusBoomBamPOW SheDidThat thanks sweetie! I appreciate your encouragement and kind wishes! 😉😘🥰

    • @iamangela171
      @iamangela171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I completely understand, 1/3/20 makes 2 yrs that my Mother passed! The 2nd year is so much harder for me, I will be ok one minute and the next grieving her! The 1st. Year was easier but allow yourself to grieve, Don't feel you have to be strong. This was your Mom!!! I remember last year, I had gone out and on the way home I stopped at a bus stop and cried so hard! 😥💔 I felt I lost my best friend.. but God gave me a revelation! I lost my best earthly friend but God is my best friend! He said when my mother & father forsake me then the Lord will take me up! You are not alone God is by your side. He said he would*NEVER* leave or forsake us! He also said in this world we will have trouble, but be of good cheer because he has overcome the World! I will be praying for everyone in the comment section. You're not alone! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @jessicaewald390
    @jessicaewald390 2 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    I'm sorry to all those who have lost someone. I just lost my mom, and my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

    • @louisecrowle4729
      @louisecrowle4729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sorry for your loss Jessica. Thoughts and prayers to you. I lost my Mum just over 2 months ago. I miss her so much.

    • @user-bk7gi4kh8n
      @user-bk7gi4kh8n ปีที่แล้ว

      same I lost my only child 3 months ago

    • @susaninsocal550
      @susaninsocal550 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so sorry for your loss.

    • @Rude_Boi
      @Rude_Boi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sorry for your loss

  • @5MinutePsychology
    @5MinutePsychology 3 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    I once read that grief is like love with nowhere to go.
    I guess this is why it hurts so much. And maybe this is why it takes so much time to go through the grieving process.
    Sometime ago a person asked me how long I was going to grieve after losing a loved one. And now so many years after that the only answer that comes to my mind is that I will grieve for as long as the person I loved will remain dead.

    • @tabithae3679
      @tabithae3679 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      It took me a whole year (to the exact day we met) to feel some kind of "normal" again. But the sadness still lingers to some degree and I think it always will. You can never replace a person.

    • @netabolt6546
      @netabolt6546 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I lost both my grandmothers in 2011 and already lost grandpa from collon cancer in 2005.now last year 2023 in October i lost One of my many Aunts due to lung cancer but i feared to hear or see her vomit with the chemo or see her in pain and also had no time to visit her and the goodbye was never settled. I do however still miss my grandparents as well but that grieve is long gone but 1 of november is always Remembering them and i watch Coco in love for my grandparents every 1st of November. I think its better to battle this grieve as soon as possible but yeah grieving is also love strange right ?!

    • @jackiechan27
      @jackiechan27 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow!!! Thank you for this comment even though I’m balling my eyes out right now!! That first line 😭😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

  • @bally4450
    @bally4450 4 ปีที่แล้ว +487

    my dog died today he may not have been a human but as an only child he was my brother RIP Buffy you will be missed

    • @aidan-131
      @aidan-131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      lol f

    • @hunter-ws8sx
      @hunter-ws8sx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@aidan-131delete this man, bally rest in peace

    • @anonimoyatusae3216
      @anonimoyatusae3216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Bally I recently went through the same thing. My dog brought so much peace and happiness to my family and he wasn’t even a year old. He ate some poison and died. I am very sorry for your loss.

    • @aidan-131
      @aidan-131 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      zyxsu Loll

    • @GunsNRainbows
      @GunsNRainbows 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Im so sorry for your loss... I came to this video for the exact same reason. RIP Jeff... not a day goes by where I don’t think of you

  • @clairemccallumgibney
    @clairemccallumgibney 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I lost my Mum in October 2023, I am having flashbacks to her time spent in a hospice. I feel like part of my heart and soul is missing. I am very anxious about the future and feel insecure without my Mum 😢

  • @nliyanage3570
    @nliyanage3570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    My wife, the most gorgeous human being i have ever met in my life, passed away in the morning hours of 12th April 2020. It was so shocking and unexpected. Its been four weeks and I'm still trying to recover from trauma. She was 35. She left me with two beautiful angels, our daughters (5 and 1) who give me the reason to move forward. She was such a pure, kind and loving person, but the universal powers were so cruel to take her away from us so unfairly.
    I truly love her so much. If not for my daughters I would've joined her by now. I'm sooo broken and I can't (and will not be able to) make up my mind fully, but I know I have to move forward for the sake of our daughters. I love you Rajee and I miss you so much. Please stay where ever you are, in peace, I will raise our daughters to become who you wanted them to be and join you when they are ready to let me go.

    • @cskiles318
      @cskiles318 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      1 month ago 😢 I hope your coping some. My adult son passed of addiction 6/6/20 it’s 1 am I’m searching greif. He was living in. Out home after bad marital break up. My husband and I both in counseling. The pain is still shocking non stop. Grief seems to be a severe illness no medicine for it. Just have to keep pushing. So sorry for your loss.

    • @aaliyahkassim9142
      @aaliyahkassim9142 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It must be so hard. I'm currently grieving with young kids at home. Sending you so much love and Energy 💞💫

    • @kralrchrd
      @kralrchrd 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Midnight Drop prayer line conference call is ON now! Call 1605-462-5300 Acess 535199# Please remember to mute your phone to eliminate background noises... Thank you! It's On NOW 11PM Eastern time 10PM Central time zone Every single Night there is a different speaker on to encourage you, to pray for you, to give you what says the Lord!!! You don't want to miss out... God bless!!! .

    • @sairaferguson8737
      @sairaferguson8737 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sending love 💓

    • @yohannarosquete1100
      @yohannarosquete1100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I feel u. I lost my 3 month old son last month. I havent been the same and i don't think ill ever be

  • @sonyahardin1345
    @sonyahardin1345 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I lost my mom my best friend my protector february 13 2023 Im 55 she was 74 im hurt lost and numb Pray for me please I have nobody but God.

    • @jobecarol6812
      @jobecarol6812 ปีที่แล้ว

      I 🙏 for you, please 🙏 for me. 💕

  • @MT-tx7bu
    @MT-tx7bu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    Grief is tough. I've lost many people in my life (Mom, Dad and brother). There is no moving on from loss, but there is moving in a direction of moving with it. I still cry. I still miss them. I still wish they were back in my life, but I move through it during the day. Be honest with your feelings. Don't try to put on a brave face. Talk about it with someone who understands. I have a little support group who has also lost someone they loved. Try doing that. It does help.

    • @tessc.1126
      @tessc.1126 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Why is it that everyone tells me to move on with my life (it sorta sounds like they want me to just forget the bad memory). And these people were actrually closely related to my loved one 😂. Why am I the only one who's truly grieving hard?. Yes, I can't move on. It changed me. I can live with it, sure. But can I just suddenly live as if it doesn't affect me anymore? No lol, that would be lying to myself. I can't control my feelings. Yes maybe some have that (amazing but almost cold ) ability to just foget, move on and get on with thier "life"... but I can't. And I'm fine with that honest lol. Here's to those who lost a mom, Jesus bless you💕

    • @kylerphillips2873
      @kylerphillips2873 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for the advice. Sorry for your loss Mary. I hope you are feeling better today.

    • @BelleDeJour224
      @BelleDeJour224 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’ve lost all three as you have and now my grandmother is dying

    • @cskiles318
      @cskiles318 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nurul nurul I came to youtube for help. I feel counseling use to be easy to get to, but now not so much. We do get counseling over the phone. Ask you dr. Feel better soon. Just keep moving 🙏

    • @monvalleytruth5111
      @monvalleytruth5111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I am having this issue now I just lost my brother my pap an my gram with 2 years of each other an I am having horrible time I’m trying to stay strong for my parents an my other brother I have always been the one to stay strong for everyone but I have noticed it’s been taking a toll on me an I don’t know what to do it’s been tearing me down as well as I don’t have my own time to greave for my self but I feel like I’m selfish if I do so ☹️

  • @notrogue3652
    @notrogue3652 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I lost my dad earlier this year so suddenly, it's been so difficult especially at night when I'm left with memories of him. It's really hard but I have hope that each waking day will heal it.

    • @metoo9360
      @metoo9360 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss. Grief is a difficult journey to navigate. Hold onto your hope that you can move through it in whatever way that helps you cope. Keep watching these videos and reach out for help to friends, family, neighbors, and maybe a grief support group or therapist. Even a pet can bring some comfort when we are going through something so painful.
      I lost my dad almost 50 years ago when I was eleven. Even to this day, it is still hard sometimes because we were very close and he felt like the best friend I ever had. I still miss him so much, but have come to accept it more over the years. Sometimes I will have a dream about him. At first they were a little upsetting when I would wake up and realize it was just a dream, and he really wasn't "back". But now I just wake up and after realizing it was just a dream, I find comfort in remembering how much he loved me.
      May you eventually find peace on your path ahead.

    • @mjs499
      @mjs499 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      May god give you strength and never stop praying. Listening to praise songs and surrender to god. I can feel your pain as I lost my dad last year. So much pain inside😢

    • @notrogue3652
      @notrogue3652 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@metoo9360 Hello, I just wanted to say thanks a lot for sharing your story and replying so kindly

    • @notrogue3652
      @notrogue3652 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@mjs499 I'm sorry to hear your loss. Thank you for sharing your advice, my friends did send me worship songs when he passed away, it helped a lot :)) I'll continue listening to them when i have free time. thanks again !! God bless you.

  • @shapaller8756
    @shapaller8756 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    You don't move on from the lost of a love one you move forward with it. I lost my parents and my one and only child grief is my constant companion and I know I have to live with it for the rest of my life💙💔

    • @kralrchrd
      @kralrchrd 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Midnight Drop prayer line conference call is ON now! Call 1605-462-5300 Acess 535199# Please remember to mute your phone to eliminate background noises... Thank you! It's On NOW 11PM Eastern time 10PM Central time zone Every single Night there is a different speaker on to encourage you, to pray for you, to give you what says the Lord!!! You don't want to miss out... God bless!!! .

    • @Fluffimuff
      @Fluffimuff 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I'm so very sorry. I lost my 33-year-old son. Tomorrow is his funeral. God bless you.

    • @shapaller8756
      @shapaller8756 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Fluffimuff I'm sorry to hear that too💔 my heart is breaking with you. No one can fill the hole that our child left in our hearts. No amount of words can comfort our forever grieving hearts. godbless

    • @brendadrumm9708
      @brendadrumm9708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Spot on God bless x

    • @jacquelinestewart3820
      @jacquelinestewart3820 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so sorry for your pain and suffering don’t know how you do it 💔💔❤️🙏🙏🙏

  • @Annakaraev
    @Annakaraev 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    i lost my mom at 22. she was only 46. mom. i miss you so so much. i wish i didnt spend all my time in my bedroom. i wish i showed my appreciation towards you more i love you so much

  • @backonbring
    @backonbring 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Just lost my mom to cancer. She fought it for 6 years. Im heartbroken..
    Grief is the receipt for true love.

  • @skittle4life
    @skittle4life 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Today, I received a call from my dad’s caretaker that he’s been admitted to the hospital.. Turns out his blood is infected and his kidneys have collapsed. He’s had undergo open heart surgery about 6 years ago due to clogged arteries. My brother passed away 2 years ago.. I’m only 21.. I pray that my dad heals and that may he pass away, my brother always watches over him.

    • @bourne8636
      @bourne8636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Plz tell me he's ok

    • @lol-v3q7r
      @lol-v3q7r หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hello?

  • @khopkins104
    @khopkins104 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    I lost my mother a week ago and my dad in 05. This heartbreak I am experiencing is like no other.💔

    • @DaFishChronicles
      @DaFishChronicles 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I am going through the same thing. It’s not easy.

    • @sdutango
      @sdutango 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Sorry for your lost.. I just lost my brother... My parents hurt more for sure... It's so hard

    • @clairemccallumgibney
      @clairemccallumgibney 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Sorry for your loss

    • @ac-nb4pn
      @ac-nb4pn 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I lost my father in 2012 and my mother in October. I am still having a hard time too 💔

    • @veroniquefaison
      @veroniquefaison 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I just lost my mother on 16 January 2024. This is so intense.

  • @hipyoungmomof1
    @hipyoungmomof1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    no matter what happends if your love one dies or something reamber one day you guys will come back to each other

    • @deborahsiahaan9261
      @deborahsiahaan9261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I hope so.. just wanna see them one more time...

    • @sky_rae7062
      @sky_rae7062 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for the reminder 🙏

    • @webguy943
      @webguy943 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If theres an afterlife.

    • @maihoang8567
      @maihoang8567 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@deborahsiahaan9261
      Same

    • @lol-v3q7r
      @lol-v3q7r หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't believe that way.

  • @lavianahampton4641
    @lavianahampton4641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Grief is indescribable. You learn to live with it

    • @stopchildabuse7932
      @stopchildabuse7932 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don’t think I will survive it I am not that strong

  • @caliwalks
    @caliwalks 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    The video is 4 years old and I just found it. Just lost my dad last month. I get help from my therapist but I also look for other resources such as TH-cam videos to deal with my grief. I’m seeing that I’m not alone and most of the people here have lost a loved one. Thank you for this video and the comments are somehow helping me with my sadness and loneliness. God bless us all.

    • @Aubrey2004-j4k
      @Aubrey2004-j4k 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah its helping me too

    • @Grace-cj5qw
      @Grace-cj5qw 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my husband 2 months ago.

    • @Simsane
      @Simsane 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Grace-cj5qw I am so sorry for your loss. I just lost my husband 4 days ago and I cannot believe how bad it hurts. He went into the hospital with pneumonia and I thought they would make him better and he would be back home soon. 😔. Three antibiotics couldn't kick it and I lost him. Our 40th anniversary is next month on February 17th.
      I empathize with you completely and am sending you a hug. Again, I am so sorry you are feeling this loss too.😭

  • @markfares2579
    @markfares2579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    5 years later and it still hurts

    • @LABL05
      @LABL05 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hope you're doing well ❤

    • @zzlqo
      @zzlqo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stay strong! We are all here because it still hurts and forever will.. pray for them always that they are in a better place and in peace.. may peace be upon you brother

  • @aryromero8511
    @aryromero8511 4 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    I lost my mom march 1st and it still feels so unreal to me I will miss her so much she was just 41 and I just turned 18 I have 2 little brothers 8 and 5😞😞

    • @Aestheticallyalgerian
      @Aestheticallyalgerian 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I lost my father april 5th and he left me with my mom and other 5 siblings i am as well 18 yo and the oldest as well . we r in this together it's hard but we'll be okay sister

    • @tiffanygivens8913
      @tiffanygivens8913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      My mom just passed away yesterday. I just turned 18 as well. She was 51. I hurt for you and me together.

    • @Aestheticallyalgerian
      @Aestheticallyalgerian 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@tiffanygivens8913 everything is going to be okay darling she is in a better place 💜 take good care of yourself

    • @thefattyfatty1
      @thefattyfatty1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      My mum passed away May 1st at 56 from cancer. Its truly a horrible thing but remember there are so many others who are feeling the exact same way you are.

    • @andreamendoza7388
      @andreamendoza7388 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@thefattyfatty1 this is so comforting to know that there are people who feel the same, my mom passed away 2 years ago also at 56 from cancer and I was 18, I am still grieving for her even if somedays feel better

  • @S_J_banana
    @S_J_banana 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I’m still grieving 6 years later 💔😭

    • @TheLadyBass
      @TheLadyBass หลายเดือนก่อน

      There is no time limit on grief. You will grieve for as long as you live. We learn to eventually cope with it in different ways. Sending you love.♥️🫂

  • @iemerald7781
    @iemerald7781 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Lost my dad back in July, I'm 28 now. It's just difficult to cope with the fact that the man that raised me from birth got taken away. I miss his voice so much, I'm very sorry for all the losses that are mentioned here, it's so heart breaking but we have to move forward, not much we can do besides accept it. My prayers go out to all of you 🙏

    • @kakarot4243
      @kakarot4243 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I know the feeling it hurts soo much it feels like as if someone stabbed you to the heart I lost my dad in May 2019 by a stupid brain aneurysm it happened unexpectedly and it hurts I miss hearing his voice to it’s the hardest thing ever

    • @iemerald7781
      @iemerald7781 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kakarot4243 I'm so sorry about your dad, aneurysms are very unexpected and any of us can experience that at anytime which is the scary part. I know your pain though, the most difficult part for me to take in is the fact that I will never get to physically see him again and hear him talk and laugh, It's literally unreal. It's been months now since he passed and it feels like yesterday. Anyway, this pain we're experiencing is evidence that our dads loved us very much and that love is very much reciprocated. Just know this, all this pain and sorrow we're feeling isn't for nothing.

    • @lotusgrl444
      @lotusgrl444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@iemerald7781 you said it so beautifully..I lost my dad in the end of May and there are times I long to hear his voice/laugh and THATS when the waves of sadness come back and hit me like waves crashing on the shore...I have a voicemail of his that I will probably never be able to erase unless it erases on its own but although sometimes comforting it mostly elicits sadness..Im still trying to figure out how to feel happy again...

    • @iemerald7781
      @iemerald7781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lotusgrl444 it's been almost a year now for me, still feels like he was just here yesterday. I just want to let you know that you're not alone in the sadness and pain you feel at times, you're never alone. I have recorded videos of him in the hospital on my phone but I've yet to build up the courage to watch them. I do believe that your dad is not really gone, his energy and the fact that he existed will always be a part of this universe. Seeing someone you love fade away really reminds you of how short life is and how we need to appreciate who we have left. Stay strong and think about what your dad would want from you. My prayers are with you 🙏

    • @mattcrawford4011
      @mattcrawford4011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kakarot4243 I just lost my Mom to a brain aneurysm. I never got to say a goodbye while she was awake. It is so tough to go through this, but one day at a time...

  • @megha90manjunath
    @megha90manjunath 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I lost my mom yesterday. How can I love without her

    • @lorihughes5415
      @lorihughes5415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I lost my mom in November, I understand....Much love to you.

    • @kaewkaowja2676
      @kaewkaowja2676 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so sorry for your lost.

    • @Ralovelyb
      @Ralovelyb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Im so sorry ☹️

    • @skyrobin4008
      @skyrobin4008 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My mom died March 14... I don’t know how I will live without her. I can barely breathe.

  • @susaninsocal550
    @susaninsocal550 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I lost my husband to cancer in January. He was my true love. Thank you for this video. I was so scared of how my memory and cognition has changed. The brain fog is real, frightening and very difficult to deal with.

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  • @rc48
    @rc48 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I lost my younger brother this April and life has changed forever. Grieving is a lonely journey. Unfortunately, people don’t understand this till they experience it on a personal level. People on the outside constantly tell you to move on, get back to your life… As if you can fast forward your pain or snap out of it. Death of your loved one can completely change your world view, perspective to life. You tend to question every thing happening around you and try to make sense out of it. While it can be confusing, acceptance of pain, loss, death may come eventually as you process the information with the time. I wish and hope healing for everyone who lost their loved one

  • @VierthalerStudios
    @VierthalerStudios 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    I lost the girl I love from suicide back in 2013 and I have never ever been the same since then.

    • @gwengwen4535
      @gwengwen4535 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      EricVierthaler92 I’m so sorry. I’m suffering so much tragedy and loss right now that I don’t know if or how I’ll ever recover.. and I have to.. because I have people who depend on me..

    • @monikaazariah9237
      @monikaazariah9237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Both of you take care ...with time we will heal ....hold on to good memories

    • @hisdeadlyscreamstk_5896
      @hisdeadlyscreamstk_5896 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m sorry 💔

    • @kralrchrd
      @kralrchrd 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Midnight Drop prayer line conference call is ON now! Call 1605-462-5300 Acess 535199# Please remember to mute your phone to eliminate background noises... Thank you! It's On NOW 11PM Eastern time 10PM Central time zone Every single Night there is a different speaker on to encourage you, to pray for you, to give you what says the Lord!!! You don't want to miss out... God bless!!! .

    • @marthadanielle
      @marthadanielle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      im so sorry for everything you are going through. God bless you and your family please stay strong.

  • @myamii_playz8428
    @myamii_playz8428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I lost my mom yesterday and i really recommend meeting up with friends or do exercise. It helped me a lot! But i still cant forget the day i saw my mom stop breathing. It felt like i just lost everything.. my whole life. But i still remember to move on.

    • @kralrchrd
      @kralrchrd 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Midnight Drop prayer line conference call is ON now! Call 1605-462-5300 Acess 535199# Please remember to mute your phone to eliminate background noises... Thank you! It's On NOW 11PM Eastern time 10PM Central time zone Every single Night there is a different speaker on to encourage you, to pray for you, to give you what says the Lord!!! You don't want to miss out... God bless!!! .

    • @motirola
      @motirola 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I experienced this too. It is very traumatic for me to see my mom gasping for air in her last minute of her life😢

    • @bluerose8165
      @bluerose8165 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know how you feel. Lost my mom a month ago but remeber the day very well. I was with her till her last breath but what hurts me the most is that we just wanted to take a walk and enjoy the beutiful weather but things turned out differently. It was soo unexpected bc she was not sick or anything that is why it hurts a lot.

  • @billythecat
    @billythecat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I lost my dad three weeks ago and I won't recall the details but I've been filled with grief and guilt. Reading comments on these videos about grief somehow makes me feel better so I want to encourage you guys to keep sharing your stories. Don't just read, start typing and tell us about your loss, your feeling so we all can share and not be alone in this road. We're helping ourselves and that's what our loved ones would have wanted. Or if you think there's nothing after death then see that we'll eventually die anyway so why not try to keep going and find out what life has left to offer. Grief either crushes you or turns you into a better person. Don't you realise you've become more compassionate since your loss? Grief is doing its work but do try to help it steer you to the positive path. Humanity has gone through thousands of years and by now we've got 7 billions people, imagine how many people have been through grief, you are not alone. Try helping yourself by helping others in anyway you can. Start opening up, but ignore people who are insensitive, and just welcome love. Let's get the best out of grief together!

    • @ellenhutabarat7973
      @ellenhutabarat7973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts. It helping me feel better. I just lost my husband 3 weeks ago. He left me with my only daughter. She just 4,5 y.o Yes, i am not alone in this road. We all can face this grief get ready for the brighter future.

    • @Prettynthirty42
      @Prettynthirty42 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is Beautiful! Thank U

  • @JediBunny
    @JediBunny 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I miss my mom so much. She died last May. Then my grandmother died a few months later, then my family dog. It’s been a rough year.

  • @nyashavera9021
    @nyashavera9021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    It’s been 4 years since I lost my baby brother but some days it feels like it’s yesterday. I accepted his passing on but understanding why is another story. I’m glad I came across this video. I may have to look for support groups that deal with grief.

  • @royalmontpark
    @royalmontpark 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Lost my partner of 20 years 5 weeks ago, my world shattered. The pain sometimes is unbearable. Still crying everyday, lots of regrets, seek strength to carry on.

    • @MrJoseoz
      @MrJoseoz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too, it's awful, nobody understands, familyand friends get bored and annoyed by my grief because it's an inconvenience to them because I'm not fun any more .they say insensitive comments that send me in a down ward spiral. I'm sorry for your loss, hang in there.

    • @stopchildabuse7932
      @stopchildabuse7932 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am very sorry for your lost and identity with your feelings. I just lost my husband two weeks ago, I am also dealing with so much grief and guilt. I also don’t like to bother friends or family members I know they tired of me and don’t even call me or text me. Please let me know if you are feeling better or the same from before

    • @LABL05
      @LABL05 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @roseamey370
      @roseamey370 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@stopchildabuse7932 you deserve lots of support and need this.

    • @Suhani_Arora
      @Suhani_Arora 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my boyfriend 2 months ago and nothing has ever been the same. I miss him each day and cry. He meant the world to me. I'm only 17 we had our whole future together. I've known him since I was 12 he was the best person ever.

  • @carmelized11candi
    @carmelized11candi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My mom died 6 days ago and I can’t get one foot in front of the other. I called the funeral home to check on her like she’s still alive. I’m doing pretty bad right now. I think I need professional help. I have nothing to do or anyone to take care of. Mom was my whole world for 19 months. I miss her.

  • @SandraGonzalez089
    @SandraGonzalez089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Lost my grandma 3 weeks ago and it still hurts. She helped raise me, what hurt most is she was in pain the last couple days of her life and we could not do anything for her. I'm glad she isn't in pain anymore but I cry thinking about all the joy she brought in my life and how I couldn't even hug her one last time...I hope she reads this and knows how loved she was and we still miss her so much

  • @evanistrans-dimentional2092
    @evanistrans-dimentional2092 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Months?!?!? Try years. Why do we continue to put a timeline on grief? THERE IS NONE.

  • @fatoumfatoumeh
    @fatoumfatoumeh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My mom passed away 5 days ago, on 10/10/20 at 10am...I watched her die in the hospital, and I still am trying process it...we were extremely close. Her face in her final moments will haunt me for as long as I live, I kissed her face, kissed her hands, kissed her feet and I cried like I had never cried before. I couldn’t speak, I just cried. She couldn’t move or speak, but her eyes were open, tears also streaming down her face...she could see and hear me. I still can’t believe she’s gone. It hurts.

    • @jennifer054
      @jennifer054 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So sorry to hear your loss Leo, my mum passed away on the 14/10/20 she was 63 and I’m 26, my dad rang me at 6am and said she died in her sleep, I kissed her goodbye and watched as they took her, the pain is unreal, I feel guilty for living whilst she’s not here but she would want us to continue. Keep strong my dear and remember you’re not alone, keep going like I’m sure your mum would want you to. X

    • @lordscorch1128
      @lordscorch1128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry to hear that Leo. I lost my mom on 8/26/20. It was unexpected. I too will forever be haunted with what I saw on her final day. As for the comment about feeling guilty (@Jennifer) living, I can totally relate. I've been watching some halloween shows that she liked but I feel like a robot. It's all surreal. Everything. I keep waiting to wake up.

    • @mahamkashif8773
      @mahamkashif8773 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lordscorch1128 dont u know if u loss some one than u can pray and send your rewards to them

  • @runawaysky
    @runawaysky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    i'm devastated after the loss of my mom and trying so hard not to stay in this dark place. she wouldn't want me to.

  • @Emi-go8rn
    @Emi-go8rn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I lost my grandpa right when all of the corona happened so I couldn’t even hug my grandma when she stood over my grandpas grave

    • @kralrchrd
      @kralrchrd 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Midnight Drop prayer line conference call is ON now! Call 1605-462-5300 Acess 535199# Please remember to mute your phone to eliminate background noises... Thank you! It's On NOW 11PM Eastern time 10PM Central time zone Every single Night there is a different speaker on to encourage you, to pray for you, to give you what says the Lord!!! You don't want to miss out... God bless!!! .

    • @kierax7871
      @kierax7871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ralanda Richard Boone this isn’t necessary, you don’t know this persons religion and it is completely inappropriate

    • @willm678
      @willm678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aw I’m sorry. I lost my grandpa 3 years ago. He was the coolest guy I’ve ever known. I’ve since accepted it, that he was old (92!) and sick, and it was his time. Unfortunately yesterday I had to say goodbye to my dog. I was reminded of the sadness of loss again, but I know eventually I’ll accept his passing as well. Hang in there!

  • @kimhorn6386
    @kimhorn6386 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    My boyfriend passed away just 3 weeks ago. I'll never be the same person again.

    • @SoJustCool
      @SoJustCool 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      my bfs been dead almost 3 years he was 33

    • @rajchauhan7914
      @rajchauhan7914 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      God will give you strength

    • @lexorrr3158
      @lexorrr3158 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hello, i hope you're doing great now. You are strong and brave. Keep going.

    • @monikaazariah9237
      @monikaazariah9237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Take care you all...I know the pain..be kind and patient with yourself

    • @kralrchrd
      @kralrchrd 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Midnight Drop prayer line conference call is ON now! Call 1605-462-5300 Acess 535199# Please remember to mute your phone to eliminate background noises... Thank you! It's On NOW 11PM Eastern time 10PM Central time zone Every single Night there is a different speaker on to encourage you, to pray for you, to give you what says the Lord!!! You don't want to miss out... God bless!!! .

  • @AnifreakGedsparrow
    @AnifreakGedsparrow ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'm 30m and my dad was 60, lost him about 2 weeks ago. It's weird how although I knew everyone dies, I never expected it would just, you know, happen, like that. I'm finding it hard to accept, especially since I already had anxiety and depression before he died, and now a major pillar that was helping keep me together is gone forever.

  • @kikaliciouss
    @kikaliciouss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I just found out that someone who took care of me as if I was their own child when my adopted parents were abusing me passed away she was an amazing person with the kindest and purest of heart I just wish that I could see her one last time to thank her for everything that she had done for me. She was just too good for this world I guess. Much love to those who are suffering from grief,, stay strong for them🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @kralrchrd
      @kralrchrd 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Midnight Drop prayer line conference call is ON now! Call 1605-462-5300 Acess 535199# Please remember to mute your phone to eliminate background noises... Thank you! It's On NOW 11PM Eastern time 10PM Central time zone Every single Night there is a different speaker on to encourage you, to pray for you, to give you what says the Lord!!! You don't want to miss out... God bless!!! .

    • @patriciaspadea2266
      @patriciaspadea2266 ปีที่แล้ว

      They say the good die young. You'll see her again. I'm old and I know. Besides your loved one visits you everyday. It's different since we mostly don't see them. They do and God made that possible. 🙏🩷

  • @agentblue52
    @agentblue52 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I am anticipating grief as my dear sister is at 4th stage cancer. Pls pray for us for God to give us strength. 😥

  • @theresistance3818
    @theresistance3818 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Yes, I feel completely brain broken. After, mourning multiple immediate family members, one, right after the other, five consecutive years, in a row. Grief has changed every single member of my family into completely different individuals + everyone refuses to acknowledge or deal with it 😢

    • @patriciaspadea2266
      @patriciaspadea2266 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I lost 7 in a 9 yr. Span. My daughter the last 2.5 years ago. A child at any age is the impossible. I think I'm alive from. Angels helping me. Then I found out I'm malnourished. I wasnt taking care of myself. Its very important take care of yourself even if you were always healthy. Grieving is so hard when all but my mom was too young. My mom was 93. I know how Noone wants to talk . I talk about all no matter...even though our loved ones are truly in heaven better there than here. And yes we have to wait till it our time. Missing them almost breaks us. Prayer, exercise , eat right. Force myself. For the family and friends that are still here.😢❤celebrate that we loved them and will see them again. 🎉

    • @samia8630
      @samia8630 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@patriciaspadea2266i’m watching this video because i haven’t lost a loved one yet and i am preparing myself. you are an incredibly strong individual and i wish you all the best in life

  • @adriennegrammer
    @adriennegrammer ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I lost my fiancé in May. He was killed in a plane crash. I genuinely don’t know how to move forward. I don’t feel like myself at all

    • @yasmin_piano
      @yasmin_piano ปีที่แล้ว

      So so sorry 🥺 what airline ..?

  • @jeaniek4980
    @jeaniek4980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I lost my dad recently. He had Type 1 Diabetes and his health was not good. It is hard because I am very close to my dad. If I was not around he would call me almost every day and we would keep in touch. He is a big part of my life and who I am as a person. It feels strange not receive his phone calls or voice messages anymore. I find solace through praying for him.

  • @pleasebeheal4224
    @pleasebeheal4224 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I lost my father today, I'm just 20, and it feels so hard for me

    • @lifeofjan2921
      @lifeofjan2921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so sorry for your loss.

    • @Dettah420
      @Dettah420 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      same my dad passed last year from liver cancer..I miss him. I drink all the time to numb this feeling drugs too

    • @netterz3411
      @netterz3411 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I also lost my dad when I was 20

    • @stopchildabuse7932
      @stopchildabuse7932 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Dettah420I am very sorry for your loss and hope you doing better

  • @seancook3171
    @seancook3171 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Lost my mum to cancer this morning. Don’t really know why i am writing this but anyone going through the same thing I hope you are okay ❤

  • @lauragrillo27
    @lauragrillo27 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I lost my Mum in March. You know there is a bereavement FB group for loss of parents. It's quite good. All the best everyone x

  • @dmb2236
    @dmb2236 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I feel so lonely without my precious mother who just loved and sheltered her children…. I just want to sleep and lay around! It’s so hard just getting dressed never mind actually working. Heartbroken forever🖤🖤

  • @okokok1178
    @okokok1178 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I lost my father 2 weeks ago and my family and I are still not sure how or why. It was such a big shock at first. We had the funeral and burial 2 days ago. I am only 12

    • @unknownxoxo8905
      @unknownxoxo8905 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m so sorry

    • @lornocford6482
      @lornocford6482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm so sorry. That's so young to lose a patent. I hope you have found some peace now 7 months on and can enjoy happy memories.

    • @samarra5056
      @samarra5056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Make sure you process healthy. I was your age when I lost my sister I am 31 now and unacknowledged grief is no good in my experience that's why I searched this video. You are so smart to look into this you will be much better off because you taken the time to acknowledge. All love to ya ! And you loved one is always there with u to guide your open mind and heart

  • @MrHlcg1962
    @MrHlcg1962 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've lost an inspiration that had been with me since I was 5. I'm 60 now. She died the day after Valentines Day, and she took my heart with her. Inconsolable 💔

  • @kakyoinnoriyaki5432
    @kakyoinnoriyaki5432 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I miss mom she was the best human being ive ever met i dont think anyone in the family can replace the place she have in my heart it was really sudden but i have to accept it even though im just 16 i have to accept it the spirit of loved ones remain forever with you

    • @demi38
      @demi38 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      im so sorry:(❤

  • @braddavic5493
    @braddavic5493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    R.i.p to my mom today 7/28/21, thanks for sharing this.

  • @monicakelly6273
    @monicakelly6273 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am watching my dad die, last rites were given today.. pain is immeasurable and I would not wish this on my worst enemy.

  • @ellenhutabarat7973
    @ellenhutabarat7973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I feel better when i see this video with all the comments here.
    I lost my beloved husband 4 weeks ago. I had PTSD and looking for solution thru internet and found you all here with all your comments. It gives me understanding that i am not alone. Sharing our feeling about our loss can help us feeling better.
    Hopefully the trauma will gone soon.

    • @richardmcguinn732
      @richardmcguinn732 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well I’m really sorry about that okay 😒☹️and I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life must move on because death is inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday, I lost my oldest daughter Annabel on February 24th 2020 during the lockdown on a car accident, and she just turned 22 on her last birthday before she got knocked down by a moving vehicle 🚗 and so unluckily for me that horrible day the driver was drunk. That was the worst and most lamentable day of my life as a single Dad raising two kid's, my 17 years old son Clark and my 4 legged 🐶 families are my everything and the reason I still keep strong, and keep going! My late wife also passed away 3 years ago from a shocking disease, I felt deeply devastated with grief, and I was so heartbroken 💔 God and time are indeed the best healers.
      I'd love to talk to you more if you don't mind! So it would be nice to get a reply from you when you got time okay. 🌹🌹

  • @usetheschwartz6880
    @usetheschwartz6880 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m 29 years old. I lost my mom on 5/16/2020 at age 62, same week as her birthday and Mother’s Day; she died of an unexpected heart attack. On 9/23/2020 I lost my dad at age 57; he died from stage 4 cancer. I don’t know what to do or how to be happy again. Everyone keeps telling me”man, it must be hard to lose both of your parents that close together” yes it is! And it hurts and sometimes I feel like no one understands.

    • @emesass5959
      @emesass5959 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That must be extremely difficult for you and I am sorry you have to deal with such a loss at a young age. Do you have siblings for support? COVID19 has made the grieving process so much harder. Death is so unnatural and will be until it's removed once and for all.

    • @usetheschwartz6880
      @usetheschwartz6880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Eme S'A'ssy thanks for responding, means a lot! Due to the COVID restrictions, I was unable to say bye to my mom. By the time I had gotten to see her, she was already unresponsive and on life support. So I was grateful when I got to actually say bye to my dad. It’s honestly hard, I have rough days and want to talk to them but I can’t. I know they are in a better place, but it’s still hard to lose both my parents so close together. I have a 3 year old daughter who will never get to know her mamaw and papaw and get to spend all that quality time together like I had imagined when I was a kid.

    • @usetheschwartz6880
      @usetheschwartz6880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Eme S'A'ssy I’m one of 6 kids and I also lost a brother too... we were never the closest, but losing our parents has brought us closer together. I try to take what positives I can from it, and that’s what keeps me going. I know they aren’t here but they and their values live on through me.

    • @emesass5959
      @emesass5959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@usetheschwartz6880 Yes they will live on in you and you can share their life with your daughter. Nothing in life is easy right now. You will have sad moments and miss them. Take your time and take care of yourself and your little girl.

  • @ItsAV2023
    @ItsAV2023 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    3 year anniversary of my father’s passing… I’m still speechless in so many ways… 🕊

  • @MOTOKANDI
    @MOTOKANDI ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I lost my mum 3 days ago. The only peace is when I'm asleep. The moment I wake the realisation hits me like a bucket of cold water. There's a long journey ahead.

    • @patriciaspadea2266
      @patriciaspadea2266 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm sorry, you'll make it through🙏❤️💜

    • @kennethdrewary1094
      @kennethdrewary1094 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I lost my mum 7 months ago, but this film has described it perfectly. I'm still suffering but they say it will last a year. Still a bit to go then.

    • @yashi4811
      @yashi4811 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My dad just passed a few days ago and I don't know how am I continue with my life 😢😢

    • @MOTOKANDI
      @MOTOKANDI 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yashi4811 I'm so sorry for your loss 😞 it is normal to feel confused and numb, especially in the beginning. Please be kind to yourself and be with friends and family if you can, it will help.

  • @saskialadrak1280
    @saskialadrak1280 6 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    My boyfriend died of cancer 4 weeks ago we were together for 4 years...

    • @iamangela171
      @iamangela171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💔I'm so sorry for your loss! God is good and I know it may not seem like it..especially after losing someone but he led me to this video for a reason! I lost my Mother 1/3/18 this year makes 2 yrs and I find that I'm grieving so much more than the 1st yr. I will be praying for you! Just know that God does love you and it's ok to grieve!🙏🙏🙏

    • @victoriahanke1990
      @victoriahanke1990 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      nightsky the best God Bless you. ♥️🕊🙏

    • @libertatem3113
      @libertatem3113 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Did it ever get better? My gf died of cancer at only 27. After ten years together I’m totally lost

    • @hisdeadlyscreamstk_5896
      @hisdeadlyscreamstk_5896 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so sorry 💔💔

    • @kralrchrd
      @kralrchrd 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Midnight Drop prayer line conference call is ON now! Call 1605-462-5300 Acess 535199# Please remember to mute your phone to eliminate background noises... Thank you! It's On NOW 11PM Eastern time 10PM Central time zone Every single Night there is a different speaker on to encourage you, to pray for you, to give you what says the Lord!!! You don't want to miss out... God bless!!! .

  • @lavenderowl_
    @lavenderowl_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sending love to all of you. ❤ My grandmother passed away this morning. She helped raise me and I will miss her very much.

  • @Sashenka979
    @Sashenka979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I lost my beloved husband of 14 years 5 days ago from brain aneurism. I’m so lost on endless grief.

    • @emesass5959
      @emesass5959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am sorry for your loss and despair. It hasn't been that long so grieving is expected. The Pandemic has made mourning so difficult because of social distancing and no touching. Fortunately there is a hope for those who die. If you want I could share that with you. Please take care.

    • @mattcrawford4011
      @mattcrawford4011 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so sorry. I just lost my Mother to a brain aneurysm. I miss her terribly. I hope you are doing ok

    • @playspretty
      @playspretty 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      lost my mum a year ago on Christmas to an aneurysm. It’s so cruel how quickly they can be gone

  • @Nabz.1
    @Nabz.1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un.
    "Indeed, we belong to Allah, and indeed, to Him we shall return."

  • @valerieshinia8526
    @valerieshinia8526 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I just lost my mom 😢it hurts deep 😢😢may the good Lord comfort me /us .😢😢Prayers going to my Dad 😢he loved my mom until the end.

    • @justlish1941
      @justlish1941 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Prayers to you and family. I just lost my uncle and it’s such a hard thing.

  • @ellegrrace
    @ellegrrace 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My Father recently died after 10 months of battling after falling from a great height. It’s still a shock but he passed peacefully in his sleep. I just turned 20 in late March

    • @RD-jd8hq
      @RD-jd8hq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey Liz. I hope you have support. I lost my grandma 2 days ago. I'm devastated. But also happy that she's not suffering anymore.
      I hope you have someone to talk to, someone who will hear you out.

    • @kralrchrd
      @kralrchrd 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Midnight Drop prayer line conference call is ON now! Call 1605-462-5300 Acess 535199# Please remember to mute your phone to eliminate background noises... Thank you! It's On NOW 11PM Eastern time 10PM Central time zone Every single Night there is a different speaker on to encourage you, to pray for you, to give you what says the Lord!!! You don't want to miss out... God bless!!! ....

  • @lexdoesstuff339
    @lexdoesstuff339 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i miss my grandma so much. she raised me until i was 6 and she passed away in a car accident. i’m 17 now and it still hurts so badly. i don’t think anyone will ever love me like she did :(

    • @uzaxna72
      @uzaxna72 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      same here, my grandma had the most irreplaceable kind of love for me. I miss her so much

  • @clairelouiseparton630
    @clairelouiseparton630 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had this to the extreme. After losing a loved one and being under immense pressure, I became very ill. After several years I was diagnosed with Cushing’s disease (pituitary tumour that pumps out excessive amounts of cortisol) that nearly killed me. I am in remission from Cushing’s since the surgery but have never recovered from autoimmune illnesses. My fear of death is immense, it’s quite literally destroyed my life and I’ve done pretty much every therapy and healing modality there is. I will keep moving forward towards healing but some things feel far too deeply ingrained to overcome.

  • @heymunsoons9090
    @heymunsoons9090 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just lost my mom yesterday to stage 4 lung cancer that spread to her brain. She survived seven years with cancer until it spread to her brain. She then had a seizure and we had to put her into hospice. She was everything to me and helped me when I needed help. She would always tell me how much she wanted to see me grow up and that was the one thing she didn’t get. She died in her late fifties. I’m only Twelve and ave no idea how to handle this situation.

    • @aprilcherryletsplay2416
      @aprilcherryletsplay2416 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey you,
      Same happened to me with my dad one month ago. Reading this from a 12 y/o as a 19 y/o , just breaks my heart.
      I hope you got all the support from your family and friends and I also wanna say that your mom is always watching over you and she is incredibly proud of you ❤️ I wish you the best ❤

    • @heymunsoons9090
      @heymunsoons9090 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@aprilcherryletsplay2416 thank you so much. May god be with you and may you be blessed

  • @deepakrawat1039
    @deepakrawat1039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Am not able to handle Grief. My wife died after the delivery of our first baby. Within hours happiest day of my life turns into saddest. Am not able to believe what just had happened, no way this can happen to us. In my memories our last night is fixed. She was in immense pain holding my hand the whole time asking me for water, doctors told me not to give water. I was kept on crying making her remember she cannot give up on me, making her remember our moments. For a moment she uses to show the strong face and again pain comes to her face. I do not remember anything of her apart for this memory. Not able to sleep or eat. Sometime am not even able to breath. The whole night is kept on running in front of my eyes

    • @Alexa-rd4vc
      @Alexa-rd4vc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am so broken for you. Please remember, you are a dad and a human too. be both.

    • @kralrchrd
      @kralrchrd 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Midnight Drop prayer line conference call is ON now! Call 1605-462-5300 Acess 535199# Please remember to mute your phone to eliminate background noises... Thank you! It's On NOW 11PM Eastern time 10PM Central time zone Every single Night there is a different speaker on to encourage you, to pray for you, to give you what says the Lord!!! You don't want to miss out... God bless!!! ....

    • @tsesannamgyal4574
      @tsesannamgyal4574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am so sorry for your loss brother Deepak. I will pray that God grants you the strength to move forward and may your wifes soul rest in eternal peace 🙏🏼❤

    • @kaysingh1568
      @kaysingh1568 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i had a lot of trauma too during my sister's passing. she could barely breathe for 3 consecutive days. she died at home with me (I was her caretaker). her body deteriorated so quickly and violently that i had PTSD for months (nightmares, convulsions, inability to move). My EFT practitioner helped me so much with the trauma and pain. I saw her like 3-4 times a week for the first month, and then once a week for a few months just to help me process everything. I'm sure a regular therapist would be helpful too, but this particular form of therapy actually "taps" out the trauma in your body so you can move past it.... www.purposeprosperityhappiness.com/

  • @dutchmx6
    @dutchmx6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Lost my mum when I was 18, she was 48, it's now 7 years later and she has missed the biggest milestones, I will get married next year and I wished she could be there. Grief gets lighter over the years, but never truly stops.. I miss you mum, every single day.. I'm just glad I got to love someone so dearly that it still hurts, it sucks sometimes but I truly feel blessed to have had her as my mother.

  • @Wannagobackto1980
    @Wannagobackto1980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My father died July 9th and I am having a very hard time dealing with it. One minute I'm fine and the next I am crying my eyes out. I miss him so much. My heart has a HUGE hole in it. I know he is not in pain nomore and is home in HEAVEN and walking the streets of gold and celebrating but I am missing him. Until we meet again deddy. Luke Duke loves you (that was my name cause I loved Dukes of Hazzard when I was a child and asked them if I could change my name to Luke Duke so he started calling me that)

  • @jarilynluvsu
    @jarilynluvsu 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i lost my grandpa yesterday at about 6am. i saw him 2 days before and i wish i could have held him a bit tighter the last time .

  • @LenaTalam
    @LenaTalam หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    my cat just died, Sinag, he was my gentle sunlight. see you again in heaven sinag

  • @donaldmingojr.8261
    @donaldmingojr.8261 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Going on two years of grieving, and depression. So grieving more than one year is what?

    • @lhansel7584
      @lhansel7584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Been 5 years for me. Some things never go away.

    • @benniepierce6283
      @benniepierce6283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Eleven plus years for me so far & no end in sight

    • @netterz3411
      @netterz3411 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Complicated grief

  • @jpowell2603
    @jpowell2603 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lost my wife of 24 years to brain cancer last month the 6th August so difficult right now. Im taking it one day at a time with our 4 children.

    • @user-bk7gi4kh8n
      @user-bk7gi4kh8n ปีที่แล้ว

      j powell I am so sorry 😞 I hope u can heal some

  • @juliettirigu3960
    @juliettirigu3960 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I just lost my mother 2months ago, I'm broken because she was my everything 😭😭😭

  • @mrsg9268
    @mrsg9268 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm doing an essay on widowhood. I lost my husband last year. Thank you for this.

  • @skellener
    @skellener ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It’s a year and a half since I lost Leesa. I’m still very broken. Even after doing everything. Therapy, meds, acupuncture, exercise EMDR, getting out in the sunlight, eating healthy, talking with friends. I’m so worn out. I’m still miserable. I miss her so much. I wish I could find something that helps.

  • @Oakleaf700
    @Oakleaf700 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I lost my dear Father in Law....His loss triggered the loss of my own Dad..I just hope there is an afterlife, and that they are in the sunny uplands of a peaceful place, reunited with their loved ones.💕

    • @monikaazariah9237
      @monikaazariah9237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😭 this is exactly my story too...I lost both of them within 8 months ....I feel lost and anxiety and pain ....my dad is a piece of me and that vacuum will always be there and my Father in law was one person who always made me feel like his daughter and so I remember him fondly too

    • @Oakleaf700
      @Oakleaf700 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@monikaazariah9237 It is horrible..Grief is the worst feeling ever.
      It also reminds us of our own mortality, perhaps, when someone we really love or care about dies...
      We were lucky to have had such good Father in Laws and Dads.

    • @kralrchrd
      @kralrchrd 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Midnight Drop prayer line conference call is ON now! Call 1605-462-5300 Acess 535199# Please remember to mute your phone to eliminate background noises... Thank you! It's On NOW 11PM Eastern time 10PM Central time zone Every single Night there is a different speaker on to encourage you, to pray for you, to give you what says the Lord!!! You don't want to miss out... God bless!!! ....

  • @Fatima-vh6wj
    @Fatima-vh6wj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    2020 has been rough for me i lost my grandmother at the beginning of it and on October I lost my grandfather I just don't know how am I supposed to go to their house again it feels so... Empty I wish I could go back in time and spend more time with him 💔

  • @luishuerta5878
    @luishuerta5878 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just lost my older brother to brain cancer this past Sunday yesterday was the hardest day if my life knowing that im not be going to be able to hear his laugh anymore but im trying to deal with it, wish me luck 😊

  • @qpfj
    @qpfj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for the video, that is exactly what I am going through as I type this comment. I just lost my Mom this morning; I am so grief stricken and miss her sooooooooooo much. I know this will be a long process before I am able to think of her or see her pictures, and possessions without breaking down. Death of our loved ones is the hardest reality to befall human kind, and even the animal kingdom has shown grief --- LOVE IS LOVE! This so so tough to handle right now. My thoughts and heartfelt condolences to all who have lost their beloveds.

  • @SumeetMahendra
    @SumeetMahendra 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for creating this video. I lost my father on Feb 9th...

  • @pennyclark-talyor9077
    @pennyclark-talyor9077 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just lost the best guy of my life. He was 21 years old and I'm absolutely heartbroken. He was just talking with me earlier today...

  • @ClipsForFree99
    @ClipsForFree99 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just lost my uncle today .. words can’t describe how much pain I feel right now he was my role model and would do anything for me. I hate this feeling I don’t know how to deal with this

  • @PalosVerdesLife
    @PalosVerdesLife 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    THIS WAS SUCH A HELP! THANK YOU!!!

  • @lavhaadg5763
    @lavhaadg5763 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It took me 2 years to finally be ok after my mom died. Although, I still get flashbacks and it feels like a stab in my heart but it’s only temporary.

  • @kyleskorner2826
    @kyleskorner2826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hello! I thought this was very well done with the one exception of the slide about stages of grief. This is an antiquated notion that one moves through stages of grief. Kublar-Ross, the pioneer of research about death, was talking about people who were dying, not people who were mourning the loss of a loved one. It would be far more accurate if you talked about grief as being unique to each person, and messy! There are no neat and tidy stages to get through, no "I'm all done now" kind of thinking. Grief is life changing and life long as we will experience triggers ongoingly. With time and intention we become more skilled at handling those triggers and our loss. The rest of your message is much appreciated!

  • @Julia-ml9jb
    @Julia-ml9jb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Its been two years since my grandmother passed away and i still never got over it. I miss those days when i would listen to her and my mom talk and my grandma talk to my older siblings or cousins waiting for when id do it. I was gonna go to Mexico but 2 days before she had to go to the hospital then 13 days later she passed away. I am really grateful my granddad decided to stay longer that day at the hospital and i am happy she is in a better place

  • @anuja.v
    @anuja.v 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    lost my mom to pancreatic cancer, it hurts so much i’m 24 and have to learn to live without my sweet momma

    • @AnifreakGedsparrow
      @AnifreakGedsparrow ปีที่แล้ว

      Does it get any easier?

    • @anuja.v
      @anuja.v ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AnifreakGedsparrow I wish I could say yes, but I am still struggling. It will be one year since shes gone this Friday. I know grief isnt easy but it just feels like it still hurts so much. I am hoping there will be a day when I can look back and smile at the memories but right now its still painful. Sorry if this is discouraging, just wanted to be honest.

  • @philaman1972
    @philaman1972 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We pay a dear price for love as part of the human condition. Like a comet hurtling through space, grief ultimately collides with *everyone*. I lost my dad in 2013 and my mom in 2022, but they lived out full lives (79 and 83, respectively). What saddens me the most, however, are people who did not get the opportunity to live out full lives. Condolences to everyone assaulted by grief.

  • @ewaz_
    @ewaz_ หลายเดือนก่อน

    I lost my mum 4 months ago…, my children will never see her again, she will not see them growing, I’ll never talk to her, visit her, laugh with her, eat her delicious food, it’s over😭I miss her so much, I cant believe she’s not here. My heart is broken 💔

  • @alejandraortiz8991
    @alejandraortiz8991 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I lost my 14 year old sister just 3 days ago on Memorial Day and I have absolutely no idea how I'm supposed to move on from it. I'm so confused on these different feelings I can't stop feeling. I've been crying on and off since I heard about her passing. I don't know how to accept this as a normal part of life. I just want to kiss her and hug her tight so she knows I love her with all my heart. It's been such a hard week....

  • @superelijackson
    @superelijackson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I lost my dog last year , and a cousin from covid-19 in April then a good friend of mine who I knew since middle school passed away from heat stroke last month and then just about 4 weeks ago I lost my grandma. So it’s been a rough year and a rough rode for me but I’m trying to keep pushing on and stay on my emotional health bc u have to be healthy emotionally to be healthy physically and mentally. I’m sending love and prayers to everyone. Stay safe and healthy ❤️❤️❤️❤️🥺🥺🥺🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💞💞💞

  • @cam_brz
    @cam_brz ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i lost my dad when i was eleven and it still hurts

  • @ewelinak4933
    @ewelinak4933 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I lost my dad today. My mom is heartbroken. I try to help her and be strong for her 😪🙏

    • @kakarot4243
      @kakarot4243 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I lost my dad to last year only 54 it’s hard it’s painful af to deal with

    • @christineadams1284
      @christineadams1284 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ewelina K
      Show her all the love you can, being there for her is the best thing you can do. 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏

    • @tania_siebzehn
      @tania_siebzehn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I lost my dad today.

  • @patsypryor9850
    @patsypryor9850 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    a year does not even touch the loss of a child. my son has been gone 18 years .when you lose an adult child, as I did, you have lost the infant the boy and the man. she sounds like she is reading a textbook. I lost 50# and could barely hang onto my job.

    • @brendadrumm9708
      @brendadrumm9708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Spot on time or yrs are nothing time makes you yearn for them more x

  • @theveganvillainess
    @theveganvillainess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I lost my father over 2 months ago. I keep waking up in the middle of the night with anxiety and am having trouble sleeping. I hope it gets better, I'm tired and forgetful all the time.

    • @netterz3411
      @netterz3411 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I lost my mom a month ago and the same thing is happening to me

    • @peggyoneal325
      @peggyoneal325 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can relate.... this is happening to me, also... I lost my best friend.
      ......my Baby Brother....on 12/5/21.
      He was 41 years old. I miss him so much.

    • @AnifreakGedsparrow
      @AnifreakGedsparrow ปีที่แล้ว

      Lost my dad 2 weeks ago, does it actually get any better?

    • @stopchildabuse7932
      @stopchildabuse7932 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AnifreakGedsparrowsame question I have can someone please tell us? I lost my husband two weeks ago and o don’t think I will be able to survive this

    • @AnifreakGedsparrow
      @AnifreakGedsparrow 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@stopchildabuse7932 Well one year on I can tell you that it gets quite bearable. It'll never really go away since some moments you're just doing random stuff and then suddenly get a reminder and feel a wave of sadness again, but these days me and the rest of the family can talk about my dad and laugh at the silly things he always used to do. I can't really say that this is exactly what it's going to be like for you though since everyone processes grief differently, I just hope you take your time and allow yourself to grieve.

  • @GeyzsonKristoffer
    @GeyzsonKristoffer 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    2022 I lost my step father who I treat as my real father from diabetes at a young age of 49, that same year my grandmother died too. Yesterday, on my birthday, my mother died of cancer… Life is too tough and I feel like I’m getting crazy.. I am deeply hurt 💔

  • @lazyhippie6139
    @lazyhippie6139 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It took me 10 years to reach the acceptance stage of grieving my brother's death. I can't even deal with the grief of losing a close friendship (and she didn't even die, just stopped talking to me) from SEVEN YEARS AGO. What's wrong with me? This video says it takes about a year...

    • @kralrchrd
      @kralrchrd 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Midnight Drop prayer line conference call is ON now! Call 1605-462-5300 Acess 535199# Please remember to mute your phone to eliminate background noises... Thank you! It's On NOW 11PM Eastern time 10PM Central time zone Every single Night there is a different speaker on to encourage you, to pray for you, to give you what says the Lord!!! You don't want to miss out... God bless!!! .

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      @shaunapeebles9752 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @shaunapeebles9752 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @shaunapeebles9752 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @Amy_L33
      @Amy_L33 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It will be 6 yrs Jan 9 since my brother died and I’ve not gotten help with coping with it and my life has went into a downward spiral and I see it but I don’t know how to get help or if I even want help. I received some of his ashes yesterday to see if that would help somehow but I can’t bring myself to look in that box yet because I’m scared of what it will do to me. Will it bring me some peace and acceptance or will it make it more real and cause me to sink further into the darkness I’m already in.

  • @everythingroxy3582
    @everythingroxy3582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Worst experience of My Life

    • @kralrchrd
      @kralrchrd 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Midnight Drop prayer line conference call is ON now! Call 1605-462-5300 Acess 535199# Please remember to mute your phone to eliminate background noises... Thank you! It's On NOW 11PM Eastern time 10PM Central time zone Every single Night there is a different speaker on to encourage you, to pray for you, to give you what says the Lord!!! You don't want to miss out... God bless!!! ....

  • @PeterShieldsukcatstripey
    @PeterShieldsukcatstripey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    it seems to have made my anxiety worse.