I don’t understand this too much, but I’ve been watching you two for a while now and it warms my heart. I hope this world reaches a similar conclusion as I have; we don’t have to understand everything in this life, but we do have to recognize love and always be open to ideas outside of our own or what we’ve been taught. Times are changing and for the good of the world, I want to be on the side that’s trying to understand vs the side that’s stuck on hate.
I didn't understand that much about this until my daughter came out several years ago. I knew that love would keep me on the right track. As long as we keep loving one another, it will all be okay.
I might be able to help some. We're not all that different. I'm a female-to-male transgender person. My upbringing was fairly gender neutral. My parents didn't sex segregate or teach me that some things were boy things and some were girl things. My mom was an EMT/firefighter, my dad is pretty sensitive relative to guys of his generation. I had gender dysphoria from the moment it became clear that I was going to grow up as a woman. I remember the moment I became aware of it. I was 9 and got invited to an older friend's all-girls coming of age party. I didn't know what was up, but I knew that people like me weren't invited to this party. That was 1999, I didn't hear anything about transgender people until I was much older. I just assumed I was wholly alone. My friends, who are not transgender, also experienced gender dysphoria both as children and adults. Most of my friends were girls and almost every girl or woman has that one time when they get a hair cut and it's devastating. Because 'This hair cut makes me look like a boy.' The distress is real (even if many of them feel silly about it later... But we don't really judge those who find the situation traumatizing and learn to cut their own hair instead.). The haircut isn't innately masculine. The exact same haircut might make the girl in the next chair feel cute and dainty and empowered. The issue is how the person in distress is experiencing their body in relation to their internal sense of self. For the girls in this example, the gender dysphoria they're experiencing aligns with the sex they were assigned at birth. For me, the dysphoria was a bit more confusing because I didn't have the language to explain it... Not like kids today who sometimes have the language to express themselves. Cis-gender men also experience gender dysphoria. If they're uncomfortable wearing a specific shirt or unwilling to be seen shirtless because it looks like they have tits? That's gender dysphoria. Getting caught doing something 'girly' or 'being feminine' and feeling like they have to make up for it? Gender dysphoria. I think if we all took time to think a bit about how we experience our gender, we'd have a lot more understanding between us. 😊
@@wilhelmdietrich8474 Thank you for putting it all in a way I can clearly understand and make sense of. I almost feel dumb not having understood it from the beginning. It makes so much sense now. ❤️
I’ve never understood why people couldn’t understand that hatred is taught, not innate. If you center your children in love and acceptance, that’s how they will remain.
Yes!! Hatred is taught. You two seem to raise your children with so much love; priceless gift to a child they all deserve. Gender doesn't matter, the love does.
My three kids in their late 20s, early 30s. All asked "what do we call you?". That was it. I was so worried and they still love and respect me. They say they are proud to tell people I'm trans. They still call me Mum which I like, however, I love it when my grandbabies call me Granddude. I am so blessed to be loved and accepted by all of them. :)
My 20 year old daughter has a sticker on her water bottle that says, “Jesus loves the people you hate.” I think that says it all. Hate is taught. Usually taught that attitude,(not always), by those who claim to be Christian’s.
Isn’t weird how adults are so influenced by social biases that they forget that once upon a time they loved everyone no matter what? I’m officially obsessed with you two. When on T (ftm) I had issues with my moods and stuff. I’m beginning to think I needed therapy and still do. Money really makes transitioning smoother (not easier). What got me was needing top surgery. Since detransitioning I’m no more happier I’m just back to square one (chick with a beard and feels male) but the obstacles were too much and the fear was debilitating. Kudos to you though.
I don't understand how someone can hate a person who is looking to love themselves. They need to be loved... they need our support and warmth. They dont need our understanding, they dont need our opinion.... just love. undiluted unfiltered love.
Their reaction shows what tolerant, accepting, and loving individuals you are raising. Compassion, tolerance and love are taught. They saw the deep love you all have for each other.🙏🏽🥰💜
You went public (TH-cam etc.) and decided to show the world your transition and share your experience. That was your choice. And a brave one, because I am pretty sure you get at least discriminating comments or reactions. Your kids did not have that choice. Even if you have asked them, they are too young to fully comprehend the consequences. They live with the consequences of you going public and what a dilemma that is: you show your children how important it is, to live authentic and true to yourself and at the same time, you expose your family and with that I presume (I don’t know, of course) you put an immense amount of stress on your kids, if you do not have a truly supportive community and family around you. I hope you get support and maybe even counseling for the transition your family is going through. As great as it sounds, your kids accepting the change of the family dynamics, you do not live in a bubble, as you know. I wish you and your family strength and patience and loving family and friends around you.
My middle daughter (now son) came out to me that she was meant to be a boy. My family and I embraced the love and acceptance for him. He changed his name, his pronoun, hair and clothes and is happier than ever. Love and embrace.
If it were me, I would have waited untill my children were grown up; just to make sure I wouldn’t damage them. Children are resilient, but also more vulnerable than adults
@@GameTime-yj6qv some people don’t know or haven’t accepted it all that matters is if they’re a good parent everything else is irrelevant but it’s really easy for people to judge other’s lives so maybe we should all be a little less judgmental and happy a kid has good parents
@@GameTime-yj6qv it’s not as black and white as you’re making it sound she might have known but there’s social pressure there’s denial and it’s more unfair to her kids and wife to be unhappy and not her authentic self
My children were bullied for having a black mum and white dad, and bullied severely for having autistic twin brothers. It breaks my heart but bullies will find a way. I was bullied heavily as a kid too, my dad was a cop and my mum a nurse. If the kid is a target 🤷🏽♀️ I don’t agree with bullying at all or parents setting their kids up to be the targets of bullies. But cmon, nothing can prevent all bullying.
@@autismworldtravel Humans have a huge ego to feed. We're the most egocentric animals in this planet. So, anything that we can find to feel superior or better than others, we will use. Just a tiny minority with critical thinking preserves the community and themselves not falling in this trap all the time.
They are not being brought up by brainless people filled with hatred, they will be fine. Hatred is taught by people with hatred. These parents are not that.
Hay un caso en Finlandia, creo que la anterior primera ministra es hija de lesbianas, pero ella se casó con su novio del colegio y tiene una vida súper normal.
Hate is taught by fearful adults! Children could care less what image you want to present to the world - so long as that image is KIND! Love your family and you are both STUNNING women.
My family are members of the church we teach our children to love all, and to be kind to all. Because Jesus said love everyone , treat them kindly too. I believe that we all progress differently.
@@jrr8828 I love Christians who actually follow Christ’s teachings about love. Thank you for teaching your children kindness, it will serve them and their world well.
Your kids accepted you bc thats how you raise them. Loving, accepting, beautiful littles. Dont deduct your love and hard work from the whole equation. Beautiful ❤😊
😂😂😂 why is this so accurate? Our kids love us unconditionally. My kids would probably be like, okay, cool! What's for dinner? And can you get me V-bucks?
When Shae is through with her surgeries and procedures, she will be like a butterfly and fly away, her desire is to be with straight men, I don't see how that can happen still being married.
Studies shows that Brain fully develops in the mid to the late 20s,,there is no way the children understands what is going on,, they accept what is there
@@Shane-ff2mmactually, if her preferences have been towards women all this time, it’s not going to change. Even if she were bisexual, or pansexual, or whatever other orientation, she is in a monogamous and committed relationship with her wife. That’s not going to go away solely because of her transition.
I am so glad you are so happy now! And i typed and printed what you said. I havent heard anything ever more true! Kids are brought into this world full of love❤ They are taught to hate Thank you for showing love every day to your children❤ I am again so happy for you both❤
If the kids had NOT had such an easy time with this huge change, that certainly doesn’t mean that would have been hateful. This would be incredibly traumatic to many kids and adults. That doesn’t mean they don’t still LOVE that person. I’m tired of hearing you guys say how many shades of gray YOUR feelings have but everyone else is only black & white - they either love you or hate you. It’s incredibly unfair.
I wish and hope my story becomes this. My wife knows, and I have begun my surgical journey... However she doesn't want others to know. Our kids don't know. Sometimes I get really sad.
Honestly, you guys have opened my mind up a little on this topic. I fell in love with a person who said they were having this problem, and tbh I think I truly misunderstood the entire situation and as a result I lost that person. I can tell she is genuinely a lot more comfortable in herself like this. I wish you guys a lot of happiness and love.
Personally, if one of my parents transitioned, I would be shocked and grieving the person they once were. But hey, they’re still the same parent as before. Same activities done, same care, I will love them regardless. ❤
personally i don’t think id grieve, i think id be more relieved if anything, to know they had to keep their true self away for so long and now they feel free
@@LuniaHere agreed! and i do think it’s okay to grieve who they once were, that’s normal, i feel like people shouldn’t shun these types of feelings you know? humans are complex
Kids can be “ok” with a lot of things they shouldn’t be ok with. This literally means nothing to prove your “good” parenting or children’s resilience. 🤷🏻♀️
You say this like its not ok for that person to have transitioned. While normal human beings would be happy to see that person being happy body mind and soul n showing their kids that its perfectly fine to be who you are at heart.
You are both amazing, you have the true love that so many would love, that you stand by each other no matter what. My son is just currently going through the first stages of transition from girl to boy. Something that has definitely been a very long time coming. Its so amazing that the world is becoming more understanding, yes there will always be people that dont agree but we can only hope that one day they will also understand. 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧
Can I please ask; how do the kids address Shaye? Is it still Dad or Mum? I think you both are beautiful, it must be wonderful to find love on a soul level ❤️
IT MORE THAN BEAUTIFUL ❤ IT'S WONDERFUL HOW THE SUPPORT SYSTEM IS COMING FROM THE HEART OF THE FAMILY ITSELF. MAY GOD BLESS THIS FAMILY TO INFINITY AND BEYOND AND BEYOND THAT AND MUCH MORE!
You are sharing your experience, your perspective, and you are showing people struggling with gender dysphoria how they might show up in the world, that they're not alone and isolated. It's really important, what you are doing.
I wish this so much for my roommate. She came out in her 40's, has been transitioning for the last couple years. Her younger kids are cool and accepting, her older adult kids love her but socially don't want her around and it broke my heart when she told me that. I am sure it will take time.
@@livvlife Okay, so they have two moms now. Isn’t that a blessing to have both parents?! most kids would do anything to have to loving parents like this
Emmie, Hudson and Desi reacted in a way that surprised you ( I don't know why) is because of how you and your families have been around them. You've taught your children love is all that counts so when Shaye released his true identity this kids totally got it even at their young ages. Wishing you the best life ever ❤
Do they still call her Dad? I know of one transgender person on the internet who’s nieces call her uncle. That’s just how they knew her and addressed her. They use she/her pronouns, but that will always be their uncle to them? What’s your thoughts on this?
Each family has its own dynamic. People are different. I think as everything else, it's a matter of talking about it and making agreements between the members to find a common ground and work out what's better.
I just love this love story ❤️. This was a man who clearly loves his wife. Yes, all he wanted was to be free to be who he was deep inside and see the women in the mirror he felt himself as. He didn't want to lose the life they made together . It is just amazing that he didn't have to choose between one or the other. Wife truly loves her now wife. She didn't walk away from her love and family. This is true love. She sees the soul. It's clear they are meant to be. ❤
I don’t understand this, or why she would choose transitioning but they look happy and very down to earth. Thats very lovely to see ❤ I hope their happiness lasts an eternity 🥰
I don’t agree with this life style, but I really do appreciate how you both stayed together as a family and the wife accepting your change. You are still a family no matter how anyone views it. Keeping a family together is hard at least you fight to stay together ❤
I have seen 1 similar situation where the wife was far from accepting of her partner's gender dysphoria. Tragic, but yet the husband carried on and fully transitioned anyway. Acceptance a great gift in a narrow-minded world.
Great words: Kids are Born full of love, they are taught to hate. If we don't teach anyone to hate, the world would be a nice Place for everyone. Bless this family!
This story reminds me of my mom and dad and me when they got married. Before, they were dating yes and my dad was always there, but I called him uncle not moms bf. So they got married and I was 5 years old, so I went from calling my Dad uncle Randy to uncle ducky to uncle daddy then to daddy within 4 hours of them tying the knot. That pronoun for him I had practiced and practiced ways to start calling my uncle randy my dad and it was so creative. 🎉🎉❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
My father in law has been living her truth since she turned 70, and said she'll always be dad and my father in law even though she is now Rita. I am not used to seeing posts where dad/daddy is still used and it makes me so happy to see it being normalized So happy you can live your authentic life
@@desireeworkman1523 Yeah, because you know precisely how is god. 🙄 Next time you speak with him/her, since you're so special, tell that they need to book an appointment with us too because there's a lot to explain starting with why we exist and why in this way, for instance.
I've said it once and I'll say it again, kids want loving, accepting, emotionally available parents. You two are amazing parents!
This! I can’t understand how people get upset when there’s 2 moms or 2 dads. As long as they’re loving and safe who cares?! 🫶🏻
I don’t understand this too much, but I’ve been watching you two for a while now and it warms my heart. I hope this world reaches a similar conclusion as I have; we don’t have to understand everything in this life, but we do have to recognize love and always be open to ideas outside of our own or what we’ve been taught. Times are changing and for the good of the world, I want to be on the side that’s trying to understand vs the side that’s stuck on hate.
You have a beautiful perspective ♥️
I didn't understand that much about this until my daughter came out several years ago. I knew that love would keep me on the right track. As long as we keep loving one another, it will all be okay.
I might be able to help some. We're not all that different. I'm a female-to-male transgender person. My upbringing was fairly gender neutral. My parents didn't sex segregate or teach me that some things were boy things and some were girl things. My mom was an EMT/firefighter, my dad is pretty sensitive relative to guys of his generation. I had gender dysphoria from the moment it became clear that I was going to grow up as a woman. I remember the moment I became aware of it. I was 9 and got invited to an older friend's all-girls coming of age party. I didn't know what was up, but I knew that people like me weren't invited to this party. That was 1999, I didn't hear anything about transgender people until I was much older. I just assumed I was wholly alone.
My friends, who are not transgender, also experienced gender dysphoria both as children and adults. Most of my friends were girls and almost every girl or woman has that one time when they get a hair cut and it's devastating. Because 'This hair cut makes me look like a boy.' The distress is real (even if many of them feel silly about it later... But we don't really judge those who find the situation traumatizing and learn to cut their own hair instead.). The haircut isn't innately masculine. The exact same haircut might make the girl in the next chair feel cute and dainty and empowered. The issue is how the person in distress is experiencing their body in relation to their internal sense of self.
For the girls in this example, the gender dysphoria they're experiencing aligns with the sex they were assigned at birth. For me, the dysphoria was a bit more confusing because I didn't have the language to explain it... Not like kids today who sometimes have the language to express themselves.
Cis-gender men also experience gender dysphoria. If they're uncomfortable wearing a specific shirt or unwilling to be seen shirtless because it looks like they have tits? That's gender dysphoria. Getting caught doing something 'girly' or 'being feminine' and feeling like they have to make up for it? Gender dysphoria.
I think if we all took time to think a bit about how we experience our gender, we'd have a lot more understanding between us. 😊
@@wilhelmdietrich8474 Thank you for putting it all in a way I can clearly understand and make sense of. I almost feel dumb not having understood it from the beginning. It makes so much sense now. ❤️
This is so refreshing 🫶🥰
I’ve never understood why people couldn’t understand that hatred is taught, not innate. If you center your children in love and acceptance, that’s how they will remain.
Yes!! Hatred is taught. You two seem to raise your children with so much love; priceless gift to a child they all deserve. Gender doesn't matter, the love does.
My three kids in their late 20s, early 30s. All asked "what do we call you?". That was it. I was so worried and they still love and respect me. They say they are proud to tell people I'm trans. They still call me Mum which I like, however, I love it when my grandbabies call me Granddude.
I am so blessed to be loved and accepted by all of them. :)
That is so beautiful. ❤
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It makes me so happy to see how wonderfully you two are doing. My partner (MtF Post-op) have been together 40 years now. She is the love of my life.
That is so beautiful. ❤
My 20 year old daughter has a sticker on her water bottle that says, “Jesus loves the people you hate.” I think that says it all. Hate is taught. Usually taught that attitude,(not always), by those who claim to be Christian’s.
Oh my ..I want that sticker so bad
Christians don’t hate. They hate the sin but love the sinner and pray for them. The devil is real and a liar.
Im a Christian not that i hate that person is wht i hate wht they do to themself one day when God come then he wanne know wht did u do to yourself😮😮
@@ZenobiaAdams-ii6ee then that’s between them & God & not for the rest of us to judge or hate.
@@kristenkaz3080 Dear u got me wrong im not judging him or her...
Isn’t weird how adults are so influenced by social biases that they forget that once upon a time they loved everyone no matter what? I’m officially obsessed with you two. When on T (ftm) I had issues with my moods and stuff. I’m beginning to think I needed therapy and still do. Money really makes transitioning smoother (not easier). What got me was needing top surgery. Since detransitioning I’m no more happier I’m just back to square one (chick with a beard and feels male) but the obstacles were too much and the fear was debilitating. Kudos to you though.
I don't understand how someone can hate a person who is looking to love themselves. They need to be loved... they need our support and warmth. They dont need our understanding, they dont need our opinion.... just love. undiluted unfiltered love.
Their reaction shows what tolerant, accepting, and loving individuals you are raising. Compassion, tolerance and love are taught. They saw the deep love you all have for each other.🙏🏽🥰💜
You are a wonderful family. My daughter is a trans woman and I am so proud she can show up in the world as herself. It takes courage x
What makes her a woman?
You went public (TH-cam etc.) and decided to show the world your transition and share your experience. That was your choice. And a brave one, because I am pretty sure you get at least discriminating comments or reactions. Your kids did not have that choice. Even if you have asked them, they are too young to fully comprehend the consequences. They live with the consequences of you going public and what a dilemma that is: you show your children how important it is, to live authentic and true to yourself and at the same time, you expose your family and with that I presume (I don’t know, of course) you put an immense amount of stress on your kids, if you do not have a truly supportive community and family around you. I hope you get support and maybe even counseling for the transition your family is going through. As great as it sounds, your kids accepting the change of the family dynamics, you do not live in a bubble, as you know. I wish you and your family strength and patience and loving family and friends around you.
Are you saying trans people should hide
My middle daughter (now son) came out to me that she was meant to be a boy. My family and I embraced the love and acceptance for him. He changed his name, his pronoun, hair and clothes and is happier than ever. Love and embrace.
You have been such good parents, I don't think anything could change the love you all have for each other. It's beautiful.
your wife is such a treasure don't let her leave you ❤i love how your wife loves you more than she loves her self.
If it were me, I would have waited untill my children were grown up; just to make sure I wouldn’t damage them. Children are resilient, but also more vulnerable than adults
well that is just bullcrap. Why not show the kids parents who love one another for as long as you can?
Damage them how trans people aren’t damaging
@@GameTime-yj6qv some people don’t know or haven’t accepted it all that matters is if they’re a good parent everything else is irrelevant but it’s really easy for people to judge other’s lives so maybe we should all be a little less judgmental and happy a kid has good parents
@@GameTime-yj6qv it’s not as black and white as you’re making it sound she might have known but there’s social pressure there’s denial and it’s more unfair to her kids and wife to be unhappy and not her authentic self
This makes my heart happy. People just want to be accepted for who they are. You are blessed!!
I’m glad I found this TH-cam channel. Y’all are beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story. 🫶🏽
The way that she looks at her always carries me away. A beautiful couple wrapped up in love❤
I pray the kids arent bullied
They will be...
If they will, it will make their connection even more stronger. It's clear these children love her.
My children were bullied for having a black mum and white dad, and bullied severely for having autistic twin brothers. It breaks my heart but bullies will find a way. I was bullied heavily as a kid too, my dad was a cop and my mum a nurse. If the kid is a target 🤷🏽♀️
I don’t agree with bullying at all or parents setting their kids up to be the targets of bullies. But cmon, nothing can prevent all bullying.
@@autismworldtravel Humans have a huge ego to feed. We're the most egocentric animals in this planet. So, anything that we can find to feel superior or better than others, we will use. Just a tiny minority with critical thinking preserves the community and themselves not falling in this trap all the time.
@@ZombiesKilkers no..just saying they will be...
in 10 or 20 years , we might get the kids real opinion and view on this
They are not being brought up by brainless people filled with hatred, they will be fine. Hatred is taught by people with hatred. These parents are not that.
Hay un caso en Finlandia, creo que la anterior primera ministra es hija de lesbianas, pero ella se casó con su novio del colegio y tiene una vida súper normal.
@@Opinionatedboo no, they're just very selfish.
Exactly.... same here. After telling my kids my husband was transgender. They reacted same way.
this is the definition of loving each other abd staying true to your vows
Better than many "traditional" marriages.
Hate is taught by fearful adults! Children could care less what image you want to present to the world - so long as that image is KIND! Love your family and you are both STUNNING women.
My family are members of the church we teach our children to love all, and to be kind to all. Because Jesus said love everyone , treat them kindly too. I believe that we all progress differently.
@@jrr8828 I love Christians who actually follow Christ’s teachings about love. Thank you for teaching your children kindness, it will serve them and their world well.
Stunned to see Raphielle here. I'm a big fan! A video he did years ago helped me engage with myself in a more authentic way 💕
These are two good parents.
Anything life throws at them they will work together to overcome ....
This is parenting at the best...
Your kids accepted you bc thats how you raise them. Loving, accepting, beautiful littles. Dont deduct your love and hard work from the whole equation. Beautiful ❤😊
I was rlly shocked abt the voice😂
I hope that I will always have childlike love for everyone. Diversity makes our world beautiful.
My kid would be like “that’s cool, anyway can I get some Roblox”😅
Facts 😂😂mine too 😂😂
😂😂😂 why is this so accurate? Our kids love us unconditionally. My kids would probably be like, okay, cool! What's for dinner? And can you get me V-bucks?
Your kids don’t have a choice.
When Shae is through with her surgeries and procedures, she will be like a butterfly and fly away, her desire is to be with straight men, I don't see how that can happen still being married.
Studies shows that Brain fully develops in the mid to the late 20s,,there is no way the children understands what is going on,, they accept what is there
@@_JiminyCricket_ right😜
@@Shane-ff2mmactually, if her preferences have been towards women all this time, it’s not going to change. Even if she were bisexual, or pansexual, or whatever other orientation, she is in a monogamous and committed relationship with her wife. That’s not going to go away solely because of her transition.
@@Shane-ff2mm gender identity and sexuality and separate 😊
Kids are more understanding than adults...
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Beautiful kids knows true love no matter race and gender or religion they will always love so deeply
I am so glad you are so happy now! And i typed and printed what you said.
I havent heard anything ever more true!
Kids are brought into this world full of love❤
They are taught to hate
Thank you for showing love every day to your children❤
I am again so happy for you both❤
If the kids had NOT had such an easy time with this huge change, that certainly doesn’t mean that would have been hateful.
This would be incredibly traumatic to many kids and adults. That doesn’t mean they don’t still LOVE that person.
I’m tired of hearing you guys say how many shades of gray YOUR feelings have but everyone else is only black & white - they either love you or hate you. It’s incredibly unfair.
yeah its really sad to see
You have a beautiful family. ❤ From New Zealand
I wish and hope my story becomes this. My wife knows, and I have begun my surgical journey... However she doesn't want others to know. Our kids don't know.
Sometimes I get really sad.
Honestly, you guys have opened my mind up a little on this topic. I fell in love with a person who said they were having this problem, and tbh I think I truly misunderstood the entire situation and as a result I lost that person.
I can tell she is genuinely a lot more comfortable in herself like this. I wish you guys a lot of happiness and love.
Truth should never be sacrificed for happiness.
Personally, if one of my parents transitioned, I would be shocked and grieving the person they once were. But hey, they’re still the same parent as before. Same activities done, same care, I will love them regardless. ❤
personally i don’t think id grieve, i think id be more relieved if anything, to know they had to keep their true self away for so long and now they feel free
@@buzzinglee Yeah, I agree. I’d be shocked, but I’d still be happy for them
@@LuniaHere agreed! and i do think it’s okay to grieve who they once were, that’s normal, i feel like people shouldn’t shun these types of feelings you know? humans are complex
Your children's love is a direct result of seeing so much love between you two . Always protect your love. You two are lovely, amazing people
Oh wow, I haven't actually heard her voice before! So warm and comforting ☺️ ❤
Yeah and it doesn't sound at all like a woman. He's not fooling anyone
she’s not trying to fool you, she’s just living her life
Kids can be “ok” with a lot of things they shouldn’t be ok with. This literally means nothing to prove your “good” parenting or children’s resilience. 🤷🏻♀️
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You say this like its not ok for that person to have transitioned. While normal human beings would be happy to see that person being happy body mind and soul n showing their kids that its perfectly fine to be who you are at heart.
You are both amazing, you have the true love that so many would love, that you stand by each other no matter what. My son is just currently going through the first stages of transition from girl to boy. Something that has definitely been a very long time coming. Its so amazing that the world is becoming more understanding, yes there will always be people that dont agree but we can only hope that one day they will also understand. 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧
Powerful and true statement, kids are taught to hate ❤
That's a credit to you both as parents as well!
How the react is not comprehending the full effect of the confusion and loss that they may be experiencing
This just shows how amazingly you guys raised your kids. Beautiful family ❤️
Can I please ask; how do the kids address Shaye? Is it still Dad or Mum? I think you both are beautiful, it must be wonderful to find love on a soul level ❤️
IT MORE THAN BEAUTIFUL ❤ IT'S WONDERFUL HOW THE SUPPORT SYSTEM IS COMING FROM THE HEART OF THE FAMILY ITSELF. MAY GOD BLESS THIS FAMILY TO INFINITY AND BEYOND AND BEYOND THAT AND MUCH MORE!
You are sharing your experience, your perspective, and you are showing people struggling with gender dysphoria how they might show up in the world, that they're not alone and isolated. It's really important, what you are doing.
I wish this so much for my roommate. She came out in her 40's, has been transitioning for the last couple years. Her younger kids are cool and accepting, her older adult kids love her but socially don't want her around and it broke my heart when she told me that. I am sure it will take time.
So, they were married and had kids as man and women?
Yep
thay had 3 children before the transition
Yes, but then she transitioned, now they are two women in a relationship.
Well, no. They are a woman in relation with a man who has undergone plastic surgery and toxic hormone therapy. @livvyyyyyyyyyyy
@@livvlife
Okay, so they have two moms now. Isn’t that a blessing to have both parents?! most kids would do anything to have to loving parents like this
I mean. What exactly changes for the kids? Loving parents before and after. Imho that's everything that matters in the end
I got goosebumps and tears in my eyes with how beautiful this family is ♥️♥️♥️
So much love there. Cherish it and be part of thier lives as they continue to grow
Your kids are so blessed to have such amazing parents!❤
U guys r VERY, VERY lucky & also blessed
How could they not be. ❤ More people need to learn to love the Soul of a person. They know your love.
That's unconditional love ❤️
Not shocked how the kids reacted to daddy’s transition. Look at the parents. They’re doing something right !!!!
You are both beautiful, thanks for being so brave and sharing your story ❤
I am so glad that your kids supported you 😌
Dad still has a dad voice
Doesn't mean anything to the kids trust me.
It really doesn't matter
Yeah I wasn’t ready for the baritone 😂
You look literally just like Dr. Jo Wilson from Grey’s Anatomy!!! I can’t be the only one who sees it, omg!
These videos and pics are filtered to death. They dont look like that in person.
The love in their eyes for one another is stunning. THIS IS TRUE LOVE, PEOPLE!
Emmie, Hudson and Desi reacted in a way that surprised you ( I don't know why) is because of how you and your families have been around them. You've taught your children love is all that counts so when Shaye released his true identity this kids totally got it even at their young ages. Wishing you the best life ever ❤
Do they still call her Dad? I know of one transgender person on the internet who’s nieces call her uncle. That’s just how they knew her and addressed her. They use she/her pronouns, but that will always be their uncle to them? What’s your thoughts on this?
Each family has its own dynamic. People are different. I think as everything else, it's a matter of talking about it and making agreements between the members to find a common ground and work out what's better.
yes
I just love this love story ❤️. This was a man who clearly loves his wife. Yes, all he wanted was to be free to be who he was deep inside and see the women in the mirror he felt himself as. He didn't want to lose the life they made together . It is just amazing that he didn't have to choose between one or the other. Wife truly loves her now wife. She didn't walk away from her love and family. This is true love. She sees the soul. It's clear they are meant to be. ❤
❤ they come in this world full of love, they are taught to hate 😢 is the sad reality and you said it best.
Thats because of you, for more of that in the world!!! Lovely fam ❤nice to meet you all. 🤗 🤗 🤗 blessings
The love is shining so brightly ❤
I don’t understand this, or why she would choose transitioning but they look happy and very down to earth.
Thats very lovely to see ❤
I hope their happiness lasts an eternity 🥰
Show your children with love and love will flow back to you
I don’t agree with this life style, but I really do appreciate how you both stayed together as a family and the wife accepting your change. You are still a family no matter how anyone views it. Keeping a family together is hard at least you fight to stay together ❤
Your kids are loving and caring because they have such great role models. Love does conquer all.
I dont believe they understand if adults dont.
adults do understand they just dont want to accept change thats why conservatives dislike the trans community because they dont like change
Emmy is so sweet ❤
I have seen 1 similar situation where the wife was far from accepting of her partner's gender dysphoria. Tragic, but yet the husband carried on and fully transitioned anyway. Acceptance a great gift in a narrow-minded world.
The Jenners?
She looks 15-20years younger
Look at how youthful her skin is🎉
You can buy anything with money
@@charissegearhardt1487 estrogen also smooth the skin and make it more youthful but yes you are correct
Give kids more credit. We are so much more understanding. We might not have the vocabulary to show, but we do.
you are lucky to have each other
We're all unjaded when born. Hate is taught! God bless you and your journey! 🙏🏼✌🏻🩵🩷
Beautiful family!
You are a cool family wish you all happiness and love
Great words: Kids are Born full of love, they are taught to hate. If we don't teach anyone to hate, the world would be a nice Place for everyone.
Bless this family!
That is amazing. You are both very brave.
Selfish more like
This story reminds me of my mom and dad and me when they got married. Before, they were dating yes and my dad was always there, but I called him uncle not moms bf. So they got married and I was 5 years old, so I went from calling my Dad uncle Randy to uncle ducky to uncle daddy then to daddy within 4 hours of them tying the knot. That pronoun for him I had practiced and practiced ways to start calling my uncle randy my dad and it was so creative. 🎉🎉❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Sweet mom
i just love this family.
You are beautiful! Love all you Scotts! I loved Skyler reaction.
My father in law has been living her truth since she turned 70, and said she'll always be dad and my father in law even though she is now Rita. I am not used to seeing posts where dad/daddy is still used and it makes me so happy to see it being normalized
So happy you can live your authentic life
If you’re over 18, you can do what you want❤
Insanity, sorry, the kids have not choice.😢
The voice just throws everything off.
Wdf imagine been a kid and that voice waking you up and he’s standing there ina skirt
The kids grew up with her before and after transition. Why they should be scared of someone who loves them?
@@dion5804 shouldn’t even be transforming in the first place
Him*
Yea this is not godly very dis functional
@@desireeworkman1523 Yeah, because you know precisely how is god. 🙄 Next time you speak with him/her, since you're so special, tell that they need to book an appointment with us too because there's a lot to explain starting with why we exist and why in this way, for instance.
They love their kids..it's hard to bee,who u want to be..even still
If I was a billionaire, I would give your family a generous award, produced a comedy film from your story.
Just a beautiful family
Kids will learn whatever you teach them
That’s why we teach them love
Such a Gorgeous couple
Absolutely beautiful strong loving family
I just answered my own question, yes she is.... love your videos..