Husband Is Having Sleepovers at Ex-Girlfriend's House
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Adults don't have sleepovers with the opposite sex, darling. LOL
Rocío Yepes I died when I heard this
Imagine telling your significant other some stuff like that. 🤣🔥🔥👀 nuclear explosion!
I do.. I like having sleepovers with women... but during my sleepovers I always get to .."you know".
Kids don't either
Ahhahaha 🤣😂
😂 “ if I told my wife I was going for a sleepover, I wouldn’t have the equipment to do so!!” Love you Dave
this went from ramsey to maury real quick
Ty Maloney 💀
😂
I’m dead
Dave almost dies on the spot
For real!!!
is your marriage over? "It's up to him "WHHHHHHAAAATT!! This is a profoundly injured person
My thoughts exactly
Many many women most especially those raised in religious hones are taught to stay in a marriage no matter what. The shame and put downs for life from their family is perceived as worse than the horrible marriage would be. I have seen countless men and women stay in marriages they should have left.
@@lijohnyoutube101 Stop being disingenuous.
Women initiate like 80% of divorces.
MEN are the ones who stay in marriage and try to make it work.
@@lijohnyoutube101 or.. shes forgiving...
I have seen countless marriages that, according to you "should have ended" become lifelong healthy marriages because they stuck to it and worked together to grow.
Heartbreaking. 💔
Don't bother with a marriage counselor, it's too far gone. Find a good attorney.
Those type of men, always try to make it your fault. Divorce him and move on. Alone is much better than with that nightmare.
Dougie Since when? And by the way, statistics show that men cheat more than women do.
@Dougie That's a pack of lies. It's men who behave that way, not women. Men who cheat always blame the wife/girlfriend, and often even assume that if they're cheating, then she must be cheating too and start slamming her around. I've seen it happen to people I know more than once. Men assume they have a right to cheat because *they're men*, but they still feel guilty. Because they feel guilty, they project their behavior onto their wives and take it out on them as if the wives really were adulterous. Statistically, women who cheat use cheating as an alternative to divorce, in the same way that women file for divorce as an alternative to suicide. Whatever you think about women and relationships, you obviously don't have a clue.
@@edennis8578 ...I think both you and Dougie are completely off. I have no idea where you're getting these ideas from.
@@Ivy285 and common knowledge and experienced men who have been done wrong by their wives know that the courts routinely work against men financially, and generally.
That's what teenagers and kids do. Not a grown man who's married.
Viet PopLove not even. I would not let my child and definitely not my teenage boy sleepover a girls house. So inappropriate
“I would not have the equipment to do so, before I left the house” 😂😂😂😂 I love you Dave!
Look at Dave's reaction when she said her husband told her he was having sleep overs with his ex- girlfriend.
That was priceless
Pamela C. HE's WHACKED!!! Hes WHACKED!!! RFLMAO.
Elizabeth L 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂
'Sleepovers'...she has kids to k ow what sleepovers are.
2:03 He was about to call her Stupid lol
haha
I Smell Fresh Cash thats why he puts a break to stop his emotion before giving an advice
I Smell Fresh Cash hahah that cracked me up
Lol!!! That is so true! I noticed it but I still had to replay it. It was so wise of him to take a break and get his emotions together.
I admire his ability to swallow words he shouldn't say! I probably would have said it straight out.
He was about to call her stupid than he caught himself lmao
I caught that too 😅
Being gaslit by a narc plays with one's head I bet she's living in a constant brain fog, with just enough acuity left to call out for help, as she's doing here. Women who eventually leave such men report the brain fog lifting within a month or less!
She was a ding bat. She was responding as if she was “questioning” the circumstances. That’s why the husband treated her like she was an idiot. Because she was.
he told her about the sleeping over with ex gf. To me it seems like he wants out of the marriage he just can't say it. he is waiting for that divorce. really sad. hope she'll find peace in her heart.
MidnightBeauty very disgusting of him
If he wants out he should of got out before cheating
oh he is saying it all right, just with another body part ~
I agree!
He’s a coward he can’t do it and he wants her to do it.
Cheating on your spouse is financially and emotionally expensive.
Being cheated on by your spouse, is also financially and emotionally expensive.
Dave: "Are you in a church at all?"
Dave: "No, I'm not."
Dave: "Okay. Can you find a counselor?"
Dave, as a non-religious listener, I *GREATLY* respect how you carry yourself in faith. You make your beliefs known without shoving it down your listeners throats. That you do not push people into church, even when the opportunity presents itself, is really fantastic. It sets you apart from most Christians that I know, and it's a great example for all people, regardless of faith.
Actually, the only other one I know like that is the one that recommended your book to me. Huh.
AcornFox yeah that's why people had relationship problems because they're not religious, im putting that in your throat
Red Vanderbilt
"I do not like you Christians; you are so unlike your Christ." - M. Gandhi
Enjoy the prosperity that God has so obviously given you.
www.dhamma.org
We Christians don't care what Gandhi said. And of course you all are going to love Christ and not the Christians. We Christians are regular humans like you. We have flaws and we're sinners. Not perfect.
fsmoura Do you think Jesus would have said anything that you just typed? I doubt it. Classic Christian hypocrisy. Come to think of it, you might say you're acting "so unlike your Christ."
As an atheist, I agree. :)
She's so lost! Hurt will make you feel that way.
There was a guy I was dating that thought it was okay to hang out with his ex because they used to share a pet and she wanted to see the dog. I told him it's acceptable to drop the dog off but it's not acceptable for you to have lunch dates and hangout. He thought I was crazy so I broke up with him. That's way over the boundary for me.
Dave...the next Dr.Phil but with better advice👌🏽
Indeedandtruth1 Dr. Phil isn’t even a doctor, he only has a bachelors degree in psychology not a doctorate. Dave is past the next Dr. Phil by a longshot!
Mr. Ramsey is not a quack or a hack.
Dr. Phil just asked questions. He didn’t even give enough advice to make the trip out there worth it. LOL.
I wish we knew what happened to these people or where they are now
I was married to a guy that did the same thing, we are just friends thing but dating when we were married. I was so beat down I felt the same way she did. You don't think clearly and these men have a way to manipulate your thoughts because they are psychopaths and narcissistic and people manipulators. I know how you feel, I am so much better now. Thanks Dave for helping her, I wish I had you then in my life.
Unfortunately he does it cause he knows he can. You teach people how to treat you. I'd change the locks and take it all.
You would not be able to do that legally in any respect at all, that would be like theft outright!
Andrea Lodden Exactly! I would make it hurt!
Andrea Lodden you wouldn’t do $hit. Haha.
Gold digger
Jeremy Smith surprised that’s not the case. Women have all the power when it comes to these things.
He is cheating! This guy is terrible 😡
They're just good friends who like to have sleepovers and save space by snugging real close together.
Why did he?
@Shalisha J_futurecrna - and she’s an idiot for putting up with it. She needs to hire a P.I., nail down the evidence of cheating and move on. This guy isn’t giving up a chance to get laid frequently with no strings attached. He does this because because the wife allows it.
But but...they're just friends. Exes can be friends....it shows they're mature.
No he’s not 😂😂😂😂😂
omg Dave's face when she mentioned the adult sleepover.
Dave: “THATS WHACKED!! THATS WHACKED!!!”
The title alone made me come here...
wow...sleepovers....Dave seemed lost for words. I hope she gets out quickly.
Christina Pluviose 0l
Nothing good will come out of his deceitful relationship with that homewrecker. She'll be better off without that awful husband.
yeah, once the forbidden fruit has fallen from the tree for easy grabbing it will suddenly taste foul to her....unless she is broke and the 50% are a jackpot for her. Maybe.
joneslr25 because in divorce in her state she gets 50% and he will get 50% even though there was cheating.
joneslr25 oops replied to wrong comment
Not that the "homewrecker" isn't wrong but HE was married to Donna and HE wrecked their marriage.
the look on daves face when she mentioned sleepovers was priceless.
I feel bad for her. As someone who was married to a serial adulterer it wreaks havoc on your self-esteem. She’s not stupid she just doesn’t want to believe the man she loves and committed her life to could do this to her. I hope she wised up and left him.
OMG. Dave's face after hearing of the sleepovers...I lol'd
She's as sweet as pie and he's walking all over her.
She’s extremely naive!
Good bye is all they've got left to say.
Sleepovers with an old ex-girlfriend 🤦🏽♂️
Ramsey, Maury, Dr.Phil, and Jerry Springer all at once 😂😂
My ex after 21 yrs left me for an old girlfriend who already had a history of breaking up a family.
She broke up another marriage, but the guy died shortly after she married him so she could get a windfall of his cash.
Then she went after my husband. Well he is a horrible narcissistic alcoholic . He was terrible to me and our 2 kids and my oldest daughter.
They got married, but the marriage didn't last. Very long. I knew it wouldn't. She had no idea what she was getting.
And she did me a huge favor . While Texas is a 50/50 State. The judge awarded me 60/40. Because how he behaved in court
I got my home, land and everything but his few fishing poles. He got some of our savings and his 401k.
I'm sure that is gone because she was an ultra high maintenance gal.
I went back to college because he would not allow me to go when my kids got into school as I begged.
So.. I completed the college work to get 3 associate degrees in 3 yrs while I was also working 2 jobs.
Yeah.. and for 21 years he said I was Stupid.
I got a good job with a fortune 500 international company. With my associates degrees.
The only thing he did get was alienating my 3 kids.. 2 were in college one had graduated already.
I tried talking to my kids to exsplain what he was doing.. but he had a high paying job and was able to buy them off. Including my daughter who was not his.
It was like my success just made them all mad at me for not just rolling up and dieing.
My son said the ex was hoping I would have to sell the house and 32 Acer land because I couldn't afford to keep it. He was waiting to buy it really cheap because he was sure I would lose it. Well been 17 years and I still have my house and no debt and financially stable.
He on the other hand is living in an apartment divorced from his 4 the wife..
Now... Who is the real Stupid one?
Not me.
Oh.. I'm still single. I learned to never put my life in anothers hand again..
What's really funny they got married on Valentine's day.
I bet she hates Valentine's day for the rest of her life.
Sagans Run This empowered me! Thank you for sharing this!!
BRAVO!!!! 👌👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@@chrisg381 well...we found her ex husband. Why you so mad bro?
You can have a husband and still be able to do all that. Just have to pick the right one! I'm happy he left you so that you realize your potential.
Poor lady Dave gave her great advice I don't agree dragging out I would want it over quick as possible
Tonya Henry
This is horrible I feel so bad for this lady! He needs to just let he's wife go and move on unfortunately
Rosalynn Weaver b
Rosalynn Weaver this is so messed up! I wish that this wasn't happening!
I know some who left a 10 year marriage, after reconnecting to old flame via Facebook. It happens!
Andrea Lodden it happens all the time
Because as you get older you stop getting noticed so its easier to get with an old flame than connect with someone new. Both want it cause they crave attention they don’t get anymore. Lol
AWS 💯💯💯💯💯
It happens all the time lol.
People start cheating online and soon after in real life.
My Dad did that after 20 yrs with my mom, that sorry sumbitch
My state has a law in the wife's favor...Alienation of affection... Sue his mistress! That will stop her! Just hate mistresses!!!!
Utah. There is sooooo much history in relationships and what couples go through...just go find your own man/woman!
Mary Deveraux I agree
NC! Yep! Alienation of Affection!
That’s awesome!! We should have that in every state! ✊🏼
Highly doubt she has any money...
Dang Dave! You should have been a counselor.
Ashley M nah, this isn’t how counseling works.
So sorry to hear about this Kathy. No woman deserves to be treated this way by her husband. God bless you and I hope things end up okay.
Could you imagine if this guy was genuinely just having innocent sleepovers. Like roasting marshmallows and telling ghost stories haha that's funny
Even if that somehow was true he would be unbelievable stupid to think that it would look ok from the outside.
@@NoahLinebarrier if the husband himself knew it was true, he would not have to worry how this looked on the outside. Truth is truth. Mr Ramsey doesn't know, we all don't know.
@Claudia Di Trapani yh thats true but theres like a
@@claudiaditrapani2689there is a 0% chance that he is not cheating on her. You would have to be a fool to think otherwise.
You don't think so? Why didn't he ask his wife to come over and have a sleepover with them?
Do you ANY 40 year old married people that sleep over at friend's houses? I mean not counting the ones that smoke crack together, obviously.
For the people asking what does this has to do with finances? Well everything.
When you get married your finances become one so when you get a divorce the finances are now split up and you need financial advice to make good decisions while your heart is broken. Obviously Dave is not a robot so he is also going to talk to her about the emotional factor too I mean come on ppl the show doesn't have to stuck in a box this is real life finances revolve around all we do. Ministry, business, marriage, vacation, hobbies, shelter, transportation, kids, education, etc.
He's over his new girls house, watching tv, cuddling on the couch, eating dinner, eating something else lol. Should be home with his wife if he loved her!
Jonesy1977Yahoo eating something else 😭😂
EATING SOMEONE ELSE I-
Another one is sleeping on the exes and her husbands couch 🤣🤣😂😂😂
2:04 "Man you're s[tupid]" 🤣
I am not even a Christian but I love how he always asks "are you in a church?"!
I wish her the best of luck! no one deserves to be in this situation...much less a sweet lady like Kathy
My uncle divorced his wife bcus she cheated WITH the pastor. Yikes!
2:05 dave almost called her stupid 😂😂😂
"Difficult marital times"?
That's like going to a funeral and saying "he is having health problems"
Wake up Lady.. This is NOT OK!!!!!
You can't negotiate with hos. I got more than 50% out of my cheating dirtbag. Get em while they feel guilty, the first 90 days! Don't buy into the reconciliation BS.
This is why men need to not get married. Both people should keep their money to themselves, and no one should owe anyone anything after they split.
@@carultch Normally I'd agree, but in this case let her get loads of money from him. He sounds like a sociopath gaslighter. We call that grief money in the Netherlands.
@@carultch 18 yrs, yeah she needs to get every penny outta him. And if the tables were turned she would need to do the same. Why get married in the first place
@@carultchyou can genius. Just don't get married.
But, you should also then expect that person not to be loyal to you in any way shape or form or be committed to you in the future when you're old and useless.
Plenty of people make marriage work very well. Apparently you are naive.
It's pretty self explanatory that he's cheating...duh, why else would you have sleepovers at an EX girlfriends house while you're married, you shouldn't even be hanging around a 25 year ago ex when you're married.
1:30 that's the most shocked I have ever seen this man.
Someone I know would go and visit his girlfriend and stay overnight because “a thunderstorm came up, and I couldn’t leave....but I slept on the couch. Nothing happened between us.” I can’t tell you how many “thunderstorms” came up when he was visiting his girlfriend (not always the SAME girlfriend)!
A thunderstorm... But it's July in Phoenix 🤣
When she said “I don’t think sleepovers are a cool thing” I could feel Dave putting himself in that situation with his own wife, and needing to literally catch himself as he had a mild heart attack at 1:33
This is my all time favorite video from Dave
Dave almost said, “You’re st...!” 😝 I’ll finish the sentence for him, “You’re stupid!”
LOL! And I'm sure she didn't feel any way about it, cause she knows it's true. lol
Would love to hear an update on this video.
I totally agree - if you are unhappy, then SAY SO. then if you follow through with your divorce, then DO SO. then you can go ahead and have all the other relationships and sleepovers you want!
praying for you Kathy!
Fire and pitchfork time! Poor lady.
Dave talking about "equipment" lol
I can understand what the woman is feeling, spends 1/2 her life committed to a marriage and he does this stuff. It's almost a version of Stockholm syndrome!
He is right, she needs to speak with a psychologist or LCSW to get a handle on this, but more importantly, speak to an attorney.
OMG! Just like Dave I had pick myself up off the floor. There really needs to be more harsh penalty for adultery. If you're caught cheating in anyway then the cheater should get 0% in the divorce. We have become too lax in this society when it comes to stuff like this. So sad.
I totally agree.
nobody would get married. what other stipulations could I put it in?
no , I am saying there is no stipulation. If she gets a stipulation that the husband gets a stipulation. where does it end? after awhile you are marrying somebody else and not that person.
Agree, if people don't want to think of it as the religious version of marriage and just the legal one, then marriage is a CONTRACT and adultery is a violation of that contact, there are supposed to be penalties for failure to perform.
little_miss-sunshine 777 they should get prison time and I am serious
Dave, you’re a total legend! Wisdom, humanity and a great sense of humour. The complete package! Greetings from one of your many fans in Europe.
My 96 year old grandfather had a stash of letters. His old flame from the 30s was writing him from her nursing home. No Facebook involved.
Teenage passion is potent stuff.
He was sexually active until his dieing day. 👍😎
thats actually really cute lol
Fb reconnects = marriages destroyed 🙁
Im so used to dave wearing headphones that I freaked out when he didnt have them on at the end
That is honestly bizarre.
1:49 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I'm so sorry I had a similar thing happen to me. Plz see a lawyer. I came out a lot better than I imagined financially but worse than I imagined emotionally.
7:56, love the comment on wanting someone you won't like.
He is having an affair, this is an ex girlfriend. So sorry, this is hard but, give it a few years and you will be happy your done with him. Make him pay. If this was a one night stand well, then you can maybe get through it but, since he has had a relationship with her he doesn't love you.
*you're done
“I would not have the equipment to do so” 😂
I can’t believe what I’m hearing
I'm surprised this hasn't collected more views in nearly 4 years, with a title like that.
Yes Dave! Advocating for a nasty divorce where you take him to the cleaners! I love it 🤩🤩🤩
yeah, that guy is cheating... even if it is emotional and not physical yet it is still cheating. I beleive things can get worked out... but only if there is something to work out and if they would do the work. If he won't even do the counciling he isn't trying to save the marriage. And from the sound of it the relationship is still going on so it isn't a one time thing.
Finding a way yes some emotional sleepovers. Smh
Even if....ummmm...he's having sleepovers. He's definitely doing more than emotional and it's for sure physical.
She thinks there is a marriage the mintute he slept over the marriage was over.
Dave's face @1:34 had me DEAD! Wow...poor lady :(
Sanity is worth any material or money!!! leave him he is a liar ....sweet karma will get him just grab that popcorn
Dave’s reaction at 1:30 is everything. 🤣
“Darling you are sleep”😂
Most hilarious title ever 😂😂😂😂 I couldn't stop laughing
His "Facebook" comment cracks me up, but it's true. Years ago, my sister's church for the longest time stated that FB was bad b/c it encouraged cheating. Now, they now have their own FB page
That is kind of like saying telephones encourage cheating. A tool can be used for a lot of things.
Dave just about said it!!!!
“Man, your Sss… yeahhhh” 🤣🤣🤣
One of the funniest calls on the show
It's nuts, Kathy! Wake up!
Don't think her story is unique. I have a cousin that spends the night at the girlfriends and comes home in the AM and the wife packs him a lunch for work. She will not leave him no matter what people tell her.
Update 3 years later are they still married???
is this dave ramsay or hodgetwins?
lol
All kinds of advice. All kinds.
Never would I have imagined that I would see hodge twins reference in one of Dave Ramsay's videos lol! Well at least in the comments section.
Conor Jackson THAT GUY IS DOING WHATEVER THE #@$% HE WANTS TO DO!!!!!!
Conor Jackson This husband is gettin' all up in them sugar walls. All night long.
Omg Dave is awesome.
Why can I not stop watching this over and over again? WHACKED
Best. Ramsey. Clip. Ever.
Many don't front up just make it so awful that the other person makes the decision etc...
The equipment!!! 🤣🤣🤣
It's in Florida. Need we say more?
Praying for you Kathy.
I really needed to hear this. Thank u Dave. I like to cal him. Can somebody tell me how I can get some advice from him?
I can't even ...
Dave is a very classy man and he called himself just in time before he was about to call her stupid. I've seen a lot of top 10 Dave Ramsey calls are most outrageous being really cuz how was this one not on it
Dave= Maury Povich lol
That is the weirdest thing I’ve heard yet. If I said that to my girlfriend she’d punch me in the face. What an idiot.
Hell no!!!